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1. Admiration for Knowledge and Skills: People often appreciate someone for their expertise, intelligence, or talents. In your case, someone might admire your knowledge or ability to engage in meaningful conversations. 2. Emotional Connection: People tend to like those they can relate to emotionally. If you are empathetic, supportive, or share personal experiences that resonate with others, this can create a strong bond. 3. Shared Interests or Values: Common interests, hobbies, or life philosophies can bring people closer together. When you share similar passions, it can lead to natural friendships or admiration.

What do you do if the person is aggressively hostile? For example, they grab your throat with their hand and insult you calling you a pimple-faced loser and freak? What do you do then?

This behavior is characteristic of kind-hearted individuals. Those who regularly apply these tips are likely to become considerate and pleasant people. Great video Alice, you'll go far with these videos. Thanks for sharing.

glad you decided to have a you tube channel. i see more now how your environment can enhace your opportunities for learning about people in general but especially when it comes to social skills. being from the south where we talk slower and in most places less populated has had an effect on my social progression and thanks to people like you i can have the best of both worlds

Do you find small talk challenging? Check out this video to learn how to make small talk feel effortless and natural!

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i appreciate how you deliver youre information. i am a n introvert altough i feel ive been decent with small talk and always looking for ways to improve. I do want to learn more about how to be above average in communiction skills so im looking forward to learnig aboutsome of youre other videos

I just discover your channel. I really enjoy the content and your style. You are absolutely lovely Alice. Best Xav

Nice video. Thanks.

ok when you share advice like this your channel will grow well.

Hey, your video is amazing! But I feel the thumbnail and editing could use a little more polish to match the quality of your content. Improving them would make your videos even more engaging. Keep up the great work!❤

Great now you will be in friend zone just like me 😂

But what if one is not used to compliments? Anytime I receive a compliment, I automatically start thinking, "Uh oh, here comes the catch". 🙂

I agree with all of those! I use them pretty much always! And can tell you that it definitely works :) literally just used all 5 with a person I have just met!

My live experience and observation suggest that rule 1 is not true. If someone lean towards us and we will end up mirroring that person, then more often than not we create very close distance between our heads. And that will lead to other person leaning back in response. That's the reality. Also ad 2) I do not believe that most MALE humans would share experience that you (as a female) may have in that area. Most man would be considered "creepy" by simply being kind and showing appreciation. Or by giving other people complements. thats again brutal reality

*Compliment (praise, appreciation), since "complement" is something that goes along with something else and fits it... otherwise, enjoying the video!

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Such next-level info here. And this relates to so many areas too. You can pull from this for help in job interviews, meeting in-laws or making new friends/coworkers. It really is universal.

this is great thank u :)

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I started a particular master's program and dropped out after a semester for various reasons. When you asked the question about discussing experience in interview settings, I thought about this experience of mine and how I might discuss it in future interviews if it comes up. It's good food for thought! Thank you. I enjoyed this video ❤️😊 it sounds like you're a jack of all trades!

Been loving each of your vids! I always listen when they come out. They really calm me down and get me out of my head a bit.

Hi friends! What phrases surprise you?

Hi friends, how do you ask people for help?

How do you get interested in what the person has to say? I am curious....

Hi friends! What soft skills do you highlight?

Hi friends! How do you use ChatGPT?

Hi Friends! What do you need help with now ?

This is single-handedly the most important thing that any one of us could be looking for. Happiness needs to be the goal. Not money, not followers or that perfect job/house/life. Happiness. Your words are far more valuable than the view-count Alice, keep it coming. This is ultra-important information!

Great insights, Alice! Shifting from unmet expectations to understanding obstacles really hit home for me. It’s such a positive approach for both work and personal life. Letting go of rigid expectations definitely opens up more room for happiness. Looking forward to the next episode! 🙌😊

How do you understand your value?

Awesome video, Alice! Loved the examples of direct vs. indirect communication. Clear communication really does build trust and save time.

My brother studies communications (conflict studies) and he taught me about the 5 modes for handling conflict. Recently, I was reviewing that diagram, because in my friendships, I'm learning to be more authentic so that I can offer my best self to those relationships. I'm a people pleaser, partially by nature and partially due to conditioning from unhealthy relationships, so cooperation comes easy to me, but assertiveness does not. Long story short, this gives me some good tips on how to be more assertive (communicate my needs), so that my friendships can keep becoming more collaborative instead of accommodating on my end. These are wonderful tips to help me as I learn how to communicate directly. Thanks Alice! I can tell that you value this a lot ❤️

I will say you are one of the best strangers I ever befriended and I am having a blast watching this channel take off. You are KILLING IT!!!

Kita sebagai manusia sosial harus ada kontak satu sama lain nya tentu perlu komunikasi serta respon dengan baik Hal itu akan membangun relasiionship dengan baik semoga Tuhan Yesus Kristus memberkati Immanuel Amein thank you

Aku sendiri tak menyadari akan hal itu namun semua itu atas petunjuk serta bimbingan Tuhan Yesus Kristus memberkati semoga semua berjalan lancar sesuai dengan harapan good luck thank you

Great video! I love the emphasis on curiosity and authenticity when meeting new people. The reminder to stay open and vulnerable, while also celebrating the moments that bring us together, is so important. Looking forward to your next episode on direct communication!

Great video, Alice! 🌟 Your tips on finding common interests and asking open-ended questions are super helpful for building meaningful connections. Can't wait for your next episode on building relationships with strangers! 😊

I can not stress enough the importance of following these tips. For a plethora of reasons it is excruciatingly important to make the person you are communicating with feel heard and valuable. Whether it be romantically, with your spouse after a hard days work or in business dealings with clients or staff there is not a single thing you can do that will better improve the amount of information that you are trying to convey than by showing genuine interest in them.

Great video, Alice! Showing genuine interest in people is such a valuable skill that can really transform relationships, both personal and professional. I loved the tip about asking open-ended questions - it’s a simple way to make conversations more meaningful. Looking forward to your next video on finding common interests!

Hi friends, how do you show someone you care about what they have to say?

Guess what?? I watched this vid when it came out, and then today I applied something you shared (prioritizing stuff that's harder first and rewarding myself with the funner stuff after) and it helped me a ton!!! ❤️

Great insights! I love how you emphasize the importance of genuine human connections and building rapport. The tip about smiling to create comfort really resonated with me, and your reminder to actively listen is key to forming meaningful relationships.

Great insights! Understanding the difference between wants and needs and focusing on body language really helps build deeper connections. Looking forward to learning more about active listening in the next video! 👏

Nice! I had never thought about using procrastinating as an advantage. And assigning value and reward only to the things that are difficult is an amazing tip

Great insights! I love how you frame procrastination as energy conservation and a tool for creativity. The idea of assigning value to tasks and rewarding yourself is super helpful. Thanks for making procrastination feel less like a flaw and more like a natural part of the process!

Ooooh... i like having a physical list to check things off. I didnt think to assign a value to the task, that's excellent advice! Loving it Alice!

Echolalia can be quite irritating.

I learned how to stop reacting and thinking what that person is saying and what they're feeling. But I had to couple active listening with a bit of emotional maturity so I don't feel "attacked" or "judged" and be able to just listen instead of quickly defend or react.

Wise wise words... thank you for your very genuine and insightful information. And of course thank you for the very kind words! We appreciate you and look forward to seeing your channel do great things!