She has money she has more than what most people have she has the tools and money to have a good life there's people homeless that grew into living on the streets with drug parent's...or kids starving in other countries... Everyone has relationship problems and life problems but let's me honest there problems anit the end of the world she will get over it
I love Amara but she walked right into this. She needs to stop dating men that are broke and using her. Her mom tried to warn her, she needs to find therapy before finding another man. Her daddy issues have negatively impact her life and now she brought children into this
I think she left the man that God had ordained for her trying to listen to everyone else and she fell into temptation and left him for his friend because she thought he had more and was better looking and she got her karma back. This is just a lesson. Just because someone isn’t rich, it doesn’t mean that they’re not a good person and just because someone is good looking or has more money, it doesn’t mean they’re a good person for you
@@snake991231 Shay's brother? yeah he's another broken guy that's no good for her. Until she deals with her internal abandonment issues regarding her father, she will always choose someone like her father.
@@swaggadollent.chicago2052 I literally Prayed everyday, I was at GOD'S doorstep begging for every Ounce of MERCY. Because he knew how badly broken I was due to my kids dad cheating
Amara has been through sooooo much in life and love. She didn’t deserve this, her babies didn’t deserve this. Regardless, she continues to prove she is a GREAT mother and a GREAT woman. Those babies are so lucky and so loved.
I'm really mad with whoever took her joy and confidence she hasn't been the same since they was giving her hell about her hair. Eventually she changed the hair but drastically started loosing weight due to depression she was beautiful thick as hell still is just u can see the pain in her eyes
Amara literally has everything going for her to be settling for a man like her baby daddy but she hasn't done the internal healing work that she desperately needs. So until she deals with her abandonment issues regarding her father, she will always pick the same ain't shit man over and over again. My heart goes out to her and her precious little angels.
She knew he wasn’t shit before she got pregnant by him. So why be surprised when he ain’t shit WHILE your pregnant. Women need to learn how to pay attention to red flags. But anyways Amari looked like a Queen 👑👸🏾❤️ she’s such a flawless beauty
Yup! Her mother told her over and over not to have a baby with him and she didn’t listen then made it seem like her mom was bitter. Now she has to do it on her own.
This is the story of most Black women life unfortunately... Meet a man, he charms you, starts acting up because he is scared of the responsibility and fatherhood... You are now broken and turned into a bitter "baby mama" when you know deep down you are an amazing sweet woman that just wants proper love.... LADIES I KNOW TEMPTATION CAN BE HARD BUT PLEASEEEEEE MARRY BEFORE YOU CARRY!!! Get to know these men and not just their representatives. Children know when they are not made out of love, and when they come into this world unloved.... Please pray for her and her beautiful babies. I KNOW SHE IS NOT OK....
This is good,but even HUSBANDS act up. I've known more than a few MARRIED friends whose husbands of several years weren't exactly thrilled by pregnancy. I think it scares MOST men. But she clearly CHOSE wrong, she just wanted a baby so don't complain that the sperm donor isn't around. When men TELL you they don't want kids...THEY DON'T WANT KIDS. Seeing us pregnant, or feeling the baby move, isn't going to change that. Just prolong his departure. She did this to herself 🤷🏾♀️.
As a mother, I have to say had she listened to her well intentioned Mom she wouldn’t be in this position. He mother loves her and wanted to spare her the shame, struggle & pain of being a single mom! I truly wish her the very best because it’s not easy!
I love Amara. She deserves so much but sadly, everyone around her always keeps disappointing her (except her mother). I hope she does find happiness and strength in motherhood with her own children.
She has me in tears. It’s really sad these clowns (not men) can’t even do something so simple as just showing up. But she has a village so forget him. She looked absolutely amazing 🥰
Because he didn't see her as a queen. 1st she was with his friend then got with him,men STILL think a certain way about homie hoppers...men don't see us and think..." mother of my child" he was there to smash & grab $$.
@@imeldangadzania5212 HE also only seen her as ass🤷🏾♀️. That's fact.Yes she also didn't value herself but let's not act like just because its 2022 that men don't view some behavior as hoeish.🤷🏾♀️ Ok fine being called a slut, hoe, isn't shameful anymore but men STILL think that way. Women claim not to care what men think anymore. Ok cool, then when he leaves don't get upset acting like this.
I love Amara but accountability is needed here. You picked a man who had obvious traits of being a bad partner to be the father of your kids. Its not like he just switched after she got pregnant. What the hell was she expecting?
Exactly! She should've dropped his ass like a hot potato when he refused to drive her and her mom to the airport! He's self centered and beyond childish and that was just 1 of the major 🚩🚩that he showed before she got pregnant. Thankfully she's set up to be able to provide for her girls without him cuz I don't see him being much help, financial or otherwise.
Seems harsh, but the absolute truth. Pregnancy is when a woman should cut off toxic people, but unfortunately, most women do the exact opposite! They chase after toxicity, thinking the pregnancy will make the crazy person change. Pregnancy should be a happy time. Even if one is alone. For the sake of the baby’s happiness and well-being. Growing up happy, with a happy mother is WAY BETTER than growing up in a toxic unhappy drama filled family.
@@princesssophiawise3560 no ma'am....women should cut off toxic people before being pregnant...don't even get pregnant with men who you can clearly see are toxic. The signs were so obvious she always felt like he left her hanging so making babies with him was asinine.
When her mom was trying to warn her when they were just dating. I was thinking...I hope she doesn't get pregnant by that guy. Of course she did, she wasn't ready to let go and everyone can relate to that. I didn't want her to get pregnant by this guy because I knew he would keep on disappointing her.
@@imeldangadzania5212 I remember that video of her and her mother and I saw alot of the comments were saying oh her mother should stay out of it and let amara do what she wants and I was sorta like back and forth. Maybe her mother is right (I know my mom would of done the same), maybe Amara is right 🤷🏽 but when I saw another video of Amara and Allen together, I was like he's not the one but I also knew she wasn't ready to let go. It took time to build up that relationship and it'll take time to let it go
@@kburton129 according to MJ her ex…the foundation wasn’t solid because she homie-hopped. And I believe this is her karma. As a woman that’s no a reputation you’ll want for yourself out there .
This was a sad moment, I don't even know her but felt her pain. But girl don't cry you got this some men just aren't sh.t and you happen to get the one that wasn't worth it. But out of it you got two beautiful babies. And I'm sure you will be an amazing mom. Don't think about the negative, focus on the positive.
@@PORTERGYRL that's life hun, how many people try to warn people about things and they don't see It right then. I'm not here to bash her. I know she picked wrong my point was for her to stand tall, wipe her eyes and focus on the positive not the negative.
@@PORTERGYRL exactly she saw the red flags how he tried to change who she was & what she had going on so he could keep chasing his dreams while she abandons her dreams following behind him her mother tried to tell her if he really loved you he would make it work compromise & meet you halfway he wasn't willing to do that it was his way or no way & men tend to do what you allow if she allows him to abandon her then come back & do it all over again he will keep doing it with their children as well because she allows it when she was pregnant she should have put her foot down if your with me your with me if not send your support have a relationship with our children & leave it at that🤷🏽♀️
@@PORTERGYRL agreed but are you saying she shouldn't focus on the positive which is her kids and keep it moving. Cause that's my point, yes we know her mom told her about him and the last dude. And yes she obviously picks wrong men. But love I'm all about the pick up not put down. She looks like she's hurting enough all I'm saying is don't cry, pick your head up and look at the positive that's all hun.
She left Shay's brother just to end up with him. She's so beautiful and I think she deserves a lot better. Hopefully this will make her stronger and make wiser decisions when it comes to love.
I really hate that such a beautiful queen like Amara has gone through this. She did not deserve it one bit. She has two beautiful blessings and she is an incredible mother.
Honestly all I am is dissapointed,I hope she picks herself up but she knew exactly where this would lead and still chose this man to be the father now ,she is a baby mama with a bitter ex like so many others. Her mother warned her ,had she just listened.But I suppose the child is worth it🤷
I can tell you first hand that when you are hurt or traumatized in anyway during pregnancy that’s not something that leaves you easily and that’s if it ever leaves you. I had a terrible pregnancy and was completely stressed out so I know exactly how she is feeling but I am very proud of her for being the best mother she can be In spite of. That’s a true blessing congratulations on the beautiful twins amara
I was at this baby shower and I literally had to go into the bathroom to cry bc she broke my heart during her speech. She deserves so much better 😭 such a beautiful soul. Pero Dios sabe lo que hace mi reina. Always keep that beautiful chin up.
I wished she would take her time in relationships with men. When a man genuinely loves you theres no rush. This is what happens to alot of women who grow up without fathers. They seek love so quickly with men. When really they just wanted love from their fathers.
There were red flags from early on her relationship with shitty alan. Remember how he abandoned her on 1st pregnancy that end in abortion? Her worse mistake ever she should have left him then
@@jadeenuh Was looking for this comment! She didn't get the message God was trying to give her about the situation and now she literally doubled down on it.
I saw a comment that said she got back together with her baby daddy...😓 Please tell me you're lying 😓😓 this is why it's difficult to tell women they deserve better...if they don't believe it, they won't let themselves experience better. So if she gets played again then she deserves it.
My grandma always use to say be careful of a man that’s willing to lay down with you, have kids with you and always bring the subject of marriage last or never does. So thank God have listened and weeded out the losers and got married to my king for 8 yrs now before my twins so I feel for Amara. Nowadays, the majority of men ain’t shit! All they do is to create broken home to go rinse and repeat again. She looks beautiful and at least have people that love her and a great support for the kids.
My husband was at all of our baby showers. Can't feel sad for her when she was picked as the baby's daddy. Maybe some men feel like its a girly thing but should at least pop in and show face, love and support
Peace and blessings to her. I remember standing at my baby shower surrounded by my friends and family and feeling alone because my son’s father wasn’t there. It was heart breaking and I don’t wish that feeling on anyone
She’s so beautiful inside and out and my heart breaks for her. The strength she has to still put on such a brave front is unmatchable and I hope she finds a king that deserves her for his queen. ❤️
Shay's brother may not have been financially able to support her but he genuinely truly loved her. Sometimes it's not about money and he wouldn't have ever left her standing there by herself. Its hard to believe that she left him for what she ended up with...I just wish she could have looked beyond the money part!!
You sound crazy and it's sad how bw think. Men job are suppose to protect and provide. She shouldn't have dated neither one. Ladies learn how to have standards.
@@prettybarbie9273 Lol right, I'm like so ya'll are STILL choosing struggle either way. Having kids with a broke man is NO WAY to set up generational wealth.
Also wasn’t she the same one saying she wanted to be a single mother on the real. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ Idk why they putting out there they don’t want to be married and have kids in a family way. The right way.
Exactly! She said in the beginning of her pregnancy, she didn’t want the father involved with her children and wants to raise them without interference
Didn’t she make a post about how she just does EVERYthing for her man. Including scrubbing his house down/cleaning for him. Clearly being a maid for men hasn’t done much to improve her relationship with men
Man, I wish she could see herself the way we see her. This is a prime example of a beautiful woman who wasn't raised in an environment that encouraged her to love herself. The colorism she experienced as an Afro-Latina definitely impacted her and God knows what else.
I hated Allan, idk what Amara saw in him, he literally said he was too busy working when she had the miscarriage, then pulled up to her session with a sorry asss apology & not one freaking flower & let’s not forget when he couldn’t even drop off her at the airport 😮💨😤 he was a walking red flag
Her mother tried to tell her. She begged her not to do this. Will he be there to sign the birth certificate? Those poor babies do not need that stress.
I'm so sad that she still held out hope, even after the way he treated her during the other pregnancy. I pray she finds healing, strength, and happiness with her beautiful daughters.
I'm princess lol I was crying as soon as she started lol I hate that about myself.... every time I see someone hurting and crying it's like I instantly feel their pain
Amara reminders me of myself being alone and people letting her down. She lucky to have people showing up for her I don't really much people supporting me or even showing up for me. I also have twins..I wish her the best of her beautiful twin babies xxx
I want to understand what man she thought she was getting. He back-doored his own friend. And shes so sad here acting like she doesn’t know how it got to this point. She seems to be one of those people who will do some grimy shit and then act like they don’t know why their life is going poorly.
I bet you if she got pregnant for shay's brother he would Definitely be there at the baby shower and support her no matter what. Amara lost a good man she was listening to many people who were not her friends. Amara was more concerned about his credentials🤔 Sometimes it's not about money it's how the person treats you!
Amara if you are reading this , I hope the best for you , I hope you get everything you deserve, you work so hard and loved hard ,you deserve every blessing for you and your children.
Clearly I’ve missed quite a bit but I thought they broke up when she decided to stay in Miami. I mean from that scene when he walked away- like girl open your eyes that’s not a man you want to have kids with. Like why do all these women do this? They see major red flags but say hey I’ll have a kid and see how it goes 🤦🏻♀️
I love you Amara but if the man ain't really want you like that he hit it and then you didn't want live in the country he wanted and started ignoring you so why would he be at the baby shower. I'm sorry 😞 that happened because the babies have nothing to do with that but you knew he wasn't shit. It's just a learning experience really get to know someone before you start a family with them
I love how the women in these comments are all like "You knew he was a bad partner beforehand", "You should've listened to your mom", and "Men ain't shit", but y'all deadass be putting yourselves in these exact same situations all the time. Make it make sense.
@@sirental777 cause she saw all this..she saw he was a bum way beforehand..and what does she do? Get pregnant by him..he’s a bum and she’s a idiot..y’all need to learn how to share the blame..he didn’t FORCE her to carry his babies..she knew he wasn’t shit..her momma knew he wasn’t shit..but she STILL got pregnant by him so..yea she’s a moron and he’s a scrub
@@sirental777 remember when he left her last time when she had a miscarriage? And he came late and lied? Guess what she does after he pretty much showed her he’s a bum and doesn’t respect her? She lets him in her womb AGAIN!! So yea you can scream men ain’t ish til you blue in the face but hey facts are facts..
That’s so sad I don’t think as people we relies how harmful our decisions in life are to us and even our unborn children this is why we have to take precautions in choosing who we pick to do life with. This women should not be standing there by herself but now her choice has bought her pain instead of joy. No we can’t always see people for who they are but this is the very reason why we were made to do life with God and not by ourselves.
I'm tired of these women acting like victims. How many times we going to do this. If you don't want to be a single mother get married first. Nothing is guaranteed with these men with no commitment.
I say the same thing but damn how old are you suppose to wait 35 is geriatric pregnancy. So many women expect to be married by 30 and the ones that want kids become desperate.
being in a room full of people that love you and to still feel lonely is a horrible feeling..... i hope she finds her peace and happiness
Hope she finds piece there's people with real problems
@@jasminelaceyfitz1724 Boohooo, poor them.
Ask Jesus to talk to you through people .. bible verses .. coincidence and things like that also .. you gotta listen and give him all your attention🥰
She brought it upon herself
She has money she has more than what most people have she has the tools and money to have a good life there's people homeless that grew into living on the streets with drug parent's...or kids starving in other countries... Everyone has relationship problems and life problems but let's me honest there problems anit the end of the world she will get over it
I love Amara but she walked right into this. She needs to stop dating men that are broke and using her. Her mom tried to warn her, she needs to find therapy before finding another man. Her daddy issues have negatively impact her life and now she brought children into this
I think she left the man that God had ordained for her trying to listen to everyone else and she fell into temptation and left him for his friend because she thought he had more and was better looking and she got her karma back. This is just a lesson. Just because someone isn’t rich, it doesn’t mean that they’re not a good person and just because someone is good looking or has more money, it doesn’t mean they’re a good person for you
@@isaidwhatisaidsis
If you’re referring to the guy that was living with her 🥴 I honestly don’t think he was good for her either.
Exactly, and then she chose to keep the children knowing he wasn't going to be involved.
@@snake991231 Shay's brother? yeah he's another broken guy that's no good for her. Until she deals with her internal abandonment issues regarding her father, she will always choose someone like her father.
@@jazzyamerson6172 Some people don’t want to or have trouble ending a pregnancy just because the father doesn’t want to be involved.
Pregnancy is the most fragile moment in a woman's life. Sad that she was stressing to the point her stomach was cramping
Yeaa I’m stressing too! But the devil is on attack mode
I've been there and if it weren't for me Praying EVERYDAY, I would've loss my Angel. ❤️
@@MizzTrinieFyre yes! Same God’s mercy ❤️
@@swaggadollent.chicago2052 I literally Prayed everyday, I was at GOD'S doorstep begging for every Ounce of MERCY. Because he knew how badly broken I was due to my kids dad cheating
That’s her fault. No one made her stress. She choose to do that.
Amara has been through sooooo much in life and love. She didn’t deserve this, her babies didn’t deserve this. Regardless, she continues to prove she is a GREAT mother and a GREAT woman. Those babies are so lucky and so loved.
I'm really mad with whoever took her joy and confidence she hasn't been the same since they was giving her hell about her hair. Eventually she changed the hair but drastically started loosing weight due to depression she was beautiful thick as hell still is just u can see the pain in her eyes
I think this is blessing because now she have two babies that is going to give her the love that she deserve
A lot of us dont deserve it. But gotta have strong faith and hope.
:Right now Have a long talk with Jesus and put work into it .. have faith in Him and trust in Him and see how your life will change 💕💞🥰🥰
She chose it like a lot of women choose this life what what is wrong with y’all
Amara literally has everything going for her to be settling for a man like her baby daddy but she hasn't done the internal healing work that she desperately needs. So until she deals with her abandonment issues regarding her father, she will always pick the same ain't shit man over and over again. My heart goes out to her and her precious little angels.
Very true
Exactly! 🙌🏻
Well said
Couldn't agree more spot on!💯💯💯
Exactly!! Absolutely correct. We often go towards our trauma rather then away from it
She knew he wasn’t shit before she got pregnant by him. So why be surprised when he ain’t shit WHILE your pregnant. Women need to learn how to pay attention to red flags. But anyways Amari looked like a Queen 👑👸🏾❤️ she’s such a flawless beauty
Yup! Her mother told her over and over not to have a baby with him and she didn’t listen then made it seem like her mom was bitter. Now she has to do it on her own.
This👆🏽💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Exactlyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy.
You can’t teach people anything that they don’t want to learn.
Mind u Alan is MJ n his family friend MJ n his brother Joe was in Alan wedding
This is the story of most Black women life unfortunately... Meet a man, he charms you, starts acting up because he is scared of the responsibility and fatherhood... You are now broken and turned into a bitter "baby mama" when you know deep down you are an amazing sweet woman that just wants proper love.... LADIES I KNOW TEMPTATION CAN BE HARD BUT PLEASEEEEEE MARRY BEFORE YOU CARRY!!! Get to know these men and not just their representatives. Children know when they are not made out of love, and when they come into this world unloved.... Please pray for her and her beautiful babies. I KNOW SHE IS NOT OK....
All of this!
Don’t forget, she willingly wanted to become a single mom when she found out when she was pregnant
@@Mindyobusiness89 yep she even said she'd be fine without him.
@@irieblaise7813 and now she’s shocked that he’s like that. There’s obviously things behind the scenes we don’t see and stuff she probably told him
This is good,but even HUSBANDS act up. I've known more than a few MARRIED friends whose husbands of several years weren't exactly thrilled by pregnancy. I think it scares MOST men.
But she clearly CHOSE wrong, she just wanted a baby so don't complain that the sperm donor isn't around. When men TELL you they don't want kids...THEY DON'T WANT KIDS. Seeing us pregnant, or feeling the baby move, isn't going to change that. Just prolong his departure. She did this to herself 🤷🏾♀️.
As a mother, I have to say had she listened to her well intentioned Mom she wouldn’t be in this position.
He mother loves her and wanted to spare her the shame, struggle & pain of being a single mom!
I truly wish her the very best because it’s not easy!
Yeah the mom warned her because she was her.
Mhm facts
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾this part! Her mom told her HE WOULD DO this...NOW they have 2 MORE WOMEN in that family with absent father....the cycle continues.....
I don’t have a mother I’m pregnant
I love Amara. She deserves so much but sadly, everyone around her always keeps disappointing her (except her mother). I hope she does find happiness and strength in motherhood with her own children.
:Right now Have a long talk with Jesus and put work into it .. have faith in Him and trust in Him and see how your life will change 💕💞🥰🥰
@@brookwilson1858 Ummmm... what???? Lol girl, I was talking about Amara, not me 🤣🤣🤣
Someone will love her and treat her good one day.
She's a bum magnet with no discernment and no father active in her life, serving as a filter or sifter.
She also disappoints herself. Y’all need to hold people accountable
She has me in tears. It’s really sad these clowns (not men) can’t even do something so simple as just showing up. But she has a village so forget him. She looked absolutely amazing 🥰
Who is that Allan? Is that her dad or bd?
@@ericalashay0209 I just discovered it’s the Bd. I don’t feel bad for her.
I don’t feel bad for her! She chose that man. She is grown woman. You have to take accountability at some point.
@@emmanuellafrimpong5245 I don't think she's waiting for your sympathy
She's a clown right with her mother, trying to force this man to be in a family, and now who's the clown because he will not bend to their 'BS'...
She looks like a goddess. How do you not show up for a queen. She deserves so much better.
Because he didn't see her as a queen. 1st she was with his friend then got with him,men STILL think a certain way about homie hoppers...men don't see us and think..." mother of my child" he was there to smash & grab $$.
@@louisenairpyc6813 who’s friend? I’m confused
@@louisenairpyc6813 she didn’t see herself as a queen. MJ was still a better candidate for her.
@@Rachelinelove Allen & Emj were friends. He was pissed, she thought allen was " better "....
@@imeldangadzania5212 HE also only seen her as ass🤷🏾♀️. That's fact.Yes she also didn't value herself but let's not act like just because its 2022 that men don't view some behavior as hoeish.🤷🏾♀️ Ok fine being called a slut, hoe, isn't shameful anymore but men STILL think that way. Women claim not to care what men think anymore. Ok cool, then when he leaves don't get upset acting like this.
I love Amara but accountability is needed here. You picked a man who had obvious traits of being a bad partner to be the father of your kids. Its not like he just switched after she got pregnant. What the hell was she expecting?
HELLO!
Exactly! She should've dropped his ass like a hot potato when he refused to drive her and her mom to the airport! He's self centered and beyond childish and that was just 1 of the major 🚩🚩that he showed before she got pregnant. Thankfully she's set up to be able to provide for her girls without him cuz I don't see him being much help, financial or otherwise.
Seems harsh, but the absolute truth. Pregnancy is when a woman should cut off toxic people, but unfortunately, most women do the exact opposite! They chase after toxicity, thinking the pregnancy will make the crazy person change. Pregnancy should be a happy time. Even if one is alone. For the sake of the baby’s happiness and well-being. Growing up happy, with a happy mother is WAY BETTER than growing up in a toxic unhappy drama filled family.
Exactly,I refuse to feel sorry for her,protect your womb .
@@princesssophiawise3560 no ma'am....women should cut off toxic people before being pregnant...don't even get pregnant with men who you can clearly see are toxic. The signs were so obvious she always felt like he left her hanging so making babies with him was asinine.
When her mom was trying to warn her when they were just dating. I was thinking...I hope she doesn't get pregnant by that guy. Of course she did, she wasn't ready to let go and everyone can relate to that. I didn't want her to get pregnant by this guy because I knew he would keep on disappointing her.
I was looking for this comment. THANK YOU
Thank youuuuuuu. I was screaming at my screen listen to your mother amara. She knows what she talking about. Even MJ was way better than this scammer.
@@imeldangadzania5212 I remember that video of her and her mother and I saw alot of the comments were saying oh her mother should stay out of it and let amara do what she wants and I was sorta like back and forth. Maybe her mother is right (I know my mom would of done the same), maybe Amara is right 🤷🏽 but when I saw another video of Amara and Allen together, I was like he's not the one but I also knew she wasn't ready to let go. It took time to build up that relationship and it'll take time to let it go
@@kburton129 according to MJ her ex…the foundation wasn’t solid because she homie-hopped. And I believe this is her karma. As a woman that’s no a reputation you’ll want for yourself out there .
@@imeldangadzania5212 oh I didnt know that. I thought they broke up because he wasn't working.
So many women expect to be married by 30 and the ones that want kids become desperate.
This is so true.
This was a sad moment, I don't even know her but felt her pain. But girl don't cry you got this some men just aren't sh.t and you happen to get the one that wasn't worth it. But out of it you got two beautiful babies. And I'm sure you will be an amazing mom. Don't think about the negative, focus on the positive.
Her mom tried to warn her
@@PORTERGYRL that's life hun, how many people try to warn people about things and they don't see It right then. I'm not here to bash her. I know she picked wrong my point was for her to stand tall, wipe her eyes and focus on the positive not the negative.
@@PORTERGYRL exactly she saw the red flags how he tried to change who she was & what she had going on so he could keep chasing his dreams while she abandons her dreams following behind him her mother tried to tell her if he really loved you he would make it work compromise & meet you halfway he wasn't willing to do that it was his way or no way & men tend to do what you allow if she allows him to abandon her then come back & do it all over again he will keep doing it with their children as well because she allows it when she was pregnant she should have put her foot down if your with me your with me if not send your support have a relationship with our children & leave it at that🤷🏽♀️
@@nmcclarence Na sis, at a certain age that's choices
@@PORTERGYRL agreed but are you saying she shouldn't focus on the positive which is her kids and keep it moving. Cause that's my point, yes we know her mom told her about him and the last dude. And yes she obviously picks wrong men. But love I'm all about the pick up not put down. She looks like she's hurting enough all I'm saying is don't cry, pick your head up and look at the positive that's all hun.
She left Shay's brother just to end up with him. She's so beautiful and I think she deserves a lot better. Hopefully this will make her stronger and make wiser decisions when it comes to love.
Exactly my same thought smh
Talking about he didn’t have enough money. He still helped and wasn’t a piece of shit. I’ll take shays brother over Allen.
Alan was MJ friend 🤦🏾♀️
Right now she getting what she wanted smh
Yeeeessss Shay's brother was amazing to her
Sometimes we end up repeating our childhood trauma. She grew up without a dad and now her child won't have a father either.
I really hate that such a beautiful queen like Amara has gone through this. She did not deserve it one bit. She has two beautiful blessings and she is an incredible mother.
Honestly all I am is dissapointed,I hope she picks herself up but she knew exactly where this would lead and still chose this man to be the father now ,she is a baby mama with a bitter ex like so many others. Her mother warned her ,had she just listened.But I suppose the child is worth it🤷
I can tell you first hand that when you are hurt or traumatized in anyway during pregnancy that’s not something that leaves you easily and that’s if it ever leaves you. I had a terrible pregnancy and was completely stressed out so I know exactly how she is feeling but I am very proud of her for being the best mother she can be In spite of. That’s a true blessing congratulations on the beautiful twins amara
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@@missblak00 💗
It also affects the baby
So true! One of the things I still need to work on is pregnancy trauma that I went through.
@@thatbeaatcch9884 Very much so.😔
Mami Ana is always front and center for her baby girl-BELIEVE THAT! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️❤️
I was at this baby shower and I literally had to go into the bathroom to cry bc she broke my heart during her speech. She deserves so much better 😭 such a beautiful soul. Pero Dios sabe lo que hace mi reina. Always keep that beautiful chin up.
When your pregnant and someone wrongs you, you will never forget. Or even forgive!! I know the pain!!
I wished she would take her time in relationships with men. When a man genuinely loves you theres no rush. This is what happens to alot of women who grow up without fathers. They seek love so quickly with men. When really they just wanted love from their fathers.
Princess Love has come a long long way. I'm so happy she's matured, and I think she's a really great mother.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾💙🙏🏾
There were red flags from early on her relationship with shitty alan. Remember how he abandoned her on 1st pregnancy that end in abortion? Her worse mistake ever she should have left him then
I agree
I think she had a miscarriage, because she said she didn’t want an abortion. But I agree with everything else.
@@jazzy5410 the fact that God had her and then she made the same mistake again!!!!!!!!
@@jadeenuh Was looking for this comment! She didn't get the message God was trying to give her about the situation and now she literally doubled down on it.
Right I don't understand how she ended up pregnant again
I saw a comment that said she got back together with her baby daddy...😓
Please tell me you're lying 😓😓 this is why it's difficult to tell women they deserve better...if they don't believe it, they won't let themselves experience better.
So if she gets played again then she deserves it.
She will still take him back just like every other insecure women.
Shut up
exactly. that's why I don't feel bad.
they are actually back together, apparently.
Funny you used that word because the name of her song from season 1 is “Insecure”.
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She is GLOWING!! I feel for her! She didn’t deserve what Allan did! But I’m glad they have an amazing and loving mother! ❤
Yes she does she fucked her ex man friend and then try to embarrass him that he was broke y’all really acting amara is such a innocent queen foh
My grandma always use to say be careful of a man that’s willing to lay down with you, have kids with you and always bring the subject of marriage last or never does. So thank God have listened and weeded out the losers and got married to my king for 8 yrs now before my twins so I feel for Amara. Nowadays, the majority of men ain’t shit! All they do is to create broken home to go rinse and repeat again. She looks beautiful and at least have people that love her and a great support for the kids.
As soon as she started to break down..... damn it I did too. Smh
Same !!
Women never forget how you made them feel when they were pregnant ‼️
Yes! Thanks
They should be focusing on the obvious red flags before getting pregnant
She knew he wasn’t worth a damn
Poor thing she ignored the red flags last season. Wish her and the babies all the best.
From losing a triplet to Allan (ass) not showing up .. to people not being allowed to attend .. she deserves grace
Amara is stunning. Pure chocolate
Amara's beauty is underrated. So gorgeous
My husband was at all of our baby showers. Can't feel sad for her when she was picked as the baby's daddy. Maybe some men feel like its a girly thing but should at least pop in and show face, love and support
😂😂 I love amara friend "do u want me to be here or here"
Lady about to stop her "Nope, let her get her people!"
She clearly chose a bad man and it was her ex's friend. You can't expect good things to blossom from bad roots. Common sense.
Peace and blessings to her. I remember standing at my baby shower surrounded by my friends and family and feeling alone because my son’s father wasn’t there. It was heart breaking and I don’t wish that feeling on anyone
I’m sos key no one deserves that
Awww men can be demons sometimes. Sorry you had to go through that
She’s so beautiful inside and out and my heart breaks for her. The strength she has to still put on such a brave front is unmatchable and I hope she finds a king that deserves her for his queen. ❤️
Shay's brother may not have been financially able to support her but he genuinely truly loved her. Sometimes it's not about money and he wouldn't have ever left her standing there by herself. Its hard to believe that she left him for what she ended up with...I just wish she could have looked beyond the money part!!
HELLO 👋🏾
I would have chosen him ANYDAY over this other one.
@@TewasaSonko ...U damn right she let the good one get away🤦🏾♀️
You sound crazy and it's sad how bw think. Men job are suppose to protect and provide. She shouldn't have dated neither one. Ladies learn how to have standards.
@@prettybarbie9273 Lol right, I'm like so ya'll are STILL choosing struggle either way. Having kids with a broke man is NO WAY to set up generational wealth.
@@prettybarbie9273 exactly
Lmaooooo screaming girl she knew wasn’t coming lol
I absolutely love her and her mother's relationship. Her mother is always there for her to hold her down. That's what's up!! 💞🥰💪🏾
She chose to listen to a stranger over her mother and you guys are feeling bad for her? Could never be me lol
You are not perfect
I don't feel bad at ALL for this woman. She had soo many warnings, chances and reasons to not have kids with Allan. Good luck girl ✌🏾
Facts# Her mama told her about him
Like frfr
Also wasn’t she the same one saying she wanted to be a single mother on the real. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Idk why they putting out there they don’t want to be married and have kids in a family way. The right way.
Exactly! She said in the beginning of her pregnancy, she didn’t want the father involved with her children and wants to raise them without interference
We have to be careful bc the tongue is powerful. She got what she manifested.
Didn’t she make a post about how she just does EVERYthing for her man. Including scrubbing his house down/cleaning for him. Clearly being a maid for men hasn’t done much to improve her relationship with men
Those little girls are all the happiness she needs and she is all the happiness they need. She's blessed
May none of us ever go through this. She's so strong but she shouldn't have to be 🧡
And twin girls came out beautiful and healthy and strong
Man, I wish she could see herself the way we see her. This is a prime example of a beautiful woman who wasn't raised in an environment that encouraged her to love herself. The colorism she experienced as an Afro-Latina definitely impacted her and God knows what else.
I hated Allan, idk what Amara saw in him, he literally said he was too busy working when she had the miscarriage, then pulled up to her session with a sorry asss apology & not one freaking flower & let’s not forget when he couldn’t even drop off her at the airport 😮💨😤 he was a walking red flag
Her mother tried to tell her. She begged her not to do this. Will he be there to sign the birth certificate? Those poor babies do not need that stress.
I'm so sad that she still held out hope, even after the way he treated her during the other pregnancy. I pray she finds healing, strength, and happiness with her beautiful daughters.
her fault for putting her all in someone who wasn’t there to begin with ! HER MOM TRIED WARNING HER BUT SHE DIDNT WANT TO LISTEN !
She should of stayed with shays brother. He may not make all the money but he definitely adored her.
And this exactly why I tell every women I know to STOP having kids with these fools!
This is EXACTLY what her mother did not want for her!
Amara is so beautiful I will never understand how can a man treat her like that 😔what's wrong with men
I'm princess lol I was crying as soon as she started lol I hate that about myself.... every time I see someone hurting and crying it's like I instantly feel their pain
bc you’re an empath❤️
She did oh boy dirty and now karma is like "how ya been"... Lmao
guys can be so fucking childsh at any age when they flip out when it starts to sink in that u really gonna be a parent...
Cuz they don’t care
In all honesty, this is the fanciest but also the coldest, most impersonal shower I’ve seen.
Her mom tried to warn her!
She so freaking Gorgeous 😍
Amara reminders me of myself being alone and people letting her down. She lucky to have people showing up for her I don't really much people supporting me or even showing up for me. I also have twins..I wish her the best of her beautiful twin babies xxx
And I bet you are a wonderful person and mother
@@victoriasquest3594 thank you .I'm good person just not appreciated
Well I salute you from one single mother to another! Stay strong sister
@@erinjohnson4273 ❤️ thank you xxx
@@deegray87 I feel the same most of the time
Beautiful woman!!
I want to understand what man she thought she was getting. He back-doored his own friend. And shes so sad here acting like she doesn’t know how it got to this point. She seems to be one of those people who will do some grimy shit and then act like they don’t know why their life is going poorly.
Amara is by far my favorite person in all of LHH. She is drop dead gorgeous and almost always happy. Hate seeing her get done that way. Smh
I bet you if she got pregnant for shay's brother he would Definitely be there at the baby shower and support her no matter what. Amara lost a good man she was listening to many people who were not her friends. Amara was more concerned about his credentials🤔 Sometimes it's not about money it's how the person treats you!
Nah he was a bum too
@@Lenasevilla-yb4ei And so what at least he treated her good.
he was a bum living off her fuck that treating good y'all women so used to struggle y'all take anybody that's nice to y'all sad
Amara needs to live unapologetically. She’s too beautiful for all this
Its not all about looks.
Amara looks like ancient Egyptian goddess status
Amara is really naive sometimes.
Princess crying with her ❤️ A friend who hurts when you hurt is a true friend
She made me cry. Damn you Allan
Lord we really need to stop being baby mamas
Amara if you are reading this , I hope the best for you , I hope you get everything you deserve, you work so hard and loved hard ,you deserve every blessing for you and your children.
She is not reading this
Amara is the most prettiest person ive ever seen
Clearly I’ve missed quite a bit but I thought they broke up when she decided to stay in Miami. I mean from that scene when he walked away- like girl open your eyes that’s not a man you want to have kids with. Like why do all these women do this? They see major red flags but say hey I’ll have a kid and see how it goes 🤦🏻♀️
I was not expecting this video to bring tears to my eyes 🥺😩.
Amara walked right into this one. I wish she listened to her momma.
I love you Amara but if the man ain't really want you like that he hit it and then you didn't want live in the country he wanted and started ignoring you so why would he be at the baby shower. I'm sorry 😞 that happened because the babies have nothing to do with that but you knew he wasn't shit. It's just a learning experience really get to know someone before you start a family with them
As stressful as this was , she looked beautiful and strong walking down that stage with just her and her twin girls ❤️
I love how the women in these comments are all like "You knew he was a bad partner beforehand", "You should've listened to your mom", and "Men ain't shit", but y'all deadass be putting yourselves in these exact same situations all the time. Make it make sense.
Amara was very raw about her life. And it takes alot of guts to even talk about what happened to her. I think she is a strong women.
Imagine missing such a beautiful day for your babies . It’s pathetic
Father pls don't give me a man that won't be through it with me and the kids. Amen
Baby father not there because he’s with his wife that you knew about!
Im sick and tayerd of this irresponsible men, making babies and can’t show up, so over them!!
So..it’s all the man’s fault? Lol that’s rich lol
@@kingnoire9587 how is it not… the mother is there. he’s another dude that got a girl he was with pregnant just to abandon her. do t do that.
@@sirental777 cause she saw all this..she saw he was a bum way beforehand..and what does she do? Get pregnant by him..he’s a bum and she’s a idiot..y’all need to learn how to share the blame..he didn’t FORCE her to carry his babies..she knew he wasn’t shit..her momma knew he wasn’t shit..but she STILL got pregnant by him so..yea she’s a moron and he’s a scrub
@@sirental777 remember when he left her last time when she had a miscarriage? And he came late and lied? Guess what she does after he pretty much showed her he’s a bum and doesn’t respect her? She lets him in her womb AGAIN!! So yea you can scream men ain’t ish til you blue in the face but hey facts are facts..
I bet this person thinks spoons make you fat and guns kill people lol
2things a guy she never miss out the baby shower (< unless you can't take off from work), & the birth of YOUR CHILDREN
That’s so sad I don’t think as people we relies how harmful our decisions in life are to us and even our unborn children this is why we have to take precautions in choosing who we pick to do life with. This women should not be standing there by herself but now her choice has bought her pain instead of joy. No we can’t always see people for who they are but this is the very reason why we were made to do life with God and not by ourselves.
We’ll her mom told her from jump like … not to be insensitive but the red flags were very apparent. Her mom was right from jump
She is gorgeous & was glowing her entire pregnancy ❤️🥰
1:26 That voice over was definitely added in post XD
I'm tired of these women acting like victims. How many times we going to do this. If you don't want to be a single mother get married first. Nothing is guaranteed with these men with no commitment.
I say the same thing but damn how old are you suppose to wait 35 is geriatric pregnancy. So many women expect to be married by 30 and the ones that want kids become desperate.
@@daisyb4614 both of ya'll right 🤣
Safaree and Erica were married before their daughter was born. The commitment of marriage isn’t always enough unfortunately
You can be married and still be a single mom
@@solaira3154 But we all knew that "marriage" wasn't gonna last so they're not a very good example
Awwww, tears in my eyes.
I genuinely feel bad but come on now, how many times we need for a Man to show us he just doesn’t care! I’m not Surprised he wasn’t there!
At the end of the day she does have that abandonment from her father so this hurt even moreeeee
Now see!! MJ NEVER would've done her like that and y'all know it. I say she let him be the pappy to her girls.
Karma for how she treated the man that really loved her then sleeping with the family friend she met through him.