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  • @misswinter3361
    @misswinter3361 День назад +118

    I remember this episode. I really hope her family member was able to help her escape his abuse, and she moved on to be safe & happy.

  • @gretatagliavia4228
    @gretatagliavia4228 День назад +124

    She needs help, she is alone, isolated and unemployed and too young to understand what true love is!!!! So heartbreaking 💔

    • @stevesloan56
      @stevesloan56 День назад +5

      Her husband / boyfriend is the true meaning of a woman abuser. She needs to get out from underneath this bad relationship before she gets hurt. Good luck to you honey

    • @gretatagliavia4228
      @gretatagliavia4228 День назад +2

      @ exactly!!!!

    • @psychoticbastard6271
      @psychoticbastard6271 День назад

      She didn’t do good either

    • @monikaracak6813
      @monikaracak6813 День назад +3

      So true. They manipulate, isolate, lie, & abuse. Trust me, I know 1st hand and dealt with it for 5 long years "for our kid" when really all I was causing is more damage to his mental health & my mental + physical health!
      This poor young girl needs to run just as fast as she can to the relative willing to open their door to her so she can get back on her feet and be the independent, strong, young woman she is destined to be.

    • @babesmate
      @babesmate День назад

      What an a..hole!

  • @kathrynbillinghurst188
    @kathrynbillinghurst188 День назад +36

    Can we have a more recent update on this couple please Steve? ❤

  • @ogriss412
    @ogriss412 День назад +38

    PLEASE DO NOT HAVE A REASON FOR INJURING YOUR LADY! IT’S TIME TO CALL YOUR BROTHERS COUSINS UNCLES DAD ETC… WASTE OF TIME

    • @Woytek101
      @Woytek101 13 часов назад

      In other words, her husband. God I hate inbreeders.

  • @ms.munchkin8264
    @ms.munchkin8264 День назад +23

    Son, you are not MATURE enough for an adult relationship. You have an EXCUSE for EVERYTHING. Instead of MANNING UP and accepting YOU ARE THE ONLY PERSON WHO IS ABUSIVE, YOU ARE THE ONLY PERSON WHO CAN END THAT ABUSE! She doesn't CAUSE IT, YOU cause it! YOU are what is WRONG in this relationship! Period, end of discussion!

  • @andreajones886
    @andreajones886 День назад +35

    run away while you can,bc it only gets worse! a lot of women pay w/their lives!

    • @RoomShakerr
      @RoomShakerr День назад +3

      EXACTLY i don't see how people don't value they life he broke her ark and she still stayed i don't feel bad she had an opportunity to leave

  • @jpprophete1988
    @jpprophete1988 День назад +53

    Steve thank you for always standing up for the voiceless.

    • @dannblair
      @dannblair День назад

      she’s not voiceless! she’s just choosing not too use it

    • @jamiaiahcrawford1506
      @jamiaiahcrawford1506 День назад +3

      @@dannblair young 18 year old can be voiceless. Stop

    • @janan1105
      @janan1105 День назад +1

      Amen to that , Steve is the best. 🙏🥰🤗

    • @CantHandleThisCanYa
      @CantHandleThisCanYa 23 часа назад

      Voiceless??? More like weak and pathetic in this case

    • @dannblair
      @dannblair 8 часов назад

      @jamiaiahcrawford1506 18 year olds can absolutely be voiceless, i wasn’t saying that. what i am saying is that this girl is an adult who had the ability and opportunity to leave him and work on herself, but she didn’t take it, instead she went back to live with her boyfriend. a boyfriend who fractured her elbow because she turn off a fucking light. so no, she is not voiceless, she’s choosing not to use it

  • @EverettNightshade
    @EverettNightshade День назад +47

    It's extremely rare that abusive people change for their lovers.

    • @nancysternberg
      @nancysternberg День назад +9

      They beg and promise but they never deliver!

  • @jamiaiahcrawford1506
    @jamiaiahcrawford1506 День назад +21

    Hopefully she didnt end up dead.

  • @kazzakoala
    @kazzakoala День назад +5

    I put my hands on her because….there is NO because. You don’t put your hands on anyone. If you have trust issues then leave. It’s simple. Keep your hands to yourself.

    • @johnub4
      @johnub4 20 часов назад +1

      Exactly. Abuse is never a right. Self defense however is. I can tell that she doesn’t be hitting him.

  • @DonH316
    @DonH316 18 часов назад +4

    I will never fully understand why so many women choose to go back to the guy who treats them like crap when so many good guys out there that would treat them well and give them a better life.

    • @RawVeganJenNYC
      @RawVeganJenNYC 9 часов назад

      Low self-esteem- she feels like she deserves it, and in her mind, she thinks he will change.

  • @thefirespecialist9007
    @thefirespecialist9007 День назад +9

    Bro insulted a whole Audience 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @tanoav8603
    @tanoav8603 19 часов назад +4

    Him hugging her made me so mad because he is an insecure piece of crap. He is going to continue to be that way. He is probably cheating on her.

  • @CrimsonPriestessofMiracles
    @CrimsonPriestessofMiracles 22 часа назад +6

    An abuser never changes

  • @felicityjustus2012
    @felicityjustus2012 19 часов назад +1

    Steve saying “I’ll be your dad” made my heart ache ! Steve please continue to try to help as many people as you can . Never stop being you man . Some of us would give anything to have a person like you in our lives .

  • @Reacher_2215
    @Reacher_2215 День назад +9

    She's definitely still with him. 100%

  • @debbies6494
    @debbies6494 14 часов назад +2

    It’s not going to end with him. She has get away, he won’t change, I’ve been there done that . We divorced . Our daughter is now 39, my fear was what if she didn’t turn off the light, or spilled a drink and I’m not there to protect her. All these years later we still talk, our daughter now has children and we both go to see them (she lives in another state ), these visits include my new spouse of many years. Yes, we all get along . I know if I didn’t leave 35 yrs ago with our then 4 year old daughter, she would have probably been abused just like me. I don’t know how but he turned out to be a great father after our divorce, but he married twice after me and both left left him because of the verbal and physical abuse. Honey please leave, I was ur age to and dating him, married him, had a baby had age 19 and ran with my child when she was almost 4. I did go to my parents and then got my own place. We were not rich but we were happy. I never talked down about her dad to her when she was small.

  • @melaniemiller7013
    @melaniemiller7013 20 часов назад +2

    Girl run, run as fast can and don't look or go back to this abuser, love isn't supposed to hurt. He will never change. If he loved you he wouldn't treat you like this. Leave him, you deserve better. You will find someone who loves you and won't abuse you. This isn't love, this abuse.

  • @jamescooper5247
    @jamescooper5247 День назад +28

    Once an abuser gets away with abusing u for years,then 9/10 chance they will not change😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @bethechange8889
    @bethechange8889 День назад +11

    He's a little punk!

  • @sarveale
    @sarveale День назад +9

    Any update. What happened when they got home. I hope she went and stayed with her family member x

  • @mych6160
    @mych6160 День назад +4

    Remember ladies‼️ There is a man that will treat you how you deserve, whenever that may be in life. But put yourself first no matter what. It’s YOUR life. Not his‼️

  • @RoughJustice2k18
    @RoughJustice2k18 День назад +6

    Dude in the blue shirt is the boyfriend? he doesn't look old enough to shave, drink or drive!

  • @maya-dd7nd
    @maya-dd7nd День назад +8

    love you steve. thanks for being a g

  • @RoomShakerr
    @RoomShakerr День назад +20

    I just dont see how people stay in abusive situations get up and leave people stay almost risking their lives is wild he coulda k!illed her

    • @scifiish
      @scifiish День назад +14

      In most cases, it's not easy to just leave..especially if they cut off resources and family or friends from you, you can sometimes end up trapped in these situations depending on how bad the relationship already is. You could be threatened or conditioned in staying in those situations

    • @RoomShakerr
      @RoomShakerr День назад +2

      ​@@scifiishna my life matters more people need to walk away she's risking her life he could do much worse

    • @scifiish
      @scifiish День назад

      ​@@RoomShakerr I really hope she actually left him and did better for herself no matter what the situation is at least

    • @annagriswald5884
      @annagriswald5884 День назад +9

      As a survivor of DV from 2 different DV relationships, abusers are often charming and the abuse doesn't start right away. They manipulate and brain wash their victims. They isolate their victims from friends and families. They belittle them until the victim is nothing but a meer shell. They often tell their victims "I'll kms if you leave" or "my friends and I will hunt you down if you leave". A lot of peeps don't leave because they're hoping to see the person they fell in love with from the beginning. Unfortunately that person they fell in love with doesn't exist. Never existed.
      That's why self love is important.
      I hope anyone whose in a DV relationship gets out.

    • @AnjelicaReese
      @AnjelicaReese День назад +3

      @RoomShakerr it's not always easy to leave in these situations. Too many times, the person got killed over it, and even when they tried to escape, they got trapped instead. So please know everyone's situations are different 💯👌

  • @Jotinko
    @Jotinko 21 час назад +2

    I understand her. I’m 37 and never been loved (romantically) yet (mild autism sucks) so if I met a woman would was abusive to me I’d feel like she’s the only person who sees anything in me and if I break up with her I’d go back to being alone unable to comprehend the thought of being loved again but any type of abuse is wrong so the best move is to break it off. It’s going to be hard to attract another person but it may be one that’s genuine and loving.

  • @SonjaBlade608
    @SonjaBlade608 10 часов назад +1

    He's treats her like he doesn't care... because he DOESN'T!!

  • @BettySorensen-h9q
    @BettySorensen-h9q День назад +1

    Honey, if you're in a toxic relationship, it's never gonna change. Get rid of him now while you're still young. Don't put up with that

  • @MartaTosh-ju2ss
    @MartaTosh-ju2ss День назад +3

    Steveeeeeee you're the best!!!!!!!

  • @misslornamae
    @misslornamae День назад +6

    The chances he will change are zero. Even after proving she wasn't cheating, then he was on for not giving all the details "so he knew ", making her once again at fault. We all know this relationship is doomed because hes an abusive f@ck

  • @robertsimmons7556
    @robertsimmons7556 День назад +5

    Poor girl is just way to young to understand what true love actually is she needs to get away from him 😮😮😮

  • @phyllisvanhuss1190
    @phyllisvanhuss1190 День назад +1

    From experience, once it starts it doesn't stop until something drastic happens.

  • @shawnhuff3920
    @shawnhuff3920 День назад +3

    She needs a career job earning over $100,000 dollars a year and a great respectful man steve 😊

  • @markevans5674
    @markevans5674 День назад +1

    Hope she ditched that disgusting thing. Sickening to see her hug it

  • @sharonpower4658
    @sharonpower4658 23 часа назад +1

    Its so sad to see young woman throw their lives away for losers. Rarely do they ever change.

  • @dreezvs
    @dreezvs 20 часов назад +1

    she's 18....why she look like this lol

  • @RoomShakerr
    @RoomShakerr День назад +14

    It coulda all been avoided if he just turned off the light😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ElisabethHarris-b6m
    @ElisabethHarris-b6m День назад +2

    That little arrogant bully ,needs an attitude adjustment badly, if that was my daughter he would be running

  • @blackheartbev3098
    @blackheartbev3098 17 часов назад +1

    She needs to get a job too. She's not a child man.

    • @youngtank4039
      @youngtank4039 14 часов назад

      This is an old episode.

    • @RawVeganJenNYC
      @RawVeganJenNYC 9 часов назад

      She's most likely unemployed to keep the peace in the household. If she works, he will harass her, make her take pics of herself working, and accuse her of cheating.

  • @tanishamuntslag6369
    @tanishamuntslag6369 День назад +1

    5:13 my guy giving bs for an excuse. Putting your hands on a woman is just wrong regardless of when she pisses you off . Girl needs to stay away from this guy. I don't care how sorry he is

  • @pamelamckenzie2685
    @pamelamckenzie2685 День назад +4

    He got problems with himself his still a child you see in that young lady's face she, not well poor soul how did this young man get brought up by his mum and dad no respect for woman young lady needs to let him go and live her life go to collage better her life

  • @Reacher_2215
    @Reacher_2215 День назад +1

    the most you can do is send her home with some boxing gloves and a pack of mouth guards 🤣

  • @jajacap9750
    @jajacap9750 День назад +1

    Leave him. He’s a TRASH. Love yourself first.

  • @tyreepowell8367
    @tyreepowell8367 8 часов назад

    This Is My Advice For This Poor Young Woman,She Deserves A Lot Of Help To Get Through This And Move On With Her Own Life As A Survivor Not A Victim Of Domestic Violence

  • @ghostkiie
    @ghostkiie День назад +2

    i wonder what happened with these two

  • @KerrieWakeman
    @KerrieWakeman День назад +1

    The guy’s a punk!
    Abusers don’t change!
    Hopefully this girl didn’t end up dead!
    I hope she accepted Steve’s help and got away!
    He’s no good and very dangerous! 😮

  • @nattychibs7792
    @nattychibs7792 14 часов назад

    I wish Steve was like this when it’s the man getting beaten up by the missus. Not on stage sitting down with her and laughing about the whole thing

  • @The_Loganator8
    @The_Loganator8 День назад

    No person, man nor woman, should ever put their hands on someone. PERIOD!!! Now with that being said, if you are in a relationship, you have no business spending the night at any man's house. You lie about cheating and expect your partner to not be suspicious. Neither one of them are ready for a mature relationship. They both are toxic af. With that being said, he is emotionally challenged and needs some serious intervention. She puts her self in situations where a woman in a relationship should never do. You want to keep the peace but you spend the night with other men and expect your partner not to feel some type of way. 😂 You just can't make this ish up!!!
    I hope they both have matured and are living healthy normal relationships.

  • @SybilBlake-s5t
    @SybilBlake-s5t 20 часов назад +1

    Lying is not good. But beating is not good either. You put your hand on me you finished. Y

    • @SybilBlake-s5t
      @SybilBlake-s5t 19 часов назад

      Dumbest excused I have ever heard. This is one of the reasons why I am on my own. This type of trash. Guy, you do that to me. You would. Never get the opportunity ever to do this to another woman again.

  • @claryp1509
    @claryp1509 16 часов назад

    Can we get the full episode on the Nosey app, please? Steve is still my only talk show host.

  • @taylorjamison2697
    @taylorjamison2697 День назад +4

    I’ve never been this early lol

    • @NalanHi
      @NalanHi День назад

      I’ve never been this late 😂

    • @necroxmancer502
      @necroxmancer502 День назад

      Who cares?

    • @Shakira555
      @Shakira555 8 часов назад

      @@necroxmancer502you cus ur replying, maybe shut up

  • @debrastone2198
    @debrastone2198 16 часов назад

    If they're not married (& even if they are) why doesn't she just leave him? I have a hard time with the significant others who fight to stay in relationships like this!!!

  • @andrewdecarles
    @andrewdecarles 21 час назад

    I hope she leaves him, this just shows things will get worse for her. It’s just going to get more dangerous for her.

  • @andherekiaur.
    @andherekiaur. День назад +4

    Sorry I'm not American but why do guys keep such short hair ?

    • @RoughJustice2k18
      @RoughJustice2k18 День назад +1

      I could ask why some of them have buns or ponytails that make them look like cleaning ladies.

    • @714.BrAyAn
      @714.BrAyAn День назад +1

      @@RoughJustice2k18 what do you think about their military uniforms lol

  • @chantellylace4174
    @chantellylace4174 День назад +2

    Hope she was able to get away in ome piece. Many of ua dont...or are still stuck. Watching it is a slap in the face for some of us. But we understand!

  • @mistyb8434
    @mistyb8434 7 часов назад

    She has no self-esteem!😢 it breaks my heart to see her like this.💔

  • @lesterwilliamsjr649
    @lesterwilliamsjr649 День назад +2

    I hate this episode, moral of the story offer help but don't force help.

    • @chantellylace4174
      @chantellylace4174 День назад +1

      Offered help to an abused woman only goes so far. It changes you. It rewrites your brain. It's not so God damn simple!

  • @Katherine-q1s
    @Katherine-q1s 4 часа назад

    Steve you are the best. Ya make me eyes a sweaty, and honestly I’m as shocked as you Steve how a father could be anything less than the privileged bar you set.
    So Thankyou Sir & Thanks to your whole team, your wife, producers, the many…few stable guests 😅 ❤❤

  • @Unicornslive
    @Unicornslive 16 часов назад

    Abusive men never change. Oh they'll promise it'll never happen again, and for a while all is good...
    UNTIL!!!!!!!! Until something sets him off again and the abuse starts all over again, usually worse each time.

  • @nastarwarrior
    @nastarwarrior День назад

    Steve turned into Carnac The Magnificent

  • @cobravids
    @cobravids День назад

    The moment this punk walked out i could see what the kid is.

  • @HourTimeHere
    @HourTimeHere День назад

    Wait, so where is his lie detector test? She’s been question for cheating but he isn’t getting question for cheating?

  • @unanorman5597
    @unanorman5597 День назад

    Hi he will never change😢

  • @adriedrake8605
    @adriedrake8605 День назад

    Let someone treat my kids that way!!! I hope she is safe and got away now🫂✝️

  • @Roadie1810
    @Roadie1810 День назад

    I wonder since this is a old show. Is she still alive since that looser she was/is with abused her. Not turning of a light he thinks its reason enough to break a arm. Poor kid she never felt true love. LOVE DOES NOT HURT

  • @thefirespecialist9007
    @thefirespecialist9007 День назад

    RIP Harley

  • @z93blitz1
    @z93blitz1 23 часа назад

    lol Steve asked her if she cheated and she said no i kissed a guy😂 like what

  • @animallover4455
    @animallover4455 День назад

    Hope she is alive and there is an update.

  • @KarmaS-y3n
    @KarmaS-y3n 20 часов назад

    Thing is they have no kids no attachments move on from each other!!

  • @007REAPER007
    @007REAPER007 День назад

    Stockholm syndrome is real, she thinks that jerk can change? these girls really have low self esteem.

  • @gregoryhoyle3739
    @gregoryhoyle3739 5 часов назад

    This dude is lucky she isn't my daughter.

  • @DaveyColl
    @DaveyColl День назад

    People don't change people age and calm down

  • @markevans5674
    @markevans5674 День назад

    Who the hell did it borrow that shirt from? Andre The Giant ?

  • @OmgitsRitas2ndYT
    @OmgitsRitas2ndYT 13 часов назад

    I’m in the same boat girl. 😢

  • @chrisveness-butcher9841
    @chrisveness-butcher9841 День назад

    This is funny cos, as usual, if it was a female abuser toward a male, Steve wouldn't act like this! It's double standards! Abuse had no gender

  • @stevegiordano7544
    @stevegiordano7544 День назад

    She definitely cheated. He's definitely a scumbag.

  • @pandathereallist
    @pandathereallist День назад

    I’ve never been this early for a video

  • @shadowbladelolSAC
    @shadowbladelolSAC День назад

    someone tell me why there is this plauge of you almost get killed, beat, stabbed, ran over, etc, and stay with that person because you :phantom dust/lonely daggers "love" them??..

  • @garybaltiejus7248
    @garybaltiejus7248 21 час назад

    WOOD CHIPPER !!!!!

  • @TheBasedUchiha
    @TheBasedUchiha 22 часа назад

    This whole "poor me I'm just an innocent victim " shit is dumb.
    They do this nasally fake cry whining shit... and then suddenly switch up.
    Two party domestic violence.... and yet as soon as the crocodile tears start one side is the helpless victim 🙄

  • @Shinnyinred2024
    @Shinnyinred2024 8 часов назад

    That’s WOW she is still going to be with a guy that hurts her and she is to young to realize that she has help on the table he and she needs to change I was disappointed with this show today.

  • @jandy4604
    @jandy4604 22 часа назад

    8:45 I had to laugh because nothing satisfies this idiot. It's like when I was with my ex, every time, even when I proved 100% I was right and it never satisfied her.

  • @unanorman5597
    @unanorman5597 День назад

    Hi my swty get away from this jerk he already fracture ur arm next time u will b in bodybag girl plz this guy is phycho he needs help he's sick I will never alow alow my daughter with this jerk God will send you someone who will treat you with respect and love u my swty

  • @unknownnumber377
    @unknownnumber377 18 часов назад

    is he fo real? he want her to cheaton him he said

  • @davidsimmons857
    @davidsimmons857 День назад

    She likes being there

  • @debrakiser1976
    @debrakiser1976 21 час назад

    Sge sounds to whiny and needy

  • @timjhonson3792
    @timjhonson3792 День назад

    They always act like these women are innocent these women are not innocent ef out of here

    • @necroxmancer502
      @necroxmancer502 День назад

      So they deserve to be hit? “Eff out of here”

  • @idisregardcommunityguidelines
    @idisregardcommunityguidelines День назад +1

    First to comment. Not really though. Just let me get one y'all are too quick

  • @VelvaHigginbothamam
    @VelvaHigginbothamam День назад +2

    Your videos are always so informative and informative! Thank you for this! 🔥😛

  • @Spencerlayne
    @Spencerlayne День назад

    She thinks thats what love is. She doesn't know anything different. That's sad. This will be an old episode, but I hope she managed to get away and is happy now.

  • @anthonybalista7421
    @anthonybalista7421 11 часов назад

    If a woman is supposedly “causing” you to become abusive, then fucking leave.

  • @simonj1971
    @simonj1971 День назад

    She kissed a guy! Did she like it? lol

  • @anntelferskowron6834
    @anntelferskowron6834 15 часов назад

    Stop waving your friggin arms around