Hi @Flor thanks for sharing, my husband and I wanted that “white wedding” but circumstances steered us in the direction to have a small gathering inside of our Pastor’s office. We exchanged our vows and prayed. There were only 5 people present. Me, him, the Pastor and 2 witnesses. I wore a simple white dress and he wore a tshirt and pants and everyone else wore jeans. We have been married for 15 years and together for 19. 🥰 Mucho love 💕
Yes it's called priorities, many people don't own a home yet they are having these extravagant weddings which leaves them in debts as a result of trying to please everyone.❤
I finally get to sit down to watch one of my favorite youtuber. A big wedding don't mean a thing. I realize that small or courthouse wedding last longer. Thanks for sharing hun. The success of the marriage is base on both parties putting in the work to make it successful.
Thanks for sharing. I’m glad I’m in good company 😂. My marriage was 35 yrs ago! No wedding! No regrets either❤ Still no white dress 😂. Love your channel
Morning! Many people are divorced, and they are still paying for the celebration. If I choose to get married, we will do it through the court. I despise financial debt, and a party "ain't" gonna be the reason I am suffocating. Too many people spend time planning the party and forget to plan the marriage. Most people do things for show, and these wedding [nowadays] are to see who can out do each other. Have a great week, floor. Heading into the job...
Thank you for sharing this very important subject. I think people have made this wedding thing too complicated and commercialized. Today we have put so much focus on the wedding day and not the life after the wedding. No need for a wedding bonanza.. it looks like you are still living in your honeymoon - you are living life to its fullest .. congratulations.. wishing you 22 more wonderful years❤
Hello, I just came across your video and love it. I love your wittiness, your beautiful personality and your honesty. I’m Jamaican but lives in Jacksonville, Florida. Welcome to the Jamaican culture. Love you 🙏❤️
You have solid points, You would look great in the wedding gown. Maybe an anniversary, white dress . I had a wedding awesome memories . But a wonderful marriage is most important.
Well done on your 21st year Anniversary ❤ No I don't think a white dress matters these days, I was married 35 years, my dress was off white. It doesn't matter loving and caring for each other that's what's important. I admire you immensely. God bless
I agree with you Flor with the wedding thing if they don't have it like that. But me a you ago mash up over the anniversary ting😂; you waan tell me say me a you wuk 365days a year and you can't carry me go eat waan bulla once a year?! That caan lef out masa.
Hi Flor, u and I got married 21 years ago.... Now i know what it means when ppl say 'marriage is like fine wine'. Fancy wedding is not the key to a long happy marriage. But if both parties are for it, by all means... 😊
There's a content creator I've seen on RUclips named Anton Daniels and he is from Detroit, Michigan, in his early 40s, and also married for 20 years. He says that dating (with monetary spending) begins when you get married... I find it interesting that 2 happily/successfully married individuals of different relationships can share the same sentiment. Shows the difference in mindset when one marries for life together vs. marries for attention/social validation on social media
Everyone won’t be able to celebrate with a wedding but those who choose to that’s their business and their choice. Commitment to the relationship is the most critical thing.
A big wedding is not the deal. The real thing is commitment, spending priceless meaningful memories , growing, bonding, conquering goals, respect to your union, and being able to provide and make your family happy and comfortable.
I also watch Pop the balloon, (Arlette Alumi version, the same one you previewed), all the other versions are full of foul languages, i feel sorry for how they are shallow, and knit, pick and it makes me appreciate my own marriage even more!
My husband and I got married in January at RGD. We didn't have any engagement party/shoot. We decided that we wanted to be together and upgrade to husband and wife after dating since college, and we just went and sign the papers and boom ! Lol Our family was disappointed ofc, but we were more interested in having a healthy marriage than doing it up for the likes. We owe nothing!
Say what? Married but no wedding? I need to hear this...i know lots of people married at city hall or in the church before pastor and no formal ceremony. Their marriages last the longest I find.
This is very ironic , my wife has just written her first book, THE TIDES OF MARRIAGE; By Yolande Donaldson. Please get your copy. 34 years of Marriage.
I loved the topic of this video. I had a modest but very loving weeding when I was 24 yo. From that marriage two beautiful children came to our lives but unfurtunately that marriage broke after 18 years of relationship. Years later I met who is today my housband but we had a long love relationship before we decided to getting married.. we both were divorced and me particularly, I never had the desire to marry again in life because that is not what define love or a suscessfull relationship. I think I talked about that in one of my videos in my YT channel. Thanks Flor for sharing your inspiración and thoughts🫶🌟✨️
Hi @Flor thanks for sharing, my husband and I wanted that “white wedding” but circumstances steered us in the direction to have a small gathering inside of our Pastor’s office. We exchanged our vows and prayed. There were only 5 people present. Me, him, the Pastor and 2 witnesses. I wore a simple white dress and he wore a tshirt and pants and everyone else wore jeans. We have been married for 15 years and together for 19. 🥰 Mucho love 💕
Yes it's called priorities, many people don't own a home yet they are having these extravagant weddings which leaves them in debts as a result of trying to please everyone.❤
You are a darling ,so sweet, glad to have you in Jamaica keep it up ❤
I finally get to sit down to watch one of my favorite youtuber. A big wedding don't mean a thing. I realize that small or courthouse wedding last longer. Thanks for sharing hun. The success of the marriage is base on both parties putting in the work to make it successful.
Respect is so important, even more than the big wedding.
Thanks for sharing. I’m glad I’m in good company 😂. My marriage was 35 yrs ago! No wedding! No regrets either❤
Still no white dress 😂. Love your channel
I LOVE when you sprinkle some patois into what you are saying!
Happy to see you smiling, and not stressed out with the negative comments ......Bigup yourself
Morning! Many people are divorced, and they are still paying for the celebration. If I choose to get married, we will do it through the court. I despise financial debt, and a party "ain't" gonna be the reason I am suffocating. Too many people spend time planning the party and forget to plan the marriage. Most people do things for show, and these wedding [nowadays] are to see who can out do each other. Have a great week, floor. Heading into the job...
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I don’t know what happened to you but you are very smart. Your are 💯 right. lol you thought it was gonna be an insult
Thanks for stripping away the non-essentials of relationships and exposing the essential core of what makes relationships work. BRAVO!
We must say welcome to Jamaica🇯🇲 glad to have you u here.
Thank you for sharing this very important subject. I think people have made this wedding thing too complicated and commercialized. Today we have put so much focus on the wedding day and not the life after the wedding.
No need for a wedding bonanza.. it looks like you are still living in your honeymoon - you are living life to its fullest .. congratulations.. wishing you 22 more wonderful years❤
You are so well spoken and sensible
Hello, I just came across your video and love it. I love your wittiness, your beautiful personality and your honesty. I’m Jamaican but lives in Jacksonville, Florida. Welcome to the Jamaican culture. Love you 🙏❤️
She was introduced 21 years ago😊
You're a REAL one. A dying breed. Sadly, dem young gyals won't listen to you.🙃
You have solid points, You would look great in the wedding gown. Maybe an anniversary, white dress . I had a wedding awesome memories . But a wonderful marriage is most important.
I agree with you 100%. I did a registers general wedding not by choice, but what we could afford at the time, and 27 years still going strong!
May you and yours be blessed with many more years of marriage
Thanks for sharing. Glad to see you. Blessings to you and your husband.
Well done on your 21st year Anniversary ❤
No I don't think a white dress matters these days, I was married 35 years, my dress was off white. It doesn't matter loving and caring for each other that's what's important. I admire you immensely. God bless
Thank you,for sharing I enjoy your video keep blessed.
I agree with you Flor with the wedding thing if they don't have it like that. But me a you ago mash up over the anniversary ting😂; you waan tell me say me a you wuk 365days a year and you can't carry me go eat waan bulla once a year?! That caan lef out masa.
😂
Hi Flor, u and I got married 21 years ago....
Now i know what it means when ppl say 'marriage is like fine wine'.
Fancy wedding is not the key to a long happy marriage. But if both parties are for it, by all means... 😊
Respect 🇯🇲💐🔥
I love this perspective and agree with you
Thx for sharing, real talk
❤you Flo god bless you and your family🙏🏼👍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
There's a content creator I've seen on RUclips named Anton Daniels and he is from Detroit, Michigan, in his early 40s, and also married for 20 years. He says that dating (with monetary spending) begins when you get married... I find it interesting that 2 happily/successfully married individuals of different relationships can share the same sentiment. Shows the difference in mindset when one marries for life together vs. marries for attention/social validation on social media
Everyone won’t be able to celebrate with a wedding but those who choose to that’s their business and their choice. Commitment to the relationship is the most critical thing.
Very interesting prospective on this theme!
I can always count on a video from you after 2am. 😊
Why am I up at this hour anyway? 👀🤭
Enjoy your day.
A big wedding is not the deal. The real thing is commitment, spending priceless meaningful memories , growing, bonding, conquering goals, respect to your union, and being able to provide and make your family happy and comfortable.
That is great 👍
Very good advice
Hola its going be a Fantastic Mellow Monday. It's a Matha Morning Entertained by your wonderful video Conversation. Gracias have a Wonderful Day
Very nice!!
❤️ this, am married for 20 years and never wore a ring; still don’t 😃🌹
I also watch Pop the balloon, (Arlette Alumi version, the same one you previewed), all the other versions are full of foul languages, i feel sorry for how they are shallow, and knit, pick and it makes me appreciate my own marriage even more!
MY CUJAMANIES 🇨🇺 I RESPECT YOU TO BE A JAMAICUBANIES 🇯🇲
Good evening I'm a new subscriber ❤
Hey Flor very good advice, unfortunately people are brainwashed 🤷🏽♀️
How can I find a Cuban woman like this beauty here? Someone let me know
My husband and I got married in January at RGD. We didn't have any engagement party/shoot. We decided that we wanted to be together and upgrade to husband and wife after dating since college, and we just went and sign the papers and boom ! Lol
Our family was disappointed ofc, but we were more interested in having a healthy marriage than doing it up for the likes. We owe nothing!
Its great first wedding just courthouse...second white wedding but prefer simple without flashiness...
IM WONDERING IF I SHOULD GO TO CUBA 🇨🇺 I MIGHT BE LUCKY 🍀 TO FIND ANOTHER GIRL 👧🏽 WITH YOUR PERSONALITY
After you let negative people know what they have said and how they are don’t stop doing good because of them….they aren’t that important
Simplicity Better Than All That Fancy Flashy Sittin
Say what? Married but no wedding? I need to hear this...i know lots of people married at city hall or in the church before pastor and no formal ceremony. Their marriages last the longest I find.
This is very ironic , my wife has just written her first book, THE TIDES OF MARRIAGE; By Yolande Donaldson. Please get your copy. 34 years of Marriage.
My first wife was from Camaguey. Sadly, she passed.
Sorry to hear my condolences...🙏🙏
@@Care-o9i Muchas Gracias.
Some people have this big wedding to show off and trust me it doesn't work out I got married and it was nothing big
My darling😊😊😊
You are funny,,I need a stove,,😅
Hola flor❤
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
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Flore,are you happy?
Hi Flor, every day in Jamaica is your honeymoon. I know I live abroad.
I loved the topic of this video. I had a modest but very loving weeding when I was 24 yo. From that marriage two beautiful children came to our lives but unfurtunately that marriage broke after 18 years of relationship. Years later I met who is today my housband but we had a long love relationship before we decided to getting married.. we both were divorced and me particularly, I never had the desire to marry again in life because that is not what define love or a suscessfull relationship.
I think I talked about that in one of my videos in my YT channel.
Thanks Flor for sharing your inspiración and thoughts🫶🌟✨️
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Hi I like watching you are you in the USA?
How many children do you have Flor?
Hardest job on Earth is marriage.... I swear
Hi: In 2016 a man could take a lady to Ciudad Deportiva de la Habana sports complex to see The Rolling Stones.
Maybe you can have a "white wedding " on your 25th anniversary
Bless you and you usband😅
Send some cuba to get husband and wife
White wedding dresses are for Virgins and the same with a white suit