When my wife died 4 years ago, leaving five children, what was in my mind was how to take care of the children. They must not miss their mum. If I marry again, my attention will be divided and I may not be able to fulfill my dream on my children. So, my problem was taking good care of my children till when they became basically independent. About sex? Hmmm. When my wife was still alive, she used to tell me that, sex depends on ones state of mind, I didn't believe her because I always thought that it was an excuse to avoid sex at times. It was when she died, and I was in grief and fear, that I knew sex depends on your state of mind. Some men, who remarried told me about their horrible experience with the new woman. Then, I also think that, can another woman replicate the closeness and familiarity with my late wife. There is nothing more soothing than having a wife you shared same mindset. I don't think I can remarry ooo, because I can't deal with double life. I can have a relationship with some understanding and not remarrying and starting all over again.
When my wife died 4 years ago, leaving five children, what was in my mind was how to take care of the children. They must not miss their mum. If I marry again, my attention will be divided and I may not be able to fulfill my dream on my children. So, my problem was taking good care of my children till when they became basically independent. About sex? Hmmm. When my wife was still alive, she used to tell me that, sex depends on ones state of mind, I didn't believe her because I always thought that it was an excuse to avoid sex at times. It was when she died, and I was in grief and fear, that I knew sex depends on your state of mind. Some men, who remarried told me about their horrible experience with the new woman. Then, I also think that, can another woman replicate the closeness and familiarity with my late wife. There is nothing more soothing than having a wife you shared same mindset. I don't think I can remarry ooo, because I can't deal with double life. I can have a relationship with some understanding and not remarrying and starting all over again.
It's not everyone that engage in sex outside marriage. It's devilish to tell someone to have sex outside marriage but not marry.
I am staying single after I lost my husband because of my children
Anyone who does not want to remarry should not FORNICATE. It is HARAM.
so what of if is the woman is the owner of the property?
Have your own life aside your marriage...PERIODT.