in my experience they'll genuinely help respect and take interest in you but also return favours with thank you and help in what ever way they can whether that's practical help advice or whatever else
@@jameschicken1008 absolutely James . A simple thank you goes a long way. Holding doors. Paying a compliment . I serve soup one time at a soup kitchen for the homeless on Christmas and loved it 🥰
Smartphones for women are like pron and have destroyed dating. No women talk face to face with men anymore, all women are glued onto their cell phones 24/7. I'm a 56 introvert here, never married and have no kids, thank god. I've given up on women ever since smartphones came out. Women have really killed dating globally. It's all about trashy situationship and O. F. and who have turned into lesbians which have destroyed long-term relationships. Women have destroyed marriages. We need to ban smartphones and women would approach men just like before. Good luck with that.
Excellent video, thank you for the previous video and the book recommendation called hidden techniques for manifesting women zorlest. I must say it s excellent
Great video. My relationship of five years ended a month ago when the love of my life decided to move on. I loved her deeply, and I can't stop thinking about her and the memories we created together. I've done everything I can to try to bring her back, but nothing has worked. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. I've tried to push the thoughts away, but they keep coming back. I’m not sure why I'm sharing this here, but I really miss her and wish I could have her back.
I've been in a similar situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but I couldn't let her go. I did everything I could to win her back, including seeking the help of a spiritual advisor who guided me in bringing her back into my life. We're together again now, and I can honestly say I'm enjoying every moment.
Thanks for video. Here in the UK, I find that people rarely compliment one another. Compliments are often seen as cringy, unmanly or grasping, even when appropriate and sincere. And when I ask casual acquaintances questions such as "What are you most looking forward to this summer?" people often give bland, evasive answers. Exceptions, however, are refreshing.
Thank you for sharing! Giving someone a compliment can feel tricky, and I’ve never quite understood why. I love receiving compliments, and I equally enjoy giving them to others. Always remember to stay true to yourself. By the way, I have another playlist on communications where I also discuss compliments-you might find some interesting insights there! :) ruclips.net/p/PLEAzmxCsirliQLzU8giaksEB1BtG8VOhJ
@@GetByMakeItWithAlice Thanks, Alice, for your helpful, pleasant reply. Yes, giving sincere compliments feels great, regardless of how people respond. In particular, I like thanking and encouraging shop staff, as they're usually overlooked, even looked down upon. And, like you, I enjoy receiving praise. Kind words are precious gifts, esp. when people's emotional needs are often neglected in a society of material over-abundance. Have a fine end to year and 2025!
I agree with all of those! I use them pretty much always! And can tell you that it definitely works :) literally just used all 5 with a person I have just met!
I found that if I truly sympathize with someone, they usually like me back! Problem is - I rarely like anybody and there's not much I can do about that. lol
This behavior is characteristic of kind-hearted individuals. Those who regularly apply these tips are likely to become considerate and pleasant people. Great video Alice, you'll go far with these videos. Thanks for sharing.
Alice, I needed just a few seconds to understand your expertise: your videos are made by knowledgeable person - YOU, short, clear up to the point and that's how it should be (I studied the Presentations)
Glad it was helpful! I’m a self taught journalist and ex-startup founder. I presented at dozens of conferences around the world on the adoption of blockchain technologies. I’m a startup adviser and writer, mostly working on ghostwriting projects. What type of presentations did you study ?
@@GetByMakeItWithAlice I've been managing Large North American Automotive Manufacturing Companies; consequently, had to take presentation education under Toyota Production System - Lean Manufacturing. I have to reiterate, I'm impressed by you. Keep up a great work.
Thank You for these wholesome suggestions, they are very helpful. My favorite is; if you could do anything, anything at all and knew you would succeed what would it be?
@@djs12007 that’s so great that you observed it. I sometimes feel the same … like “why is this person saying it, what does she or he want?” But honestly … sometimes people are inspired by what you say or do or behave and they want to say “that’s cool… that’s awesome… thanks for bringing this to my life.” And they genuinely want to thank you . So, let them !
#1 is most interesting to mirror body language. I never gave that much thought. But if a woman initiates contact I would never not accept. A man is not supposed to initiate any contact with a woman. It's an unwritten rule with strangers.
Thank you for the insights. As a woman, I appreciate if a man’s initiates a genuine conversation. There is nothing wrong with that. In fact, I appreciate it.
@@GetByMakeItWithAlice I wasn't clear on that. By contact I mean "physical" contact like a handshake or an embrace. I never refused this but would not dare initiate any physical contact. Thanks for the feedback.
Such next-level info here. And this relates to so many areas too. You can pull from this for help in job interviews, meeting in-laws or making new friends/coworkers. It really is universal.
@@GetByMakeItWithAlice. Thanks for the response. i think most people find that I am very distant, snob, aloof, standoffish...Perhaps I should make efforts. I don't connect with people very well...X
@@xav9156 Hi there! The question often is, "Why don’t I connect with people well?" This leads to introspection-and maybe you’ll notice a pattern. Just a thought! Awareness is key to understanding our actions. :)
Alice yes you are a beautiful young lady. No. 2 I like the pace and the way you speak. No. 3 Your husband must be a very happy man. No. 4 Thank you for such a good cheerful video. No. 5 Sometimes I could talk with strangers for hours without any problem at all; if they are sociable I am sociable; if they are or want to share some good news I am likewise the same. No. 6 Thanks for your uplifting video again. Amen.
@@AugustMoser thank you. My boyfriend is a kind man. I think it really comes down to humility and communications along with mutual respect to make anything work.
Hi there, great video. Since you’re putting out great content, it is equally important to pay attention to the quality. For example, the spelling of “compliment” is wrong. You’re doing a great job. Just wanted to put it my word here. Keep up the great work.
What do you do if the person is aggressively hostile? For example, they grab your throat with their hand and insult you calling you a pimple-faced loser and freak? What do you do then?
You can save time by skipping this video. This is child-like. Content is nothing new. These life coaches are a drain on living your life. Just be an empathic, nice person, and smile.
I just want you to know I like your hair, eyes and your look. If you had one thing you always wanted to would you do it? What is the best advice you ever got?? Have a wicked awesome day pretty lady!!
@@HeinzSmith-zx5ku thank you! The best I ever got was “treat others how they want to be treated - the platinum rule” I always wanted to help people and have a creative life . That’s what I’m doing now . I want to continue to learn and grow , and serve.
@@HeinzSmith-zx5ku I accept your compliment . No harm in compliments:) paying someone a compliment will brighten their day even during the darkest hour.
1. Admiration for Knowledge and Skills: People often appreciate someone for their expertise, intelligence, or talents. In your case, someone might admire your knowledge or ability to engage in meaningful conversations. 2. Emotional Connection: People tend to like those they can relate to emotionally. If you are empathetic, supportive, or share personal experiences that resonate with others, this can create a strong bond. 3. Shared Interests or Values: Common interests, hobbies, or life philosophies can bring people closer together. When you share similar passions, it can lead to natural friendships or admiration.
Thank you for sharing these insights! It’s so true that admiration and connections are often rooted in these qualities. I appreciate the reminder that being knowledgeable, empathetic, and sharing common values can make such a difference in how we connect with others. It’s encouraging to think about building relationships based on meaningful conversations and emotional bonds. Definitely something I’ll keep in mind-thank you for this perspective!
My live experience and observation suggest that rule 1 is not true. If someone lean towards us and we will end up mirroring that person, then more often than not we create very close distance between our heads. And that will lead to other person leaning back in response. That's the reality. Also ad 2) I do not believe that most MALE humans would share experience that you (as a female) may have in that area. Most man would be considered "creepy" by simply being kind and showing appreciation. Or by giving other people complements. thats again brutal reality
Hey, your video is amazing! But I feel the thumbnail and editing could use a little more polish to match the quality of your content. Improving them would make your videos even more engaging. Keep up the great work!❤
People will like you if you don’t care if they like you. When you simp, pander, and grovel for someone’s affection, you will be neither respected nor liked.
How does someone like you? What have you observed?
in my experience they'll genuinely help respect and take interest in you but also return favours with thank you and help in what ever way they can whether that's practical help advice or whatever else
@@jameschicken1008 absolutely James . A simple thank you goes a long way. Holding doors. Paying a compliment . I serve soup one time at a soup kitchen for the homeless on Christmas and loved it 🥰
सबकी अपनी अपनी धारणाएं होती हैं और वे अपने ही मापदंड पर हमें पसंद करते हैं। आपका कार्य मुझे पसंद आया है।
Smartphones for women are like pron and have destroyed dating. No women talk face to face with men anymore, all women are glued onto their cell phones 24/7. I'm a 56 introvert here, never married and have no kids, thank god. I've given up on women ever since smartphones came out. Women have really killed dating globally. It's all about trashy situationship and O. F. and who have turned into lesbians which have destroyed long-term relationships. Women have destroyed marriages. We need to ban smartphones and women would approach men just like before. Good luck with that.
“Your brain is so beautiful “ is a wonderful compliment. If it’s actually ment .
I love this complement . I always say “ I love your brain,” how you think…. It makes people smile
Excellent video, thank you for the previous video and the book recommendation called hidden techniques for manifesting women zorlest. I must say it s excellent
I need that book !
@@GetByMakeItWithAlice Hidden techniques for manifesting women Zorlest just typpe on google ...
Great video. My relationship of five years ended a month ago when the love of my life decided to move on. I loved her deeply, and I can't stop thinking about her and the memories we created together. I've done everything I can to try to bring her back, but nothing has worked. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. I've tried to push the thoughts away, but they keep coming back. I’m not sure why I'm sharing this here, but I really miss her and wish I could have her back.
I've been in a similar situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but I couldn't let her go. I did everything I could to win her back, including seeking the help of a spiritual advisor who guided me in bringing her back into my life. We're together again now, and I can honestly say I'm enjoying every moment.
That's amazing! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with one?
Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is an exceptional spiritual counselor with the ability to help reunite you with your ex.
Thank you for sharing this valuable information. I just looked her up online impressive!
It happens every day. Be grateful for the time you had and realize that you don't get to make decisions for the other person.
Very kind of you for reconfirming these great behaviours! ❤
Ok, I gave you 5 mins, so do you like me now?
You got a heart from her, that’s a great start!! 😂
Thank you, I try to be positive, I will try to use other methods more.
It’s all we have !
Cutest coach ever ☺. Appreciate the advice!
Give a compliment? Check. Be grateful/appreciative? Check. Be positive? Check. 3 tips used in 2 short sentences. Impressive.
Haha nice and my favorite, being short and to the point gaining a ❤? Godlike! Thanks for liking!
Thanks for video. Here in the UK, I find that people rarely compliment one another. Compliments are often seen as cringy, unmanly or grasping, even when appropriate and sincere. And when I ask casual acquaintances questions such as "What are you most looking forward to this summer?" people often give bland, evasive answers. Exceptions, however, are refreshing.
Thank you for sharing! Giving someone a compliment can feel tricky, and I’ve never quite understood why. I love receiving compliments, and I equally enjoy giving them to others. Always remember to stay true to yourself.
By the way, I have another playlist on communications where I also discuss compliments-you might find some interesting insights there! :) ruclips.net/p/PLEAzmxCsirliQLzU8giaksEB1BtG8VOhJ
@@GetByMakeItWithAlice Thanks, Alice, for your helpful, pleasant reply. Yes, giving sincere compliments feels great, regardless of how people respond. In particular, I like thanking and encouraging shop staff, as they're usually overlooked, even looked down upon. And, like you, I enjoy receiving praise. Kind words are precious gifts, esp. when people's emotional needs are often neglected in a society of material over-abundance. Have a fine end to year and 2025!
@ProfoundOneSpeaks well said ! Amen 🙏!
Awesome ❤❤❤❤ thanks for the reminder
I agree with all of those! I use them pretty much always! And can tell you that it definitely works :) literally just used all 5 with a person I have just met!
@@AnaLeiman great timing! Some things in life are a lot simpler than we think .
I found that if I truly sympathize with someone, they usually like me back!
Problem is - I rarely like anybody and there's not much I can do about that. lol
That's so true. The law of reciprocity always works!
Most people aren't likeable.
This behavior is characteristic of kind-hearted individuals. Those who regularly apply these tips are likely to become considerate and pleasant people. Great video Alice, you'll go far with these videos. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for your kind words, David. I have many wonderful guides, and to do great things, we must never walk alone.
It’s true-kindness and consideration always leave a lasting impact.
@ I believe that 1000%
yes, i usually follow these tips, very good info, thanks!
We all do, Luis!
“I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and doggone it, people like me.”
But, seriously, good tips!
Amazing !
Ok Stuart
Alice, I needed just a few seconds to understand your expertise: your videos are made by knowledgeable person - YOU, short, clear up to the point and that's how it should be (I studied the Presentations)
Glad it was helpful! I’m a self taught journalist and ex-startup founder. I presented at dozens of conferences around the world on the adoption of blockchain technologies. I’m a startup adviser and writer, mostly working on ghostwriting projects. What type of presentations did you study ?
@@GetByMakeItWithAlice I've been managing Large North American Automotive Manufacturing Companies; consequently, had to take presentation education under Toyota Production System - Lean Manufacturing. I have to reiterate, I'm impressed by you. Keep up a great work.
Superior advice; thank you. I’ve used these ideas to great success. Please listen to her: she’s 100% correct. God bless you🙏🏼
Thanks for the shoutout!
Advice is profound ❤❤❤
Lovely! It's always nice to brush up on one's social skills : )
Absolutely. What should I talk about next Sharie?
Wonderful insights. I would add to have a warm smile (you already do).
@@waelmasri4334 ah, gosh 😅 forgot that one !
I realize that after just three seconds of the video you like me VERY much :)
Good info, and presentation
Thanks !
Thank You for this video and for these tips.
I fully appreciate You !
And I appreciate you taking the time to watch the video
These are such great tips!
Thanks, Nika.
Thank you for these solid tips, I can confirm I already like you, haha. Also subscribed. 😊🙏🏻
@@MrFelian thanks ! I appreciate you. Tomorrow I’m doing a live Q&A if you are around . Noon EST
Alice - I like you :-) Hey, thank you - you are on point.
@@rayraman3243 thanks ray!
Thank You for these wholesome suggestions, they are very helpful.
My favorite is; if you could do anything, anything at all and knew you would succeed what would it be?
Eric - I’m glad it was helpful .
But what if one is not used to compliments? Anytime I receive a compliment, I automatically start thinking, "Uh oh, here comes the catch". 🙂
@@djs12007 that’s so great that you observed it. I sometimes feel the same … like “why is this person saying it, what does she or he want?” But honestly … sometimes people are inspired by what you say or do or behave and they want to say “that’s cool… that’s awesome… thanks for bringing this to my life.” And they genuinely want to thank you . So, let them !
New sub. This channel is great!!
Thx Alice
@@Enzzo777 thanks enzzo!
thanks for the information
You're welcome! What do you think I should talk about next?
@GetByMakeItWithAlice i'm still NOT certain
Do you know what's liberating and empowering? No longer caring if everyone likes you. No matter what you do, some people will not like you. Let it go.
@@suncat9 great insight :)
Well put together and quality content, Thanks!
@@nabihassan7576 what resonated with you, Nabil?
nice content. you are helping people.
this is great thank u :)
Glad you like it, James
Thank you.
You're welcome! What should I talk about next?
😎😎😎
#1 is most interesting to mirror body language. I never gave that much thought. But if a woman initiates contact I would never not accept. A man is not supposed to initiate any contact with a woman. It's an unwritten rule with strangers.
Thank you for the insights. As a woman, I appreciate if a man’s initiates a genuine conversation. There is nothing wrong with that. In fact, I appreciate it.
@@GetByMakeItWithAlice I wasn't clear on that. By contact I mean "physical" contact like a handshake or an embrace. I never refused this but would not dare initiate any physical contact. Thanks for the feedback.
lovely vid
Good information
Well done here.....
Nice video. Thanks.
Such next-level info here. And this relates to so many areas too. You can pull from this for help in job interviews, meeting in-laws or making new friends/coworkers. It really is universal.
@@Mymobileyt thank you, Stanley . I totally agree with you!
I compliment you for including open-ended questions. You might have some training in mass media or communications.
Yes I do . I used to to be a journalist .
Your truly a very beautiful young lady God bless you always. From Jim. ❤❤🎉🎉🎉💓 💓 💓
This is a great video, advice, and brilliant presentation. I agree that it works most of the time. However, not a single point would work on my ex.
@@robertk5441 😨 that just sucks . But during the relationship, did it work ?
*Compliment (praise, appreciation), since "complement" is something that goes along with something else and fits it... otherwise, enjoying the video!
@@zuhairreza I love both words ! Glad you are enjoying it.
I just discover your channel. I really enjoy the content and your style. You are absolutely lovely Alice. Best Xav
Thanks Xav, what resonated with you ?
@@GetByMakeItWithAlice. Thanks for the response. i think most people find that I am very distant, snob, aloof, standoffish...Perhaps I should make efforts. I don't connect with people very well...X
@@xav9156 Hi there! The question often is, "Why don’t I connect with people well?" This leads to introspection-and maybe you’ll notice a pattern. Just a thought! Awareness is key to understanding our actions. :)
Some dynamite tips Alice. Thanks for sharing.
More Likes than Subscribers 🤔
Subscribed. I like you. Your content, style and video duration were perfect.
Alice yes you are a beautiful young lady. No. 2 I like the pace and the way you speak. No. 3 Your husband must be a very happy man. No. 4 Thank you for such a good cheerful video. No. 5 Sometimes I could talk with strangers for hours without any problem at all; if they are sociable I am sociable; if they are or want to share some good news I am likewise the same. No. 6 Thanks for your uplifting video again. Amen.
@@AugustMoser thank you. My boyfriend is a kind man. I think it really comes down to humility and communications along with mutual respect to make anything work.
That was good
Hi there, great video. Since you’re putting out great content, it is equally important to pay attention to the quality. For example, the spelling of “compliment” is wrong.
You’re doing a great job. Just wanted to put it my word here. Keep up the great work.
Thank you so much ! I completely missed that one ☝️ you’re the best .
What do you do if the person is aggressively hostile? For example, they grab your throat with their hand and insult you calling you a pimple-faced loser and freak?
What do you do then?
It depends if this was a first time offence or a multiple offence. Did you know the person ? Can you provide more context, Mark?
Make out a police report and also get a restraining order.
@@pauljensen4773 I wish I had your advise back then. Thx.
ok when you share advice like this your channel will grow well.
Videos are liked more if the audio sounds better! 🙏😉
Working on it :)
You can save time by skipping this video. This is child-like. Content is nothing new.
These life coaches are a drain on living your life.
Just be an empathic, nice person, and smile.
She can't accept the criticism: no heart for my comment.
That proves my point.
You got de nada wyman...
lmao
What if you don't want to be liked by anyone? Can you use the reverse to make happen?
@@sauron73 good questions . Let me think about that .
@GetByMakeItWithAlice I suggest all people reading the comment to not try to do it. It's only for knowledge.
In the UK, the saying 'spare me 5 minutes' in most parts means 'oh shut up and go away'.
Great insights !
in 1 sec, i already liked you. you look so attractive
I am interested in business English.
@@thomasbaine4047 happy to help . Message me getbymakeitwithalice@gmail.com
I just want you to know I like your hair, eyes and your look. If you had one thing you always wanted to would you do it? What is the best advice you ever got?? Have a wicked awesome day pretty lady!!
@@HeinzSmith-zx5ku thank you! The best I ever got was “treat others how they want to be treated - the platinum rule” I always wanted to help people and have a creative life . That’s what I’m doing now . I want to continue to learn and grow , and serve.
@GetByMakeItWithAlice same here treat people kindness. I'm on second part of my life I don't have time to waste on angry people.
When I see something I say something, like you are pretty! What is the harm in that? Nothing it will make you feel great!
@@HeinzSmith-zx5ku I accept your compliment . No harm in compliments:) paying someone a compliment will brighten their day even during the darkest hour.
@@GetByMakeItWithAlice have a great day!
No, I have these blue eyes with a yellow ring in it. I'm a Sigma, and very direct. My life has another purpose. But I love women with brown eyes.
Pro tip if yo have her genetics you do not have to do anything just smile and people will like you. Do not have to be manipulative , fake player.
1. Admiration for Knowledge and Skills: People often appreciate someone for their expertise, intelligence, or talents. In your case, someone might admire your knowledge or ability to engage in meaningful conversations.
2. Emotional Connection: People tend to like those they can relate to emotionally. If you are empathetic, supportive, or share personal experiences that resonate with others, this can create a strong bond.
3. Shared Interests or Values: Common interests, hobbies, or life philosophies can bring people closer together. When you share similar passions, it can lead to natural friendships or admiration.
Thank you for sharing these insights! It’s so true that admiration and connections are often rooted in these qualities. I appreciate the reminder that being knowledgeable, empathetic, and sharing common values can make such a difference in how we connect with others. It’s encouraging to think about building relationships based on meaningful conversations and emotional bonds. Definitely something I’ll keep in mind-thank you for this perspective!
My live experience and observation suggest that rule 1 is not true.
If someone lean towards us and we will end up mirroring that person, then more often than not we create very close distance between our heads.
And that will lead to other person leaning back in response.
That's the reality.
Also ad 2)
I do not believe that most MALE humans would share experience that you (as a female) may have in that area.
Most man would be considered "creepy" by simply being kind and showing appreciation. Or by giving other people complements.
thats again brutal reality
Rule 1 is totally true. It’s what I do and it works. If they move away from you that’s a response that you need to take into consideration.
@@coach-piotr great insights. Thank you for sharing !
@@dimex3362 absolutely . Thank you for your input.
It's become that way - males are creepy!
Hey, your video is amazing! But I feel the thumbnail and editing could use a little more polish to match the quality of your content. Improving them would make your videos even more engaging. Keep up the great work!❤
What polish do you recommend ?
@@GetByMakeItWithAlice As a regular viewer and subscriber I would recommend video editing and improving thumbnail design.
@@RionKhondokar feel free to send me a sample of how you would improve this thumbnail to getbymakeitwithalice@gmail.com
If you are trying to get someone to like you, you’re violating the law of attraction.
What is the law.of attraction? I don't know.
People will like you if you don’t care if they like you. When you simp, pander, and grovel for someone’s affection, you will be neither respected nor liked.
Great insight !
But but please like me. I beg you please. I need your love. I'm such a pathetic looser. You are the only one who can save me from a lonely life. 😀
6. Make them laugh.
@@Angel-fo3xy yes !!!!
Great now you will be in friend zone just like me 😂
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Hi Alice just incase you didnt know, the idiots that are naming spiritual advisors are scammers. Dont entertain them
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I’m gonna take advice on how to get people to like me from a woman who looks like she was generated by AI?
may i just say how beautiful you are?
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That's an odd frequency
I'd give You 6 minutes honey.
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Hey you want to get a pizza ? Never fails
❤🎉🎉🎉😊
Ur are really very gorgeous
I could not do it ! ~ Five minutes is just way to long ...
😂
The video is only 3:50
Ironic.
@@funki4896 thanks for that . I had it 6 and we cut it and I left the title
@@funki4896 more value in less time
I’m going to try to keep the videos short !
This is all incredibly basic stuff.
@@fuzzypanda1684 things we often forget.
This is less than 5 minutes. I guess it won't work.
Woman nowdays are wayway different then the woman even six years ago so this vid is not really relevent today
5 mins .... the video is under 4 mins ... straight away talking crap
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