I feel that as an avoidant attachment, ironically the only people I truly feel comfortable, relaxed and "my best self" around from the beginning are my children. Since little children come to us innately with unconditional and obviously non romantic love and acceptance and with little threat of criticism or judgment (at least while they are still fairly young), I wonder if many other people with an avoidant attachment style find themselves just naturally having a secure attachment style with their own children than they can with other people in their lives or if more of them just tend to repeat the same kind of distant parenting parenting that helped created their own insecure attachment style in the first place?
Speaking of Brene Brown: Isn't it possible to acknowledge one's vulnerability and then, based on that, find the courage not to listen to one's anxiety, but to take it in hand and then do what matches one's values and desires for one's life?
When I try to push through the ick I get very irritated and angry when people try to connect with me. It’s not something I can control and it becomes about being a good person when I leave so I don’t hurt them…
I feel that as an avoidant attachment, ironically the only people I truly feel comfortable, relaxed and "my best self" around from the beginning are my children.
Since little children come to us innately with unconditional and obviously non romantic love and acceptance and with little threat of criticism or judgment (at least while they are still fairly young), I wonder if many other people with an avoidant attachment style find themselves just naturally having a secure attachment style with their own children than they can with other people in their lives or if more of them just tend to repeat the same kind of distant parenting parenting that helped created their own insecure attachment style in the first place?
Speaking of Brene Brown: Isn't it possible to acknowledge one's vulnerability and then, based on that, find the courage not to listen to one's anxiety, but to take it in hand and then do what matches one's values and desires for one's life?
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When I try to push through the ick I get very irritated and angry when people try to connect with me. It’s not something I can control and it becomes about being a good person when I leave so I don’t hurt them…
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But I like Brene Brown 🤣🙌
hahaha all good! I got no beefs!