i just got off a very toxic and haram relationship, mufti has made it clear that my love should be only for allah but ive fallen for the traps of shaitaan, please pray for my happiness and well being, jazakallah mufti
Same situation here love. I was with a Muslim man for over a year, who was controlling and manipulative. Thankfully the end result was opening my eyes to the beauty of being Islam.
Please never ever accept this behaviour from any man, whether he be Muslim or not. This is a sign of further violence to come and a very severe lack of respect. I hope you're feeling better now, at least a little. May Allah make it easy for us sisters to have halal marriages@@starcherry6814
Alhamdulilah. Left my haraam relationship today. I feel sad Ofcourse. But I know Allah has a better plan for me. A good plant can not come from a bad seed.
I just broke up yesterday and feel low. My iman is fluctuating and has been kinda low recently and now i cried and now these videos keep showing in my feed. Allah is probably giving me a sign because this has happened multiple times today. At first i got a reel reminding me to do shalah, and when i went out with my friend she gave me a praying gown...and then a video saying 'this is a sign from allah" before ended up to this video. I think Allah is trying to soothe my tears and heart ache because there is no thing as coincidence. Make dua for me so i will be able to be close with Allah again and hopefully he will grant me a good spouse and children. 😇😇
I am in tears right now brothers and sisters and I can’t breathe. I was in a haram relationship with a man and he was so toxic towards me I had to distance myself from him. I really wish I hadn’t got myself involved in this kinda relationship which was 2 years ago. Please keep me in your duas 😭😭
She cut off our relationship. And I understand her no matter how hard and painful it is. May Allah reunites us again and grant us to be halal. I did step up a lot of times wanting to talk to her parents for us to be halal. But she always stop me saying it’s not the right time because I am not yet ready. We are both muslims, I am a revert for 1 year now. But another factor is because, we are different nationality. I trust Allah, and leave everything to him. I don’t know what she thinks of me now, maybe just like Mufti said, I am not acceptable by her parents.Or maybe it’s what I think that I am not rich, I am not arab… I am only a decent muslim with a pure intention to their daughter. She is always on my prayer. May Allah forgive us all 🤲🏻
Remember women: any man that is interested in you for marriage, he should NOT hesitate one bit when meeting your mahram/your parents/your caretakers/your wali ❤ it's really hard in the times we're in now, May Allah make it easy for us to get married in the right way
Haram relationship is the root of all the chaos in the world, which the Young Generation has a lot of trouble understanding, the world is a trap of Satan for a short time, this Haram relationship, in my opinion, Haram relationship is going directly against Allah and His Messenger, so everyone is Allah and His Messenger. It is a request to follow the path shown by it, O Allah, grant everyone understanding.
Indeed, now when some us being oldest siblings having learnt islam, when your trying to teach and tell and help your family members, due to their own haram relationships, they fought be tooth and nail. it's unfortunate that they don't seem to care. it's a horrible world where they themselves suffer from the consequences of having gotten married after having a haram relationship.
It is clearcut in Islam, if these practices are prevalent, then it is the beginning of the end. The major signs of the day of judgment and turmoil will coincide with the immorality of MUSLIMS.
So true. I’ve been in one and my life went downhill… I suffered from a lot of anxiety, stress and hardship but it bought me closer with our religion so it happend for a reason
me and him, we've stopped talking for the sake of allah alhamdulillah. but we're not too old yet both of us are 18 at the moment. so my brothers and sisters in faith, i request you to pray for us and pray for our early marriage and that allah reunites us in the near future in sha allah. jazakallah khair
Amen sum Amen ❤ ..plz pray for us as well ...we are going through same situation ....and wanna get nikkahfied as soon as possible ... May Allah unite as in best relationship called nikkah with his mercy Amen sum Amen ....i really want to make our relationship halal in the form of nikkah ❤
I was in a Haram relationship. And my parents came to know about it but now unfortunately they are not talking to me😭.My father does not want to even see me😢. My parents trusted on me a lot but I broke their trust😭 but now I want to earn their trust back Because I have realized many things now like how far I was from Allah how rudely I used to talk to everybody even with my mother 😭.it's been a week nobody in my family is talking to me except my Little sister😢. I asked Allah for forgiveness because I know I have done a big sin😭. May Allah forgive me. May Allah show me good path. May Allah bring my parents back to me. May Allah give me strength to win my parents trust again.😭 Allah is merciful. He is forgiver. He loves to forgive. I believe that He will forgive me very soon😭 Please pray for me....pray that Allah will forgive me and my parents will Talk to me very soon.😢🤲
That is why Allah made relationships haram , he knows what kind of harm they do to us. And I believe when it's time Allah will bring someone who's good for us The perfect one for us💗
Each and every word of yours is so damn true Mufti, may Allah bless you and thank you so much my dear sheikh cause I was in a beautiful haraam relationship to whom I intended to get married but unfortunately it didn't work and for the sake of Allah my counterpart decided to call off the relationship and thanx to almighty that he helped me to get through it as once it was an impossible task for me because in my wildest I had never thought of living without her but it happened and we got seperated, I request everyone to please make dua for both of us for committing heinous sins and may our creator accepts our repentance and grant us blessings and a good life partner which I am asking in my every salah, Sheikh please make dua for my repentance and to get a good noble and religious wife with whom I can have good kids and they all can become coolness of my eyes.
@@Moody.Smiruai it means we were about to get married but fortunately she passed her medical exams and I am still struggling in life...due to which I was ditch, and we had to separate... before all that, it was going smoothly and swiftly but distance set us apart, that's why it was 'beautiful haraam relationship' ☺️
being a hindu i love islam teachings and modesty mentioned in qaran even i did ramdan fasting to work on self . truly it bring me peace whenever i listen allah prayers it put my soul at ease and bring peace to my soul . i feel i dont need to be a muslim just to please God or allah . thank you mufti sir for the teachings . love from india . i pray may allah bring peace to my soul and heal my heart . ameen
Thank you Allah...for showing this video... I was in love with a Hindu guy and since then I ve been dealing with sufferings and now I realize that it's Haram so I'm letting go of it... I know at the right time Allah will send the right person to me... Alhamdulillah ❤
Did you do zikr today? No? Okay, let's do it now, it won't take long! Astaghfirullah ×5 SubhanAllah ×5 Alhamdulillah ×5 Allahu Akbar ×5 La ilaaha illaAllah ×3 Subhan Allahi wa bihamdihi ×3 Subhan Allah al'adheem ×3 Allahumma inni as'alukal jannah ×3 Allahumma ajirni minan naar ×3 Allahumma salli alaa Muhammad wa'ala aali Muhammad wabaarik wasallim × 3 Subhanallahi wabihamdihi adada qalqihi wa-ridaa nafsihi wazinata arshihi wa-midaada kalimaatih × 3
Brother it is: wa midaada khalqihi* please correct this so our brothers and sisters read the dua the correct quranic way. Jazak Allah hoe khair my brothe.
We made it Halal by marrying each other. We now pray for the mercy of Allah. It's quite disheartening to share that only way to be with each other was to indulge in such relationship. May Allah have mercy on us and forgive our sins.
This showed up in my recommendation just when i needed it. Presently i am at a stage in life wherein i have been deeply indulged in emotional breakdowns. And it is all emerging from something that we, in this generation, call situationship. I definitely cannot do justice to explaining the matter as clearly as Sheikh Mufti did in this video, but i must say that as people of this generation, connections like these are so common and appealing between boys and girls. It is only later when this bubble of ur extravagant fantasies breaks, and you finally understand that the person you thought to be your forever one is the one who causes you so much pain and suffering. Do not let yourself slide in these types of connections. Islam teaches love, but only the type of love that brings happiness and harmony to you and your family within the sanctity, chastity, and teachings of the Quran. May Allah grant us the wisdom to differentiate between the halal and the haram. Always seek refuge in Allah. He is the all Knower. Aameen.
I hv started praying tahajjud since 5 months continuously without any break which has made me a complete different person..once u start praying it helps us to avoid any wrong doings or haram relation..I had a frnd who was continuously asking for a relationship which was haram.. I told him my conscious does not allow me to do so and for the sake of Allah I will not indulge into it...that guy stopped calling..Allah saved me from doing anything haram...shukar allham dullilah
I can categorically say from experience that 99% of women are the ones who end up suffering. Guys are perpetually creating fitna and seeking haram relationships. The women have to stay strong stand up for themselves. You are worth it!
Subhan'Allah Alhamdulillah mufti i got married my father fixed my marriage when i finished my medicine degree listening your lecture today I messaged him thank you for such a nice man and protected me from suffering etc etc situations
wow mufti menk humbled me. I was going through a rough time and he broke up with me because "i was too much" but he wanted to ask for my hand in july. I prayed for him wanting him to start praying and wanting him to have a better life. now I see him out with other girls. I just wanted it to be halal. he left me at my lowest and i never been so depressed. I trusted him to ask for my hand but he didnt even fear Allah. He couldnt even do the bare minium and anytime i pray i couldn't be a prayer without mentioning him. It seemed like allah swt gave him this dunya. Allah swt is the best of planners i wish i never did this. he was such a good person and he took care of me when i was depressed but then "I was too much". no explantion and i embarassed myself. I wish allah swt put it in his heart to apologize for the pain he caused me. I lost 15 pounds. He never disrespected me in the relationship it wasn't until the end where his true colors showed and he left me because it was "easier" i truly loved him for the sake of allah swt and tried to make him pray, but don't trust a man that doesn't fear allah swt. i make duaa that allah swt reunits us but the longer i wait the more i realize that he wasn't my naseeb because why would my naseeb leave me in my most depressing time. why would he make me not get out of bed for 2 weeks, talk to other girls, and not care im crying to his face that i love him. how could he be so heartless. a man of allah would never do this. he has taught me that i want a man of religion and would do things in a halal manner. Allah swt made me go through this to be a better muslim. Everything is in his hands, i just wish men weren't liars. I have to forgive him and move on.
I hope Allah grant you happiness and peace my beloved sister. Sometimes it is written so we learn from these mistakes and InshaAllah Allah forgives us. ❤️
Thank you Mufti for reassuring me in my position. I’ve always refused to have a boyfriend and most of the people I know and some member of my family don’t understand why. They know it’s a haram relationship but they say that in the world today you can’t find a husband if you don’t develop a haram relationship. I always stayed firm in my decision and what Islam said about it Al hamdoulilah. Pray for me ask Allah to grant me and all the muslim who preserve their chastity to have good husband and wife ❤
Mufti menk you're speaking the truth because I was involved in a haram relationship what you are saying it exactly happened like this I watched your RUclips video and cut the haram relationship thank you so much for guiding to the straight path I make dua for you and your family ❤
Shukriya, Allah has guided me to come out of haram... alhamdulillah and I am so glad and thankful of getting out of haram relationships. Tauba and astaghfirullah.
I just cutt of my 2 year old relationship cause I realised how much sin I'm commiting throuh it. So I wanted to be separated untill we marry,but my bf didn’t want that,he wants to live togather untill marriage. So I broke up.But I love him so much. I feel my heart stabbing. He also loves me so much I know that,he can't live without talking to me. Pray for is to heal properly!
Love Just Allah ....Almighty Allah....Bas Allah....Only Allah....I Love My Almighty Allah more than ....Anybody. ...There is Only Almighty Allah In My Life AlhamdulillAllah AlhamdulillAllah AlhamdulillAllah
The bitter truth 😢💯📌 This is why he's my best sheikh ❤ He says what many sheikh will not talk because this is what is many youths in the ummah is doing. I hope we learn from this
I respect the way Mufti Menk keeps it real. 💯 This Brother always uses the Quran. To bring forth his message. In a way that makes it easy to understand. May Allah grant him a long life.
Well said. MashAllah. My non-consensual “relationship “ story would blow your mind! However Islam is real. HasbiAllah. I’m getting back on my deen, retaking the shahada in a few days, and considering hijab. Haram relationships are for the lost.
Unpopular take, not defending this either, but I feel that haram relationships have become to feel like the "easier way" because of so much pressure and projections applied onto the youth todays day & age by their parents because they rather stick to the culture and traditional way which makes their son/daughter feel like it's much more harder to get married and get it done the halal way nowadays
Unpopular is correct....and wrong at that. I'd rather tou just spoke about yourself and not "our generation" because I can guarantee you that I'm not in the same position and neither are any friends of mine either. In fact one got married recently Alhamdulilah in the Halal way. Also you should watch a video of Mufti Menk where he talks more about marriage. He clarifies just how easy it is to get married. It's really simple and not a big deal. Instead of venting online perhaps you should go and talk to your parents or siblings to help you find someone or you yourself search and get in contact with their parents and link up. It's not that hard.
Was in a haram relationship from 2.5yrs,i used to avoid most of the things because of fear of Allah despite being in a relationship.. and the moment i introduced her to my family she started to blame me for not doing those things and cheated.. i am in so much pain please pray for me..
Alhamdulillah, I brought my sons up before social media became the huge thing that it is today. They know better than to bring shame to my door, Masha’Allah.
Daily reminder Alhamdulillah ×3 Astagfirullah ×3 Allah Hu Akbar ×3 Subhanallah ×3 Bismillah ×3 Allahumma inni asalukal Jannah ×3 Allahumma ajirni minan naar ×3 Allahumma ajirni min zamhariri jahannum ×3 May Allah SWT grant us all the highest Jannah ameen.
I couldnt agree more you are very wise and honest man there r still alot of good people in the world , but jm tired of people trying to use each other for the sake of few minutes plessure , and aftee many end up in sidicide and destroying themselves i wish it was like in the old days , genuine and everuthing after marriage im tired of people playing games , so much drama and anxiety 💯
Sir i was in a haran relationship for last couple of years many promises were made between us !! And then the guy became toxic for me he blamed me for each and every reson ! And then i finally end up my relationship since i thought that i did too bad to him but then for the sake of allah i broke his heart!! 🙂 Because i know my parents will never be agree for all this stuffs !!
This feels like a message sent by Allah to me who knows what i am doing though and how much I needed this. May Allah forgive us for our wrong doings after getting in traps of sayatin..
Unfortunately I'm going through all these things (depression, anxiety) just because of my haram relationship. Now i want to end my relationship with him but he's not either keeping me or leaving me. It's been months i cried a lot but he really don't care. Please pray for me to be happy again without him.
We both loved each other for 6 years and before 2 years I talked to my dad abt him and we got broke up and he came back after a year and now he wants to marry me and we talked to our parents my father is in a lost he asked for sometime to talk about and now he dnt want me and went , bt i want him to be my husband make dua for me pls🙏🏻
Don't let them play with your feelings, be a queen, have value for yourself and keep your head high. If He was/is right for you, he'll come back and Allah will bring him back but if he is not for you then there's someone who is far better than him and will definitely come for you. In sha Allah, may Allah give you a happy life in here and hereafter ❤
It's same as my story no matter everything is in front of me but I desperately want him I know that once the person leaves he can leave me again also but knowing everything I can't move on the... I know there's no other girl in his life but he leave me without any closure and without telling me the reason. Although our families were also involved one month was left in our engagement and one month before he left I am praying tahajjud also I want him back but we never cross the limits yes we liked each other love each other but we never did anything wrong . Please everyone pray for maybe one day we reunited.❤
❤Dua for the night of power(laylatual Qadr) “Allahumma innaka Afuwwun tuhibbul `afwa fa`fu `annee” ❤Translation: “O Allah, indeed You are Pardoning, You love to pardon, so pardon me
Thank you for these great video, unfortunately these conversation we don’t have with our brothers and it helps a lot. The halal way, always, I have understood now that woman we suffer more because we are scared to be too hard but not it is the opposite
I just got off a very toxic and haram relationship with this 15 year old Hindu girl from Chittagong, I did have to break her heart, i hope Allah forgives me. Mufti has made it clear that my love should be only for Allah but ive fallen for the traps of shaitaan, please pray for my happiness and well being, jazakallah Mufti Menk
Thank you, Dr. Musty. I succumbed to a haram and toxic relationship by the fact of shaitan. By the grace of God, after several years of suffering from this toxicity, I was able to make the best decision. I got off this relationship and finally got married. I'm praying God to forgive me and grant me a wonderful family.
i was in haram rltn & blindly in love with him... But now i have realized that i did. Wrong after getting betrayed by him multiple times.... I have promised Allah to not be in any haram rltn till death.... But he has forget me.. I still cry to allah for him.... Plz allahhh give me him in aa btr way make him my naseeb❤😓😓😓
Kheri InshaALLAH 😢My brother mufti menk...shukran coz it's only ALLAH plans to have dis beautiful words coz we r in difficult inshaallah Allah will give da right spouses ❤AMIIN RABHI AMIN.
May Allah Al Mighty Grant Us All Peace And Paradise 🤍🌷 Ameen My Brothers And Sisters Always Be Grateful For What You Have And Be Thankful To Allah SWT For Everything He Gave You In This Dunya, An Insha’Allah You Will Be Granted Jannat Al Firdaus. May Allah SWT Help Us All In Whatever Hardships We Are Going Through, Heal Our Ummah, And Direct Them To The Correct Path, To Allah Azza Wajal
My grandfather fix our marriage between my me and my cxn we got engaged he passed away as the time pass our family crisis was rising and things were getting worsed but after 7 years of my Duas I got married to her we both kept our promise to each other Alhamdulillah I'm not disagreeing with your video because my engagement was kinda we were in nekkah Alhamdulillah Allah helped us Alhamdulillah having a great life now never thought to go for haram ever 😊
Same here i was engaged when i was 15 my grandmother asked my father i want witness the marriage of my children before the death i got married in my 20s she passed away right after 6 days of my marriage im happy Alhamdulillah he loves me he's a great husband 😊
@@dr.faraz.k Haram Is Haram Halal is Halal i distance my self repented sincerely Allah rewarded me Halal wife she is a coolness of my eyes Alhamdulillah
alhamdulillah we've come to the end of this beautiful preaching way your word of advice be of benefit to us may Allah for give our shirt comings AMEEN.
Nowadays most of the people start haram relationships through Instagram. They dm each other and share toxic things. And they spoil their destiny .May Allah forgive us
As a revert black American Muslim it’s harder for someone parents to accept it’s like haram relationship against the parents is destined for us reverts in general
we ended things because it became too draining to displease Allah, it was ruining our connection with Allah. I do pray, to still marry him in the end because ive never loved one like him. If you see this, please make a dua that may allah reunite him and i, when we are better muslims, and ready for eachotherr. Inshallah
This lecture is so true, good advice, protect us from Satan, why do these things happen, then its too late, the horse has bolted, yes allowing it, Satan creeping in, please Allah protect us, protect our young people, protect us all. Amen Amen Amen
i just got off a very toxic and haram relationship, mufti has made it clear that my love should be only for allah but ive fallen for the traps of shaitaan, please pray for my happiness and well being, jazakallah mufti
Same situation here love. I was with a Muslim man for over a year, who was controlling and manipulative. Thankfully the end result was opening my eyes to the beauty of being Islam.
I will pray for you. Pray for me too.
He ended up hitting me
Please never ever accept this behaviour from any man, whether he be Muslim or not. This is a sign of further violence to come and a very severe lack of respect. I hope you're feeling better now, at least a little. May Allah make it easy for us sisters to have halal marriages@@starcherry6814
@@kathrynsueeemcdonald31alhamdulilah it was for a purpose
May ALLAH guide u to the straight path
This came like an advice from Allah at the right time 😢❤
Same honestly
Same😢
Same here
true dr
Same 😢bro
We left eachother for the sake of allah . I hope allah reunites us again and make our relationship halal ...🥺❤️🩹
But you shuould try and ask Allah for what you want , try to convince parents ask Allah , nothing comes by just wondering and sitting.
Its great that you are away from haram
Aameen
Ameena ya Rahim
May Allah make this happen for you darling ❤️
Ameen
Ya Allah bless everyone with halal relationship ameen
Amin
Ameen Ameen YARUB 🙏
pls pray for me & my family. We are hopeless. Our condition is not well. Pls pray for my sister & Brothers for marriage. 😭
In Sha Allah I will pray
Amin amin amin ya Rabbi.
May Allah ease your difficulties .....
May creat ease for ur family Ameen summa Ameen
May Allah SWT bless you with the best
Allah protect us from the sin
Ameen
Aameen 💜
Ameen
Amiin
Alhamdulilah. Left my haraam relationship today. I feel sad Ofcourse. But I know Allah has a better plan for me. A good plant can not come from a bad seed.
I just broke up yesterday and feel low. My iman is fluctuating and has been kinda low recently and now i cried and now these videos keep showing in my feed. Allah is probably giving me a sign because this has happened multiple times today. At first i got a reel reminding me to do shalah, and when i went out with my friend she gave me a praying gown...and then a video saying 'this is a sign from allah" before ended up to this video. I think Allah is trying to soothe my tears and heart ache because there is no thing as coincidence. Make dua for me so i will be able to be close with Allah again and hopefully he will grant me a good spouse and children. 😇😇
May.Allah proctet you and all our youth Youth from the sins of this world and Satan.
May.Allah proctet our Muslim Ummah Ameen 💜🤲
I am in tears right now brothers and sisters and I can’t breathe. I was in a haram relationship with a man and he was so toxic towards me I had to distance myself from him. I really wish I hadn’t got myself involved in this kinda relationship which was 2 years ago. Please keep me in your duas 😭😭
How are u know
May Allah heal you completely and give you better and grant you His forgiveness. Ameen.
She cut off our relationship. And I understand her no matter how hard and painful it is. May Allah reunites us again and grant us to be halal. I did step up a lot of times wanting to talk to her parents for us to be halal. But she always stop me saying it’s not the right time because I am not yet ready. We are both muslims, I am a revert for 1 year now. But another factor is because, we are different nationality. I trust Allah, and leave everything to him. I don’t know what she thinks of me now, maybe just like Mufti said, I am not acceptable by her parents.Or maybe it’s what I think that I am not rich, I am not arab… I am only a decent muslim with a pure intention to their daughter. She is always on my prayer. May Allah forgive us all 🤲🏻
inshaAllah Allah SWT grants you the person for you.
Astaghfirullah may Allah forgive us all
Remember women: any man that is interested in you for marriage, he should NOT hesitate one bit when meeting your mahram/your parents/your caretakers/your wali ❤ it's really hard in the times we're in now, May Allah make it easy for us to get married in the right way
Ameen
Haram relationship is the root of all the chaos in the world, which the Young Generation has a lot of trouble understanding, the world is a trap of Satan for a short time, this Haram relationship, in my opinion, Haram relationship is going directly against Allah and His Messenger, so everyone is Allah and His Messenger. It is a request to follow the path shown by it, O Allah, grant everyone understanding.
Indeed, now when some us being oldest siblings having learnt islam, when your trying to teach and tell and help your family members, due to their own haram relationships, they fought be tooth and nail. it's unfortunate that they don't seem to care. it's a horrible world where they themselves suffer from the consequences of having gotten married after having a haram relationship.
It is clearcut in Islam, if these practices are prevalent, then it is the beginning of the end. The major signs of the day of judgment and turmoil will coincide with the immorality of MUSLIMS.
@@kb4432 Sure👍
Then why are so many boomers not happy in their marriage?
So true. I’ve been in one and my life went downhill… I suffered from a lot of anxiety, stress and hardship but it bought me closer with our religion so it happend for a reason
May Allah forgive me and all of us who have made mistakes, whether intentional or unintentional.😢😢😢
me and him, we've stopped talking for the sake of allah alhamdulillah. but we're not too old yet both of us are 18 at the moment. so my brothers and sisters in faith, i request you to pray for us and pray for our early marriage and that allah reunites us in the near future in sha allah. jazakallah khair
May Allah reunite you very soon
Amen sum Amen ❤ ..plz pray for us as well ...we are going through same situation ....and wanna get nikkahfied as soon as possible ... May Allah unite as in best relationship called nikkah with his mercy Amen sum Amen ....i really want to make our relationship halal in the form of nikkah ❤
Ameen
I was in a Haram relationship. And my parents came to know about it but now unfortunately they are not talking to me😭.My father does not want to even see me😢. My parents trusted on me a lot but I broke their trust😭 but now I want to earn their trust back Because I have realized many things now like how far I was from Allah how rudely I used to talk to everybody even with my mother 😭.it's been a week nobody in my family is talking to me except my Little sister😢. I asked Allah for forgiveness because I know I have done a big sin😭.
May Allah forgive me.
May Allah show me good path.
May Allah bring my parents back to me.
May Allah give me strength to win my parents trust again.😭
Allah is merciful. He is forgiver. He loves to forgive. I believe that He will forgive me very soon😭
Please pray for me....pray that Allah will forgive me and my parents will Talk to me very soon.😢🤲
Inshaallah 💜
Soon
May Allah make it easy for you ameen. Keep repenting and striving and may Allah swt forgive you and all of us ameen.
Insha'Allah
😢😢@@alhasanidhukka5641
I'm in the same shit as u I feel like dying it's been 4 years my mum still hates me
That is why Allah made relationships haram , he knows what kind of harm they do to us. And I believe when it's time Allah will bring someone who's good for us The perfect one for us💗
Alhamdulillah she left me, may Allah unite us again as Halal way if she's my Destiny Inshaa Allah
Each and every word of yours is so damn true Mufti, may Allah bless you and thank you so much my dear sheikh cause I was in a beautiful haraam relationship to whom I intended to get married but unfortunately it didn't work and for the sake of Allah my counterpart decided to call off the relationship and thanx to almighty that he helped me to get through it as once it was an impossible task for me because in my wildest I had never thought of living without her but it happened and we got seperated, I request everyone to please make dua for both of us for committing heinous sins and may our creator accepts our repentance and grant us blessings and a good life partner which I am asking in my every salah, Sheikh please make dua for my repentance and to get a good noble and religious wife with whom I can have good kids and they all can become coolness of my eyes.
There's no such thing as a "beautiful haram" relationship. Only Shaitan promotes zina in society
"Beautiful haram" relationship??? Excuse me , what? Astagfarullah
@@Moody.Smiruai it means we were about to get married but fortunately she passed her medical exams and I am still struggling in life...due to which I was ditch, and we had to separate... before all that, it was going smoothly and swiftly but distance set us apart, that's why it was 'beautiful haraam relationship' ☺️
being a hindu i love islam teachings and modesty mentioned in qaran even i did ramdan fasting to work on self . truly it bring me peace whenever i listen allah prayers it put my soul at ease and bring peace to my soul . i feel i dont need to be a muslim just to please God or allah . thank you mufti sir for the teachings . love from india . i pray may allah bring peace to my soul and heal my heart . ameen
Ameen sum ameen .. May Allah bless You
allah is bringing you closer, take your shahada my brother ,
May Allah bless you ❤
Thank you Allah...for showing this video... I was in love with a Hindu guy and since then I ve been dealing with sufferings and now I realize that it's Haram so I'm letting go of it... I know at the right time Allah will send the right person to me... Alhamdulillah ❤
Did you do zikr today? No? Okay, let's do it now, it won't take long!
Astaghfirullah ×5
SubhanAllah ×5
Alhamdulillah ×5
Allahu Akbar ×5
La ilaaha illaAllah ×3
Subhan Allahi wa bihamdihi ×3
Subhan Allah al'adheem ×3
Allahumma inni as'alukal jannah ×3
Allahumma ajirni minan naar ×3
Allahumma salli alaa Muhammad wa'ala aali Muhammad wabaarik wasallim × 3
Subhanallahi wabihamdihi adada qalqihi wa-ridaa nafsihi wazinata arshihi wa-midaada kalimaatih × 3
could you tell me what they mean and why do we need to repeat them? i'd like to learn if you help
Brother it is: wa midaada khalqihi* please correct this so our brothers and sisters read the dua the correct quranic way. Jazak Allah hoe khair my brothe.
We made it Halal by marrying each other. We now pray for the mercy of Allah. It's quite disheartening to share that only way to be with each other was to indulge in such relationship. May Allah have mercy on us and forgive our sins.
If u marry each other and make it halal all should be good right if u pray ofc
allahumma mabarak
This showed up in my recommendation just when i needed it. Presently i am at a stage in life wherein i have been deeply indulged in emotional breakdowns. And it is all emerging from something that we, in this generation, call situationship. I definitely cannot do justice to explaining the matter as clearly as Sheikh Mufti did in this video, but i must say that as people of this generation, connections like these are so common and appealing between boys and girls. It is only later when this bubble of ur extravagant fantasies breaks, and you finally understand that the person you thought to be your forever one is the one who causes you so much pain and suffering. Do not let yourself slide in these types of connections. Islam teaches love, but only the type of love that brings happiness and harmony to you and your family within the sanctity, chastity, and teachings of the Quran. May Allah grant us the wisdom to differentiate between the halal and the haram. Always seek refuge in Allah. He is the all Knower. Aameen.
I hv started praying tahajjud since 5 months continuously without any break which has made me a complete different person..once u start praying it helps us to avoid any wrong doings or haram relation..I had a frnd who was continuously asking for a relationship which was haram.. I told him my conscious does not allow me to do so and for the sake of Allah I will not indulge into it...that guy stopped calling..Allah saved me from doing anything haram...shukar allham dullilah
Maa sha Allah .. may allah keep you steadfast in deen.. make dua for me sister ..
Allah hafiz
Sometimes the males suffer too...😢
Touched my heart deeply.... 🥺
May Allah bless us ❤
I can categorically say from experience that 99% of women are the ones who end up suffering. Guys are perpetually creating fitna and seeking haram relationships. The women have to stay strong stand up for themselves. You are worth it!
You’re delusional then.
I do agree it is mostly women but 99% is way too high of a number.
Subhan'Allah Alhamdulillah mufti i got married my father fixed my marriage when i finished my medicine degree listening your lecture today I messaged him thank you for such a nice man and protected me from suffering etc etc situations
wow mufti menk humbled me. I was going through a rough time and he broke up with me because "i was too much" but he wanted to ask for my hand in july. I prayed for him wanting him to start praying and wanting him to have a better life. now I see him out with other girls. I just wanted it to be halal. he left me at my lowest and i never been so depressed. I trusted him to ask for my hand but he didnt even fear Allah. He couldnt even do the bare minium and anytime i pray i couldn't be a prayer without mentioning him. It seemed like allah swt gave him this dunya. Allah swt is the best of planners i wish i never did this. he was such a good person and he took care of me when i was depressed but then "I was too much". no explantion and i embarassed myself. I wish allah swt put it in his heart to apologize for the pain he caused me. I lost 15 pounds. He never disrespected me in the relationship it wasn't until the end where his true colors showed and he left me because it was "easier" i truly loved him for the sake of allah swt and tried to make him pray, but don't trust a man that doesn't fear allah swt. i make duaa that allah swt reunits us but the longer i wait the more i realize that he wasn't my naseeb because why would my naseeb leave me in my most depressing time. why would he make me not get out of bed for 2 weeks, talk to other girls, and not care im crying to his face that i love him. how could he be so heartless. a man of allah would never do this. he has taught me that i want a man of religion and would do things in a halal manner. Allah swt made me go through this to be a better muslim. Everything is in his hands, i just wish men weren't liars. I have to forgive him and move on.
I hope Allah grant you happiness and peace my beloved sister. Sometimes it is written so we learn from these mistakes and InshaAllah Allah forgives us. ❤️
Same
Thank you Mufti for reassuring me in my position. I’ve always refused to have a boyfriend and most of the people I know and some member of my family don’t understand why. They know it’s a haram relationship but they say that in the world today you can’t find a husband if you don’t develop a haram relationship. I always stayed firm in my decision and what Islam said about it Al hamdoulilah. Pray for me ask Allah to grant me and all the muslim who preserve their chastity to have good husband and wife ❤
Daily Dhikr Reminder 💚,💚,,🌹Bismillah
1. SubhanAllah 2. Alhamdulillah
3. La illaha il Allah 4. Allahu Akbar
جعلها الله في ميزان حسناتك
Smile at your mother (multiple times if possible), InShaAllah you will get reward of 1000+ months' hajj in night of Laylatul Qadr
You are always in every comments ❤️ may allah bless you dear💯
@@Umayyads-Qarahemmay Allah swt bless you for saying the dhikr
@@Waheeduddin-ik5wcJazakAllah for sharing. May Allah swt bless you for sharing and saying the dhikr
Allah protect me until i meet my better Half InshAllah Aameen
Assalamualaikum
Mufti menk you're speaking the truth because I was involved in a haram relationship what you are saying it exactly happened like this I watched your RUclips video and cut the haram relationship thank you so much for guiding to the straight path I make dua for you and your family ❤
Do not expose your sin
I needed this. My soul needed this. Thank you so much.
Shukriya, Allah has guided me to come out of haram... alhamdulillah and I am so glad and thankful of getting out of haram relationships. Tauba and astaghfirullah.
I just cutt of my 2 year old relationship cause I realised how much sin I'm commiting throuh it. So I wanted to be separated untill we marry,but my bf didn’t want that,he wants to live togather untill marriage. So I broke up.But I love him so much. I feel my heart stabbing. He also loves me so much I know that,he can't live without talking to me. Pray for is to heal properly!
Love Just Allah ....Almighty Allah....Bas Allah....Only Allah....I Love My Almighty Allah more than ....Anybody. ...There is Only Almighty Allah In My Life AlhamdulillAllah AlhamdulillAllah AlhamdulillAllah
To slide into the DM’s had me laughing it caught me off guard
Hahahahhaha same
He often says it😂
Agree Ya Shykh'ana May Allah protect young buds of this era guide them to the righteous path Aameen
Terima kasih.
May Allah protect everyone Alhamdulillah always choose Halal over Haram enjoying the barakha of Halal
The bitter truth 😢💯📌
This is why he's my best sheikh ❤
He says what many sheikh will not talk because this is what is many youths in the ummah is doing. I hope we learn from this
I respect the way Mufti Menk keeps it real. 💯 This Brother always uses the Quran. To bring forth his message. In a way that makes it easy to understand. May Allah grant him a long life.
بارك الله فيك و جزاك الله خيرا ، اللهم اهدنا الى الصراط المستقيم و ارحمنا برحمتك يا غفور يا رحيم ..
I'm 27, Never been in any kind of Realtionship Alhamdulillah,I can feel the Piece avoiding that Haram.. Allah Saved me..
genuinely found it in the right time alhamdulillah
You are the true inspiration for us (youth)
𝗟𝗘𝗔𝗩𝗘 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗛𝗔𝗥𝗔𝗠 🥺
Whoever leaves something for the sake of allah (SWT) .
Allah will replace it with something better.
its promise of allah ❤
Subhanallah ❤.
We left each other for Allah swt. I hope Allah reunites us…
Assalamualaikum
If your both Muslim, then I hope so
@@kb4432 yes we are alhamdoullilah
Me too bro 😁. Don't judge by my name plz
If u don't mind. Can u share the story ??
Smile at your mother (multiple times if possible), InShaAllah you will get reward of 1000+ months' hajj in night of Laylatul Qadr
This came in my recommendation when i am trying to get over this. Thank you Allah❤
Well said. MashAllah. My non-consensual “relationship “ story would blow your mind! However Islam is real. HasbiAllah. I’m getting back on my deen, retaking the shahada in a few days, and considering hijab. Haram relationships are for the lost.
Unpopular take, not defending this either, but I feel that haram relationships have become to feel like the "easier way" because of so much pressure and projections applied onto the youth todays day & age by their parents because they rather stick to the culture and traditional way which makes their son/daughter feel like it's much more harder to get married and get it done the halal way nowadays
Unpopular is correct....and wrong at that. I'd rather tou just spoke about yourself and not "our generation" because I can guarantee you that I'm not in the same position and neither are any friends of mine either. In fact one got married recently Alhamdulilah in the Halal way.
Also you should watch a video of Mufti Menk where he talks more about marriage. He clarifies just how easy it is to get married. It's really simple and not a big deal.
Instead of venting online perhaps you should go and talk to your parents or siblings to help you find someone or you yourself search and get in contact with their parents and link up. It's not that hard.
Was in a haram relationship from 2.5yrs,i used to avoid most of the things because of fear of Allah despite being in a relationship.. and the moment i introduced her to my family she started to blame me for not doing those things and cheated.. i am in so much pain please pray for me..
May Allah help you. May He bring you peace and bless you with someone way way better.
Alhamdulillah, I brought my sons up before social media became the huge thing that it is today.
They know better than to bring shame to my door, Masha’Allah.
May Allah safe the youths of Muslim Ummah from the Haram relationships and may He guide everyone to the right path of Jannah Ameen ❤️
Daily reminder
Alhamdulillah ×3
Astagfirullah ×3
Allah Hu Akbar ×3
Subhanallah ×3
Bismillah ×3
Allahumma inni asalukal Jannah ×3
Allahumma ajirni minan naar ×3
Allahumma ajirni min zamhariri jahannum ×3
May Allah SWT grant us all the highest Jannah ameen.
I couldnt agree more you are very wise and honest man there r still alot of good people in the world , but jm tired of people trying to use each other for the sake of few minutes plessure , and aftee many end up in sidicide and destroying themselves i wish it was like in the old days , genuine and everuthing after marriage im tired of people playing games , so much drama and anxiety 💯
Sir i was in a haran relationship for last couple of years many promises were made between us !! And then the guy became toxic for me he blamed me for each and every reson ! And then i finally end up my relationship since i thought that i did too bad to him but then for the sake of allah i broke his heart!! 🙂 Because i know my parents will never be agree for all this stuffs !!
This feels like a message sent by Allah to me who knows what i am doing though and how much I needed this. May Allah forgive us for our wrong doings after getting in traps of sayatin..
Absolutely True Mufti Menk, Selâm
May Allah SWT save with these kind of problems to all of us and our brothers & sisters...
Unfortunately I'm going through all these things (depression, anxiety) just because of my haram relationship. Now i want to end my relationship with him but he's not either keeping me or leaving me. It's been months i cried a lot but he really don't care. Please pray for me to be happy again without him.
We both loved each other for 6 years and before 2 years I talked to my dad abt him and we got broke up and he came back after a year and now he wants to marry me and we talked to our parents my father is in a lost he asked for sometime to talk about and now he dnt want me and went , bt i want him to be my husband make dua for me pls🙏🏻
I'm crying 😭 I'm so sorry for you
Don't let them play with your feelings, be a queen, have value for yourself and keep your head high. If He was/is right for you, he'll come back and Allah will bring him back but if he is not for you then there's someone who is far better than him and will definitely come for you. In sha Allah, may Allah give you a happy life in here and hereafter ❤
😢 may Allah give you him ameeen sum ameeen❤
It's same as my story no matter everything is in front of me but I desperately want him I know that once the person leaves he can leave me again also but knowing everything I can't move on the... I know there's no other girl in his life but he leave me without any closure and without telling me the reason. Although our families were also involved one month was left in our engagement and one month before he left I am praying tahajjud also I want him back but we never cross the limits yes we liked each other love each other but we never did anything wrong . Please everyone pray for maybe one day we reunited.❤
Praying for you sister
❤Dua for the night of power(laylatual Qadr)
“Allahumma innaka Afuwwun tuhibbul `afwa fa`fu `annee”
❤Translation: “O Allah, indeed You are Pardoning, You love to pardon, so pardon me
Waiting for 2 days...⏳
❤
Astagfirullah rabbi min kuli zam bin aznabtu ho wa attubu illayhi x7
Thank you for these great video, unfortunately these conversation we don’t have with our brothers and it helps a lot. The halal way, always, I have understood now that woman we suffer more because we are scared to be too hard but not it is the opposite
I just got off a very toxic and haram relationship with this 15 year old Hindu girl from Chittagong, I did have to break her heart, i hope Allah forgives me. Mufti has made it clear that my love should be only for Allah but ive fallen for the traps of shaitaan, please pray for my happiness and well being, jazakallah Mufti Menk
Thank you, Dr. Musty. I succumbed to a haram and toxic relationship by the fact of shaitan. By the grace of God, after several years of suffering from this toxicity, I was able to make the best decision. I got off this relationship and finally got married. I'm praying God to forgive me and grant me a wonderful family.
May Almighty Allah have mercy on us
Alhamdulillah for everything
i was in haram rltn & blindly in love with him... But now i have realized that i did. Wrong after getting betrayed by him multiple times.... I have promised Allah to not be in any haram rltn till death.... But he has forget me.. I still cry to allah for him.... Plz allahhh give me him in aa btr way make him my naseeb❤😓😓😓
Please pray for me , i am 31years old girl , may Allah grant me a good spouse soon !!
May allah grant you a good spouse inshallah
May Allah grant you a good spouse. Aameen
too late lol
@@oiyajiamv6736 Alhamdulillah
Thank you Mufti Menk. I pray about it and leave it with Allah. I never want to be without Allah.
Peaceful... after hearing your words!!
Kheri InshaALLAH 😢My brother mufti menk...shukran coz it's only ALLAH plans to have dis beautiful words coz we r in difficult inshaallah Allah will give da right spouses ❤AMIIN RABHI AMIN.
May Allah Al Mighty Grant Us All Peace And Paradise 🤍🌷 Ameen
My Brothers And Sisters Always Be Grateful For What You Have And Be Thankful To Allah SWT For Everything He Gave You In This Dunya, An Insha’Allah You Will Be Granted Jannat Al Firdaus. May Allah SWT Help Us All In Whatever Hardships We Are Going Through, Heal Our Ummah, And Direct Them To The Correct Path, To Allah Azza Wajal
Am going to cut of my relationship and do the right thing although he is the one doing everything for me i believe Allah will provide for me
Woow,May Allah be pleased with you❤
My grandfather fix our marriage between my me and my cxn we got engaged he passed away as the time pass our family crisis was rising and things were getting worsed but after 7 years of my Duas I got married to her we both kept our promise to each other Alhamdulillah I'm not disagreeing with your video because my engagement was kinda we were in nekkah Alhamdulillah Allah helped us
Alhamdulillah having a great life now never thought to go for haram ever 😊
Same here i was engaged when i was 15 my grandmother asked my father i want witness the marriage of my children before the death i got married in my 20s she passed away right after 6 days of my marriage im happy Alhamdulillah he loves me he's a great husband 😊
It was halal you were married to her May reunite all halal couples who are facing disputes in their halal relationship Aameen
@@SaenSay May Allah grant her hightest ranks in jannah Aameen
@@Wissamb0 while performing my Hajj I made a dua on Mount of Arafaa after 6 month of my Hajj Allah reunited us 😊
@@dr.faraz.k Haram Is Haram Halal is Halal i distance my self repented sincerely Allah rewarded me Halal wife she is a coolness of my eyes Alhamdulillah
Allah hu Akbar. May Allah swt guide us young before it’s too late. Ameen
Astaghfir ullah.
I suffered, Alhamdulillah Allah took care of me I am in a good position now He just saved me ,It was difficult but I did🤲🏻💜
JazakAllah Mufti Menk ❤
I needed this video
Jazakallahu Khairan for this we need it so much.
alhamdulillah we've come to the end of this beautiful preaching way your word of advice be of benefit to us may Allah for give our shirt comings AMEEN.
May Allah bless us with halal and pious spouses d coolness of our eyes and accept all our Ibadah n Duas .Aameen
Nowadays most of the people start haram relationships through Instagram. They dm each other and share toxic things. And they spoil their destiny .May Allah forgive us
May Allah help all of us and shows us the right path❤
May allah bless u mufti menk
As a revert black American Muslim it’s harder for someone parents to accept it’s like haram relationship against the parents is destined for us reverts in general
SUBHAN ALLAH ❤️ JAZAK ALLAH HU KHAIERAN ❤
we ended things because it became too draining to displease Allah, it was ruining our connection with Allah. I do pray, to still marry him in the end because ive never loved one like him. If you see this, please make a dua that may allah reunite him and i, when we are better muslims, and ready for eachotherr. Inshallah
this was very much needed in this generation
Elhamdülillah Sübhanallah we must put Allah Almighty İslam first. We need to learn İslam very well
This lecture is so true, good advice, protect us from Satan, why do these things happen, then its too late, the horse has bolted, yes allowing it, Satan creeping in, please Allah protect us, protect our young people, protect us all. Amen Amen Amen
May Allah forgive us and guide us 🥹🥹🥹
Alhamdulillah, Allah open the way to me finding this video
May Allah guide us all to the straight path and forgive us all and grant us all righteous spouses Aamiin Yaa Rabbi 😢🤲
May Allah protects us and bless us pious spouse ❤
all of my questions are answered, Alhamdulillah. very well said, totally helpful.