I’m so blessed today as i came across this video Am having goosebumps as I type this Have been away from Nigeria since 2020 and right now am 27 years, my mummy and my daddy’s family has being pressuring me to come home and get married, this pressure made me go into relationships with a guy i asked out myself because before the pressure i don’t give any man a chance so they all moved on because I always turn them down In this my long distance relationships, I’m not happy because the guy treats me anyhow and I’m enduring because I really want to get married to please my mom and my daddy’s family Now after watching this, my mindset change immediately, I was tearing up and speaking positive words into my life I will wait, find myself, establish myself, get my goals then i will decide when it comfortable for me to get marry NO MORE PRESSURE ✊
27years your still young my dear, be patient with prayer, the right person meant for you will look for you himself in God's perfect timing. There is a time for everything
Weldone Winnie and Moji!❤ This is a topic I am very interested in. I had written a poem on the subject and I hope it'll be okay for me to share. I just hope more women find you. A LOVE UNBOUND In the garden where dreams and destinies grow, Where petals of purpose and passions do show, I wander with heart open, no rush in my stride, For love is a river, not a tethered tide. Society whispers, “Hurry, don’t delay, For youth slips like sand, and chances decay.” But I, with a soul that savors the sun, Will not race to an altar, not to be a nun. For I am complete, a universe vast, My spirit unbounded, my journey steadfast. Marriage, a chapter, not the whole tome, Love, a melody in my heart’s vibrant home. Should I find a partner, our paths intertwined, It’ll be for love’s sake, not from fear’s bind. A union of equals, not a cage or a snare, Two stars in one sky, both brilliant and rare. But if in this lifetime, alone I remain, I’ll dance with the moon, and kiss the rain. My happiness rooted in self’s deep embrace, No void, no lack, no empty space. For love’s true essence, it starts within, A flame in the heart, not just a skin. To love and be loved, yes, this I desire, But my life’s purpose burns with its own fire. So let the world murmur, let it proclaim, That time’s running out, that success is a shame. I’ll write my own story, in verses and hues, Living a love that I’ll never refuse. A love for myself, for the journey I take, A love that won’t falter, that won’t ever break. And if fate gifts me a partner, to share in the night, It’ll be a blessing, a beautiful sight. But know this, dear world, my joy will not dim, If I never find him, I’ll still shine within. For I am my own, a masterpiece rare, A life full of love, with none to compare.
Hmm... I must commend you ladies for the job well done. If you open the minds of over 98% of the ladies in the world, the dominating thought is 'Marriage, Marriage, Marriage.' They never ask themselves if I get married today, what is next? Having spent their useful and youthful years looking for what is not lost. If marriage cannot add anything to you or take you higher in your journey, it is better to still be single. Married People should be help meet. DO NOT SETTLE FOR LESS, DO NOT MARRY ENERGY DEPLETER BUH ENERGY BOOSTER. Your values must be aligned and complementing. Marriage is sweet if done with the right person.
Take yr time gals,the worlds pressure doesnt end,i was widowed four years ago yu cant imagine am now being pressured to move on ....to find love again bla bla bla😂😂😂😂😂 this pressure doesnt end.enjoy yr life as it unfolds...theres aseason for evrything according to Gods plan and will
I will alright three things that stood out for me. 1. Date yourself: I must learn to date myself, take me out and treat myself. 2. Invest into myself for my self: this is because I am the most constant person in my life. 3. I must discover my self for myself: I must take my time to discover purpose for life, I have a lot more to offer to the world if I discover me. Thank you so much Winnie, I am inspired.
Never seen a statement so true. This is what people don't understand; one needs to know that you don't need someone or something to complete you. Find that 'completeness' within you, then look for or keep an eye out for who complements you. Whatever void they may feel is as a result of lack of purpose discovery and not having the one who created you as your guide/stronghold in life. I rest my case.
I always say that life is a journey with different phases, and we'll most likely go through some or all of it. Your single phase is that time that truly reforms or forms you, shape you, you discover alot about yourself, you pay more attention if you're intentional about your life, my single phase is one of my most cherished moments, I enjoyed it I must say. I'm in my 30's not married and not bothered because my life is a journey filled with purpose, so grow, learn, invest in yourself and glow, stay away from any form of pressure, seek clarity and direction. Much love Winnie and Mojibade. It's lovely to see you both hanging together ❤️
Awwww ❤️ I am with my pop corn and fresh juice to chill, watch and learn. Thank you Winnie for always bringing up topics and teaching right. Much love from Chetachi ❤❤❤
Newly divorced _I wish i saw this before I got married - please single ladies don’t succumb to societal pressure for the sake of “marriage and Instagram wedding” - you will regret only you and your partner when the wedding is over will face eachother
• Investing in yourself • Learning new things • Developing new skills • Travelling if you can ° Date yourself ° Love yourself ° Invest in yourself ° Rediscover yourself ° Find yourself ° Know yourself ° Live your best life responsibly
24:04 Even in marriage there is the place of individuality and that personal sense of fulfillment in God; not taking for granted the place of oneness and unity in marriage.
I travelled home last 2weeks,my aunt asked me **what is your stand with men, where's is your man, I'm giving you between now and Christmas to get a husband** I just respectfully told her to put it in prayer,i told her not to expect to hear from me again till God knows when
@@Mira_babie my dear, she wasn't even saying it with any bit of decency and regards for my emotions,she was really mean and kept a straight face all through the interrogation, she said it's spiritual,in fact, when I stood up to leave,she told me to call her when I get home so that she could finish up, trust me when I tell you that since this year,we have spoken only twice before that visit,she doesn't even know 95% of anything about my welfare, anyway,I refused to flare up neither did I insult her,I just told her bye till forever, mind you,she got married in her 39th year of life abi 40
Ladies, you're daughters of The Most High God, Jehovah. Keep yourselves completely clean. Make it a case of 'no ringy, no thingy'. Men must pour. Some men are of the devil, and they are sent to mess you up and dirty you. Men must pour, and they will do anything to get this going, including lies, pretence, and deceit. I'm more advanced than you ladies in age, and I've gone through my own states of brokenness. For some years now, I have set myself apart and keep myself clean, and I have true joy. I always approach the throne of grace with complete joy and confidence each time I have to pray. I find men sickening and disgusting now, and of course, I don't use toys nor get involve with other women. I'm just whole, and I intend to keep it so till I meet The Lord Jesus. Be brave, be beautiful & be bibled.
I am so thankful to God for finding this channel. Good living with God at the center. Thank you, Winnie, for following your dreams and taking action. You are really helping me. Very, very much. God bless you, Winnie.
I love that Winnie knows, loves and is always guided by the word of God. Excellent conversation ladies. Even in marriage a woman still needs to love, care for herself and build her career and life. So it’s important to have a good foundation as a single lady. I have been married for 9 years, I have 2 kids, I have a doctorate degree, building a strong career and spiritual life. I don’t wait for my husband to make me happy. I make myself happy and pursue fulfillment. The truth is that you will be very disappointed if you leave your happiness and fulfillment in the hands of another human being, a man.
I told someone i want to get nonstick pots, washing machine& food processor she was like all these for when you're married 😮 i was like girl so you mean i can't use this cuz I'm single funny😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
Hello Ladies ! I am so happy that I found this Channel ! As a lady from Guadeloupe (french island), i am used to watch your videos to improve my English ! Today, I coudl feel your words about being happy in this single phase 🙏🏾 in my soul. It s a pleasure, I wish I could have known this mindset earlier. But God is good ! You give me more strength in my journey. Merci encore, Stay blessed !
Thank you for always sharing reality. Truly there’s no formula to live but it’s always ideal to level up all aspects of your life and feel fulfilled. By so doing, the right the people will come to you.
This is so true mostly in our society Nigeria Thank you Winnie and mojibad hope I got the spelling of your name thanks for this insight there is so much more to life then what we think
God! I'm still discussing about this yesterday evening till I see this video and I'm screaming 😱, this is much and value packed.🔥🔥🔥 God bless you Winnie and Moji, I love you both.🥰❤️❤️
This is the video I have been looking for.... I feel that the major reason I want to be married is because of societal pressure and to prove a point. thank God I saw this video. thanks Winnie
Not me trying to catchup on this space and upon landing, I find Moji!!!!!.🤭🤭🤭 Started following Moji on IG in May and I'm always thrilled by her. You can't imagine how delighted I am to see her here😍😍love, love, love this combo!!!! Thank you Winnie🥰
It happened again... I paused and I prayed!! Please keep bringing these contents Winnie. If not for anyone else, you are really charging me up to pursue my dreams, and I will. God bless you. Gabby, 🇰🇪
I really enjoyed this but more interested in the last question "is it compulsory for every woman to get married"? And i love the response. Thank you so much for always being on point. You are the best ❤
I am just a final year student of English and most times, I feel lonely because I am single but from this video, I now realized that I personally do not love myself enough. Welcome to my world where l'm gonna love meeeeeeeeeee. Thank you Mojibad and Winnieeeeeeee🥰❤ LOVE YOU BIG SISTERS🎉
Winnie I beg that second question is a big *NO* for me. Every body has a purpose God has kept for so don't think marriage is meant for everyone. Infact, your blessings might not be in marriage anyway. I actually think that is why some people get some good things shuttered after they get married. Please no one should come at me😂. My opinion though 😊
Excuse my differing opinion, I am a 34 years old working lady with a son who just turn 1 year. Nowadays is a blessing to be emotionally & financially independant from a man....but gal no matter how successfull you are it can never replace the warmth of the presence of a GOOD man in our life. Let's stop delluding ourself. A GOOD man make life sweeter.After hustling we want to be cuddled, pampered & listened to.
No one is saying not to want a man. You have no control over when you'll meet him, or if at all... The fact that society wants the woman to put her life on hold untill that time comes, is the main issue.
Mark Angel (Mark Angel Comedy) and Winnie (Zeelicious foods & School of Elegance by Winnie) - Great guys! Nice Combo. Please, bring more to our screens. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
I LOVETHIS SESSION, I WAS LITERALLY SMILING ALL THROUGH AS MOST POINTS ALIGN WITH WHAT I HAVE SET FOR MYSELF. YOU LADIES ARE SO LOVELY . THANK YOU BOTH FOR BRINGING THIS UP. MUCH LOVE !!!!
Thank you Winnie for always serving us valuable contents 😍😍 ❤️💕Hi singles, we matchmake decent, career driven and wholesome singles in Nigeria, UK, US and Canada....you'll love it here💕
Thank you Winnie and Moji i really learn so much from this, because some of the things you actually point out is what I'm going through right now . Thank you for this❤️
I love you two so so much😊 I love this video. It's so edifying. I love your new friendship too❤ I just wish every single person is able to see this and soak in every single word spoken here. More grace ma'am ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I remember the vlog where you took us behind the shoot of this video. Well-done Winnie, I love the message here and I stand by it. Your editor did such a good job putting this video together, good job to your team 👍🏽
Am in total agreement with everything said however let not neglect the spiritual aspect for some person it a generation curse that most of their ladies it difficult for the to get married. We should also be prayerfully active in that regard as we thrive to succeed and loving our self
Thank you so much... Just right on time...i refuse to allow myself to be pressured over anything but to become a better version of myself ❤❤ Am grateful for the heads-up!!
You see that point they say "is this how you act in your husband's house", I told my sister to never ever ever tell me that again and I told her most African mothers have consciously or unconsciously started to condition their young girls mindset for marriage, I really love this, great gem inside one video,💕🙏🤍💕💕💕
"My beautiful, intelligent, elegant ladies. This is a beautiful discussion. # At the end of the day, we are looking at fulfilling one's purpose." being highly valued. Thank you so much, This discussion means a lot. I'm inspired.
Please, add the point that some people tell unmarried ladies above their 30s that if they don't get married early, they may not be able to put to birth or complications may occur and sometimes that adds to the pressure...whats your take on this please?
I have seen women in their mid 40’s give birth with ease and I have also seen women who married early for the purpose of giving birth early not have any kids or have major complications during birth. At the end of the day, every womans body is different. Do your research on fertility and then take care of your body by eating right and exercising.
Not just your body, even when you’re in a country that has a good RETIREMENT system the Leave you take to care for your FEMALE BODY (Menstrual/ovulation pain, Antenatal and postnatal care, child,family and home care) those WORK LEAVE bits hard on a woman’s Retirement fund ability. MAKE YOUR TIME, ENERGY, FINANCES AND HEALTH worthwhile. Children this days have started borrowing some brains that they are not their parents RETIREMENT PLAN. Reflect on your life.
Hi dear big sister Winnie, I hope you are doing great! 😊 I wanted to really thank your friend and you for this beautiful video! Though, I have a question and I come in peace please, do not take it personal 🙏🏾. The thing is that I am kind of confused when you say that you are single, when in other videos you say that your boyfriend buys you some stuff (there was a video where you showed a perfume he bought for example). In fact, I just wanted to know what "single" means to you please. Does "single" means "not married"? So, even if I have a boyfriend, can I still call myself single? I will really appreciate that you give an answer to me, so that I can understand better please. Thank you very much for your time! I am sending you big hugs! 🤗🤗
Yes singleness means you are not married….. either you are single without a boyfriend/ relationship or you are in a relationship which makes you single because you are not married yet…. I hope this help!!
I’m so blessed today as i came across this video
Am having goosebumps as I type this
Have been away from Nigeria since 2020 and right now am 27 years, my mummy and my daddy’s family has being pressuring me to come home and get married, this pressure made me go into relationships with a guy i asked out myself because before the pressure i don’t give any man a chance so they all moved on because I always turn them down
In this my long distance relationships, I’m not happy because the guy treats me anyhow and I’m enduring because I really want to get married to please my mom and my daddy’s family
Now after watching this, my mindset change immediately, I was tearing up and speaking positive words into my life
I will wait, find myself, establish myself, get my goals then i will decide when it comfortable for me to get marry
NO MORE PRESSURE ✊
Rooting for you❤
Please go on a journey of intimacy with God and self discovery. Clearly, that relationship you’re in doesn’t suit you.
@@Thisisbisola alright … thanks so much love ❤️
Sending you hugs
27years your still young my dear, be patient with prayer, the right person meant for you will look for you himself in God's perfect timing. There is a time for everything
Weldone Winnie and Moji!❤
This is a topic I am very interested in.
I had written a poem on the subject and I hope it'll be okay for me to share.
I just hope more women find you.
A LOVE UNBOUND
In the garden where dreams and destinies grow,
Where petals of purpose and passions do show,
I wander with heart open, no rush in my stride,
For love is a river, not a tethered tide.
Society whispers, “Hurry, don’t delay,
For youth slips like sand, and chances decay.”
But I, with a soul that savors the sun,
Will not race to an altar, not to be a nun.
For I am complete, a universe vast,
My spirit unbounded, my journey steadfast.
Marriage, a chapter, not the whole tome,
Love, a melody in my heart’s vibrant home.
Should I find a partner, our paths intertwined,
It’ll be for love’s sake, not from fear’s bind.
A union of equals, not a cage or a snare,
Two stars in one sky, both brilliant and rare.
But if in this lifetime, alone I remain,
I’ll dance with the moon, and kiss the rain.
My happiness rooted in self’s deep embrace,
No void, no lack, no empty space.
For love’s true essence, it starts within,
A flame in the heart, not just a skin.
To love and be loved, yes, this I desire,
But my life’s purpose burns with its own fire.
So let the world murmur, let it proclaim,
That time’s running out, that success is a shame.
I’ll write my own story, in verses and hues,
Living a love that I’ll never refuse.
A love for myself, for the journey I take,
A love that won’t falter, that won’t ever break.
And if fate gifts me a partner, to share in the night,
It’ll be a blessing, a beautiful sight.
But know this, dear world, my joy will not dim,
If I never find him, I’ll still shine within.
For I am my own, a masterpiece rare,
A life full of love, with none to compare.
Love it🎉
@@ajenny757 Thank you😇
@@preeminentobe oh this is absolutely BEAUTIFUL! Thank you for sharing.❤️❤️❤️
@@winniesschoolofelegance Thank you Winnie!😇
And I wish you the very best!
Did you write this? Wow!!!! Sooooooooo profound! I absolutely love it! Welldone 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Hmm... I must commend you ladies for the job well done. If you open the minds of over 98% of the ladies in the world, the dominating thought is 'Marriage, Marriage, Marriage.' They never ask themselves if I get married today, what is next? Having spent their useful and youthful years looking for what is not lost. If marriage cannot add anything to you or take you higher in your journey, it is better to still be single. Married People should be help meet. DO NOT SETTLE FOR LESS, DO NOT MARRY ENERGY DEPLETER BUH ENERGY BOOSTER. Your values must be aligned and complementing. Marriage is sweet if done with the right person.
Take yr time gals,the worlds pressure doesnt end,i was widowed four years ago yu cant imagine am now being pressured to move on ....to find love again bla bla bla😂😂😂😂😂 this pressure doesnt end.enjoy yr life as it unfolds...theres aseason for evrything according to Gods plan and will
@@karungidoreen4084 oh my! Thank you for sharing this.❤️❤️❤️
I will alright three things that stood out for me.
1. Date yourself: I must learn to date myself, take me out and treat myself.
2. Invest into myself for my self: this is because I am the most constant person in my life.
3. I must discover my self for myself: I must take my time to discover purpose for life, I have a lot more to offer to the world if I discover me.
Thank you so much Winnie, I am inspired.
40:00 An unhappy individual will almost always be an unhappy spouse.. whether female or male
Never seen a statement so true. This is what people don't understand; one needs to know that you don't need someone or something to complete you. Find that 'completeness' within you, then look for or keep an eye out for who complements you.
Whatever void they may feel is as a result of lack of purpose discovery and not having the one who created you as your guide/stronghold in life.
I rest my case.
I always say that life is a journey with different phases, and we'll most likely go through some or all of it. Your single phase is that time that truly reforms or forms you, shape you, you discover alot about yourself, you pay more attention if you're intentional about your life, my single phase is one of my most cherished moments, I enjoyed it I must say. I'm in my 30's not married and not bothered because my life is a journey filled with purpose, so grow, learn, invest in yourself and glow, stay away from any form of pressure, seek clarity and direction. Much love Winnie and Mojibade. It's lovely to see you both hanging together ❤️
@@Diastemakay_luxurybyestyle I love this! Thank you for sharing!❤️❤️❤️
Awwww ❤️ I am with my pop corn and fresh juice to chill, watch and learn. Thank you Winnie for always bringing up topics and teaching right. Much love from Chetachi ❤❤❤
@@chetasdiary_59 love it!!🤩🤩 It’s my absolute pleasure dear. Thanks for being a part of our level up community.❤️
Newly divorced _I wish i saw this before I got married - please single ladies don’t succumb to societal pressure for the sake of “marriage and Instagram wedding” - you will regret only you and your partner when the wedding is over will face eachother
@@tivertonlove850 thank you for sharing this.❤️
@@winniesschoolofelegancethis discussion is much needed especially in our culture and you did it so eloquently but kept it real ❤
• Investing in yourself
• Learning new things
• Developing new skills
• Travelling if you can
° Date yourself
° Love yourself
° Invest in yourself
° Rediscover yourself
° Find yourself
° Know yourself
° Live your best life responsibly
24:04 Even in marriage there is the place of individuality and that personal sense of fulfillment in God; not taking for granted the place of oneness and unity in marriage.
I travelled home last 2weeks,my aunt asked me **what is your stand with men, where's is your man, I'm giving you between now and Christmas to get a husband** I just respectfully told her to put it in prayer,i told her not to expect to hear from me again till God knows when
It's the effrontery for me
@@Mira_babie my dear, she wasn't even saying it with any bit of decency and regards for my emotions,she was really mean and kept a straight face all through the interrogation, she said it's spiritual,in fact, when I stood up to leave,she told me to call her when I get home so that she could finish up, trust me when I tell you that since this year,we have spoken only twice before that visit,she doesn't even know 95% of anything about my welfare, anyway,I refused to flare up neither did I insult her,I just told her bye till forever, mind you,she got married in her 39th year of life abi 40
@@VickieGold-kx9xl na wa ooo
@@VickieGold-kx9xl next time tell her the same reason she's not dead is the same reason you're not married which is time
@@VickieGold-kx9xl I love your response.❤️
Ladies, you're daughters of The Most High God, Jehovah. Keep yourselves completely clean. Make it a case of 'no ringy, no thingy'. Men must pour. Some men are of the devil, and they are sent to mess you up and dirty you. Men must pour, and they will do anything to get this going, including lies, pretence, and deceit. I'm more advanced than you ladies in age, and I've gone through my own states of brokenness. For some years now, I have set myself apart and keep myself clean, and I have true joy. I always approach the throne of grace with complete joy and confidence each time I have to pray. I find men sickening and disgusting now, and of course, I don't use toys nor get involve with other women. I'm just whole, and I intend to keep it so till I meet The Lord Jesus. Be brave, be beautiful & be bibled.
I am so thankful to God for finding this channel. Good living with God at the center. Thank you, Winnie, for following your dreams and taking action. You are really helping me. Very, very much. God bless you, Winnie.
@@Jesusgirliee Amen!🙏🏽🙏🏽 It’s my absolute pleasure Dear.❤️
I love that Winnie knows, loves and is always guided by the word of God. Excellent conversation ladies.
Even in marriage a woman still needs to love, care for herself and build her career and life. So it’s important to have a good foundation as a single lady.
I have been married for 9 years, I have 2 kids, I have a doctorate degree, building a strong career and spiritual life. I don’t wait for my husband to make me happy. I make myself happy and pursue fulfillment.
The truth is that you will be very disappointed if you leave your happiness and fulfillment in the hands of another human being, a man.
I told someone i want to get nonstick pots, washing machine& food processor she was like all these for when you're married 😮 i was like girl so you mean i can't use this cuz I'm single funny😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
Yeepee ❤ I'm so delighted with our guest today 🎉
@@Vickywhisper. I am glad you love her!❤️
Ladies, Ladies, You both are so inspiring. Much love❤and appreciation 🎉
@@ChristinaChrist-3999 thank you!!❤️❤️
Thank you both for this great education really appreciate 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Hello Ladies !
I am so happy that I found this Channel !
As a lady from Guadeloupe (french island), i am used to watch your videos to improve my English ! Today, I coudl feel your words about being happy in this single phase 🙏🏾 in my soul. It s a pleasure, I wish I could have known this mindset earlier.
But God is good ! You give me more strength in my journey.
Merci encore, Stay blessed !
Thank you for always sharing reality. Truly there’s no formula to live but it’s always ideal to level up all aspects of your life and feel fulfilled. By so doing, the right the people will come to you.
Hello Winnie. You're doing a great job.
@@eagleelynn6968 thank you!!❤️
This is so true mostly in our society Nigeria
Thank you Winnie and mojibad hope I got the spelling of your name thanks for this insight there is so much more to life then what we think
God! I'm still discussing about this yesterday evening till I see this video and I'm screaming 😱, this is much and value packed.🔥🔥🔥
God bless you Winnie and Moji, I love you both.🥰❤️❤️
Amen!! God bless you too Dear!❤
This is the video I have been looking for.... I feel that the major reason I want to be married is because of societal pressure and to prove a point. thank God I saw this video. thanks Winnie
Not me trying to catchup on this space and upon landing, I find Moji!!!!!.🤭🤭🤭 Started following Moji on IG in May and I'm always thrilled by her. You can't imagine how delighted I am to see her here😍😍love, love, love this combo!!!! Thank you Winnie🥰
It’s our pleasure Dear!❤️❤️
Please what is the title of the book that you said you read, at your 20's.
It happened again... I paused and I prayed!!
Please keep bringing these contents Winnie. If not for anyone else, you are really charging me up to pursue my dreams, and I will.
God bless you.
Gabby, 🇰🇪
@@gabriellajuma7719 oh I love this for you and I am sincerely rooting for you…✨❤️
God bless you too Dear.🙏🏽🙏🏽
I really enjoyed this but more interested in the last question "is it compulsory for every woman to get married"? And i love the response. Thank you so much for always being on point. You are the best ❤
I am just a final year student of English and most times, I feel lonely because I am single but from this video, I now realized that I personally do not love myself enough.
Welcome to my world where l'm gonna love meeeeeeeeeee. Thank you Mojibad and Winnieeeeeeee🥰❤
LOVE YOU BIG SISTERS🎉
Thank you for sharing Winnie & mojibade ❤
It's been a wonderful time listening to you. Infact I'm really blessed. Thanks so much ❤
@@evelinenshi478 it’s our absolute pleasure Dear!❤️
Educating conversation...The Purpose Driven Life
Book is by Rick Warren
The one I read is the power of purpose and vision by Myles Munroe.
Winnie I beg that second question is a big *NO* for me. Every body has a purpose God has kept for so don't think marriage is meant for everyone. Infact, your blessings might not be in marriage anyway. I actually think that is why some people get some good things shuttered after they get married. Please no one should come at me😂. My opinion though 😊
@@augustinayaotey-ce4po your opinion is very valid. Marriage is truly not for everyone.
@@winniesschoolofelegance thank you.
Excuse my differing opinion, I am a 34 years old working lady with a son who just turn 1 year. Nowadays is a blessing to be emotionally & financially independant from a man....but gal no matter how successfull you are it can never replace the warmth of the presence of a GOOD man in our life. Let's stop delluding ourself. A GOOD man make life sweeter.After hustling we want to be cuddled, pampered & listened to.
No one is saying not to want a man. You have no control over when you'll meet him, or if at all... The fact that society wants the woman to put her life on hold untill that time comes, is the main issue.
Your first point of emotion and financial is spot on 👌. Based on your second sentence, you missed what they were pointing out in the video.
You definitely missed the point of the video or maybe you didn’t watch it at all. Go and watch it again and get the real point of the video okay.
Men are great. But if one never comes, a woman’s life must still go on no be so? That’s the essence of this video
This video sweet me pass😂😂😂 am very great full
I have for the longest time always had this mindset; I am so glad to know that I am not wrong.
Mark Angel (Mark Angel Comedy) and Winnie (Zeelicious foods & School of Elegance by Winnie)
- Great guys!
Nice Combo.
Please, bring more to our screens.
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Thank you Winnie for this video.
The point of finding yourself for yourself can not be emphasized enough...I really needed this.
It’s my pleasure Dear!❤
I LOVETHIS SESSION, I WAS LITERALLY SMILING ALL THROUGH AS MOST POINTS ALIGN WITH WHAT I HAVE SET FOR MYSELF.
YOU LADIES ARE SO LOVELY .
THANK YOU BOTH FOR BRINGING THIS UP.
MUCH LOVE !!!!
Winnie thankyou so much i really needed to hear this God bless you
@@deborahchocho7421 it’s my absolute pleasure Dear!❤️
One month past, but I still watch this educative show, well-done Auntie Winnie ❤, hope my fellow Ugandans pick something from this 😊😊
Thank you Winnie for always serving us valuable contents 😍😍
❤️💕Hi singles, we matchmake decent, career driven and wholesome singles in Nigeria, UK, US and Canada....you'll love it here💕
Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you ladies. Great info for the young ladies.
Btw the pink complimentary outfits are outfitting. Love ettt!!!!
Thank you Winnie and Moji i really learn so much from this, because some of the things you actually point out is what I'm going through right now . Thank you for this❤️
Youre beautiful ladies
@@fadzo123 thank you!❤️❤️
@@fadzo123 thank you!❤️
Growing up, I always thought it’s all about marriage and giving birth for women. Thank you girls
It’s our pleasure Dear!!❤
Winnie has done it again o❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You always hit the point
Thank you for doing what you do
This exactly was like the topic we treated in my lecture room...I mean once one begins to see red flags runn😊❤
Thank you so much mum I'm blessed watching from Cameroon
Yes i want her back❤🎉 amazing video thanks
She will be back!❤❤❤
I like how they're casually gisting like they aren't even shooting😂😂 but still giving us points
Be blessed girl you are my real role model currently am in Tanzania
@@agnesskawamala1462 ❤️❤️❤️
Wonderful.
I learnt a lot from this.
Thanks to you both .
Much love ❤
Wonderful.
I learnt a lot from this.
Thanks to you both .
Much love ❤
God bless you ladies for this talk.
@@oluwafunmilayoelusoji Amen!🙏🏽
I love you two so so much😊
I love this video. It's so edifying.
I love your new friendship too❤
I just wish every single person is able to see this and soak in every single word spoken here.
More grace ma'am ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much!❤️❤️❤️
Am married and sad. Thank you, this elevated me. self love all the way
The level of maturity above 30 is higher than the level below 30. People should learn to be truthful to themselves.
Wow, thank you for making this video. You have really answered all the questions brilliantly. Feel satisfied❤
You are welcome Dear!
Ooohhhhh Winnie! Thank you Thank you for this...I am redefined! I needed this.....God bless u Mojisola
It’s our absolute pleasure!❤❤
I love the way you always reply messages, God bless you Winnie.
Sending love from Uganda🇺🇬 I love you winne, I gained self control because of you❤❤❤❤❤
Oh my! I love you Dear!❤
I remember the vlog where you took us behind the shoot of this video. Well-done Winnie, I love the message here and I stand by it. Your editor did such a good job putting this video together, good job to your team 👍🏽
@@thatgirlganiyat thank you so so much!❤️❤️
@@winniesschoolofelegance you're welcome 🤗
Am in total agreement with everything said however let not neglect the spiritual aspect for some person it a generation curse that most of their ladies it difficult for the to get married.
We should also be prayerfully active in that regard as we thrive to succeed and loving our self
Very true. Sometimes it’s a curse that’s working against us. Sometimes it’s lack of knowledge and not being prepared at all. 👏🏾
And thank you for mentioning the part of feeling insecured of our success
I’m trying winnie, but I’m failing on RUclips I’m burnt out mentor
I'm excited before listening to u two ❤❤❤
@@pjbol ❤️🥰🥰
WOWWW THIS IS TOO GOOD.TWO POWERHOUSES IN ONE VIDEO, THIS IS SO TIMELY. THANK YOU GOD ,I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS
Thank you so much, ma'am.
I'm glad I watched it now that I'm single.😊
You are welcome Dear!❤
Thank you for lifting up my spirit ladies
I am definitely taking that step to travel far for real....😅😅 Just to have me fun
Bucket list number 1
DO IT!!!😁
Dis class is totally for me
Hv learnt a lot from it ❤
Thanks for dis ❤❤❤❤❤
Seriously I'm happy being a single lady😊
Thank you so much...
Just right on time...i refuse to allow myself to be pressured over anything but to become a better version of myself ❤❤
Am grateful for the heads-up!!
You are welcome Dear!❤❤
Thank you Winnie and your guest. She is beautiful ❤
You both look 25-26 😁😁😁
Intentional Ladies🤜🤜
Sis. Winnie is feeling the Guest speaker, Sis Moji😍😍
I love you ma you are amazing awesome and a God sent to our generation, more grace to you ma❤❤❤
Wow wow wow,you girls nailed it. I love this so much ❤🥰
I enjoyed every bit of this episode. Thank you ladies.❤
@@brendaadamz it’s out absolute pleasure!❤️
Thank you Winnie & Moji❤ we appreciate you so much, i wish i can like this video like 1 billion times
It’s our absolute pleasure Dear!❤
Right on time ❤️
@@imeldahchepchirchir6831 ❤️❤️❤️
I totally enjoyed this!🥰😍 Thank you Winnie and Moji… you both inspire me❤
This is so encouraging!!!! I’m so excited to enjoy my life to the fullest!🤩
Good job ma, I'm so super excited and blessed❤🎉
Yaaas!!!! Been looking forward to this 🎉
@@themercyedit ❤️❤️❤️
You see that point they say "is this how you act in your husband's house", I told my sister to never ever ever tell me that again and I told her most African mothers have consciously or unconsciously started to condition their young girls mindset for marriage, I really love this, great gem inside one video,💕🙏🤍💕💕💕
Thank you Winnie , your shows they helping me a lot.May God bless you
I so love love this topic... Thank you guys
Am looking up to my Willi
@@chideracomfort6980 ❤️❤️
"My beautiful, intelligent, elegant ladies. This is a beautiful discussion. # At the end of the day, we are looking at fulfilling one's purpose." being highly valued. Thank you so much, This discussion means a lot. I'm inspired.
It’s our absolute pleasure Dear!❤
@@winniesschoolofelegance ❤️
I am married but am taking ownership of my own life instead of my man. Like you said I don't want anyone to limit me.
❤❤❤
@@winniesschoolofelegance thanks so much for the inspirations. Your my role model.
Thank you very much ma . I am overly overwhelmed. I love you ma🎉🎉❤😊
How can I join the group pls
Thank you ladies for inspiring me to live a better life for myself💗.
It’s our absolute pleasure Dear!❤
A big question. How do you find your purpose?
Winnie kinda interrupted her at a point by the way 23:21 , 24:32
Please, add the point that some people tell unmarried ladies above their 30s that if they don't get married early, they may not be able to put to birth or complications may occur and sometimes that adds to the pressure...whats your take on this please?
I have seen women in their mid 40’s give birth with ease and I have also seen women who married early for the purpose of giving birth early not have any kids or have major complications during birth.
At the end of the day, every womans body is different.
Do your research on fertility and then take care of your body by eating right and exercising.
@@winniesschoolofelegance Thank you much...
Not just your body, even when you’re in a country that has a good RETIREMENT system the Leave you take to care for your FEMALE BODY (Menstrual/ovulation pain, Antenatal and postnatal care, child,family and home care) those WORK LEAVE bits hard on a woman’s Retirement fund ability. MAKE YOUR TIME, ENERGY, FINANCES AND HEALTH worthwhile. Children this days have started borrowing some brains that they are not their parents RETIREMENT PLAN.
Reflect on your life.
Hi dear big sister Winnie, I hope you are doing great! 😊
I wanted to really thank your friend and you for this beautiful video!
Though, I have a question and I come in peace please, do not take it personal 🙏🏾.
The thing is that I am kind of confused when you say that you are single, when in other videos you say that your boyfriend buys you some stuff (there was a video where you showed a perfume he bought for example).
In fact, I just wanted to know what "single" means to you please. Does "single" means "not married"? So, even if I have a boyfriend, can I still call myself single?
I will really appreciate that you give an answer to me, so that I can understand better please. Thank you very much for your time!
I am sending you big hugs! 🤗🤗
Yes singleness means you are not married….. either you are single without a boyfriend/ relationship or you are in a relationship which makes you single because you are not married yet….
I hope this help!!
@@anegbejudith6524 Oh ok! Yes, it definitely helped for my understanding. Thank you for your response!