Red Flag : The Person You Should Avoid Marrying | Dr. Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • Опубликовано: 30 янв 2025

Комментарии • 205

  • @vhonani_
    @vhonani_ 16 дней назад +67

    Thank you pastor K , for the knowledge imparted integrating the concept with the word of God and your experience with it. We are blessed ! And may we all have a God-ordained marriages for our sake to partake in His kingdom in Jesus name

    • @KingsleyOkonkwo
      @KingsleyOkonkwo  15 дней назад +13

      Amen, thank you for your kind words

    • @King_Miracle
      @King_Miracle 15 дней назад +8

      Wow! I never imagined Pastor K would reply because of his schedule.
      More love sir! ❤​@@KingsleyOkonkwo

    • @winifredmensah8044
      @winifredmensah8044 15 дней назад +2

      Very blessed Pst. God bless you for this message

  • @OrifaFaithOmore
    @OrifaFaithOmore 10 часов назад

    Pastor Kingsley is a very funny person🤣🤣🤣
    You'll just be laughing as you're listening

  • @oshioke.o2723
    @oshioke.o2723 День назад

    God bless you Pastor Kingsley

  • @GIFTOPUTE-ie8th
    @GIFTOPUTE-ie8th 15 дней назад +13

    Truly spirituality is tested by how you are in the presence of people, before i understood walking with God i was doing everything wrong in my relationship that's why one must be Word driven
    Eg. My roomies are scattered and messy and makes me upset, one night my Spirit said i should be asking how was their night and smiling whenever anyone calls, He said that's one way to win them

    • @keeridennis1600
      @keeridennis1600 14 дней назад

      A similar thing happened with me. The Holy Spirit asked me to love him

  • @OkuneWong
    @OkuneWong 15 дней назад +10

    Marriage is service !!! 🙌🙌🙌 God bless you sir 👌👌🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @UzoigweOnyinyechi-po9rg
    @UzoigweOnyinyechi-po9rg 10 дней назад +5

    To us singles above thirty, he is not condemning us of course life happens but he is just stating the fact, the benefit of early marriage

  • @s0fire_
    @s0fire_ 15 дней назад +30

    “If you’re a giver, you’d be looking for projects!” True

    • @asohenoch9006
      @asohenoch9006 День назад

      Looking for projects how?

    • @s0fire_
      @s0fire_ День назад

      @ did you watch the video all the way?

  • @DvipeEntertainment
    @DvipeEntertainment 14 дней назад +34

    First daughter gather here 😅. God bless Us 🙏🙏

  • @CoachIroro
    @CoachIroro 14 дней назад +25

    this ‘no point marrying early’ mindset, hian! 😮😮marry now that you can still enjoy your partner and raise kids with full vibes. Stop waiting to ‘hammer’ first; build together and grow your empire as a team

    • @preciousichebadu
      @preciousichebadu 14 дней назад +1

      My darling is here ❤

    • @SomaPrecious
      @SomaPrecious 14 дней назад +11

      Economy hard ooh, poverty is scattering marriage now. If you have nothing doing abeg stabilize first before considering marriage

    • @Esther_Chioma12
      @Esther_Chioma12 14 дней назад

      Yesso 🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️

    • @nnenniaifepe5073
      @nnenniaifepe5073 11 дней назад

      ​@@SomaPrecious, we have many who have something doing but they want the whole world all projected by social media expectations

  • @s0fire_
    @s0fire_ 15 дней назад +9

    Service is not for lower people. Hallelujah!
    Thank you Pastor for this insightful, educative, interesting, and entertaining sermon.

  • @Marie_Tee
    @Marie_Tee 15 дней назад +8

    "Lord, anyhow you want to do it" 🤣🤣🤣. Pastor K with his sense of humor & Wisdom

  • @nwaforchidi7964
    @nwaforchidi7964 16 дней назад +7

    My father my mentor
    More grace sir

  • @ovoajari8073
    @ovoajari8073 15 дней назад +26

    You are right, sir.
    That's why I have taken my time to learn from your teachings and from Pst M's teaching, I am still learning, and I know I am fit and eligible for Marriage now.
    I pray May God bring my own Husband this year, I will wait on the Lord.❤

  • @Pokuaaa
    @Pokuaaa 15 дней назад +45

    "Sometimes I want to give my children out as a seed!"🤣🤣🤣

  • @moneypenny3050
    @moneypenny3050 11 дней назад +1

    I love it Pastor when you said "if you want you have sense" if you don't want to be useful ... 😅

  • @odiba.israel
    @odiba.israel 15 дней назад +3

    Your ministry is such a blessing to the world.
    Thank you.

  • @olukemialatise5708
    @olukemialatise5708 15 дней назад +3

    PK is always on points, More wisdom, strength and grace for you this year like never before Sir!!!❤

  • @MadamBoutique-m4d
    @MadamBoutique-m4d 7 дней назад

    I love this massage, God bless you pastor

  • @carolgondwe2695
    @carolgondwe2695 12 дней назад

    Powerful sermon 🔥🔥🔥💪🏾💪🏾🔥🔥🔥thank you Pastor Ken

  • @merianegomis1518
    @merianegomis1518 6 дней назад

    Thank you so much pastor k for this awesome wisdom 🙏💘🙏💘

  • @SonofaBlacksmith
    @SonofaBlacksmith 13 дней назад

    I have not been to church in a very long time. Plus it's good to see talking about an issue without sentiments. There's more logic here than some of your other clips I've seen. This shows growth on your part.
    Omo about marriage! With the way Nigeria is treating me. And the current orientation of Most ladies? Haaa God help me o I don't know what I'm doing

  • @StellaNguu
    @StellaNguu 10 дней назад

    Pastor K anytime. I like the way he communicates marriage truths. There is so much to learn from him and Milred. I really pray i get a husband who has gone through these free premarital classes

    • @StellaNguu
      @StellaNguu 10 дней назад

      Enjoying the content here in Kenya

  • @preciousifionu
    @preciousifionu 14 дней назад +6

    Pastor Sir, i came here from Facebook. When i watched the excerpt of this video, i knew this was for me. I am really praying to let go of the characters that are not Christlike. Even when i try the most, it just happens. It was when I moved in with family that I noticed these characters were there and were so loud.I felt the need to isolate myself from family because we can't just have a peaceful commutation, i avoid them so much, i just want to be alone but now i know it's not the remedy
    How do i become a better version of myself😢

    • @Anaest
      @Anaest 13 дней назад +3

      Hello, Precious.
      Hope you are well. Please ask the Holy Spirit to help you. He, only, can transform your character and make you behave like Him.
      He will do it, trust me.

    • @preciousifionu
      @preciousifionu 13 дней назад +1

      @Anaest thank you so much

    • @abigailchidimmah
      @abigailchidimmah 12 дней назад

      @@Anaest🔥🔥

  • @amara_ranze
    @amara_ranze 15 дней назад +3

    Same anniversary date with my parents ❤ Pastor K you speak so much wisdom. Thank you

  • @Esther_Chioma12
    @Esther_Chioma12 14 дней назад +1

    Start where you are

  • @godwinvalentine4510
    @godwinvalentine4510 9 дней назад +6

    One thing is to marry early another thing is marrying the right person. There are many singles parents today who married very early. Majority of people want to marry early but there certain things beyond your control, this message favors thise in their early 20s because of their age, but doesn't mean they may find the right one. Please preach also the one that favors those that are above 35 and still believing God. The message is good but not exactly what yhe bible says about marriage. The Bible has not stated any age, God can bless anyone with a good home at any age. To be a caring father or mother is not by age. There are young couples who are not happy in their marriage and old people who are enjoying their home. Let the will of God prevail.

  • @estherchinaecherem9590
    @estherchinaecherem9590 15 дней назад +3

    Who Should I Marry Is A Nice Book, More Grace Sir 🙏😊

  • @adetunjitemitope6759
    @adetunjitemitope6759 15 дней назад +3

    This video is so educating. Thank you sir for this

  • @Nathaniel_MD
    @Nathaniel_MD 8 дней назад

    Thank you very much for this message, sir. God bless you. ✅️

  • @TanaFlourishTimben
    @TanaFlourishTimben День назад

    First daughter's have a special place in heaven😢. We serve so much, we give out so much that at times it becomes normal to pour into others and getting drained.

  • @jamesbarkalilylove9469
    @jamesbarkalilylove9469 15 дней назад +5

    Learn to be comfortable around greatness. Have clarity of one's purpose and vision. 🔥

  • @estherchinaecherem9590
    @estherchinaecherem9590 15 дней назад +3

    Pastor K this tables shaa 😂😂
    GOD bless you Sir,
    You and ma'am are huge Blessings to Humanity
    Right words though funny but that's reality in most cases.

  • @agagbeese3029
    @agagbeese3029 15 дней назад +3

    Thank you so much for the knowledge Father.... How can I get this book you mentioned?

  • @chinwendumau-mau9861
    @chinwendumau-mau9861 15 дней назад +1

    May God help us, thank you sir for this teaching ❤

  • @sandranadara9452
    @sandranadara9452 15 дней назад +1

    ThankGod for the gift of P.K and mummy Mikdred ♥️🥰♥️since 2021 have been following and i am blessed

  • @holarmayorbrand2589
    @holarmayorbrand2589 16 дней назад +2

    I'm happy to be hear again

  • @Stephgoldskitchen
    @Stephgoldskitchen 16 дней назад +3

    Happy yo be here

  • @milcentdewah8003
    @milcentdewah8003 12 дней назад

    Thank you pastor

  • @ekygloria4863
    @ekygloria4863 15 дней назад +1

    Thank you Pastor K you are full of wisdom

  • @martinseguzoro95
    @martinseguzoro95 15 дней назад +2

    Always love your teachings sir..
    How are you so humorous. 😂😂

  • @CharityEbeze-ot9oi
    @CharityEbeze-ot9oi 15 дней назад +1

    I love this ❤️ more grace sir👏

  • @gideonvese
    @gideonvese 16 дней назад +9

    Glad to be here

    • @NgiforSandra
      @NgiforSandra 15 дней назад +1

      Congratulations on your engagement 🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @SomaPrecious
      @SomaPrecious 14 дней назад

      congratulations Gid

  • @ezedinonso2620
    @ezedinonso2620 9 дней назад

    Thank You SIR❤❤❤

  • @lynndakay
    @lynndakay 15 дней назад +3

    START WHERE YOU ARE ..............

  • @oresotutolulope6159
    @oresotutolulope6159 16 дней назад +2

    Thank you sir , God Blessed you

  • @RabeccaJulius
    @RabeccaJulius 15 дней назад +4

    Thank you father for this all the way from malawi,,i don't know how i can communicate with you but i tried and i failed i really need to talk to you

  • @michaeldavid8564
    @michaeldavid8564 15 дней назад +1

    Thank you Pastor K I'm blessed.

  • @gracietendowalugembe7652
    @gracietendowalugembe7652 13 дней назад

    Thank you but about the timing God knows. His grace is sufficient.

  • @ISAACNEWTON-jn7te
    @ISAACNEWTON-jn7te 14 дней назад +11

    It's best to marry early I already miss that part my children will marry early

  • @wilsonnaomi7000
    @wilsonnaomi7000 15 дней назад +3

    Thank you sir 🙏

  • @rhemamensah6582
    @rhemamensah6582 16 дней назад +1

    Thank you Pastor K

  • @gloryyussuf4335
    @gloryyussuf4335 15 дней назад +7

    Thank you sir you are a huge Blessing.
    You and your wife have impacted my life in every way 😭😭
    More Grace PK and PM
    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @RuthQuaye-b2b
    @RuthQuaye-b2b 14 дней назад

    Thank you so much for this wonderful messages sir

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 15 дней назад +2

    God bless you Pst K❤

  • @boesiphetogo4172
    @boesiphetogo4172 14 дней назад

    Thank you Sir... I have learnt a lot🙏

  • @MONICABADJAN-l2g
    @MONICABADJAN-l2g День назад

    Is it possible to have your books in softcopy

  • @miracledanjuma4162
    @miracledanjuma4162 14 дней назад

    Thank you so much sir🙏
    This is so timely for me

  • @omotayotolani2265
    @omotayotolani2265 15 дней назад +2

    Thank you Sir

  • @Justade001
    @Justade001 13 дней назад

    The height of this man has helped us 🤣🤣 pastor k please

  • @preciousosarodion7946
    @preciousosarodion7946 16 дней назад +2

    Thank you Pk

  • @russelllevers9513
    @russelllevers9513 15 дней назад +2

    I love your teaching pastor k!!! From i started listening to you i have learned a lot!!!! To God be the glory sll All the best for you and your family...

  • @ahmceaser2021
    @ahmceaser2021 13 дней назад

    Love all the knowledge here

  • @GanigaEdmondBlorie-mp8qo
    @GanigaEdmondBlorie-mp8qo 13 дней назад

    Absolutely correct.

  • @gbolabobabafemi2566
    @gbolabobabafemi2566 11 дней назад +3

    Hearing this “Marry Early Guys is making me feel very late being a 39 years old single man. 😢
    I have really tried getting married about 4 times now but somehow God doesn’t let it workout to marriage..😢😢😢

    • @StellaNguu
      @StellaNguu 10 дней назад

      It's just advise. Not condemnation. Things can't happen to all of us at the same time.

    • @NanaCeita
      @NanaCeita 10 дней назад

      @gboladobabadeni2566 Sorry to hear this.. It can be lonely.. Is not God will for us to be alone.. Continue to pray and “wait”-( don't take rush decision). Continue to work on yourself with the help of God build your relationship with God with others and things will fall in place.

    • @Kisscurls0206
      @Kisscurls0206 2 дня назад

      If you as a man is feeling that way what should a lady do? I only feel lonely I don't feel bad or late that I'm not.

  • @RoyaltyJohnson-x2t
    @RoyaltyJohnson-x2t 15 дней назад

    I love his teaching

  • @CharityEbeze-ot9oi
    @CharityEbeze-ot9oi 15 дней назад +3

    22:11 hmmm 🤔 thank you sir 🙏

  • @mojisolaalegeh5777
    @mojisolaalegeh5777 6 дней назад

    Great.

  • @Esther_Chioma12
    @Esther_Chioma12 14 дней назад

    May God help me❤️❤️❤️

  • @MrsAngel623
    @MrsAngel623 15 дней назад +2

    Deep🙌🙌🙌
    Hilarious as always😂
    God bless you sir

  • @PinbarTee
    @PinbarTee 14 дней назад

    Please when's part two coming out?

  • @AlhassanBlessing-kj9qo
    @AlhassanBlessing-kj9qo 14 дней назад

    Interesting ❤❤❤❤

  • @siphathoqwabe7903
    @siphathoqwabe7903 11 дней назад

    Plz how can i get the copy of the book

  • @chidozienwuba5251
    @chidozienwuba5251 14 дней назад

    Listen Attentively 😊❤

  • @GraceOfGod-je9it
    @GraceOfGod-je9it 15 дней назад +2

    Top notch

  • @Michael00481
    @Michael00481 10 дней назад

    pastor abeg no dey talk this thing if money no dey stay away from marriage

  • @rachaelifeagu1903
    @rachaelifeagu1903 15 дней назад +1

    Amazing 😍

  • @s0fire_
    @s0fire_ 15 дней назад +16

    It’s the man that resigned his job after his son called him Uncle 😂

  • @paxdomini
    @paxdomini 15 дней назад +1

    Hmmm... Why is it different here,
    What I hear preached for a Good home in the West is that the man should be the one working and the wife helps with the home. Here it's different, both must work for a good home
    All is well

  • @bensonblessing6813
    @bensonblessing6813 15 дней назад +8

    The alpha male part got me 😅 “ alpha male kill you there “ i thank God for my husband o . God bless you sir for this message, thank you so much sir ❤

  • @Fay1106
    @Fay1106 15 дней назад +12

    The thing is the man has more of the choice because he's the one finding a wife and asks to marry as a woman you are not searching for a husband and asking for marriage it's tricky

    • @thedukeofyewaland
      @thedukeofyewaland 15 дней назад

      Every woman has her prime when all the men want them, unfortunately, most women play around in their prime believing it will always be that way. When all the attention eventually fades they now say they don't have a choice. No, they had a choice but they didn't want to be chosen. It's a man that finds a wife but if the woman CHOOSES to say no, what will the man do?

    • @nyeguono
      @nyeguono 15 дней назад +7

      So give yourself a choice by positioning yourself amongst men you’re interested in

    • @NuelaMary
      @NuelaMary 15 дней назад

      @@nyeguonowisdom in this… preach this

    • @SomaPrecious
      @SomaPrecious 14 дней назад

      True

  • @petermwesigwa1571
    @petermwesigwa1571 9 дней назад

    You can't be more alpha than the Alpha and Omega 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾

  • @russelllevers9513
    @russelllevers9513 15 дней назад +4

    Pastor k I have a situation i met a wonderful young lady I feel deeply in love with her. She did the same... We were on fasting and prayers for confirming from God. I heard the Lord said to me bone of bone flesh of flesh. However she said a prophet came by her church and said to her i am not husband. Her husband is from Texas and he is very wealthy. Please give me some advice.

    • @rogath_silayo
      @rogath_silayo 14 дней назад +2

      Don't force things maybe she wants her way out...accept her decision and move on. Find another lady who is willing.

    • @echoesofwisdom_
      @echoesofwisdom_ 13 дней назад +3

      The same God that spoke to you if you are sure does not lie, then you should go back to Him to destroy the lie of the prophet to her directly. If it's truly His will for you, He will do it and redirect her path back to you.

    • @russelllevers9513
      @russelllevers9513 13 дней назад +1

      @@echoesofwisdom_ hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah glory to Jesus name amen.

    • @calyinedu
      @calyinedu 13 дней назад +2

      God does not choose wife for anyone sha, choose a wife based on God’s standards.

  • @Drone-technology
    @Drone-technology День назад

    This message is feeling like salt and pepper on wound 😂😂😂

  • @abiolagrace1854
    @abiolagrace1854 15 дней назад +1

    Thank you Jesus 😅

  • @IvyChigalau
    @IvyChigalau 13 дней назад

    Powerful

  • @afolabisola1360
    @afolabisola1360 15 дней назад +1

    Thank you sir more grace

  • @PreciousAminata
    @PreciousAminata 11 дней назад

    Lord help us,we need you.

  • @obinnadike3923
    @obinnadike3923 15 дней назад +14

    If it were true, why did God give Isaac to Abraham when he was old? Same with John the Baptist. Isaac married at 40, Jacob was much older when he got married. The truth is, peoples destinies are not the same. So, we should stop making conclusive statements so we don't lead people astray.

    • @lizzyfresh07
      @lizzyfresh07 15 дней назад +11

      I agree with you. Destinies are not the same, and just because someone is in their 30s or so doesn't mean they should enter into marriage or they are ready for marriage. People should marry right not because they are aging and even if one has kids "late", there is supernatural strength from God to raise them. 😊

    • @peteroluwatosinpele8476
      @peteroluwatosinpele8476 15 дней назад +16

      You forgot people lived longer then. People have an average age of 70 now. Isaac and Jacob reportedly lived over 120 years. So, factor everything in and what PK said would make sense. Remember we eat many nonsense these days too, reducing our health.

    • @obinnadike3923
      @obinnadike3923 15 дней назад +1

      @peteroluwatosinpele8476 Lived longer or not an old man is an old man. That was why it was a miracle for Sarah to concieve at 89 and Elizabeth John the Baptist mother. Did not the Bible say that Abraham's body was dead at 99?

    • @cynthiaokaka8931
      @cynthiaokaka8931 15 дней назад

      ​@@peteroluwatosinpele8476God bless you for this reply. I was about reminding him of Methuselah and to imagine him rushing off to get married in his 30s. So @Obinnadike, their lifespan those days influenced the age they got married.

    • @obinnadike3923
      @obinnadike3923 15 дней назад +1

      @kandisphere8828 Exactly my point. Even Samson's mother was not particularly young because she was barren for some time b4 Samson was born. Judges 13v2

  • @bunmij5
    @bunmij5 11 дней назад

    Lord help us!!!

  • @victornafwa2471
    @victornafwa2471 15 дней назад +9

    I'm 40 and single.I should get a mate now

    • @NsikeleloVee
      @NsikeleloVee 14 дней назад

      Come to South Africa

    • @disciple8531
      @disciple8531 13 дней назад +1

      ​​@@NsikeleloVeeNtsikelelo, I'm in South Africa and in my 40's, not yet married... What you're talking about? 😔😔
      Makame siqale sitshate nathi phambi kokuba eze😂

    • @SusanaAnsah
      @SusanaAnsah 13 дней назад

      Hello, hope you are doing well
      Am Susan, a Ghanaian.
      Hope you don't mind me being a friend

    • @memberanchoom8687
      @memberanchoom8687 10 дней назад

      Still too early
      You should probably wait for another 40

    • @margo4905
      @margo4905 2 дня назад

      @@memberanchoom8687not funny

  • @raqlraql5468
    @raqlraql5468 11 дней назад

    I agree on what you say on height but as a woman we need to be attracted to the man.

  • @lolobatubo5750
    @lolobatubo5750 15 дней назад +2

    God bless you Sir for this 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @faithwangeci3347
    @faithwangeci3347 15 дней назад +1

    I am taught

  • @teriahterah1338
    @teriahterah1338 15 дней назад +2

    But these days in Africa …you can clock 30 and still not have “The small house where there is love “

  • @OrifaFaithOmore
    @OrifaFaithOmore 10 часов назад

    Is that ToniTones fiancee in the audience

  • @manofculture584
    @manofculture584 14 дней назад +4

    16:23 "There's no way they can parent because they're looking for ways to pay rent"🌚💀

  • @ISAACNEWTON-jn7te
    @ISAACNEWTON-jn7te 14 дней назад +2

    E pain me say them born me for Nigeria where love goes to the highest bidder

    • @nnenniaifepe5073
      @nnenniaifepe5073 11 дней назад +1

      @isaacnewton, Many in Nigeria have intentional marriages. Change your circle Sir

    • @ISAACNEWTON-jn7te
      @ISAACNEWTON-jn7te 11 дней назад

      Honestly I really need to change my circle , this thing is base on region ... The Northern Nigeria is not like this I know that too well

  • @ishamunu1283
    @ishamunu1283 6 дней назад

    Your spirituality is not tested. By how you are in the presence of god, it's tested by how you are in the presence of people

  • @aristotle1993
    @aristotle1993 14 дней назад

    God bless Thomas and Maisha Rush

  • @tithemidozard2854
    @tithemidozard2854 15 дней назад +3

    First 1 minute 😂😂😂😂😂