Shera 7 is always worrying about what men like. I personally don’t give a damn what they like. Just be you and wear your hair the way you want. I have short natural coily hair and have never had any issues with attracting men.
@@Vlavette5604 high profile men? You guys fail to understand....shes talking about ONE TYPE of men. And thats the ugly truth. They do prefer(that ONE TYPE) women with straight hair.
@@naylamuslima I don’t give a damn what type of man she speaks of. I’ve seen high profile men with women wearing their natural hair! If you’re ashamed of wearing your hair texture or you hair a particular way just for a man. You have a problem. Because that means you’re not living for yourself. You’re living to please someone else.
I was going to say the same thing. My bf is black and loves my natural hair but I know he’s not the norm. Men of all other races do love my natural hair. I do think it’s not necessarily what the man wants personally, but how his friends/family/ coworkers will think about it.
Why would you want to be with a man who doesn’t love the natural you? Wear your natural hair as you please and if you are looking for a man you will attract a man who appreciates your beauty. And also please ladies let’s not centre men in our lives. Its okay to want someone but when you think the only way to get a man you like is to completely change how God created you👀 i think you need to take a step back a bit. Absolutely agree with this video
100%. i get people want boyfriends and husbands but if you have to jump through hoops, it’s time to step back a bit. God made you perfect the way you are
I disagree with Shera about men disliking natural hair. I'm with an Asian man, and he ENCOURAGED me to start wearing it out. He enjoys seeing me in braids, but loves seeing my afro in all its glory.
Agreed! The small fros get hated on bc of the Black communities obsession with long hair but it’s such a youthful look, it can also be sexy depending how you style it. The silky straight blonde weaves age us and clashes with our features, and the Brazilian curly hair isn’t as unique as our Afros 🥰
@@reformedgirlblogger Long hair in all culture are seen as youthful/ a sign of feminity. Dusties, Zaddys, Tyrone, Rodrigo, Jean, etc…will prefer long hair and women too
@@NanaSagathat’s true but other men don’t police women’s hair the way BM do. They can still appreciate the beauty of a BW specifically with short hair in a way that most BM won’t bc they see it as less than compared to the long haired white,Hispanic,Asian women they’re comparing us to. My hair is super short and WM compliment me on it all the time, BM do occasionally but it’s rare.
@@reformedgirlblogger WM don’t police cause their woman don’t go around wearing blond UNATURAL wigs, atrocious edges, with non natural hair texture, skin bleach, lick other races of men, burn their own scalp, attack other woman beauty, too much victimisation etc…😭 How could BM appreciate their own women beauty, when BW on majority emulate WW/Mixed woman and clearly state that they dont’t like themselves 🤭 My hair is short to and white men don’t compliment it. Stop the cap. They do when I do a natural crochet/longer hair like all other man. You need to stop the fixation on WM, it is embarrassing
@@reformedgirlblogger My hair is short to and white men don’t compliment it. Stop the cap. They do when I do a natural crochet/longer hair like all other man. You need to stop the fixation on WM, it is embarrassing
I remember an ex telling me: I’m glad that natural hair has come back cause for far too long y’all have denied us the pleasure to pass our hand through your hair or smell or kiss your hair”
Literally, my grandmother taught me that men LOVE hair ! They want to be able to run their fingers through it and play with it. Wigs and weave stop them from being able to do that
I might say something controversial but... I really don't care about men's opinion on my hair (or my appearance in general). My life doesn't revolve around them and if they don't like it, well ¯\_(ツ)_/¯. Life goes on. There are too many things to worry about than the opinion of men. There are too many things to live for than what men think of you. Life isn't just about being appealing to men. So learn to love your hair the way it is and love yourself
All the women on RUclips now especially black women care too much about men and what they think of us and its very sad at this point. Men aren't the prize women are but women today focus to much on males opinions and its disheartening to me
I'm going to be very very honest with you. I might even do a video about this. I've been watching Shera7 for a long time I mean since the early days. I've been watching her for almost 6-7years or more. She goes undercover on youtube. She said she goes undercover. I'm telling you this THERE HAS BEEN A SHIFT IN BEAUTY PERSPECTIVES. I guarantee you that she has watched these natural hair confidence channels. If you look at her newer videos like within the last two or three months, she is wearing her own natural hair. She suffers from hair dysmorphia herself. If you look at her older videos, you can see that Shera was made fun of for being chubby and having poofy hair that was made fun of. She actually thinks that dreadlocks are very very beautiful, BUT SHE SAYS TO COVER UP DREADS WITH A WIG. SHE SAYS THE MAIN GOAL IS TO GET THE BAG. Then once you are married and a little bit more comfortable in your marriage, THEN your Bohemian side can come out.
Yes please make a video and tag me because you have a lot more info about her then I do wow 🤯….I’ve seen her in passing and on TikTok but I’m not a huge fan so I would love to hear your perspective as someone who has more information about her through out the years 🤎
@@CoffeeCuties777 okay, I will do a video! And I will tag you, my Gemini friend and sister! I just want you to know that your channel is an absolute Godsend. You were doing God's work
I don't see Shera wearing her natural hair more. She wears those straight wigs more or if she is wearing her natural hair she straightens it. Maybe I'm wrong. Her videos have gotten too long for me to watch now. I can't watch her for no 1-3hrs. Plus her audience asks stupid questions so it's turned me off. I have noticed she has leveled up her looks from her early days in their old dark house to now. Her weight fluctuates but she is pushing 50. She get's too much lip fillers and botox for me. She looked better natural.
Tbh Shera’s mindset can be outdated sometimes. I wear my twa everyday, I dyed it golden chocolate 🍫 brown for the fall. I get the attention of all kinds of WM, even AM and middle eastern guys. Black men are nice for the most part or they straight up ignore me since they can tell I don’t prioritize their attention/I’m not trying to attract them only. Men are attracted to confidence and class. If you have that black cat energy men will be intrigued as long as you look clean and put together. Black women are mysterious and sexy, our natural hair emphasizes our exotic look and we should embrace it.
@@mosoulwritesI used ION 3G dark golden brown:). My hair was pre lightened since I went blonde over the summer. If you’re starting with dark hair I would use dark and lovely’s light golden blonde to pre lighten your hair a level or two since it adds those golden tones then give yourself a couple weeks to condition your hair before going in with Wella color charm in light golden brown, I wish I would’ve used that one. You’ll need to process for less time than it says if your hair is on the finer side. Have your deep conditioner ready to go❤
I agree 💯 percent…I talked about this in my good hair documentary review but yes that level of intimacy is UNMATCHED…thanks for being a member on the channel 🤎🤎🤎
My husband is a BM and he loves my natural hair. Before my husband I dated non-BM and they loved my natural hair. A big part of that is I’d never entertain a man that didn’t love my natural hair no matter what he had to offer. That said, straight hair is the norm in non-black spaces even with BW. Even in black celebrity spaces it’s the norm. Simone Biles and other BW wear their hair straight for meets and rock braids or other styles off the mat. I’ve never seen Candace Owens with anything but straight hair at interviews. As you said, it’s so nuanced because texturism or superiority of straight hair over curly can tie in with racism and white supremacy since straight hair is generally associated with European or YT people. Love the channel and the video.
Y'all I'm so sorry but I just do not have that experience of having men flock to me. I was 22 when I went natural men don't see me. BUT! When a man does come for me.... He a man of MEANS AND MONEY! A GOOD QUALITY MAN! 😉
Most “SECURE” men love natural beauty; they want to know what they are getting. I received endless verbal and nonverbal compliments on my hair from men & women. I’m a black women that lives in Washington Heights NYC and Dominican women are rocking the curly coily afro hair! I even saw a hair salon sign stating that they service “Afros”! 🤣 Natural hair movement is on a major rise! It’s even accepted in luxury retail ads; there are lots of black & ambiguous women with coily fros! Interestingly, coily hair is so powerful it filters out men who aren’t serious. Weak men listen to what society & media tells them to like but secure men think for themselves and pick what they want. Most rich men choose women with straight hair because of societal standards; they want to fit in so it’s a business move for them choosing the European beauty since we live in a racist world.
It’s really interesting how in the first sprinkle sprinkle video she describes which hairstyles to “wear” when attracting a man, but also says how men don’t care…. So if men don’t care, then why do I have to adjust my hairstyle when I could just t wear it naturally/or in any style that makes me happy?
One more thing I have to say. Shera7s DAUGHTERS DO NOT WEAR THEIR NATURAL HAIR. I AM NOT TRYING TO BE FUNNY, BUT IT'S OBVIOUS THAT YOU DON'T WATCH HER SHOW. IT'S OBVIOUS THAT YOU ONLY STARTED WATCHING HER SINCE SHE GOT TIK TOK FAME IN THE LAST YEAR OR TWO. AND THAT'S COOL! BUT ANYONE THAT KNOWS THE REAL DEAL ABOUT THIS WOMAN, KNOWS THAT HER DAUGHTERS DO NOT WEAR NATURAL HAIR. SHE DOES NOT LET HER DAUGHTERS WEAR BRAIDS OR ANY KIND OF ETHNIC STYLES. 1 time some girls at school were making fun of her daughter. And she made a whole lot of video of taking her daughter to go get a sew in. She does not allow her daughters to wear natural hair AT ALL. She doesn't believe in it. And anyone that watches Shera7 as an OG viewer, knows exactly what I'm talking about. Some of the pictures that you have, may appear like that is natural hair on her little girl's heads. But if you further inspect those pictures, you will see that those are weaves. Also, as far as her husband being dark-skinned. This is also one of her core beliefs. She believes that light skin women should pursue dark skin men, because they are more likely to fawn over them and coddle them. She also advises dark skin women to date light skin men or men of other races. This is all part of the Shera 7 philosophy. She feels that women should go to the type of men that will celebrate them the most, to get the ultimate bag.
I absolutely frequent the femininity/hypergamy spaces on RUclips, but I could never get into Shera 7; she has a dark, unpleasant energy that has always disturbed my spirit. Nothing about her saying this suprises me at all.
She's a narcissist and dark witch.. both types that I've never vibes with, tried taking advice from her before i got saved.. fucked up my chances of having a sugar daddy lol it was all for the best though.
"most men don't like natural hair" I don't want to be what most men like. Sounds quiete scary actually. Imagine the old,fat,crazy,short,smelly all liking me and me being their type? 🏃🏽♀️ 🏃🏽♀️ 🏃🏽♀️Straight hair takes away from my beauty and when I wear my natural hair out outside of twist the men never fail to compliment and stare so it's hard to believe men don't like natural hair.
As many of the other ladies in the comments have stated, what she is stating is not everyones experience. I have never really attracted “ dusties” regardless of how I wore my hair. I met my husband with my hair in beautiful kinky twist at a fundraising event in a room full of ambitious and accomplished people (that term high value is kind of strange to me). When you carry yourself with pose, pride and decorum your beauty will always shine bright despite how you wear your hair. The same goes for if you are wearing the most expensive extensions or wig …how you present and carry yourself will always speak louder than your hair.
Isn't this the same woman who admitted to doing binding spells (magick) to keep her husband with her on one of her " advice" videos? Her husband is with her because she put a (literal) love spell on him, not because her hair or her wigs are straight. Noone, especially if you consider yourself a believer, should be taking anything this woman says about relationships seriously. A beautiful BW with natural hair can attract an amazing man without the help of a magic wand and a cauldron, Shera. SMH.
Oh dang. I didn't know she put a spell on James. I know she did say they broke up for a while and he moved out if their house before they moved to the one they are in now.
7:19 literally! braids are the most neutral ass hairstyle 😭 i get increased attention from all races when i have a fresh set of knotless braids 💅🏾🎀✨ edit: and as for my coily hair, no one used to talk to me with my natural hair until i glowed up (i dress more feminine + have better hygiene now) and got better at styling it. now i get the same attention with my natural hair 🤷🏾♀️
Some men don’t like natural hair. Some men don’t like certain types of natural hair. So what? Find someone who sees the you in you, likes the you in you, and wants the you in you. Simple as that.
Come to think about it, isn’t that kinda weird to not like the hair that naturally grows of out someone’s scalp? I wonder if the same sentiment applies to women of other races. Why would a man discriminate against hair…?
@@Professoryu: Racism and 400+ years of psychological conditioning by white America. The same reason Black women fry our hair and burn ourselves with hot combs and flat irons, use caustic chemicals (relaxers) and chronically and habitually wear wigs and weaves.
@@mukaniwatkins2598 STILL, VALUE IS MORE THAN MONEY BECAUSE MONEY CAN COME AND GO IN AN INSTANT (STOCK MARKET COLLAPSE/RECESSION/INFLATION/ETC) THE MORALS OF A MAN IS WHAT DETERMINES HIS VALUE, NOT MONEY ALONE. GROW UP SMH
I mean, look at her hair, are we surprised? Also, I wonder what type of guys she attract, and what does she conciser a "good" man to be with lol I feel like she would have been with Diddy if she could like Casey, so I'm not worried about her advice (maybe I'm wrong, Idc, but all the best of lucks to her and her followers)
Nothing but lies here. I attract the rainbow with my natural hair. I typically attract tall, handsome, Black men. That is my personal experience. My husband is also 100% Black (West African). I have a few videos about this on my RUclips channel.
Thank you! My amazing black Haitian husband met, vetted, dated, and married me in my natural hair! In the 10 years I've known him, I've never worn my hair straight ONCE; his and my favorite style is mini twists, picked out afros, locs and afro ponytails. BM who prefer and love natural hair absolutely exist!
My grandma was married for 16 years to my grandfather who is successful and fought in the Vietnam war. She said while they were married he always used to get upset at her about wearing wigs all the time and he used to hate it. She never stopped wearing wigs because she was rebellious 😭 but when they divorced the woman he married after was all natural. She taught me that men actually love when a women wears her natural hair because they like to put their fingers through it and touch it. In my experience nothing my grandmother said was a lie because every guy I’ve dated would love when I wear my natural hair because they didn’t have to walk on eggshells if they accidentally pulled on it. Men love your real hair!! Shera is addressing how to get a rich man , the top %1 of men who usually have egos and are superficial . The top %1 of men try to fit in & have as much proximity to whiteness as possible so ofc they are going to want you to wear a straight wig/weave but all other men do not hate natural hair 😭
It's lovely to see a lot of women in the comments disagree from experience (and those who don't care what men want!). BUT the experience of MANY black girls and black women HAS been very negative regarding how boys and men treat us when we do not wear our hair straight. Two things can be true at the same time. Perhaps Shera's comment is dated NOW, but it didn't come from nowehere. We all know black men specifically as a group prefer pale people with "black" features like black women hairstyles than they like those hairstyles on us.
I am so happy Afro hair is making a comeback. I will refer to Viola Davis. My god, I saw a picture of her at the red carpet Cannes film festival 2023 with her husband. She looks immaculate. I remember her saying she went natural because she wanted to step into who she was. Oh my god - she did just that. Wear your crown to all events Ladies
Whether we like it or not, it's been demonstrated by numbers. She actually preface it by saying this if you want to INCREASE your chances of landing HIGH value men. There are men who like natural, but they are few and far in-between. Of course Shera is with a Black man who chose an ambiguous, light skin woman, duh! She also says go where you're most appreciated.
My thing is that high value men even men like Kevin Samuels😂 said men hate all the weave and wigs women wear today and advised women to wear their natural hair.
People need to remember that the type of men that shera attracts are BM, considering that she is a mixed woman. So she isn’t wrong if she says that they don’t like natural hair which we know that they don’t (unless it’s type 3a/b hair). It’s the same reason why she could attract them as an overweight woman. If you keep that in mind, you won’t think twice about certain things that she says. For the women who are looking to attract other types of men, wearing natural hair or natural looking hair and being slim is best.
Thanks for commenting but I don’t believe BM only like type 3 hair as I have type 4 hair and attract all groups of men including black men and I personally only date high value black men…but I do agree staying healthy plays a roles as well🤎
@@CoffeeCuties777 When I say BM I mean in general. I should have said ‘most’ BM instead because most of them don’t like natural hair. It’s also interesting how quickly it is to get corrected when speaking about BM using generalizations yet BW don’t get that same grace. This is not a dig at you btw, just an observation.
I was 18 when I started wearing my natural hair. I’m 33 now. This was back in 2009 and honestly I remember women wanting to wear their natural hair and they were on Lipstick alley confessing that their husbands hated the idea and some even declared their marriage declined. I was ridiculed by my own family and my own father called my hair a bush. I didn’t GAF 😂. In my personal experience, it’s actually low caliber Bm who tend to gravitate towards my natural hair or hotep men. I think to them it symbolizes low maintenance and lack of care or even resistance. These stereotypes are associated with struggle. Also, white men. Not the seasoned white men lol. I mean just an average every day white man or even the ones who may be of a higher social economic status. I think they are attracted to natural hair because it is not what they’re used to. I find that BM do not like natural hair unless it is lose texture curls. It’s because their mothers teach them negative connotation about our hair. I’ve heard it spoken to the men in my family. So, Shera is not wrong. They don’t actually like our natural hair. They like the idea of it ONLY if it emulates traces of ambiguity. This is why black women need to love themselves unapologetically. Without the concerns of men. We are the teacher! This is how they have learned self hate. Black women need to free themselves from the shackles of others expectations. I’ve worn my fro out for the last 3 days I’ve gotten compliments all day. Our hair is magic. We need to embrace it and as we do, the world will adjust 💜✨
My husband said something similar to this about type 4 hair - I made a comment that BM don't like it and he retorted that it's because BW, when they were growing up, didn't like it either. BW and girls would complain about their hair and wouldn't take care of it, resulting in their hair looking a mess. BM started associating struggle and unkemptness with type 4 hair as a result. With the new wave of girlies embracing their type 4 hair, we can definitely retrain our community on how to embrace our natural beauty.
@@SunseedStarchild agreed! We also can redefine what unkept is as well. A lot of those little girls only regurgitate what they’ve heard. Their mamas likely lacked patience and poured their frustrations and hatred onto them. We are the teachers. I choose to embrace myself and my hair. It trains those around us. When they make fun, we simply can fire back with a truth. My great aunt would say “ I wouldn’t go out like that” I’d simply reply: “ of course not. This requires a deeply profound love for oneself”. It leaves them to sort out their own internal issues 💜✨
From my understanding, it really has everything to do with the length, and the believability of your hair. your hair should be long, but it should also match your features, and what I mean by this is that if you have coily hair, your best option is to do longer braids, or a braid out on the end, that’s what I have right now. Or More natural, looking, straightened hair, or hair that actually looks like it would grow out of your head 🙏🏾 I have done both of these, and it worked miracles, I’ve dated some very wealthy men, and get approached much more often. But I also have to say, that I leveled up in other ways, including fashion, which included understanding how to wear clothes that fit my body type better, as well as a more elegant style. One thing I do love about Shera is that she talks about focusing on the type of man that you want., And the life that you do want. This will make a difference in the type of man, or target as she says, that you should focus on, because if you want a certain lifestyle, that’s the look that you will need to create to attract the person, you want to be with.
When the terminology “high value” started to circulate, I filed it in the intelligent adjacent section because the sectors that were using it were essentially referring to high earners. So I’m glad that you mentioned that factor. The sooner an individual is able to find value in themselves, the easier it will be for them to recognize it or the lack of it in all aspects of life.
Shera gives alot of great advice. Some of her advice has helped me personally. Because of Shera, I started dating up instead of settling for broke men who are just using me but she is wrong when she said men don’t like curly hair. Men love my natural hair. I have attracted both white men and black men.
@Keepingupwithnayy 0 seconds ago I get hit on MORE wearing my NATURAL HAIR from all races and classes! Im so tired of this narrative woman is placing on men when time and time again men have said otherwise. Natural hair is BOLD, MAGNETIC, CLASSY, we can dress it up, down and ANYWAY we desire! It’s THICK, BIG, FLIRTY and grows BEAUTIFULLY. she can have the wigs I’ll take what god gave me 🎉🎊
I'm 46 years old, single, and childfree. I've noticed that I got more attention when I was younger and had relaxed hair. I can't say with certainty that my straightened hair was the reason 🤷🏿♀️ What I have noticed though, is that I get more attention from younger men with natural hair. When I was in my 20s, I got little to no attention from men in my own age group, but the older cats were all up in my face. Weird...
A dusty told me to straighten my hair …🤷🏾♀️ppl like wat they like.All that matters is u like ur self fk the rest 😁I have had natural hair,relaxed hair,dreads,short hair,colored hair,wigs,all that matters is how I saw myself at the end of the day.If u respect urself ppl will have no choice but to bow.I attract all races and both genders btw lol I’m str8 tho and have only talked to black men.We can take notes from others but we cannot lie to ourselves at the end of the day.I’d say choose urself
First of all, WHO DIS??? Secondly, why would I care what some no name has to say about natural hair? Our natural hair community has a lot of work to do in dismantling all the toxicity we as Black women have grown up with and are still surrounded by. Can we talk more about the CROWN ACT, and share our tips for caring for our 4c hair? Just a thought 😊.
Thanks for commenting 🤎She’s a pretty big influencer that a lot of black women follow so I would hate for this message to be pushed on black women with a rebuttal but I actually have a video about work place hair discrimination dropping next week where I mention the crown act several times🤎
My white hubby loves my locs and really encouraged me to keep my natural hair. Its just not true that you have to have a wig or ‘sleek’ hair. She really has self hate n ‘sprinkling it around’ if a man truly likes a black woman he will love your hair. You still need to look hot but its not just about hair.
Havent watched this video yet. But i did watch those shera videos when they first came out. I love shera, but shes blatantly wrong. I do get attention with my natural hair. I think it depends on where you live because ive gotten attention from men, women, white and black when i wear my afro in my home state and when i went to Louisiana Yet when i lived rhode island it was mixed bag with more people being texturist and racist towards me. When it comes to dating, like another commenter stated, i tend to get more attention from non black men.
I never had a man tell me this he doesn’t like my natural hair. I had my hair relaxed locs and wore braids. I had a texturize for years.Then, a full relaxer for less than 1 yr & 4 months. I had to transition because I got extensions for my birthday ( haven’t had one in 7 years ) and that €vil stylist braided my hair too tight. When I removed the extensions ; I had traction alopecia. I can’t put a chemical in my hair for 6 months. I recently cut the relaxer out my hair. My fiancé saw my hair and didn’t make a big deal about it. He was unbothered. We have to do what we want , and not care about who likes our God given hair. My hair is like J€SUS, the Most High.
I like Shera but have never listened to her hair advice because she always said not to wear natural hair until you marry a rich guy because men don’t like natural hair. I’m not living my life that way. They will call you a pick me for wearing your own hair but if you have to change every aspect about yourself to appeal to a man you are still the biggest pick me! I’m about being an individual, not just blending into society. EDIT: I enjoy Shera’s spiritual channel more than the advice on her regular channel.
I agree 100 percent and I keep hearing about her spiritual channel but can’t find it…people on TikTok are calling her a witch lol 😂 is it behind a paywall? If not what’s the name of the channel?
YOU ARE TAKING "SPIRITUAL ADVICE" FROM A LADY WHO WILL SELL THEIR SOUL FOR MONEY-LOW SELF ESTEEM AND WHO ADMITTED TO USING BINDING SPELLS/BLACK MAGIC ON HER HUSBAND TO KEEP HER HUSBAND??? CAN'T GET ANY WORSE THAN THAT SMH
Why are you guys even discussing this. She’s a level up gold digging channel. She’s giving advice for the general masses not just BW. Ya f*ck*in up the game. Ya are not sprinkle Sprinkle girls
Leave America more! I know a few natural hair girls who are happily married... I remember when I went to New Orleans for a visit and a young black boy laughed at me for having natural hair...he said "we not doing that anymore" I laughed back and said 'we doing that in Paris but you wouldn't know coz you stay your whole life in New New Orleans, so you ain't never seen what "we doing" over in Europe.. In Miami a lot of young black boys loved my natural hair which took me by surprise as it was miami. They told me they just don't see it.
Isn’t Shera Biracial? She’s at least MGM. I don’t consider her to be a Black woman. In my opinion her thoughts on Black hair shouldn’t be taken seriously.
Mom is dark like the husband and a very elegant woman says shera.she showed pics. She says she is the one th a t msde iy financially out the family. She may have married well too. I cant remember verbatim
There is some truth to men not liking natural hair. I have had my hair in Sisterlocks for 6 years and I seem invisible to men. When my hair was relaxed and I had softer hair men did notice me and I dated then . I'm older now and I have not been on a date in a long time. I had a boyfriend once who told me he didn't like afro braids or weaves.
no one used to talk to me with my natural hair until i glowed up (i dress more feminine + have better hygiene now) and got better at styling it. now i get the same attention with my natural hair 🤷🏾♀️
@@Prechelle95 yes, you’re right. straight hair shouldn’t be automatically seen as more feminine. but my point was that when my natural hair routine improved, i got more compliments on it. more than i got when i wore my hair straight growing up. so i don’t know if it’s a matter of “straight” vs “textured” or whichever the person is better at styling. being transparent, my initial thought from reading your comment was that you prefer you’re straight hair and are better at styling it but i could be completely off.
i’ve noticed that too! it’s such a huge stereotype that straight hair > curly hair but in my experience… i get the most attention when my hair is curly. when my hair is straight the attention is almost nonexistent unless someone is commenting on the length.
It's definitely a confidence thing. I don't agree with everything shera Says but I understand her intent with this one. I'm natural and very coily, But I am also in my I don't really care what anyone thinks phase. I've done the marriage thing. I've raised the children and now I'm focused on building my Assets. However, what she said was if she were dark skin, She wouldn't be dating black man, She understands that her hubby, James pursued her for her light skin and curly hair.
I hate this because i know her intention isn't to attack and offend. But it impacts in that way anyway😞. I don't know what i can say that would mend this. This sux. it's true what she said but it's still wrong to say some things aloud so frankly sometimes. Of course this doesn't mean all men, but still it rings truthful. she is just saying assimilation is still very much alive. She wants us to win but she needs to be more sensitive about the frank delivery. it's still unfair and to state it so matter of fact.... yea hopefully she can tighten that all up. Shera 7 really is a great channel. Listening to her is like a mini pep talk i feel it comes from a healthy place the way she reaches out to women. She has stated that she does put this message out to the world in hope that her daughters will have a nice world and dating scene to enter into. imo she very much has her children in mind she does realize her daughters are black natural girls as we all are. Anyway i love this channel and i love her even tho i barley watch her these days. but i got her message years ago. she brought a lot of comfort to me and i have a head of 4a and 4b coils. i know what she has always meant she is saying this is what can be done to heighten our chances and she is correct and it sux but she still has to tell us the best moves.... I think it is tricky space to be in trying to gently tell us what she thinks we as black women CAN DO to highten our chances in appealing to a wider range of high earning men. Its a balance between telling us uncomfortable truths and being aware that its not fair but it is in fact her truthful experience. Does se tell us or keep it to herself at risk of offending? I know she isnt intending to offend. i find her to be very gentle with black women and our sensitivities.. and therefore i choose to see her for her intention this time. not the impact. I extend her grace as a channel that i am familiar with and knows that her truth isnt to harm us. its just suggestions for tools we can use. Our hair is an accessory ladies. we can use it. this was all she is trying to say i really believe that, she wasnt saying our hair sucks
What she said is NOT true since it's entirely subjective. I tried following Shera's advice in 2018...attracted DUSTIES. With my hair natural I've attracted quality men, and have gotten the best and most compliments on my hair and overall beauty. If you are pretty and skinny men will find you attractive regardless.
@@doll.ov.poetrii4682 I think she has a healthy sense of humor and a healthy amount of care for the women in her community... that 2 off the top of my head.
@@AnimalLover2400 I don't doubt this for a second. i am saying even if she is wrong about her opinion on hair i dont think it was meant as an attack. I think it was intended to offer her advice and it was not intended to be insulting. even tho it was. I think she means perhaps for women who dont have the physical attribute you listed. i think she was more saying it for women who may have physical struggles elsewhere they could consider experimenting with the hair of the preference. She is not saying its a must but she was speaking so frankly and blunt that it came off offensive. its a tool and its for women who are seeking. "something we shouldn't do anyway" but her channel does cater to women who would like her advice on that..
Lets be real.... if all of us started wearing our natural hair, it would become a thing of the past! Ive had hair all my life but now with the wigs, bbls, etc... i get a lot of attention because it is not seen as the normal! I promise once we all wear natural hair, there will be something else that will become the new thing to talk about
Thanks for commenting but how can the hair that comes out of our head be considered a trend when it’s naturally that way compared to wigs and bbls that are not natural? And even if we all wore our natural hair it still would be unique because our hair is unique ,similar to fingerprints 🤎🤎🤎
As much as people get offended by this it is still unfortunately true. The way most men treat you with your natural hair is totally different when you wear wigs and straight hair. Its literally insane.
She looks like the actress from the old series Miami Vice. I think her name was Olivia Brown. I always remember that back in the day, Big momma would wear a house dress and a head scarf and still had a man and a lot kids. These folks says this stuff for likes and views.
All am reading is "my husband/boyfriend is black and likes my natural hair" or "my husband is non black and likes my natural hair", but does he have money? Is he wealthy? Does he have investments and shares offshore? Does he have property? If not then Sheera is not talking about him, Sheera is talking about what appeals to men with money, generational wealth l, offshore accounts, private jets, summer houses in different countries. And men like that like their women to look a certain way, Sheera's channel is intended for ladies who want to secure the bag, take her advice or leave it.
ONLY A FOOL WOULD TAKE ADVICE FROM A WOMAN LIKE SHERA WHO IS FILLED WITH SELF-HATE AND DOESN'T LET HER DAUGHTERS WEAR THEIR HAIR NATURAL, WILL SELL THEIR SOUL FOR MONEY-LOW SELF ESTEEM, AND WHO ADMITTED TO USING BINDING SPELLS/BLACK MAGIC ON HER HUSBAND TO KEEP HER HUSBAND... YOU SHOULD SEEK HELP IMMEDIATELY !!
Thank you. Tired of these pick mes not understanding the game. Sprinkle Sprinkle is not for these folks. And I wear braids. I told Shera years ago that I agreed with her that straight hair attracts more providers but I can’t wear wigs so braids were the best I could do. I have to accept that I’m only going to attract a certain caliber. Nobody is caring about BM.
Not a fan of her videos however I’ve noticed that natural hair has taken a backseat due to the influence of wigs. Most of the RUclips videos are about laying your edges and applying wigs. Women are approached more if they have a wig or their natural hair is down their back Also, body type, style and more factors come with dating a higher caliber man as well
I unsubscribed from her channel. Shera is promoting hate for black women with natural curly hair. My hair is poofy straight. If we have to impress men in our lives and have nothing else to live for then I'm at loss for words.
Let me tell you this… men, women and children salivate over my hair. My hair and my overall aesthetics get the most compliments on my body. The compliments and positive comments come Multiple times and daily.. men of all ethnicities and cultures are attracted to natural hair. I can not comment on braids and twists because I do not wear them. On another note, these are the best pictures I have ever seen of this woman. IMO, she is not attractive, at all
She has good advice but this take is outdated lol. If you look like everybody else how are you setting yourself apart. I get compliments on my hair a lot when I wear it natural
She also teaches methods to reach your higher self. She teaches spiritual alchemy and dark feminine strategy for women looking to better themselves in general, especially their minds.
YOU ARE TAKING "SPIRITUAL ADVICE" FROM A LADY WHO WILL SELL THEIR SOUL FOR MONEY-LOW SELF ESTEEM AND WHO ADMITTED TO USING BINDING SPELLS/BLACK MAGIC ON HER HUSBAND TO KEEP HER HUSBAND??? CAN'T GET ANY WORSE THAN THAT SMH
I find that increasingly more Blk men appreciate nature texture, especially as more high value, NON BLK men show appreciation. Blk men follow non Blk men.
@CoffeeCuties777 The video of SHERA7 is AI. It is a a deep fake. You can tell by the blinks and the bottom teeth floating in the mouth. If you slow the video down the lips are on the outside of the hand at the 1:27 mark
@@CoffeeCuties777 she may have had a conversation about hair/appearance on the live but the clip you have added in THIS video is fake. Just slow the video down and watch it again and look at the example and timestamp I have told you about in my previous reply and you will see that it is a deep fake/AI. Your lips don't appear on the outside of your fingers when you put your hand to your mouth and you tongue does not appear through your bottom row of teeth. Watch in slow--mo on a large screen like a tv or laptop and you will be able to see that the video is AI.
The thing about natural hair is it will attract both extremes; the mega dusty and the ultra upper class. You have to put yourself in the right environment. With that being said, it’s much easier to wear the wig and slowly reveal your natural self.
@@CoffeeCuties777 it’s easier than putting yourself in front of the ultra upper class. Most women wont be able to pull that off, even if they’re in the proper setting. So it just makes sense for the average woman to wear the wig (to attract) and reveal your natural self once he’s committed.. Or just wear your natural hair and keep your standards high!
Whether we like it or not, it's been demonstrated by numbers. She actually preface it by saying this if you want to INCREASE your chances of landing HIGH value men. There are men who like natural, but they are few and far in-between. Of course Shera is with a Black man who chose an ambiguous, light skin woman, duh! She also says go where you're most appreciated.
Whether we like it or not, it's been demonstrated by numbers. She actually preface it by saying this if you want to INCREASE your chances of landing HIGH value men. There are men who like natural, but they are few and far in-between. Of course Shera is with a Black man who chose an ambiguous, light skin woman, duh! She also says go where you're most appreciated.
Whether we like it or not, it's been demonstrated by numbers. She actually preface it by saying this if you want to INCREASE your chances of landing HIGH value men. There are men who like natural, but they are few and far in-between. Of course Shera is with a Black man who chose an ambiguous, light skin woman, duh! She also says go where you're most appreciated.
Whether we like it or not, it's been demonstrated by numbers. She actually preface it by saying this if you want to INCREASE your chances of landing HIGH value men. There are men who like natural, but they are few and far in-between. Of course Shera is with a Black man who chose an ambiguous, light skin woman, duh! She also says go where you're most appreciated.
Whether we like it or not, it's been demonstrated by numbers. She actually preface it by saying this if you want to INCREASE your chances of landing HIGH value men. There are men who like natural, but they are few and far in-between. Of course Shera is with a Black man who chose an ambiguous, light skin woman, duh! She also says go where you're most appreciated.
Whether we like it or not, it's been demonstrated by numbers. She actually preface it by saying this if you want to INCREASE your chances of landing HIGH value men. There are men who like natural, but they are few and far in-between. Of course Shera is with a Black man who chose an ambiguous, light skin woman, duh! She also says go where you're most appreciated.
I don’t think the number of high value men preferring natural hair is few and far in between in 2024. I think your natural hair actually grants you MORE access to high value men from my perspective because you stand out from the rest🤎
Shera 7 is always worrying about what men like. I personally don’t give a damn what they like. Just be you and wear your hair the way you want. I have short natural coily hair and have never had any issues with attracting men.
Exactly!
@@Vlavette5604 high profile men? You guys fail to understand....shes talking about ONE TYPE of men. And thats the ugly truth. They do prefer(that ONE TYPE) women with straight hair.
@@naylamuslima I don’t give a damn what type of man she speaks of. I’ve seen high profile men with women wearing their natural hair! If you’re ashamed of wearing your hair texture or you hair a particular way just for a man. You have a problem. Because that means you’re not living for yourself. You’re living to please someone else.
These men barely like themselves
@@CCB1234abcd 🤡🤡
Mmm not my experience….however if I get attention from men with my natural hair he is a non black man.
I was going to say the same thing. My bf is black and loves my natural hair but I know he’s not the norm. Men of all other races do love my natural hair. I do think it’s not necessarily what the man wants personally, but how his friends/family/ coworkers will think about it.
Same
Why would you want to be with a man who doesn’t love the natural you? Wear your natural hair as you please and if you are looking for a man you will attract a man who appreciates your beauty. And also please ladies let’s not centre men in our lives. Its okay to want someone but when you think the only way to get a man you like is to completely change how God created you👀 i think you need to take a step back a bit. Absolutely agree with this video
Facts!
100%. i get people want boyfriends and husbands but if you have to jump through hoops, it’s time to step back a bit. God made you perfect the way you are
@@commandery3574 yep it’s a shame some don’t see how we see it
@@MaNoZu low self esteem, sadly
I disagree with Shera about men disliking natural hair. I'm with an Asian man, and he ENCOURAGED me to start wearing it out. He enjoys seeing me in braids, but loves seeing my afro in all its glory.
I had to unfollow her bc of that. Not suprised by her comments since antiblackness is pretty prevalent in that space.
This video is a deep fake. It's AI. If you slow the video down the lips are on the outside of the hand at the 1:27 mark
She should have said black men. I find that white men tend to like kinky hair more than black men. It’s crazy
She talks about high earning men. If you don't attract rich men, her advice is not for you
Weave attracts duties and trash. Wearing an Afro especially a small fro, brings out your features.
Agreed! The small fros get hated on bc of the Black communities obsession with long hair but it’s such a youthful look, it can also be sexy depending how you style it. The silky straight blonde weaves age us and clashes with our features, and the Brazilian curly hair isn’t as unique as our Afros 🥰
@@reformedgirlblogger
Long hair in all culture are seen as youthful/ a sign of feminity. Dusties, Zaddys, Tyrone, Rodrigo, Jean, etc…will prefer long hair and women too
@@NanaSagathat’s true but other men don’t police women’s hair the way BM do. They can still appreciate the beauty of a BW specifically with short hair in a way that most BM won’t bc they see it as less than compared to the long haired white,Hispanic,Asian women they’re comparing us to. My hair is super short and WM compliment me on it all the time, BM do occasionally but it’s rare.
@@reformedgirlblogger
WM don’t police cause their woman don’t go around wearing blond UNATURAL wigs, atrocious edges, with non natural hair texture, skin bleach, lick other races of men, burn their own scalp, attack other woman beauty, too much victimisation etc…😭
How could BM appreciate their own women beauty, when BW on majority emulate WW/Mixed woman and clearly state that they dont’t like themselves 🤭
My hair is short to and white men don’t compliment it. Stop the cap. They do when I do a natural crochet/longer hair like all other man.
You need to stop the fixation on WM, it is embarrassing
@@reformedgirlblogger My hair is short to and white men don’t compliment it. Stop the cap. They do when I do a natural crochet/longer hair like all other man.
You need to stop the fixation on WM, it is embarrassing
I remember an ex telling me: I’m glad that natural hair has come back cause for far too long y’all have denied us the pleasure to pass our hand through your hair or smell or kiss your hair”
Literally, my grandmother taught me that men LOVE hair ! They want to be able to run their fingers through it and play with it. Wigs and weave stop them from being able to do that
What was your exs race?
All of the famous rich men (billionaires) with bw wives have wives with natural 4c hair 😂
Right 🤎🤎
Yup! Especially here in NYC , the black women with rich white men all have Afros or atleast their natural hair
Who? Name them
Name them
Pls drop receipts
Lies dudes flock to me when I wear my natural hair
Facts.
Sameeeeeeeeeeeeee
And that's on period 💅💅💅
Same everywhere work, gas stations and when I’m out at events
I might say something controversial but... I really don't care about men's opinion on my hair (or my appearance in general). My life doesn't revolve around them and if they don't like it, well ¯\_(ツ)_/¯. Life goes on. There are too many things to worry about than the opinion of men. There are too many things to live for than what men think of you. Life isn't just about being appealing to men. So learn to love your hair the way it is and love yourself
this is the comment
All the women on RUclips now especially black women care too much about men and what they think of us and its very sad at this point. Men aren't the prize women are but women today focus to much on males opinions and its disheartening to me
It’s about being comfortable and confident in ur own skin
I'm going to be very very honest with you. I might even do a video about this. I've been watching Shera7 for a long time I mean since the early days. I've been watching her for almost 6-7years or more. She goes undercover on youtube. She said she goes undercover. I'm telling you this THERE HAS BEEN A SHIFT IN BEAUTY PERSPECTIVES. I guarantee you that she has watched these natural hair confidence channels. If you look at her newer videos like within the last two or three months, she is wearing her own natural hair. She suffers from hair dysmorphia herself. If you look at her older videos, you can see that Shera was made fun of for being chubby and having poofy hair that was made fun of. She actually thinks that dreadlocks are very very beautiful, BUT SHE SAYS TO COVER UP DREADS WITH A WIG. SHE SAYS THE MAIN GOAL IS TO GET THE BAG. Then once you are married and a little bit more comfortable in your marriage, THEN your Bohemian side can come out.
Yes please make a video and tag me because you have a lot more info about her then I do wow 🤯….I’ve seen her in passing and on TikTok but I’m not a huge fan so I would love to hear your perspective as someone who has more information about her through out the years 🤎
@@CoffeeCuties777 okay, I will do a video! And I will tag you, my Gemini friend and sister! I just want you to know that your channel is an absolute Godsend. You were doing God's work
@@latoshastanfield5523 Thank you so much ☺️ 🤎🤎🤎
While we are talking can we stop describing black women’s hair is puffy or poofy. It sounds ridiculous and ignorant
I don't see Shera wearing her natural hair more. She wears those straight wigs more or if she is wearing her natural hair she straightens it. Maybe I'm wrong. Her videos have gotten too long for me to watch now. I can't watch her for no 1-3hrs. Plus her audience asks stupid questions so it's turned me off. I have noticed she has leveled up her looks from her early days in their old dark house to now. Her weight fluctuates but she is pushing 50. She get's too much lip fillers and botox for me. She looked better natural.
Tbh Shera’s mindset can be outdated sometimes. I wear my twa everyday, I dyed it golden chocolate 🍫 brown for the fall. I get the attention of all kinds of WM, even AM and middle eastern guys. Black men are nice for the most part or they straight up ignore me since they can tell I don’t prioritize their attention/I’m not trying to attract them only. Men are attracted to confidence and class. If you have that black cat energy men will be intrigued as long as you look clean and put together. Black women are mysterious and sexy, our natural hair emphasizes our exotic look and we should embrace it.
I want to dye my hair that color. Which dye did you use
AMEN 🙌🏾💕✨
@@mosoulwritesI used ION 3G dark golden brown:). My hair was pre lightened since I went blonde over the summer. If you’re starting with dark hair I would use dark and lovely’s light golden blonde to pre lighten your hair a level or two since it adds those golden tones then give yourself a couple weeks to condition your hair before going in with Wella color charm in light golden brown, I wish I would’ve used that one. You’ll need to process for less time than it says if your hair is on the finer side. Have your deep conditioner ready to go❤
That hair color sounds amazing!
@@reformedgirlblogger thank you so much 😊
BTW natural hair REPELS DUSTIES. I am so grateful for your channel, because your words are the voice of God coming through you.
from personal experience let me tell you this is FAR from the truth.
Listen! The level of intimacy my man and I have recently uncovered since me wearing my natural hair out daily is unmatched! He is a black man.
I agree 💯 percent…I talked about this in my good hair documentary review but yes that level of intimacy is UNMATCHED…thanks for being a member on the channel 🤎🤎🤎
Her husband is a black man. This video is a deep fake. It's AI. If you slow the video down the lips are on the outside of the hand at the 1:27 mark
My husband is a BM and he loves my natural hair. Before my husband I dated non-BM and they loved my natural hair. A big part of that is I’d never entertain a man that didn’t love my natural hair no matter what he had to offer. That said, straight hair is the norm in non-black spaces even with BW. Even in black celebrity spaces it’s the norm. Simone Biles and other BW wear their hair straight for meets and rock braids or other styles off the mat. I’ve never seen Candace Owens with anything but straight hair at interviews. As you said, it’s so nuanced because texturism or superiority of straight hair over curly can tie in with racism and white supremacy since straight hair is generally associated with European or YT people. Love the channel and the video.
Y'all I'm so sorry but I just do not have that experience of having men flock to me. I was 22 when I went natural men don't see me. BUT! When a man does come for me.... He a man of MEANS AND MONEY! A GOOD QUALITY MAN! 😉
Natural hair is a magnet for quality people.
@@spacebar9733 that's right
Most “SECURE” men love natural beauty; they want to know what they are getting. I received endless verbal and nonverbal compliments on my hair from men & women. I’m a black women that lives in Washington Heights NYC and Dominican women are rocking the curly coily afro hair! I even saw a hair salon sign stating that they service “Afros”! 🤣 Natural hair movement is on a major rise! It’s even accepted in luxury retail ads; there are lots of black & ambiguous women with coily fros! Interestingly, coily hair is so powerful it filters out men who aren’t serious. Weak men listen to what society & media tells them to like but secure men think for themselves and pick what they want. Most rich men choose women with straight hair because of societal standards; they want to fit in so it’s a business move for them choosing the European beauty since we live in a racist world.
I agree …thanks for watching 🤎🤎🤎
@@CoffeeCuties777 Always, superb content 👍
It’s really interesting how in the first sprinkle sprinkle video she describes which hairstyles to “wear” when attracting a man, but also says how men don’t care…. So if men don’t care, then why do I have to adjust my hairstyle when I could just t wear it naturally/or in any style that makes me happy?
Right smh 🤦🏾♀️ thanks for watching 🤎🤎🤎
One more thing I have to say. Shera7s DAUGHTERS DO NOT WEAR THEIR NATURAL HAIR. I AM NOT TRYING TO BE FUNNY, BUT IT'S OBVIOUS THAT YOU DON'T WATCH HER SHOW. IT'S OBVIOUS THAT YOU ONLY STARTED WATCHING HER SINCE SHE GOT TIK TOK FAME IN THE LAST YEAR OR TWO. AND THAT'S COOL!
BUT ANYONE THAT KNOWS THE REAL DEAL ABOUT THIS WOMAN, KNOWS THAT HER DAUGHTERS DO NOT WEAR NATURAL HAIR. SHE DOES NOT LET HER DAUGHTERS WEAR BRAIDS OR ANY KIND OF ETHNIC STYLES. 1 time some girls at school were making fun of her daughter. And she made a whole lot of video of taking her daughter to go get a sew in. She does not allow her daughters to wear natural hair AT ALL.
She doesn't believe in it.
And anyone that watches Shera7 as an OG viewer, knows exactly what I'm talking about. Some of the pictures that you have, may appear like that is natural hair on her little girl's heads. But if you further inspect those pictures, you will see that those are weaves.
Also, as far as her husband being dark-skinned. This is also one of her core beliefs. She believes that light skin women should pursue dark skin men, because they are more likely to fawn over them and coddle them. She also advises dark skin women to date light skin men or men of other races. This is all part of the Shera 7 philosophy. She feels that women should go to the type of men that will celebrate them the most, to get the ultimate bag.
I absolutely frequent the femininity/hypergamy spaces on RUclips, but I could never get into Shera 7; she has a dark, unpleasant energy that has always disturbed my spirit. Nothing about her saying this suprises me at all.
She's a narcissist and dark witch.. both types that I've never vibes with, tried taking advice from her before i got saved.. fucked up my chances of having a sugar daddy lol it was all for the best though.
@@JesusLovesEVERYTHING Spot on!
@@JesusLovesEVERYTHING I see multiple people say that she's a witch, can someone give me the tea??
@@monicacreator3168she is. She has another channel which she does rituals and talks about esoteric stuff
"most men don't like natural hair" I don't want to be what most men like. Sounds quiete scary actually. Imagine the old,fat,crazy,short,smelly all liking me and me being their type? 🏃🏽♀️ 🏃🏽♀️ 🏃🏽♀️Straight hair takes away from my beauty and when I wear my natural hair out outside of twist the men never fail to compliment and stare so it's hard to believe men don't like natural hair.
This!! I love being invisible to the average man ❤
Stop just the image is scaring me lol
As many of the other ladies in the comments have stated, what she is stating is not everyones experience. I have never really attracted “ dusties” regardless of how I wore my hair. I met my husband with my hair in beautiful kinky twist at a fundraising event in a room full of ambitious and accomplished people (that term high value is kind of strange to me). When you carry yourself with pose, pride and decorum your beauty will always shine bright despite how you wear your hair. The same goes for if you are wearing the most expensive extensions or wig …how you present and carry yourself will always speak louder than your hair.
this resonates with me
Isn't this the same woman who admitted to doing binding spells (magick) to keep her husband with her on one of her " advice" videos? Her husband is with her because she put a (literal) love spell on him, not because her hair or her wigs are straight. Noone, especially if you consider yourself a believer, should be taking anything this woman says about relationships seriously. A beautiful BW with natural hair can attract an amazing man without the help of a magic wand and a cauldron, Shera. SMH.
Oh I need someone to do a deep dive on her, because wow
Yup! People take advice from a women who has to use spells on her man so he can stay with her🤣
Oh dang. I didn't know she put a spell on James. I know she did say they broke up for a while and he moved out if their house before they moved to the one they are in now.
7:19 literally! braids are the most neutral ass hairstyle 😭 i get increased attention from all races when i have a fresh set of knotless braids 💅🏾🎀✨
edit: and as for my coily hair, no one used to talk to me with my natural hair until i glowed up (i dress more feminine + have better hygiene now) and got better at styling it. now i get the same attention with my natural hair 🤷🏾♀️
Some men don’t like natural hair. Some men don’t like certain types of natural hair. So what?
Find someone who sees the you in you, likes the you in you, and wants the you in you. Simple as that.
Come to think about it, isn’t that kinda weird to not like the hair that naturally grows of out someone’s scalp? I wonder if the same sentiment applies to women of other races. Why would a man discriminate against hair…?
@@Professoryu: Racism and 400+ years of psychological conditioning by white America. The same reason Black women fry our hair and burn ourselves with hot combs and flat irons, use caustic chemicals (relaxers) and chronically and habitually wear wigs and weaves.
Can we be more real? High earner is not the same as high value.
Exactly
I say high value man means high earner who is a provider, generous, caring, understanding, patient, faithful and ambitious.
@@mukaniwatkins2598 STILL, VALUE IS MORE THAN MONEY BECAUSE MONEY CAN COME AND GO IN AN INSTANT (STOCK MARKET COLLAPSE/RECESSION/INFLATION/ETC) THE MORALS OF A MAN IS WHAT DETERMINES HIS VALUE, NOT MONEY ALONE. GROW UP SMH
I mean, look at her hair, are we surprised?
Also, I wonder what type of guys she attract, and what does she conciser a "good" man to be with lol
I feel like she would have been with Diddy if she could like Casey, so I'm not worried about her advice (maybe I'm wrong, Idc, but all the best of lucks to her and her followers)
Nothing but lies here. I attract the rainbow with my natural hair. I typically attract tall, handsome, Black men. That is my personal experience. My husband is also 100% Black (West African). I have a few videos about this on my RUclips channel.
Thank you! My amazing black Haitian husband met, vetted, dated, and married me in my natural hair! In the 10 years I've known him, I've never worn my hair straight ONCE; his and my favorite style is mini twists, picked out afros, locs and afro ponytails. BM who prefer and love natural hair absolutely exist!
My grandma was married for 16 years to my grandfather who is successful and fought in the Vietnam war. She said while they were married he always used to get upset at her about wearing wigs all the time and he used to hate it. She never stopped wearing wigs because she was rebellious 😭 but when they divorced the woman he married after was all natural. She taught me that men actually love when a women wears her natural hair because they like to put their fingers through it and touch it. In my experience nothing my grandmother said was a lie because every guy I’ve dated would love when I wear my natural hair because they didn’t have to walk on eggshells if they accidentally pulled on it. Men love your real hair!! Shera is addressing how to get a rich man , the top %1 of men who usually have egos and are superficial . The top %1 of men try to fit in & have as much proximity to whiteness as possible so ofc they are going to want you to wear a straight wig/weave but all other men do not hate natural hair 😭
It's lovely to see a lot of women in the comments disagree from experience (and those who don't care what men want!). BUT the experience of MANY black girls and black women HAS been very negative regarding how boys and men treat us when we do not wear our hair straight. Two things can be true at the same time.
Perhaps Shera's comment is dated NOW, but it didn't come from nowehere. We all know black men specifically as a group prefer pale people with "black" features like black women hairstyles than they like those hairstyles on us.
I am so happy Afro hair is making a comeback. I will refer to Viola Davis. My god, I saw a picture of her at the red carpet Cannes film festival 2023 with her husband. She looks immaculate.
I remember her saying she went natural because she wanted to step into who she was. Oh my god - she did just that.
Wear your crown to all events Ladies
I’ve been seeing Viola Davis wearing her natural hair more…so pretty…thanks for watching 🤎🤎🤎
Whether we like it or not, it's been demonstrated by numbers. She actually preface it by saying this if you want to INCREASE your chances of landing HIGH value men. There are men who like natural, but they are few and far in-between. Of course Shera is with a Black man who chose an ambiguous, light skin woman, duh! She also says go where you're most appreciated.
My thing is that high value men even men like Kevin Samuels😂 said men hate all the weave and wigs women wear today and advised women to wear their natural hair.
Right! I remember that 🤎
That thing was not high value, bw with sense shouldn’t follow anything he’s said.
I felt this coming in my spirit. I knew SOMEBODY was gone have to go there. 😂
People need to remember that the type of men that shera attracts are BM, considering that she is a mixed woman. So she isn’t wrong if she says that they don’t like natural hair which we know that they don’t (unless it’s type 3a/b hair). It’s the same reason why she could attract them as an overweight woman. If you keep that in mind, you won’t think twice about certain things that she says. For the women who are looking to attract other types of men, wearing natural hair or natural looking hair and being slim is best.
Thanks for commenting but I don’t believe BM only like type 3 hair as I have type 4 hair and attract all groups of men including black men and I personally only date high value black men…but I do agree staying healthy plays a roles as well🤎
@@CoffeeCuties777 When I say BM I mean in general. I should have said ‘most’ BM instead because most of them don’t like natural hair.
It’s also interesting how quickly it is to get corrected when speaking about BM using generalizations yet BW don’t get that same grace. This is not a dig at you btw, just an observation.
@@CoffeeCuties777do you mind me asking where in the country you stay and if you’d natural hair is long?
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I was 18 when I started wearing my natural hair. I’m 33 now. This was back in 2009 and honestly I remember women wanting to wear their natural hair and they were on Lipstick alley confessing that their husbands hated the idea and some even declared their marriage declined. I was ridiculed by my own family and my own father called my hair a bush. I didn’t GAF 😂.
In my personal experience, it’s actually low caliber Bm who tend to gravitate towards my natural hair or hotep men. I think to them it symbolizes low maintenance and lack of care or even resistance. These stereotypes are associated with struggle. Also, white men. Not the seasoned white men lol. I mean just an average every day white man or even the ones who may be of a higher social economic status. I think they are attracted to natural hair because it is not what they’re used to. I find that BM do not like natural hair unless it is lose texture curls. It’s because their mothers teach them negative connotation about our hair. I’ve heard it spoken to the men in my family.
So, Shera is not wrong. They don’t actually like our natural hair. They like the idea of it ONLY if it emulates traces of ambiguity.
This is why black women need to love themselves unapologetically. Without the concerns of men. We are the teacher! This is how they have learned self hate. Black women need to free themselves from the shackles of others expectations. I’ve worn my fro out for the last 3 days I’ve gotten compliments all day. Our hair is magic. We need to embrace it and as we do, the world will adjust 💜✨
My husband said something similar to this about type 4 hair - I made a comment that BM don't like it and he retorted that it's because BW, when they were growing up, didn't like it either. BW and girls would complain about their hair and wouldn't take care of it, resulting in their hair looking a mess. BM started associating struggle and unkemptness with type 4 hair as a result.
With the new wave of girlies embracing their type 4 hair, we can definitely retrain our community on how to embrace our natural beauty.
@@SunseedStarchild agreed! We also can redefine what unkept is as well. A lot of those little girls only regurgitate what they’ve heard. Their mamas likely lacked patience and poured their frustrations and hatred onto them. We are the teachers.
I choose to embrace myself and my hair. It trains those around us. When they make fun, we simply can fire back with a truth. My great aunt would say “ I wouldn’t go out like that” I’d simply reply: “ of course not. This requires a deeply profound love for oneself”. It leaves them to sort out their own internal issues 💜✨
From my understanding, it really has everything to do with the length, and the believability of your hair. your hair should be long, but it should also match your features, and what I mean by this is that if you have coily hair, your best option is to do longer braids, or a braid out on the end, that’s what I have right now. Or
More natural, looking, straightened hair, or hair that actually looks like it would grow out of your head 🙏🏾
I have done both of these, and it worked miracles, I’ve dated some very wealthy men, and get approached much more often. But I also have to say, that I leveled up in other ways, including fashion, which included understanding how to wear clothes that fit my body type better, as well as a more elegant style. One thing I do love about Shera is that she talks about focusing on the type of man that you want., And the life that you do want. This will make a difference in the type of man, or target as she says, that you should focus on, because if you want a certain lifestyle, that’s the look that you will need to create to attract the person, you want to be with.
When the terminology “high value” started to circulate, I filed it in the intelligent adjacent section because the sectors that were using it were essentially referring to high earners. So I’m glad that you mentioned that factor. The sooner an individual is able to find value in themselves, the easier it will be for them to recognize it or the lack of it in all aspects of life.
I have type 3 curly hair and i never turned more heads than when i put my hair in natural mini twist. No lie, it looks like a princess❤
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Shera gives alot of great advice. Some of her advice has helped me personally. Because of Shera, I started dating up instead of settling for broke men who are just using me but she is wrong when she said men don’t like curly hair. Men love my natural hair. I have attracted both white men and black men.
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I get hit on MORE wearing my NATURAL HAIR from all races and classes! Im so tired of this narrative woman is placing on men when time and time again men have said otherwise. Natural hair is BOLD, MAGNETIC, CLASSY, we can dress it up, down and ANYWAY we desire! It’s THICK, BIG, FLIRTY and grows BEAUTIFULLY. she can have the wigs I’ll take what god gave me 🎉🎊
Love this video! Sisters, We love your natural hair queens, don't hide your crown for ANYONE! 
Thanks for watching 🤎
I'm 46 years old, single, and childfree. I've noticed that I got more attention when I was younger and had relaxed hair. I can't say with certainty that my straightened hair was the reason 🤷🏿♀️ What I have noticed though, is that I get more attention from younger men with natural hair. When I was in my 20s, I got little to no attention from men in my own age group, but the older cats were all up in my face. Weird...
A dusty told me to straighten my hair …🤷🏾♀️ppl like wat they like.All that matters is u like ur self fk the rest 😁I have had natural hair,relaxed hair,dreads,short hair,colored hair,wigs,all that matters is how I saw myself at the end of the day.If u respect urself ppl will have no choice but to bow.I attract all races and both genders btw lol I’m str8 tho and have only talked to black men.We can take notes from others but we cannot lie to ourselves at the end of the day.I’d say choose urself
I agree …thanks for watching 🤎🤎🤎
First of all, WHO DIS??? Secondly, why would I care what some no name has to say about natural hair? Our natural hair community has a lot of work to do in dismantling all the toxicity we as Black women have grown up with and are still surrounded by. Can we talk more about the CROWN ACT, and share our tips for caring for our 4c hair? Just a thought 😊.
Thanks for commenting 🤎She’s a pretty big influencer that a lot of black women follow so I would hate for this message to be pushed on black women with a rebuttal but I actually have a video about work place hair discrimination dropping next week where I mention the crown act several times🤎
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My white hubby loves my locs and really encouraged me to keep my natural hair. Its just not true that you have to have a wig or ‘sleek’ hair. She really has self hate n ‘sprinkling it around’ if a man truly likes a black woman he will love your hair. You still need to look hot but its not just about hair.
I agree …thanks for watching 🤎🤎🤎
Havent watched this video yet. But i did watch those shera videos when they first came out. I love shera, but shes blatantly wrong. I do get attention with my natural hair.
I think it depends on where you live because ive gotten attention from men, women, white and black when i wear my afro in my home state and when i went to Louisiana
Yet when i lived rhode island it was mixed bag with more people being texturist and racist towards me. When it comes to dating, like another commenter stated, i tend to get more attention from non black men.
She is toxic
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I never had a man tell me this he doesn’t like my natural hair. I had my hair relaxed locs and wore braids. I had a texturize for years.Then, a full relaxer for less than 1 yr & 4 months. I had to transition because I got extensions for my birthday ( haven’t had one in 7 years ) and that €vil stylist braided my hair too tight. When I removed the extensions ; I had traction alopecia. I can’t put a chemical in my hair for 6 months. I recently cut the relaxer out my hair. My fiancé saw my hair and didn’t make a big deal about it. He was unbothered. We have to do what we want , and not care about who likes our God given hair. My hair is like J€SUS, the Most High.
I like Shera but have never listened to her hair advice because she always said not to wear natural hair until you marry a rich guy because men don’t like natural hair. I’m not living my life that way. They will call you a pick me for wearing your own hair but if you have to change every aspect about yourself to appeal to a man you are still the biggest pick me! I’m about being an individual, not just blending into society.
EDIT: I enjoy Shera’s spiritual channel more than the advice on her regular channel.
I agree 100 percent and I keep hearing about her spiritual channel but can’t find it…people on TikTok are calling her a witch lol 😂 is it behind a paywall? If not what’s the name of the channel?
@@CoffeeCuties777 it’s still on here! Type in Ashera Goddess 😊
YOU ARE TAKING "SPIRITUAL ADVICE" FROM A LADY WHO WILL SELL THEIR SOUL FOR MONEY-LOW SELF ESTEEM AND WHO ADMITTED TO USING BINDING SPELLS/BLACK MAGIC ON HER HUSBAND TO KEEP HER HUSBAND??? CAN'T GET ANY WORSE THAN THAT SMH
@@SpinALotDJ well I can actually think for myself and don’t copy everything others do so there’s that. You sound very emotional… you need to relax.
She is a witch. Jesus is the way and would encourage you to read your bible and seek God with a sincere heart.
Omg girl she’s on live now addressing it and the comments hyping it up….our community is so lost
I listening now and I’m commenting lol 😂
Really? That's so sad.. we're dealing with a lot of self hate in our community SMH
Why are you guys even discussing this. She’s a level up gold digging channel. She’s giving advice for the general masses not just BW. Ya f*ck*in up the game. Ya are not sprinkle Sprinkle girls
DECENTER MEN! That’s what’s wrong with all these “sprinkle sprinkle” content. Wear your hair however you want!
I like Shera but some times she talks nonsense
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What’s ironic about her take is that she has such beautiful curly hair.
I agree 🤎
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Leave America more! I know a few natural hair girls who are happily married... I remember when I went to New Orleans for a visit and a young black boy laughed at me for having natural hair...he said "we not doing that anymore" I laughed back and said 'we doing that in Paris but you wouldn't know coz you stay your whole life in New New Orleans, so you ain't never seen what "we doing" over in Europe.. In Miami a lot of young black boys loved my natural hair which took me by surprise as it was miami. They told me they just don't see it.
She’s just on a live right now saying she’s not a hair stylist
Omg 😳 I’m watching now lol 😂
Isn’t Shera Biracial? She’s at least MGM.
I don’t consider her to be a Black woman. In my opinion her thoughts on Black hair shouldn’t be taken seriously.
Her father is Puerto Rican
Mom is dark like the husband and a very elegant woman says shera.she showed pics. She says she is the one th a t msde iy financially out the family. She may have married well too. I cant remember verbatim
Yes I believe she’s mgm and I personally don’t take her advice seriously period 🤎
@@BriLaDivina98 Being Puerto Rican isn’t a race. You can be Puerto Rican in be black, Asian, white, and be mixed race. What is her dad race?
@@darriasutton5588 I believe he’s a mixed race PR
There is some truth to men not liking natural hair. I have had my hair in Sisterlocks for 6 years and I seem invisible to men. When my hair was relaxed and I had softer hair men did notice me and I dated then . I'm older now and I have not been on a date in a long time. I had a boyfriend once who told me he didn't like afro braids or weaves.
I agree. No one talks to me with my natural hair. Only when I wear my hair straight.
no one used to talk to me with my natural hair until i glowed up (i dress more feminine + have better hygiene now) and got better at styling it. now i get the same attention with my natural hair 🤷🏾♀️
@@angelface333 I have nothing to do with your hair
@@HoneyChild-8 It possibly does though, she mentioned that she styles her hair differently from before.
@@angelface333 But don’t you see the irony I didn’t have to glow up with my straight hair
@@Prechelle95 yes, you’re right. straight hair shouldn’t be automatically seen as more feminine.
but my point was that when my natural hair routine improved, i got more compliments on it. more than i got when i wore my hair straight growing up. so i don’t know if it’s a matter of “straight” vs “textured” or whichever the person is better at styling.
being transparent, my initial thought from reading your comment was that you prefer you’re straight hair and are better at styling it but i could be completely off.
i don’t think most men care about that. same with the long hair thing. if you look good you look good
I feel like its about finding a hairstyle that frames your face, whether thats flat hair, big hair, short bob, long layers, pixie cut, etc.
I agree 🤎🤎🤎
i’ve noticed that too! it’s such a huge stereotype that straight hair > curly hair but in my experience… i get the most attention when my hair is curly. when my hair is straight the attention is almost nonexistent unless someone is commenting on the length.
Same…thanks for watching 🤎🤎🤎
I love me some Shera
It's definitely a confidence thing. I don't agree with everything shera Says but I understand her intent with this one. I'm natural and very coily, But I am also in my I don't really care what anyone thinks phase. I've done the marriage thing. I've raised the children and now I'm focused on building my Assets. However, what she said was if she were dark skin, She wouldn't be dating black man, She understands that her hubby, James pursued her for her light skin and curly hair.
Love this video! Sisters, We love your natural hair queens, don't hide your crown for ANYONE! ❤🖤💚
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I hate this because i know her intention isn't to attack and offend. But it impacts in that way anyway😞. I don't know what i can say that would mend this. This sux. it's true what she said but it's still wrong to say some things aloud so frankly sometimes. Of course this doesn't mean all men, but still it rings truthful. she is just saying assimilation is still very much alive. She wants us to win but she needs to be more sensitive about the frank delivery. it's still unfair and to state it so matter of fact.... yea hopefully she can tighten that all up.
Shera 7 really is a great channel. Listening to her is like a mini pep talk i feel it comes from a healthy place the way she reaches out to women. She has stated that she does put this message out to the world in hope that her daughters will have a nice world and dating scene to enter into. imo she very much has her children in mind she does realize her daughters are black natural girls as we all are. Anyway i love this channel and i love her even tho i barley watch her these days. but i got her message years ago. she brought a lot of comfort to me and i have a head of 4a and 4b coils. i know what she has always meant she is saying this is what can be done to heighten our chances and she is correct and it sux but she still has to tell us the best moves.... I think it is tricky space to be in trying to gently tell us what she thinks we as black women CAN DO to highten our chances in appealing to a wider range of high earning men. Its a balance between telling us uncomfortable truths and being aware that its not fair but it is in fact her truthful experience. Does se tell us or keep it to herself at risk of offending? I know she isnt intending to offend. i find her to be very gentle with black women and our sensitivities.. and therefore i choose to see her for her intention this time. not the impact. I extend her grace as a channel that i am familiar with and knows that her truth isnt to harm us. its just suggestions for tools we can use. Our hair is an accessory ladies. we can use it. this was all she is trying to say i really believe that, she wasnt saying our hair sucks
What she said is NOT true since it's entirely subjective. I tried following Shera's advice in 2018...attracted DUSTIES. With my hair natural I've attracted quality men, and have gotten the best and most compliments on my hair and overall beauty. If you are pretty and skinny men will find you attractive regardless.
There is nothing healthy about Shera 7.
@@doll.ov.poetrii4682 I think she has a healthy sense of humor and a healthy amount of care for the women in her community... that 2 off the top of my head.
@@AnimalLover2400 I don't doubt this for a second. i am saying even if she is wrong about her opinion on hair i dont think it was meant as an attack. I think it was intended to offer her advice and it was not intended to be insulting. even tho it was. I think she means perhaps for women who dont have the physical attribute you listed. i think she was more saying it for women who may have physical struggles elsewhere they could consider experimenting with the hair of the preference. She is not saying its a must but she was speaking so frankly and blunt that it came off offensive. its a tool and its for women who are seeking. "something we shouldn't do anyway" but her channel does cater to women who would like her advice on that..
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Only the men she attracting, can’t speak for all of us
I agree 🤎🤎🤎🤎
Lets be real.... if all of us started wearing our natural hair, it would become a thing of the past! Ive had hair all my life but now with the wigs, bbls, etc... i get a lot of attention because it is not seen as the normal! I promise once we all wear natural hair, there will be something else that will become the new thing to talk about
Thanks for commenting but how can the hair that comes out of our head be considered a trend when it’s naturally that way compared to wigs and bbls that are not natural? And even if we all wore our natural hair it still would be unique because our hair is unique ,similar to fingerprints 🤎🤎🤎
The anti-black hair in corporate/upperclass America is jumping out in these comments…
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As much as people get offended by this it is still unfortunately true.
The way most men treat you with your natural hair is totally different when you wear wigs and straight hair.
Its literally insane.
I personally think it depends on the man preference…just like some don’t like it others prefer it 🤎
She looks like the actress from the old series Miami Vice. I think her name was Olivia Brown.
I always remember that back in the day, Big momma would wear a house dress and a head scarf and still had a man and a lot kids. These folks says this stuff for likes and views.
She’s attracting the wrong kind of men. But if it works for her go for it.
Her husband is black. This video is a deep fake. It's AI. If you slow the video down the lips are on the outside of the hand at the 1:27 mark
Great video!
Thank you 🤎🤎
If she's looking for a shallow man to take care of her, maybe this is true for them??
Exactly ❤
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All am reading is "my husband/boyfriend is black and likes my natural hair" or "my husband is non black and likes my natural hair", but does he have money? Is he wealthy? Does he have investments and shares offshore? Does he have property? If not then Sheera is not talking about him, Sheera is talking about what appeals to men with money, generational wealth l, offshore accounts, private jets, summer houses in different countries. And men like that like their women to look a certain way, Sheera's channel is intended for ladies who want to secure the bag, take her advice or leave it.
ONLY A FOOL WOULD TAKE ADVICE FROM A WOMAN LIKE SHERA WHO IS FILLED WITH SELF-HATE AND DOESN'T LET HER DAUGHTERS WEAR THEIR HAIR NATURAL, WILL SELL THEIR SOUL FOR MONEY-LOW SELF ESTEEM, AND WHO ADMITTED TO USING BINDING SPELLS/BLACK MAGIC ON HER HUSBAND TO KEEP HER HUSBAND... YOU SHOULD SEEK HELP IMMEDIATELY !!
Thank you. Tired of these pick mes not understanding the game. Sprinkle Sprinkle is not for these folks. And I wear braids. I told Shera years ago that I agreed with her that straight hair attracts more providers but I can’t wear wigs so braids were the best I could do. I have to accept that I’m only going to attract a certain caliber. Nobody is caring about BM.
The natural volume our natural hair has is AMAAAZING!!! I LOOOVE IT 💕💕💕
I agree 🤎🤎🤎
Not a fan of her videos however I’ve noticed that natural hair has taken a backseat due to the influence of wigs.
Most of the RUclips videos are about laying your edges and applying wigs. Women are approached more if they have a wig or their natural hair is down their back
Also, body type, style and more factors come with dating a higher caliber man as well
you know why??? MONEY !!! THEY WANT YOU TO BE INSECURE ABOUT YOUR HAIR TO BUY WIGS AND WEAVE = MONEY, HELLOOOOOO ! SMH
I unsubscribed from her channel. Shera is promoting hate for black women with natural curly hair. My hair is poofy straight. If we have to impress men in our lives and have nothing else to live for then I'm at loss for words.
I never subscribed personally…I’ll just see her in passing but I agree🤎
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It's mostly true especially for blck men!! The only men that adore our hair is yt men!
Lies 😂 MEN LOVE and prefer me on my natural hair lol we gotta learn that OUR experiences are t everyone’s experience
That’s a lie, men love it when I wear my natural, also I get a more mature better quality of men approaching me, when I wear my natural hair.
I agree 🤎
We love your natural hair queen, don't hide your crown for ANYONE! ❤🖤💚
First so what and 2nd, some do and some don’t. Be yourself and the rest will follow
I ❤ shera but you gotta filter her advices. Her wigs always look a mess so I dont take her hair advice seriously
If she has so much money why does her bedroom look like a granny room.
lol 😂
lol I be thinking that too. I assume it’s a guest or “filming” room
It’s classic/vintage. I like her room 🤷🏻♀️
In my Happy Feet emperor penguin voice: “WHO IS DIS FOOL??!?!”
Get her ass off my screen. Maybe they don’t like her natural hair 😂🤣
lol 😂
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Let me tell you this… men, women and children salivate over my hair. My hair and my overall aesthetics get the most compliments on my body. The compliments and positive comments come Multiple times and daily.. men of all ethnicities and cultures are attracted to natural hair. I can not comment on braids and twists because I do not wear them.
On another note, these are the best pictures I have ever seen of this woman. IMO, she is not attractive, at all
She has good advice but this take is outdated lol. If you look like everybody else how are you setting yourself apart. I get compliments on my hair a lot when I wear it natural
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She also teaches methods to reach your higher self. She teaches spiritual alchemy and dark feminine strategy for women looking to better themselves in general, especially their minds.
She's a literal witch.
YOU ARE TAKING "SPIRITUAL ADVICE" FROM A LADY WHO WILL SELL THEIR SOUL FOR MONEY-LOW SELF ESTEEM AND WHO ADMITTED TO USING BINDING SPELLS/BLACK MAGIC ON HER HUSBAND TO KEEP HER HUSBAND??? CAN'T GET ANY WORSE THAN THAT SMH
Jesus is the only way truth and savior. There is no other way.
Men hate curls??
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I find that increasingly more Blk men appreciate nature texture, especially as more high value, NON BLK men show appreciation. Blk men follow non Blk men.
Facts!
This looks like an AI video
Umm 🤔 well I’m not sure if that’s a compliment or not but I’m not AI
@CoffeeCuties777 The video of SHERA7 is AI. It is a a deep fake. You can tell by the blinks and the bottom teeth floating in the mouth. If you slow the video down the lips are on the outside of the hand at the 1:27 mark
@@MS-xoxo no it’s real she addressed it on her live…check out my video with shera 7 response…I linked the whole live in the description 🤎
@@CoffeeCuties777 she may have had a conversation about hair/appearance on the live but the clip you have added in THIS video is fake. Just slow the video down and watch it again and look at the example and timestamp I have told you about in my previous reply and you will see that it is a deep fake/AI. Your lips don't appear on the outside of your fingers when you put your hand to your mouth and you tongue does not appear through your bottom row of teeth.
Watch in slow--mo on a large screen like a tv or laptop and you will be able to see that the video is AI.
50 years old 🤢🤮
@@DA-no5eo right! Now if you’re a certain age 50 is fine but for a woman in her 20s I don’t think that’s the best option for them🤎
Michelle Obama seems to be doing ok.🤗I'd say her husband is pretty 'high value'. lol
Right lol 😂 thanks for watching 🤎
The thing about natural hair is it will attract both extremes; the mega dusty and the ultra upper class. You have to put yourself in the right environment. With that being said, it’s much easier to wear the wig and slowly reveal your natural self.
I agree the right environment matters but how is wearing the wigs and revealing slowly easier than just wearing your natural hair to begin with?
@@CoffeeCuties777 it’s easier than putting yourself in front of the ultra upper class. Most women wont be able to pull that off, even if they’re in the proper setting. So it just makes sense for the average woman to wear the wig (to attract) and reveal your natural self once he’s committed.. Or just wear your natural hair and keep your standards high!
I only agree with the last sentence of your statement 😂
@@LI8A__noir that’s fair. Lol
Whether we like it or not, it's been demonstrated by numbers. She actually preface it by saying this if you want to INCREASE your chances of landing HIGH value men. There are men who like natural, but they are few and far in-between. Of course Shera is with a Black man who chose an ambiguous, light skin woman, duh! She also says go where you're most appreciated.
Whether we like it or not, it's been demonstrated by numbers. She actually preface it by saying this if you want to INCREASE your chances of landing HIGH value men. There are men who like natural, but they are few and far in-between. Of course Shera is with a Black man who chose an ambiguous, light skin woman, duh! She also says go where you're most appreciated.
Whether we like it or not, it's been demonstrated by numbers. She actually preface it by saying this if you want to INCREASE your chances of landing HIGH value men. There are men who like natural, but they are few and far in-between. Of course Shera is with a Black man who chose an ambiguous, light skin woman, duh! She also says go where you're most appreciated.
Whether we like it or not, it's been demonstrated by numbers. She actually preface it by saying this if you want to INCREASE your chances of landing HIGH value men. There are men who like natural, but they are few and far in-between. Of course Shera is with a Black man who chose an ambiguous, light skin woman, duh! She also says go where you're most appreciated.
Whether we like it or not, it's been demonstrated by numbers. She actually preface it by saying this if you want to INCREASE your chances of landing HIGH value men. There are men who like natural, but they are few and far in-between. Of course Shera is with a Black man who chose an ambiguous, light skin woman, duh! She also says go where you're most appreciated.
Whether we like it or not, it's been demonstrated by numbers. She actually preface it by saying this if you want to INCREASE your chances of landing HIGH value men. There are men who like natural, but they are few and far in-between. Of course Shera is with a Black man who chose an ambiguous, light skin woman, duh! She also says go where you're most appreciated.
I don’t think the number of high value men preferring natural hair is few and far in between in 2024. I think your natural hair actually grants you MORE access to high value men from my perspective because you stand out from the rest🤎