Our ORTHODOX JEWISH WEDDING | Sephardi Jewish Wedding l Orthodox Jewish Mom (Jar of Fireflies)

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  • Опубликовано: 3 фев 2025

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  • @jaroffireflies
    @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +115

    I’d love to hear what you think! Was there anything that surprised you?

    • @khazermashkes2316
      @khazermashkes2316 3 года назад +8

      I hadn’t realized that you are Sephardi!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +7

      @@khazermashkes2316 oh yes! I’m Sephardi 😊

    • @katherinerafferty5800
      @katherinerafferty5800 3 года назад +6

      Why didnt your mother and sister not walk with to your future hubby...is it because they are not Jewish?

    • @rosemaryperez4932
      @rosemaryperez4932 3 года назад +16

      Love your wedding story. So special! You looked so beautiful. Love what your mother in law did to the dress. Amazing work. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @katherinefellows3382
      @katherinefellows3382 3 года назад +9

      Super interesting video. Loved the pictures. Big smiles all round 😀

  • @Mpummpum
    @Mpummpum 3 года назад +227

    The way he looks at you! Like his entire world is in your eyes.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +20

      Aw thank you :)

    • @خوخة-ص4ض
      @خوخة-ص4ض 3 года назад +11

      that's true hhhhhhh

    • @Myloveforyou.
      @Myloveforyou. 2 года назад +1

      Everything was beautiful❤. May I ask what is the background music in your videos? Love it.

  • @MsMarta57
    @MsMarta57 3 года назад +29

    You’ve become a very intimate part of my morning. Just you and me and several thousand of your RUclips family. My husband passed away 11 years ago past August, so sharing your family with me means a lot especially when I’m feeling alone. Please know you’re so much more than entertainment, you’re a joyful bundle of goodness.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +3

      Thank you so much for your lovely comment Marta! This means so much to me 💜💜💜 I am so glad that you’re here 💜

    • @MsMarta57
      @MsMarta57 3 года назад +2

      @@jaroffireflies me too. I needed company and you got the bill perfectly

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +2

      @@MsMarta57 I’m so very glad to hear that thank you so much 💜💜💜

    • @YT_vrguy
      @YT_vrguy Год назад

      I totally agree! Chana feels like a friend and is so good for my soul. Chana- you inspire me to be the best version of myself! ❤

  • @sarahfarrell8214
    @sarahfarrell8214 Год назад +9

    Chana, you were a beautiful bride. You're so correct, your mother-in-law is amazing! I love the outtakes at the end of your videos, they're so funny! Thank you for sharing your beautiful day with us!

  • @co99er9enny
    @co99er9enny Год назад +7

    I love you and your family! I am a 77 year old grandma from Oklahoma, USA. I most usually watch you on my TV. You have a beautiful smile and such pretty eyes! No wonder your husband fell for you! And he is also sooo handsome! 😊 May God continue to bless your lovely family!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Год назад +2

      Thank you so much! I’m so glad you’re here!!!

  • @martaupward5992
    @martaupward5992 11 месяцев назад +4

    This perhaps the third or fourth time I have watched this because you shared your day so beautifully. Thank you, Chana. Beautiful bride/Handsome groom. Delightful traditions.

  • @gayleford8277
    @gayleford8277 3 года назад +132

    Your MIL did a fabulous job on your dress, it is absolutely beautiful as were you and your husband.....you still are.......loved hearing the different traditions for your wedding. Sounds wonderfully exhausting! All in a good way. Thank you for sharing. Cheers from Canada....

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +8

      Thank you Gayle! I’m so glad you enjoyed and thanks for your kind words :)

    • @bluemayim
      @bluemayim 3 года назад +9

      i agree, that dress is fantastic!

    • @mayfleur36
      @mayfleur36 3 года назад +3

      Chana, you looked stunning ❤️

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +4

      @@mayfleur36 thank you 😊

  • @CatFromFL
    @CatFromFL 3 года назад +79

    You looked so beautiful. Your husbands’ happiness shows in his eyes. I was awestuck by seeing what your mother-in-law made from the 10 yr old used halter topped wedding gown. She is a very talented Renaissance Woman - your gown is the most beautiful modest style gown i have ever seen. There are several religions that prefer modest gowns and they could use yours as a gorgeous design. I also noticed your mil’s dress ( at least i think that was her feeding you wine) that aqua gown was also stunning. When my family (10 siblings) have had weddings its very similar in everyone contributing-“ many hands make light work” (and delicious food) So glad you shared such a joyous occasion with us.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +20

      My mother in law made my dress as well as her own and each of my sisters in law’s dresses! She’s an amazing seamstress

    • @chriswatson1698
      @chriswatson1698 2 года назад

      It is a very Christian wedding gown. It was Queen Victoria who set the fashion for white wedding dresses. Seems incongruous at a Jewish Orthodox wedding.

  • @ronangoforth3081
    @ronangoforth3081 3 года назад +69

    This was so lovely! My partner is Ashkenazi and I am converting through the Conservative movement, but am half-Syrian so when we do get married I want to incorporate some Sephardi and Mizrahi traditions into our ceremony and reception. I loved seeing the kaftan your MIL sewed!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +22

      So fun! Good luck on your journey and all your exciting upcoming life events!

    • @walleras
      @walleras 2 года назад

      Conservative Judaism is fake Judaism
      Dont be an ashkephard

    • @rabkit5542
      @rabkit5542 2 года назад

      Conservative are not Jews

  • @marydrummond8832
    @marydrummond8832 Год назад +2

    10 October 2023 Tuesday . I am praying for you and your Husband and Family . And everyone .🙏💗💙
    Thinking about you and your Family . ❤

  • @lucilleward806
    @lucilleward806 11 месяцев назад +1

    You looked so beautiful, and your husband is so handsome. The best part is that you both where so happy.

  • @annatracy757
    @annatracy757 3 года назад +6

    How amazing that your Mother-in-law recreated your wedding dress and she did a beautiful job!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +2

      Thank you! She is a woman of many talents

  • @lynnyarnold4422
    @lynnyarnold4422 3 года назад +57

    This is one of the most beautiful, sacred marriage union celebrations I've ever seen! Just radiates such JOY! TY for uploading this.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +6

      Thank you so much and you are so welcome!

  • @debbestify
    @debbestify 3 года назад +16

    What a lovely bride! And I can't help but notice ten years after your wedding day, you are still glowing with love, it's all over your face and in your happy eyes! So very nice to see!

  • @manuelamootsy6871
    @manuelamootsy6871 2 года назад +2

    Are ALL Orthodox Jewish women so beautiful? I mean, your beauty comes through your words, actions, the way you present everything.

  • @felicitaforever1
    @felicitaforever1 3 года назад +16

    Chana, this video made me so emotional. It was the happiness on your faces and the sense of community which reminded me of home. I’m from India but live elsewhere now. Back in the old days, weddings used to be like this where the entire community would come together to help celebrate the occasion. Also, it is so interesting to see similarities in different traditions. Such as the henna ceremony, it is such an Indian thing as many Hindu communities (not all) do that as well. The tradition of the bride circling 7 times that you mentioned sounds so much like how Hindus do 7 circles (both bride and groom) around the fire to pledge their allegiance to each other. And not to mention your MIL sewing skills, I could not tell that the dress you wore was a halter neck!! Thank you for this beautiful video Chana and I hope you keep smiling and spreading joy always. 🙃☺️

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +5

      Thank you! I’m so glad you enjoyed ❤️ Thank you for your kind words and your sweet comment

  • @louiseblondin2824
    @louiseblondin2824 3 года назад +4

    Your wedding dress is absolutely gorgeous ! Like you I don't like being around hords of people but the look on your husband's face, priceless

  • @user-st3nk9ui9j
    @user-st3nk9ui9j 3 года назад +40

    I have always loved wedding dresses with long sleeves! And yes to small weddings, marriages and funerals are huge events here in Ireland with hundreds of people typically attending but I find them overwhelming as an introvert.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +10

      Yes!!! I’m a fellow introvert and it’s a LOT. Weddings are typically huge here for us Jews.

    • @DeliaLRuiz
      @DeliaLRuiz 3 года назад +6

      As an introvert, large groups of people, or anything, gets me anxious too. Prayers for extroverts learn to understand about people like us.

  • @hanab837
    @hanab837 3 года назад +8

    My three year old son watched this video with me, and when he saw the first picture of you with your veil he said, "She's an ice princess!" Then he saw a picture of you and your husband and said, "Oh.... they are getting married. Are they getting married?" So cute!! Absolutely beautiful photos. It is so fun to look back on a wedding day. ❤ My husband and I are celebrating 16 years this November. I will have to pull out my wedding photos. 😊

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +3

      Oh my gosh that’s just the cutest! So adorable! Thanks for sharing 💜

  • @cynhanrahan4012
    @cynhanrahan4012 2 года назад +2

    So I'm going to watch back about you being a convert. It does explain a blue eyed Sephardi, but here is my first surprise on your channel. :) I started following near the birth of your 4th child. Oh my goodness, your dress is lovely, your flowers are beautiful. I cry at weddings. When you started your pictures so did my tears. Your wedding was beautiful. Lol the outtakes.

  • @roseyc.5846
    @roseyc.5846 3 года назад +40

    Chana, I am crying real tears! First, because your husband reminded me of mine when I met him..same coloring, etc. I miss him so much. But, on to the happy stuff..what a BEAUTIFUL wedding, and, what a gorgeous couple you were (still are)! I share so much in common with you; I'm also an introvert who doesn't care for big parties or lots of people. When you speak on that topic, I find myself nodding in agreement. I've always felt Jewish in my heart; you were so wise and courageous to pursue your dream. I've been looking forward to this video; thank you SO much for sharing your wedding with us. Many blessings to you and your family..wishing you a very long and happy lifetime of love together! Rosemarie 💖

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +8

      Hello Rosemarie! I am so glad you enjoyed this :) And so glad it brought back such lovely memories for you!!!

  • @karenhopper1691
    @karenhopper1691 3 года назад +57

    You were such a beautiful bride! This was one of my all time favorite videos you have done! Loved every minute of it!💖💝

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +6

      Thank you so much Karen! That means so much!

    • @karenhopper1691
      @karenhopper1691 3 года назад +7

      @@jaroffireflies I forgot to mention that my best friend wore my wedding gown. She got married 1 year and 1 month after me. I too am not sentimental about objects, just people! 💞

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +7

      @@karenhopper1691 I absolutely love that!!!

  • @raqueljaimekraiem3601
    @raqueljaimekraiem3601 Год назад +5

    Wow! Im so glad i found your channel. Im new to the homeschooling community and also sephardic jewish. Thanks for sharing such beautiful videos...I've seen 2 more recent ones and im hooked. Can't wait to see more. Have a beautiful day Chana ❤❤❤

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much! And welcome! I’m so happy you’re here ❤️❤️❤️

  • @mysti0.o683
    @mysti0.o683 3 года назад +36

    Thank you for sharing this amazing celebration! You are a stunning couple who radiates pure love. I have to say, I choked up at the picture of him looking at you during the ring ceremony. What beauty! While I am Jewish, I did not have a traditional wedding (the good ol' courthouse was enough for us). I absolutely enjoy watching Orthodox ceremonies. They stir something deep in my soul. Thank you again for this glimpse into your life.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +8

      He got very emotional during the ceremony 😊 We both did 😊 Thank you so much for your kind words and I’m so glad you enjoyed 💜

    • @roseyc.5846
      @roseyc.5846 3 года назад +9

      Yes, the pure love in his eyes made me very emotional! 🤗💗

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +5

      @@roseyc.5846 awwww 💖

  • @juliagulia6955
    @juliagulia6955 Год назад +2

    This was so interesting to learn about, hearing about the Community pitch in sounded so special.

  • @kathy5075
    @kathy5075 2 года назад +7

    Such beautiful memories! Everyone looks just so happy. You were glowing and your husband looked at you like you were so precious to him.

  • @Einoidmilvada
    @Einoidmilvada 2 года назад +5

    I got really emotional listening to your wedding story. ❤
    You are a special soul.

  • @LydiaKnudsen
    @LydiaKnudsen 3 года назад +13

    I love how your community came together to create a beautiful day. That is so special. :)

  • @bunchofbaxters
    @bunchofbaxters 3 года назад +11

    I think it’s amazing how close knit Jewish families are and how your in laws did all the catering and your MIL made your dress modest and made the other lovely outfit (don’t know how to spell it 😂) I think people could learn a lot from your way of life! It’s so true when people say it takes a village I would feel so blessed to be able to raise my kids in such a tight knit community full of like minded people, hopefully one day🙏🏼❤️

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +8

      Thank you os much :) Community is one of my favorite parts of Judaism!

  • @aprilmapp3140
    @aprilmapp3140 Год назад +2

    Your mother in law made a good job at both your dress thank you for sharing x

  • @lauraosborne7093
    @lauraosborne7093 Год назад +2

    WOW!! Absolutely beautiful. Your so beautiful. And the way your husband looked at you. Just simply beautiful.

  • @indigoblue4791
    @indigoblue4791 2 года назад +6

    What a fabulous wedding story, such exciting and beautiful memories. I love that family and community comes together to give the new couple to be a special and meaningful wedding. You and your husband looked so happy, you were a very pretty bride. 😊💕

  • @aidele5757
    @aidele5757 3 года назад +15

    Oh chana! You were such a beautiful bride! You looked absolutely beautiful and pure I got emotional and teary eyed just seeing those pictures.
    Your mil did such an awesome job with the wedding dress you could not tell that is was altered at all! It's just so amazing that your in laws made the entire wedding, what a special family!!
    May you continue to be blessed forever and ever💞

  • @heathermayfield4247
    @heathermayfield4247 3 года назад +21

    Beautiful kaftan Chana - great story of your wedding. Your MIL did a wonderful job on your wedding dress - you look gorgeous, handsome husband too!

  • @happy-dc8uj
    @happy-dc8uj 2 года назад +2

    You have such a pretty complexion. Thanks for sharing your wedding story.

  • @eliasorozco5101
    @eliasorozco5101 Год назад +2

    Mazel tov 🎉 And welcome to the tribe!!!

  • @joannamugliston9853
    @joannamugliston9853 3 года назад +22

    Super interesting to learn about wedding in different culture. You looked absolutely stunning in your wedding photos. Both of you and your husband looked so beautiful. I love the ways you story tell. So enjoyable!

  • @lisatakeitorleaveit
    @lisatakeitorleaveit 3 года назад +29

    Thank you so much for sharing your special day! Everything was so beautiful !!!! You are a beautiful bride and you radiate love 💕

  • @sandykalmeyer9523
    @sandykalmeyer9523 3 года назад +19

    Omgosh where do I start? First off, thank you so much for sharing your wedding with us. What a stunning couple you were on your special day. Your MIL does amazing sewing, just beautiful. I can’t even imagine remaking a garment! You both seemed so happy as you both seem today….and now with a family.
    I think the only thing that surprised me was not being allowed to touch until your wedding day!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +8

      Thank you so much! I am so glad that you enjoyed :) Ya, that no touching thing tends to shock a lot of people

  • @dee4174
    @dee4174 Год назад +2

    Your wedding just fell into place. Obviosly it was meant to be. Your dress was beautiful. ❤

  • @aprilmapp3140
    @aprilmapp3140 11 месяцев назад

    your mother in law did amazing job on the dress..your wedding look very nice.

  • @CanisLupus1987
    @CanisLupus1987 3 года назад +5

    You both looked soooo happy. We can truly see it was meant to be

  • @renville68
    @renville68 2 года назад +7

    What beautiful photos...you both looked amazing! 🥰🥰 Your mother-in-law did an outstanding job with your wedding dress, and the kaftan was stunning!

  • @Anniloves21
    @Anniloves21 2 года назад +7

    Stunning bride and groom!

  • @foresthillmom
    @foresthillmom Год назад

    I just watched this a second time. Beautiful couple and beautiful traditions!❤

  • @glendapeterson1180
    @glendapeterson1180 Год назад +2

    You were beautiful, and so was the dress. And yes, your husband was handsome.

  • @ramonamuller5862
    @ramonamuller5862 3 года назад +16

    Oh my, you looked amazing (no surprise there). I never thought your hair was that dark☺️ what a lovely story and your mom in law did a wonderful job with the dress and probably everything else. A big family like that must be lovely! I can imagine the emotional overdrive after all the wedding happiness and then in a pop you are married. Thank you for sharing.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +7

      So I am really a blonde but I dyed my hair brown starting in my 20s :)

  • @marjoriequirke893
    @marjoriequirke893 3 года назад +25

    Chana you did such a wonderful job explaining it all, loved your hair and make-up well done doing it yourself on such an important day! Also your mother in law did such an amazing job turning a halterneck dress into a modest but beautiful bridal gown, it sounds like you have married into a family of formidable women. Thank you so much for sharing your story and wedding pictures 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @sheilafelix113
    @sheilafelix113 3 года назад +8

    Thank you for sharing! You and your husband make a beautiful pair. The love shines through you both. I love how your MIL jumped in and did so much for you! I loved my MIL and she became a 2nd Mom and a best friend. I miss her everyday.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +5

      My Mil is amazing! i am so glad we still get to see her sometimes even though she lives across the ocean

  • @irenaseredina9798
    @irenaseredina9798 2 года назад +9

    You're so beautiful and you husband is in love also. A lot of happiness to you both!

  • @MaureenDrees
    @MaureenDrees Год назад +2

    This was fascinating. Thank you for sharing.

  • @Fiftynine414
    @Fiftynine414 2 года назад +3

    You were such a beautiful bride! Your husband is a very handsome man too.
    And, the two of you seem to share a genuine respectful love.
    God bless you both.

  • @Shannon.Hazleton
    @Shannon.Hazleton 3 года назад +7

    I love hearing all this. I’ve always wanted to be part of this kind of culture. Very meaningful. And hello from a fellow Texan introvert.

  • @annjohnson6193
    @annjohnson6193 2 года назад +4

    You were radiant on your wedding day. The dress was beautiful

  • @aviaa2481
    @aviaa2481 2 года назад +2

    Hey darling,
    Im in tears right now. cant put into words how i envy you for your journey.
    Kinda speechless, so ill end up saying you inpired me a lot, you're so sweet and special

  • @michellecolegrove
    @michellecolegrove 2 года назад +2

    I was one of the special people that was there. It was amazing and I loved every minute. You are such a blessing to me and Kay! Love seeing all your videos.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Michelle! 💜💜💜 So much love to you!

  • @staceyjohnson2929
    @staceyjohnson2929 3 года назад +13

    So beautiful! I loved that! I'm Mormon/LDS and we usually have to do alot of altering, etc, for our wedding dresses to be modest as well. I just loved this video! Thank you!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +3

      Thank you so much for watching! I’ve seen some morman wedding dresses, y’all also wear modest dresses for your weddings :) very cool!

  • @cassandrasuzannelalonde4758
    @cassandrasuzannelalonde4758 3 года назад +3

    Thank you for inviting me into this private part of your life. I feel like I have a new friend. With all my heart I wish you and your beautiful family the very best.

  • @צביהשבט
    @צביהשבט 3 года назад +10

    You looked amazing! I wish more girls would do their own makeup, it was stressful over here when my daughters had someone over to do it. Your parents & inlaws are lovely - MIL sooo talented!! Belated Mazel Tov!

  • @carolilseanne2175
    @carolilseanne2175 4 месяца назад +1

    Your bride and groom photos are gorgeous, you look radiantly beautiful and your husband is so handsome ❤

  • @corinnann1880
    @corinnann1880 3 года назад +17

    Beautiful wedding, beautiful bride and an amazing family!

  • @irecarmi22
    @irecarmi22 3 года назад +17

    Congratulations Chana you got a really beautiful wedding but now you have built a precious and blessed family.Thanks for all that you shares with us.I love when you shares any details because I can imagine the whole story .Regards from Panamá, Shabbat Shalom 🤗

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words! I really appreciate you!

  • @juliabartlam2083
    @juliabartlam2083 3 года назад +3

    How lovely! I just love the story of your mother in law!

  • @martinelanglois3158
    @martinelanglois3158 Год назад +1

    I ended up here following the August 2023 Q & A and the story of how you met your husband. This is exciting!!😃

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Год назад +2

      Hope you enjoyed it! Thank you for being here!

    • @martinelanglois3158
      @martinelanglois3158 Год назад +1

      @@jaroffireflies Yes, I sure did. Thank you for sharing. I am not Jewish but really enjoy your channel. Have a great week. 💙

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Год назад +2

      @@martinelanglois3158 hope you have a great week too!

  • @Catsface99
    @Catsface99 8 месяцев назад

    What a gorgeous bride. You looked so happy and excited in the photos. You looked like you belonged in a bride magazine. Your flowers were so colorful and beautiful. A Perfect day for you and your husband.

  • @sbrown6070
    @sbrown6070 2 года назад +4

    Your wedding was so beautiful. You were both looking so joyous! Thank goodness for your in laws. Such an incredible day!

  • @jackiehoward7300
    @jackiehoward7300 3 года назад +4

    You all look so happy at your wedding. I can clearly see the love between you two. I hope you have many more happy years together.

  • @michellemarano2201
    @michellemarano2201 3 года назад +8

    The both of you looked very clean on your wedding day! Your outfits were very traditional and acceptable with in the religion. It was very nice to see how you both started out.

  • @BettyHorn
    @BettyHorn 3 года назад +2

    Such a beautiful bride! And you are so right! Your MIL is anazing! What she did with your dress!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +2

      Thank you! yes she is just something else!

  • @user-rm4yd2cl2k
    @user-rm4yd2cl2k 2 года назад +2

    B”H Chana!!!! I’m tearing up!!!! You look like a gorgeous princess and Eishes Chayil….Aba bless you both, thank you so much for sharing your special day with us💖

  • @mbutler2905
    @mbutler2905 3 года назад +33

    Beautiful! Even though my wedding was chassidish, we also have similar customs to Sephardim! (I still had to do a yichud room, but I had to cover my hair afterwards at the reception.) Also had a friend do my hair and makeup last minute because we weren't sure who could do it the day of, since mine was also a total corona wedding. Loved seeing your photos and hearing about your story!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +8

      Oh wow I didn't know ya'll did that about the hair covering! I remember they almost didn't;t let us do the wedding at the shul because it was an ashkenazi shul and they said we had to do a yichud room. We obviously refused lol I think the compromise was that we went into the rabbis office for a few minutes lol

    • @tammyleigh21
      @tammyleigh21 3 года назад +3

      I was surprised that the bride doesn't give a ring to the groom! Does the groom ever have a ring? Xxxx

    • @robinsong7298
      @robinsong7298 3 года назад +4

      Ashkenazi here

    • @mbutler2905
      @mbutler2905 3 года назад +6

      @@jaroffireflies it really depends on the chassidus but in general most women wear a wig at the chuppah to already have had their hair covered throughout the wedding (though I chose to put on a white tichel after the yichud room!) And yeah the yichud room thing is very interesting halachically and hashkafically!

    • @michellelansky4490
      @michellelansky4490 3 года назад +5

      @@tammyleigh21 the groom never gets a rind related to the ceremony. Most Orthodox men do not where a ring though many may choose to wear one to work, etc if the need arises to let it be known they are married.

  • @yeseniadejesus622
    @yeseniadejesus622 2 года назад +4

    Beautiful pictures! 😍 Thank you for sharing your story and your wedding pictures. Blessings

  • @lindsaya7733
    @lindsaya7733 3 года назад +8

    Yay! I love wedding stories, they always make me think of my own wedding 🙂 You two were (and are!) such a sweet couple. As a fellow introvert I had lots of the same feelings about a wedding. But honestly, I was so caught up in actually getting married and being so happy to finally start the rest of my life with my husband, that I hardly noticed the people. Outside of the food and the flowers (the parts my mom took care of!) my wedding was pretty DIY and nothing was to fancy and that helped with my nerves too. I’m not typically a formal gal. The most fun thing about my wedding was probably that my cow was my ring bearer!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад

      That’s so fun! Thanks so much for sharing about your wedding 💜

  • @sandrawallace1001
    @sandrawallace1001 3 года назад +2

    What a happy and handsome couple! I have been to a couple Jewish weddings but they were for couples of different faiths - in fact, my son's best friend from high school, who is Jewish, married a girl who was born in China, so while their wedding was more of what I would call a "regular" ceremony held outdoors, their reception was a wonderful mix of Jewish and Chinese traditions. It was probably one of the most fun receptions I've ever attended. It sounds like your day was one to remember as well - and I am SO impressed with your mother-in-law! Thank you for sharing.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +3

      I bet that was fun to see a mixture of cultures!

    • @sandrawallace1001
      @sandrawallace1001 3 года назад +1

      @@jaroffireflies It was. He wore a tux and she wore a white bridal gown for the marriage ceremony, then changed for the reception. The bride wore a stunning long red skirt and a red jacket embroidered in gold that had been made in China and the groom wore a long tunic in green/gold with gold embroidery that I think was also made in China. During the reception, they had a traditional Chinese tea ceremony and they did the Jewish dance where the couple is lifted up on chairs. It was quite a party!

  • @spunkycat6144
    @spunkycat6144 3 года назад +1

    Ohmygoodness, there are funny BLOOPERS at the end, Ya'll.
    I could be watching anything on HULU but what am I doing on a Saturday night? Why, having a Jar of Fireflies watch party. Party of me and my dog.
    **Let's talk about that dress!!! This dress was made for you, you complete it and are so stunning in those photos. You are SO LUCKY to have this amazingly talented woman in your life. I hope to see a photo of the kaftan? that she brought over. It was on a hanger and had the exquisite work done. Anyway, I am going to be watching as many vlogs/videos as possible this weekend.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words! I am so glad that you are enjoying my videos :) And hooray for the watch party!!!

  • @melaniecarmichael5145
    @melaniecarmichael5145 3 года назад +40

    I find it stunningly beautiful that the first time you touched your bridegroom was when he welcomed you to the wedding hoopa. The height of romance.
    It also exemplifies the high esteem that you had for one another before entering into the marriage. You must have felt quite cherished.
    May you always feel so cherished!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +2

      Thank you so much for your kind words :)

  • @firefly4432
    @firefly4432 3 года назад +29

    I recently stumbled upon your videos and they are wonderful! As a non Jewish woman, I love learning about all of the topics you cover.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +4

      Hi Christine and welcome! I’m so glad you’re here!!!

    • @lynnzupan8474
      @lynnzupan8474 2 года назад +1

      I love learning about every religion and you are my favorite source to learn about orthodox Jewish traditions.

  • @nancyayala2217
    @nancyayala2217 3 года назад +4

    I’m crying tears of joy watching your beautiful wedding. You and your husband make a beautiful couple!!!!

  • @annak1371
    @annak1371 2 года назад +1

    WOW! She did such a fabulous job on your kaftan. This was so fun!

  • @jacquelinenoble6640
    @jacquelinenoble6640 2 года назад +1

    You made such a beautiful Bride, the joy on your Husband's face is just wonderful.😊🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

  • @debra333
    @debra333 3 года назад +4

    Hi, sweet Chana! So beautiful, meaningful, joyful, and blessed. I can't thank you enough for sharing this precious day with us. Seeing your dear father-in-law was so special. And such a gorgeous couple you ARE...not just were!! 😊🫂

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +3

      Thank you so much for your very kind and thoughtful words Debra :)

  • @barbmaynarddiyhomemade8039
    @barbmaynarddiyhomemade8039 3 года назад +9

    Loved this! Yes the dress was gorgeous. It sounds like so much fun and I love the traditions. And such a blessing that your family supports you

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +2

      Thank you Barb :) I am very grateful for my lovely family

  • @houndlover870
    @houndlover870 3 года назад +4

    Beautiful wedding! I love that you explain the differences in customs! Love Bella at the end. "Just announcing the mail man and protecting the family momma!" --Bella

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +3

      LOL That Bella barks at everything :) She keeps us on our toes!

  • @kylegroll8047
    @kylegroll8047 3 года назад +1

    What A Beautiful Wedding - you were a GORGEOUS Bride - and My oh My is your husband HANDSOME! You make a Stunning Couple. You are So Blessed to have such wonderful in-laws and how about that mother in law??? That wedding dress was breathtaking! Thanks so much for sharing your very special day!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +2

      Thank you so much I am so glad that you enjoyed this

  • @TheLadyWeaver
    @TheLadyWeaver 2 года назад +1

    The way he's looking at you while doing the ring! *swoon*.
    Also your makeup looks *amazing*, I can't believe you did it yourself. So beautiful!

  • @iceeyes3875
    @iceeyes3875 3 года назад +3

    Oh my goodness you two looked absolutely perfect at your wedding! You looked like a princess in your dress which was amazing and the look on your husband’s face was priceless! Truly stunning! I loved seeing this, thank you for sharing! You two are such a beautiful couple! Much love to you 💕

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much :) I am so glad that you loved this one!

  • @likethecityaustralia
    @likethecityaustralia 3 года назад +7

    This was so fun to watch! I think this is the first time I’ve seen your husband’s face in a video. You looked so beautiful and happy!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +1

      Glad you liked it!! My husband has been in a couple other videos, but just briefly :)

  • @debraseiler4148
    @debraseiler4148 3 года назад +5

    What a lovely bride you were! Many brides today do not see the simply beauty in a modest wedding dress. My son was married in the Phillipeans to a wonderful girl there. My daughter in law honored my request for a modest wedding dress. Needless to say I believe (as my son does) she is worth more than rubies!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад

      It sounds like you have a wonderful son and daughter-in-law:)

  • @erinmyers8603
    @erinmyers8603 Год назад +2

    Your mother in law did an excellent job on your dress. You are beautiful ❤️

  • @teresarauscher2217
    @teresarauscher2217 11 месяцев назад

    Such a lovely wedding. Your Mother in law did an amazing job making your dress. Very appropriate and pretty. You both looked happy in love and thank you for sharing.

  • @xovickymarie
    @xovickymarie 3 года назад +9

    You were glowing on your wedding day! You looked gorgeous! 💗 thanks for sharing your wedding story with us! I love learning about different cultures and customs 🥰

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +1

      Thank you for your kind words! I’m so glad that you enjoyed and learned from it ❤️❤️

  • @franbowers7032
    @franbowers7032 3 года назад +6

    Hi Chana wow what a fantastic video. You looked stunning in your wedding dress your mother in law is a great sower and your husband looked lovely too. The photos look amazing to and everyone's having a great time x

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +2

      Thank you Fran :) I’m so glad you enjoyed

  • @sidanelv-1
    @sidanelv-1 3 года назад +4

    One word..."AWESOME "
    you just keep on blessing us with your life's story.
    Thank you for sharing.

  • @joandeimling7681
    @joandeimling7681 Год назад

    Such a beautiful couple. The Love between you two is palpable!

  • @daphnelandsborough3663
    @daphnelandsborough3663 3 года назад +1

    Your wedding dress was beautiful. You are beautiful too. But that day you looked so at peace and in love. So nice to see you so glowing and happy. God bless you and your family. Thank you for sharing your special day

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much for your very kind words Daphne :)

  • @laurar.4484
    @laurar.4484 3 года назад +6

    What a lovely wedding! Thank you so much for sharing this with us!

  • @dawncatalano7443
    @dawncatalano7443 3 года назад +5

    Thank you so much for sharing such a special day in your family's life. It was absolutely beautiful. Yes, your MIL is an amazing seamstress and you can tell it was all done with love. Have a blessed day!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад +4

      Thank you so much! Yes, my MIL is phenomenal!

  • @bethr82
    @bethr82 3 года назад +6

    Loved learning all about your wedding, the pictures are beautiful x

  • @patriciaelstub7375
    @patriciaelstub7375 3 года назад +2

    You looked absolutely stunning
    I'm from Australia and I have been watching your videos for few weeks now and I can honestly say you are a breath of fresh air and I have thoroughly enjoyed getting to know you and your beautiful family
    May HaShem continue to bless your household with much happiness, peace and love
    Thank you

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  3 года назад

      Thank you so much for your kind words Patricia! I’m so very glad that you are enjoying ❤️ I’m so glad you’re here!

  • @pollymorriss3001
    @pollymorriss3001 2 года назад +1

    You looked lovely and your dress turned out fabulous. I to an a convert but of Ashkenazi heritage from Texas.
    Your video was great so Thank you for sharing