She didn't give him 5 of the best years of her life. She gave her best years to guys who didn't care about her and just used her for s*x. The husband got the clean-up years. Smh.
Love how she added the "like everyone else was doing during college" Oh no hun, that was YOU & whatever friend group you ran around with at college Don't put this on everyone else
This 304 knows her past does matter, because she intentionally hid it for so many years. Shout out to the friend for saving the husband from doing another 5years with this sloot.
And for whatever reason women cannot comprehend that fact. They don't see how insulting and disrespectful it is that random bfs got more access to her than you as the loving husband gets. The OP said she doesnt like backdoor action or getting a facials, but I bet Chad and Tyrone did that and she had a smile on her face SMH!
Early in the relationship she kept talking about her past boyfriends and stuff.Means she still misses that stuff.Only stopped when he didn't like it.Tells you about her.Red Flags all over.
Big facts, especially finding out random dudes did all types of things with said wife while I get limited action!!! I cant believe how women cannot seem to comprehend how insulting that is to a husband, that a random bf got more access to your wife than you. Ish is irritating and makes a homie want to crash out over it. Divorce is bare minimum.
Past performance is the best predictor of future performance. That's why... 1) Employers want to see a job applicant's resumé. 2) Investors want to see a business's earnings statement. 3) Banks want to see a loan applicant's credit report. 4) Doctors want to see a patient's medical records. 5) Colleges want to see an admissions applicant's school transcripts. 6) Landlords want to see a potential tenant's credit report. 7) Used car shoppers want to see a car's Carfax report. 8) Auto insurance companies check a coverage applicant's driving record. The past DOES matter. Anyone telling you otherwise is trying to hide something from you.
fatherless men are easily deceived by the gynospeak. your list proves why the past matters. but for the stoopid people, i keep it simple. i ask them, hey i got a.i.d.s. in the past. do you wanna have unprotected sex with me? the answer is always no, so that quickly shuts down that gaslighting talking point 👍
How is she calling him a coward when she didn't want to admit to him that she was a 304! And for all o the people commenting to her that she did nothing wrong and he's a coward, they are most likely the same as that woman! Capt'n save a ho e
Her husband literally said if he would have known what she did years before, he would have not dated her or married her. She built a life for herself based off lies. She knew exactly what would have happened if she was honest. She clearly does not love and/or care about him; only herself. Now she is complaining about her 5 wasted years. What about your husband’s 5 wasted years? Truly hope she gets nothing. Sorry that the husband found out he married a lying loser.
When they spent theirs youngers days to "explore things" they don't think that the past will follow them to their future. And later they would say that "the past must romain in the past". Nonsense !
If she was completely honest with her husband up front, then I would actually believe she was a completely different person. If she was a different person, she would have given him a quick easy divorce. If she has changed as a person, she would have taken actual accountability. But yeh.....
First of all, when it's 1 woman and multiple men that is a set out not a threesome. Secondly...NO MAN what's a partner like that for a wife unless he's really into that and those type of men are rare
It's amazing that she dictates what they do and don't do in the bedroom, so after her husband found out about her past, it seems clear that she did things in her past adventures with other dudes that she wouldn't do with her doormat, nice guy husband. Therefore, divorce is the best option for him.
It is his choice just like it was her choice to be a garden tool. There are so many women out here that have done far worse and their husbands don’t even know.
Your past actions will reflect your future. No? What does your credit score reflect? When you apply for a job, what do they want to see? Are you going to rent what do they need? It's not insecurities he's looking at probabilities.
Typical logic. I will allow myself to be ran through like nobody's business in my prime years then have limits and standards later in life when it really matters. Smh
Man seeks purity in a young mate. The older the woman is the more likely she had more and more partners. He expectations decrease the older the mate. I sure he ask how active were you in you’re past. If you lied. He has every right to trade in the high mileage vehicle as mis-represented!
Yup you're right. Her image is ruined. Think about this the dudes are on fb see her picture pop up with her dude. Those 2 dudes are dying that they used to double pound her and some sucker is supporting her
Why is it always the fun shit they leave in the past, I bet she didn’t do none of the freaky shit she did with the other guys that her husband wanted and never got… sad
part ll: oh, soooo it's OK for her to cut off her friend, but it's not OK for husband to cut her off? hippocrisy much? ALSO, the fact that she wants to contest the prenup shows her true colors
Another victory for modern feminism! Her relationship started with a lie and women keep telling each other that these lies of omission are perfectly ethical when they know that many men who aren't the Chads and Tyrones that some women chase after woukd find their behavior unacceptable. His ego isn't fragile, but his trust is. He is the coward when she's the liar. Now that she wants to settle down and half-ass her love life, her husband is somehow to blame?
In business, her past actions would be considered a “material” fact or a fact would cause someone to take a different action. She lied to him by omission.
Well she will have to find a guy that her past doesn't bother them even when she tells him everything up front. I mean look at some of the famous females who have had several husbands and famous guys still marry them knowing their past. She doesn't enjoy being used as trash by her husband but in college it was alright to do so plus her boyfriend in college at the end of it got rid of her afterwards knowing she probably wouldn't be trustworthy down the road. I get it yes sex is good and fun and enjoyable but done under the right circumstances for the right reasons. She wasn't thinking of marriage at all like she should have from the beginning im sure her parents told her wait but didn't want to. Life is a journey so enjoy the ups and downs to it at this point in time that's all she can do.
If the man was not into that lifestyle what makes her think he would accept it from her, past or present lol? We dont want to be embarrassed by situations like that.
Bro, these women are not worth it. Signed a pre-nup and STILL thinking about going against it, even after he generously offered to clear her debt. Marriage, pre-nup or not, is simply not worth it. Damn near any relationship, other than a friends with benefits, doesn’t seem worth it. And that crap about it being his fault for not asking is just another way to avoid accountability for women. People should KNOW that people care about your past. Insulting their character for caring will NOT change that. At least eliminate yourself early, and find someone willing to accept you. Or be alone. Going a number of years just to end up single anyway doesn’t seem worth it. The truth will always come to light, so not even worth trying to hide. Shout out to her ex friend. And it’s also corny for them to say crap like he should man up and accept her past. This is why men don’t share their true feelings. Corny people like that, saying bullcrap like that. It’s far too common. He has a right to feel the way he feels, and is no less of a man for it. These people deserve to be single forever.
7:20 he is handling like a man. She was getting double pounded on the regular. "Women care about a mans future. Men care about a womens past." You cant put a ring on someone who did that. Its not ego. Its the ruined image.
Past behavior is always a good indicator of future behavior. She shouldn't be punished for her past, but in hindsight I bet she wished she had told him about it. He wasn't given a choice. If the shoe was on the other foot, she deserved the same right to decide to know this information. We can all pretend our sexual past doesn't matter, but it does matter to most of us. A small percentage of people view sex like having a conversation with a random person. It happens so often it doesn't matter, and you don't remember most of what happened. Carousel riding men and women don't attach a lot of emotional importance to sex. It's a way to validate you are wanted. Very sad.
Men care about a woman's past because your past is a good predictor of your future, or anyone's future tbh. The excuses, "I was in college" and "it was sooooo long ago" doesn't fly with most men. Oh, and the fact that she didn't tell him everything about her past in the first place, will also peg her as a liar, and yes ladies, a lie of omission is still a lie.
She claims that she won't let her husband through the backdoor becausee it hurts. This wasn't a problem when she willingly presented it for the taking by 2 men who had no commitment to her. Perhaps she got destroyed and that is why? Either way it shows massive disrespect to her partner
Ladies your past matters because it's who you are and the person telling you this story is not telling you the whole truth. Easy to tell the comments from other morally bankrupt women
She def has a legit case to get something more out of Divorce. She did absolutely nothing wrong through their whole relationship . It’s definitely cringe worthy and hard to get out of head but to pull divorce card like this isn’t right especially if trying to limit her financially with pre nup despite doing nothing wrong
He would not have dated or married her if he would have known. Lying by omission. Stop being silly…Why should she get his assets and money if she did not work for them? She is an adult and has a college degree; she can get a job.
@ maybe maybe not. Seems much more feasible he wanted out regardless and using this as excuse. I’m married 18 years think I wanna ever find out my wife had done this 5 years before meeting. Of course not but he fell in love with the her he met at time not the her he never needed to know about. I’d be completely different if I had found out now. It would be hard to get it out of my head but to hold against her just isn’t fair to her. Nobody is 100% honest about previous relationships. Through deducing I know my wife lied about her number but I’ve never brought it up. It was before I met her
@ well you are different. Not everyone is like you. I take lying very seriously. Including lying by omission. I have always been very up front with the people I have dated and my wife. I demand the same. My wife knows that if I found out she lied to me after the fact and she knew telling me would change our relationship, that is a wrap. I have zero tolerance for cheating and lying. For some of us this is a big deal.
@ yea except when did she lie? I missed the part where he had asked her if she was doing threesomes and she said no. It’s not like she kept hiv or having kids or already married a secret or really gay etc. she has a past she’s not proud of and no longer has any thoughts of that life style . So if your anti drugs and after married you find out she smoked weed in college oh well sorry divorce. I really don’t see what she did wrong since they’re together
@ well if he does not ask if she has HIV or has kids, she technically not lying. What if her viral local is undetectable. What if she does not have custody of her kids. She is not lying if he does not ask these specifics questions right? Just following your logic. She specifically said she knew it would change things if she was honest. Very selfish in my book. You do not have to agree but some of us have different standards and preferences. I definitely do not date people who smoke; weed included. Our choices have consequences both short and long term. Society will judge you and individuals will judge you. Some will look past your mistakes and some will not. I knew at 11 that partying, doing drugs and sex will have consequences you may not see till later in life. Now this lady is facing the consequence of her actions.
As much as I’d want nothing to do with her but if they’re married and this happened in college before they met I think it’s wrong to divorce over that. It might be rough to get out of your mind definitely some counseling
She didn't give him 5 of the best years of her life. She gave her best years to guys who didn't care about her and just used her for s*x. The husband got the clean-up years. Smh.
Damn, she started out saying that her past was "unsavory". That is an awful sanitized word for "routinely spit-roasted""! 😂😂
Love how she added the "like everyone else was doing during college"
Oh no hun, that was YOU & whatever friend group you ran around with at college
Don't put this on everyone else
Why does your past matter? YOU WERE A HOOR. Once a hoor, ALWAYS a hoor.
Your bio title is "i was the town bicycle."🚲
If your past doesn't matter, then why hide it?
Because no self-respecting man would have married her.
Kinda surprised no one said that in the updates
Shes for the streets. Smart husband.
This 304 knows her past does matter, because she intentionally hid it for so many years. Shout out to the friend for saving the husband from doing another 5years with this sloot.
If your wife did things with other men that she refuses to do with her husband, she doesn’t respect nor loves her husband.
And for whatever reason women cannot comprehend that fact. They don't see how insulting and disrespectful it is that random bfs got more access to her than you as the loving husband gets. The OP said she doesnt like backdoor action or getting a facials, but I bet Chad and Tyrone did that and she had a smile on her face SMH!
Early in the relationship she kept talking about her past boyfriends and stuff.Means she still misses that stuff.Only stopped when he didn't like it.Tells you about her.Red Flags all over.
@robertmcdonald3779 yes they do. They just lie when they get find out.
"Unsavory"= She was getting double teamed more than a Dennis Rodman/Jean Claude Van Damme action movie.
😂😂😂 that movie was legit
If I were to find out that about my wife after the fact!, I would divorce her ass in a heartbeat!
Big facts, especially finding out random dudes did all types of things with said wife while I get limited action!!! I cant believe how women cannot seem to comprehend how insulting that is to a husband, that a random bf got more access to your wife than you. Ish is irritating and makes a homie want to crash out over it. Divorce is bare minimum.
She sees him as Beta provider..
I never get why these gals just can't go to college without exploring 100+ d's and expecting to just leave it in past like it never happened
College isn't for flings it's for learning and getting ready for a life. Americans think it's for spring break and drug use.
Husband doing the right thing but should've researched her better before marrying
Another case of people being 304 in college and early adulthood, yet surprised in latter life that other people have standards.
Baffling how carousel riders want to be with men who never attended an amusement park.
Past performance is the best predictor of future performance. That's why...
1) Employers want to see a job applicant's resumé.
2) Investors want to see a business's earnings statement.
3) Banks want to see a loan applicant's credit report.
4) Doctors want to see a patient's medical records.
5) Colleges want to see an admissions applicant's school transcripts.
6) Landlords want to see a potential tenant's credit report.
7) Used car shoppers want to see a car's Carfax report.
8) Auto insurance companies check a coverage applicant's driving record.
The past DOES matter. Anyone telling you otherwise is trying to hide something from you.
fatherless men are easily deceived by the gynospeak. your list proves why the past matters. but for the stoopid people, i keep it simple. i ask them, hey i got a.i.d.s. in the past. do you wanna have unprotected sex with me? the answer is always no, so that quickly shuts down that gaslighting talking point 👍
How is she calling him a coward when she didn't want to admit to him that she was a 304! And for all o the people commenting to her that she did nothing wrong and he's a coward, they are most likely the same as that woman! Capt'n save a ho e
Gaslighting as usual
How can she said it was a past mistake? She admitted that she had a threesome 12-15 times. That was not a mistake. That was a choice.
With drugs and alcohol
That’s not a choice that’s a lifestyle.
Her husband literally said if he would have known what she did years before, he would have not dated her or married her.
She built a life for herself based off lies. She knew exactly what would have happened if she was honest. She clearly does not love and/or care about him; only herself. Now she is complaining about her 5 wasted years. What about your husband’s 5 wasted years?
Truly hope she gets nothing. Sorry that the husband found out he married a lying loser.
, so your past does matter, thats why you fooled him
Talking about your past boyfriends and talking about your sex life are two completely different things!.
When they spent theirs youngers days to "explore things" they don't think that the past will follow them to their future. And later they would say that "the past must romain in the past". Nonsense !
If she was completely honest with her husband up front, then I would actually believe she was a completely different person. If she was a different person, she would have given him a quick easy divorce. If she has changed as a person, she would have taken actual accountability. But yeh.....
exactly!
First of all, when it's 1 woman and multiple men that is a set out not a threesome. Secondly...NO MAN what's a partner like that for a wife unless he's really into that and those type of men are rare
Why didnt she put all her cards on the table before being married.
2nd story. Run!
he took the cowards way out? your the lying 304..
It's amazing that she dictates what they do and don't do in the bedroom, so after her husband found out about her past, it seems clear that she did things in her past adventures with other dudes that she wouldn't do with her doormat, nice guy husband. Therefore, divorce is the best option for him.
Why would she give her husband less than randoms
She's done with group sex. Her husband isn't worthy
😂😂😂 Yeah. No! She's done.
"I'm going to challenge the prenup", of course you are because it was always about the money.
It is his choice just like it was her choice to be a garden tool. There are so many women out here that have done far worse and their husbands don’t even know.
only the truth will set you free
yea your a 304.... no excuses. you are not a totally different person.
Your past actions will reflect your future. No? What does your credit score reflect? When you apply for a job, what do they want to see? Are you going to rent what do they need? It's not insecurities he's looking at probabilities.
Typical logic. I will allow myself to be ran through like nobody's business in my prime years then have limits and standards later in life when it really matters. Smh
This is crazy... to say the past doesn't matter is ridiculous... sounds to me had he known she did stuff like that he wouldn't had married her
Man seeks purity in a young mate. The older the woman is the more likely she had more and more partners. He expectations decrease the older the mate. I sure he ask how active were you in you’re past. If you lied. He has every right to trade in the high mileage vehicle as mis-represented!
Yup you're right. Her image is ruined. Think about this the dudes are on fb see her picture pop up with her dude. Those 2 dudes are dying that they used to double pound her and some sucker is supporting her
So is the younger the woman, they get around to.
You keep it hidden from him... Just as bad as Lying..
Why is it always the fun shit they leave in the past, I bet she didn’t do none of the freaky shit she did with the other guys that her husband wanted and never got… sad
Cheaters don't change 💯🔥🔥
Truth
I know what you did last summer! smdh..
What’s there to discuss?
part ll: oh, soooo it's OK for her to cut off her friend, but it's not OK for husband to cut her off? hippocrisy much?
ALSO, the fact that she wants to contest the prenup shows her true colors
Another victory for modern feminism! Her relationship started with a lie and women keep telling each other that these lies of omission are perfectly ethical when they know that many men who aren't the Chads and Tyrones that some women chase after woukd find their behavior unacceptable. His ego isn't fragile, but his trust is. He is the coward when she's the liar. Now that she wants to settle down and half-ass her love life, her husband is somehow to blame?
Your past is a indicator of your crappy future behavior
you should have told him what yuu did before you got serious.
…I don’t blame him…
Good for him. He owes her nothing. She shattered his trust. Game over.
…hid by omission…
She committed fraud and wonders why he's leaving.
So why did she disclose this info from her past?
Immediately wants to challenge the prenup. I wouldn't pay a penny on them student loans after that.
9:28 minutes, no accountability for past behaviors. Actions have consequences!
In business, her past actions would be considered a “material” fact or a fact would cause someone to take a different action. She lied to him by omission.
Story 2 dump her she cannot be trusted ever
Well she will have to find a guy that her past doesn't bother them even when she tells him everything up front.
I mean look at some of the famous females who have had several husbands and famous guys still marry them knowing their past.
She doesn't enjoy being used as trash by her husband but in college it was alright to do so plus her boyfriend in college at the end of it got rid of her afterwards knowing she probably wouldn't be trustworthy down the road.
I get it yes sex is good and fun and enjoyable but done under the right circumstances for the right reasons.
She wasn't thinking of marriage at all like she should have from the beginning im sure her parents told her wait but didn't want to.
Life is a journey so enjoy the ups and downs to it at this point in time that's all she can do.
What man wants less than you gave other men
Lying by omission!
S2: This is why you never forgive a cheater, like this fool.
If the man was not into that lifestyle what makes her think he would accept it from her, past or present lol? We dont want to be embarrassed by situations like that.
Bro, these women are not worth it. Signed a pre-nup and STILL thinking about going against it, even after he generously offered to clear her debt. Marriage, pre-nup or not, is simply not worth it. Damn near any relationship, other than a friends with benefits, doesn’t seem worth it. And that crap about it being his fault for not asking is just another way to avoid accountability for women. People should KNOW that people care about your past. Insulting their character for caring will NOT change that. At least eliminate yourself early, and find someone willing to accept you. Or be alone. Going a number of years just to end up single anyway doesn’t seem worth it. The truth will always come to light, so not even worth trying to hide. Shout out to her ex friend. And it’s also corny for them to say crap like he should man up and accept her past. This is why men don’t share their true feelings. Corny people like that, saying bullcrap like that. It’s far too common. He has a right to feel the way he feels, and is no less of a man for it. These people deserve to be single forever.
7:20 he is handling like a man. She was getting double pounded on the regular. "Women care about a mans future. Men care about a womens past." You cant put a ring on someone who did that. Its not ego. Its the ruined image.
Sounds like the best years of her life were in college.
Past behavior is always a good indicator of future behavior. She shouldn't be punished for her past, but in hindsight I bet she wished she had told him about it. He wasn't given a choice. If the shoe was on the other foot, she deserved the same right to decide to know this information. We can all pretend our sexual past doesn't matter, but it does matter to most of us. A small percentage of people view sex like having a conversation with a random person. It happens so often it doesn't matter, and you don't remember most of what happened. Carousel riding men and women don't attach a lot of emotional importance to sex. It's a way to validate you are wanted. Very sad.
U lied and he doesn't trust u ..he not a idiot yr past but u in the but yr fault
Men care about a woman's past because your past is a good predictor of your future, or anyone's future tbh. The excuses, "I was in college" and "it was sooooo long ago" doesn't fly with most men. Oh, and the fact that she didn't tell him everything about her past in the first place, will also peg her as a liar, and yes ladies, a lie of omission is still a lie.
She lied...SMH. its all about her...
2nd story, he is so damn weak and dumb. 🤦♂️
Good video
She claims that she won't let her husband through the backdoor becausee it hurts. This wasn't a problem when she willingly presented it for the taking by 2 men who had no commitment to her. Perhaps she got destroyed and that is why? Either way it shows massive disrespect to her partner
Ladies your past matters because it's who you are and the person telling you this story is not telling you the whole truth. Easy to tell the comments from other morally bankrupt women
She def has a legit case to get something more out of Divorce. She did absolutely nothing wrong through their whole relationship . It’s definitely cringe worthy and hard to get out of head but to pull divorce card like this isn’t right especially if trying to limit her financially with pre nup despite doing nothing wrong
He would not have dated or married her if he would have known. Lying by omission. Stop being silly…Why should she get his assets and money if she did not work for them? She is an adult and has a college degree; she can get a job.
@ maybe maybe not. Seems much more feasible he wanted out regardless and using this as excuse. I’m married 18 years think I wanna ever find out my wife had done this 5 years before meeting. Of course not but he fell in love with the her he met at time not the her he never needed to know about. I’d be completely different if I had found out now. It would be hard to get it out of my head but to hold against her just isn’t fair to her. Nobody is 100% honest about previous relationships. Through deducing I know my wife lied about her number but I’ve never brought it up. It was before I met her
@ well you are different. Not everyone is like you. I take lying very seriously. Including lying by omission. I have always been very up front with the people I have dated and my wife. I demand the same. My wife knows that if I found out she lied to me after the fact and she knew telling me would change our relationship, that is a wrap. I have zero tolerance for cheating and lying. For some of us this is a big deal.
@ yea except when did she lie? I missed the part where he had asked her if she was doing threesomes and she said no. It’s not like she kept hiv or having kids or already married a secret or really gay etc. she has a past she’s not proud of and no longer has any thoughts of that life style . So if your anti drugs and after married you find out she smoked weed in college oh well sorry divorce. I really don’t see what she did wrong since they’re together
@ well if he does not ask if she has HIV or has kids, she technically not lying. What if her viral local is undetectable. What if she does not have custody of her kids. She is not lying if he does not ask these specifics questions right? Just following your logic. She specifically said she knew it would change things if she was honest. Very selfish in my book.
You do not have to agree but some of us have different standards and preferences. I definitely do not date people who smoke; weed included. Our choices have consequences both short and long term. Society will judge you and individuals will judge you. Some will look past your mistakes and some will not. I knew at 11 that partying, doing drugs and sex will have consequences you may not see till later in life. Now this lady is facing the consequence of her actions.
As much as I’d want nothing to do with her but if they’re married and this happened in college before they met I think it’s wrong to divorce over that. It might be rough to get out of your mind definitely some counseling
Simp
He in his past was a grapiest, it shouldn't matter that he is married to her... Right? You're rediculous
Anyone being nasty to her is just wrong. She was living her married life doing right thing and got screwed over
Lol! She’s a slurry!