We are truly living in a backwards society when a man with 1. no job 2. A kid 3. no prospects 4. lives with his freaking mother can have the nerve to be picky...but okay
I felt bad for "Tomorrow," but also kinda not. Because she knew from Tyreme's own mouth that he wasn't attracted to what she really looked like. She. Knew. She kinda set herself up for failure by trying see if it would work. Whether people on their high horse admit it or not, looks matter. Unless you're blind, you usually have to be attracted to someone on at least a basic level. It's just unfortunate that wasn't the case here. You could tell Tyreme didn't wanna say some outta pocket shit about Tomorrow, but this episode did bring up some valid points.
I particularly loved this review because I felt the same way. Latrease broke my heart when she kepts asking why is not good enough? The pain that girl was feeling like radiated through the TV. You are not human if you watched this episode and didn't want to give her a hug and tell her that you understand. Awesome review Ashley. 👍👍
My heart broke for this girl. The person who gets catfished always says, "why didn't you tell me the truth" which is ridiculous. Like Max said, looks matter. If she'd sent him a picture as herself he never would have responded. She's overweight, dark-skinned, and her facial features aren't Eurocentric, and girls like that are usually ignored by the better-looking guys. I'm not saying it's right, I'm just stating an ugly truth. Nice insights, Ashley.
except she can lose weight and work on her makeup, and how she dresses. she wasn't even trying if she was 4 times that man's size. want to know what I want out of a girlfriend? a girl that can do more than 2 positions because of her weight. A girl that can walk more than 2 blocks without getting completely winded. a girl that can get out of chairs by herself, a girl I can pick up, put on the counter and kiss, a girl that won't smash my balls and both my femurs when she sits on my lap. Not being shallow has a limit.
I have nothing bad to say about her. i completely understand why she did it, even though it's not right. and i have nothing bad to say about him either, because I'm sure everyone watching likes what they like. it just is what it is. This was a sad episode for me though.
this was thee hardest episode to watch ever. I just wanted to cry for her, even tho what she did was wrong I understand how hard it is to find your confidence when you are constantly told what beautiful is and when u look in the mirror u don't see it.
I'm dark skinned are pretty I get hit on all the time by all races including my own. Dark skin is not an excuse to have low confidence. My chocolate is poppin'; she needs to learn to love herself.
I think it's a combination of many frowned upon features: obesity, darkness, and West African features. Theses features are typically tolerated when offset by lighter skin (big nose and lips but light) or European features (darkskin but narrow nose and straight hair). That's the sad way society is, but she doesn't have any "passable" White approved features to offset her black features.
This was a tough one. So you mean to tell me that a guy with 2 whole kids and NOOOOO job and no job prospects still feels like he is a super catch. I wanted to throw my phone at Tyreme because he was looking at Tomorrow like he was disgusted, like he stepped in some dog shit. She is a big girl and my heart melted a bit when she was begging him for an answer from him. But he already told her how he felt about someone who looked like her....I guess she wanted him to man up and say it to her face? Ashley, now that Harriet Tubman is scheduled to be on the $20 bill, do you think they will "photoshop her image"?
I did feel bad for her because am big myself. Now am not dark skin but the weight thing I get but at the same time. You can't make someone want someone they don't want...no matter how much of a bum they are.
You know what, the crazy part is that could have been his true match, but could miss his blessing not because of his preference but the way we go about expressing it. A lesson for anyone
she is a good match for him. which is why they are still best friends, because if her personality wasn't good, he would have dropped her instantly after seeing her. but he can't stop talking to her & vice versa. but because of her looks and weight she will be his "home girl".. it's a sad reality. . . but I'm pretty certain she will find a guy for her one day. it's someone for everybody.
+Darriane Mabry I felt like he stayed friends with her out a pity. The way he spoke to Nev and Max just gave me that opinion. Couldn't be me I'd never be friends with someone who thinks I'm an ugly fat beast; he'd be eating my shit.
MsJustSayin yes i do feel like there's some pity involved.. But he does like her, he just can't get past her looks. I personally wish he would give it a shot. But you're right i would not be able to get what he said out my mind.
It was kind of sad when she kept asking him why am I not good enough for you.At the end of the day people have preferences and it doesn't make you selfish for having a liking towards a person of a particular color or size .You can tell dude was trying to be nice about when she kept saying that to him he looked like he wanted to cuss her ass out
I'm a firm believer that love and self esteem starts in the home. When your Mom or Dad (guardian) make you feel like you're EVERYTHING.... no one can make you feel like like you're nothing.
So me and my guy were watching this and personally I thought the guy was too ugly for the original girl but looked just right for the catfish. I hate shallow guys.
I feel bad for her a little bit they were killing her on facebook our hometown is small so this was really a big deal for her to be on catfish . but at the end of the day it was fucked up how he had got his feelings hurt too but she needs therapy not the internet... glad they are still best friends till this day
I'm light skin and I ain't got no ass or tittes and most black don't even look my way😭. That's life. Gurl. I don't cry after them and try to make them love me.
It is always a catfish but this episode spoke to me because all she wanted was to be loved by him , and sometimes people want to go by looks . looks isn't everything looks fade away we don't look young forever . I also see the race everything were the African American girls have been picking lighter skin girls and they are darker be proud of the skin you're in . 😊
She was too good for his non working, two absent kids, living with mom, broke, no prospects, delusional, thinking that girl in the picture would be checking for him, Internet bum. 😊
you would be great as a teacher or motivational speaker ashley. you've got a way with words, and your intelligence and empathy shines through. love it!
Just watched this episode and almost cried for that poor girl...the way she was pleading for him...but as soon as she came outside, I knew-his face said it all. It was so sad.
+jon torrez I think she made herself look worse. I feel bad for her but quite honestly what did she expect, if you put yourself out there look one way but you look quite opposite, people are not going to react positively. Maybe they will come around, but maybe they won't.
Tyreme's face was hilarious when he saw Latrease. Im not understanding why she didnt see anything wrong with what she did. And then MTV is shady cuz they kept doing closeups of Letrease. Im Like PLEEEAASSSEEE SSSTTTOOOPPPP!!! I couldnt take it. The way she was tryna force him to be with her, I was not feeling at all. Tyreme was trying very hard not to be shallow. I know I was thinking the same thing he was. He dont want her!!!!
Exactly he wasn't attracted to her period. I don't think she should get sympathy at all because bottom line she is a liar, and feeling sorry for her is excusing her lie. Whether pretty or not, she lied and deceived someone she supposedly loved, and that's unacceptable. She needs to grow up and figure out who she is before trying to be with anyone. Getting a man does not make you a whole person.
+Miss Melanie For sure! Mainly because 100% of regular couples (and by regular I mean someone who regularly engages in sexual activity or wants to if they are virgin but are choosing to wait until marriage for sex yet still have sexual urges) will sooner or later have sex in their life. And being physically attracted to someone allows the person to engage in sexual activity. If you aren't physically attracted to someone, you are more likely to not want to have sex with them. So for someone to say physical attraction doesn't matter for them, is either A) bold faced lying to you, B) deluding themselves, or C) are EXTREMELY ignorant!
I don't feel that Tyreme did anything wrong. I felt it was wrong of her to try and make demands of him when she lied the entire time. Yes I feel bad for her. But she can't be mad at him.
I feel like you gave her a pass because she's not cute. like...let's be real, she isn't cute. and that has nothing to do with he skin color or her size. she catfished him for completely selfish reasons just like every other catfish and she deserved what she got at the end. I felt bad for both of them. Him more so than her. it's like you're giving her a handicap because she's not cute. it is what it is. everybody is beautiful to somebody it's just that she wasn't beautiful to him and that's okay. that doesn't make him a terrible person. she was the one that catfished him
Where did I give a pass to anyone? This is catfish. We know how this works. We know that the person catfishing is fucked up and the one being catfished are dumb. So, instead of pointing out the obvious as you made it your mission to point out, I spoke on a real issue that goes on in our community alone. I chose this as a teaching moment to discuss the issues of low self-esteem, low confidence, being darker skinned, feeling ugly, being bigger (mind you she had a boyfriend before so it's not like she couldn't get a man)
Shit goes way deeper than just calling out someone to be ugly. Everyone is ugly to someone, including yourself. So, there was no need for me to point out the obvious and it's a shame that you didn't see that, but it it is what is
+Ashley Miller you are absolutely right. but I came for a review and got a lesson on something I love everyday. instead of pointing out that she was wrong you gave her a pass because you felt bad for her. I feel bad for a lot of these catfish but I still think it's fucked up what they do. this shit happens all the time. the girl thinks she's not pretty or cute and then she catfishes somebody. they had a girl with a whole fake eye. what she did was fucked up.
+Nicole Benjamin and again as was clearly stated no passes were given. Just because I didn't go in as much as you would have wanted, does NOT equate to a pass being given and I made that clear in the video. I don't have to shade and go all the way off just because you or someone may want me to. I speak on what's in my to speak on at that and if that's an issue with you, not my problem. There's nothing wrong with being serious and talking about real issues for a moment and I will do that regardless of what a viewer is expecting. And hell, why do I need to call her every name in the book when you're doing it. Like I said, no passes given, my thoughts are mines and you can agree to disagree.
It kind of annoyed me how Max added his 2 cents saying "looks really do matter" which sometimes they do but why say that now after it has been plenty of unattractive people who have been exposed on the show. Nev nor Max never stated anything negative on how anyone looked not even the Catfish. I really hope the girl learned a valuable lesson from this the same with the dude too. Self love is a must & being able to accept someone's flaws produces growth.
he said that because she insisted that he should still date her even tho she lied about the picture. she is the only one who catfished someone and then insisted on continuing to date them. she practically begged him to stay with her
It goes both ways. I've seen plenty of girls dog out so called good men based off their appearance. Don't try to guilt trip the man into loving the girl when you yourself wouldn't do the same. Attraction plays a major part, and a good personality will never overshadow attraction. PERIOD!
I haven't seen any other reviews on different subjects that you may have done however you've made good points.....I could honestly see you with a t.v. show.... or reviews for a wider audience...esspecially if there was less profanity...good job on this...very entertaining and great points ...I watched the whole thing.
Ashley, I'm not black and I'm not even young but I like how you present yourself and I love to listen to you, it's refreshing and your reviews are very interesting! I hope you don't mind you got a new fan in another country and I subbed...
i damn near cried watching the episode. i feel for her, because everyone deserves love. she kept pressing the issue asking him why he wouldn't date her, and it was like...girl i know you want him but leave him be. i hope she finds love one day. i have to give kudos to him for still being friends with her even after all this fuckery that transpired.
I hear what you saying Ashley. It's just that is too much. People do too much just to fool people and that can be upsetting. To go through all that isn't worth it. I mean I had to watch back a few times to see how everything was connected it was confusing as hell, and twisted. The go through all that just to present a fake person rather than the effort it takes to be real. However, I get every point you made and agree. But the facetime thing and the "ultrasound" thing alone would have alarmed me something was off. I mean a week later after a break up? It can happen, but it just sounded sketchy to me.
Tomorrow is a very beautiful young lady just without self esteem and had been bullied all of her life and told that her beautiful darker skin would never be good enough for society and would never be deemed attractive by men. There are alot of colorist in this world and alot of men fetishize over lighter skinned women because of the shade of their skin only. I felt terrible for Tomorrow. This kind of stuff unfortunately happens to alot of darker skinned women and men. She has very low self esteem. I felt terrible..but she should have stopped speaking to him as soon as he told her that those pictures that he wasn't aware that was her that he wasn't interested in women that looked like her. She was dead set that he would have changed his mind. She thought that connection would have overridden physical attraction. She should have respected his preferences and stopped talking to him. You cannot force anyone like or love you that doesn't. I hope that she learned how to love herself, and perhaps found someone who genuinely adores her. it broke my heart when she kept asking "Why?"
I felt so bad for her. It was hard for me to watch, the fact that she was crying and asking him why omg. I could see it all over his face from the moment he saw her he was just so not interested. Damn that hurt me
This episode reminded me of Obie trice - Gotta have teeth 😂 Dude even looked like Obie a lil'....the signs were there...dude should have know she wasn't for real when she started asking if he thought "her friend" was cute...like wth
other than clowning on there names i didn't say anything bad about them personally. i kept calling Tyreme by Krispy Kreme and singing the song from Annie. I think it was like the sun will come out tomorrow but that girl you see isn't tomorrow and i forgot the rest of it but i needed to lighten it up because i knew it was going to be a mess.
I'm thankful that I'm an old soul in the sense I don't agree with Internet dating every episode love doesn't stick. . My thought process is so different now from when I was younger. I used to hate everything about me skin tone looks everything and now I'm just at a stage where I'm like screw that lol. Regardless I'm not gonna be what guys want cause I don't feel comfortable with dressing in a certain way. So I just learned to not necessarily love myself cause I don't have the confidence but I'm still at a stage where I said I don't need someone to love me for looks because at the end of the day if I'm good financially and can have a better life than what I've been having I'll take that over any love that is my sense of self love being able to provide for myself and stop being broke. Well said though
Ashley I agree with you 💯 %.He was very nice to her because he could have said fck u and kept it moving. I honestly felt so bad for her because I know what she feels like because I used to feel bad about my size... Especially when I was younger. She doesn't have confidence and I'm not sure if it's the weight or her complexion (maybe both) I couldn't go off on her though I just felt so bad for her 😢
Oh my goodness Ashley I so feel you on this one!! Well said!! As a sidenote - I love this performance and song by Jasmine Sullivan it is something we all should listen to and remember :) facebook.com/officialblackmedia/videos/1236569796383984/
I totally get what you saying about preference. ..but to me I think he messed up. he said he had great convo with her and he would cherished them forever because she listen to him and he cried over the phone to her when his family members died. So she was there for you emotionally when you needed it. And I saw how he look at her friend when she came out door hoping that was her bit when "Tomorrow" came out it was a totally different reaction. I can see him not finding her attractive but I guess I was hoping he would rise from that shallow mind frame. Sometimes what looks good isn't always good. You want a girl that looks like a model but her whole demeanor is f*ck up. Yes she might have did too Much about the pregnancy part but I dont feel bad on his end because he must have liked her cuz of looks not based on her personality because if you really cared about someone looks shouldn't matter. I feel more bad for him because he might search for a Beyonce looking chick for years and never get convo or love like she gave him
+KrazieT1 But who said he was looking for a model chick? You can't get mad at him because he liked someone who looks totally different than who the real person was, hence the reason he started talking to her in the first place. You can't get mad at him because of his preference. That's like getting mad at me because I don't want to be with someone bigger than me or my size. That's my preference. We can be friends, but I'm not attracted to them in that way. And I don't expect someone who was lied to for months, regardless of if the things she was saying were really her, but she presented a false front and that's not right and even if he were to still want to date her, it would take some time to build that trust back up. And clearly, he's not that bad of a person, given that he didn't just stop talking to her altogether. They still talk on the regular as friends. and sometimes, people find out that they are better friends than being in a relationship
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We are truly living in a backwards society when a man with
1. no job
2. A kid
3. no prospects
4. lives with his freaking mother
can have the nerve to be picky...but okay
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼Real shit! Lol!💯
I felt bad for "Tomorrow," but also kinda not. Because she knew from Tyreme's own mouth that he wasn't attracted to what she really looked like. She. Knew. She kinda set herself up for failure by trying see if it would work. Whether people on their high horse admit it or not, looks matter. Unless you're blind, you usually have to be attracted to someone on at least a basic level. It's just unfortunate that wasn't the case here. You could tell Tyreme didn't wanna say some outta pocket shit about Tomorrow, but this episode did bring up some valid points.
Rihanna black girls rock speech said it best~ " the minute you love yourself you wouldn't want to be anyone else"
Yassss
He was feeling Christina I swear lol
I particularly loved this review because I felt the same way. Latrease broke my heart when she kepts asking why is not good enough? The pain that girl was feeling like radiated through the TV. You are not human if you watched this episode and didn't want to give her a hug and tell her that you understand.
Awesome review Ashley. 👍👍
I feel so bad for her. Even the comments down here are mean. People don't consider people's feelings. I love your videos btw🖒🖒
+Rebekah Bogan thank you!
Listen I have a preference we all do.....she was really begging him and at the end of the day...someone will want her.
+Tomika J Exactly. that's what was making me feel bad for her. The fact that she felt the need to beg him and on national tv, smh
My heart broke for this girl. The person who gets catfished always says, "why didn't you tell me the truth" which is ridiculous. Like Max said, looks matter. If she'd sent him a picture as herself he never would have responded. She's overweight, dark-skinned, and her facial features aren't Eurocentric, and girls like that are usually ignored by the better-looking guys. I'm not saying it's right, I'm just stating an ugly truth. Nice insights, Ashley.
except she can lose weight and work on her makeup, and how she dresses. she wasn't even trying if she was 4 times that man's size. want to know what I want out of a girlfriend? a girl that can do more than 2 positions because of her weight. A girl that can walk more than 2 blocks without getting completely winded. a girl that can get out of chairs by herself, a girl I can pick up, put on the counter and kiss, a girl that won't smash my balls and both my femurs when she sits on my lap. Not being shallow has a limit.
I have nothing bad to say about her. i completely understand why she did it, even though it's not right. and i have nothing bad to say about him either, because I'm sure everyone watching likes what they like. it just is what it is. This was a sad episode for me though.
this was thee hardest episode to watch ever. I just wanted to cry for her, even tho what she did was wrong I understand how hard it is to find your confidence when you are constantly told what beautiful is and when u look in the mirror u don't see it.
She could stand to lose a lot of weight. Weight creates a lot more issues than just not looking good. especially when you're that big.
I'm dark skinned are pretty I get hit on all the time by all races including my own. Dark skin is not an excuse to have low confidence. My chocolate is poppin'; she needs to learn to love herself.
I think it's a combination of many frowned upon features: obesity, darkness, and West African features. Theses features are typically tolerated when offset by lighter skin (big nose and lips but light) or European features (darkskin but narrow nose and straight hair). That's the sad way society is, but she doesn't have any "passable" White approved features to offset her black features.
Very sad but very true Mehrunissah93
@@Mehrunissah93 You dropping knowledgeee yasss facts
That black girl magic is real! Dark or light, we are all gorgeous!
@@FirstNameLastNameIsMyName lol. Uglyness exist and everywhere. Stop that hypocrisy.
This was a tough one. So you mean to tell me that a guy with 2 whole kids and NOOOOO job and no job prospects still feels like he is a super catch. I wanted to throw my phone at Tyreme because he was looking at Tomorrow like he was disgusted, like he stepped in some dog shit. She is a big girl and my heart melted a bit when she was begging him for an answer from him. But he already told her how he felt about someone who looked like her....I guess she wanted him to man up and say it to her face?
Ashley, now that Harriet Tubman is scheduled to be on the $20 bill, do you think they will "photoshop her image"?
Facts I'm thinking this dude is a bum with baggage and he is acting all picky lol smh
I did feel bad for her because am big myself. Now am not dark skin but the weight thing I get but at the same time. You can't make someone want someone they don't want...no matter how much of a bum they are.
You know what, the crazy part is that could have been his true match, but could miss his blessing not because of his preference but the way we go about expressing it. A lesson for anyone
she is a good match for him. which is why they are still best friends, because if her personality wasn't good, he would have dropped her instantly after seeing her. but he can't stop talking to her & vice versa. but because of her looks and weight she will be his "home girl".. it's a sad reality. . . but I'm pretty certain she will find a guy for her one day. it's someone for everybody.
+Darriane Mabry good points!
+Darriane Mabry I felt like he stayed friends with her out a pity. The way he spoke to Nev and Max just gave me that opinion. Couldn't be me I'd never be friends with someone who thinks I'm an ugly fat beast; he'd be eating my shit.
MsJustSayin yes i do feel like there's some pity involved.. But he does like her, he just can't get past her looks. I personally wish he would give it a shot. But you're right i would not be able to get what he said out my mind.
dontjudgemyopinion11 lmao! But i don't think he will be too hurt. If he wants her, he could have her
It was kind of sad when she kept asking him why am I not good enough for you.At the end of the day people have preferences and it doesn't make you selfish for having a liking towards a person of a particular color or size .You can tell dude was trying to be nice about when she kept saying that to him he looked like he wanted to cuss her ass out
I'm a firm believer that love and self esteem starts in the home. When your Mom or Dad (guardian) make you feel like you're EVERYTHING.... no one can make you feel like like you're nothing.
So me and my guy were watching this and personally I thought the guy was too ugly for the original girl but looked just right for the catfish. I hate shallow guys.
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I don't care if you think I'm ugly, I don't date good looking men anyways.
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I don't like black men by default he's not my type.
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Sure but the guy wasn't attractive himself fact but even if he was I don't find black men attractive.
you saying you hate shallow guys but seem pretty shallow yourself. she just wasn't his type. like he not your type. she will find someone.
I feel bad for her a little bit they were killing her on facebook our hometown is small so this was really a big deal for her to be on catfish . but at the end of the day it was fucked up how he had got his feelings hurt too but she needs therapy not the internet... glad they are still best friends till this day
I'm light skin and I ain't got no ass or tittes and most black don't even look my way😭. That's life. Gurl. I don't cry after them and try to make them love me.
Im sure people prefer not to be rejected. But its a part of life. Once a person realizes that, they can move on from it
It is always a catfish but this episode spoke to me because all she wanted was to be loved by him , and sometimes people want to go by looks . looks isn't everything looks fade away we don't look young forever . I also see the race everything were the African American girls have been picking lighter skin girls and they are darker be proud of the skin you're in . 😊
She was too good for his non working, two absent kids, living with mom, broke, no prospects, delusional, thinking that girl in the picture would be checking for him, Internet bum. 😊
Katherine Dorsey RIIGHT!!😂😂😂
She is one of the few catfishes that I feel sorry for.
you would be great as a teacher or motivational speaker ashley. you've got a way with words, and your intelligence and empathy shines through. love it!
Went from a review to a sermon real quick lol
Just watched this episode and almost cried for that poor girl...the way she was pleading for him...but as soon as she came outside, I knew-his face said it all. It was so sad.
I really felt bad for the girl , but low key she did look like grimace in that purple outfit .
+jon torrez I think she made herself look worse. I feel bad for her but quite honestly what did she expect, if you put yourself out there look one way but you look quite opposite, people are not going to react positively. Maybe they will come around, but maybe they won't.
😂😂😂 now im gonna go to hell for laughing
jon torrez LOL YOU ARE OUT OF LINE!!!
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Tyreme's face was hilarious when he saw Latrease. Im not understanding why she didnt see anything wrong with what she did. And then MTV is shady cuz they kept doing closeups of Letrease. Im Like PLEEEAASSSEEE SSSTTTOOOPPPP!!! I couldnt take it. The way she was tryna force him to be with her, I was not feeling at all. Tyreme was trying very hard not to be shallow. I know I was thinking the same thing he was. He dont want her!!!!
Exactly he wasn't attracted to her period. I don't think she should get sympathy at all because bottom line she is a liar, and feeling sorry for her is excusing her lie. Whether pretty or not, she lied and deceived someone she supposedly loved, and that's unacceptable. She needs to grow up and figure out who she is before trying to be with anyone. Getting a man does not make you a whole person.
+Sasha P Exactly! Physical attraction makes up a lot of why you date someone and anyone saying it doesn't for them is a liar.
Ariadne Bene yess physical attraction is everything. If u not physically attracted u def aint gone be emotionally attracted.
+Miss Melanie For sure! Mainly because 100% of regular couples (and by regular I mean someone who regularly engages in sexual activity or wants to if they are virgin but are choosing to wait until marriage for sex yet still have sexual urges) will sooner or later have sex in their life. And being physically attracted to someone allows the person to engage in sexual activity. If you aren't physically attracted to someone, you are more likely to not want to have sex with them. So for someone to say physical attraction doesn't matter for them, is either A) bold faced lying to you, B) deluding themselves, or C) are EXTREMELY ignorant!
I don't feel that Tyreme did anything wrong. I felt it was wrong of her to try and make demands of him when she lied the entire time. Yes I feel bad for her. But she can't be mad at him.
Tomorrow is a beautiful big girl. And she lost all her cool points when she begged that no job having, two kids, diabetic self for an answer.
I looked quick and thought the title said tonight and tomorrow 😂😭
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Me too. Lol! 😂
I feel like you gave her a pass because she's not cute. like...let's be real, she isn't cute. and that has nothing to do with he skin color or her size. she catfished him for completely selfish reasons just like every other catfish and she deserved what she got at the end. I felt bad for both of them. Him more so than her. it's like you're giving her a handicap because she's not cute. it is what it is. everybody is beautiful to somebody it's just that she wasn't beautiful to him and that's okay. that doesn't make him a terrible person. she was the one that catfished him
Where did I give a pass to anyone? This is catfish. We know how this works. We know that the person catfishing is fucked up and the one being catfished are dumb. So, instead of pointing out the obvious as you made it your mission to point out, I spoke on a real issue that goes on in our community alone. I chose this as a teaching moment to discuss the issues of low self-esteem, low confidence, being darker skinned, feeling ugly, being bigger (mind you she had a boyfriend before so it's not like she couldn't get a man)
Shit goes way deeper than just calling out someone to be ugly. Everyone is ugly to someone, including yourself. So, there was no need for me to point out the obvious and it's a shame that you didn't see that, but it it is what is
+Ashley Miller you are absolutely right. but I came for a review and got a lesson on something I love everyday. instead of pointing out that she was wrong you gave her a pass because you felt bad for her. I feel bad for a lot of these catfish but I still think it's fucked up what they do. this shit happens all the time. the girl thinks she's not pretty or cute and then she catfishes somebody. they had a girl with a whole fake eye. what she did was fucked up.
+Nicole Benjamin and again as was clearly stated no passes were given. Just because I didn't go in as much as you would have wanted, does NOT equate to a pass being given and I made that clear in the video. I don't have to shade and go all the way off just because you or someone may want me to. I speak on what's in my to speak on at that and if that's an issue with you, not my problem. There's nothing wrong with being serious and talking about real issues for a moment and I will do that regardless of what a viewer is expecting. And hell, why do I need to call her every name in the book when you're doing it. Like I said, no passes given, my thoughts are mines and you can agree to disagree.
+Ashley Miller okay
It kind of annoyed me how Max added his 2 cents saying "looks really do matter" which sometimes they do but why say that now after it has been plenty of unattractive people who have been exposed on the show. Nev nor Max never stated anything negative on how anyone looked not even the Catfish. I really hope the girl learned a valuable lesson from this the same with the dude too. Self love is a must & being able to accept someone's flaws produces growth.
he said that because she insisted that he should still date her even tho she lied about the picture. she is the only one who catfished someone and then insisted on continuing to date them. she practically begged him to stay with her
How am I just now finding this? This is so much more interesting than I thought it was going to be. Subscribed!!!
At that moment when she walked out... He KNEW! "I'LL BE DAMNED"
It goes both ways. I've seen plenty of girls dog out so called good men based off their appearance. Don't try to guilt trip the man into loving the girl when you yourself wouldn't do the same. Attraction plays a major part, and a good personality will never overshadow attraction. PERIOD!
Your reviews are awesome. Very real and honest. Thanks😊
I haven't seen any other reviews on different subjects that you may have done however you've made good points.....I could honestly see you with a t.v. show.... or reviews for a wider audience...esspecially if there was less profanity...good job on this...very entertaining and great points ...I watched the whole thing.
Ashley, I'm not black and I'm not even young but I like how you present yourself and I love to listen to you, it's refreshing and your reviews are very interesting! I hope you don't mind you got a new fan in another country and I subbed...
i damn near cried watching the episode. i feel for her, because everyone deserves love. she kept pressing the issue asking him why he wouldn't date her, and it was like...girl i know you want him but leave him be. i hope she finds love one day. i have to give kudos to him for still being friends with her even after all this fuckery that transpired.
I just watched this in in tears 😢
I hear what you saying Ashley. It's just that is too much. People do too much just to fool people and that can be upsetting. To go through all that isn't worth it. I mean I had to watch back a few times to see how everything was connected it was confusing as hell, and twisted. The go through all that just to present a fake person rather than the effort it takes to be real. However, I get every point you made and agree. But the facetime thing and the "ultrasound" thing alone would have alarmed me something was off. I mean a week later after a break up? It can happen, but it just sounded sketchy to me.
No is denying that. Everything she did was messed up and he was just as stupid
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Excellent review.
I just watched a clip on FB and had to rewatch the review again.
Perceptive, wise and funny as always
great advice😍😍😍
Tomorrow is a very beautiful young lady just without self esteem and had been bullied all of her life and told that her beautiful darker skin would never be good enough for society and would never be deemed attractive by men.
There are alot of colorist in this world and alot of men fetishize over lighter skinned women because of the shade of their skin only.
I felt terrible for Tomorrow. This kind of stuff unfortunately happens to alot of darker skinned women and men.
She has very low self esteem. I felt terrible..but
she should have stopped speaking to him as soon as he told her that those pictures that he wasn't aware that was her that he wasn't interested in women that looked like her.
She was dead set that he would have changed his mind. She thought that connection would have overridden physical attraction.
She should have respected his preferences and stopped talking to him.
You cannot force anyone like or love you that doesn't.
I hope that she learned how to love herself, and perhaps found someone who genuinely adores her.
it broke my heart when she kept asking "Why?"
I felt so bad for her. It was hard for me to watch, the fact that she was crying and asking him why omg. I could see it all over his face from the moment he saw her he was just so not interested. Damn that hurt me
Nev ain't lying tho 😂😂😭😭
This episode reminded me of Obie trice - Gotta have teeth 😂 Dude even looked like Obie a lil'....the signs were there...dude should have know she wasn't for real when she started asking if he thought "her friend" was cute...like wth
other than clowning on there names i didn't say anything bad about them personally. i kept calling Tyreme by Krispy Kreme and singing the song from Annie. I think it was like the sun will come out tomorrow but that girl you see isn't tomorrow and i forgot the rest of it but i needed to lighten it up because i knew it was going to be a mess.
This episode was sad!
I'm thankful that I'm an old soul in the sense I don't agree with Internet dating every episode love doesn't stick. . My thought process is so different now from when I was younger. I used to hate everything about me skin tone looks everything and now I'm just at a stage where I'm like screw that lol. Regardless I'm not gonna be what guys want cause I don't feel comfortable with dressing in a certain way. So I just learned to not necessarily love myself cause I don't have the confidence but I'm still at a stage where I said I don't need someone to love me for looks because at the end of the day if I'm good financially and can have a better life than what I've been having I'll take that over any love that is my sense of self love being able to provide for myself and stop being broke. Well said though
Ashley I agree with you 💯 %.He was very nice to her because he could have said fck u and kept it moving. I honestly felt so bad for her because I know what she feels like because I used to feel bad about my size... Especially when I was younger. She doesn't have confidence and I'm not sure if it's the weight or her complexion (maybe both) I couldn't go off on her though I just felt so bad for her 😢
Join curves bitch! 😂😂😂 lol! This was a GREAT review Ashley! There were a lot a valuable lessons in this episode...
she had an Ex. someone wanted her.
preach I feel u .
the girl she from the same city i am from and i know where that neighbor hood at as well
Black is beautiful! ✊🏽
tomorrow wth lol. still this episode was sad
Oh my goodness Ashley I so feel you on this one!! Well said!!
As a sidenote - I love this performance and song by Jasmine Sullivan it is something we all should listen to and remember :) facebook.com/officialblackmedia/videos/1236569796383984/
Tommorow...stop having low self esteem and go to the gym..and eat right
her hair was fucked up too
I totally get what you saying about preference. ..but to me I think he messed up. he said he had great convo with her and he would cherished them forever because she listen to him and he cried over the phone to her when his family members died. So she was there for you emotionally when you needed it. And I saw how he look at her friend when she came out door hoping that was her bit when "Tomorrow" came out it was a totally different reaction. I can see him not finding her attractive but I guess I was hoping he would rise from that shallow mind frame. Sometimes what looks good isn't always good. You want a girl that looks like a model but her whole demeanor is f*ck up. Yes she might have did too Much about the pregnancy part but I dont feel bad on his end because he must have liked her cuz of looks not based on her personality because if you really cared about someone looks shouldn't matter. I feel more bad for him because he might search for a Beyonce looking chick for years and never get convo or love like she gave him
+KrazieT1 But who said he was looking for a model chick? You can't get mad at him because he liked someone who looks totally different than who the real person was, hence the reason he started talking to her in the first place. You can't get mad at him because of his preference. That's like getting mad at me because I don't want to be with someone bigger than me or my size. That's my preference. We can be friends, but I'm not attracted to them in that way. And I don't expect someone who was lied to for months, regardless of if the things she was saying were really her, but she presented a false front and that's not right and even if he were to still want to date her, it would take some time to build that trust back up. And clearly, he's not that bad of a person, given that he didn't just stop talking to her altogether. They still talk on the regular as friends. and sometimes, people find out that they are better friends than being in a relationship
I'm waiting for the empire review lol...
And you'll be waiting until tomorrow night as usual
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her best friend shole was fine