FENTANYL KILLS: Cruz Burris' Story

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  • Опубликовано: 14 фев 2024
  • A mother and father share their story of losing their 15-year-old son to illegally manufactured fentanyl. Illicit fentanyl is a dangerous, life-threatening drug frequently found in other illicit drugs and results in the death of 200 people per day in the US. This is just one of those stories and delivers an urgent warning to avoid all illicit drugs.
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Комментарии • 736

  • @AuntieKim
    @AuntieKim 3 месяца назад +282

    Negotiating drugs, and alcohol with your parents at 15? That needs to be unpacked right there.

    • @chellesama8256
      @chellesama8256 3 месяца назад +26

      Self medicating, maybe. It seems easier than going to a therapist at that age.

    • @sistatiph2308
      @sistatiph2308 3 месяца назад +14

      2 words for you...
      Cultural Differences.

    • @sistatiph2308
      @sistatiph2308 3 месяца назад +12

      ​@@FrankieDeniseNo ma'am.. Negotiations of TV and a computer..
      One thing.
      This young man was a unique situation.

    • @mysmirandam.6618
      @mysmirandam.6618 3 месяца назад +6

      Weed us medical fir most and relatively harmless but that and microdosing shrooms are the SAFER options

    • @tammyhavlik1015
      @tammyhavlik1015 3 месяца назад

      @@mysmirandam.6618 and you are the problem. It's not 'weed', it's hybridized high level THC. If anyone smokes it enough, they'll be paranoid. And it goes from there.

  • @futuremelina
    @futuremelina 3 месяца назад +368

    A child saying if he can't smoke he'll drink?? What the hell is happening to kids that they're even involved in this

    • @lifewithdeedee3392
      @lifewithdeedee3392 3 месяца назад +101

      Social media happened 😢

    • @charmanned
      @charmanned 3 месяца назад +31

      Don't forget the internet completely. My condolences on the loss of your son ❤

    • @intuitivefugitive8852
      @intuitivefugitive8852 3 месяца назад +42

      It’s the norm man, all the Snapchat so called cool kids promote the newest drug and how “AWESOME” it made them feel. Thank god I made it out with my life, this channel is and always will be one of the biggest factors in never forgetting those dark dark times. Nobody should have to find their son half dead with a needle in his arm, I owe it to my mom, she saved me so many times so did cops

    • @infinitewonder305
      @infinitewonder305 3 месяца назад +20

      Music has a agenda too don’t forget. My condolences 💐

    • @erimozata5120
      @erimozata5120 3 месяца назад +2

      @@lifewithdeedee3392 true

  • @sherrryann
    @sherrryann 3 месяца назад +94

    Defiance, attitude, boredom, arrogance, & access; Just some of the many different disposition & modern lifestyle pandemics among new teens.

    • @hunnydoo7737
      @hunnydoo7737 3 месяца назад +9

      🎯🎯

    • @nbaoldgirl
      @nbaoldgirl 3 месяца назад +6

      Respectfully I want to add angst or hormonal mood shifts, stress, undiagnosed mood/personality disorders, complacent or unintentionally unavailable parents (sometimes), just wanting to be high

    • @dianabeurman364
      @dianabeurman364 3 месяца назад +1

      Tragically it's true!

    • @annc.3908
      @annc.3908 3 месяца назад +2

      All the same exact reasons every generation had teens that were experimenting with drugs.
      We have allllll done something. Smoked pot, drank alcohol. There was a lot of acid around me as teen.
      This is definitely an issue because NONE of these deaths by poison were expecting to die.

    • @chrisy-e
      @chrisy-e Месяц назад

      Real talk - SADLY

  • @katcooper8616
    @katcooper8616 3 месяца назад +49

    These parents have the most loving and forgiving hearts. I can't say I would be as kind but I respect them tremendously.

  • @branevans3705
    @branevans3705 3 месяца назад +143

    My daughter is 31 and very street-savvy-or so I thought. I find out she purchased a Xanax from someone. I was like "WTF are you doing?! C'mon you know better!" She replied, "Mom, stop. I know him. It's a real pill." Then my mind shut off and all I heard her say was, "blah blah blah blah" I literally BEGGED her to please stop trusting people and to go to the doctors if you need meds for her panic disorder. Like I was pleading with her. She listened. But she's an adult, not a teen, so her reasoning powers are better developed. So, so, scary. 😢

    • @millenniumtowerskelton5143
      @millenniumtowerskelton5143 3 месяца назад

      The problem is….doctors in certain states will not prescribe “controlled” medications unless you are in their system.. Ma’am if your daughter needs meds, please have her go to a primary doctor and tell them what’s happening. It is way to easy for anyone to get fake pills. They need to understand. NOBODY ON THE STREET HAS LEGAL XANAX! PERCOSET, ADDEROL, OXYCONTIN, or HYDROCODONE or any other drug they are looking for. This needs to known to all teenagers.

    • @user-sk2px6ox7m
      @user-sk2px6ox7m 3 месяца назад +12

      Mine is 34 and went to full blown fentanyl use and left 3 kids and her whole family ill pray for you❤when they are adults us parents are the most helpless I so feel your pain

    • @Michaela2222
      @Michaela2222 3 месяца назад

    • @annc.3908
      @annc.3908 3 месяца назад +7

      Just like the 3 friends knew their chemist buddy but they still died in his frigid yard… it will get you at any age… just don’t.

    • @francesfriesel6477
      @francesfriesel6477 3 месяца назад +4

      Doctors today do not want to prescribe anything addictive. I am 61. Two back surgeries when I was in mid thirties. Pain not my proble. Ongoing depression and anxiety since childhood. Depression under control, but anxiety eating my lunch. The response, here's an antihistamine. Okay. Not.

  • @denisesalles7248
    @denisesalles7248 3 месяца назад +96

    Mom looks so heartbroken - I applaud this couple for delivering this incredibly important message to their local communities, and yes your voice matters tremendously. So terribly sad.

  • @pseudokowski
    @pseudokowski 3 месяца назад +181

    Minors have NO business using any social media account.

    • @sonquatsch8585
      @sonquatsch8585 3 месяца назад +12

      i so agree.

    • @cindyblair1283
      @cindyblair1283 3 месяца назад +3

      💯% I agree

    • @mosaicowlstudios
      @mosaicowlstudios 3 месяца назад +18

      I remember, maybe a year or two ago, there was a pre-teen boy on a schoolbus who noticed the bus driver silently suffering from a stroke, so he ran to the front of the bus and stood on the brake and pulled the bus to a stop as he directed other students to call 9-1-1.
      As it turned out, he was the ONLY kid whose parents did not buy him a phone and was not on social media. It might be the only reason he even noticed and was able to help the bus driver. Every other kid on the bus was distracted by their phone.

    • @user-sk2px6ox7m
      @user-sk2px6ox7m 3 месяца назад +1

      Agreed

    • @anthia1156
      @anthia1156 3 месяца назад +4

      @@mosaicowlstudios he also probably was spending quality time with his parents instead of being glued to his screen and he learnt some life-skills, like putting the breaks on a vehicle.

  • @DD-pt9qw
    @DD-pt9qw 3 месяца назад +65

    That’s some terrible friends he had to watch your son die and not even bother to call you or 911 to save him.😢

    • @rethablair6902
      @rethablair6902 3 месяца назад +15

      They are far better parents than I would be towards those boys🤬

    • @msf8297
      @msf8297 3 месяца назад +5

      @@rethablair6902 how are these boys responsible for their 15 year old son's decision?

    • @MsAdventure531
      @MsAdventure531 3 месяца назад

      @@msf8297 at 15 yrs old?!
      Call someone!!
      What are you raising??
      Babies until they’re 20 years old??

    • @sciencenotsrigma
      @sciencenotsrigma 3 месяца назад

      They, clearly, thought Cruz was passing out, not dying and didn’t want to get him in trouble. The possibility doesn’t seem real, to most kids.

    • @littlemikeism
      @littlemikeism 3 месяца назад

      Easy to blame the boys, but you don't know them. I'm sure it has been some time since you have made decisions as a 15 year old.

  • @odalisgonzalez6875
    @odalisgonzalez6875 3 месяца назад +181

    Why isn't Snapchat penalized or shut down. They're always mentioned in these reports. They must have some legal team.

    • @MsAdventure531
      @MsAdventure531 3 месяца назад +17

      This is my question.
      Aren’t there “watchdog advocacy teams” that search these platforms for this type of sale?
      Because it keeps happening!!
      I don’t understand!

    • @fritzfxx
      @fritzfxx 3 месяца назад

      A new site will take its place in seconds. Snpachat is not the problem. The problem could be stated as:
      A) the desire for drugs
      Or
      B) being unable to get drugs safely
      Prohibition caused fentanyl explosion. No one would buy it if it they could buy other drugs (accurately)

    • @isabellarodriguez1545
      @isabellarodriguez1545 3 месяца назад +12

      Well if you shut down Snapchat might as well shut down instagram twitter Facebook it’s everywhere even on other chatting apps. We just have to keep educating

    • @TexasPictures
      @TexasPictures  3 месяца назад +25

      In virtually all of the stories in this series, there is no evidence that the victim knowingly bought or used fentanyl.

    • @nakiajones8794
      @nakiajones8794 3 месяца назад +14

      It’s not social media fault! Kids found drugs for decades before the internet was even invented!

  • @michelemarie8242
    @michelemarie8242 3 месяца назад +32

    How horrific the friends watching him die.

    • @danacaro-herman3530
      @danacaro-herman3530 3 месяца назад +2

      @michelemarie. Actually it's really sick. We have a very sick and evil society.

    • @Saturnrising272
      @Saturnrising272 3 месяца назад

      Evil teens getting off on tragic situations and posting it for "likes and views". Those are NOT TRUE FRIENDS. The fact that these parents allow those boys to come to their house and play pool!!!???!!! WTH!! Those boys need to be held accountable!!! Not laughing, and hanging out in the deceased child's room. This is Not normal. Stop coddling these brats!!! The younger generations are the Evil future of the world. I'm happy to be old and not have to experience much more of this freaked up world.

    • @principecaprincipeca2243
      @principecaprincipeca2243 Месяц назад +1

      They didn't know he was dying.
      They probably thought he passed out.
      You think this was the first time he was showing off to his friends playing the tough alpha dog??
      You really think his friends were going to rat him out for pills when he was already in trouble with his parents for weed?
      What makes you think they knew he was dying?
      They were just kids themselves.
      This was not their fault.
      He wanted to show off and he sure did. Hopefully so much that his friends will never touch illegal substances.

  • @janemccoy4757
    @janemccoy4757 3 месяца назад +84

    This is the best Fentanyl death video I’ve watched. These strong, loving parents have conveyed their sorrow in the loss of Cruz while at the same time going forward with information on what can be done to prevent this happening to another young person. God bless you and your mission to help other parents and young people!

    • @trumpwon8064
      @trumpwon8064 2 месяца назад +3

      Keep watching, lots better

    • @Stevie-hn7mp
      @Stevie-hn7mp 2 месяца назад +2

      You’re absolutely right this was the best . Not only they we’re sharing what they been through and their mission to save other children’s lives as well . ❤❤😢😢

  • @donnaw2868
    @donnaw2868 3 месяца назад +81

    that is such an important part of your advocacy message, that if kids know their friend has OD'd they need to notify the parents. They can not be afraid to speak up. I love how you have forgiven the other kids

    • @tammyhavlik1015
      @tammyhavlik1015 3 месяца назад +5

      Oh baloney, those kids probably dared him or encouraged him. They need to recover the calls and social media thread and I'd throw the book at them for not calling 911.

    • @karendalsadik7119
      @karendalsadik7119 3 месяца назад +2

      @@tammyhavlik1015 it doesn’t bring there son back.

    • @Zhana808
      @Zhana808 3 месяца назад

      I agree, that was so heartwarming and sweet that they still have them over to their home. These parents are so awesome.

    • @tammyhavlik1015
      @tammyhavlik1015 3 месяца назад

      @@karendalsadik7119 But it might teach them and other kids a lesson. This is simply not okay. I'm 100% okay that the minor who gave my son a lethal dose of fentynal got arrested. Put a stop to it, let them reassess their path in life, and set an example. I pray for them and if the police would release their identity I'd be happy to let them know that justice isn't vengence, but course correction. All love, but this isn't okay.
      If you listen to addicts and dealers enough, it's like they see the loss of life as some unavoidable consequence of the game they all play, like it's hardly regrettable, just part of the playing field of their high life and kind of a curiosity, couched in their own brand of spirituality. And while these minors certainly don't have the capacity or perspective of adults, they are supplied by adults of compromised backgrounds who have also apparently had a lack of accountability. I don't care where it is in the Supply Chain: from Pfizer's negligence in supplying this drug beyond a hospital setting, to Walmart paying the federal gov a 3.2 billion dollar cut because of their role for overdistribution, to a cartel production facility, to a minor handing it out, to SnapChat CEOs, to any connection to WEF planned chaos, I do not care, speak up and hold accountable or kiss your kids goodbye.
      Local law enforcement is so overrun by dead bodies, you will not get a fair investigation and coddling guilty parties is not going to stop this. And now that I've dealt with the whole system, I agree with an assessment by a family member that this is wholesale manslaughter with no accountability.
      Judge me all you want or call this unloving, but I just disagree. You can not seperate love from truth, and mercy isn't a panacea for any lie. Again, these kids' story doesn't add up and fear of getting in trouble means they knew it was bad. They knew. And they knew how to dial 911.
      I'd be getting the information from the phone. Any proof and accountability should be sought imo. Again, not in vengence, but in doing our part to stop this. If these kids are just fooling his parents, it's just more of the game. I've done what I can to know what happened to my son still without adequate answers and much suspicious activity surrounding his passing. And I pray for every single person involved to come to an understanding to turn from such behavior, because if not, they are still on a path to cause harm here, and simply lost.

    • @tammyhavlik1015
      @tammyhavlik1015 3 месяца назад

      @@karendalsadik7119 My post back to you appears to have been erased. The point is to change the course of what's happening. And a lack of truth and accountability isn't going to get us there. Sure, be loving, but also seek the truth or else it's just enabling.

  • @sadik.oagile6779
    @sadik.oagile6779 2 месяца назад +5

    The parents are being so gracious about this, I would been so livid about everything.

  • @ilovegoodsax
    @ilovegoodsax 3 месяца назад +23

    I must've been the oddball 15 year old who never once thought about, or wanted to, "experiment" with weed or any other drug -- and I was a teen in the 1970s!

    • @tim8971
      @tim8971 3 месяца назад +5

      You are not alone! Thankfully, I was one of those who didn’t have an anxiety disorder or panic attacks. I guess it’s the social media culture contributing to this. I never once wanted to not think or feel; conversely, I ALWAYS wanted to think and feel and PROCESS what was happening in my life, which was a. Leased existence but definitely not a bowl of cherries. It does NOT take a village to raise a child. It’s the village that is harming our kids. Parents need to make the hard, loving choices that keep their children from “culture”. I do know as a teenager I had to HUNT trouble, not dodge every mine field of trouble. I am thankful to have had strict but living parents. I definitely did not want to disappoint them or betray the trust they had in me.

    • @tim8971
      @tim8971 3 месяца назад +2

      Sorry for the typos- “blessed” and “loving”.

    • @mjbankhead9063
      @mjbankhead9063 3 месяца назад +3

      I was an oddball 15 year old in the 90’s…and I was proud of it!

  • @robinh8416
    @robinh8416 3 месяца назад +35

    I’m so very sorry for your loss. You are making a difference and your voice does matter. Thank you for using your personal tragedy to save other lives. 🙏🏻

  • @MsAdventure531
    @MsAdventure531 3 месяца назад +114

    What kind of kid watches their friend die on social media and not share with another adult??!!

    • @aydinl5757
      @aydinl5757 3 месяца назад +20

      Why do kids as young as 10 get a cellphone?

    • @MsAdventure531
      @MsAdventure531 3 месяца назад +14

      @@aydinl5757
      These parents seem tragically passive.
      I’d have had a field-day as a teen.

    • @sciencenotsrigma
      @sciencenotsrigma 3 месяца назад +15

      @@MsAdventure531. They are living by spiritual principles, not passive. They have been through something that is hard to imagine, if you havent been there. It makes you appreciate the malleability of human nature, especially in youth and realize what’s really important

    • @sciencenotsrigma
      @sciencenotsrigma 3 месяца назад +24

      I’m pretty sure they thought he was passing out, not dying.

    • @principecaprincipeca2243
      @principecaprincipeca2243 3 месяца назад +6

      They didn't know he died. Thought he passed out.

  • @lisasikes4801
    @lisasikes4801 3 месяца назад +91

    It seems to me like it's always Snapchat

    • @rethablair6902
      @rethablair6902 3 месяца назад +7

      I feel like deleting that app cause it makes me feel dirty😢

    • @MsAdventure531
      @MsAdventure531 3 месяца назад +9

      Why is no one searching these types of sales??

    • @tammyhavlik1015
      @tammyhavlik1015 3 месяца назад +10

      @@MsAdventure531 Because this is a massacre, not happenstance. Every single deal could be traced with cyber security.

    • @RLFinTX
      @RLFinTX 2 месяца назад +5

      I agree! As soon as it came out and the automatic deleting of messages became known, it went from an app that gave you a puppy dog filter, to a place of all out debauchery! Kids sending nudes, women and men having affairs, teachers having secret affairs with their students, to now, an absolute stepping stone to death.

    • @rappa236
      @rappa236 2 месяца назад +2

      Glad I deleted it in 2022

  • @branevans3705
    @branevans3705 3 месяца назад +61

    Mom and Dad-you two are amazing people for being so unselfish. Cruz was so fortunate to have been your son.

    • @k9khodi363
      @k9khodi363 3 месяца назад +2

      Really? He is dead and they don't say anything loving about him. It is all about them and what they are doing. They say nothing loving about their other child. Why was this little boy hurting so badly? At the very least it could be because they were not providing healthy nurturing of his emotional needs. They didn't have time for their live son bc they were busy, but now they have time for a crusade on his behalf. What about his sibling? His sibling deserves all of their time and nuturing.

    • @sciencenotsrigma
      @sciencenotsrigma 3 месяца назад +5

      @@k9khodi363. What do you mean? They, clearly, loved their son. They are taking about what they are doing, because they have a mission to educate people.

    • @k9khodi363
      @k9khodi363 3 месяца назад +3

      @@sciencenotsrigma it is not clear to me. I see the hallmarks of a narcissist family. Can you give time stamps and quotes when they speak about the kindness and love they showed their son and any kind loving words they say about their other child?

    • @anthia1156
      @anthia1156 3 месяца назад

      @@k9khodi363 it may be due to time constraints. the crew went to Kansan for a rally and I believe they filmed these Kansas videos in a couple of days, the team can correct me if I am wrong. If you watch many of these videos, you will see that not all families are the same, some are more expressive, some less, some are still angry with their child, some want to protect the privacy of the other children who are left behind, and some focus on their mission in order to alleviate the pain of the loss. Also, I do not believe that all kids who experiment with drugs are in pain, many are just bored, arrogant, and unmotivated, they do not have a good grasp on separating real life from online life and despite the long time they spend online, it is doubtful how much real information and education about what is happening around them they access.

  • @kimmiecat420
    @kimmiecat420 3 месяца назад +53

    Thank you to these parents, and thank you to this channel. I'm a drug addict and these videos help me

    • @SBE3000
      @SBE3000 3 месяца назад +9

      Proud of you and any one else working on recovery. There is so much more to this life than getting high. You are worthy of being here to discover those things. Don't let the addiction steal that from you. You deserve a better life 👏

    • @shawnm.martin5721
      @shawnm.martin5721 3 месяца назад +1

      God speed to you. ❤

    • @nbaoldgirl
      @nbaoldgirl 3 месяца назад +1

      I’m praying for you Kimmiecat. I pray you overcome your addiction because I know your story and strength will help so many people.❤

    • @whatithink9917
      @whatithink9917 3 месяца назад

      Help you how?

  • @gorangjorgiev6782
    @gorangjorgiev6782 3 месяца назад +69

    Thanks to my dad who used to be a footballer, i started with sports at very young age.. Never smoke, drank, do any drugs.. Im so grateful to him that he was my idol from a very young age and he showed we the right path, not the path that lead to destruction!

    • @MsAdventure531
      @MsAdventure531 3 месяца назад +5

      Now this is admirable!

    • @rayhepburnable
      @rayhepburnable 3 месяца назад +7

      Good on you for using to this to brag about yourself

    • @ginarivells3491
      @ginarivells3491 3 месяца назад +4

      I started working at a bar, waitressing and bartending, while in college. Seeing so many people there hurting from some sort of addiction kept me away from drugs and alcohol, I’m actually thankful I took that job.

    • @ClaireBeatty
      @ClaireBeatty 3 месяца назад +10

      If you watch enough of these videos, you’ll see PLENTY of the kids who died were star athletes. It does not inoculate you against risky behavior.

    • @DeadBoyAlvin
      @DeadBoyAlvin 3 месяца назад +2

      Life doesn’t revolve around you and your dad

  • @ryanmcgraw3590
    @ryanmcgraw3590 3 месяца назад +34

    That’s so sad that his best friends watched him die and didn’t call for help😔 I know they’re young and scared but how could you not care about your friend enough to call 911

    • @janoraj4667
      @janoraj4667 3 месяца назад +5

      I think they thought he slept from the drug. They must have been naive and it seems he was the first to take a pill. I guess they had no idea he was dying and I am sure it is hard to live with this guilt. They were basically all children. The dealer is to blame because he kills children

    • @hopemares8296
      @hopemares8296 3 месяца назад

      Exactly I know they know something was wrong. Shame on them for that maybe his life could of been safe..

    • @KC-rl5qc
      @KC-rl5qc Месяц назад

      @@hopemares8296 you realize Cruz could've saved himself by simply NOT doing drugs

    • @quentinbarker7534
      @quentinbarker7534 Месяц назад

      @@KC-rl5qcnot a valid argument. Teenagers brains are physically wired differently and it's a lot harder to use reasoning and not impulses. He doesn't have the life experience and knowledge that we have, and he probably trusted his friends when obviously he shouldn't have.

    • @KC-rl5qc
      @KC-rl5qc Месяц назад +1

      @@quentinbarker7534 most teenagers don't do fent soooo

  • @tiffanystidham5329
    @tiffanystidham5329 3 месяца назад +47

    I live in Southwest Virginia & I've watched every single video on this channel. These stories are so necessary, & drugs unfortunately, affect most (if not, all) Americans in some way or another; myself included because of family members & friends. These families are so brave to share their stories. Their voices matter just like they say other's do. This story has reached me on the opposite side of America, so to me, it has become national. Continued prayers for all the families & friends of lost loved ones & all affected by this horrible epidemic.

    • @TiffanyTellsAll
      @TiffanyTellsAll 3 месяца назад +2

      I’m also in southwest Virginia. I watch these consistently and make my daughter listen to them too.

    • @UrbanKiwiana
      @UrbanKiwiana 3 месяца назад +2

      +It's reached me On the other side of the world in New Zealand we don't have this bad drug here, it's so tragic and sad to see so many trusting then getting something laced with this deadly drug.

    • @tiffanystidham5329
      @tiffanystidham5329 3 месяца назад +1

      @@TiffanyTellsAll - We also have the same name! Lol ..I'm right at the tip of Virginia.. in Wise County (I don't want to put the city/town) on here. But, I show these videos to my niece as well.

    • @tiffanystidham5329
      @tiffanystidham5329 3 месяца назад +1

      @@UrbanKiwiana - I love the New Zealand accent! I could listen to you all talk 24/7. Lol ..But, yes, it's horrible over here with Fentanyl.. & meth has become an epidemic as well. Here in America, it feels like Fentanyl & meth are taking as many lives as gun violence. It's so heartbreaking & scary. At this point, God is really our only hope. 😔

    • @TiffanyTellsAll
      @TiffanyTellsAll 3 месяца назад +2

      @@tiffanystidham5329 omg I’m from wise county! Lol St. Paul. What a small world

  • @BfromKC
    @BfromKC 3 месяца назад +38

    I didn't get past the first five minutes without tears. 😢 I'm so sorry for these parents and family.

    • @KimberlyDenno
      @KimberlyDenno 3 месяца назад +1

      So many of these videos make me cry since I have a 15 year old daughter. I feel so bad for the family it so sad

  • @user-nd3tg5zn1b
    @user-nd3tg5zn1b 2 месяца назад +6

    Please keep your kids safe and off of these social media death traps

  • @Moonflowertarot777
    @Moonflowertarot777 3 месяца назад +19

    I’m so sorry for the loss of your young son. This could easily have been my own. I can’t imagine the heartbreak. Sending love and prayers to your family 🙏

  • @vivaciousom5347
    @vivaciousom5347 3 месяца назад +13

    These stories are heartbreaking. Cruz’ parents are so strong.

    • @tammyhavlik1015
      @tammyhavlik1015 3 месяца назад

      Cruz' parents are putting other kids at risk by enabling these stories that make no sense.

  • @justkeepcasting
    @justkeepcasting 3 месяца назад +12

    Of all of these videos - and I've watched every single one - these parents were the first ones to just call it out and confess their own regret with the lack of oversight with SOCIAL MEDIA and cell phones. This poor father called it exactly what it is - from the devil. The modern tech and social media is slowly destroying everyone. Not just individuals, but families, and entire societies. Wake up y'all, before its too late. Disconnect and open your eyes. Mad respect to these parents for their humility and transparency. My heart broke to pieces listening to them at the end. I'm so sorry that you lost your son to this dark wave that is overtaking America. There aren't words. I can only pray for you 🙏💙😔😭

  • @moxiepops8457
    @moxiepops8457 2 месяца назад +5

    I’m so sad for my son. Please pray for me.

  • @map2932
    @map2932 3 месяца назад +3

    I’m praying this video with reach many who need to hear it. Sending love from Germany.

  • @annettehunter9743
    @annettehunter9743 Месяц назад +3

    I am wating these videos from Ireland 🇮🇪 and I admire all these parents so much. Even in their deepest heartache they are trying to save other children. Such good genuine people.

  • @KyongG1970
    @KyongG1970 3 месяца назад +12

    What amazing,strong parents you are. I am so sorry for your loss .

  • @inesbarreiro1862
    @inesbarreiro1862 2 месяца назад +4

    I pray for our kids, there in EEUU there is a terrifing problem with fentanyl. I' m from Spain but it is starting here too. Thank you for advertising us,send you all the love from my heart

  • @TheIddieMorris
    @TheIddieMorris 3 месяца назад +13

    Such amazing and brave parents.
    Sending love and prayers.
    Rest in peace Cruz.

  • @tamimoncrief2264
    @tamimoncrief2264 3 месяца назад +15

    Your video was very helpful. I'm so sorry Cruz passed . May God give you comfort daily.

  • @2gritty
    @2gritty 3 месяца назад +8

    seeing these notifications and a loss of someone is heartbreaking

  • @patchesblack7490
    @patchesblack7490 3 месяца назад +19

    These social media platforms need to be monitored. It's so scary that kids dying from this are getting younger and younger. So much more needs to be done about this! It's just devastating. I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story. 🙏

    • @principecaprincipeca2243
      @principecaprincipeca2243 Месяц назад

      Parents need to monitor where their kids are.
      Why did he still have access to social media and the internet?
      He was 15. Take the devices away when they go to the wrong path.
      His parents knew what he was like. Why did he still have access to these platforms?

  • @motherofanangel1143
    @motherofanangel1143 2 месяца назад +3

    15 yrs old my goodness, I am So very sorry for ur loss 😢😢 may he rest in the heavens 🙏🏼
    I too lost my 21 yr old son 5yrs ago 6days b4 his bday, ur story really resonates with me bc i too told him to never take pills(due to a xanax addiction I faced nd got clean over 12yrs ago glory b to God), i begged him nd asked him to promise me, i literally put the fear of God in him, nd he said "no ma i would never" im not gonna go into how it happened bc i honestly know very little nd have no closure, i just pray he is with the Lord Jesus bc he was a believer, though i cry all the time still 5yrs later, i can say i am still standing by the grace of God, though i dnt know where he got it from i forgive that person i forgive a certain person that was with him when this happened(for personal reasons).....i miss him every day 😢😢 NO PARENT SHOULD EVER HAVE TO BURY THEIR CHILD, its the hardest part to see that casket go dwn 😭😭
    I commend u both for forgiving nd being so strong to tell this tesimony bc its not easy nd this is truly an epidemic nd as u guys stated, u never think this would happen to u 😢till it does 😞😞
    God bless u both 🙏🏼 ❤️ may the Love of God the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ and the fellowship of His Holy Spirit b with u both ❤️ Amen 🙏🏼

  • @BTCRun2024
    @BTCRun2024 3 месяца назад +5

    So sad; watching this from Singapore, here no drug, zero tolerance..God bless

  • @alicemichaelis9468
    @alicemichaelis9468 2 месяца назад +3

    I just wanna say in so many of these videos, the parents seem to have either been unaware or didn’t talk to their kids much about Fentanyl. These parent were AWARE aware and truly had a discussion with their son about Fentanyl and STILL lost him. I don’t have any kids but I’m so nervous for my nieces and nephews.

  • @chutcentral
    @chutcentral 2 месяца назад +3

    Handsome young man. My heart goes out to these parents, as usual. ❤

  • @janetwalker587
    @janetwalker587 3 месяца назад +19

    The fact yall were able to forgive these boys is so heart-felt to me.
    I'm very sorry for your loss...
    No parent should ever have to go this unbelievable horror! 😢
    Thank you gor sharing your son's story...
    God bless 🙌 🙏 ❤️

    • @msf8297
      @msf8297 3 месяца назад +3

      forgive them for what?

    • @janetwalker587
      @janetwalker587 3 месяца назад +3

      @msf8297 For seeing him on snap chat and him take the pill and pass out...
      And not contacting anyone immediately. They were scared...
      Alot of parents would not be so forgiving about that...
      I admire their courage..
      Did you not hear that part?

    • @MsAdventure531
      @MsAdventure531 3 месяца назад

      @@janetwalker587
      This is courageous to you?
      This is detached behavior from humanity.

    • @janetwalker587
      @janetwalker587 3 месяца назад +2

      @MsAdventure531 Honestly, not following...
      But, yes! It would be very hard to move past that, and extend grace. They seem to have done that. And are sharing an horrific loss we all need to hear..
      I don't know what your issue is...
      But...whatever ✌️
      Have a great day!

    • @motleymama6587
      @motleymama6587 3 месяца назад +1

      I don’t think I could be so gracious. I’d be furious, something possibly could’ve been done. I’ve thought about buying narcan now that it’s available. My kids don’t use but like Cruz they could decide to experiment one day, who knows?

  • @ilonagasiorska7112
    @ilonagasiorska7112 3 месяца назад +12

    Hi, I am so sorry for the loss of your son ❤️🕊️. You are doing a great job and we hear you in Finland as well. Lots of strength and I hope that over time the pain will ease even enough that you can remember your beautiful son with a smile❤️

  • @biff481
    @biff481 2 месяца назад +4

    I'm impressed by the parent's thoughts about their son's friends. Devastating...

    • @principecaprincipeca2243
      @principecaprincipeca2243 Месяц назад

      What about them?
      They were just kids watching their son playing tough with drugs and pass out.
      They probably had no idea he was dying.

  • @zadeh79
    @zadeh79 3 месяца назад +4

    I noticed my 19 year old neighbor started playing loud music in his yard and laughing with his new crowd of friends. The first thing I thought was he must be getting 'high'. A few days later I heard the screams of his mother and the cops outside of the house. Found out he died from an overdose.

  • @beckykazeks6827
    @beckykazeks6827 3 месяца назад +7

    No way to stop this on Snapchat?!? Horrible.

  • @lislevollgraaff1236
    @lislevollgraaff1236 3 месяца назад +14

    Whaaaaat? They saw their friend in trouble and not call the ambulance or their parents to help?!?! 😢 how? how do you do that?
    Very big of these very strong parents to want the best for these kids regardless. Maybe teach them to speak up and save a life in future and not let this happen again. What a loss this beautiful young man.

    • @tammyhavlik1015
      @tammyhavlik1015 3 месяца назад

      Finally, someone that sees a problem with them not calling 911. But then still, no accountability. No wonder these young people have no understanding of consequences.

    • @principecaprincipeca2243
      @principecaprincipeca2243 Месяц назад

      They saw him pass out. That's it. Probably not even the first time.
      Yes they knew he was in trouble. For weed with his parents. That's exactly why they didn't call them when he took a pill and passed out.
      They weren't thinking of dying. They were children, ffs.
      This kid was messed up. "If I can't smoke weed, you have to let me drink", wth??
      Even his parents couldn't handle him and you think a bunch of kids should have??
      The first thing you learn in the drug world is to not rat out.
      He was the obvious ring leader, so you expect them to rat him out??
      This was probably very traumatic for them too. I hope so much they won't ever touch illegal substance again.

    • @principecaprincipeca2243
      @principecaprincipeca2243 Месяц назад

      ​@@tammyhavlik1015they didn't know he was dying.
      For them he passed out. And probably not for the first time 🙄

    • @tammyhavlik1015
      @tammyhavlik1015 Месяц назад

      @@principecaprincipeca2243 Um, you weren't there. And you're assuming and making up a lot of information. The incident was unusual enough for them to call another friend about it, but not anyone for help. And they knew it was experimenting, like you say him being the ring leader. So some community service about awareness at least would be mild. He died and they participated. And again, what do you call that? Just being kids? You talk about his parent's negotiations being not cool (I agree) while you're an adult (?) making excuses for his friends who again, had knowledge of illegal activity and were involved in this incident. In any other criminal behavior, having knowledge is enough to be charged as an accomplice.

  • @MitchBanks-fu6iy
    @MitchBanks-fu6iy 3 месяца назад +5

    I am so grateful my parents were strict No drinking No smoking, no Dope/drugs, and no free handouts we had to work for our money and they knew what we bought with our money

  • @shadejustcant
    @shadejustcant Месяц назад +2

    You can tell dad was hurting so bad when mom was talking about the foundation. Heartbreaking

  • @chutcentral
    @chutcentral 2 месяца назад +3

    A lot of bickering and judgement in the comments on this one. To some extent, I think it's high time we have that sort of spirited debate regarding just what the hell we're supposed to do about this problem. I have my own thoughts about how we should address this crisis, which I've expressed in comments before. But right now, I just want to give these parents a big hug. Looks like wonderful family, and it breaks my heart hearing and seeing their story, feeling their loss.
    They show so much grace in this interview! Not consumed with hatred and anger, which they certainly have every reason and right to feel. Instead, they radiate compassion and forgiveness. I admire that, as I know it's not easy. I am not religious, but I'll say a prayer for Cruz in my own sort of way. May he forever cruise hyperspace, boundless, ecstatic, and free. ❤🕊

  • @SonjaBlade608
    @SonjaBlade608 2 месяца назад +3

    Sending healing love & comfort from WI. ❤

  • @420beachlover
    @420beachlover 3 месяца назад +1

    That’s wonderful that you’re doing so much work for the awareness of this issue ❤ I’m so sorry for your loss 🌹

  • @northsproute
    @northsproute 3 месяца назад +9

    Thank you for a well balanced approach to your loss. Yes you are making a difference and I will share this message with other parents.

  • @katherinetreiman9480
    @katherinetreiman9480 3 месяца назад +1

    My condolences on the loss of your son. Thank you for sharing his story

  • @francessavella7825
    @francessavella7825 3 месяца назад +3

    This video needs to be shown at every high school! Fentynal does not discriminate. God bless all that have passed as a result of Fentynal poisoning. 🙏🏻❤️

  • @luke_Boston-MA
    @luke_Boston-MA 2 месяца назад +2

    These stories are so unbelievable sad. Too many young lives full of potential lost. The messages all these brave parents deliver are so important. I really hope it makes a difference. My condolences to these parents. I cannot imagine for one second what you are going through or how you find the strength in the face of tragic loss. I hope you find strength and peace in your advocacy against this evil trade

  • @annhamer9558
    @annhamer9558 Месяц назад +3

    Bless you
    So so sorry for your loss

  • @robineppinette4056
    @robineppinette4056 3 месяца назад +5

    Again another sad story.. prayers to the family..and thanks for the video..every time I watch these video's I wonder how many life's are saved

  • @kellyford5903
    @kellyford5903 3 месяца назад +2

    With all of my heart, condolences for your precious loss. I thank you for sharing - speaking out and educating us all. 🙏💕🙏

  • @kylehunt64
    @kylehunt64 3 месяца назад +3

    I think that alcohol is the gateway drug. Most teens try that first. I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for advocating..This is a pandemic, so agree.

  • @lnmeza1
    @lnmeza1 3 месяца назад +1

    Prayers for the family 🙏 Thank you for sharing Cruz's story 💟

  • @stephanieclyburn1805
    @stephanieclyburn1805 Месяц назад +1

    Prayers and hugs going out to this family as well as anyone in this thread who has lost anyone to drugs or have been affected by drugs in any way 🙏❤

  • @blueeyesblueskiesahead1612
    @blueeyesblueskiesahead1612 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing your story. I am so very sorry for the loss of your son. 😢 I truly admire all that you are doing to help save other children. Thank you. ❤

  • @lisatagliabue6395
    @lisatagliabue6395 3 месяца назад +2

    I’m in NY. Your story just reached me! I pray that the Lord continues to strengthen you and give you supernatural peace!💕

  • @coleenvanstaden5603
    @coleenvanstaden5603 3 месяца назад +2

    your message has reached this grandmother in Cape Town, South Africa. Please keep up the wonderful work you and the various organisations are doing. We too have drug problems in our communities. I try to stay aware.

  • @jamescrutchfield9237
    @jamescrutchfield9237 3 месяца назад +1

    Excellent advice given in this video. I’m so sorry for your loss.

  • @cindyblair1283
    @cindyblair1283 3 месяца назад +2

    I am so sorry for your loss!! I totally believe that your story can and will change life’s telling your story in schools and should be 💯 a big part in educating our children world wide. May God Bless you as you continue this big race. R.I.P young man🙏🏻

  • @user-ki6os9sm6n
    @user-ki6os9sm6n 3 месяца назад +4

    It’s incredibly heartbreaking to see these amazing parents here, talking about their talented kids dying cz of this evil drug, fentanyl.

  • @myreasonforlife.9511
    @myreasonforlife.9511 3 месяца назад +4

    I love his name Cruz, you rarely hear that, like my daughter is Dorian.
    What a sweet innocent soul, I'm so, so sorry for yr hurt, our blessings are with u folks. 🕊️❤️🕊️

    • @tim8971
      @tim8971 3 месяца назад +1

      Dorian is a beautiful name.

  • @LSTAR06
    @LSTAR06 3 месяца назад +2

    😪 I have no words. This makes me soooo sad. I support this family 100% as they get the word out about Cruz's story, I really hope that they not only save one child, but many many children from a similar fate. Sending you all peace and strength.

  • @dorothypettijohn1037
    @dorothypettijohn1037 3 месяца назад +1

    I have a13 yo who knows it all, it worries me so. Bless your hearts for doing this. I cant imagine your pain.

  • @marilyn60
    @marilyn60 3 месяца назад +3

    You all are beautiful people with open hearts. I am saddened to hear about your loss but I am thinking you were chosen to communicate to your local community to battle this “Pill that Kills”. God bless you all and hopefully your son’s friends will be the next generations voice! ❤

  • @kimpierce1483
    @kimpierce1483 3 месяца назад +5

    I love that you make billboards. I didn't know about it until I saw a billboard a couple years ago.

  • @joannecarter8191
    @joannecarter8191 3 месяца назад +2

    Heart felt condolences to your family. I hope you continue to touch as many teens with your brave journey carved our of a total tragedy to educate others. Cruz will be walking every step with you. I also hope your daughter is able to access counselling for the trauma of seeing her brother resuscitated. Thank you for sharing your mission.

  • @DocMalk
    @DocMalk Месяц назад +1

    Dad is really trying to keep it together for his wife ❤. That's love.

  • @desymatias2734
    @desymatias2734 2 месяца назад +3

    Thank you for sharing, God bless you

  • @bipolarmomandnowwhat
    @bipolarmomandnowwhat 3 месяца назад +3

    Sending love and condolences to this family.

  • @KevaFlores
    @KevaFlores 3 месяца назад +6

    How does snap chap keep operating!

  • @ninguem.especial1111
    @ninguem.especial1111 3 месяца назад +10

    Lovely Cruz, I pray you are receiving all the help and love that you deserve in the spirit realm. Brave parents, your bravery will always be remembered by me: the bravery to come forward and talk about your unbelievable pain, the bravery to go on. My love, all the way from Brazil. And Cruz is a beautiful, beautiful name. I love it.

  • @MsRotorwings
    @MsRotorwings 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing your experience. So sad that the boys didn’t call you.
    I’m glad to see both of you United. Telling your story matters. Your Foundation will help a lot of people.
    I hope your daughter will be okay. If it were me I’d have a hard time knowing that I missed the text. But we can’t get stuck in the “what if’s” and “if only”.

  • @kristyann9641
    @kristyann9641 3 месяца назад

    I cannot believe these stories. This is terrifying. So sorry for your loss. You are amazing and controlled parents. God Bless you both.

  • @EARTHTOMICH8LLE
    @EARTHTOMICH8LLE 2 месяца назад +2

    These parents are SO strong. I admire them for this ❤

  • @deanalamb9444
    @deanalamb9444 3 месяца назад

    I'm so sorry for the loss of your son. 😭 I've lost a niece and a nephew to this life taking drug!! My sister and brother have not been the same. God bless you both for all of your time and effort in trying to save as many as you can with Cruz's story. Praying for you both and his sister.

  • @susanlanglo-killian7096
    @susanlanglo-killian7096 3 месяца назад +4

    God bless you both for telling your story. How horrible. I am so glad my kids grew up with out smart phones and social media. I believe both facilitates so much of this. It is filled with those that are predators of people for easy cash. I am very sorry for your loss.❤🙏🏻

  • @motleymama6587
    @motleymama6587 3 месяца назад +6

    You can’t blame cell phones and the internet. I was a 70s child and we had drugs at school, they were everywhere. If someone wants drugs they’ll get them.

  • @inthechairwithcloochy8102
    @inthechairwithcloochy8102 3 месяца назад

    Tragic situation for the entire family and community. These parents are fantastic and really hope that their work in this sector goes from strength to strength. XOX From Ireland

  • @littlemikeism
    @littlemikeism 3 месяца назад +4

    You both are amazing. Continue to advocate for our youth who have been silenced by this horrific poison. Those boys will never forget what they saw. I hope they use this experience in the most constructive way possible. Bless you all.

    • @tammyhavlik1015
      @tammyhavlik1015 3 месяца назад

      But they didn't bother to call 911. And that okay?

    • @littlemikeism
      @littlemikeism 3 месяца назад

      Of course not. I just don't believe in bringing children down for their mistakes. They know they messed up. @@tammyhavlik1015

  • @jvw418
    @jvw418 3 месяца назад +3

    You have more patience than I would have with his friends. They were old enough to know better. What kind of friends are those? They would rather thier “friend” die then get themselves in trouble.

  • @Pink_143_6
    @Pink_143_6 3 месяца назад +1

    I hope this couple and all others realize that participating and sharing their story is actually helping to save lives. God bless them and my condolences for the loss of their beautiful son Cruz 🙏🏼🦋 💜

  • @NastazyaPhylipovnaTchornaya
    @NastazyaPhylipovnaTchornaya 3 месяца назад +7

    ❤ I'm a teacher and professor, no cellphones allowed for minors, except emergency contacts. No apps. Only wish the parents would enforce the basic rules. I've witnessed such naiveté from parents older than i am at PTA meetings, with them asking if such and such a messenger service would help their 6th graders become IT leaders. The answer was a resounding, "Are you out of your mind?"

    • @MsAdventure531
      @MsAdventure531 3 месяца назад +1

      This mother seems extremely passive, imo.

    • @s.c.2424
      @s.c.2424 3 месяца назад +1

      Agreed. We as parents need to take accountability as well as handing them a toxic tool that can expose them to these things sooner. We can't keep them from everything but we can limit the access. Dealers love a teen with no phone monitoring.

  • @leakd
    @leakd 2 месяца назад +1

    These videos are very important!

    • @TexasPictures
      @TexasPictures  2 месяца назад +1

      Glad you think so. Appreciate your comment.

  • @karendalsadik7119
    @karendalsadik7119 2 месяца назад +1

    Mr. & Mrs Burris I didn’t trust what education the school gave us. I think as a kid if you had come to my school. I would have considered your message as more credible and I would have listened and believed you. Thank you for your work and my deep condolences for the loss of your son Cruz.

  • @ruthlarkins2445
    @ruthlarkins2445 2 месяца назад

    Prayers sent

  • @Beautybybllc
    @Beautybybllc 3 месяца назад +3

    This is devastating. I'm certain his best friends did not intend for their friend to die, they likely thought hed wake up or were just scared shitless. They are not to blame,and these parents have such huge hearts for being so forgiving and advocating the way they are. So that hopefully kids next time will know to call for help and that it's safe to do so. These parents are so strong and doing amazing work in the face of this epidemic ❤

  • @Ahardee
    @Ahardee 3 месяца назад +1

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family 🙏

  • @Zhana808
    @Zhana808 3 месяца назад +1

    These parents are so strong, but you can see and hear their pain. The saddest part is they did everything right in terms of educating him about the danger. It’s so awesome that they don’t blame his friends and still have them over to their home. Amazing what they’ve continued to do to educate people to hopefully prevent this from happening to others. Prayers for comfort and healing RIL Cruz 🙏❤️🕊️

  • @lovekay5262
    @lovekay5262 3 месяца назад

    This is a great channel. I have my 10 and 11 year old daughters watching this and in their minds they are like scared 😳 they told me that they will never take anything from anyone useless I give it to them. I told them good but as a parent I’m watching everything. This channel has educated me a lot especially how these kids can be sneaky. I’m two steps ahead. Hopefully 🤞 I don’t have any pre teen or teenager problems with my daughters. But this channel should be in all public schools. Seriously. Thanks a lot for posting.

  • @michaelmorton6566
    @michaelmorton6566 3 месяца назад +4

    My condolences to the family the drug problems in the world are out of control and too many people are passing away

  • @assassinspoiler3488
    @assassinspoiler3488 3 месяца назад +2

    This scares me i have a grandson 15 and things he tells me about kids at school drugs they take is horrible

  • @dianabeurman364
    @dianabeurman364 3 месяца назад +2

    WHAT THE HELL ARE FIFTEEN YEAR OLDS DOING SMOKING POT! THATS CRAZY!

  • @bobbiedooley4785
    @bobbiedooley4785 3 месяца назад +1

    So young. R.i.p.