Viam chatt. I totally agree, this girl is laughing about the situation. The friend needs to call cps on her to save those kids from all the abuse they see and go through, this lady is pathetic
Yep. There's a point where you can only try to help out a friend so much and if they continue to not listen, you need to cut ties and move on. Guaranteed this woman is going to go back to this lowlife.
@@MrDarksword123 I wasn’t shocked when I seen her choose the door to go back to the loser, and that chic with the red shirt that’s sleeping with this dude too, I’ve never seen so much ignorance in one spot, meth heads will stick together they must be from Kentucky 🫠😂
She’s gonna get her kids taken away. Refusing to leave an abusive partner is negligence and they will take your kids away for failure to protect your child.
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@@ja-miyah_hurryand just as often we hear about their children suffering the same abuse at the hands of the SAME man abusing the mom! They need to do better for their children.
I only feel bad for the kids who don’t have a choice in these situations. How can you put your kids lives in danger because you “love” a man? I know it’s hard to leave an abusive relationship but think about your kids and how they’re being traumatized . Second edit: 😂 There’s two women fighting over him it is crazy. And the other lady wants to be with him because he “doesn’t hit her” but you know that he hits another woman! It’s only a matter on time before he hits her. My ex hit me, I hit him back. ( don’t think he was expecting that) and I left him. He tried the crying and he will change thing and it didn’t work
Both women were most likely abused by a male figure in their life either early on or into their teenage years. That's all they know and that's what they'll choose for the rest of their life. It's sad because her children will think that behavior is OK too. It's a neverending cycle. Steve could talk to her tell her ears fell off and say the only person that's going to make the change is you, but in reality, she's never going to, that's just how it is. That guy probably grew up seeing his father or another male "role model" abuse a female in his life and that's why he thinks it's OK. He's learned to be manipulative and to play on her emotions. It's a terrible situation all around.
I found it really funny how Lacey is ok with him calling other women bitches but when Steve called her stupid she got so offended 😂 right there is proof that it’s ok as long as it’s not done to her.
I’ve got a hard time feeling bad for girls like this. Too many times we hear about children who’ve been abused because of their mothers lack of self respect and desperation for a man. I dated an abuser and left after 3 years. So it’s not like I don’t know. But I had to find what motivates me to stay alive. It’s disturbing to me that having kids doesn’t motivate her enough to be better.
Choosing a lowlife over her own kids. She's putting not just herself in danger, but also her kids. If she takes him back after this, then I think CPS should get involved because those kids need to be raised in a safe and stable environment.
YES! At 22, I married into a *Mormon CULT.* I got out soon after because I saw the way the children were treated. I’d been like a robot, but it broke down my programming. I couldn’t put my future babies in harm’s way. I stole my phone back, called my brother, left my stuff behind, & escaped. It wasn’t easy, & I couldn’t eat or sleep for days, but eventually my brother’s kindness healed me. Everyone is different. I try not to judge people who stay even when their kids are in danger. But I must admit, it’s hard to stomach when I see it. If we don’t protect them, who will? If you’re reading this & you’re trapped, believe this: YOU have the power to choose. You’re stronger than you think, more beautiful than you know, & there are RESOURCES out there that will get you out SAFELY. 🤍
I agree but some people change after babies he can be the perfect guy the whole relationship then when a baby comes he gets abusive, cheats, etc. never judge a book by its cover.
@@trulovegirl let’s not try and minimize the abuse that both women on that stage endured. Yes it is common sense from the outside view to leave and protect your kids, but when you’re in the situation and you’re actively being abused not just physically but also mentally and emotionally, it’s harder to see out. A lot of survivors of DV do look back and regret staying and putting up with everything their abusers did. Also you’re being hella disrespectful to the previous commenter for no reason. She made a comment about her experience so idk why you need to speak on it.
there's no such thing as narcissistic abuse; abuse from narcissists isn't special in any way. it's just plain old abuse, and not everyone who has npd is an abuser.
@@SloppyxJoeaka “I’m a narcissist and you hurt my feelings” y’all’s inability to see how hard you project is truly astonishing. Imaging trying to gaslight facts 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
“So he could unalive you and your child?” Yes 😊 “And you want to be with him..?” “Yes😊” Okay girl you deserve it. I hope the kid is taken away so he has a chance at life since she’s trying to throw his life away before he’s even alive!!!
It really hurts that she smiles while telling how he hits her. Like wtf.. deserves so much better and I wish she would open her eyes and do better for herself and her babies
@@JMatthewTV Well, reality is reality. If you have some personal issue with women because maybe you were "wrongly" accused of something and you feel some type of way.. facts are facts. He lied. He is the aggressor. She even admitted she retaliates. She may be a complete moron and this is coming from a woman who sympathizes with what she has experienced, as my ex husband used to beat the shit out of me. But THIS mother (I'm referring to myself, not her -for any idiot that doesn't understand-) chose her child and never looked back. BUT, THAT lady.. didn't fail a lie detector. She failed her child and for that she is just a scuzzy as he is. Just as dumb as the other idiot bitch who tells herself, I know he will cheat so my defense mechanism is to tell everyone that we aren't "dating" so it isn't foul and it isn't cheating. We only f*** because I'm just a warm hole to put his disgusting d*** in, but I am so insecure that I want his nasty, child & woman beatin', no teeth brushin' ass on top of me. They are all foul. Give credit and discredit where it belongs and where it's due. Otherwise it sounds like a personal problem.
The 1 thing that pisses me off about women that tolerates abuse and her reason is I love him. In this case, I have no respect for this woman who tolerates this violent sin.
Low-self esteem women: “I LOVE HIM! But I love him so much as long as I tolerate these abusers and abuse my kids, I love being abused by strong tough angry men so much, I want them around.” SMFH! They put their own lives in danger by staying with these thugs! I don’t really understand these women like these two fighting over a pedophile?! If they were my sisters, i would beat their boyfriends with the baseball bat! Some tough love these women have!
I agree 100% I’m supposed to have sympathy for a woman who lets this happen and lets it happen to and in front of her kids plus he’s a sex offender! Idc if the judge called me n said “he didn’t really do it” any whiff of being inappropriate w/a child ur not around my kids scum. If she stays w/him they should remove her babies for their safety cause she’s too stupid to protect them.
It’s the parents who put themselves first before their children knowing their significant other is abusive and instead of trying to find a better environment not only for you but your child as well….violence is what you chase. This mindset is scary and who knows when they’ll realize it till it’s too late. All the trauma the child will go through watching daddy beat mommy and mommy beating daddy. So sad, and a sex offender? What other red flags does this woman need to be shown to leave. 💀
Typical sadism right there, it's sad really that some people in this wonderful world of ours can enjoy being abused let alone sexually abused, when I saw the title it was horrific very sad. Man I don't blame Steve for being pissed all the time with these filthy scum bag people in the world in every country and state. Wish we had more good men and women like Steve and his gang.
@@drew2fast489True, very true. There was a time he met with Santa Claus and the two had a shouting match, but you got to miss on how he used to go to other places in the states and help people in their communities.
Yeah. The sad thing is the friend and the girl aren't fighting over him. They are fighting because of the man. But that girl and his "girlfriend" or whatever is ridiculous
Some people do not deserve to be parents when they do not have the intelligence to keep kids safe. Exposing them to abuse, adult issues, and yelling. You are lessening their chance of growing into productive secure adults.
If there's ever an update on this situation, I wouldn't be surprised if CPS was called on her for the child abuse being done to her child. The one she's pregnant with in the video is taken away because of him. Another thing also is that I would believe that he's cheating on both of the women he's sleeping with.
He thinks it's manly to say he'll treat a woman like a man. You know you're stronger and can do more damage, so you're just a punk picking on someone smaller than you. That's not manly.
I feel like I'm on drugs not only watching her smile while she's talking about the horrible abuse but also listening to the fact she wants him back! Is she serious right now??
You're not on drugs, and she really did say that garbage. Steel-toed boots are literal weapons when they're worn outside the workplace since the steel is meant to protect the wearer's toes from heavy objects and serious injury.
That’s what I wanted to know. Because that’s a big issue for me. I want to know what exactly he did as well (or at least “allegedly” did). There’s kids involved in this story and if he’s already abusing a 1 year old…he could do more.
I was thinking the same thing, but she will loose her child to s.serveses because of the vile behaviour because that child will be in the way, what's the bet that he will hurt the child eventually 😮
This just makes me so sad… I was in an abusive relationship in the past and I can almost guarantee you that he’s constantly telling her “oh I’ll change” or promising her the world either that or she actually enjoys the chaos. It’s sick but I remember after I had left that was one of the things I missed🤢mainly because I had no one else and was always in Mom mode I think, I grew up too fast and I feel like that whole relationship just made me feel very childish. Thankfully it’s been 5 years no contact, I’m smarter now, I’m no longer under his “spell” and I’ve learned my lesson; ❤ that whole situation made me stronger too. If you are in an abusive relationship please remember YOU matter and you don’t deserve to be treated like this. 😢
Can any woman be more in denial? Sheesh! He kicked her! I don’t care what the reason was! My ex kicked me in the stomach once too, and that’s why he’s now my ex! 😡🔥
I was in this exact situation many years ago. It's not easy. They widdle you down, piece by piece. This isn't something that happens over night. They convince you that you're worthless and they're the ONLY ONE who will "love" you. After I finally left.. the rose colored glasses were gone and I could see how horrific the situation actually was. It's one of the best decisions I've ever made for me and my child. These ppl never change. And I PROMISE YOU, you WILL find someone who loves you completely & wouldn't even so much as THINK of laying a hand on you.
When the adults are screwed up in the head like this who suffers? That's right, the kids... She 100% needs help because he has her brainwashed and the upsetting part is that one day she will be done and by then her kids will be done too because no child should ever be set aside for a man and they do resent it.
What I wanna know is, if he’s a registered sex offender why is he allowed to be around children and why is she choosing nut bag over her children? That’s just messed up. He is responsible for keeping his PO up to date on where he’s living and with whom. She must be covering for him.
I'm not buying this one but for arguments sake let's say it's true... She allows this man to abuse her children and I'm supposed to feel sorry for her? Nah. Negligence is it's own abuse.
He’s going to say something to the wrong woman and she’s going to knock his ass out. There are women out there who don’t put up with this shit! 💯👏🏻 These women on the show should be embarrassed!! Then the blonde, how gross to want someone like this around your children!! And 1yrs old at that! Absolutely sick!! Poor sweet baby. Someone needs to intervene with a CPS report, she’s not leaving him sadly. Everyone needs a best friend like that!💯
In so many ways I feel so sorry for her. Escaping from an abuser is SO hard. Took me 8 years. You have to reach a point in your own head where you realized the abuser has lied, and you CAN survive on your own. Until that happens, you will keep going back 😢
I feel really sorry for the kids. Not only do they have to live with someone abusive but a sex offender as well. All because their mom chose a man over them. The friend should get custody of kids
Right. I don't think it has much to do with a lack of 'self-esteem'. It's about ignorance and drama. It's about believing a scum bag is a prize to fight for. Because 'i love him'...to hell with the children.
@@madmemadhouseme4885 I think, maybe, they grow up in this and it's all they know.. It's how they think they are supposed to be treated... It's almost like they aren't even who they are they are just a product of a horrible environment
It's not even a hook-up with benefits arrangement either. I won't even refer to it as 'friends with benefits' because they are not friends and there are no benefits to being together.
Women and men be going through this. Each time you stay in a bad toxic relationship, it gets worse. The significant other doesn't want to change. Then again, there's some that will change. But in this case, I don't see that happening. She definitely picked the wrong door and it's going to be hard for her and her children.
"Lacey:The only thing stopping him from being with me is that baby! Brandy: He's been coming over and sleeping with me! Lacey: Well good! Because we're not dating so I don't care." Huh???
I really hope she got away from this dude. This was taped so long ago but I truly hope she’s happy where she is now. Nobody deserves that treatment. This is abuse, narcissistic abuse.
"If a woman hits a you walk away" that's how guys get abused by women. If the man threatens to leave then the woman claims he raped her, but " walk away" get out of here with that bs man
This is what no self-esteem looks like. She isn't ready to love herself and until then, not her BFF or children will factor into her decisions. Hopefully she can find the strength to leave him and get out of this toxic situation
She’s no better than he is. Plain and simple. Don’t call her victim. I lost my capability to have children because of an abuser. He had to move out of state. To see 2 women fighting over such a looser is insane.
I'm so sorry sweety. I was hoping he was rotting in prison. I was told that by a doctor even after I'd had my 1st son. Had to take him n his birth certificate in to prove I'd had a baby. But she could not figure how my body did. But I got lucky n had my 2nd son. But then had to have everything took out when he was 2 months old. Mine was from 2 guys in their 20s raped me when I was 12. Sending you prayers and warm hugs sweety
if she cant leave her violent partner for herself well she should for her children, she wants to moan about what he has done but she wants him back ?? why, get you and your kids as far away from him as you can, your kids deserve better than watching mummy and daddy fight and then the cycle starts again on another generation of thinking this behaviour is normal and ok
Exactly! I lost all sympathy for her when she chose to follow that scumbag out the door at the end. She deserves everything she gets now but the children don’t. And if that wasn’t all bad enough, he’s also a sex offender…. and she has a young daughter. If you can’t make good decisions and protect your children, then they should be taken away by the authorities.
Where in the hell does Steve find these women that don't care about their own lives? Thats just sad! Look at this dude? My son was bigger than him on his first day of kindergarten!
Girls, saying "because I looOOoove him" is not showing off your best personality trait. You don't look honest, you don't look loyal. Your love will not cure him and what you see is what you get. Put your immature fantasies about your bully away and get honest with yourself. Then you'll know when someone is being honest with you. Guys like this get worse, not better.
Why is she smiling while telling about the abuse, she is an abuser herself and especially not concerned about her children at all. Sad for her kids. She smiled when she was asked if he hurt her child. She is sick. Wipe the smirk off your face woman .
As a woman I think if a woman is physically attacking a man he SHOULD protect himself. Too many women think it's okay to physically attack men because they aren't supposed to hit them back. I think if they DID hit them back that would be the last time they attacked a man.
If you are going to say women are equal, you must give equal accountability. They hit eachother, THEY are abusive to eachother. Truth is self defense laws doesn't specify a gender. If we are going to claim women mature quicker than men, are smarter than men, then with great power comes responsibility! You should know better
As a single father, what's really pissing me off, is that girl smirk the whole time. She's a victim of physical abuse, but she's fighting to bring this man back into her children's lives, she's up there laughing like she thinks it's funny, she's protecting this man, she's allowing this man to hit her one year old child, she is literally just as scummy as him. I hope whoever her child's father is gets custody, and takes the kid, and lets the two of those scumbags have each other.
I agree with you. She hits on him and knows he's going to hit back. I feel if she's hitting him she should not but a person can only take so much before doing it back. I seen so many times where they laugh over women beating on men, some leaving black eyes on men and everyone laughs and teases him. Not right at all. If it had been he did it to her all he'll would of broke out. And I agree I hope the real dad takes his babies and plus how's she allowed to be living with a sex offender and have babies in the home. She's as sick
In the end if she wants to be a door mat/punching bag that's her decision. The only hope is that her child doesn't suffer because of it. Can't win them all Steve but at least you tried.
I am a senior citizen. I have NEVER met people like that in my entire life. Where on earth does Steve find these people? To stay with an abusive sex offender just blows me away. The girlfriend probably sleeps with farm animals.Abusive sex offenders don’t change. They don’t become solid citizens. Trying to help this girl is like trying to fix an addict who doesn’t want treatment. She will lose her children.
And smiles during all of Steve’s questions… unreal. She’s so beaten down and brainwashed I don’t believe she’ll ever get out, she’s an adult, the real tragedy here is the poor children 💔
When she chose his door, all respect for her went out of the window. She needs therapy!!! ASAP!!!! That poor baby is always going to be in the middle of their abusive drama!!!
Also, people who have never lived his type of abuse don’t understand how hard it is to walk away from it. You cannot judge her and call her stupid for making the decision she did. This is the cycle of abuse. At some point she will tire of the constant bs and will leave.
The friend who called the show needs to cut her off after this. This girl doesn't want to be saved.
Viam chatt. I totally agree, this girl is laughing about the situation. The friend needs to call cps on her to save those kids from all the abuse they see and go through, this lady is pathetic
But her kids will.
Yep. There's a point where you can only try to help out a friend so much and if they continue to not listen, you need to cut ties and move on. Guaranteed this woman is going to go back to this lowlife.
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@@MrDarksword123 I wasn’t shocked when I seen her choose the door to go back to the loser, and that chic with the red shirt that’s sleeping with this dude too, I’ve never seen so much ignorance in one spot, meth heads will stick together they must be from Kentucky 🫠😂
She’s gonna get her kids taken away. Refusing to leave an abusive partner is negligence and they will take your kids away for failure to protect your child.
Yes they will
I don’t feel bad for anyone but the children who have this terrible role model of a mother and father.
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Same
The saddest thing is the kid is probably going to grow up to be like the mom or the father
That makes at least two of us, @RinXLen, considering that the children inevitably suffer the most in situations like this!
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The smile on that "mothers" face, while denying her children are being abused by that person? Makes me physically ill😢
It's so sickening 🤢 to me right now
I caught that too
If you put your man over your kids, you don't deserve to be called a parent. Brandy needs help, she should run away from this punk before he kills her
CPS needs to remove any and all children under the care of these two negligent scumbags.
Or kills her kids- in the least he’s setting them up for a future full of failure. He’s a loser and she doesn’t see it.
And it scares me all the time, hearing stories where a woman ends up dead because of the abuse she endures
Exactly!! The sad thing is most women wait until something serious happens. So sad! No child deserves to be in a home with people like this.
@@ja-miyah_hurryand just as often we hear about their children suffering the same abuse at the hands of the SAME man abusing the mom! They need to do better for their children.
I only feel bad for the kids who don’t have a choice in these situations. How can you put your kids lives in danger because you “love” a man? I know it’s hard to leave an abusive relationship but think about your kids and how they’re being traumatized .
Second edit: 😂
There’s two women fighting over him it is crazy. And the other lady wants to be with him because he “doesn’t hit her” but you know that he hits another woman! It’s only a matter on time before he hits her. My ex hit me, I hit him back. ( don’t think he was expecting that) and I left him. He tried the crying and he will change thing and it didn’t work
This is what I’ll never understand either.
Both women were most likely abused by a male figure in their life either early on or into their teenage years. That's all they know and that's what they'll choose for the rest of their life. It's sad because her children will think that behavior is OK too. It's a neverending cycle. Steve could talk to her tell her ears fell off and say the only person that's going to make the change is you, but in reality, she's never going to, that's just how it is. That guy probably grew up seeing his father or another male "role model" abuse a female in his life and that's why he thinks it's OK. He's learned to be manipulative and to play on her emotions. It's a terrible situation all around.
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I found it really funny how Lacey is ok with him calling other women bitches but when Steve called her stupid she got so offended 😂 right there is proof that it’s ok as long as it’s not done to her.
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That smile on her face as she's describing the abuse is unnerving
I’ve got a hard time feeling bad for girls like this. Too many times we hear about children who’ve been abused because of their mothers lack of self respect and desperation for a man. I dated an abuser and left after 3 years. So it’s not like I don’t know. But I had to find what motivates me to stay alive. It’s disturbing to me that having kids doesn’t motivate her enough to be better.
Choosing a lowlife over her own kids. She's putting not just herself in danger, but also her kids. If she takes him back after this, then I think CPS should get involved because those kids need to be raised in a safe and stable environment.
Alot of today's women are addicted to the drama nice guy comes around and those endorphins aren't hit and woman dumps nice guy...know it lived it
YES! At 22, I married into a *Mormon CULT.* I got out soon after because I saw the way the children were treated. I’d been like a robot, but it broke down my programming. I couldn’t put my future babies in harm’s way. I stole my phone back, called my brother, left my stuff behind, & escaped. It wasn’t easy, & I couldn’t eat or sleep for days, but eventually my brother’s kindness healed me.
Everyone is different. I try not to judge people who stay even when their kids are in danger. But I must admit, it’s hard to stomach when I see it. If we don’t protect them, who will?
If you’re reading this & you’re trapped, believe this: YOU have the power to choose. You’re stronger than you think, more beautiful than you know, & there are RESOURCES out there that will get you out SAFELY. 🤍
She’s just as bad as him! Women can be abusive as well. It’s called a mural fight!
@@Barnabas555Yeah you’re not a nice guy so I doubt that.
Can we please as a society stop having kids with abusive psychopaths?
Trash attracts trash. Water seeks its own level.
As a survivor of DV I didn't know that he was abusive until after I had a child with him. Don't judge.
I agree but some people change after babies he can be the perfect guy the whole relationship then when a baby comes he gets abusive, cheats, etc. never judge a book by its cover.
@@mylifeaslori5629 THIS IS SENSE, NOT JUDGEMENT, SHE KNOWS NOW AND SHE IS PREGNANT, SO, SHE KNOWS AND SHE IS CHOOSING TO GO THERE, SO PLEASE!
@@trulovegirl let’s not try and minimize the abuse that both women on that stage endured. Yes it is common sense from the outside view to leave and protect your kids, but when you’re in the situation and you’re actively being abused not just physically but also mentally and emotionally, it’s harder to see out. A lot of survivors of DV do look back and regret staying and putting up with everything their abusers did. Also you’re being hella disrespectful to the previous commenter for no reason. She made a comment about her experience so idk why you need to speak on it.
This is what narcissistic abuse looks like folks! Protect your children and warn them of these sadistic animals!!!
there's no such thing as narcissistic abuse; abuse from narcissists isn't special in any way. it's just plain old abuse, and not everyone who has npd is an abuser.
@@SloppyxJoeaka “I’m a narcissist and you hurt my feelings” y’all’s inability to see how hard you project is truly astonishing. Imaging trying to gaslight facts 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Like you said, stay away from them !!!
@@SloppyxJoe Cut the BS, Bro.
@@onnie.6815You're absolutely right.
“So he could unalive you and your child?”
Yes 😊
“And you want to be with him..?”
“Yes😊”
Okay girl you deserve it. I hope the kid is taken away so he has a chance at life since she’s trying to throw his life away before he’s even alive!!!
She needs help he has manipulated her
See has no control,he won’t let Steve speak
She is a willing victim
It really hurts that she smiles while telling how he hits her. Like wtf.. deserves so much better and I wish she would open her eyes and do better for herself and her babies
Yeah I'm calling bs on this one.
@@JMatthewTVwhat are you talking about ..
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@@JMatthewTV Well, reality is reality. If you have some personal issue with women because maybe you were "wrongly" accused of something and you feel some type of way.. facts are facts. He lied. He is the aggressor. She even admitted she retaliates. She may be a complete moron and this is coming from a woman who sympathizes with what she has experienced, as my ex husband used to beat the shit out of me. But THIS mother (I'm referring to myself, not her -for any idiot that doesn't understand-) chose her child and never looked back. BUT, THAT lady.. didn't fail a lie detector. She failed her child and for that she is just a scuzzy as he is. Just as dumb as the other idiot bitch who tells herself, I know he will cheat so my defense mechanism is to tell everyone that we aren't "dating" so it isn't foul and it isn't cheating. We only f*** because I'm just a warm hole to put his disgusting d*** in, but I am so insecure that I want his nasty, child & woman beatin', no teeth brushin' ass on top of me. They are all foul. Give credit and discredit where it belongs and where it's due. Otherwise it sounds like a personal problem.
Horrible
I think it’s weird how she’s smiling when she speaks about the abuse and smiles when she said he smacked her ONE YEAR OLD’s hand.
She basically gave him her blessing to put his hands on that one year old.
Thank u for what u do Steve. You're the closest thing to a father some of your guests will ever have. You're a real man!
Unfortunately some of these women look for that in insecure men. They didn’t have that “love” in a father.
This comment hurt because of it’s sad truth. Still a positive statement.
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The 1 thing that pisses me off about women that tolerates abuse and her reason is I love him. In this case, I have no respect for this woman who tolerates this violent sin.
Low-self esteem women: “I LOVE HIM! But I love him so much as long as I tolerate these abusers and abuse my kids, I love being abused by strong tough angry men so much, I want them around.” SMFH! They put their own lives in danger by staying with these thugs! I don’t really understand these women like these two fighting over a pedophile?! If they were my sisters, i would beat their boyfriends with the baseball bat! Some tough love these women have!
All my gears get ground when I see women like this. I'm a woman and I'm well over these stupid ass ones. Letting our side down 👎
I agree 100% I’m supposed to have sympathy for a woman who lets this happen and lets it happen to and in front of her kids plus he’s a sex offender! Idc if the judge called me n said “he didn’t really do it” any whiff of being inappropriate w/a child ur not around my kids scum. If she stays w/him they should remove her babies for their safety cause she’s too stupid to protect them.
She's there to prove she hasn't cheated whilst his side piece is on the fucking stage! 🤦🏻♀️ Both of them idiots
Having kids around this environment is horrible. She doesn't care about her kids.
Wow. She's more there for attention than her kids. Keep an eye out for people like these subordinates.
You kicked me, you punched me, you hit me infront of my 1 year old. But I want to be with you. Very unfortunate for the children
"If he's the only man in town then you gotta date a tree." ☠️
Imagine fighting over a s*x offender
It's like she's working to have her kids taken away.
Pls Steve report them to social services and collect the children a one year child beaten is not safe. The child will be killed by that sex offender
The sex offender deserves to rot.
she doesn't know her self worth at all. shes putting herself and her babies in danger and that's so scary
she’s a pathetic mother for picking a man like this.
I know right if I was in her shoes I'd pick my friends and not go back with a man that's Controlling and Abusive.
She's not a mother at all. If she were, she'd choose to raise her children as a single mother.
That's not a good mother
It’s the parents who put themselves first before their children knowing their significant other is abusive and instead of trying to find a better environment not only for you but your child as well….violence is what you chase. This mindset is scary and who knows when they’ll realize it till it’s too late. All the trauma the child will go through watching daddy beat mommy and mommy beating daddy. So sad, and a sex offender? What other red flags does this woman need to be shown to leave. 💀
Typical sadism right there, it's sad really that some people in this wonderful world of ours can enjoy being abused let alone sexually abused, when I saw the title it was horrific very sad.
Man I don't blame Steve for being pissed all the time with these filthy scum bag people in the world in every country and state. Wish we had more good men and women like Steve and his gang.
What naivety. The only Steve Wilkos you know is the face you see in RUclips videos.
@@drew2fast489True, very true.
There was a time he met with Santa Claus and the two had a shouting match, but you got to miss on how he used to go to other places in the states and help people in their communities.
I agree with you all the way.
You mean masochism. Sadism is enjoying doing harm, Masochism is enjoying being harmed.
@@dingo1666 Never heard of that word before, thanks for the new knowledge friend ;)
CPS needs to enter the chat😩🙏🏾.
The low self-esteem is in unreal
Two women fighting over a sex offender wife beater? I would have never thought that possible!!!
Yeah. The sad thing is the friend and the girl aren't fighting over him. They are fighting because of the man. But that girl and his "girlfriend" or whatever is ridiculous
Her kids need to be taken away from her, if this is how she wants to live her life.
Her smiling all the way through,is sickening.
Some people do not deserve to be parents when they do not have the intelligence to keep kids safe. Exposing them to abuse, adult issues, and yelling. You are lessening their chance of growing into productive secure adults.
If there's ever an update on this situation, I wouldn't be surprised if CPS was called on her for the child abuse being done to her child. The one she's pregnant with in the video is taken away because of him.
Another thing also is that I would believe that he's cheating on both of the women he's sleeping with.
I really hope this triggered that.
He thinks it's manly to say he'll treat a woman like a man. You know you're stronger and can do more damage, so you're just a punk picking on someone smaller than you. That's not manly.
That's beyond not manly. That's what we call 'c-you-next-Tuesday' behavior.
I agree that men should never hit women but no one at all has hitting rights
I feel like I'm on drugs not only watching her smile while she's talking about the horrible abuse but also listening to the fact she wants him back! Is she serious right now??
You're not on drugs, and she really did say that garbage.
Steel-toed boots are literal weapons when they're worn outside the workplace since the steel is meant to protect the wearer's toes from heavy objects and serious injury.
he should’ve been tested on whether or not he committed what he was charged for. especially since she has kids
I kept watching it specifically for that. Disappointing
That’s what I wanted to know. Because that’s a big issue for me. I want to know what exactly he did as well (or at least “allegedly” did). There’s kids involved in this story and if he’s already abusing a 1 year old…he could do more.
She’s literally smiling. She doesn’t want to be saved.
I was thinking the same thing, but she will loose her child to s.serveses because of the vile behaviour because that child will be in the way, what's the bet that he will hurt the child eventually 😮
True love doesn't hurt. All Abuse Is Wrong. Kids come first. Safety first
This just makes me so sad… I was in an abusive relationship in the past and I can almost guarantee you that he’s constantly telling her “oh I’ll change” or promising her the world either that or she actually enjoys the chaos. It’s sick but I remember after I had left that was one of the things I missed🤢mainly because I had no one else and was always in Mom mode I think, I grew up too fast and I feel like that whole relationship just made me feel very childish. Thankfully it’s been 5 years no contact, I’m smarter now, I’m no longer under his “spell” and I’ve learned my lesson; ❤ that whole situation made me stronger too. If you are in an abusive relationship please remember YOU matter and you don’t deserve to be treated like this. 😢
All kids deserve parents
not all parents deserve kids
Brandy and Robert don't deserve to be parents.
And a pack of wolves would be better parents than those two.
How many more times…?
Happy international women's day to Rachelle Wilkos and the women who worked on the Steve Wilkos show!!
Can any woman be more in denial? Sheesh! He kicked her! I don’t care what the reason was! My ex kicked me in the stomach once too, and that’s why he’s now my ex! 😡🔥
Don’t worry about that dirt bag I’m glad u got away and ur living ya best life ✨💯‼️
Both girls on stage: If Daddy issues was a person.
If trauma bond was a person. 😞
So you agree men systemically fail as fathers?
She mustn’t complain about being abused, she chose it. I just pray someone take the kids away to safety
No, she has the right to complain about being abused.
And the kids deserve better than Brandy and Robert.
I was in this exact situation many years ago. It's not easy. They widdle you down, piece by piece. This isn't something that happens over night. They convince you that you're worthless and they're the ONLY ONE who will "love" you.
After I finally left.. the rose colored glasses were gone and I could see how horrific the situation actually was. It's one of the best decisions I've ever made for me and my child. These ppl never change. And I PROMISE YOU, you WILL find someone who loves you completely & wouldn't even so much as THINK of laying a hand on you.
Thank you for making the best decision for yourself, and most importantly, your child.
Women still cant hit either
I can’t stand a weak woman and mother. It’s not far too your kids .
When the adults are screwed up in the head like this who suffers? That's right, the kids... She 100% needs help because he has her brainwashed and the upsetting part is that one day she will be done and by then her kids will be done too because no child should ever be set aside for a man and they do resent it.
What I wanna know is, if he’s a registered sex offender why is he allowed to be around children and why is she choosing nut bag over her children? That’s just messed up. He is responsible for keeping his PO up to date on where he’s living and with whom. She must be covering for him.
It wouldn't surprise me if she is witnessing him $3xu@lly @$$@ult the kids. She's scum if that's the case
This was a trailer park soap opera fo sho, these older grainy looking episodes really feel that way.
I'm not buying this one but for arguments sake let's say it's true... She allows this man to abuse her children and I'm supposed to feel sorry for her? Nah. Negligence is it's own abuse.
He’s going to say something to the wrong woman and she’s going to knock his ass out. There are women out there who don’t put up with this shit! 💯👏🏻 These women on the show should be embarrassed!! Then the blonde, how gross to want someone like this around your children!! And 1yrs old at that! Absolutely sick!! Poor sweet baby. Someone needs to intervene with a CPS report, she’s not leaving him sadly. Everyone needs a best friend like that!💯
And these are the same women who end up crying at the end of a CPS case when their parental rights are terminated. Boo hoo…
In so many ways I feel so sorry for her. Escaping from an abuser is SO hard. Took me 8 years. You have to reach a point in your own head where you realized the abuser has lied, and you CAN survive on your own. Until that happens, you will keep going back 😢
STOP PICKING A PARTNER OVER YOUR KIDS!!!!
I feel really sorry for the kids. Not only do they have to live with someone abusive but a sex offender as well. All because their mom chose a man over them. The friend should get custody of kids
She cares more about the abuser than her children !
Some women love to live in situations like this. They thrive on it and feed it and can't live without the drama
yes they feel like abuse if the only wya someone can show they love them
Right.
I don't think it has much to do with a lack of 'self-esteem'.
It's about ignorance and drama.
It's about believing a scum bag is a prize to fight for.
Because 'i love him'...to hell with the children.
@@madmemadhouseme4885 I think, maybe, they grow up in this and it's all they know.. It's how they think they are supposed to be treated... It's almost like they aren't even who they are they are just a product of a horrible environment
@@Headnotthetail2 I agree with you.. If it is good, they get uncomfortable
SMH. To quote the honorable Judge Lynn Toler, “YOU CAN’T CREATE A STABLE HOUSEHOLD WITH AN *UNSTABLE* DUDE!”
Having a baby is not going to make him change.
Toxic relationship at its finest. Hell, this ain't even a relationship.
It's not even a hook-up with benefits arrangement either.
I won't even refer to it as 'friends with benefits' because they are not friends and there are no benefits to being together.
SHAME ON BOTH OF THEM for putting children in the middle of their emotional crossfire.
Women and men be going through this. Each time you stay in a bad toxic relationship, it gets worse. The significant other doesn't want to change. Then again, there's some that will change. But in this case, I don't see that happening. She definitely picked the wrong door and it's going to be hard for her and her children.
she chose a man over her own kids.. ridiculous
Brandy is just like Kayla in "But I Love Him..." since Kayla chose her perverted BF Levi over her family.
"Lacey:The only thing stopping him from being with me is that baby!
Brandy: He's been coming over and sleeping with me!
Lacey: Well good! Because we're not dating so I don't care." Huh???
the guy in the background " liar 💅...... liar 💅"
I really hope she got away from this dude. This was taped so long ago but I truly hope she’s happy where she is now. Nobody deserves that treatment. This is abuse, narcissistic abuse.
Hopefully the kids were taken to safety.
Hopefully she got some common sense
"If a woman hits a you walk away" that's how guys get abused by women. If the man threatens to leave then the woman claims he raped her, but " walk away" get out of here with that bs man
This is what no self-esteem looks like. She isn't ready to love herself and until then, not her BFF or children will factor into her decisions. Hopefully she can find the strength to leave him and get out of this toxic situation
It’s so sad to see abused women still pick their abuser!
From India 🇮🇳 lots of respect, sir.... you know how to handle things, sir all the best for your future sir
Yeah... that chick who's sleeping with him is bleeding with jealousy.. she wants him badly
It is EMBARRASSING seeing women fight over a "man"
She pissed me off when she went through that door .
She’s no better than he is. Plain and simple. Don’t call her victim. I lost my capability to have children because of an abuser. He had to move out of state.
To see 2 women fighting over such a looser is insane.
I'm so sorry sweety. I was hoping he was rotting in prison. I was told that by a doctor even after I'd had my 1st son. Had to take him n his birth certificate in to prove I'd had a baby. But she could not figure how my body did. But I got lucky n had my 2nd son. But then had to have everything took out when he was 2 months old. Mine was from 2 guys in their 20s raped me when I was 12. Sending you prayers and warm hugs sweety
I really hope someone called CPS on them.. and hopefully she got out
For sure. The friend can't sit around and let those kids suffer.
That boy got red as a apple 🤣😭💀
Women picking men over their kids. 😢
I feel bad For Their Kids
I hope Steve called protective services or reported that her baby would be born living with this monster
He has too he is a mandated reporter
Hilarious the way Steve read the description of the guy on his cue cards.
if she cant leave her violent partner for herself well she should for her children, she wants to moan about what he has done but she wants him back ?? why, get you and your kids as far away from him as you can, your kids deserve better than watching mummy and daddy fight and then the cycle starts again on another generation of thinking this behaviour is normal and ok
Exactly! I lost all sympathy for her when she chose to follow that scumbag out the door at the end. She deserves everything she gets now but the children don’t.
And if that wasn’t all bad enough, he’s also a sex offender…. and she has a young daughter. If you can’t make good decisions and protect your children, then they should be taken away by the authorities.
Where in the hell does Steve find these women that don't care about their own lives? Thats just sad! Look at this dude? My son was bigger than him on his first day of kindergarten!
Side note: that one brunette audience member they zoomed in on multiple times is F I N E, I'm not gay but she is BEAUTIFUL bruh
Her smiling from the get go. Huge red flag. Let's see if I'm wrong...
It's always the children that suffer the most in situations like this!
Girls, saying "because I looOOoove him" is not showing off your best personality trait. You don't look honest, you don't look loyal. Your love will not cure him and what you see is what you get. Put your immature fantasies about your bully away and get honest with yourself. Then you'll know when someone is being honest with you. Guys like this get worse, not better.
Exactly she should be showing loyalty to her children, not that scum bag!
You can be miserable alone. And he is no trophy.
You can tell the girl in the red is desperate for a guy.
Why is she smiling while telling about the abuse, she is an abuser herself and especially not concerned about her children at all. Sad for her kids. She smiled when she was asked if he hurt her child. She is sick. Wipe the smirk off your face woman .
That is so sad, she doesnt have enough respect for herself but so sad that she cant stand up for her kids. What an absolute loser he is,
As a woman I think if a woman is physically attacking a man he SHOULD protect himself. Too many women think it's okay to physically attack men because they aren't supposed to hit them back. I think if they DID hit them back that would be the last time they attacked a man.
Hitting her daughter already. Imagine the new baby
It'll be his "property" and his "right" and she'll let him smh
Her smiling while Steve details the abuse is cringe worthy.
If you are going to say women are equal, you must give equal accountability. They hit eachother, THEY are abusive to eachother. Truth is self defense laws doesn't specify a gender. If we are going to claim women mature quicker than men, are smarter than men, then with great power comes responsibility! You should know better
Yes all of this. It’s like when the woman is abusive it gets overlooked
As a single father, what's really pissing me off, is that girl smirk the whole time. She's a victim of physical abuse, but she's fighting to bring this man back into her children's lives, she's up there laughing like she thinks it's funny, she's protecting this man, she's allowing this man to hit her one year old child, she is literally just as scummy as him. I hope whoever her child's father is gets custody, and takes the kid, and lets the two of those scumbags have each other.
I agree with you. She hits on him and knows he's going to hit back. I feel if she's hitting him she should not but a person can only take so much before doing it back. I seen so many times where they laugh over women beating on men, some leaving black eyes on men and everyone laughs and teases him. Not right at all. If it had been he did it to her all he'll would of broke out. And I agree I hope the real dad takes his babies and plus how's she allowed to be living with a sex offender and have babies in the home. She's as sick
I'm glad to see a stand up man being a real dad.
In the end if she wants to be a door mat/punching bag that's her decision. The only hope is that her child doesn't suffer because of it. Can't win them all Steve but at least you tried.
don’t save her, she don’t wanna be saved. -j cole
She said, she wants to be with her kids... kinda hard to do that when you're dead.
I am a senior citizen. I have NEVER met people like that in my entire life. Where on earth does Steve find these people? To stay with an abusive sex offender just blows me away. The girlfriend probably sleeps with farm animals.Abusive sex offenders don’t change. They don’t become solid citizens. Trying to help this girl is like trying to fix an addict who doesn’t want treatment. She will lose her children.
That’s one hell of a title 💀
I literally read that and said “ what the fuck “ lmaooooo .
And smiles during all of Steve’s questions… unreal. She’s so beaten down and brainwashed I don’t believe she’ll ever get out, she’s an adult, the real tragedy here is the poor children 💔
When she chose his door, all respect for her went out of the window. She needs therapy!!! ASAP!!!! That poor baby is always going to be in the middle of their abusive drama!!!
Also, people who have never lived his type of abuse don’t understand how hard it is to walk away from it. You cannot judge her and call her stupid for making the decision she did. This is the cycle of abuse. At some point she will tire of the constant bs and will leave.
Thank u ♡ as a victim thank u for understanding and being educated about abuse and mental health
IF she lives long enough.
It will also come at the cost of custody of her children.
She's a horrible mother