I've interviewed a lot of people who thrived in Vietnam but in this video I talk to Amanda who's had a tough time transitioning. If you want to get serious about living or moving in Vietnam - it will make you feel more prepared: bvcco.gumroad.com/l/vnsurvival
I don't know who Chris is and how successful he is but it sounds like Amanda and Chris should sit down and have a heart-to-heart conversation about their future in Vietnam. From what I'm hearing, Amanda is not happy and struggling to find a place in Vietnam. I wish this couple best of luck and happiness.
It seems Chris love travelling and being in Vietnam. Amanda give off the vibe of still looking to settle in Vietnam or not even enjoying to be in there.
There're different opportunities for overseas Vietnamese to survive and thrive in Vietnam. Some like Julia and Kavi build their own businesses, and some like Amanda are just behind the scenes helping their husbands run a business. If you listen carefully, she said she could not speak Vietnamese well, so it's hard for her to make friends with the people over there.
Vietnam is not for everyone, especially when Amanda grew up state side. Two completely different cultures/world. There are so many great things and not so many great things in a different country. Case in point, pollution and corruption.
I usually don't comment but this was one of the most honest, raw, and vulnerable interviews I've seen around moving to VN and trying to build a life. Thank you to Amanda & Peter for allowing us to listen in. As a Viet Kieu who has been traveling to vietnam a couple times recently to figure out if I could live part or full time there, this conversation resonated deeply with a lot of the underlying struggles Amanda shared. Esp as someone who doesn't speak vietnamese all too well. I read that among the most important key factors to living a happy life, community is among the top pillars. It sounds like part of the real struggle here is Amanda left her community of friends and family, and hasn't found her tribe in VN yet. I hope she does if she decides to stay and i also hope she can find work that truly inspires her in some way. Wishing you both so much luck and opportunity. We're all just figuring this out ourselves too as we go
Amanda, I commend you for sharing your story, embracing vulnerability, and taking bold steps in life. Despite any negativity or judgment from others, only you know your true happiness and path. Stay true to yourself and take pride in your journey. Happy to be part of your Vietnam community.
Home is where the heart is. After all, she has it all - her love, her happiness, her comfortable life, her upcoming plan of building her own business in Vietnam. Nothing is better than that.
If she has a pure spirit and heart, doing business in CSVN is a worst part! Otherwise, she has to feed the devil and at the end, she will be ending like…!
@@ChinhmyHo "doing business in CSVN is a worst part!" - According IMF, Vietnam’s gross domestic product is expected to expand 6% this year 2024, up from 5% in 2023 - a pace that would make it among Asia’s fastest growing economies.
14:08 “trying to make more friends” I have been in Asia for years now and as a Westerner I don’t think is possible to have the same type of friendship one has in the West with people. Asia is just too different and the culture is too different as well. Same goes for marriage, the expectation of Asian women when marrying a foreigner is for him to lift her family out of poverty and you hear and see all these Asia meets West love stories that end in disaster. As a man I ask: do u actually need friends? Do you actually need love? As a man I choose respect and success over friendship and/or love. She does seem to be struggling a lot in Vietnam and she ain’t happy. She is doing it more for her husband who stumble upon business opportunities and that it’s great and noble from her side. I hope her husnabd is aware of her effort and doesn’t take her for granted and if he finds financial success and then he in return must provide a good life for her. For people from the USA life outside the USA is not easy. The culture the way of life and their overall society in the USA is truly different from Vietnam and or other countries. I was also in Southern Cali and I am happy I am out and never to come back. Good luck to her and u wish her a happy marriage.
Awesome interview! I can relate so much to her in different circumstances, especially about the choices she made and her semi regrets. I could have listened to Amanda talk about her current and past life and her struggles with moving to vietnam for hours
I like her self awareness. But her timidness and stubborness has not allowed her to enjoy the wonderful life she has been blessed with. Go out and learn your heritage, socialize with the people, make a couple of friends, work on yourself, and then you will be happy.
I think she feels she has zero in common wit the locals. I am a Westerner and I have been in South East Asia for many years. I can’t live in the West. But I have also accepted that friendships and most important of all “relationships” are too different in Asia compared to the West. I am ok with that now…. But Amanda is clearly struggling like most people would.
Huge credit to Amanda for riding out this season in her life. Sounds like she’s choosing commitment and love right now. Must be hard to be in conflict with what you want versus what your life partner wants. This is really refreshing and encouraging to hear. Wishing her and Chris the best.
Love these Viet kieu interviews about moving to vietnam not just showing the good but the bad/struggles as well which is more realistic., Its not all sunshine and rainbows like everyone thinks!
11:06 “being in a place you feel you are not connected. “ I have heard this from so many people … I have never felt connected to any place and that has made me leave my continent and come to South East Asia where I feel “better” but I see a lot of people struggling with this feeling of “not belonging” People have asked me why I love Asia and I always give the same answer: “Because I Asia I will always be considered an “outsider”. “
As long as you have the eager to learn about the culture, the language and create connections with the local Vietnamese, i believe you will feel much more connected. I got a Canadian friend, she loves Vietnam and she sold all of her assets to move here, for me she's not an ousider at all because she shares the same feeling and spirit with me of being a Vietnamese
Life is short. Time flies by. Follow your heart and find your dreams. You won't regret later. When you are 80 walking with a walking can, how far can you go? And how many dreams left do you have?
Unfortunately, that's not her dream...it's Chris's dream. His dream to travel and live in VN. When you have such imbalances, it usually won't last, unfortunately.
@@proud4373doesn't sounded like she followed her heart. She explicitly said she is there because of Chris. She is basically dependent on Chris. She mentioned taking out loans. Maybe some partners are fine with that, but she doesn't appear to be happy with it. Personally, I wouldn't want to be so dependent on someone either...need to be more equal.
Thanks for posting this video. I can relate to Amanda. I live in the San Francisco Bay Area. I am Filipino American who is married to a Vietnamese wife who lives in Phan Thiet. I often think about pulling the trigger on moving from SF to Saigon or Phan Thiet. And then I think about what would it feel like to move to Vietnam including the lifestyle. I just got back from Saigon last Saturday on July 13th. Thanks @brokethehavit for posting and keeping it real on your channel. Your videos are really helpful as I will think about making the transition to Vietnam or staying here in the Bay Area.
I recently transplanted to OC. In my bubble many Californians haven't ever left CA because they are so comfortable here. I came from a major metro area that had lots of people moving elsewhere to experience life away from home. It's an interesting contrast. One thing about that comfort could be that it can be difficult to leave it behind for some people.
Californians always go back to California sooner or later when they have a choice. The living environment, especially in Southern CA, is one of the bests.
According to her statement... I was unhappy and when I was offered to travel the world from a man that she only knew for a short time during covid shutdown. Well, that's exactly what I always wanted (no kidding I wonder whom wouldn't like that). If things go wrong, I can always come back to Kalifornia, this would be reference to her parent place. Nothing is wrong with it nor it my problem, I just feel sorry for the parent.
Their story is similar to a Canadian YT couple. The guy is white, girl is half-Filipina/ white. They dated for a short while in Canada. Covid happened & girl moved in with the guy. They got married. Then around a year after, they quit their jobs to travel (and became vloggers). They decided to stay in PH 🇵🇭 when PH finally opened to tourism/ foreigners. They travelled around & vlogged, then settled in one area/ city. The girl was ~20 yrs younger than the guy. They had different interests. Ending: they are now in the process of divorce. (needs 1 year of separation before filing, accdg to Canadian law or so they said). They now live separately & have separate vlogs. Guy has found another GF, also 20 yrs younger. Girl has found a Filipino BF, close to her age & who has similar interests. They (Canadian ex-couple) still both live in PH. That said, I wish all the best to Amanda and her husband, both individually and as a couple.
I think Chris successfully pinpointed the elephant in the room here. Moving to Vietnam is just the facade, the deep down underlying issue is Amanda not having her own self image and contribution.
She expects to compete and make money and contribute to the household like most western women. In Asia a lot of women would be happy with a successful husband that supports the family. It’s a Western mentality vs Asian mentality. Yes she is Asian but raised in Southern Cali.
@@sebastianniqvist3144 Trong đại biểu quốc hội, trường học, luật và y tế ở đất nước CSVN ta thiếu gì phụ nữ thành đạt hơn đàn ông. Bạn khinh thường phụ nữ CSVN ta như thế! Ngay cả trong quân đội, rất nhiều cấp tá tướng phụ nữ nha. Kg phải là bạn kém quá rồi vơ đũa cả nắm nha.
@@BeN-rs6yf nothing wrong and that’s the way of thinking in modern times. They problem is that she wants to do it in USA and her husband in Vietnam so that the conflict. Also if they want kids and she wants do work and have a successful career at the same time that can be a challenge too
@@ChinhmyHo thanks for the poem mate… I didn’t understand a single word even though I used Google translate… Translation: “In parliament deputies, schools, Law and health in our Vietnamese country lacks What a woman. You despise women Our CSVN is like that! Even in the army Team, many female generals. Kg must be too poor friend and grab chopsticks Five.”
Moving, especially to another country, can be extremely hard when you moved from a place you felt that is your home. I think people who work out in other countries or places can cut ties easier for whatever reason. I think most people can easily feel like she does even being single. Even being married, if one partner seems to be thriving and the other feels left out, it can be mentally straining and self doubt can alter reality. But thank you Peter for showing this side of human emotion and experience and I wish them the best, and you too of course!
I don't think she is going to last in Vietnam. I've been in a similiar situation before and you hit a breaking point and end up leaving no matter what.
She is in a difficult position mentally. Her personality is OK, she was raised in Cali - she is raw and honest though, which is not a usual trait there. This woman has a soul. She will be happier in 10 years, when she realizes less control will make her happier. If her partner is the ONE, she will calm down eventually. If he is not the ONE, Yeah, just forget it… I have the experience that TO GIVE support and love to the other one, that is the most we can do for each other. People are fd up because they think a certain income / house/ car will make them happy. That is true when you do not have the basics. You can’t fill the void (speaking of your soul) with material things. The wealthiest people I knew were some of the most fd up people. Making money - keepingBUSY is many times basically running away from trauma. I hope this couple will find their “ShangriLa” together.
Many years ago I remember a set of big "picture books" at a mall. When opening the book all one could see were dots of all colors. If one stared into the dots just the right way a beautiful 3D image appeared. Once you saw it you always saw it. But some people could never see it. Vietnam is a bit like that. Many come and see chaos. But looking at it the right way you see a country of interesting beautiful people full of culture with awesome sense of humor. There is no right or wrong about seeing the beauty or not. I am from NYC living here in Vietnam 30 years. I really love being here never bored even at 70 years of age. The lady being interviewed is a delightful person but is struggling to find herself here. The question now is whether she can come to see the beautiful image or learn to cope otherwise assuming the husband is not ready to return to the US. Assuming she still wants to stay with her husband then my suggestion is to keep trying to see the beautiful side of the image of Vietnam. In addition... her husband needs to heed her own needs and ensure that she has the ability to travel back to California at reasonable intervals preferably with a home base or apartment of their own there.
I have lot of sympathy for Amanda, not that easy to transition into a new life. But sure you will work out eventually if you want to. So many American companies in Saigon. Many Vietnamese American run successful start-ups in Vietnam you can reach out to make a start with them
I think Amanda should join some womans club in Vietnam to feel more apart of it. This can be in something she would like to do like life coaching. There are many clubs in Vietnam where you can find like minded people. Vietnam forces you to face your demons but in this way also helps you grow and discover yourself. There are many challenges I overcame in myself in Vietnam simply due to necessity and not being in a all supportive environment.
Amanda learn VN like that you can connect with the people ... And do ... Jump in the water (you are already in) and ask Chris for a hand ... Don't think twist ...
I lost count how many times "Like" was said in the conversation 😂 I've seen her briefly in Chris's vlogs but she was camera shy.... she's so gorgeous tho 😁
Wow! Amanda is amazing! Take care of yourself, because you truly rushed into a relationship without knowing what you were getting into. Being unhappy (not talking about being content) is a slow way of dying…don’t give up on your dreams, but drop the dead weight. Best wishes to whatever you decide to do and where you will end up in the end. Because it won’t be a “might”…
To be a good life coach, i think you could first lead by example and not falling into the same behaviors you mentioned that you are trying to avoid. Lots of people have similiar issues that require a first hand experience. By demonstrating your success, which i know you can do, you can help a lot more people. Cheers
I was just thinking of this. It sounds like she doesn't have her life figured out and I don't know how are you going to help people who fall into the same situation?
It is actually a privilege, challenge, and adventure to be able travel, explore, discover, live/work in other countries, and to learn. Was discussing this with a friend from Asia who was invited to the USA for work, barely spoke English, but was successful at his job and eventually obtained another univ degree, then started his own firm. 15 years later returned to Asia because of the opportunities. The USA was very tough, but it would have been impossible to have succeeded without a positive attitude along with an ambition to learn and develop community/friendships. Language can be learned if someone chooses to...it does not have to be a race...relax... Can actually communicate without understanding a language .. Interestingly, when someone returns "home" they might actually feel like a stranger in a strange land... Do not be an expat on Holiday!
@@tagodain Real local Vietnamese will follow husband and be more than happy he found success. That’s the difference with Western women. I understand if she had a 300K job in tech but 60K in Souther Cali is nothing. what is he doing in Vietnam? I knew he was teaching but what else is he doing that everybody says it’s an empire?
@@sebastianniqvist3144I think he was interviewed on this channel a few weeks ago? He was a public school teacher in the US - if that's her husband. He has YT and has an online business teaching English, I think.
Orange County, CA can be very toxic and is expensive for the normal person. People trying to flex their money to stand out, but the money will eventually run out. Dating is already like being on a job interview. She made the right decision for her mental health.
If you think OC is bad with people flexing, Saigon is 1000x worse. More people with new money who are flexing every chance they get. Even people who make $300 a month buy a iPhone 15 pro to flex
I am from Toronto. I thought I would backpack for a year. But I couldn't bring myself to go back to Canada. Since then I've lived in HK, Bangkok, KL, Singapore. And been in Asia for 12 years. Best decision ever. I understand how she feels.
Same here been in Vietnam for years haven’t been back to Toronto in a long time and don’t really have the urge to go. Checked out the cost of hotels in Toronto last year and it was over 300 a night for a Holiday Inn Express . Apparently inflation is really bad and not likely I could afford to visit , would rather spend the money going somewhere interesting and live 5 stars .
Peter, would you try interviewing Fred Le? He made the Empathizer Documentary. Lived in VN for many years but ultimately decided to move back to LA. The documentary was really great and told stories about Viet Kieu. Though he's done a podcast before, I think you could highlight some things that he hasn't shared in that podcast.
18:00 That’s the challenge with western mentality. She has been taught to work and be independent while being a wife. Asian women get married and follow their husband to other countries. Many Viet Kieus go to Vietnam to meet girls, it’s an open secret and everybody knows that. These Viet Kieus meet girls and many times they take them back to USA, Canada or Australia. These Asian women follow and you can see the difference in the thinking with Amanda. I can say that many Vietnamese girls would like to be in her position and let the man take care of all financial things but of course is a different mentality. It’s clear to the naked eye she is struggling. I hope things improve.
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This seemed like a counseling session, she clearly does not want to be there and she is trying to convince herself that she would be happy to stay but yet has regrets of coming smh… and for all things to be, a life coach?
It is too good for her to be able to go back VN and live there. You be the judge, but the government there is watching you every moves and the wrong move could get you into arbitrary detain. I hope you don’t have to move back to America. Good luck!
this lady needs to wake up and needs to think by moving to vietnam is truly good for her. every decisions, every finance and budget is provided by her husband is not so smart. she needs to be financial indepence in order to even her relationship with her husband. now, she is basically too much depedent on chris for why she is ending up in vietnam.
. You can try living in Vietnam, but don't rush to decide to live forever. At a certain age, may be you will see America as the most worth living place. Good luck. . I'm an 80 year old man.
Lots of Asians are returning to their own country and roots. I'm Canadian Chinese born and raised. Feel like living in South east Asia for lower cost of living. Canada is no longer affordable. Housing market is insane.
Her husband is extremely selfish. He can’t even notice his own wife is unhappy because he’s too busy growing his business. Or he does know but he doesn’t care. I wonder what his reaction to this video would be, watching the clips where she pretty explicitly says being in Vietnam is making her grow apart from her own husband. I’m guessing the odds of them getting divorced in the next five years is 90%
@@DewTime Her husband speaks Vietnamese, according to the video. He had actually completed his internship at some university in Vietnam. It obviously takes time for her to adapt to the new life.
Amanda, your are awesome as a traditional supportive wife. To me, Vietnam isn't a pleasant place. The only place worth giving up America's money opportunity is Thailand.
I feel for her. The question is would he ever give up everything to be with her in America. This sounds like a beginning of a love story, where she gives up everything, to find out Chris is selfish and cheating on her, leaves him and meets a awesome guys who puts her first. Chris wants her back , but she has moved on. Haha😂
She’s a life coach, but can’t even figure out her own life and seems unhappy in VN. There’s a a saying “ whenever you go, there you are.” Meaning if you’re unhappy, moving to a new place won’t solve your problems. Alternatively, a happy person can adapt and be good wherever they are.
I think it’s a habit that she has subconsciously learned from peers/colleagues or the environment she grew up in. Beyond that she is very articulate, interesting and intelligent 😊
Sounds like it’s time to have a visit home and see how you feel. Sounds like you guys lived outside your means with travel debt, probably a good idea to get that sorted via USD income, time to have a 50/50 relationship Chris, don’t loose your good girl over some small chance you make money via only course. Also there is too many people giving life advice with little experience. It’s a quick buck way to think and most likely with blow up in your face. Wish you both the best.
Doesn't sound like Amanda and Chris are equal partners in their relationship. Chris appears to be a dominant partner and gets what he wants in this relationship. Hope she finds happiness either with or without Chris. If he truly values her, he should also compromise rather than expecting her to always accommodate him. Soon, it will be too late when she has enough.
There is no equal partnership in a marriage in the literal way. Not financially, not in the sense of physical power, not in the sense of mental power, etc. one is always stronger somehow than the other. The thing that keeps it together is that BOTH believe their life would be worse without the other one AND they are generally happier together than alone. Briefly.
@flowwwtube3357 Agreed on physical and financial imbalances that often exist in marriages. But, if either spouse perceived they are not valued or treated like they deserved, I don't see how they can rationalize that staying together is better for them?
It is my personal opinion that Viet Kieu should not move back to Viet Nam permanently unless s/he had financially made it in foreign lands and willing to bring resources and new ideas into Viet Nam, contributing to its growth. Otherwise, you're a failure in foreign lands and now coming back to Viet Nam just to leech off of it.
13:40 I seriously don’t understand what’s the issue with learning the language of your ancestors. In LA I met quite a number of Koreans that didn’t even wanted to tell me their Korean name. They would say I am American and I only speak English and of course that didn’t even want to be heard speaking Korean. I really couldn’t understand why… I speak the language of my ancestors and English too and I’ve learn a bit of other languages too. Seriously what’s the problem with learning the language of your family? I don’t understand why Asian Americans are so reluctant. The challenge with Vietnamese language is that just like Chinese and Thai and many other Asian languages it’s a “tonal” language and pronunciation is so difficult. There are some Westerners that can master Chinese and there is an American guy in Vietnam Phuc Map who can speak Vietnamese fluently and that is a true achievement. Tonal languages are to me the hardest to learn and yes learning a language is useful. If she can get the tones right then that is already more than 90% of the battle won.
There are a lot of Asian Americans/ Asian Europeans who have "self hate". It's usually among the 1st generation/ children of immigrants. They try to shed their Asian-ness and be more white. Peter (the interviewer) also experienced this, as he's said in his other vids. He's said that when he was younger, he didn't want to speak Viet outside of his home, not wanting to bring Asian smelly food for lunch, etc. Some other common things among men - becoming more gangsta. Among women, it's blonde hair, eyelid surgery, nose lift or boob job, etc. The series "Fresh off the boat" delves into this. The channel of Fung Bros also talk about self hate, aside from other issues.
@@AmandaMyTan hey it’s actually you who replied!!!! Hey I just arrived in Saigon and I am going crazy in a good way with all the madness and the cool people around. I am looking for a place to live now. I know your building I visited a friend there and around your building it’s a very local environment. Your place is fantastic. There is expat, Viet Kieu, Viet networking session every Thursday and it’s sustenten “DA PLACE” to go to network.
Learn how to invest in the stock market if you want to invest your time to make money. Don’t waste your time to explore other businesses when you at the middle age unless you have your own invention.
2:56 Chinese have communities in every country in South East Asia and now the world. In Asia in particular they are the business elite and although they are the minority in numbers they usually control the biggest part of the economy. In Vietnam the also had the biggest control of the economy. I just löve these “klickz” of people who unite, seize the whole economy and make everybody work for them for peanuts.
Chinese control the Vietnamese economy? in Vietnam Catholics,christian and Chinese cannot participate in politics and the military (at high levels).In countries like China or Vietnam, don't expect there to be a force with higher power than the government, what you say is ridiculous
@@quangphuoctran7934 Hoa = Chinese people From the late 19th century, the Hoa played a leading role in Vietnam's private business sector prior to the Fall of Saigon in 1975. They were a well-established commercial middle class ethnic group that made up a disproportionately high percentage of Vietnam's upper class.[6] Despite their small numbers, the Hoa were disproportionately dominant in the Vietnamese economy having started an estimated 70 to 80 percent of pre-fall Saigon's privately owned and operated businesses.
@@sebastianniqvist3144they worked as middlemen for Amerikkkan and French empire to oppress locals. They are just like every other ethnic groups. nothing special about them
@@quangphuoctran7934 hahaha. Check the chinese fdi and investment projects in vietnam. Actually they have your special economic zones leased for 99 years.
I've interviewed a lot of people who thrived in Vietnam but in this video I talk to Amanda who's had a tough time transitioning. If you want to get serious about living or moving in Vietnam - it will make you feel more prepared: bvcco.gumroad.com/l/vnsurvival
Where do you find all these people to interview? 😊
@@brokethehabit its good to get both sides
this was hard to watch...she needs to talk to a professional to work on internal issues
@@ghplatt welcome to the Wall. The Wall does not forgive, Brothers.
I don't know who Chris is and how successful he is but it sounds like Amanda and Chris should sit down and have a heart-to-heart conversation about their future in Vietnam. From what I'm hearing, Amanda is not happy and struggling to find a place in Vietnam. I wish this couple best of luck and happiness.
It seems Chris love travelling and being in Vietnam. Amanda give off the vibe of still looking to settle in Vietnam or not even enjoying to be in there.
There're different opportunities for overseas Vietnamese to survive and thrive in Vietnam. Some like Julia and Kavi build their own businesses, and some like Amanda are just behind the scenes helping their husbands run a business. If you listen carefully, she said she could not speak Vietnamese well, so it's hard for her to make friends with the people over there.
Before she has enough and leaves him. If the situation is reversed, Chris wouldn't be happy either.
Why?
Vietnam is not for everyone, especially when Amanda grew up state side. Two completely different cultures/world. There are so many great things and not so many great things in a different country. Case in point, pollution and corruption.
I usually don't comment but this was one of the most honest, raw, and vulnerable interviews I've seen around moving to VN and trying to build a life. Thank you to Amanda & Peter for allowing us to listen in. As a Viet Kieu who has been traveling to vietnam a couple times recently to figure out if I could live part or full time there, this conversation resonated deeply with a lot of the underlying struggles Amanda shared. Esp as someone who doesn't speak vietnamese all too well. I read that among the most important key factors to living a happy life, community is among the top pillars. It sounds like part of the real struggle here is Amanda left her community of friends and family, and hasn't found her tribe in VN yet. I hope she does if she decides to stay and i also hope she can find work that truly inspires her in some way. Wishing you both so much luck and opportunity. We're all just figuring this out ourselves too as we go
Amanda, I commend you for sharing your story, embracing vulnerability, and taking bold steps in life. Despite any negativity or judgment from others, only you know your true happiness and path. Stay true to yourself and take pride in your journey. Happy to be part of your Vietnam community.
Thanks, man. Love you, bro~
Home is where the heart is. After all, she has it all - her love, her happiness, her comfortable life, her upcoming plan of building her own business in Vietnam. Nothing is better than that.
If she has a pure spirit and heart, doing business in CSVN is a worst part! Otherwise, she has to feed the devil and at the end, she will be ending like…!
@@ChinhmyHo "doing business in CSVN is a worst part!" - According IMF, Vietnam’s gross domestic product is expected to expand 6% this year 2024, up from 5% in 2023 - a pace that would make it among Asia’s fastest growing economies.
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@@ChinhmyHo It's said silly people say silly things. Your comment clearly said it all.
14:08 “trying to make more friends”
I have been in Asia for years now and as a Westerner I don’t think is possible to have the same type of friendship one has in the West with people.
Asia is just too different and the culture is too different as well.
Same goes for marriage, the expectation of Asian women when marrying a foreigner is for him to lift her family out of poverty and you hear and see all these Asia meets West love stories that end in disaster.
As a man I ask: do u actually need friends? Do you actually need love?
As a man I choose respect and success over friendship and/or love.
She does seem to be struggling a lot in Vietnam and she ain’t happy. She is doing it more for her husband who stumble upon business opportunities and that it’s great and noble from her side. I hope her husnabd is aware of her effort and doesn’t take her for granted and if he finds financial success and then he in return must provide a good life for her.
For people from the USA life outside the USA is not easy. The culture the way of life and their overall society in the USA is truly different from Vietnam and or other countries. I was also in Southern Cali and I am happy I am out and never to come back. Good luck to her and u wish her a happy marriage.
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Awesome interview! I can relate so much to her in different circumstances, especially about the choices she made and her semi regrets. I could have listened to Amanda talk about her current and past life and her struggles with moving to vietnam for hours
I like her self awareness. But her timidness and stubborness has not allowed her to enjoy the wonderful life she has been blessed with. Go out and learn your heritage, socialize with the people, make a couple of friends, work on yourself, and then you will be happy.
I think she feels she has zero in common wit the locals.
I am a Westerner and I have been in South East Asia for many years. I can’t live in the West. But I have also accepted that friendships and most important of all “relationships” are too different in Asia compared to the West. I am ok with that now…. But Amanda is clearly struggling like most people would.
Huge credit to Amanda for riding out this season in her life. Sounds like she’s choosing commitment and love right now. Must be hard to be in conflict with what you want versus what your life partner wants. This is really refreshing and encouraging to hear. Wishing her and Chris the best.
Love these Viet kieu interviews about moving to vietnam not just showing the good but the bad/struggles as well which is more realistic., Its not all sunshine and rainbows like everyone thinks!
11:06 “being in a place you feel you are not connected. “
I have heard this from so many people …
I have never felt connected to any place and that has made me leave my continent and come to South East Asia where I feel “better” but I see a lot of people struggling with this feeling of “not belonging”
People have asked me why I love Asia and I always give the same answer: “Because I Asia I will always be considered an “outsider”. “
As long as you have the eager to learn about the culture, the language and create connections with the local Vietnamese, i believe you will feel much more connected. I got a Canadian friend, she loves Vietnam and she sold all of her assets to move here, for me she's not an ousider at all because she shares the same feeling and spirit with me of being a Vietnamese
@@_llv22 is she Viet Kieu or w4sp ?
@@sebastianniqvist3144 she's a Canadian born in Quebec
Life is short. Time flies by. Follow your heart and find your dreams. You won't regret later. When you are 80 walking with a walking can, how far can you go? And how many dreams left do you have?
Unfortunately, that's not her dream...it's Chris's dream. His dream to travel and live in VN. When you have such imbalances, it usually won't last, unfortunately.
@@gopher4life1 ???
@@gopher4life1 She has followed her heart, and they are still together.
@@proud4373doesn't sounded like she followed her heart. She explicitly said she is there because of Chris. She is basically dependent on Chris. She mentioned taking out loans. Maybe some partners are fine with that, but she doesn't appear to be happy with it. Personally, I wouldn't want to be so dependent on someone either...need to be more equal.
@@gopher4life1"doesn't sounded like she followed her heart"?? Have you watched the entire video?
Amanda must built her own community to take off. Seems like there is a competition between Chris and Amanda.
Thanks for posting this video. I can relate to Amanda. I live in the San Francisco Bay Area. I am Filipino American who is married to a Vietnamese wife who lives in Phan Thiet. I often think about pulling the trigger on moving from SF to Saigon or Phan Thiet. And then I think about what would it feel like to move to Vietnam including the lifestyle. I just got back from Saigon last Saturday on July 13th. Thanks @brokethehavit for posting and keeping it real on your channel. Your videos are really helpful as I will think about making the transition to Vietnam or staying here in the Bay Area.
Is your wife faithful ?
Being apart opens the doors to extramarital affairs.
I recently transplanted to OC. In my bubble many Californians haven't ever left CA because they are so comfortable here. I came from a major metro area that had lots of people moving elsewhere to experience life away from home. It's an interesting contrast. One thing about that comfort could be that it can be difficult to leave it behind for some people.
Californians always go back to California sooner or later when they have a choice. The living environment, especially in Southern CA, is one of the bests.
@@tagodain Lay off! SoCal is a living hell!
@@HanzBergman You sound like you should spend less time on the internet and more time outside interacting with people, i.e. out of touch.
@@laughter95 That will not be in Cali that `s sure I`m from Europe by the way not american
@@laughter95 What is "OC"? Thank you.
According to her statement... I was unhappy and when I was offered to travel the world from a man that she only knew for a short time during covid shutdown. Well, that's exactly what I always wanted (no kidding I wonder whom wouldn't like that). If things go wrong, I can always come back to Kalifornia, this would be reference to her parent place. Nothing is wrong with it nor it my problem, I just feel sorry for the parent.
Their story is similar to a Canadian YT couple. The guy is white, girl is half-Filipina/ white. They dated for a short while in Canada. Covid happened & girl moved in with the guy. They got married.
Then around a year after, they quit their jobs to travel (and became vloggers). They decided to stay in PH 🇵🇭 when PH finally opened to tourism/ foreigners. They travelled around & vlogged, then settled in one area/ city. The girl was ~20 yrs younger than the guy. They had different interests.
Ending: they are now in the process of divorce. (needs 1 year of separation before filing, accdg to Canadian law or so they said). They now live separately & have separate vlogs. Guy has found another GF, also 20 yrs younger. Girl has found a Filipino BF, close to her age & who has similar interests. They (Canadian ex-couple) still both live in PH.
That said, I wish all the best to Amanda and her husband, both individually and as a couple.
I think Chris successfully pinpointed the elephant in the room here. Moving to Vietnam is just the facade, the deep down underlying issue is Amanda not having her own self image and contribution.
She expects to compete and make money and contribute to the household like most western women.
In Asia a lot of women would be happy with a successful husband that supports the family.
It’s a Western mentality vs Asian mentality.
Yes she is Asian but raised in Southern Cali.
What is wrong if she wants to be financially independant ?
@@sebastianniqvist3144
Trong đại biểu quốc hội, trường học, luật và y tế ở đất nước CSVN ta thiếu gì phụ nữ thành đạt hơn đàn ông. Bạn khinh thường phụ nữ CSVN ta như thế! Ngay cả trong quân đội, rất nhiều cấp tá tướng phụ nữ nha.
Kg phải là bạn kém quá rồi vơ đũa cả nắm nha.
@@BeN-rs6yf nothing wrong and that’s the way of thinking in modern times. They problem is that she wants to do it in USA and her husband in Vietnam so that the conflict.
Also if they want kids and she wants do work and have a successful career at the same time that can be a challenge too
@@ChinhmyHo thanks for the poem mate… I didn’t understand a single word even though I used Google translate…
Translation:
“In parliament deputies, schools,
Law and health in our Vietnamese country lacks
What a woman. You despise women
Our CSVN is like that! Even in the army
Team, many female generals.
Kg must be too poor friend and grab chopsticks
Five.”
you are putting out so much content so fast! so many people! yes I will move to Vietnam when I retire in 6 years!
Moving, especially to another country, can be extremely hard when you moved from a place you felt that is your home. I think people who work out in other countries or places can cut ties easier for whatever reason. I think most people can easily feel like she does even being single. Even being married, if one partner seems to be thriving and the other feels left out, it can be mentally straining and self doubt can alter reality. But thank you Peter for showing this side of human emotion and experience and I wish them the best, and you too of course!
I don't think she is going to last in Vietnam. I've been in a similiar situation before and you hit a breaking point and end up leaving no matter what.
She does loook unhappy but if she leaves her marriage won’t survive because her husband seeems to be happy in Asia.
It’s so obvious; she’s just coping for the sake of love.
I agree, Amanda does not look and sound Happy.
She is in a difficult position mentally. Her personality is OK, she was raised in Cali - she is raw and honest though, which is not a usual trait there. This woman has a soul. She will be happier in 10 years, when she realizes less control will make her happier. If her partner is the ONE, she will calm down eventually. If he is not the ONE, Yeah, just forget it… I have the experience that TO GIVE support and love to the other one, that is the most we can do for each other. People are fd up because they think a certain income / house/ car will make them happy. That is true when you do not have the basics. You can’t fill the void (speaking of your soul) with material things. The wealthiest people I knew were some of the most fd up people. Making money - keepingBUSY is many times basically running away from trauma. I hope this couple will find their “ShangriLa” together.
Many years ago I remember a set of big "picture books" at a mall. When opening the book all one could see were dots of all colors. If one stared into the dots just the right way a beautiful 3D image appeared. Once you saw it you always saw it. But some people could never see it. Vietnam is a bit like that. Many come and see chaos. But looking at it the right way you see a country of interesting beautiful people full of culture with awesome sense of humor. There is no right or wrong about seeing the beauty or not. I am from NYC living here in Vietnam 30 years. I really love being here never bored even at 70 years of age. The lady being interviewed is a delightful person but is struggling to find herself here. The question now is whether she can come to see the beautiful image or learn to cope otherwise assuming the husband is not ready to return to the US. Assuming she still wants to stay with her husband then my suggestion is to keep trying to see the beautiful side of the image of Vietnam. In addition... her husband needs to heed her own needs and ensure that she has the ability to travel back to California at reasonable intervals preferably with a home base or apartment of their own there.
I have lot of sympathy for Amanda, not that easy to transition into a new life. But sure you will work out eventually if you want to. So many American companies in Saigon.
Many Vietnamese American run successful start-ups in Vietnam you can reach out to make a start with them
Good for you for taking a leap of faith and moving to a country out of your comfort zone. You did it for love.
I think Amanda should join some womans club in Vietnam to feel more apart of it. This can be in something she would like to do like life coaching. There are many clubs in Vietnam where you can find like minded people. Vietnam forces you to face your demons but in this way also helps you grow and discover yourself. There are many challenges I overcame in myself in Vietnam simply due to necessity and not being in a all supportive environment.
Amanda learn VN like that you can connect with the people ... And do ... Jump in the water (you are already in) and ask Chris for a hand ... Don't think twist ...
I lost count how many times "Like" was said in the conversation 😂
I've seen her briefly in Chris's vlogs but she was camera shy.... she's so gorgeous tho 😁
Wow! Amanda is amazing! Take care of yourself, because you truly rushed into a relationship without knowing what you were getting into. Being unhappy (not talking about being content) is a slow way of dying…don’t give up on your dreams, but drop the dead weight. Best wishes to whatever you decide to do and where you will end up in the end. Because it won’t be a “might”…
She likes "like"
Life is short Amanda! Do what makes YOU happy. Sending you good vibes. =)
I continue to really enjoy your interviews. Lots of interesting, different experiences.
To be a good life coach, i think you could first lead by example and not falling into the same behaviors you mentioned that you are trying to avoid. Lots of people have similiar issues that require a first hand experience. By demonstrating your success, which i know you can do, you can help a lot more people. Cheers
Amen to that!!!!
I was just thinking of this. It sounds like she doesn't have her life figured out and I don't know how are you going to help people who fall into the same situation?
@@ibuyufo to me Life Coaches are modern day Snake Oil salesmen…
It is actually a privilege, challenge, and adventure to be able travel, explore, discover, live/work in other countries, and to learn. Was discussing this with a friend from Asia who was invited to the USA for work, barely spoke English, but was successful at his job and eventually obtained another univ degree, then started his own firm.
15 years later returned to Asia because of the opportunities. The USA was very tough, but it would have been impossible to have succeeded without a positive attitude along with an ambition to learn and develop community/friendships.
Language can be learned if someone chooses to...it does not have to be a race...relax... Can actually communicate without understanding a language ..
Interestingly, when someone returns "home" they might actually feel like a stranger in a strange land...
Do not be an expat on Holiday!
I wonder how her husband Chris will react to this interview …
Look like Chris is making his empire in VN, and if Amanda won’t submit to his will, I think they will go separate ways 😢
@@tagodain
Real local Vietnamese will follow husband and be more than happy he found success.
That’s the difference with Western women.
I understand if she had a 300K job in tech but 60K in Souther Cali is nothing.
what is he doing in Vietnam? I knew he was teaching but what else is he doing that everybody says it’s an empire?
@@sebastianniqvist3144I think he was interviewed on this channel a few weeks ago? He was a public school teacher in the US - if that's her husband. He has YT and has an online business teaching English, I think.
Finally! Someone who has a similar ethnic background as I do.
Does your profile pic distinguish that you are Chinese Canadian? If so I think that's very cool.
@@ohMinteh Thanks.
Orange County, CA can be very toxic and is expensive for the normal person. People trying to flex their money to stand out, but the money will eventually run out. Dating is already like being on a job interview. She made the right decision for her mental health.
If you think OC is bad with people flexing, Saigon is 1000x worse. More people with new money who are flexing every chance they get. Even people who make $300 a month buy a iPhone 15 pro to flex
@@tyyg9469what is flexing?
@@sebastianniqvist3144do u even lift bro? Lmao...i kid i kid.
@@saidroid3220 I lift Mr. Happy every morning, 14 times throughout the day and 12 more times at nigh. Why?
I gotta admit, living in OC has made me appreciate being raised in the East coast. The people here kind of live in a bubble that doesn't seem real.
bro you need to buy a second mic
It's the last interview bro.
@@brokethehabitWhat
lol, one thing I can be sure is that she is not happy in Vietnam. Her personality and demeanor are definitely not fit with the Vietnamese life style.
True she looks very unhappy and it can impact her marriage.
these interviews should be on podcast platform
Good idea brokethehabit on Spotify
I am from Toronto. I thought I would backpack for a year. But I couldn't bring myself to go back to Canada. Since then I've lived in HK, Bangkok, KL, Singapore. And been in Asia for 12 years. Best decision ever. I understand how she feels.
Same here been in Vietnam for years haven’t been back to Toronto in a long time and don’t really have the urge to go.
Checked out the cost of hotels in Toronto last year and it was over 300 a night for a Holiday Inn Express .
Apparently inflation is really bad and not likely I could afford to visit , would rather spend the money going somewhere interesting and live 5 stars .
A salary of under $60K can’t afford the mortgage in OC. Moving to VN is a great choice for her! Great decision
She quit her job and is unemployed now.
Nice interview 👍
Lovely girl. But very western in her thinking. Have a couple of kids and stop thinking about yourself so much. That will give you real meaning
Lots of real Vietnamese women would have no problem letting the husband support the family
Peter, would you try interviewing Fred Le? He made the Empathizer Documentary. Lived in VN for many years but ultimately decided to move back to LA. The documentary was really great and told stories about Viet Kieu. Though he's done a podcast before, I think you could highlight some things that he hasn't shared in that podcast.
Thanks for sharing your intimate self
after few minutes of the video, all i heard was amanda saying "like" "like" "like" "like" 🤦♂️
18:00
That’s the challenge with western mentality.
She has been taught to work and be independent while being a wife.
Asian women get married and follow their husband to other countries.
Many Viet Kieus go to Vietnam to meet girls, it’s an open secret and everybody knows that. These Viet Kieus meet girls and many times they take them back to USA, Canada or Australia. These Asian women follow and you can see the difference in the thinking with Amanda.
I can say that many Vietnamese girls would like to be in her position and let the man take care of all financial things but of course is a different mentality.
It’s clear to the naked eye she is struggling. I hope things improve.
I lived in Saigon 3 years from December 2018 to November 2021. I had covid in Saigon.
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This seemed like a counseling session, she clearly does not want to be there and she is trying to convince herself that she would be happy to stay but yet has regrets of coming smh… and for all things to be, a life coach?
I always dream of one day working for myself and not having a boss.
It is too good for her to be able to go back VN and live there.
You be the judge, but the government there is watching you every moves and the wrong move could get you into arbitrary detain. I hope you don’t have to move back to America. Good luck!
Dang 60k working in tech in California? That is low!
wtf 60k? Are you serious?
Wow! 60K, living comfortably in California? 😮
@@panda55c 60k is minimum wage in cali
@@panda55cmaybe she was living with her parents and doesn’t need to pay rent. Or split cost with her bf?
@@vincentnnyc she said she had a studio appt
I thought she was your sister 😅
From another mister
Something seems off here, but wishing her the best
this lady needs to wake up and needs to think by moving to vietnam is truly good for her. every decisions, every finance and budget is provided by her husband is not so smart. she needs to be financial indepence in order to even her relationship with her husband. now, she is basically too much depedent on chris for why she is ending up in vietnam.
It's tough going from the 1st world to a 3rd world country. Vacation is fine, but living is a different ball game.
. You can try living in Vietnam, but don't rush to decide to live forever. At a certain age, may be you will see America as the most worth living place. Good luck.
. I'm an 80 year old man.
Are you sure? He did not see all the beautiful women in vietnam???
I love her deep voice
She is a good woman.
Lots of Asians are returning to their own country and roots. I'm Canadian Chinese born and raised. Feel like living in South east Asia for lower cost of living. Canada is no longer affordable. Housing market is insane.
Her husband is extremely selfish. He can’t even notice his own wife is unhappy because he’s too busy growing his business. Or he does know but he doesn’t care. I wonder what his reaction to this video would be, watching the clips where she pretty explicitly says being in Vietnam is making her grow apart from her own husband. I’m guessing the odds of them getting divorced in the next five years is 90%
She seems unhappy.
She doesn't speak much Vietnamese. It's hard for her to find friends in Vietnam. as she said during the interview.
@@proud4373 her husband made the wrong decision taking her there
@@DewTime ???
@@DewTime Her husband speaks Vietnamese, according to the video. He had actually completed his internship at some university in Vietnam. It obviously takes time for her to adapt to the new life.
Like unhappy.
Living in Viet Nam but having the audacity to be rebellious against your mom to learn Vietnamese? Grow up Girlfriend
I want to learn Vietnamese because a language is a useful skill. The challenge is the tones… if you master the tones then it’s doable.
Bro, get two or more microphone clips instead of that one and a homemade stick!!
“Like” i totally understand Cali girl. Lol😂
I like understand like exactly what you like mean. Like.
Amanda, your are awesome as a traditional supportive wife. To me, Vietnam isn't a pleasant place. The only place worth giving up America's money opportunity is Thailand.
Under $60k/year in California is a struggle, high taxes, fees, and so on.
content was great but the handing mic back and forth was... unnecessary
Chris Lewis ?
Nope, Chris Fontanarrosa.
I love OC but little too expensive to live there
Love Asian food and weather
Live and work in the US you can travel every year to VN, but live and work in VN you can only travel to the US every ten year!
I feel for her. The question is would he ever give up everything to be with her in America. This sounds like a beginning of a love story, where she gives up everything, to find out Chris is selfish and cheating on her, leaves him and meets a awesome guys who puts her first. Chris wants her back , but she has moved on. Haha😂
She said "like" more than any other word !
Like, like, for sure.
I came here looking for that comment
@@monia1111 thank you
In the USA all talk like that.
@@sebastianniqvist3144 I lived in the States for 21 years. Definitely disagree
Amanda is beautiful.
She’s a life coach, but can’t even figure out her own life and seems unhappy in VN. There’s a a saying “ whenever you go, there you are.” Meaning if you’re unhappy, moving to a new place won’t solve your problems. Alternatively, a happy person can adapt and be good wherever they are.
I wouldn't move to a communist country like Vietnam or China 😂. I would rather move to Thailand or Malaysia.
You are 3/4 Vietnamese American + 1/4 Chinese American.
i'm sorry...but the first word in every sentence that come out of her mouth start with "like..." is this an orange county california type of thing?
"California valley girl"
Look up "cher" from "clueless"
She would have been about 9 years old, when the movie came out
I think it’s a habit that she has subconsciously learned from peers/colleagues or the environment she grew up in.
Beyond that she is very articulate, interesting and intelligent 😊
Indeed, don’t think people from the USA are well educated in fact quite the opposite.
@@sebastianniqvist3144 loser says what?
Sounds like it’s time to have a visit home and see how you feel. Sounds like you guys lived outside your means with travel debt, probably a good idea to get that sorted via USD income, time to have a 50/50 relationship Chris, don’t loose your good girl over some small chance you make money via only course. Also there is too many people giving life advice with little experience. It’s a quick buck way to think and most likely with blow up in your face. Wish you both the best.
Clean girl very intelligent…no visible ugly tattoos…👍🏼…little hottie…
60k in OC, no wonder she left.
Farewell, good luck ...
You will struggle with 55k here in California.
You can live comfortably just under 1K comfortably in Vietnam.
The choice is yours.........?
If it was me I would still pick California over Vietnam any day…
Can't believe making money as an English teacher, man. Should be free!!
Doesn't sound like Amanda and Chris are equal partners in their relationship. Chris appears to be a dominant partner and gets what he wants in this relationship. Hope she finds happiness either with or without Chris. If he truly values her, he should also compromise rather than expecting her to always accommodate him. Soon, it will be too late when she has enough.
But if he found financial success as a man he must support the marriage, right? So how can they fix this?
There is no equal partnership in a marriage in the literal way. Not financially, not in the sense of physical power, not in the sense of mental power, etc. one is always stronger somehow than the other. The thing that keeps it together is that BOTH believe their life would be worse without the other one AND they are generally happier together than alone. Briefly.
@flowwwtube3357 Agreed on physical and financial imbalances that often exist in marriages. But, if either spouse perceived they are not valued or treated like they deserved, I don't see how they can rationalize that staying together is better for them?
It is my personal opinion that Viet Kieu should not move back to Viet Nam permanently unless s/he had financially made it in foreign lands and willing to bring resources and new ideas into Viet Nam, contributing to its growth. Otherwise, you're a failure in foreign lands and now coming back to Viet Nam just to leech off of it.
It’s like Viet guys saying Du Ma every few words.
du ma
I had to cut it after 15 min. Could not take the amount of word ‘like’
Great interview tho!
She is still young. So, it's likely that she will go back to US.
13:40
I seriously don’t understand what’s the issue with learning the language of your ancestors.
In LA I met quite a number of Koreans that didn’t even wanted to tell me their Korean name. They would say I am American and I only speak English and of course that didn’t even want to be heard speaking Korean.
I really couldn’t understand why… I speak the language of my ancestors and English too and I’ve learn a bit of other languages too.
Seriously what’s the problem with learning the language of your family?
I don’t understand why Asian Americans are so reluctant.
The challenge with Vietnamese language is that just like Chinese and Thai and many other Asian languages it’s a “tonal” language and pronunciation is so difficult.
There are some Westerners that can master Chinese and there is an American guy in Vietnam Phuc Map who can speak Vietnamese fluently and that is a true achievement.
Tonal languages are to me the hardest to learn and yes learning a language is useful. If she can get the tones right then that is already more than 90% of the battle won.
There are a lot of Asian Americans/ Asian Europeans who have "self hate". It's usually among the 1st generation/ children of immigrants. They try to shed their Asian-ness and be more white. Peter (the interviewer) also experienced this, as he's said in his other vids. He's said that when he was younger, he didn't want to speak Viet outside of his home, not wanting to bring Asian smelly food for lunch, etc. Some other common things among men - becoming more gangsta. Among women, it's blonde hair, eyelid surgery, nose lift or boob job, etc. The series "Fresh off the boat" delves into this. The channel of Fung Bros also talk about self hate, aside from other issues.
I’m just very stubborn and lazy 😅😭
@@AmandaMyTan hey it’s actually you who replied!!!!
Hey I just arrived in Saigon and I am going crazy in a good way with all the madness and the cool people around. I am looking for a place to live now.
I know your building I visited a friend there and around your building it’s a very local environment. Your place is fantastic. There is expat, Viet Kieu, Viet networking session every Thursday and it’s sustenten “DA PLACE” to go to network.
Definitely a sugar baby back in so cal.
I hint its pretty worthless growing up in the US. The communities are kind of dead & there`s no socializing between people.
I’m sorry but her verbal crutch of saying “Like like like like “ every other word is a tough listen …
Learn how to invest in the stock market if you want to invest your time to make money. Don’t waste your time to explore other businesses when you at the middle age unless you have your own invention.
I hope she stays for good in Vietnam and doesn't return to America, good luck!
Wrong person to interview.
2:56 Chinese have communities in every country in South East Asia and now the world.
In Asia in particular they are the business elite and although they are the minority in numbers they usually control the biggest part of the economy. In Vietnam the also had the biggest control of the economy.
I just löve these “klickz” of people who unite, seize the whole economy and make everybody work for them for peanuts.
Chinese control the Vietnamese economy? in Vietnam Catholics,christian and Chinese cannot participate in politics and the military (at high levels).In countries like China or Vietnam, don't expect there to be a force with higher power than the government, what you say is ridiculous
No power means no significant economic control here😂
@@quangphuoctran7934
Hoa = Chinese people
From the late 19th century, the Hoa played a leading role in Vietnam's private business sector prior to the Fall of Saigon in 1975. They were a well-established commercial middle class ethnic group that made up a disproportionately high percentage of Vietnam's upper class.[6] Despite their small numbers, the Hoa were disproportionately dominant in the Vietnamese economy having started an estimated 70 to 80 percent of pre-fall Saigon's privately owned and operated businesses.
@@sebastianniqvist3144they worked as middlemen for Amerikkkan and French empire to oppress locals. They are just like every other ethnic groups. nothing special about them
@@quangphuoctran7934 hahaha. Check the chinese fdi and investment projects in vietnam. Actually they have your special economic zones leased for 99 years.
Please