As a man watching this documentary, Mr. Chan's expression really hits me 😥😔😟🙁😞😿. You can tell he's hurt. He's wanting to find his daughter. Sad af. They should do a sequel on him finding his daughter.
@more adventure me, too. I cried off and on, mostly on, throughout the entire documentary. I cried for all of them. I'm so thankful this documentary has been made.
I am a Chinese adoptee too! Very excited to see this. If you’re not already part of them, there are FB groups centered around Asian adoptees and also Chinese female adoptees that have helped me feel more connected to others. :)
@@bymorganco Really?i'm native Chinese guy,and i've heared lots of touching stories about adoption happened time and again,whilst the grave situation of sino-American and Covid-19 will cast a pall of dire onto the journey to find a your own biological roots in China if you guys mean to,i might could do somthing for you guys;however,as you can see,there ain't sound systems that could match and seek the simarility in gene of immediate relatives until now,it's gonna be a huge mission needed to map out for a long time,but i'm love to introduce somethings about the genuine sides about China to you guys, that more or less could mitigate your nostalgy psychologically and physiologically in some extent,i guess!
I’m a Korean adoptee who moved back to Korea. The experience is different for everyone obviously when returning to their home country, but for me it’s been extremely positive. I feel comfortable here in a way I never did in America. I hope you get to visit China some day. It’s emotional going back, but in a good way.
Kudo to Liu Hao as well, what a kind soul. Though she wasn’t given away, her story is heart wrenching. Lily, Chloe and Sadie share the same story but each has to face many hardships on their own, really hope they find their own peace.
I shouldn't have watched this documentary as I have a Chinese adopted daughter and I cried through most of it. My daughter did Ancestry years ago and only distant cousins (not first cousins) came up. Maybe she should do 23 and me but it's her decision. My daughter was abandoned at Nanjing Railroad station at three years old (the age they gave her) and I (by myself) adopted her when on paper she was six in 1999. My daughter has never wanted to find her Chinese parents. My daughter is now almost 29 and she married to my wonderful Chinese son-in-law and she fits right into his family except doesn't speak the language. She got a lot of her culture back which makes me thrilled. On this Mother's Day, my heart is warm to have her as my daughter (as well as my biological son). Exception being emotion about it, it was a great documentary.
My oldest daughter cried "Oma" continuously for 3 days before she finally calmed down and began to accept us. The nannies were the closest thing to a mother they could have. 'm forever thankful for what they do.
Just finished watching this documentary with my youngest daughter. We both teared up throughout because we were hoping for a 100% match, for any of the girls. We were hoping Lily and Mr. Chen had a match because his daughter was a mirror image of Lily! This was truly an amazing and emotional documentary 💛 I hope these girls find their biological parents and can finally be at peace ❤
I couldn't believe Lily wasn't a match either. It was so sad to see the parents reaction to be told she "wasn't" their child. One look at the other daughter made me think otherwise.
If that were true I would have an immense amount of hatred for them anyone who would abandon their child especially for petty reasons is a terrible human being
This looks amazing. Such a sensitive subject. It must have been difficult to decide to go see the family that gave them up for adoption or abandoned them. But at the same time they must have felt a draw to connect with their culture.
yeah I was born under one child policy, I couldn't even be registered under my parent's name. Couldn't go out of the house and play with other kids before the age of three. As a kid I didn't feel it is weird I persumed it is just how the universe works. :D
As an adoptee, I can 100% relate to the one girl who said she doesn't relate to her adoptive family's ancestors. I love my adopted family and all the family members I did know, personally, are family. Period. But their ancestors aren't mine. That led me to find both sides of my biological family and get to know my biological ancestors. Both sets - bio and adoptee - did contribute to my upbringing though in one way or another.
I have two adopted sisters from China. After going to China to help my parents with the process, I fell in love with China. I have been living in China for 6 plus years. As my sisters have become young adults, their interests in their previous lives have grown. They want to come visit me and see China again (but they delayed their plans because of COVID). It is funny when they are with me because I can speak Chinese and my sisters only speak English with a very typical American accent. People get confused.
Really?i'm native Chinese,it's delightful to hear someone saying i love China in the light of the status quo of sort of nemesis between Sino-American,but i insist that we should steer clear of the traps set by the politicians,just be friendenly with each other.may i know you which part are you in China?
I really hope your sisters find their way into their history and culture 💜 I’m adopted and I’m Japanese and Hispanic and was raised in New Zealand by my adopted parents and they have both passed now so it’s really hard finding it on your own. So I hope you help them as much as you can 💜
I agree that you totally should have a movie, even if you do a youtube movie on your own - with your sisters. There is a guy with a strong youtube channel because he is American and speaks a few Asian languages really well (and hard to learn!), does restaurant reviews.
Must say Netflix has become really good at these Documentary Series recently. If only they could fix their TV Show's that they cancel 95% after 1 season
I just watched this with my wife. We have 2 daughters from China, adopted in 2002 and 2003. We're going to watch it with our kids and let them decide if they want to do 23 and Me and also go back to China to perhaps find their birth parents. Our kids are from Jiayue and Nanchang. The only times I've ever cried were when my daughters were handed to me and when I watched this documentary. Beautifully done.
there’s NO WAY that Lily and Mr Chen are not related. The sister looked EXAXTLY like her. Nobody thought to question it? Mr Chen knew that was her daughter he’s not stupid. Like he said; “if that’s what it says then it is what it is” idgaf what the DNA says bro they’re family. The sister is literally identical like a twin
I watched "Found" with my 2 Chinese daughters and they both said the same thing about Lily. When I first saw the sister cooking I was thinking, "Why is Lily cooking"? It was so touching when Mr. Chen walked out to wave goodbye because it as if he knew. My kids are both going to 23 and Me after watching. I hope Lily maintains some form of contact with the Chens.
I literally cried all throughout the movie. Sadie is right, being blood relatives with someone doesn't automatically make you have that family bond. It's the people who show up and care for you.
Omg 😲 I'm just after watching this documentary and by god it broke me.. it must took some courage to go back to there country where they were born and visit the people that raised them until there adoption 😭 my father is from Hong Kong and I would love to go to his country to learn about my heritage.. fair play to use girls much love from Ireland 🇮🇪 ❤
I hope they didn't mess up the DNA matching process with Lily's and Mr. Chen's. Would have been really happy for them if they are actually related. So sad. I wish he finds his daughter someday.
I just watched it. Its really hard and sad to watch. Kudos to that beautiful lady who is helping to find their family. Hug to Mr. Chan , hope one day you will find your daughter. Lily, Sadie and Chloe ...good luck to you all.
I am so sad that my journey with these lovely ladies and their families is over. My heart swells with admiration for Liu. What an absolutely amazing human being.
I adopted two baby girls from Wuhan, China when they were 5 and 7 months old, respectively. After my first little darling, I was allowed to return and adopt a second "second sister". I have, repeatedly asked my daughters, over the years if they would like to go back to China and look for their biological parents and their older sister (in most cases the parents must give up the second girl baby as they were only allowed to have one child back then). I understand that things have changed in 27 years. However, I cannot convince my sweet daughters to visit China. I suppose it is because they have been in this country for so long and all their friends are Asian, Caucasian, Hispanic, black, middle eastern, etc. They are totally color blind for which I thank God everyday. God has blessed me with angels to love and raise. My joy is complete.
No parents would like to give up their own children. These 3 beautiful children were lucky in the sense that they were able to live a better life with their lovely adopted parents who are able to shower them with love and care....I cried watching this
This is so cool to see because I know Sadie her mom and my mom are best friends and I've known Sadie my whole life and it's really cool to see my friend in a movie, finding out who she is.
Started watching this and when I saw Lily I went OMG she has my jaw!!! Mine looked just like this, elongated, I had it surgically broke and fixed, it wad the best thing that happen to me, but not the ortho, the quack I used messed me completely up, and didnt bother to tell me until 20 years in hell later that he had no idea what he was doing, been in restoration treatment for the last 13 years
I think that one of the girls was the daughter and for some twisted reason the lab said no- maybe instructed by the government. They should redo the DNA test in USA. They looked like sisters.
I .... was so sure that Lily's was gonna match! Man i can't take it how sad Mr Chen looked, he kept saying "her eyes looked like mine" over and over...
I can't believe that Netflix did such an amazing job! It's a shame that I didn't see any film or other works tell the same kind of story in such a dramatic and touching way in China. Hope this documentary can be screened in every cinema across China, although I do know this hope will never become reality.
i just finished this on Netflix. cried many times. I grew up in that area, and knowing quite a few of my younger cousins, all girls, were given up after they were born. I wonder if anyone of those girls is my cousins. This documentary was so sad but also healing.
Will definitely watch. If you take the time to dig into your ancestry, you will inevitably realize that though you are unique, you are simultaneously the combination of those who came before you. You carry a piece of them that informs who you are because you didn’t put it on like a piece of clothing that you selected from a rack. It is in you already. Yes DNA but also sinew, decisions, choices, history, events, memories, geography, emotions and every element of the human condition. You are a walking legacy box and you pass it on. It’s powerful. Try it.
omg what a good movie! i didnt want it to end, i was waiting at the end credits like are they gonne finally find all 3 of their birth parent??? but i was still happy for that last girl who wasnt even in the movie to found her mom through DNA testing.
Funny thing about crying: it sneaks up on you and then your eyes blur until you wipe them dry and then it happens again. Funny thing about my wife wanting to watch me watch this movie (after she’d already seen it): it’s kind of sweet, but I’m glad I watched it after she went to bed. I felt for everybody in this movie, but when the Aunties started tearing up at the reunions with their “babies,” or when the dad who’d hoped they found his daughter had to turn away, or when the three cousins themselves had their moments after all those years of wondering about their lives... man. They were all such nice people. I guess that just makes the movie even more sad and yet more beautiful.
There's a documentary called Twinsters about two South Korean college aid women who discover through a funny way that they are twins separated at birth. This is just before 23andMe so it was a really random way they discovered each other.
Nice one, Netflix. Gosh, who else was so hoping Mr. Chen was Lily's biological dad? His daughter looked so much like Lily. Liu is a pretty amazing young lady, they all are. So were the caretakers/nannies.
Wow I feel so sorry for the parents in China that if they don't have the money are forced to give away Thier babies knowing they probably will never know what happend. But they did such a selfless thing by giving that baby a chance and a life. Amazing documentary
The sad fact is, it happens so many times that once the abandoned kid finds the birth family, the birth family will try everything to request money, and out of sympathy, the child and western family usually will give them. And there may be some happy ending but most abandoned children will receive nothing more than one more heartbreaking when they “find the root”, because most of them will realize that they are abandoned not because the parents got no choice, but because they are greedy, and they still are. I’m sure I’m this documentary will peak some good examples but trust me, this go back to China thing, it doesn’t worth the effort.
You should watch One Child Nation. Many Chinese adoptees birth parents had no choice. I am not sure what you are basing your comment on but many birth mothers are simply happy to be reunited with their children. Many Chinese birth parents had government officials storm their houses to take their child away or force mothers into abortions as late as 8mos pregnant on top of 1000$+ worth of fines. Can you imagine that? To assume that it is because they are heartless reflects your very limited outlook on adoption and the political state China was in many years ago.
@@coffeebean_ OK, if it is only because of the one child policy, how comes the abandoned childs are almost all girls? Because they will keep a boy, not a girl. And some of them will keep giving birth and abandoning until they got a boy.
These girls are braver than I am. I'm glad they did what they wanted to do concerning their birth families. Its all one's own decision. I personally do not feel any sentiment towards finding my birth parents/ family. Blood doesn't define family.
Wish I could find my biblical family when I get older I will go back to China and find them. Thanks God I still know how to speak,read and write in Chinese mandarin
Just finished watching…..should be called can’t find~~~ very moving film, just pissed off that none of the Girls were able to find the biological parents.
Just finished and had tears for 95% of this documentary. Great film Netflix
Me too.
Me too
No kidding. I needed to refill my water bottle. Twice.
Me too
Me 3!
As a man watching this documentary, Mr. Chan's expression really hits me 😥😔😟🙁😞😿. You can tell he's hurt. He's wanting to find his daughter. Sad af. They should do a sequel on him finding his daughter.
Me too! I cried with him. I hope he finds his daughter. It’s so painful.
And that girl looks like lily soo much
I do DNA testing for immigration for 16 years. When I seen Mr. Chen's daughter I was like for sure they are related.
@@whiteheart6827 same! I was so shocked when it was not a match
@@kailit9984 I would of taken the DNA and had the test done in the US
@more adventure me, too. I cried off and on, mostly on, throughout the entire documentary. I cried for all of them. I'm so thankful this documentary has been made.
That Genealogist in China needs her own Netflix series called Finding China. This was so emotional but so we'll done! ❤
Omg I would binge watch it! This needs to get out there asap!!
As someone adopted from China I am so excited to see these girl's stories being told. Definitely inspires me to go back to China someday as well!
I am a Chinese adoptee too! Very excited to see this. If you’re not already part of them, there are FB groups centered around Asian adoptees and also Chinese female adoptees that have helped me feel more connected to others. :)
@@bymorganco Really?i'm native Chinese guy,and i've heared lots of touching stories about adoption happened time and again,whilst the grave situation of sino-American and Covid-19 will cast a pall of dire onto the journey to find a your own biological roots in China if you guys mean to,i might could do somthing for you guys;however,as you can see,there ain't sound systems that could match and seek the simarility in gene of immediate relatives until now,it's gonna be a huge mission needed to map out for a long time,but i'm love to introduce somethings about the genuine sides about China to you guys, that more or less could mitigate your nostalgy psychologically and physiologically in some extent,i guess!
I’m a Korean adoptee who moved back to Korea. The experience is different for everyone obviously when returning to their home country, but for me it’s been extremely positive. I feel comfortable here in a way I never did in America.
I hope you get to visit China some day. It’s emotional going back, but in a good way.
Same here! I am a Chinese adoptee too.
@@bymorganco Yes that connection is so important! I'm lucky enough to know a group of amazing girls who were adopted with me :)
Kudo to Liu Hao as well, what a kind soul. Though she wasn’t given away, her story is heart wrenching. Lily, Chloe and Sadie share the same story but each has to face many hardships on their own, really hope they find their own peace.
I was heartbroken with Liu’s story. She wasnt adopted but she felt as though she is unwanted. That is devastating.
She’s such a generous and loving person. I’m so impressed with her.
I shouldn't have watched this documentary as I have a Chinese adopted daughter and I cried through most of it. My daughter did Ancestry years ago and only distant cousins (not first cousins) came up. Maybe she should do 23 and me but it's her decision. My daughter was abandoned at Nanjing Railroad station at three years old (the age they gave her) and I (by myself) adopted her when on paper she was six in 1999. My daughter has never wanted to find her Chinese parents. My daughter is now almost 29 and she married to my wonderful Chinese son-in-law and she fits right into his family except doesn't speak the language. She got a lot of her culture back which makes me thrilled. On this Mother's Day, my heart is warm to have her as my daughter (as well as my biological son). Exception being emotion about it, it was a great documentary.
When they met their nannies, the women seemed to find some healing in their journey. Beautiful moment!
My oldest daughter cried "Oma" continuously for 3 days before she finally calmed down and began to accept us. The nannies were the closest thing to a mother they could have. 'm forever thankful for what they do.
Just finished watching this documentary with my youngest daughter. We both teared up throughout because we were hoping for a 100% match, for any of the girls. We were hoping Lily and Mr. Chen had a match because his daughter was a mirror image of Lily! This was truly an amazing and emotional documentary 💛 I hope these girls find their biological parents and can finally be at peace ❤
I couldn't believe Lily wasn't a match either. It was so sad to see the parents reaction to be told she "wasn't" their child. One look at the other daughter made me think otherwise.
I was really confused by that…she was so much like the dad and sister
If that were true I would have an immense amount of hatred for them anyone who would abandon their child especially for petty reasons is a terrible human being
This looks amazing. Such a sensitive subject. It must have been difficult to decide to go see the family that gave them up for adoption or abandoned them. But at the same time they must have felt a draw to connect with their culture.
yeah I was born under one child policy, I couldn't even be registered under my parent's name. Couldn't go out of the house and play with other kids before the age of three. As a kid I didn't feel it is weird I persumed it is just how the universe works. :D
As an adoptee, I can 100% relate to the one girl who said she doesn't relate to her adoptive family's ancestors. I love my adopted family and all the family members I did know, personally, are family. Period. But their ancestors aren't mine. That led me to find both sides of my biological family and get to know my biological ancestors. Both sets - bio and adoptee - did contribute to my upbringing though in one way or another.
I have two adopted sisters from China. After going to China to help my parents with the process, I fell in love with China. I have been living in China for 6 plus years. As my sisters have become young adults, their interests in their previous lives have grown. They want to come visit me and see China again (but they delayed their plans because of COVID). It is funny when they are with me because I can speak Chinese and my sisters only speak English with a very typical American accent. People get confused.
Really?i'm native Chinese,it's delightful to hear someone saying i love China in the light of the status quo of sort of nemesis between Sino-American,but i insist that we should steer clear of the traps set by the politicians,just be friendenly with each other.may i know you which part are you in China?
OMG, please share with us your story when you're ready. :)
I really hope your sisters find their way into their history and culture 💜 I’m adopted and I’m Japanese and Hispanic and was raised in New Zealand by my adopted parents and they have both passed now so it’s really hard finding it on your own. So I hope you help them as much as you can 💜
I think your family story deserves a Netflix special too! The journey that took you and your sisters to China sounds absolutely fascinating!
I agree that you totally should have a movie, even if you do a youtube movie on your own - with your sisters. There is a guy with a strong youtube channel because he is American and speaks a few Asian languages really well (and hard to learn!), does restaurant reviews.
this is everything... finally raw true stories that deserved to be told.
Must say Netflix has become really good at these Documentary Series recently. If only they could fix their TV Show's that they cancel 95% after 1 season
I just watched this with my wife. We have 2 daughters from China, adopted in 2002 and 2003. We're going to watch it with our kids and let them decide if they want to do 23 and Me and also go back to China to perhaps find their birth parents. Our kids are from Jiayue and Nanchang. The only times I've ever cried were when my daughters were handed to me and when I watched this documentary. Beautifully done.
We are looking forward to seeing this! Thank you Chloe, Lily, and Sadie for being open to sharing your journey. ❤
there’s NO WAY that Lily and Mr Chen are not related. The sister looked EXAXTLY like her. Nobody thought to question it? Mr Chen knew that was her daughter he’s not stupid. Like he said; “if that’s what it says then it is what it is” idgaf what the DNA says bro they’re family. The sister is literally identical like a twin
BINGO. My thoughts exactly.
YEA! i just don’t understand how their daughter looked so much like Lily… They should’ve done another test cuz it’s just too uncanny
I watched "Found" with my 2 Chinese daughters and they both said the same thing about Lily. When I first saw the sister cooking I was thinking, "Why is Lily cooking"? It was so touching when Mr. Chen walked out to wave goodbye because it as if he knew. My kids are both going to 23 and Me after watching. I hope Lily maintains some form of contact with the Chens.
they should retesting DNA again
@@nkf83 For Lily?? Yes. Definitely.
I literally cried all throughout the movie. Sadie is right, being blood relatives with someone doesn't automatically make you have that family bond. It's the people who show up and care for you.
I did, too. Cried throughout.
This was so moving. Liu is what you call an everyday hero 💕
Although they didn’t find their parents, I’m glad that the three cousins found each other and have each other 💕
Omg 😲 I'm just after watching this documentary and by god it broke me.. it must took some courage to go back to there country where they were born and visit the people that raised them until there adoption 😭 my father is from Hong Kong and I would love to go to his country to learn about my heritage.. fair play to use girls much love from Ireland 🇮🇪 ❤
I could never imagine how that feels, but it's so nice to see them support each other and find out about their history :)
I hope they didn't mess up the DNA matching process with Lily's and Mr. Chen's. Would have been really happy for them if they are actually related. So sad. I wish he finds his daughter someday.
Yes!!! She really looks like that young lady. Wish they test again.
That part was so painful to watch, they really looked so similar
They look way too similar to not be related. That is crazy.
I wish they would redo the DNA test for Lily and the Chens. I don't trust the result. Lily looked so much like their other daughter!
I haven't finished it yet...but I can't believe they are not related...🥺 they look so much alike...I was so sure
I was adopted and it's a horrible thing as a child to wonder, how, what and most of all why.. This looks like a fantastic feel good story
just finished watching it and omg I could not stop crying! I really wish Mr. Chen finds his daughter 😭💕
Me too😭his sadness really broke my heart💔
I run out tissues. When Mr.Chen waved goodbye to the bus, my heart broken for him. 希望陈先生能找到他的女儿，希望所有的孩子们都能健康成长。谢谢 Liu Hao. You are one of the kind.
These are the kinds of movies i want to see. movies about real topics and real life. Thank you Netflix!
Umm....They're called documentaries. Netflix has a boatload of them.
@@anche70 😂
I just watched it. Its really hard and sad to watch. Kudos to that beautiful lady who is helping to find their family. Hug to Mr. Chan , hope one day you will find your daughter. Lily, Sadie and Chloe ...good luck to you all.
Mr Chan got me 😭😭
@@nadiastubbs9827 Yup, you can tell he was very hurt.
@@nadiastubbs9827 yea he got me too . I wish all the dads are like this wonderful kind man .
It’s so surreal that Mr chen’s daughter looks so much like
Lily. I felt so sad for him :(
Finally, the sequel to Lost.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol
Yep, been waiting 10 years, about damn time lol
Next will be "lost again"
its not but I get the joke
One of the best documentaries I’ve watched in a long time! Would love to see what happens in their future and what happens with the new match.
This documentary didn't end in the way I expected. It tore my heart out, too. It was so beautiful though, wow.
I am so sad that my journey with these lovely ladies and their families is over. My heart swells with admiration for Liu. What an absolutely amazing human being.
I adopted two baby girls from Wuhan, China when they were 5 and 7 months old, respectively. After my first little darling, I was allowed to return and adopt a second "second sister". I have, repeatedly asked my daughters, over the years if they would like to go back to China and look for their biological parents and their older sister (in most cases the parents must give up the second girl baby as they were only allowed to have one child back then). I understand that things have changed in 27 years. However, I cannot convince my sweet daughters to visit China. I suppose it is because they have been in this country for so long and all their friends are Asian, Caucasian, Hispanic, black, middle eastern, etc. They are totally color blind for which I thank God everyday. God has blessed me with angels to love and raise. My joy is complete.
I'm an adoptee and just watching this trailer made me feel so many intense emotions. I'm really looking forward to watching this film♡
Ive finished watching this real-life movie, and i felt so emotional while watched this. What a great documentary!
my heart broke for Mr. chen hoping one was his daughter and when he wave bye to the bus as it was leaving…😭.
No parents would like to give up their own children. These 3 beautiful children were lucky in the sense that they were able to live a better life with their lovely adopted parents who are able to shower them with love and care....I cried watching this
This is so cool to see because I know Sadie her mom and my mom are best friends and I've known Sadie my whole life and it's really cool to see my friend in a movie, finding out who she is.
This looks amazing. Just the trailer got me tearing up.
Im 100% sure that girl is mr chen’s daughter, pls do the test again..
Their retest results came back yesterday, they are biological sisters, how amazing
I'm so glad they have each other!
To see a film about something meaningful and heartwarming pushes us forward towards growth. We learn to embrace and love one another.
Wow! Watching them bond and laugh with their cousins made me smile 😊.
Lily and Mr. Chen's daughter really looks alike like ALOT!!! Im confused AF 😭
Their retest results came back yesterday, they are biological sisters, how amazing
Started watching this and when I saw Lily I went OMG she has my jaw!!! Mine looked just like this, elongated, I had it surgically broke and fixed, it wad the best thing that happen to me, but not the ortho, the quack I used messed me completely up, and didnt bother to tell me until 20 years in hell later that he had no idea what he was doing, been in restoration treatment for the last 13 years
I think that one of the girls was the daughter and for some twisted reason the lab said no- maybe instructed by the government. They should redo the DNA test in USA. They looked like sisters.
100% match. Doppelgänger at least
Their retest results came back yesterday, they are biological sisters, how amazing
Cried through the whole documentary
I .... was so sure that Lily's was gonna match! Man i can't take it how sad Mr Chen looked, he kept saying "her eyes looked like mine" over and over...
I've cried the majority of this. Wow... I'm still crying.
I watched this last night and am still stunned. It was wonderful.
I can't believe that Netflix did such an amazing job! It's a shame that I didn't see any film or other works tell the same kind of story in such a dramatic and touching way in China. Hope this documentary can be screened in every cinema across China, although I do know this hope will never become reality.
😭 Omg I’m BAWLING just from this trailer
I cried during most of this documentary
i just finished this on Netflix. cried many times. I grew up in that area, and knowing quite a few of my younger cousins, all girls, were given up after they were born. I wonder if anyone of those girls is my cousins. This documentary was so sad but also healing.
I cried too. Our daughter is from China. It would be heartbreaking for the parents. I hope you find your focusing someday!
Find your cousins, sorry.
Mr Chen y su hija es idéntica a Lily para mí si es la hija.deberia hacerse la prueba con la señora chen
Will definitely watch. If you take the time to dig into your ancestry, you will inevitably realize that though you are unique, you are simultaneously the combination of those who came before you. You carry a piece of them that informs who you are because you didn’t put it on like a piece of clothing that you selected from a rack. It is in you already. Yes DNA but also sinew, decisions, choices, history, events, memories, geography, emotions and every element of the human condition. You are a walking legacy box and you pass it on. It’s powerful. Try it.
I cried throughout the whole thing 😭 And shoutout to Phillipa Soo for bringing this beautiful documentary to my attention!
Finally, the film was FOUND.
Funny
@@Yvng_Zy thanks so much
Seriously, such a beautiful film. Thank you ladies for sharing your story with us. Definitely must've taken so much courage.
Netflix has me bawling my eyes out in under 3 minutes.
Maybe Mr Chen is not the father but Mrs Chen is the mother. Did both test for DNA?
Even didn't thought about it
Their retest results came back yesterday, they are biological sisters, how amazing
@@cheryledwards2657 I'm not surprised! They look so much alike! I'm happy for them. The dad was so sad...
Mr Chan's daughter and Lily almost look like twin, Hard to believe DNA wasn't match. Was the DNA test conducted by China government?
The test results of her and her sister came out yesterday, they are biological sisters, how amazing
I cried a lot !!i think lily and the other family in china had a resemblance they looked alike alot!!,hoping time will come they find thier family💔😪
Wonderful. Still crying.
This is my favourite documentary now
This was beautiful and touching. And yes I bawled 😭 my eyes out
omg what a good movie! i didnt want it to end, i was waiting at the end credits like are they gonne finally find all 3 of their birth parent??? but i was still happy for that last girl who wasnt even in the movie to found her mom through DNA testing.
I love watching this documentary 😭 watching it the 2nd time..
Funny thing about crying: it sneaks up on you and then your eyes blur until you wipe them dry and then it happens again.
Funny thing about my wife wanting to watch me watch this movie (after she’d already seen it): it’s kind of sweet, but I’m glad I watched it after she went to bed.
I felt for everybody in this movie, but when the Aunties started tearing up at the reunions with their “babies,” or when the dad who’d hoped they found his daughter had to turn away, or when the three cousins themselves had their moments after all those years of wondering about their lives... man. They were all such nice people. I guess that just makes the movie even more sad and yet more beautiful.
This looks like a beautiful uplifting story
I’ve been through something similar. I’m excited to watch this!
I love to see the same docu with vietnamese that still looking for a family after the Vietnam war .
There's a documentary called Twinsters about two South Korean college aid women who discover through a funny way that they are twins separated at birth. This is just before 23andMe so it was a really random way they discovered each other.
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Oh I remember seen this one
Nice one, Netflix. Gosh, who else was so hoping Mr. Chen was Lily's biological dad? His daughter looked so much like Lily.
Liu is a pretty amazing young lady, they all are. So were the caretakers/nannies.
as a chinese adoptee I'm very excited to watch this
@Netflix I'm doing this same thing to find my full blood sister! Let me know if you want to film it!
I'm an adoptee from asia and istg I watched this and cried so hard
Wow I feel so sorry for the parents in China that if they don't have the money are forced to give away Thier babies knowing they probably will never know what happend. But they did such a selfless thing by giving that baby a chance and a life. Amazing documentary
Terminei esse documentário e só gostaria de destacar o quando ele acrescentou ao meu ponto de vista de algumas coisas! Ele é simplesmente espetacular💚
Looks like something I would love to watch
awesome . keep going netflix
Well this looks both heartwarming and sad 😭
Cool!, They should make a movie about the Uyghurs in China :D
Netflix 😢 Why all this amazing content?
This looks awesome! Can't wait to see!
Just watched this last night with my family. Great documentary!
I just finished this movie. it was awesome.
I'm crying already.
This looks beautiful ❣️ I cannot wait to watch❣️
The sad fact is, it happens so many times that once the abandoned kid finds the birth family, the birth family will try everything to request money, and out of sympathy, the child and western family usually will give them. And there may be some happy ending but most abandoned children will receive nothing more than one more heartbreaking when they “find the root”, because most of them will realize that they are abandoned not because the parents got no choice, but because they are greedy, and they still are. I’m sure I’m this documentary will peak some good examples but trust me, this go back to China thing, it doesn’t worth the effort.
I think so too. And the abandoned one are always girl. Never a boy.
You should watch One Child Nation. Many Chinese adoptees birth parents had no choice. I am not sure what you are basing your comment on but many birth mothers are simply happy to be reunited with their children. Many Chinese birth parents had government officials storm their houses to take their child away or force mothers into abortions as late as 8mos pregnant on top of 1000$+ worth of fines. Can you imagine that? To assume that it is because they are heartless reflects your very limited outlook on adoption and the political state China was in many years ago.
@@ychongong4680 I know many people in the US who have adopted boys from China.
@@coffeebean_ OK, if it is only because of the one child policy, how comes the abandoned childs are almost all girls? Because they will keep a boy, not a girl. And some of them will keep giving birth and abandoning until they got a boy.
Los abandonaron por que en un tiempo en China solo podían tener un hijo por familia....
These girls are braver than I am. I'm glad they did what they wanted to do concerning their birth families. Its all one's own decision. I personally do not feel any sentiment towards finding my birth parents/ family. Blood doesn't define family.
This looks amazing
Ow, my little adopted heart……
hugs to you!
same lol
This is gonna make me cry thug tears.
Wish I could find my biblical family when I get older I will go back to China and find them. Thanks God I still know how to speak,read and write in Chinese mandarin
why am i crying on this lovely friday afternoon :'(
Can't wait to watch this!! 🥰
So good
Looking forward to watching. I am also a Chinese adoptee.
Just finished watching…..should be called can’t find~~~ very moving film, just pissed off that none of the Girls were able to find the biological parents.