As soon as I see Dr. Gary anywhere I’m clicking, love you too Josh. Without a doubt my favorite discussion with Dr.Gary and Josh, thank you both! Every perpetrator in the school shootings are practically identical. Loners, bullied, isolates, depression, in to violence online and drawings, basically red flags everywhere that people ignore and then the school shooting.
Josh, you and Dr Gary were a perfect balance for this highly insightful discussion. This was an exceptional program, I think the best I've ever listened to, on any channel. Factual, calm, intelligent discussion, but so sensitive when you shared more of your personal event. I never cry on these but you had me going, again, as I did listening to your episode about your illness and recovery to attend your son's wedding. Thank you both for being willing to try to make a difference.
Josh, I haven’t listened to your show very long. As you discussed your mother’s loss, I was touched so much, with your story. You are loved. You were loved. You are a great voice, for hurting people. Thank you. I am now in counceling, concerning forgiveness. I am finding a way to forgive past abuse. Thanks again.
I enjoy you both tremendously. Such a meaningful, insightful and simply brilliant conversation. Dr. Brucato, you are one of the very best minds out there. Much love to you both.
Gentlemen, may I say this is one of the most wonderful episodes I’ve seen . Im a retired hospice nurse of over 25 years and I have escorted many people into heaven and it was such a joyful job. I loved it. Dr. Gary you are right. There is a true phenomenon where at least 75% of my patients, waited for their loved one to exit the room (or their husband to take a pee ) lol So they could exit. know it personally because my mother passed away while I was getting four impacted wisdom teeth taken out and I’ve been waiting for a month for the cancer to take its toll. Then there’s my father. Who died like he lived. 74 years old , played tennis that day , walked a mile to the barbershop , sat down in a barber chair , picked up a Playboy & died. 🙄😂(gripping miss December 1988 !) And, he had a saying “i am going to live till I die !” and he did ! I am sorry for those that suffer and I am honored and humbled to have been with many when they crossed over . So bless you both for such an amazing episode and so needed in these times. God is good and you gentlemen are helping so many Thank you
AMEN, Dr. Gary🙏🏼 “I’m waiting for a political candidate to say my platform is mental health, drugs, alcohol, balance, introspection, etcetera!” Yes, yes, yes!!♥️✨
I always learn so much from Dr Gary whenever he speaks on a public forum like this. Thank you for your wisdom, compassion and kindness. I wish the world was full of more people like you. ❤️❤️❤️
Dr B, thank you for your expertise, insight and above all your empathy. I learn so much listening to you! 40 years as a nurse and a lifetime of an interest in true crime and I am always learning something new! And thank you also, Josh, for your knowledgeable commentary and compassion!
I think it's very beautiful what you are talking about. I'm reminded of my father, who died of cancer in Slian Kettering. I was 18. He was rmatiated from chemo. I have always wondered what he thought gazing up at me. A tears rolled down his cheeks. After listening to you talk about death, he did not want me to see him die. He passed away that evening. I feel very sad now. Anguish. More than that. Words can't express. Life is seen through tears. This was 1979. I haven't thought about that day in a long time. I hope that when it is my turn to die, I do not look up and see my kids, watching me, withering away. Geez, I still mourn, having put my dog to sleep. When my best friend died of covid, I fell to my knees with sorrow. The sorrow of losing loved ones is painful, let alone if someone is taken and assaulted. I don't know if I could forgive. I just don't know.
@DrGaryB as a critical care nurse in a hospital I concur with patients passing when their loved ones leave the room. Others pass with them in the room.
Dr. G's description of books is so me. When I was a kid I made fake library cards for all my books. And when I was in high school I would buy old books from the 1800s in bulk. My favorite thing was finding old newspaper clippings in them. I still tuck little tidbits in books I have now for people after me.
Josh every time you share about your Mom I cry 😢 I get teared up just thinking of you going through such a tragic thing. As a mom all I ever did was Pray to God to keep me alive and well to be there for my kids and He did. My kids are 51,47 and 44 and I love them so. And I know your Mom wanted to do the same for you and your Siblings. I want you to know I wish I could just wrap my Mom arms around you and let you let go first . So proud of how you are as a Human Being❤🙏🏻🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
My grandmother died of cancer. When she passed, she slipped in a coma overnight. My grandfather was alone with her. He was waiting for hospice to open. When my mom called him, once they were connected, my grandmother took her last breath. I believe in these moments. Thank you both for sharing all these moments of humanity not just the psychological perspective.
My Mum passed away with cancer. I was 33 and I told her it was OK to go and look after my daughter, she died 10 minutes later. ❤❤. There were many people there however it was like she was waiting for me. ❤❤❤
Seth we all Love you and you have so many supporters, You are amazing in so many ways, we are almost there, we all feel it. Stay Strong, Sebastian’s Army will not be defeated, We are all Sebastian Strong💚💚💚💚
Beautiful conversation. I have just rediscovered my love of reading. Agree so helpful. I think the fact that we have so many problems with knife crimes in the UK supports the argument that it's not the instrument, but society. Dr B gives me hope. ML from UK 💋❤️
This was one of the most beautiful shows ever. Both you Josh and Dr. Gary Brucato are a huge inspiration and lovely people. So true that KINDNESS is FREE ... lots of love to everyone. New Subscriber.💗💗💗
I love that...reading by lumps!! That is how I read and I have people question that I did really read the book because I am not remembering details, I am looking at the major concepts. Glad to know I am not alone or really weird or a poor reader! thank you!
Just wow! Mind blowing! Both of you share so much of yourselves and it adds so much. Dr. Brucato your spiritual side adds such depth to the conversation. Both of you have taken this subject to the core of the human condition. That is something we need to hear more. Just loved this!!!
I was also with my father when he passed. My father was afraid of dying and ended up in the hospital with a massive brain bleed. I sat with him and read inspirational poetry (Helen Steiner Rice) and to him. He was comatose but if I got very close to his ear and speak lovingly to him his eyes would flutter. I considered being with him during this time an absolute privilege and a highly spiritual experience. Thank you so very much ❤️
@@the_lab I want to thank you for keeping me on as a mod and I will try to jump in when I can. I’m glad you and your family are well, sorry I wasn’t aware earlier that you were ill. You know I love you by the way. ❤️
Great live! I think you and Dr Gary Brucato should do a live segment every week please and thank you. This is so therapeutic for me. Dr. Brucato, will you be my therapist please? 🫶
I was eager to hear Dr. B's thoughts on uncovering deeper significance in a children's book, and he cited my favorite, The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein. This reference causes me to reflect on my childhood tastes. I watched Dr. Michael Stone's series until it became too distressing for me to proceed. I would hope that my little ol' opinion wouldn't deter anyone from viewing or reading any of his work as it is amazing and would it be fair to say Dr Brucato's predecessor? Also, looking forward to Dr. Brucato's upcoming publication. This was a fantastic podcast tonight. I came in late and I am still listening! Thank you both 💕
@@Veruska75 I would even argue where the Red Fern grows and watership down are two I find a deeper meaning in. Both are terribly sad that we read as children.
Great show Josh and Dr. Gary. We always learn and we learned a bit more about the two of you on a personal level. Also: (If I heard you gentleman correctly) Chris lost his son in a shooting incident? I look forward to Chris sharing more on his personal experience. If he cares to. If not that is O.K. We learn much from his professional expertise. Josh keep honing your craft. Thanks for keeping it real. You don't need any advice from ME but here it goes 😂: by being your authentic self you are guaranteed success. Catch ya on the next one.
Dr. Gary, if you happen to see this…..do you ever get sick of all these women fawning over you? LOL. Great show you two, very powerful indeed. Love listening to all of your insights. Yours and @TheLabs. Josh, never think you don’t possess great wisdom and compassion. You touch many with both. 💕💕
Very much not a popular opinion but having been on the planet since the 60’s, I’ve seen a striking correlation between the reduction in spiritual faith and the increase in criminality. I’ve seen the same correlation between the demonising of discipline and the disappearance of just about any self-governance. In the explosive cake that society and social media is busy mixing, the overwhelming lack of self control or restraint are ingredients that will serve to ignite it. In my opinion, obviously.
I know you are a Pisces like I Dr. B. I have hundreds of books in my house and have saved every thing I have ever found in a book. It's like my little treasure chest of forgotten things.
I’m the same Gary, I love finding notes in old books I buy . I love books but mine are nearly 2000 not 7000… mostly psychology poetry philosophy and now true crime… yours sitting proudly on the front 😊
There is an important Jewish philosophy we call Tikkun Olam (repairing the world). Its important to actively be kind and helpful to others. If we bring more kindness into the world, make kindness the default response (as opposed to dismissiveness & indifference), it will truely eminate and affect the people around us 💖
When I was about 12 i decided I would read every book on my community library. I read so much that after a couple of weeks my eyes refused to focus on the printed pages and I had to give up my Odyssey. I still love to read and I will turn on a tv show and read through the breaks and if the show turns out not to be what I expected I will read right through it. These days I am more selective about my reading choices. I look for good criminology work which is how I found Dr. Brucato's book. I am delijghted to hear he has new books in the works. Please let us know the titles and when you expect to publish them.
@@drgaryb13 How very discerning of you Doc. You're right. Very much like that but ultimately not a tragedy. I made it through in one piece. Thanks be to God.
the dad buying him the gun after knowing everything reminds me of the case study in People of the Lie where one brother was given the other brother's gun that he used to kill himself by the parents. it's perverse. it's almost like an implicit command
I remember that. I have read that book several times. It's valuable, isn't it? It also chilled me to the core as I recognized a relative who was evil. I cut off all contact with them.
Hidden True Crime with Dr John said Maddie Soto was unseen. We need to see each other and we need to be kind to them by recognising them. It's the tonic to a self absorbed narcissistic trend in society.
Josh you and Dr Gary are fantastic!! Thank you so very much. Dr Gary when will the new book be out ? And the name of it? I’m half way through The New Evil. It’s fascinating!
👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 for the fictional psychopaths podcast. One suggestion for you: the character Lorn Malvo from Fargo season 1 (Played by Billy Bob Thornton). There's something that happens towards the middle of the season that cemented with me that this dude (as far as Hollywood goes) is a well written psychopath. It would also be cool to contrast his character with Martin Freeman's character, Lester Nygaard (who I'm not sure if he's a psychopath or not, but is a horrible person nonetheless😂).
@@drgaryb13 hi Dr. Brucato!! My question is that given genealogical DNA, many cases that are decades old are being solved. Many, particularly sexually driven, seem to be “one-and-done” because the alleged or admitted killer has no prior record and/or has lived an exemplary life. Aka the best dad, grandfather, parent, whatever. Is it possible that while the data says that murderers statistically not one-off instances, that there may be a significant segment of cases where yes- one and done. Bc they were scared to death after they lived out the fantasy of getting caught? Like Richard Allen/ Delphi- if he is guilty. Other examples are out there… i.e. are our stats skewed and there are really more onesie twosies historically, some at a later age than the stats say is the norm, than we ever imagined that are not obvious who dunnit cases? Long question but a question! TY! Would love a podcast from you on this topic. Sincerely, a big ol’ fan, Nancy.
@@trishie818 The true meaning of Christmas- God sending his son Jesus to the world to promote love, peace and joy. An AR-15, on the other hand, is a weapon of war- designed to kill multiple people at the same time. Love versus hate. Peace versus war. Joy versus desperation. Does that make sense Trish?
@@drgaryb13 Dr. Gary I always love your analyses & discussions… maybe I spoke too soon when watching the replay. The Christmas analogy was just super deep and a little dark for me at first, I should’ve waited - because you seemed to round it out pretty well, after all. 🙌🙌👍🏻
I don't think sex crimes were reported over 100 yrs ago or even 50 years. Crimes against women have historically not been reported or even investigated. Socially women don't seem to count, but if you commit a crime against men especially white men you'll have hell to pay. Is that figured into the percentages of such crimes? I agree that these crimes are horrible but so were medieval times, how can we accurately measure this? Just asking? It's fascinating to have this all explained so understandably. Thank you
@DrGaryBrucato @TheLab @TheInterviewRoom has anyone figured out what trash removal service was on Ben Hill Rd where Summer Wells lived? Did they put the barrels at the bottom of the driveway/shed? That’s why Don went there first?! Please tell me someone has looked into that. Watching the Quinton Simon case made me realize, this is a trend.
Add me to your list……my grandfather hadn’t moved all day…..I shouted goodbye from the hospital door as I left to go have a shower…..he lifted his arm right up and waved with his eyes closed and died shortly after I left 🥲🥲🥲🥲
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Bar none....this was one of the most astounding lives I have attended......thank you both!
I like the wordplay with saying astounding lives.
Thank you ❤
@@drgaryb13 😉🤯
@@the_lab 😉🤩
As soon as I see Dr. Gary anywhere I’m clicking, love you too Josh. Without a doubt my favorite discussion with Dr.Gary and Josh, thank you both! Every perpetrator in the school shootings are practically identical. Loners, bullied, isolates, depression, in to violence online and drawings, basically red flags everywhere that people ignore and then the school shooting.
Josh, you and Dr Gary were a perfect balance for this highly insightful discussion. This was an exceptional program, I think the best I've ever listened to, on any channel. Factual, calm, intelligent discussion, but so sensitive when you shared more of your personal event. I never cry on these but you had me going, again, as I did listening to your episode about your illness and recovery to attend your son's wedding. Thank you both for being willing to try to make a difference.
Dr. B always makes me feel spiritually rejuvenated. Thank you both.
Josh, I haven’t listened to your show very long. As you discussed your mother’s loss, I was touched so much, with your story. You are loved. You were loved. You are a great voice, for hurting people. Thank you. I am now in counceling, concerning forgiveness. I am finding a way to forgive past abuse. Thanks again.
Thoroughly enjoyed listening to this video. Oh, how wonderous to hear 2 men talk and let themselves be vulnerable.
I enjoy you both tremendously. Such a meaningful, insightful and simply brilliant conversation. Dr. Brucato, you are one of the very best minds out there. Much love to you both.
Yes studied man
Gentlemen, may I say this is one of the most wonderful episodes I’ve seen . Im a retired hospice nurse of over 25 years and I have escorted many people into heaven and it was such a joyful job. I loved it. Dr. Gary you are right. There is a true phenomenon where at least 75% of my patients, waited for their loved one to exit the room (or their husband to take a pee ) lol So they could exit.
know it personally because my mother passed away while I was getting four impacted wisdom teeth taken out and I’ve been waiting for a month for the cancer to take its toll.
Then there’s my father. Who died like he lived. 74 years old , played tennis that day , walked a mile to the barbershop , sat down in a barber chair , picked up a Playboy & died. 🙄😂(gripping miss December 1988 !) And, he had a saying “i am going to live till I die !” and he did ! I am sorry for those that suffer and I am honored and humbled to have been with many when they crossed over . So bless you both for such an amazing episode and so needed in these times.
God is good and you gentlemen are helping so many Thank you
AMEN, Dr. Gary🙏🏼
“I’m waiting for a political candidate to say my platform is mental health, drugs, alcohol, balance, introspection, etcetera!”
Yes, yes, yes!!♥️✨
I always learn so much from Dr Gary whenever he speaks on a public forum like this. Thank you for your wisdom, compassion and kindness. I wish the world was full of more people like you. ❤️❤️❤️
That means a great deal to me. Thank you.
@@EattheFOODTina-ND indeed 🙏
Dr B, thank you for your expertise, insight and above all your empathy. I learn so much listening to you! 40 years as a nurse and a lifetime of an interest in true crime and I am always learning something new! And thank you also, Josh, for your knowledgeable commentary and compassion!
Another winner to both of you. I love your shows. Josh you’re such an amazing survivor!!!
Absolutely love this combo. Dr Brucato is amazing and his analysis gives light in the darkness and I imagine is informed by deep theology
Strength comes from kindness! Beautiful. Thank you Dr Brucato. You speak so passionately and eloquently. Food for thought for us all.
I think it's very beautiful what you are talking about. I'm reminded of my father, who died of cancer in Slian Kettering. I was 18. He was rmatiated from chemo. I have always wondered what he thought gazing up at me. A tears rolled down his cheeks. After listening to you talk about death, he did not want me to see him die. He passed away that evening. I feel very sad now. Anguish. More than that. Words can't express. Life is seen through tears. This was 1979. I haven't thought about that day in a long time. I hope that when it is my turn to die, I do not look up and see my kids, watching me, withering away. Geez, I still mourn, having put my dog to sleep. When my best friend died of covid, I fell to my knees with sorrow. The sorrow of losing loved ones is painful, let alone if someone is taken and assaulted. I don't know if I could forgive. I just don't know.
@DrGaryB as a critical care nurse in a hospital I concur with patients passing when their loved ones leave the room. Others pass with them in the room.
Kindness does matter.
Thank you for leading with it ...
Dr. G's description of books is so me. When I was a kid I made fake library cards for all my books. And when I was in high school I would buy old books from the 1800s in bulk. My favorite thing was finding old newspaper clippings in them. I still tuck little tidbits in books I have now for people after me.
So heartfelt Josh and Dr B, I’m going to watch again ❤❤❤
Josh every time you share about your Mom I cry 😢 I get teared up just thinking of you going through such a tragic thing. As a mom all I ever did was Pray to God to keep me alive and well to be there for my kids and He did. My kids are 51,47 and 44 and I love them so. And I know your Mom wanted to do the same for you and your Siblings. I want you to know I wish I could just wrap my Mom arms around you and let you let go first . So proud of how you are as a Human Being❤🙏🏻🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
My grandmother died of cancer. When she passed, she slipped in a coma overnight. My grandfather was alone with her. He was waiting for hospice to open. When my mom called him, once they were connected, my grandmother took her last breath. I believe in these moments. Thank you both for sharing all these moments of humanity not just the psychological perspective.
My Mum passed away with cancer. I was 33 and I told her it was OK to go and look after my daughter, she died 10 minutes later. ❤❤. There were many people there however it was like she was waiting for me. ❤❤❤
@@sianbeecham2825 our loved ones know when the time is right. And sometimes it’s just waiting for us to be ok. Sorry about your loss
@@brooketyler469 thankyou
I could listen to you two all day! I don't mind being a fly on the wall. 😁💜✌️
You are my sunshine. WOW! I’m in tears. I admire your resilience.
Seth we all Love you and you have so many supporters, You are amazing in so many ways, we are almost there, we all feel it. Stay Strong, Sebastian’s Army will not be defeated, We are all Sebastian Strong💚💚💚💚
Beautiful conversation. I have just rediscovered my love of reading. Agree so helpful. I think the fact that we have so many problems with knife crimes in the UK supports the argument that it's not the instrument, but society. Dr B gives me hope. ML from UK 💋❤️
I love it! Read, read, read!!!
Failure to save is a trauma. Great Guest.
Thanks!
Beyond Great conversation you two! Many thanks!
I think the world of Josh and Dr. B because their hearts and minds make the world a better place.
I also love Robervt Frost. There is something there that is, that doesn't love a wall. How beautifully put.
Dr. Brucato has such a soothing voice
Really? Thanks. I think I sound like someone pulling a foot out of a bucket of yogurt.
I needed that giggle, thank you.
@@annabelle1390 - Dig that flaming jack-o'-lantern!
@@drgaryb13not at all!
I love dr Gary so much! Love the witness box too ….keep it going
Always use my brain more when listening to these conversations 😘
Glad to hear the next Dr Brucato book will deal with attachment wounds!
Dr Gary, brother, we are made of the same piece of cloth . I love your heart ❤
What a beautiful discussion of some difficult subjects. i feel blessed. Grateful to have stumbled upon you two tonight.
This episode so touched me. Thank you Josh and Dr Gary❤️
This was one of the most beautiful shows ever. Both you Josh and Dr. Gary Brucato are a huge inspiration and lovely people. So true that KINDNESS is FREE ... lots of love to everyone. New Subscriber.💗💗💗
Welcome… and thank you
Thank you Gary & Josh for this informative very touching episode 🙏❤️
Thank you for the in-depth discussion
That mother is actually proud of calling the school. I wish she had taken the time to be as proud of her son before the tragedy happened.
I love that...reading by lumps!! That is how I read and I have people question that I did really read the book because I am not remembering details, I am looking at the major concepts. Glad to know I am not alone or really weird or a poor reader! thank you!
Excellent live!! 👏 👍 ❤
GLAD TO BE BACK .. CANT WAIT TO LISTEN
You cannot be the light without going thru the dark!
I absolutely loved this thank you both. ❤
Just wow! Mind blowing! Both of you share so much of yourselves and it adds so much. Dr. Brucato your spiritual side adds such depth to the conversation. Both of you have taken this subject to the core of the human condition. That is something we need to hear more. Just loved this!!!
I was also with my father when he passed. My father was afraid of dying and ended up in the hospital with a massive brain bleed. I sat with him and read inspirational poetry (Helen Steiner Rice) and to him. He was comatose but if I got very close to his ear and speak lovingly to him his eyes would flutter. I considered being with him during this time an absolute privilege and a highly spiritual experience. Thank you so very much ❤️
Great show, thank you!
Thanks Mimi !
@@the_lab I want to thank you for keeping me on as a mod and I will try to jump in when I can.
I’m glad you and your family are well, sorry I wasn’t aware earlier that you were ill. You know I love you by the way. ❤️
Dr. Gary fan girl here!
So sorry Josh for the loss of your Mother- what a lovely SUN you are my dear!
Great show! I'm moved on many levels.
Great live! I think you and Dr Gary Brucato should do a live segment every week please and thank you. This is so therapeutic for me. Dr. Brucato, will you be my therapist please? 🫶
I was eager to hear Dr. B's thoughts on uncovering deeper significance in a children's book, and he cited my favorite, The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein. This reference causes me to reflect on my childhood tastes.
I watched Dr. Michael Stone's series until it became too distressing for me to proceed. I would hope that my little ol' opinion wouldn't deter anyone from viewing or reading any of his work as it is amazing and would it be fair to say Dr Brucato's predecessor? Also, looking forward to Dr. Brucato's upcoming publication.
This was a fantastic podcast tonight. I came in late and I am still listening! Thank you both 💕
Thank you so much
@@the_lab you're welcome & both such a delight!
Another one is The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry.
@@Veruska75 I would even argue where the Red Fern grows and watership down are two I find a deeper meaning in. Both are terribly sad that we read as children.
Great discussion and I want Dr Brancato as a like/love object-
That places you in a tiny minority!
Great show Josh and Dr. Gary. We always learn and we learned a bit more about the two of you on a personal level. Also: (If I heard you gentleman correctly) Chris lost his son in a shooting incident? I look forward to Chris sharing more on his personal experience. If he cares to. If not that is O.K. We learn much from his professional expertise. Josh keep honing your craft. Thanks for keeping it real. You don't need any advice from ME but here it goes 😂: by being your authentic self you are guaranteed success. Catch ya on the next one.
Erik! My friend. Thank you for always supporting me and the kind words. I always look for you in the chat and glad when I see you comment.
@@erikschultz6865 Erik, I believe it was an auto accident, nonetheless tragic
Great show 🎉thank you ❤
Dr. Gary, if you happen to see this…..do you ever get sick of all these women fawning over you? LOL.
Great show you two, very powerful indeed. Love listening to all of your insights. Yours and @TheLabs. Josh, never think you don’t possess great wisdom and compassion. You touch many with both. 💕💕
There's a woman fawning over me?! I've not seen this...
@@drgaryb13 lol! Thousands!!!!
@@drgaryb13on a more serious note, thank you for sharing with us, with such compassion and faith. It really does make a difference.
@@lisamurphy4438 - I am not aware of ONE!
@@drgaryb13 you’re a very modest man. A very good, sincere and modest man……God bless you always.
Very much not a popular opinion but having been on the planet since the 60’s, I’ve seen a striking correlation between the reduction in spiritual faith and the increase in criminality. I’ve seen the same correlation between the demonising of discipline and the disappearance of just about any self-governance. In the explosive cake that society and social media is busy mixing, the overwhelming lack of self control or restraint are ingredients that will serve to ignite it. In my opinion, obviously.
Yes! Please do show on fictional psychopaths!
I know you are a Pisces like I Dr. B. I have hundreds of books in my house and have saved every thing I have ever found in a book. It's like my little treasure chest of forgotten things.
I am 😂
I’m the same Gary, I love finding notes in old books I buy . I love books but mine are nearly 2000 not 7000… mostly psychology poetry philosophy and now true crime… yours sitting proudly on the front 😊
Who is the greatest Persian poet, in your opinion?
@@drgaryb13 Rumi , I love all them but he is my favourite. Which one is yours please?
@@Soh583 Rumi, but who wouldn't say so?!
Level discussion. Starts in the mind.....
There is an important Jewish philosophy we call Tikkun Olam (repairing the world). Its important to actively be kind and helpful to others. If we bring more kindness into the world, make kindness the default response (as opposed to dismissiveness & indifference), it will truely eminate and affect the people around us 💖
Love this many thanks
When I was about 12 i decided I would read every book on my community library. I read so much that after a couple of weeks my eyes refused to focus on the printed pages and I had to give up my Odyssey. I still love to read and I will turn on a tv show and read through the breaks and if the show turns out not to be what I expected I will read right through it. These days I am more selective about my reading choices. I look for good criminology work which is how I found Dr. Brucato's book. I am delijghted to hear he has new books in the works. Please let us know the titles and when you expect to publish them.
Sounds like A Tree Grows in Brooklyn!
@@drgaryb13 How very discerning of you Doc. You're right. Very much like that but ultimately not a tragedy. I made it through in one piece. Thanks be to God.
@IwishIwasshorter - It's a favorite of mine. I love the movie.
Great show Josh and Chris.
Meant to say Dr. Gary
Thanks!
I'm happy you appreciated the show!
the dad buying him the gun after knowing everything reminds me of the case study in People of the Lie where one brother was given the other brother's gun that he used to kill himself by the parents. it's perverse. it's almost like an implicit command
I remember that. I have read that book several times. It's valuable, isn't it? It also chilled me to the core as I recognized a relative who was evil. I cut off all contact with them.
Hidden True Crime with Dr John said Maddie Soto was unseen. We need to see each other and we need to be kind to them by recognising them.
It's the tonic to a self absorbed narcissistic trend in society.
Josh you and Dr Gary are fantastic!! Thank you so very much. Dr Gary when will the new book be out ? And the name of it? I’m half way through The New Evil. It’s fascinating!
Thanks! Given that I wrote the first half-- Part I-- that's nice to hear. Please review it wherever you got it.
Yes 👍
👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 for the fictional psychopaths podcast. One suggestion for you: the character Lorn Malvo from Fargo season 1 (Played by Billy Bob Thornton). There's something that happens towards the middle of the season that cemented with me that this dude (as far as Hollywood goes) is a well written psychopath. It would also be cool to contrast his character with Martin Freeman's character, Lester Nygaard (who I'm not sure if he's a psychopath or not, but is a horrible person nonetheless😂).
By the way, Josh, you will still be awake all night, when your son is 30+. Guaranteed. ❤
Agreed
Nerd comment reminds me of Goid Will Hunting movie premise
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Does Dr Gary have a reading list for the last year? 😊
Dr Gary, is there an email address one can write to you please?
Women have to be a little careful about showing kindness. Sadly, it can be misconstrued, and backfire.
Huh not know mr.harris knew that rip 💕 k. Unal. Themselves too much pain from being neglected abus. By peers
Dang YT not notifying me again. Ughhhh r
And really upset bc i have a question for dr. B :/
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@@drgaryb13 hi Dr. Brucato!! My question is that given genealogical DNA, many cases that are decades old are being solved. Many, particularly sexually driven, seem to be “one-and-done” because the alleged or admitted killer has no prior record and/or has lived an exemplary life. Aka the best dad, grandfather, parent, whatever. Is it possible that while the data says that murderers statistically not one-off instances, that there may be a significant segment of cases where yes- one and done. Bc they were scared to death after they lived out the fantasy of getting caught? Like Richard Allen/ Delphi- if he is guilty. Other examples are out there… i.e. are our stats skewed and there are really more onesie twosies historically, some at a later age than the stats say is the norm, than we ever imagined that are not obvious who dunnit cases?
Long question but a question! TY! Would love a podcast from you on this topic. Sincerely, a big ol’ fan, Nancy.
Dr Gary lost me at the Christmas description
@@trishie818 - What does this comment mean? You don't see how the symbolism of that day was perverted by buying a kid an AR-15 to commemorate it?
@trishie818 - P.S.: I love horses, they're so majestic and beautiful 🐎 🐴 🐎
@@trishie818 The true meaning of Christmas- God sending his son Jesus to the world to promote love, peace and joy. An AR-15, on the other hand, is a weapon of war- designed to kill multiple people at the same time. Love versus hate. Peace versus war. Joy versus desperation. Does that make sense Trish?
@@drgaryb13 Dr. Gary I always love your analyses & discussions… maybe I spoke too soon when watching the replay. The Christmas analogy was just super deep and a little dark for me at first, I should’ve waited - because you seemed to round it out pretty well, after all. 🙌🙌👍🏻
@@trishie818 - That's OK. I love a sensitive soul. My favorite people.
I don't think sex crimes were reported over 100 yrs ago or even 50 years. Crimes against women have historically not been reported or even investigated. Socially women don't seem to count, but if you commit a crime against men especially white men you'll have hell to pay. Is that figured into the percentages of such crimes? I agree that these crimes are horrible but so were medieval times, how can we accurately measure this? Just asking? It's fascinating to have this all explained so understandably. Thank you
Absolutely false, I can assure you. I've studied this for years. I address this theory in my book.
@@drgaryb13 thank you for responding
Ugh neighbor s 😢 old stuff need dumpster what does minds hoarders think
Step dad abuse n step mom as well evil
@DrGaryBrucato @TheLab @TheInterviewRoom has anyone figured out what trash removal service was on Ben Hill Rd where Summer Wells lived? Did they put the barrels at the bottom of the driveway/shed? That’s why Don went there first?! Please tell me someone has looked into that. Watching the Quinton Simon case made me realize, this is a trend.
Add me to your list……my grandfather hadn’t moved all day…..I shouted goodbye from the hospital door as I left to go have a shower…..he lifted his arm right up and waved with his eyes closed and died shortly after I left 🥲🥲🥲🥲