Thank you ladies for this insight. I believe the answer to this question is personal and I am not a fan of cheating either from the man or the woman side . But for me if I am serious with any lady and you cheat its over , No forgiveness .be it any type of relationship. You are going.
If a key can open many locks, it is called a "master key". If a lock can be opened by many keys, it is called a "bad lock". So ask yourself, which one is "the key" and which one is "the lock".
And you believe this analogy pertains to marriage? Seriously? Let's ask your wife to read it if you are married and let's ask her how that statement would make her feel.
@@SupoLawalyou're an idiot. Your response is a poor attempt at guilt tripping. Be logical, not emotional. His analogy is spot-on. A key that opens many locks is a master key; a lock that many key can open is a bad lock. There are no ambiguities here.
When we understand the biology of men and women this matter of "cheating" would be understood. A man sleeping with another woman and a woman sleeping with another man are not same in many ways. Westernization of this matter won't help African women truly grasp this issue
No Mariam,it's not social conditioning,it is more like universe conditioning.Men are designed differently,women can forgive cheating easily because they have the ability to handle it better than a man..But men,even if we forgive,the ego,moral and the heart break,it consumes a man badly than any woman could think.....Thank you.
I have a problem with a man saying how women can and cannot do something or how a woman should feel. The feeling spouses feel are the same across board: betrayal, anger, insecurity, etc. if you feel that way as a man, chances are the woman will feel the same way. Men need to stop this narrative. If a man is willing to step out, be ready to be dumped.
@SupoLawal Because many have lost every sense of how the universe works..This is partly the reason the universe/God made us polygamous, but man disobedient made it monogamous. Men are not wired like women,the very home keeper and nurture of a women can easily forgive or accept some things including cheating.But the hunter,gatherer that's a man's nature would find it hard to take.lt's a masculine thing.When he had 2,3 or 4 wives there are others there to help him unlike monogamy.It is a hard truth to accept,l know,we've all been brought up in this system,especially in this day and age of female emancipation..
@aliceokyere7037 You women are so funny,always fighting against yourself,thinking it's empowerment.🤣You can bring it back,until the man sees 3,4 more of you in public wanting him then you'll quickly realize it doesn't change a thing..Men does not see marriage as a trophy women does.😂
Of course men forgive cheating as often as women. However, when a man forgives cheating, the woman tends to take it as a license to keep cheating. This is because a woman's cheating goes deeper, it's either she's no longer in love with her man or she's addicted to cheating. For a man, he will cheat because of the scarcity mindset; it's hard for most men to get a woman and when one becomes available, they're often loathe to pass up the opportunity. It doesn't mean that he no longer loves his woman
My wife has been cheating on me for more than 7 years now,. How I would have loved to forgive and forget, every time I tried to talk about it, she usually justified, defended her actions, and rationalized, I'm still struggling with the healing. Dont know how to handle this because i genuinely love her, the only thing have denied her is about my earning. Pls i need your advice
even if u forgive, that marriage will never be that. No situation justifies a woman knacking another man after marriage. if u dont feel satisfied, leave the marriage
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Staying with a woman that cheated on you is the worst mistake you'll ever make in your miserable life.
Absolutely! That woman can kill you.
But staying with a man that cheats is safe abi?😮
😅😅😅😅😅 I can relate I have nevered been soo disappointed with myself it's The worst thing you can do as a man never take back a cheating woman.
Yessooo 💯
Just the same way staying with a man that cheated on you is the worst mistake you'll ever make in your miserable life.
😂😂Omo😂, the truth is, "We no dey forgive o." 😂😂😂😂 We no go gree 😂😂
Thank you ladies for this insight. I believe the answer to this question is personal and I am not a fan of cheating either from the man or the woman side . But for me if I am serious with any lady and you cheat its over , No forgiveness .be it any type of relationship. You are going.
If a key can open many locks, it is called a "master key". If a lock can be opened by many keys, it is called a "bad lock". So ask yourself, which one is "the key" and which one is "the lock".
And you believe this analogy pertains to marriage? Seriously? Let's ask your wife to read it if you are married and let's ask her how that statement would make her feel.
@@SupoLawalyou're an idiot. Your response is a poor attempt at guilt tripping. Be logical, not emotional. His analogy is spot-on. A key that opens many locks is a master key; a lock that many key can open is a bad lock. There are no ambiguities here.
This topic requires at least a one man or two in it. To shed more light, his own light on it . Just saying tho
When we understand the biology of men and women this matter of "cheating" would be understood.
A man sleeping with another woman and a woman sleeping with another man are not same in many ways.
Westernization of this matter won't help African women truly grasp this issue
Yes. Don't mind these feminist women trying to make it seem like it's the same. It's not the same.
True
Men and women are not the same. It's a double standard, yes. Men hardly forgive cheating.
I can’t forgive even if i try too…….I’ve asked myself this question too but it will keep coming to my head
I laughed you ladies! Try it with your husband, then we can have a 😂❤😅better conversation! Experience is the best teacher.
No Mariam,it's not social conditioning,it is more like universe conditioning.Men are designed differently,women can forgive cheating easily because they have the ability to handle it better than a man..But men,even if we forgive,the ego,moral and the heart break,it consumes a man badly than any woman could think.....Thank you.
I have a problem with a man saying how women can and cannot do something or how a woman should feel. The feeling spouses feel are the same across board: betrayal, anger, insecurity, etc. if you feel that way as a man, chances are the woman will feel the same way. Men need to stop this narrative. If a man is willing to step out, be ready to be dumped.
@SupoLawal Because many have lost every sense of how the universe works..This is partly the reason the universe/God made us polygamous, but man disobedient made it monogamous. Men are not wired like women,the very home keeper and nurture of a women can easily forgive or accept some things including cheating.But the hunter,gatherer that's a man's nature would find it hard to take.lt's a masculine thing.When he had 2,3 or 4 wives there are others there to help him unlike monogamy.It is a hard truth to accept,l know,we've all been brought up in this system,especially in this day and age of female emancipation..
@@suntangloryyou’re so funny, how about the cultures where women were polygamous, should that be brought back as well?
@aliceokyere7037 You women are so funny,always fighting against yourself,thinking it's empowerment.🤣You can bring it back,until the man sees 3,4 more of you in public wanting him then you'll quickly realize it doesn't change a thing..Men does not see marriage as a trophy women does.😂
@@SupoLawalthank o ❤
Capital letter NO
God forgives but I don't
Of course men forgive cheating as often as women. However, when a man forgives cheating, the woman tends to take it as a license to keep cheating. This is because a woman's cheating goes deeper, it's either she's no longer in love with her man or she's addicted to cheating.
For a man, he will cheat because of the scarcity mindset; it's hard for most men to get a woman and when one becomes available, they're often loathe to pass up the opportunity. It doesn't mean that he no longer loves his woman
We do but we never forget
Men my advise move on forget the cheater trust me next cheating u might lose ur life
My wife has been cheating on me for more than 7 years now,. How I would have loved to forgive and forget, every time I tried to talk about it, she usually justified, defended her actions, and rationalized, I'm still struggling with the healing. Dont know how to handle this because i genuinely love her, the only thing have denied her is about my earning. Pls i need your advice
which advice do u need ?
even if u forgive, that marriage will never be that. No situation justifies a woman knacking another man after marriage. if u dont feel satisfied, leave the marriage
Not related but white looks good on the host..You look beautiful ma❤❤
Once you cheat. You are worthless than akunakuna. Even Akunakuna looks more trustworthy, at least we know her history.
see how people re defending they action
It depends, if the man do same thing, most likely he will forgive
Men who cheat find it harder to forgive
Is this beecee or voice-over?
Na people wey get power they marry...
I don comot hand for this full blown rubbish called marriage
Why na? Do you date?
@bakhitango263 I like my peace and I love my joy
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