Most men who haven’t been cheated on or played by women tend to never notice red flags and are naive I see feminist women do the same when they hear a mother cheats and leaves the kids.. or when it’s a attractive man just because he’s a ladies man/player doesn’t mean he’ll cheat on me 🤦🏿♂️
If your woman's talking about another man - whoever he is, especially if she says he's arrogant or full of himself - that's an enormous red flag. And your wife isn't your 'friend' any more than your mother is your friend. Family aren't 'friends'... that's not what the word means. As for this wife having guy friends... that's why you have to set boundaries at the start of the relationship. You tell her that guy friends aren't acceptable, that she doesn't go out with the girls, that she's not allowed contact with exes. She can do those things but not if she wants to be with you.
She cheated with the same dude since you were dating Why didn't she just marry HIM instead of you? Maybe she was looking at dollar signs and ATM machines. Dang, OP, you got a raw deal with her... Good thing it's finally over and she's the other dude's headache now..
@@Leroy175 , then she should have married the ex, not some other doormat while sleeping with the ex. That's just wrong. But her second husband had money, her ex didn't. Ka CHING $$$$$
Here’s another example of why a woman’s past is so important for a man. If necessary hire a detective knowing her past is worth every penny compared to what you might lose in the future. Every penny is worth it. And you’re 36 years old, why are you talking so negatively? You can still have kids man, you don’t even need to get married to have a child. Why are you willingly submitting yourself to marriage, which is like a leash and slavery? And if you do get married, don’t do it with a Western woman. You’ve got money, go marry a more traditional woman from another country. Look into Asian countries. Don’t go anywhere with ties to Europe, though. The women there are corrupt too. Not as much as in the U.S. and Europe, but still corrupt.
She disrespected you to the core?! Nah bro, she gave you exact amount of respect you deserve. Sorry to say, but it's the truth, you have no one but yourself to blame. What Word have you studied and lived by? You need to do better.
They always speak the truth, be aware of what she's doing my friend.. it's hard to make any decision I know but keep noticing her actions it will tell you everything.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
She couldn't stand him but she could lay down with him. The only real issue I have with op is that he was never clear with her about him wanting to be a dad on top of wanting to be with a single divorced mom who speaks all the time about her ex husband, how can you marry a woman without making sure that the two of you want the same thing, especially something as important as becoming a father and having your own kid, something that you always wanted ?
Do not ignore the red flags. Trust your gut! If your gut is telling you to run....then freaking run. Oh. And 36 is young. I'm in my 50's and women from their 20's to their 60's hit on me every day. Take care of yourself. Workout and stay fit and trim and you're already better than 80% of the other guys you see in public. I found a woman to have my baby when I was 39. We haven't been together for years but she tells her boyfriends that I come before them and they just have to deal with it because I'm baby daddy. She told one guy that if I moved across the country she'd move too. Poor guy. This is all real. Never ignore your gut feelings.
Oh she was hitting every one of her so called friends. She had one guy she loved and he didn't want to be married to.her anymore, but still liked hitting it probably every time they exchanged the kids. To be honest I am surprised she did not bring up the open marriage idea before actually getting married. I guess she wanted you to get used to being with her before she threw that gem out there. Wow.
You should thank her for not having your Kid, you would be on child support right now. She spent most of her Adult life with the Ex, she's already institutionalised with him, she will always come back around to the Ex no matter what her relationship status is. Having a conversation Man to Man with her Ex is not a bad idea. After that conversation you can request he keep that between them or if you're current girl finds out that you had that conversation from her Ex then you know she's still in contact with him, either way is a win.
If a woman is really into you and really loves you,she will NEVER EVER allow another girl or woman to come even close to"her"man. Peiod. Yeah,first hand experience. She is still the same after 31 years.
Nope ain't laughing at this OP. He just got played in a pro con job. Only a small percentage of people are true narcissist, but you got hooked up with one. She was whatever she needed to be to hook you in. Just google 'how narcissist control their victims' and you got taken by ever point on the checklist. Fortunately you finally reached your enough point and got out. The baby daddy was a dousch, but he was not wrong about her. I would guess the ex is physically attractive with what she got away with. Your mom saw the evil, your stepdad did not. A dispenser of pain wrapped in a pretty package. By the way, men are on a different timeline for having kids. If that is what you want, there are still some good women who would definitely go with a guy who is a little older buy has his life together.
The lesson here is one we've known for years. Do not get with a single mother. Emailer thought he was gonna be his stepdad but it seems his wife wasn't like his mother 😂
At any point in your life if a woman ever tells you “you don’t have to worry”: *Start worrying*
Facts
Worry immediately 🤣🤣🤣
It’s easier to just tell them it’s over. I’ll save my worries for real issues I have to deal with
That’s a five alarm fire right there.
If he broke up with her, she is still not over him.
🚩 if she brings up her ex..move on to the next 🏃♂️
Ex husband knew she was a 304
Why marry a divorced woman and all that baggage…
As soon as you make the decision to move on BLOCK HER on everything.
Why do guys have to be so DENSE!!!! Stop ignoring red flags!!!!
Easy to say
Weak men will put up with a lot for the promise of a piece of tail...
most dudes accept used trash as their spouse and mother of their offspring
Most men who haven’t been cheated on or played by women tend to never notice red flags and are naive I see feminist women do the same when they hear a mother cheats and leaves the kids.. or when it’s a attractive man just because he’s a ladies man/player doesn’t mean he’ll cheat on me 🤦🏿♂️
If she keeps thinking of her ex that probably means she’s not over him
Donovan sharp rule #101, whatever a woman tells you, the opposite is more likely true
straight facts
Ignore obvious red flags and your gut at your own risk...
As soon as she wants to open the relationship...... It's over.
So she hated her 1st hubby cause he didn't allow her to cheat.
and held her accountable. new guy got played like monopoly.
She couldn't stand him, but she laid with him. Talking about ex is a red flag.
You're stepdad shaped you totally wrong op.
simp creates simp
Mr. Clueless
“Your not sleeping with my wife” after she tells him its an open relationship. Clueless simp
She married the provider never loved him - weak men with no idea hurt themselves 😢
Unless she's a widow don't bother with a single mom
Even then you might have to deal with her being literally alpha widowed
even then, competing with a dead dude is an massive L - you will never win.
For almost every man here, you will only be 2nd best at best. You will never get true genuine desire because one day she will get tired of acting.
You can't satisfy a woman who comes from a hookup culture. A man like that hasn't been created yet. xD
This is why you vett!!!
most chumps are playing checkers and their playing 4D chess.
If your woman's talking about another man - whoever he is, especially if she says he's arrogant or full of himself - that's an enormous red flag. And your wife isn't your 'friend' any more than your mother is your friend. Family aren't 'friends'... that's not what the word means.
As for this wife having guy friends... that's why you have to set boundaries at the start of the relationship. You tell her that guy friends aren't acceptable, that she doesn't go out with the girls, that she's not allowed contact with exes. She can do those things but not if she wants to be with you.
I don't think that girl needs to be reminded of good times she makes her own good times no matter who she is with lol
She cheated with the same dude since you were dating Why didn't she just marry HIM instead of you? Maybe she was looking at dollar signs and ATM machines. Dang, OP, you got a raw deal with her... Good thing it's finally over and she's the other dude's headache now..
He was the first husband. That she never got over.
@@Leroy175 , then she should have married the ex, not some other doormat while sleeping with the ex. That's just wrong. But her second husband had money, her ex didn't. Ka CHING $$$$$
Here’s another example of why a woman’s past is so important for a man. If necessary hire a detective knowing her past is worth every penny compared to what you might lose in the future. Every penny is worth it. And you’re 36 years old, why are you talking so negatively? You can still have kids man, you don’t even need to get married to have a child. Why are you willingly submitting yourself to marriage, which is like a leash and slavery? And if you do get married, don’t do it with a Western woman. You’ve got money, go marry a more traditional woman from another country. Look into Asian countries. Don’t go anywhere with ties to Europe, though. The women there are corrupt too. Not as much as in the U.S. and Europe, but still corrupt.
Never deal with a single mom, but bruh, if you want kids and you pick a woman that doesn't want to have your kid... thats your fault my guy
If she keeps talking bout her ex then send her back to be with him and move on.
That is because she had bonded with him. She will always be tied to him. Once they have bonded they cannot bond with another.
Yep! She's used up, he should find a new one for himself.
She disrespected you to the core?! Nah bro, she gave you exact amount of respect you deserve. Sorry to say, but it's the truth, you have no one but yourself to blame.
What Word have you studied and lived by? You need to do better.
She brings up not wanting more kids after your married. Wow. Major red flag there.. i have two kids and they were great. They are adults now.
The ex husband did him a favor trust me
How does the topic of having children not come up before the wedding?
Women with kids saying they want a open marriage is not worthy of being a mother
You should’ve divorced her when she told you she wouldn’t have kids with you
Many guys got to learn the hard way. Take ur time to get to know a female
My GF always talks about her former lover who she describes as being 12". He is back East so.... but it still bothers me and raises flags.
They always speak the truth, be aware of what she's doing my friend.. it's hard to make any decision I know but keep noticing her actions it will tell you everything.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?
His name is dr apala omofulma, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
He is an idiot if she brought her ex too much and you need proof to cut ties and run at least meet her EX hubby and ask him about her!!!
She couldn't stand him but she could lay down with him.
The only real issue I have with op is that he was never clear with her about him wanting to be a dad on top of wanting to be with a single divorced mom who speaks all the time about her ex husband, how can you marry a woman without making sure that the two of you want the same thing, especially something as important as becoming a father and having your own kid, something that you always wanted ?
I am not laughing. Open marriage should be immediate divorce.
Do not ignore the red flags. Trust your gut! If your gut is telling you to run....then freaking run.
Oh. And 36 is young. I'm in my 50's and women from their 20's to their 60's hit on me every day. Take care of yourself. Workout and stay fit and trim and you're already better than 80% of the other guys you see in public.
I found a woman to have my baby when I was 39. We haven't been together for years but she tells her boyfriends that I come before them and they just have to deal with it because I'm baby daddy. She told one guy that if I moved across the country she'd move too. Poor guy.
This is all real. Never ignore your gut feelings.
Oh she was hitting every one of her so called friends. She had one guy she loved and he didn't want to be married to.her anymore, but still liked hitting it probably every time they exchanged the kids. To be honest I am surprised she did not bring up the open marriage idea before actually getting married. I guess she wanted you to get used to being with her before she threw that gem out there. Wow.
Have no fear, God will make them both pay dearly. You can rest assured of that.
I have 2 children and am so happy I did. Kids are awesome, at least IMO.
I'm so glad op got out of that, and the house had to be sold money split would have pissed her off.. Don't marry single mothers period...
You should thank her for not having your Kid, you would be on child support right now.
She spent most of her Adult life with the Ex, she's already institutionalised with him, she will always come back around to the Ex no matter what her relationship status is.
Having a conversation Man to Man with her Ex is not a bad idea. After that conversation you can request he keep that between them or if you're current girl finds out that you had that conversation from her Ex then you know she's still in contact with him, either way is a win.
If a woman is really into you and really loves you,she will NEVER EVER allow another girl or woman to come even close to"her"man. Peiod. Yeah,first hand experience. She is still the same after 31 years.
With the friend comment at the bar id have ghosted her rihht then and slipped away in the crowd and left her there bro
First story she sounds like a covet narc!!!
Another one . I should hv the this message on repeat. Should hv left at the get go
GOD VIDEO
Nope ain't laughing at this OP. He just got played in a pro con job. Only a small percentage of people are true narcissist, but you got hooked up with one. She was whatever she needed to be to hook you in. Just google 'how narcissist control their victims' and you got taken by ever point on the checklist. Fortunately you finally reached your enough point and got out. The baby daddy was a dousch, but he was not wrong about her. I would guess the ex is physically attractive with what she got away with. Your mom saw the evil, your stepdad did not. A dispenser of pain wrapped in a pretty package.
By the way, men are on a different timeline for having kids. If that is what you want, there are still some good women who would definitely go with a guy who is a little older buy has his life together.
Bah too much initial exposition on her initial behavior. Redundant and unnecessary.
The lesson here is one we've known for years. Do not get with a single mother. Emailer thought he was gonna be his stepdad but it seems his wife wasn't like his mother 😂
"insecure" is must be the key word for get da hell out of there.
Well there you go can’t make a wife out of a 304