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  • Опубликовано: 18 авг 2024
  • In this video we’re explaining why it took us 15 years to have a kid. 😊
    #childfree
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  • @MilR8897
    @MilR8897 5 месяцев назад +54

    My husband and were high school sweethearts. We began dating in 1990 at the ages of 15 (me) and 16 (him). We dated 13 years before getting married because we wanted to put our education first - he asked me to marry him after I graduated with my Masters. I had just gotten a promotion when we got married to an executive position and he wanted to have a baby, but I was only 28 and wanted to put my career first. When I was ready years later, he wasn't. It went on like this for 15 years (together 28 years). We had 2 senior dogs, and we took a trip, and he asked me, and I said YES at the age of 43. Gave birth at 44 (close to 45). Our baby was a BLESSING, she came right before Covid and the lockdown, we lost both our dogs, my father, his cousin and because of her - we were okay. She helped us through so much. She is 4 years old now, I'm 49 and my husband is 50. It's TOUGH, but the best thing to have ever happened to us. God bless you and your family and don't worry about what others think!

    • @ranjitdhinsa8603
      @ranjitdhinsa8603 5 месяцев назад +4

      I’m 36 I’m on the fence with having kids .. thanks for giving me hope that I can have kids lil later too

    • @MilR8897
      @MilR8897 5 месяцев назад

      @@ranjitdhinsa8603 yes, be prepared it changes your life completely, but for the better. It's hectic and you are always on the go, but sooo worth every second.

    • @bluemoonofky8468
      @bluemoonofky8468 2 месяца назад

      ​@@ranjitdhinsa8603i was your age when i had my daughter and shes the best thing i ever did. I'm old....OLDER now. Lol. 61. She has her BSN and i couldn't be any more proud of anyone as i am of her! She and my mother are literally my best friends! Its the best feeling EVER... they'll definitely give you a run for your money when they're growing up but its so much fun and changes your life completely. In my case anyway. You have plenty of time, don't let anyone tell you any differently 😊 Good luck and blessings to you 🙏 ❤

  • @junioenrique
    @junioenrique 5 месяцев назад +195

    It took us a long time to to be ready for Henrique! But now we’re so ready to welcoming him into this world!!🙏🏽💚

    • @jacklynnscott3780
      @jacklynnscott3780 5 месяцев назад +6

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @denig2000able
      @denig2000able 5 месяцев назад +8

      My younger sister was Ana's age 2 years ago having her first girl Éala🇮🇪. The day after you announced yous were pregnant in October 2023 my sister texts me to say she is having her 2nd at 41...due a couple of weeks before Ana. So yous all have me baby watching crazy😅😅😊😊❤❤❤🇮🇪🇮🇪🇮🇪🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

    • @melodybatres3253
      @melodybatres3253 5 месяцев назад +3

      ❤❤❤❤❤ Les queremos mucho!

    • @ALMAMADRE777
      @ALMAMADRE777 5 месяцев назад

      *🇧🇷ANCORA ⚓😅 CONGRATULAZIONI D'AQUÌ🇮🇹 ITALIA ILHA 😰😇🙋🙌👈🧸🧢🔵💙🟦....EU SOU AVÓ DE TB UM MENINO O GABRIEL 👶🏻🧒🏻🥰 E È VERAMENTE MARAVILHOSO...FEZ AGORA #25//02//24 BATESIMO E PRIMEIRO 1️⃣ANNIVERSARIO🎂🎉@@*

    • @ConniesCountryLivin
      @ConniesCountryLivin 5 месяцев назад +3

      And my dear friend's You two deserve it, too!

  • @griseldamartinez8338
    @griseldamartinez8338 5 месяцев назад +100

    You are such a great encouragement! My daughter is 34 and has had 5 miscarriages. She is still not giving up on wanting children! Thank you, I can stay hopeful !! 🙏🙏🙏

    • @Alitheiamono
      @Alitheiamono 5 месяцев назад +12

      I have the same age with your daughter and I have been waiting for 10 years now and I don't give up. Sorry if my English isn't good but I'm not a native speaker

    • @StephaniesStitches
      @StephaniesStitches 5 месяцев назад +12

      Sorry to hear about your daughter, but there is hope! I had 4 miscarriages and 1 stillborn and we now have 4 living children. I wish her the best!

    • @melodybatres3253
      @melodybatres3253 5 месяцев назад +7

      My sister also had 3 miscarriages and one still born. They have two beautiful daughters and the oldest is married and had her first child so now my sister is a very happy grandma ❤

    • @mylene_b
      @mylene_b 5 месяцев назад +8

      ​@@Alitheiamono your English is great, don't worry ❤

    • @griseldamartinez8338
      @griseldamartinez8338 5 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@StephaniesStitchesthank you so much! That means a lot! I will stay hopeful! ❤

  • @alsljht
    @alsljht 5 месяцев назад +87

    I remember you two saying that…. So happy you changed your minds! Henrique is a luck boy 💚

    • @ThatBrazilianCouple
      @ThatBrazilianCouple  5 месяцев назад +26

      WE are the lucky ones 🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @freedom4063
      @freedom4063 5 месяцев назад +15

      I don't know them? But just randomly saw them on youtube video's and really like them. How old r they??❤❤ I see few dancing videos their so good. I think their baby is dancing in the wound haha❤when he comes out he will be doing the cha cha or salsa❤😂their So cute. That's nice they wanna be parent's. I have the same struggle but adore kids❤

    • @ThatBrazilianCouple
      @ThatBrazilianCouple  5 месяцев назад +15

      @@freedom4063​​⁠welcome to the TBC family! We’re 39 and 42. 🤍

    • @freedom4063
      @freedom4063 5 месяцев назад +8

      May I ask what month your due date is 👶 we are so happy for you and you both will be Amazing parents. We can't wait to see this exciting journey and see him eventually dance too Lol 💕 🙏

    • @oonaghcostello3450
      @oonaghcostello3450 5 месяцев назад +7

      Oh my goodness, I see myself and my husband very similar. Thanks for sharing xx pretty amazing grace xxx

  • @janethatfield6277
    @janethatfield6277 5 месяцев назад +43

    My Mum was 43yrs old when she had me I had a fabulous childhood my Mum & I had many laughs & lots of fun. Wish you both so much love & your Son will love you very much. Xx

  • @juliannek3134
    @juliannek3134 5 месяцев назад +29

    We have two wonderful sons (47 & 44) and two wonderful grandsons(twins 23). We tried our best to be good parents. A few years ago my grandson asked me at a family dinner if I would change anything I could what it would be. I said I would have been a better mum. Both my sons immediately said I was the best mum ever and they would not have me change anything. It meant so much to me. My daughter-in-law also said I was the best and so did my grandsons. The fact that they all live close by and just drop in several times a week to just say hi and get a hug means I raised wonderful sons.

  • @gloriachambers3272
    @gloriachambers3272 5 месяцев назад +43

    We were married 17 years still no child and we adopted. It was an adjustment but oh so wonderful!

  • @nancyrossow7026
    @nancyrossow7026 5 месяцев назад +7

    I never thought I’d have children. That it just wasn’t in the cards for me and I’d accepted that. Then I met the most wonderful man. We found out a month after I turned 40 that we were expecting. My husband was 43. Easy pregnancy, easy delivery, and a very easy baby. God gives us gifts in His time and all we can do is say Thank you.
    I’m so happy for you all!

  • @oonaghcostello3450
    @oonaghcostello3450 5 месяцев назад +40

    My goodness, you speak just as myself and my husband. I am now 58, my husband 52 and our one son is 15 xxx
    Very similar to your journey, it seems. So beautiful and God given.
    May God bless you folks from Cornwall, England.

  • @user-hm4yc7dx9l
    @user-hm4yc7dx9l 5 месяцев назад +21

    Losing a baby is sad...it happened to me. And then like you, I had a son, years later. And I realized that there was a reason for it all. You both are so awesome!!! Blessed baby!!!!

  • @noelinecumming4963
    @noelinecumming4963 5 месяцев назад +36

    Your baby chose you to his mom and dad.
    He will be a blessing and you will say why did we not have you sooner. The love as parents for your baby will blow your mind.
    It is a love you cannot describe. will be in touch.

    • @vickivinzant2297
      @vickivinzant2297 5 месяцев назад +8

      GOD U.S. the one in control of our lives AND HE CREATED THIS CHILD FOR YOU BOTH Plus a four legged both!!! GOD ALWAYS KNIWS BEST! You both will be such great parents to care for GOD’S GIFT HE WILL GIVE ANNND A NAMESAKE!!! YOU BOTH HAVE BEEN BLESSED FROM GOD!!!🎚️🎚️🎚️Blessings from central NE!! I’m soon to be 77! Enjoy enjoy🎉🎉🎉 0:00

    • @cynthiahabinski2099
      @cynthiahabinski2099 5 месяцев назад +4

      So true! I've always said the happiest day of my life was the day my first baby was born. I'm 72 and she's 43 and it's still true. It's unbelievable! I think you'll both be like that too. ❤❤

    • @gerilynne1955
      @gerilynne1955 5 месяцев назад +3

      My mother used❤❤ to say this. She said I chose her and my dad as parents. I always came back with saying no, I didn't. I would have gone for rich with horses. 😂 But honestly, I had the best parents. I do believe that the child picks its parents. Just like a cat picks who it will go home with. You are blessed.

  • @corimara2431
    @corimara2431 5 месяцев назад +34

    Oh non, ce n'est pas long au contraire. Vous avez pleinement vécu votre vie de couple, vous avez pris le temps de le cimenter et vient enfin le temps où un enfant se fait sentir. Vous allez maintenant pouvoir vous consacrer pleinement à votre enfant, il sera votre priorité, sa vie et son bien être seront encore plus sacrés que les vôtres. Vous allez être riche de votre bébé, votre vision de la vie va changer, les portes de votre avenir vont s'ouvrir en grand. Et cette nouvelle aventure vous soudera encore plus, mais à 3 :) J'ai bien vécu ma jeunesse, à Paris, il y a tellement de choses à voir et à faire. J'ai eu mes filles à 28 ans et demi et 40 ans et demi, et depuis ma vie leur a été totalement consacrée, que du bonheur. Aujourd'hui, vous êtes heureux dans l'attente de bébé, vous imaginez plein de belles choses, mais la réalité va dépasser vos attentes. Vous comprendrez ce que je vous dis quand votre bébé sera dans vos bras, et vous comprendrez que ça ne s'explique pas, ça se vit 😊😊 Plein de bonheur à vous 3 :)

    • @ThatBrazilianCouple
      @ThatBrazilianCouple  5 месяцев назад +12

      We feel so much love for our baby already… can only imagine how this love gonna grow strong once he’s here earth side with us. We can’t wait! 🙏🏼

    • @karenpower2834
      @karenpower2834 5 месяцев назад +3

      He's already earthside ❤

    • @karenpower2834
      @karenpower2834 5 месяцев назад +2

      Yes he's already earthside and I'm sure is dancing along with you both with your every move in this wonderful world we call earth.Gods blessings on the three of you from Ireland 🇮🇪

    • @corimara2431
      @corimara2431 5 месяцев назад

      @@karenpower2834 , pour l'instant, il est dans la mer et dans la mère :)

    • @corimara2431
      @corimara2431 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@ThatBrazilianCouple , la fin de la grossesse est toujours très longue, le temps ne passe pas assez vite lol :)))

  • @marisa5934
    @marisa5934 5 месяцев назад +52

    The time is right for Henrique to come into your lives Ana and Junio ❤❤So looking forward to seeing Henrique for the first time 💚

  • @ChristineGraham-dl3dc
    @ChristineGraham-dl3dc 5 месяцев назад +15

    You both are so much fun to watch. Thank you for letting all of us into your life and home. I love that you dance with each other just for fun. I know that is your profession, but if it was not, I still believe you would both dance every day together like you do. As an older woman who was not blessed with children, I can tell you that it doesn't matter if you are older or younger when you become parents as long as you love each other and that little life. I can see clearly that you both love each other deeply and you both already love your son deeply. May God continue to bless you all as you grow daily in that love for each other. Thank you again for sharing with us all.

  • @Newf_Gaga
    @Newf_Gaga 5 месяцев назад +6

    The middle of the night feedings were my favorite time, especially with my first born, also a rainbow baby. The world was so silent and I could just look into that beautiful face all night. Babies grow up quicker than you ever imagine. Enjoy every second with Henrique. 💚

    • @peggystroud1263
      @peggystroud1263 5 месяцев назад +1

      I agree. My second son was born December 9th and I loved those private, silent night feedings, with the Christmas lights on.

    • @Newf_Gaga
      @Newf_Gaga 2 месяца назад

      @@peggystroud1263 I agree, Christmas time is very special with a newborn. My first born was a boy, and he was my rainbow baby. With all the health issues throughout the pregnancy, he was my miracle. He was born on December 1st. His due date was the 21st, so I was happy we got a couple weeks between his birthday and Christmas. I watched Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer and other classic specials while in labor.

  • @Educate.Tomorrow.2DA
    @Educate.Tomorrow.2DA 5 месяцев назад +16

    This video was an extreme reflection of your character, emotional empathy and your willingness to openly share your feelings of love and genuine compassion for all. Your experiences of life takes a lot to share and I commend you for that, especially on such a personal topic. I know for I, myself experienced it 4 times before having 2 beautiful children. I lost one child at 8 months (during pregnancy) on Mother’s Day, nonetheless. I was devastated needless to say. The pain was unbearable. Something, as Ana says … the hardest thing a woman feels in her life…YET.. we need to and find ways to move on.. your video I feel will help MANY, in their own ways, to feel better about their “situation” give them hope, inspiration and or just to say “it’s ok” … I firmly believe “everything happens for a reason” we may not like it, understand it or want to accept it at the time but it’s in our plan .. So here we are Junio and Ana… God has graced you both with the “right time” to rejoice as a family. You soon will be blessed with the arrival of your blessed child, Henrique ..he will bring you such joy and you both will learn so much from him whether you realize it or not just about life in general. He may be small but will bring you such huge amounts of happiness and great things. The lessons and wisdom you shared in your video came from your heart and you also shared some feedback so eloquently I truly respected that. You both are such a class act.
    I’d love 💕 to work with you both!! BTW.. still open to being the certified Nanny 😊
    Seriously, though… You truly are both genuine, down to earth , a loving 🥰 humble pair. Whom I’m proud to call a fellow Brazilian!! Enjoy these last few weeks they are sooo important.
    Much 💕 Love and Blessings to all.. Jackie in New Hampshire

  • @user-sl5rt4nr6p
    @user-sl5rt4nr6p 5 месяцев назад +8

    I had my third child at 43, and right around when your bambini emerges from being 'that traveller beneath the sea," our young man will graduate from university w/ honors! he grew us in ways...We worked hard to provide for him at many levels! He thanks us, and realizes what we managed, demonstrating his gratitude as a young man by eveything he has done to now prepare himself to launch! I was a dancer choreographer, and yes, there is always room to make room for what is right for each of us in this life! Positiveivty is a way of living. Your child will be your greatest teacher.
    Congratulations on growing up!! Hurray for Henriques Team!!!

    • @shalom744
      @shalom744 5 месяцев назад

      They are talking about first timers

  • @lisaflores8801
    @lisaflores8801 5 месяцев назад +16

    It was the right timing ! CONGRATULATIONS on Henrique!!🩵

  • @sherrir3195
    @sherrir3195 2 месяца назад +1

    Absolutely agree with you on waiting, time creates maturity and financially stability.

  • @morninggloryfarmstead
    @morninggloryfarmstead 5 месяцев назад +3

    You guys are more energetic at your age than most people half you age. You both will be golden. Many parents are not that involved and let technology raise their kids so you have a HUGE headstart. So happy for you guys and your baby is so blessed.

  • @naylabyxbe3411
    @naylabyxbe3411 5 месяцев назад +9

    You are correct…when you shift EVERYONE WILL SHIFT! WE ARE ALL CONNECTED! THIS WILL BE SO FUN FOR YOU!

  • @heidia6270
    @heidia6270 5 месяцев назад +6

    Now is your time to be parents! I truly feel that life happens when it is supposed to happen. We don’t understand why and can’t figure that out, but we are not supposed to! Henrique is already loved so much and will bring so much joy in your lives! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @susangibson7532
    @susangibson7532 5 месяцев назад +12

    Right decision, right time, right reason, perfect parents. I wish you all the best and a wonderful happy and healthy life with your baby boy. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kathybelanger2092
    @kathybelanger2092 5 месяцев назад +6

    I have a friend who had a tubal reversal at 40 to have another child, and she has never regretted that decision. We all have to listen to our hearts. Stay true to yourselves and what feels right in your hearts.

  • @Miapetdragon69
    @Miapetdragon69 5 месяцев назад +5

    The fact that you know that you can only do your best as parents, is going to make you the best parents in the world! I have a lot of respect for the both of you for the things that I've watched you go through in the last year and a half it's been a real pleasure watching you grow as a couple as soon to be parents because it's already quite apparent that you two are as in love now as you were when you got married... Being parents you're right isn't right for everyone, I started my family extremely young I had four children before I was 21 years old.... But now I have grandchildren and I get to watch them.... And someday you're going to have the same joy 😊

  • @lindahinds8388
    @lindahinds8388 5 месяцев назад +3

    I love that you did it when you were ready, not because you felt it was expected. I pray everything goes well during the birthing of your son and the you have many blissful time with him. The fact that you both are physically fit is in your favor to be around for all those milestones you were talking about. God Bless you both and the son that will be joining you very soon.

  • @Joyfully8888
    @Joyfully8888 5 месяцев назад +6

    Hi Ana & Junio, first of all I love both of you very much. I am a subscriber to your channel and have been following you a long time. I had my sons at 23yr old and 27yr… I was working full time in my career since the age of 19… If I had been a dancer (ballet) like you guys, then I probably would have waited to have a baby until my thirties. Everything you have done for yourselves has been a good fit for you and that’s okay. All of us plan our lives as what is best for us. All of us are different people with different careers. I’ve always believed that things happen for a reason. The most important thing to focus on right now is that your beautiful baby Henrique will be born and into your arms. You will be loving amazing parents!! I am excited to see baby Henrique! We are so lucky that you will let us into our lives and in your journey as parents. Thank you and God Bless you. ♥️🥰

  • @lindamaloney1651
    @lindamaloney1651 5 месяцев назад +3

    LOVED this video! Thank you so much for sharing your intimate thoughts with us! It is such a PRIVILEGE to be part of your journey! YES! The time is right for you now! You are going to be such AMAZING parents! Sending love to you and your family!

  • @amber087
    @amber087 5 месяцев назад +2

    Henrique was made just for you two. I pray each day is filled with the reminder that love surrounds and never forsakes. Ana your labor is going to be so beautiful, you were made for it. You are calm in the chaos and you truly radiate the strength God bestowed on you. Junio you are such a beautiful reminder of childlike joy and hoary head (older) wisdom. Both of you will impact Henrique's life with joy, wisdom, and profound strength and beauty. I am praying for you and know all good things will arrive to you at the perfect time

  • @lisaphillips2306
    @lisaphillips2306 5 месяцев назад +3

    AWWW You guys are truly amazing humans and are going to be such wonderful parents!! ❤ Henrique... The world awaits your arrival... See you soon. 🎉🎉🎉 Praying all goes smoothly for you beautiful Ana. Junio... Youre going to be great!! Being nervous shows how great of a father you'll be. 😅 Good luck with your new journey in life as parents. LOTS of hugs and love from Kansas. 💞

  • @Mrsmadison45
    @Mrsmadison45 5 месяцев назад +6

    Exactly being the right time for yourselves to start a Family ❤
    You all may be in your 40's age is a number yes Mother Nature also plays in this to. My Mother had my little sister at age 40 and she just turned 51, my Mother is 91 ❤ i am turning 65 and my oldest Sister is 67 ❤

  • @ruthboswell4604
    @ruthboswell4604 5 месяцев назад +10

    I never stop being amazed at the fact that if we do plan things in our lives God will always change it to His plan what ever it is and I really believe that you are going to be wonderful parents because you know that God will be helping you both. God bless all 3 of you. Sending my love from England xxx

  • @amberservold2187
    @amberservold2187 5 месяцев назад +5

    You are ready when you're ready.Period!! What a beautiful couple 💑

  • @santuvidal
    @santuvidal 2 месяца назад +1

    My husband and I had a baby at 36 and 37 . After 10 years of marriage because we decided to be ready . And we don’t regret at all ❤️✨😍 it was the best time for us as a couple
    As a family etc ! I won’t do it in a different way !

  • @mrmb9203
    @mrmb9203 5 месяцев назад +7

    Cherish those night time moments rocking your baby. That time will pass so quickly. You will miss those nights later in your life.

  • @sandybateman2504
    @sandybateman2504 5 месяцев назад +2

    That was the most beautiful conversation. You have both grown emotionally. Henrique is blessed as are you. ❤

  • @shelleysalvatore1069
    @shelleysalvatore1069 5 месяцев назад +5

    Once again I love watching you guys! you guys are so humble and full of light literally your energy and dancing brightens my days! Much love and blessings to you guys!

  • @carolhernandez9678
    @carolhernandez9678 5 месяцев назад +4

    My husband & I were 20(me) & 30 years old when we married. We did not want kids immediately because we wanted to get to know each other as a married couple, so after 4 yrs we decided to. Our daughter was a blessing for us and I loved being pregnant, especially feeling her grow inside of me was such a beautiful experience. As soon as she was placed in my arms after birth, I instantly felt a love so immensely & a love greater then the love I have for my mom & my husband, which is an uncontrollable feeling that comes naturally. I can't wait to meet you're handsome blessing Henrique! 💙

  • @user-bu2yt8dw6i
    @user-bu2yt8dw6i 5 месяцев назад +4

    I just wanted to say, i loved listening to you explanation of how you arrived at where you are today. It all made perfect sense, and your baby is very lucky to have you as his parents. I wish you both every happiness for the future, and cant wait to meet your precious little bundle of joy. Sending much love from the UK ❤

  • @ElizabethBiffin
    @ElizabethBiffin 4 месяца назад +1

    Dear Juno and Anna
    I am from Australia and I have 6 children and they are all getting older. You make me smile and I truly believe you are so ready to have this little baby. I feel everything you say and I think you will be beautiful parents. You are true to yourselves and are honest . The love you have for each other radiates to your unborn baby . I love watching you dance as my mum and dad were dancers
    My heart ❤️ is full of joy for you both . Enjoy these last few weeks and I look forward to seeing you as a complete family . God bless you all my love from Australia liz

  • @loriarmstrong4451
    @loriarmstrong4451 5 месяцев назад +4

    I am so proud of both of you and I know that you both of you will be AMAZING parents ❤️ I look forward to the next chapter of you 2's journey. I can easily see Ana pushing a stroller around while Junio walks Julie. I am super happy that God allowed you 2 to play, figure things out, pursue dancing (and each other) for 15 wonderful years before blessing you 2 with a bundle of joy. I absolutely LOVE your love story. ❤

  • @jeffreydeeds9225
    @jeffreydeeds9225 5 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for such a candid and heartfelt video. I am so happy for you both to become parents. You are wise and realistic in your mindset and I believe you will be great parents.

  • @vanessainsan
    @vanessainsan 5 месяцев назад +2

    Your baby is already so loved by so many ❤ You’ll be amazing parents!

  • @martina5923
    @martina5923 5 месяцев назад +7

    May God bless you both and your precious bundle of joy to come!🥰

  • @Sasha-lk3cm
    @Sasha-lk3cm 5 месяцев назад +1

    I love that you both waited until it was the right time for you both! I think a lot of people don’t put much planning into this choice but you both are so prepared emotionally and will be incredible parents. I’m so happy for you two and your baby soon to come! ❤

  • @francesmcwilliams1729
    @francesmcwilliams1729 5 месяцев назад +4

    Positivity is everything. You two are going to be wonderful parents. You know what you want and just go for it. Dont worry, just relax and enjoy every moment.

  • @JC-tn9iv
    @JC-tn9iv 5 месяцев назад +2

    Your prayers were answered at just the right time. God is so good. All your families will be blessed by having your little man-child in their lives 👍🏻👌🏻🫶🏻❤️🙏🏻☺️. Congratulations 🎊🎈🍾🎉

  • @lsteiner9304
    @lsteiner9304 5 месяцев назад +1

    We waited 10 years after marriage, on purpose, before we had our son. I was 35, and it happened when it was supposed to. We were much more mature and ready. I thought I would regret it if I didn't have a baby and became too old. I am not a big believer in doing what society does. A lot of folks have children being pushed by society and aren't ready to even be parents. It is definitely the biggest blessing in life. You are both beautiful and will have a beautiful baby.

  • @christinewarren7536
    @christinewarren7536 5 месяцев назад +4

    Junio I was thinking that you were kind of therapy talking. Then you said it. I observed that Ana is adjusting to the new situation as her body changes. Junio is adapting as Ana changes But junio, just wait until you lay your eyes on Henrique for the first time in the flesh. There is going to be such a marvelous feeling come over you that will fill you with love and joy, fear and wonder. I can’t wait for you to feel that.

  • @Ruth-xr2dz
    @Ruth-xr2dz 4 месяца назад +1

    I once heard a man say, “every day you postpone having a baby is one less day you have to spend with each other.” The reality of this statement really hit me. I waited 8 years after getting married. I personally don’t recommend waiting but I realize everyone is different.

  • @phylliswurm9473
    @phylliswurm9473 5 месяцев назад +5

    You were both young and with careers. So you planned your lives as you should and if and when the time is right you decide. Blessings to you and your family. 👍

  • @bonniejeancampbell3851
    @bonniejeancampbell3851 5 месяцев назад +1

    You are 2 such beautiful people inside and out, i am happy for you and your soon to arrive baby ! You will be great parents and it will be a blessing to you because it is the right time for you.

  • @dianeleitch7049
    @dianeleitch7049 5 месяцев назад +15

    Nobody should ever ask a couple when they were having kids..It could be they can't have any so nobody should assume.

    • @SJ47668
      @SJ47668 5 месяцев назад +1

      I think it’s ok for family to ask - it’s a natural thing, if you can’t, you can be open with your family. Acquaintances should never ask.

  • @sternschnuppe4668
    @sternschnuppe4668 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you very much for this personal conversation. I have 3 children and had my first baby at the age of 25. And the second at 37, the third at 40. It was the right decision for me. Because unfortunately you often can't plan your life. I also believe that everyone has to decide for themselves. When or whether you want to have a child at all. My motto is "Live and let live." Everyone should and must decide for themselves. Only if something is not forced is it good the way it is. I wish you both all the best for the rest of your pregnancy, the forthcoming birth and your life together with Henrique. Best wishes from Germany 🤗🥰👼🙏🍀💖💞😘

  • @debrawade6656
    @debrawade6656 5 месяцев назад +1

    My daughter will be turning 40 at the end of March. She has always said that she would never have a baby. Well God had a different plan for her. Now we’re expecting a lil boy in May and she couldn’t be happier. God knows when you’re ready and yes some people can get ahead of God but she is so excited about her bundle of joy because it is her time now. I’ve been watching your journey and now I’m watching my daughters also. God bless❤️

  • @denisemccormick6564
    @denisemccormick6564 5 месяцев назад +2

    My husband and I had a child in our 40s. We had been married 16 years when we found out. We were having alot of fun before this but were ready for the future with baby. Enjoy, its alot of work but delightful. Now we look after our 6 year old grandchild, in our 70s. We didnt think we'd have a grandbaby but he is so special

  • @jacquelinelicht576
    @jacquelinelicht576 5 месяцев назад +4

    Having your baby at a later age is a plus ...you are wiser more settled and more adaptabilile realizing what a true priority is ...❤❤❤

  • @mavisrosemond7346
    @mavisrosemond7346 5 месяцев назад +1

    I think you guys waited at the right time. I understand how you feel Anna God bless you both every thing. Happens for a reason ❤

  • @lindapelton9614
    @lindapelton9614 5 месяцев назад +9

    Very great video. Just wish through your excitement you would let each other speak without interruption.

  • @user-zy7pk5jw3g
    @user-zy7pk5jw3g 5 месяцев назад +1

    Hi guys,
    Wow, watching your video from Slovakia (central Europe), wishing you all the best.
    My husband (who is British) & I were in exactly the same situation as you, with our lives, careers, opinions about kids, our time came when I turned 40 and my husband 45, we became parents to a beautiful girl, who is about to turn 6 (cannot believe it), enjoying every single moment of parenthood.
    I think being an older parent is amazing, we've done our clubbing, pubbing, working and now there's time to concentrate on our child.
    Hope you also will enjoy everything that there is to enjoy and a lot more.
    Can't wait to see your journey as three❤

  • @karenkissick6884
    @karenkissick6884 5 месяцев назад +1

    So happy for you two. Children are so full of wonderment and fun. God bless your family....😊

  • @HSHeart723
    @HSHeart723 5 месяцев назад +1

    I'm so happy for you both and can identify a lot with what you said. My husband and I knew that we wanted kids but I am SO glad we waited until I was 34 and my husband was 39. We had our fourth when I was 40 and we feel like our family is complete. We love being parents but waiting until we were ready was a big deal for us.

  • @kimjensen1217
    @kimjensen1217 5 месяцев назад +1

    Having kids is a very individual thing, age, life circumstances, etc, are all different , some people (like you said) once they're married they want kids, some don't. What's right for you isn't what's right for someone else. I'm 66 yrs old & after 13 years of infertility @ age 25 I was blessed to be able to start my family of 7 kids (my last at 44 yrs old)!! I can tell you there are some things about parenting you're NEVER prepared for (especially the exhaustion!), but once you make the choice to be a parent you're saying you're willing to learn & be prepared for whatever the challenges are ahead. Life changes drastically, but when you're willing to choose that, then you can do it!

  • @loriroy8352
    @loriroy8352 5 месяцев назад +1

    I absolutely adore you both!! I can't wait to see your beautiful baby!! He is so lucky to have you as his Mommy and Daddy 💜

  • @pamelamiller3961
    @pamelamiller3961 5 месяцев назад +1

    I was forty when I had my daughter. She is the best thing that ever happened to me. Now I am a grandma to a beautiful grandson.

  • @user-jd7go2st1h
    @user-jd7go2st1h 5 месяцев назад +7

    You will love the road you have chosen ❤

  • @vickiescholl9453
    @vickiescholl9453 5 месяцев назад +1

    You two are so ready. God Bless you on this new journey. You will be wonderful parents.

  • @kayhillman8628
    @kayhillman8628 5 месяцев назад +1

    What a wise and responsible conversation❣️ You 2 are wonderful role models for divine parents.

  • @Aztecadr
    @Aztecadr 4 месяца назад

    Ana, I practiced hypnobirthing starting at about 6 weeks before my due date everyday and I can assure you that it helped me have the most peaceful and painless delivery. It was with my second pregnancy but even if it is your first, I highly recommwnd it even if you want to have an epidural, the breathing and positive thoughts help you throug the labor.
    Im so happy for you two. I had my 3 rd baby when I had just turned 40 she is really keeping me on my toes. It's your only baby so far so things will go smootly for you two new parents. Junio will be of great support but Ana dont be afraid to ask him for help or to hold the baby so you can get a nap, especialy if you breastfeed. Blessings!

  • @denisejordan8648
    @denisejordan8648 5 месяцев назад +1

    You two are precious and your love for family and God is magnificent. ❤

  • @angelabroom2861
    @angelabroom2861 5 месяцев назад +1

    God bless you all. Your little boy is blessed to have you both as his parents. I pray for his safe arrival. X

  • @robinbush784
    @robinbush784 5 месяцев назад

    You are such a voice to parents that want to have kids later in life. My husband met late in life and I had a boy at 40 and another at 42!! I don’t regret it!!
    Love you guys tons ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @deborahadams2993
    @deborahadams2993 5 месяцев назад +1

    Congratulations to you both on your up coming baby I am sure you will amazing parents you are lucky you got to this point they say the longer you wait the harder it is to get pregnant so you have been blessed for sure god bless you both and the new baby that is about to come in your life I hope your delivery goes very well and the baby is healthy all the best

  • @margaretleinster5129
    @margaretleinster5129 5 месяцев назад +3

    Age is only a number you are about to have the most precious gift in ur life its an amazing feeling you will be brilliant parents ❤❤❤

  • @homeboundmama9968
    @homeboundmama9968 5 месяцев назад +3

    I truly understand the reason why you waited. Your life had to be ready. I understand the loss as well, I lost my first child at three months, my last child at 71/2 month. Had my two in between. God has his purpose for everything. You are so blessed. Praying for a wonderful life for your family. ❤❤❤❤

    • @zipmegolden
      @zipmegolden 5 месяцев назад +1

      So sorry. I lost first born at full term. A boy. Then I had another boy 18 months later, and a girl 18 mo after that. It's very hard loosing a child at any age
      It puts a hole in your heart. God bless you! ❤❤

  • @judyshirley4191
    @judyshirley4191 5 месяцев назад +1

    I’m so excited for you 3!! Love your love and your precious puppy!! Ever since I started watching your dancing and loving them I thought you were newly weds😮 I’m praying for your sweet growing family !! I love how beautifully you can still dance!! I water skiid with my first baby 😊 I’m now a great Grama!! Hard to believe how fast time goes! I can’t wait to see your beautiful little Henrique🩵💙❤💜I don’t know if you’ve revealed your due date or not? Keep smiling and keep dancing!

  • @lenamartinez1076
    @lenamartinez1076 5 месяцев назад +1

    You both are such beautiful souls. You both are going to be the best, patient, loving parents

  • @nellpulaski4919
    @nellpulaski4919 5 месяцев назад +1

    I had boys when i ess 42 and 43. They will keep you young is what my midwife said . Truth!!❤️

  • @lourdesmicallef3120
    @lourdesmicallef3120 5 месяцев назад +1

    Can't wait to see henrique ❤ it's such a big blessing God bless you all ❤

  • @malka8901
    @malka8901 5 месяцев назад

    It’s good to be just real when these types of topics come up. Children are gifts from God. May you, Ana have an easy labor and a healthy baby! You will be wonderful parents. You learn as you go!

  • @ozmonto
    @ozmonto 4 месяца назад

    I love this. You will make wonderful parents❤ I had a partner for all of my 20s and half my 30s, but on top of becoming very ill, I didn’t want to have a baby with him as was not confident we were right for one another. I have just turned 40 and am only just in a place where I am healthy enough to fathom pregnancy (and off many of my immunesuppressants), but have been really panicking internally that I’m getting too old and am single. Your video made me feel so much better about my situation. If it is meant to, it will happen….and hey, there’s always a sperm donor🥰 it’s quite an uncomfortable notion to sit with as a woman - the possibility of not having a child (especially when you feel called to it), but you really did ease my anxieties on the topic:) wishing you all the best for the remainder of your pregnancy and of course the birth. Much love xoxox

  • @barbarahoover3941
    @barbarahoover3941 5 месяцев назад +3

    Omg Great talk everything you've said is so true. But even before this talk I know your going to be great parents. ❤❤❤

  • @CatMoonErickson
    @CatMoonErickson 5 месяцев назад +1

    This is a beautiful, unique story. God Bless❣️🙏🏻

  • @TM-mw4tc
    @TM-mw4tc 2 месяца назад

    I am so grateful I came upon your RUclips. Watching you is like watching a good Hallmark Movie. I love you both!!

  • @kristenchuraman4883
    @kristenchuraman4883 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for sharing. I have been following you for awhile now and love and admire you both. Kristen

  • @brendashelonko2149
    @brendashelonko2149 5 месяцев назад

    This is a perfect time for the two of you given the evolution of your careers as professional dancers who have now also built a successful social media career. I say “a” perfect time, because there is no “one” time that is perfect.

  • @valeriesonnenburg5695
    @valeriesonnenburg5695 5 месяцев назад

    Everything happens in God's timing. I'm so excited for your little family and your new journey. You're going to be amazing parents! Anna, you already have the "Mom sway." Congratulations & can't wait to meet your little boy

  • @jillrudy5599
    @jillrudy5599 5 месяцев назад

    I'm happy for both of you. My favorite part of being a mom was changing outfits I couldn't get enough . It was exciting and fun . Going into a store was my weakness because you go in for one or two things and than you end up with outfits. It was fun .every age that they turn you enjoy . Have a good day. You two are going to be great parents.

  • @beckyp9700
    @beckyp9700 5 месяцев назад

    My husband and I have been married 32 years. We had our kids after 12 yrs of marriage. He is 21 and she is 19. I am glad the kids happened when they did. I was not ready for them before that. Congratulations to you guys. You are going to be great parents.

  • @destinysisco3142
    @destinysisco3142 5 месяцев назад +1

    You guys always make me smile ❤

  • @silviamendezpere6797
    @silviamendezpere6797 5 месяцев назад +1

    Estimados, me siento identificada con aspectos de vuestra historia. También perdimos a nuestro primer embarazo, al poco tiempo de casarnos. No lo esperábamos, fue muy doloroso porque nos habíamos ilusionado mucho. Tanto nos afectó que a partir de allí anhelabamos mucho tener un bebé. Felizmente casi un año y medio después y gracias a Dios, nació nuestro primer hijo y al año y medio nuestra hija. Ambos son muy buenas personas y no nos han dado mayores problemas, fueron hijos muy deseados y eso es muy importante. Hoy llevamos 43 años juntos y somos abuelos de dos nietos hermosos. Dios les bendiga grandemente! Serán muy buenos padres por lo que aman y desean al bebé y por el amor que se tienen.
    Mis saludos desde Uruguay.❤

  • @peggystroud1263
    @peggystroud1263 5 месяцев назад

    You two are adorable. Ana you are remarkable (you also Juno) but keeping it real, Ana is doing the physical work. Your attitude is wonderful, and your delivery will be also. My boys are not 50 and 46 and I had them when I wsa 17 /21. The other end of the spectrum from you. I was slightly anxious about the delivery at about 7 months. And told myself, no use worrying, this is nature and will happen. Just flow. And I did and all was well. I cannot believe your baby is 4.1 Lbs- I am guessing he will be 9 Lbs at birth. We are all so excited and happy for you. Keep enjoying the process.

  • @heidiraphael972
    @heidiraphael972 5 месяцев назад

    That’s why always I was say to stay open when it comes having to children.. 😊

  • @priscilamonte-serrat2520
    @priscilamonte-serrat2520 5 месяцев назад

    Kids are a blessing. They teach us so much❤️

  • @marshagonzales593
    @marshagonzales593 5 месяцев назад

    What a beautiful story! I'm so happy for you!!!
    I really believe your baby was talking to you in your dream when you guys were talking about his name! They are thinking and learning and very smart even in the womb.
    I used to take a bath and play games with my boys when I was pregnant. They even learn while they are still not born yet.
    I used to put a cup on my belly and they would kick the cup off my belly, then I would switch it up with a cloth they would try and kick it hard off but it wouldn't work so they would glide there foot hard to try and push the cloth off my belly. They are so smart. Some people start teaching their babies when they feel they are old enough to understand. I started teaching my babies even before they were born.
    They already have likes and dislikes to music how they like sleeping everything. I used to fight with them cause I wanted to lay one way and they would want to lay another. They let you know lol. It's such a beautiful time when your pregnant a moment of bonding like no other!
    When they finally come, it's so much fun seeing the little personality that you already started to know before they were born.❤❤❤

  • @mysweetchloe
    @mysweetchloe 5 месяцев назад +1

    Such a good vlog. You both sound happy, calm and excited. "What will be, will be" is a terrific mind set. I had 10 years of infertility. It was very hard. But then God gave me boy/girl twins. He knows what he's doing. Blessings!

  • @corduladressler3669
    @corduladressler3669 5 месяцев назад +1

    ... My son was born when I was 48, after many years of trying... With all the pregnancy hormones my body received a shower of rejuvenating power & everything was possible in the best way... Just be open-minded in the future, because it'll be more about your son than about you a as individuals or as a couple ... Wishing you all the best from the bottom of my heart... Much love from Crete/Greece 🤗💞💪

  • @pamelakruger7275
    @pamelakruger7275 5 месяцев назад

    Sounds like you weren't ready to be parents and still wasn't sure you wanted to be parents yet in 22 the 1st time you were pregnant, but having the miscarriage made you realize how much you wanted to be parents. So God gave you this child because he knows that you will treasure him and give him all the love and care he deserves ❤️. You two are so wonderful, you decided to get to know everything about each other b4 becoming parents and it shows. You are soulmates 💜 the love you share is awesome to see. It shows in everything that you do. Your baby will be truly blessed. 😊

  • @marilynarias4252
    @marilynarias4252 5 месяцев назад

    Queridos padres de Enrique, solo tengan sus experiencias, y compartan con nosotros...las opiniones de los demás no son determinantes en nuestras vidas...denle todo ese amor q ustedes tienen para el...es un bebe arcoiris...q los hace sentir tan afortunados❤

  • @brendaharness3793
    @brendaharness3793 5 месяцев назад

    You will be great parents! I can't wait to see him learn to dance!