I think Sudha mam is absolutely correct! But I also feel that the other partner should also be enough open-minded to hear out that advice that is different or opposite of his current mindset. Sudha mam is a wonderful wife but she's also lucky to have such an Understanding man as her husband! God bless them both! 💕💕💕
He is listening to her that's why she could able to tell as a friend and as a wife . The person who is not listening to his wife alone then what should they do. He respects you that's why he is listening.
@@Sana-su2se Hey you were there here as well. Sadiq is wrong or probably his word selection for conveying his intention is wrong. But in this entire thread, the most I'm interested in and liked is you. Because you or people like you, we were able to understand her greatness. I like you more than I like Sudha Murthy.
@@geegeepa8123 so you expect your husband to give respect but dont want to respect to gain it lol sorry to say but you are nothing more than a hypocrite loser who is born to cry like most women lol cry babies
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
@@phani123d, yes 🙌 this kind of understanding doesn’t come in one day or one year. Life partners walking parallel in lifetime. Many things matter to build strong relationships🙏
Yes because we are above the materialistic world. It doesn’t matter who earn more money! End of the day we are one family including our love ablation grownup kids who are independent with their own lives.
@@dr.kaursingh8853 That's awesome to be above the materialistic world. I wish everyone should be like that. I noticed most of the females being more materialistic. ( They love gold more or less like their husbands and feel jealous of other ladies or families others growth). I really love you for not being like that. Still I couldn't digest that number 99.9%. When I and my kid are discussing/advising each other, atleast once in 100/500 times, he gives me some better idea or make my ideas better. In your case 99.9% !!!, which is like your husband's contribution in making decisions is once in 1000 times. That is surprising me.
@@MaithiliKulkarninowonder she may have.... Infosys employees swear by the tortorous work they have to do compared to any other IT firm.. Just because she travels economy class once or twice doesn't make her saint...people are so gullible...
@@MaithiliKulkarni giving advice is never bad!! When u think that u are the ultimate source of infoemation and knowledge and the opposite person is a fool, then its a problem.. She said that ultimate decider is her husband.. Atleast she is acknowledging him in the crowd.. Very rare to see a woman doing for hwr hisband.. Whereas yoj can find only women bashing their husbands in public.
I'm sure Mr Murthy also gives same kind of advice and freedom of decision to Mrs Murthy. Many times wives give this kind of freedom to husband's but husband don't show the same courtesy to wife and viceverasa...
My ex used to control all my decisions and choices.. dress colour, lipstick, what food to eat in restaurants and so on... If i ever wanted something different.. he used to give silent treatment. It does not matter how much polite understanding i stay with him. He would remain dumb@ss and keep mentally torture me. Marriage cannot work one hand..you need two intelligent human to work it out. FRUSTRATING MAN
@@contrawisecontrawise7215 then marry him yourself. What S.M said in this video is applicable to both husbands and wives. You don't want your wife to be controlling, don't be controlling to her. Respect individual differences and boundaries.
@@arjunm6866 with what mindset? You want your wife to control what color you wear and what food you eat and should you wish differently, she doesn't talk to you? Sounds ideal life for you?
I totally relate with that kind of frustration. That mental torture led to divorce. When I wanted friendliness he said it's not needed for husband and wife to be friends at all! Yes it's terribly toxic and negative to be in such an environment.
She is Sudha Murthy herself...!!! An intelligent and kind hearted woman ,a philanthropher. The British PM is lucky enough to be Son-in-law of Sudha Murthy. He will and should be introduced after her identity and not vice versa..
This sounds good to ears. But in real life, a spouse's decisions deeply affect each other's lives, even their children and parents are affected where families live together. So you can't stay mum.
People who keep this thing in their heads continuously - the marriage of equals can never achieve that kind of marriage but only stressful marriage 😂😂😂
Twinkle has an IQ of 120+ She is well-spoken, well read, has a fabulous sense of humour, and does not tomtom about philanthropy done on husband's money. More than what i can say about the other published author of English books sitting in saree. I am not fond of Twinkle, but i give credit where it is due.
In his professional career he can ask advise to hos spouse if he wishes, but anything to do with household, ALWAYS better to discuss BEFORE deciding 🤣🤣🤣
Main reason for happy marriage is spending quality time with wife and kids and grooming kids to be responsible citizens of tomorrow's nation. NARAYAN MURTHY SUGGESTS 70 HOURS OF WORK PER WEEK. TJIS WILL DEPRIVE SPOUSE AND KIDS OF THEIR QUALITY TIME WITH PARENTS. IT WILL DEIVE EMPLOYEES INTO DEPRESSION ANXIETY AND DEFINITELY GROKEN MARRIAGES AND CUSTODIAL BATTLES. LET HER ADVISE HER HUSBAND ON THAT
Why boys / men are liking her idea so much .. literally can't be understood...😅jab aise he understandable partner chaiye jo wise and smart ho toh shaadi ke time yehi check kerlo ki how's the mentality of girl . ...but criteria for shaadi is that girl should be of good height,fair skin ,not fat, housewife sanskari jo kuch bolti he n ho toh agge ladegi nhi shayad (although it doesn't happen as phir bhi ladegi),long black shinning hair is preferable 😂😂😂 Haad hai yrr Hippocrates hote hain ladke .... Ek teraf smart intelligent wife chaiye dusri teraf jaam dimag ki jo jaisa bolte jaao waisa he jre zuban n ladaye waise chaiye jo apne dimag ka kabhi n istemal kare wo chaiye 😅 Can't understand the boys mindset....ek teraf physical appearance ko he priority denge phir bolenge akel he nhi hai ladki ki
In the married life journey of an equally educated couple , whose aim is to transform their fortune from middle class to super rich is destined by sheer hardwork .When the husband opts his involvement to that enterprise solely and the wife prioritise family and stays at home. Knowing every move of her husband , she has the privilege to talk, critically analyze and put her perspective .It is the right way of enhancing the family fortune as well as the enterprise they own. Definitely Madam Sudhaji has succeeded , thus evolved herself a role model. There is no doubt about it. 🙏🙏🙏 Decision makers do consult .Let others not think decision makers are introverts forever .
If anyone wants to do something by himself/herself then why get married? Marriage is itself a sacrifice. You sacrifice your singledom, your freedom to be by yourself. You are not single anymore. You are joined as one after marriage. I advice especially the men to not get married if they want to do things without their wife. That means letting go of Saturday night house parties with opposite gender friends, letting go of clubbing with drunken friends and so many other things. And yes always have your opinion and give your opinions without fear. Otherwise he/she will take it from someone else.
Sudha Murthy ji is to the next level women, mother, wife, grand ma .
Understanding each other in every situation of his life with him that's all ❤️
I liked when she say.. dont give too much opinions..
. . . . .after giving her opinion!!! 😅😅😅😅
Yeah, She is Gold 💎 is absolute genius.
Giving advice and freedom is the first and best thing for a healthy relationship.
So you are telling. Your wife has no rights in the family.
You just want to use her as a slave?
Don’t marry anyone!
@@Sana-su2se Awful.
I don't think, Sudha Murthy ever felt as Slave in her family.
Edit:
Do you have any information to make such statements.?
@@phani123d I’m talking about Indian men who treat their wife like that. Not sudha Murthy
"...and don't give too much advice" - best advice ever, thank you!!
She's a brilliant women that's for sure. A real intellect , flair of einstein
She helped me grow so much in just those few seconds ❤😅😊
She can ofcourse do that coz she got a wise partner. It is not the matter of many other people.😂
True that😅
😊😊😊😊
This is a conversation of the intellectual kind..inspiring and beautiful..
I think Sudha mam is absolutely correct! But I also feel that the other partner should also be enough open-minded to hear out that advice that is different or opposite of his current mindset. Sudha mam is a wonderful wife but she's also lucky to have such an Understanding man as her husband! God bless them both! 💕💕💕
very true.....
😊😊😊😊
He is listening to her that's why she could able to tell as a friend and as a wife . The person who is not listening to his wife alone then what should they do. He respects you that's why he is listening.
@@fouziasadiq4223 if you marry someone who has to gain your respect, then your marriage is not based on respect
So you don’t naturally respect anyone?
Until they earn it you don’t want to respect anyone?
@@Sana-su2se Hey you were there here as well.
Sadiq is wrong or probably his word selection for conveying his intention is wrong.
But in this entire thread, the most I'm interested in and liked is you.
Because you or people like you, we were able to understand her greatness.
I like you more than I like Sudha Murthy.
It is not practical because the final decision with most of them will be the man's decision.💪😂🤣🤣
@@geegeepa8123 so you expect your husband to give respect but dont want to respect to gain it lol sorry to say but you are nothing more than a hypocrite loser who is born to cry like most women lol cry babies
Because she is not trying to be his equal. She is just trying to become best companion she can, with respect for him in her heart.
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other.
Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
I would die to meet Mrs. Sudha Murthy. I am a die hard hard fan of her's
She has a amazing skin.. I had to compliment her.
Maintaining individuality while staying close together is the key❤
Same I do with my husband. Advice him but final decision is his own. Guess what? 99.9 percent of the times, he goes with my advice❤🙏
Ha ha! So sweet and so beautiful. This is real wisdom!!
99.9%...?
🤔🤔🤔
Do you really just advice..?
@@phani123d, yes 🙌 this kind of understanding doesn’t come in one day or one year. Life partners walking parallel in lifetime. Many things matter to build strong relationships🙏
Yes because we are above the materialistic world. It doesn’t matter who earn more money! End of the day we are one family including our love ablation grownup kids who are independent with their own lives.
@@dr.kaursingh8853 That's awesome to be above the materialistic world.
I wish everyone should be like that.
I noticed most of the females being more materialistic. ( They love gold more or less like their husbands and feel jealous of other ladies or families others growth).
I really love you for not being like that.
Still I couldn't digest that number 99.9%.
When I and my kid are discussing/advising each other, atleast once in 100/500 times, he gives me some better idea or make my ideas better.
In your case 99.9% !!!, which is like your husband's contribution in making decisions is once in 1000 times.
That is surprising me.
She just gets too much credit for things she really didn’t mean to do 😂
Her PR is wonderful
@@MaithiliKulkarninowonder she may have.... Infosys employees swear by the tortorous work they have to do compared to any other IT firm..
Just because she travels economy class once or twice doesn't make her saint...people are so gullible...
@@MaithiliKulkarni do u want to boss on your husband.. She said ryt.. Eventually her husband is the decision maker.. Many women dont like that
@@MaithiliKulkarni giving advice is never bad!! When u think that u are the ultimate source of infoemation and knowledge and the opposite person is a fool, then its a problem.. She said that ultimate decider is her husband.. Atleast she is acknowledging him in the crowd.. Very rare to see a woman doing for hwr hisband.. Whereas yoj can find only women bashing their husbands in public.
Best answer and advise for women . !
Mam namasthe..your words are so much inspirational to most of the women including me..your are a real role model.🙏
True true...so many including me look up to her with awe and admiration.
I'm sure Mr Murthy also gives same kind of advice and freedom of decision to Mrs Murthy. Many times wives give this kind of freedom to husband's but husband don't show the same courtesy to wife and viceverasa...
In front of her twinkle twinkle little star 😂😂
Her talking style very much reminds me of Abdul Kalam Sir. Thank you ma’am for sharing your valuable insights🙏🏽
Very diplomatic way of doing things. The moment you try and instill one to do the way you want thing's go wrong.
People who have been fortunate, had their efforts bear fruit, and had most things in life going right, have the right to sit and talk 🙄
My ex used to control all my decisions and choices.. dress colour, lipstick, what food to eat in restaurants and so on...
If i ever wanted something different.. he used to give silent treatment.
It does not matter how much polite understanding i stay with him. He would remain dumb@ss and keep mentally torture me.
Marriage cannot work one hand..you need two intelligent human to work it out.
FRUSTRATING MAN
He was a perfect husband.
With thos minrset u can achieve multiple x
@@contrawisecontrawise7215 then marry him yourself.
What S.M said in this video is applicable to both husbands and wives. You don't want your wife to be controlling, don't be controlling to her. Respect individual differences and boundaries.
@@arjunm6866 with what mindset?
You want your wife to control what color you wear and what food you eat and should you wish differently, she doesn't talk to you? Sounds ideal life for you?
I totally relate with that kind of frustration. That mental torture led to divorce. When I wanted friendliness he said it's not needed for husband and wife to be friends at all! Yes it's terribly toxic and negative to be in such an environment.
Ideal couple... congratulations 👍
Husband : modiji aap aam kaise khaate hai?
Contrary
Wife : asking so deep and meaningful questions.
Agree that you won’t always see eye to eye. Allow each other to think differently and to make their own decisions even if you think it’s a mistake.
I will follow this in my life
Respect ur partner's space and individuality. That's the sure way to a blissful relationship.
That is what we call cooperation....
Mother-in-law of British P. M. is always right!
This interview was taken 2 yeras back🙄
@@ettayi987 yes you are right. She was a mother in law waiting....!
She is Sudha Murthy herself...!!! An intelligent and kind hearted woman ,a philanthropher. The British PM is lucky enough to be Son-in-law of Sudha Murthy. He will and should be introduced after her identity and not vice versa..
You inspire my life
You are very correct your decisions should be respectful
But his decision is the final
Wrong question wrong answer.
Maturity levels 👌 💯 🙏 👏
I'm soooo impressed with SUDHA MURTHY MA'AM G ,she is awesome
The lady with lot of wisdom ❤
Love her advice 😊thank you
Legend ❤️🙏
What a answer, never expected it. When you think about it, it do make sense
God bless you to your family ma'am 🙏🏻
Very well said mam..I am also agree with this.
Excellent answer
Very correct once in a way we can share your opinion if wright ir wrong
Simply, it is Sudha's luck, to have got a wonderful husband.
Narayana is rich as well as a modest man.
He can't dare to go against Shudha's will.
Intelligent answer ❤
Sooooo sweet she is
Sudha ji .always in Sarees n thus time mogra also 👌🙏
super 👌👍🙏
The point is there should be balance in relationship....
Loved your opinion...
This sounds good to ears. But in real life, a spouse's decisions deeply affect each other's lives, even their children and parents are affected where families live together. So you can't stay mum.
People who keep this thing in their heads continuously - the marriage of equals can never achieve that kind of marriage but only stressful marriage 😂😂😂
❤Moorthy😅😂
How matured you are madam, you are really great.
On a lighter note… Staying with your own mom
By speaking English fluently, Twinkle Khanna thinks she is asking intelligent questions. These star kids head are so full of themselves.
Twinkle is just overrated. She has nothing intrinsic really. Nothing.
She's a published author and coloumnist. She was never a star coz she never gained fame as an actress. She's extremely well- read.
Twinkle has an IQ of 120+
She is well-spoken, well read, has a fabulous sense of humour, and does not tomtom about philanthropy done on husband's money.
More than what i can say about the other published author of English books sitting in saree.
I am not fond of Twinkle, but i give credit where it is due.
@@MaithiliKulkarni 🤭🤦🤦🤦🤦
Now you got the advise and implement in Akshay Kumar, your husband’s life.
Thanks for sharing the thought of long bound ❤❤
It is getting a bit monotonous. Sounds very comical.
👌👌excellent mam
Never find any of her statements relevant🙄🙄
Final decision was always yours 😆😅🤣😜
woww...." Don't give too much opinion " 👌
Yes agree i also do the same with my husband nd having a beautiful bond nd sweel relationship
Companionship is the secret of happy marriages.!
That's a healthy relationship...!
It works with the right person ONLY.
In his professional career he can ask advise to hos spouse if he wishes, but anything to do with household, ALWAYS better to discuss BEFORE deciding 🤣🤣🤣
Main reason for happy marriage is spending quality time with wife and kids and grooming kids to be responsible citizens of tomorrow's nation. NARAYAN MURTHY SUGGESTS 70 HOURS OF WORK PER WEEK. TJIS WILL DEPRIVE SPOUSE AND KIDS OF THEIR QUALITY TIME WITH PARENTS. IT WILL DEIVE EMPLOYEES INTO DEPRESSION ANXIETY AND DEFINITELY GROKEN MARRIAGES AND CUSTODIAL BATTLES. LET HER ADVISE HER HUSBAND ON THAT
Why boys / men are liking her idea so much .. literally can't be understood...😅jab aise he understandable partner chaiye jo wise and smart ho toh shaadi ke time yehi check kerlo ki how's the mentality of girl . ...but criteria for shaadi is that girl should be of good height,fair skin ,not fat, housewife sanskari jo kuch bolti he n ho toh agge ladegi nhi shayad (although it doesn't happen as phir bhi ladegi),long black shinning hair is preferable 😂😂😂
Haad hai yrr Hippocrates hote hain ladke ....
Ek teraf smart intelligent wife chaiye dusri teraf jaam dimag ki jo jaisa bolte jaao waisa he jre zuban n ladaye waise chaiye jo apne dimag ka kabhi n istemal kare wo chaiye 😅
Can't understand the boys mindset....ek teraf physical appearance ko he priority denge phir bolenge akel he nhi hai ladki ki
she reminds me of Atalji...love her style
Madam i agree with you in totality jee
All husbands are not Narayan murti
So you will advise as a friend or as a wife? Or both same?
❤❤❤❤❤
It's true...
One needs to have a sugar daddy like tata.
Twinkle looks more like her father Rajesh Khanna
In the married life journey of an equally educated couple , whose aim is to transform their fortune from middle class to super rich is destined by sheer hardwork .When the husband opts his involvement to that enterprise solely and the wife prioritise family and stays at home. Knowing every move of her husband , she has the privilege to talk, critically analyze and put her perspective .It is the right way of enhancing the family fortune as well as the enterprise they own. Definitely Madam Sudhaji has succeeded , thus evolved herself a role model. There is no doubt about it. 🙏🙏🙏
Decision makers do consult .Let others not think decision makers are introverts forever .
Paise aye to har koi Updesh dene lagta hai...aur log bhi sunte hain..
Amma nimma matige nanu sharnu ❤
She is such an overly nice lady, you think she would ever do anything that would be offensive to him?
Secret of every relation don't give too much opinion s.😘😘😘😘
Truee
If anyone wants to do something by himself/herself then why get married? Marriage is itself a sacrifice. You sacrifice your singledom, your freedom to be by yourself. You are not single anymore. You are joined as one after marriage. I advice especially the men to not get married if they want to do things without their wife. That means letting go of Saturday night house parties with opposite gender friends, letting go of clubbing with drunken friends and so many other things. And yes always have your opinion and give your opinions without fear. Otherwise he/she will take it from someone else.
What just she said is the way to control a man 😂😂
Well she was expecting a different answer
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Want to ask, in extension to this conversation, how many times you felt his decision is not correct and you are proved correct? Just curious.
❤❤
Trueee
I do the same....so if anything goes wrong I won't b responsible
True
Amma 🥰🌞🕉🔱😇🌙🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Don't give much advice to others. U can't change others. Only to change your self. Ego hurts them
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That's right.....don't give too much opinion
70hours per week 😂😂😂
Secret is “shut the fck up woman” - she just said it in a better way. If only women could accept this fact. 😂
Maybe they fight at home we never know