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Must Female Converts Immediately Divorce Their Non-Muslim Husbands? With Sheikha Fatima Barkatulla

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  • Опубликовано: 6 авг 2024
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    Website: raisingbelievers.com
    Fatima Barkatulla is an award-winning British Islamic scholar, broadcaster, and author. With a rich Islamic education, she studied Arabic in Egypt and graduated from both the Ebrahim College Seminary and AlSalam Institute with Shahadah Alimiyyah. She has authored the groundbreaking book 'Khadijah, Islam’s First Lady.' Currently pursuing postgraduate studies in English Law at King’s College London after completing her Master's degree in Islamic Law at SOAS, University of London, she is renowned for her contributions to Islamic discourse in the West.
    Timestamps:
    0:00-2:18 Discussing recent trip to America
    14:17 Importance of the topic
    16:26 Beginning of Presentation
    20:26 Classical Islamic Opinions and Modern Fatwas
    35:09 Majority opinion
    43:18 Ibn ul-Qayyim’s recommendation
    1:29:02 Findings from interviewing UK Muftis and Shari’ah Council Scholars
    1:06:08 Some other interesting findings
    1:41:39 The experiences of female converts in this situation (from surveying 39 female converts including 10 British women in this situation)
    1:57:42 Recommendations for Scholars and Imams
    2:04:06-end Some recommendations for female converts in this situation.

Комментарии • 724

  • @BloggingTheology
    @BloggingTheology  25 дней назад +73

    Fatima Barkatulla is an award-winning British Islamic scholar, broadcaster, and author. With a rich Islamic education she studied Arabic in Egypt and graduated from both the Ebrahim College seminary and AlSalam Institute with Shahadah Alimiyyah. She has authored the groundbreaking book 'Khadijah, Islam’s First Lady.' Currently pursuing postgraduate studies in English Law at King’s College London after completing her Master's degree in Islamic Law at SOAS, University of London, she is renowned for her contributions to Islamic discourse in the West.

    • @user-bn7de7by2m
      @user-bn7de7by2m 25 дней назад +2

      ما شاء الله لا قوة إلا بالله العلي العظيم

    • @remove122
      @remove122 25 дней назад +3

      @@BloggingTheology guess she didn’t learn much if she s promoting a cult

    • @fardowsa6658
      @fardowsa6658 24 дня назад +5

      @@remove122lol another hater with nothing better to do with their time but hate. Nice.

    • @thamergazzaz3309
      @thamergazzaz3309 24 дня назад +1

      @@BloggingTheology Paul- I respect you, all of your audience, and guests. Miss Fatima must be a great person. She is (still) studying and understanding the #realislam
      Don’t mean to undermine her or anybody. However, I honestly was just disappointed. My apologies and respect

    • @dorothygleeson1090
      @dorothygleeson1090 24 дня назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @coha348
    @coha348 25 дней назад +209

    I converted to Islam 8years before my wife followed me. We have two kids. The family stayed together and now we are a happy practicing Muslim family Alhamdulillah. Allah is with the patient. I cant imagine what I would have lost if I had given up before.

    • @rj_olive7
      @rj_olive7 25 дней назад +3

      Dear, please consider the following if you believe God of Abraham. Read it full if you love God of Abraham.
      Jesus is God because of the follwing reasons.
      Is God so foolish to not know before asking Jesus that whether Jesus asked people to worship Him and His Mother, Mary.
      Doesn't God know that making Jesus the Messiah would cause people to worship Him as God.
      Doesn't God know that by making someone resemble Jesus to be crucified would further worsen people worshipping Jesus as God. So God is forcing people to worship Jesus as God.
      Why would non Arabic speakers use the word in their local language to refer to God?
      Is it impossible for God to take human form?
      Has anyone seen Archangel Gabriel visit the self proclaimed Arab prophet? Has anyone seen the self proclaimed prophet perform miracles? Did the Torah, Psalms or Gospels prophesy such an Arab prophet from Arabia? What was the religion of the self proclaimed prophet religion at the time of his birth? If God wanted to send a prophet, He would have chosen from the People of the Book and not a person born in a family practicing polytheism. Also as per the scripture believed to be recieved by the self proclaimed prophet, God doesn't know that Christians don't worship Mary, Mother of Jesus as God and mistakes Jesus mother as Moses sister.

    • @akhan8456
      @akhan8456 25 дней назад +15

      @@rj_olive7 The One and Only One True God, The God of Abraham, Jacob, David, Solomon, Moses and Jesus and Finally Muhammad, is The Witness and Authority Who sent all these prophets with scriptures and completed the religion of Allah, Islam or submission to The Only True God with Muhammad and the Final revelation Qur'an, which is preserved till the day of judgement. Go and take the challenge of Quran and destroy Islam If you can! Can you? If yes don't waste your time present something like One Chapter like the Quran. Easy and simple.

    • @MuslimIndia-g7h
      @MuslimIndia-g7h 25 дней назад +9

      Masha Allah,May Allah bless you and your family ❤

    • @nutzhazel
      @nutzhazel 25 дней назад +14

      ​@@rj_olive7Abraham broke idols and destroyed polytheism, he definitely not an idol worshipper or a polytheist.

    • @a.e.2990
      @a.e.2990 25 дней назад +1

      Kissing and praying to black stones is ok though.

  • @Safia91
    @Safia91 25 дней назад +196

    I thank Allah that he guided me to Islam before marriage. I can't imagine the hardship those sisters are going through. May Allah make it easy for all of us

    • @muslimresponse103
      @muslimresponse103 25 дней назад +9

      🤲🏻 ameen.

    • @salaamalaikumX
      @salaamalaikumX 25 дней назад +7

      Amen. May Allah bless them greatly

    • @ahmedsalah3462
      @ahmedsalah3462 25 дней назад +3

      Ameen

    • @dorothygleeson1090
      @dorothygleeson1090 24 дня назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @QamruddinKhan-hf4dn
      @QamruddinKhan-hf4dn 17 дней назад

      Also mentions hardship of purposal from perverts in Instagram fb 😂😂 many sisters are writing in their account that please leave us alone, no dms from brothers i am married 😂😂😂

  • @TheRockeyAllen
    @TheRockeyAllen 25 дней назад +37

    Even if one is NOT strong enough upon accepting Islam to give up a relationship they value, they should still continue their journey in Islam, as it is better to be a sinful believer, than it is to be a disbeliever.
    The religion of one's spouse should not deter anyone from accepting the truth. The truth is the truth, irrespective of how one feels about it. And Islam is the truth.

    • @Cyntdarling
      @Cyntdarling 20 дней назад

      Complete utter Nonsense lol damn cult

  • @ghg12374
    @ghg12374 25 дней назад +57

    Salam brothers and sisters from Bangladesh ❤.
    It's 5.00 am here.😊

    • @ShehuStebe
      @ShehuStebe 25 дней назад +3

      Wa aleikum al salam.

    • @mib5116
      @mib5116 25 дней назад +3

      Wa laykum as salam

  • @CineRanter
    @CineRanter 25 дней назад +40

    This exact question has been on my mind for quite some time

  • @Peaches10608
    @Peaches10608 24 дня назад +24

    There's a woman on my street who's interested in islam. She's had many conversations with my family about the religion and has shown great interest. I think the only thing holding her back is her children, she has a 6 year old boy and a 2 year old girl. From what I've seen they're a happy family and the kids love their father and she doesn't want to separate them. Also I get the impression if she divorced he would fight for full custody and then the children will be raised as Christians and she doesn't want that either. I think it's easy to say divorce when you aren't in that situation and don't have children who absolutely don't want the family to be torn apart.Also, I've seen the stats on single mother homes and they aren't good...

    • @sunshineseaandvitamind8620
      @sunshineseaandvitamind8620 22 дня назад

      Exactly 💯 no doubt it is holding back many women and men from converting because they don't want to lose their children or loving partners. If a divorce happens then little to no chance the children will ever beome Muslim as they will come to see Islam as the one that broke up their family, the husband too would be left asking "well no one's stopping you believing in Islam i won't interfere, why do you have to leave?" I'm pretty sure this would be the view of many husbands to their wives who are in the early stages of conversion and who haven't yet worn the hijab or choose not to. Whether a woman announces divorce or not her clothing will be the sticking point as there's no way her marriage could last a minute longer while she dresses that way. Divorce really runs the risk of turning the entire family against the religion. If we look at Jewish women who are married to non Jewish men they manage to raise committed lifelong Jewish children who they raise in their faith and traditions. The mother immerses her children in the Jewish community and the children as a result end up identifying with them. Who's to say newly convert Muslim women can't do the same? She doesn't have to wear hijab millions of Muslim women don't e.g most Pakistani women dont wear it or she can wear it to Muslim events etc. Divorce would restrict her access to her children and who's to say if she divorced she'd ever be married again? What with the cultural beliefs in certain Muslim communities that divorced and older women are undesirable. Imagine leaving a loving husband who wouldn't object to you converting only for you to end up alone, feeling unwanted just imagine what that will do to the mental health of the newly converted women. I feel like this topic needs much edjtehad from scholars it is not black and white as Muslims make it out to be.

    • @sunshineseaandvitamind8620
      @sunshineseaandvitamind8620 22 дня назад

      Interesting point about single mothers i hadn't even thought about that! I'm glad she has you and your family to talk to about Islam.

    • @sunshineseaandvitamind8620
      @sunshineseaandvitamind8620 22 дня назад

      Peaches I can't see your reply. My notifications tell me you replied but when I click it isn't there. Can you see my first reply which was a longer post? This is really frustrating damn u RUclips.

    • @dedanwilmot1139
      @dedanwilmot1139 22 дня назад

      True😢

    • @AbidabintR
      @AbidabintR 22 дня назад +1

      Ask her if she thinks that her husband would talk to you about Islam as well in sha Allah. May Allah guides them to Islam ❤️

  • @abed7922
    @abed7922 20 дней назад +4

    I’m born and raised Muslim(Alhamdulilah) from Eastern Africa. I lived most of my life in North American country. I must tell you that I admire our newly reverts courage and I truly learn from them and I sometimes find some missing pieces to complete my little knowledge about Islam.
    Iman Shafi’i once said there are three ways of learning. Through school, traveling(forgot the 3rd).
    We are ONE ummah with ONE vision but we do all have are own culture which we all value. And I believe there should a well informed scholar on cultural sensitivities that addresses issues in line with the community he or she is with.
    Allah doesn’t burden his creation with what they can’t bear.
    And I hope some imams don’t traumatize with a misplaced suggestion to our new Muslims without consulting other scholars.
    Wabillahi tawfiq.

  • @sarbast99
    @sarbast99 25 дней назад +12

    A very vital issue. A highly intelligent Lady Scholar. A wonderful interviewer. Thank you & be blessed Insha-Allah.

  • @halqigularip
    @halqigularip 21 день назад +9

    Many Selam from Uyghur Muslims

    • @randomness8819
      @randomness8819 17 дней назад

      a heart felt salam to you my loves!

  • @ashfaquei.k.426
    @ashfaquei.k.426 23 дня назад +5

    Ya Muqallib al-quloob thabbit qalbi 'ala deenik
    يَا مُقَلِّبَ الْقُلُوبِ ثَبِّتْ قَلْبِى عَلَى دِينِكَ
    “O Controller of hearts, make my heart firm in Your religion.”

    • @ashfaquei.k.426
      @ashfaquei.k.426 23 дня назад

      It was reported that Rasulullah salla Allahu ‘alayhi wa sallam used to say {Subhaanal-Malikil-Quddus} 3 times.
      while elongating the words in the third time?
      Subhaanal-Malikil-Quddus,
      Subhaanal-Malikil-Quddus,
      Subhaanal-Malikil-Qudduuuuuuuus
      (or Subhaaaaanal-Malikil-Quddus).
      Sunan an-Nasa’i 1729

  • @ZZ-ls5hv
    @ZZ-ls5hv 25 дней назад +30

    Salam from Kuala Lumpur to both of you... Indeed an important topic especially for lawyers dealing with Muslim family matters...

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 25 дней назад

      *Yes they must divorce their kuffar husbands end of story! Their marriage automatically breaks as soon as 1 of them accepts Islam!*
      *Yes AhlulKitab (jew/christian) wives are halal & valid only for Muslim men! Meaning if a Muslim has a jewish or christian wife, their marriage is valid unless & until she becomes a Non Kitabi disbeliever such as an atheist, hindu, buddhist, agnostic etc.*

  • @82medical
    @82medical 25 дней назад +17

    33:05 the answer.

  • @bernadettetormey4452
    @bernadettetormey4452 25 дней назад +17

    Salaams, brother Paul, and thank you. I am very much looking forward to hearing this. The timing is quite wonderful ❤

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 25 дней назад

      *They must divorce their kuffar husbands end of story! Their marriage automatically breaks as soon as 1 of them accepts Islam!*
      *But AhlulKitab (jew/christian) wives are halal & valid only for Muslim men! Meaning if a Muslim has a jewish or christian wife, their marriage is valid unless & until she becomes a Non Kitabi disbeliever such as an atheist, hindu, buddhist, agnostic etc.*

    • @nizamknight
      @nizamknight 25 дней назад +4

      @@muhammadsalafiahlulhadith calm yourself

  • @Okenyyahya
    @Okenyyahya 23 дня назад +3

    This is a wonderful discussion and the level of explanation is so superb with someone who has proven her self an authority in the field mashallah

  • @muslimresponse103
    @muslimresponse103 25 дней назад +36

    very important topic! unfortunately today we see born ‘cultural muslims’ marrying kufar men. may Allah ﷻ protect us 🤲🏻 ameen.

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 25 дней назад +2

      *They must divorce their kuffar husbands end of story! Their marriage automatically breaks as soon as 1 of them accepts Islam!*
      *But AhlulKitab (jew/christian) wives are halal & valid only for Muslim men! Meaning if a Muslim has a jewish or christian wife, their marriage is valid unless & until she becomes a Non Kitabi disbeliever such as an atheist, hindu, buddhist, agnostic etc.*

    • @muslimresponse103
      @muslimresponse103 25 дней назад +1

      @@muhammadsalafiahlulhadith yes I know Alhamdulillah

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 25 дней назад +1

      @@muslimresponse103 ALHUMDULILLAH

    • @nurcanyamac
      @nurcanyamac 25 дней назад +1

      ​@@muhammadsalafiahlulhadith fakat bir Hristiyan İsa'yı tanrı olarak görüyorsa böyle bir şeyin mümkün olamayacağını biliyorum.

    • @kb4432
      @kb4432 25 дней назад +1

      It's becoming an epidemic in some communities

  • @user-wt2nn7dg6q
    @user-wt2nn7dg6q 25 дней назад +6

    This is a very sensitive topic and it's rarely discussed, thank you brother and sister,jazakomallah.

  • @szlyar
    @szlyar 21 день назад +3

    This is such an understated discussion, and the approach is eye opening.
    Very, very important to give room to grow for new Muslim brothers and sisters.

    • @FatimaBarkatulla
      @FatimaBarkatulla 21 час назад

      Indeed and to help bring entire families to Islam.

  • @Peaceful-Space
    @Peaceful-Space 22 дня назад +3

    AWWWWW SHE IS ONE OF MY FAVOURITE SISTERS!!!

  • @naafas1
    @naafas1 25 дней назад +21

    Al.hamdu lillah, and then kudos to you Paul. It's nice seeing a Muslim sister who is learned. And from listening to her, it appears that she is upon the manhaj of the Salafus saalih. Paul, may Allah bless and guide you bro...👍🏽

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 25 дней назад +3

      *They must divorce their kuffar husbands end of story! Their marriage automatically breaks as soon as 1 of them accepts Islam!*
      *But AhlulKitab (jew/christian) wives are halal & valid only for Muslim men! Meaning if a Muslim has a jewish or christian wife, their marriage is valid unless & until she becomes a Non Kitabi disbeliever such as an atheist, hindu, buddhist, agnostic etc.*

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 25 дней назад

      *_NO WE DON'T NEED SUCH WESTERNIZED & WEST INFATUATED JAAHIL MUSLIMAHS LIKE YASMIN MOGAHED, DALIA MOGAHED, NIGHAT HASHMI, FARHAT HASHMI ETC. because lecturing & freemixing & WORKING WITH NONMAHRAMS ARE ALL HARAM IN THE ISLAMIC SHARIAH! There is no concept of female public dawah in Islam! Allah never sent a SINGLE female "prophetess"!! EVERY PROPHET AND MESSENGER was strictly a man because public dawah to mixed audience is only HALAL for MEN AND HARAM FOR WOMEN! PROPHETﷺ'S WIVES NEVER DELIVERED ANY FRIDAY KHUTBAHS FROM PULPITS OR ANY GENERAL DAWAH LECTURE FROM TOP OF MOUNTAINS LIKE PROPHET MUHAMMAD SALLALLAHUALAIHIWASALLAM!_*

    • @abuhijjra
      @abuhijjra 24 дня назад +1

      @@naafas1 if she was in the manhaj of the Salaf she would have spoken more about proofs and evidence, more about the saying of scholars of the past and why they held their positions on the subject. She also would have named the contemporary scholars, but she did not, as if she was trying to hide their identity. She did not go to one Islamic school which is known for the people of Ahlu Sunnah, and the manhaj of the Salaf. She’s clearly a shaikha by way of what the people say, not the Ulema.

    • @naafas1
      @naafas1 23 дня назад

      @abuhijjra if you knew the manhaj of the salaf, you would've heard it in her speech.

    • @abuhijjra
      @abuhijjra 23 дня назад

      @@naafas1 I for sure know it because I live by it to the best of my ability. I live with the people of Ahlu Sunnah wal Jummah, that are true scholars of the manhaj. This woman has not studied with them, so she does not have their manners or knowledge. Scholars from the Salafi manhaj would not be on a video show or wear a niqab half covering her face. I know of real Shaikha from Ahlu Sunnah and she is not like them. Who do you compare her to, and what’s your knowledge of who is upon the manhaj of the Salaf?

  • @nadzk2378
    @nadzk2378 25 дней назад +5

    Very interesting topic and very important too Jazakallah

  • @zainiabdullah621
    @zainiabdullah621 25 дней назад +41

    We need more Muslimah like her ! 👍 As long as she's not fostered by or under the US Rand Corporation Project for 'moderate neo-liberal' Islam network.
    Wallaahu A'lam.

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 25 дней назад

      *_NO WE DON'T NEED SUCH WESTERNIZED & WEST INFATUATED JAAHIL MUSLIMAHS LIKE YASMIN MOGAHED, DALIA MOGAHED, NIGHAT HASHMI, FARHAT HASHMI ETC. because lecturing & freemixing & WORKING WITH NONMAHRAMS ARE ALL HARAM IN THE ISLAMIC SHARIAH! There is no concept of female public dawah in Islam! Allah never sent a SINGLE female "prophetess"!! EVERY PROPHET AND MESSENGER was strictly a man because public dawah to mixed audience is only HALAL for MEN AND HARAM FOR WOMEN! PROPHETﷺ'S WIVES NEVER DELIVERED ANY FRIDAY KHUTBAHS FROM PULPITS OR ANY GENERAL DAWAH LECTURE FROM TOP OF MOUNTAINS LIKE PROPHET MUHAMMAD SALLALLAHUALAIHIWASALLAM!_*

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 25 дней назад

      *Yes AhlulKitab wives are valid only for Muslim men! Meaning if a Muslim has a jewish or christian wife, their marriage is valid unless & until she becomes a Non Kitabi disbeliever such as an atheist, hindu, buddhist, agnostic etc.*

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 25 дней назад +2

      *They must divorce their kuffar husbands end of story! Their marriage automatically breaks as soon as 1 of them accepts Islam!*
      *But AhlulKitab (jew/christian) wives are halal & valid only for Muslim men! Meaning if a Muslim has a jewish or christian wife, their marriage is valid unless & until she becomes a Non Kitabi disbeliever such as an atheist, hindu, buddhist, agnostic etc.*

    • @abdullahimohammad9513
      @abdullahimohammad9513 25 дней назад +2

      ​​ @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith You're very right brother. You don't just bring nuances if there are clear Quranic verses and authentic Hadiths on issues regardless of the opinions of scholars.

    • @remove122
      @remove122 25 дней назад

      @@zainiabdullah621 ya brainwashed

  • @UmmSulaiman1
    @UmmSulaiman1 25 дней назад +4

    Very interesting topic with great Speakers as usual!
    Love this channel ❤

  • @Seagate1981
    @Seagate1981 25 дней назад +6

    JazakaAllah Khair..

  • @abdurrazzak2970
    @abdurrazzak2970 25 дней назад +4

    May Allah Bless and Reward Both of Both of you in this Life and in the Hereafter.

  • @kennethmoore-cq7bj
    @kennethmoore-cq7bj 25 дней назад +13

    Important conversation,very impressive woman.

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 25 дней назад

      *They must divorce their kuffar husbands end of story! Their marriage automatically breaks as soon as 1 of them accepts Islam!*
      *But AhlulKitab (jew/christian) wives are halal & valid only for Muslim men! Meaning if a Muslim has a jewish or christian wife, their marriage is valid unless & until she becomes a Non Kitabi disbeliever such as an atheist, hindu, buddhist, agnostic etc.*

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 25 дней назад

      *_NO WE DON'T NEED SUCH WESTERNIZED & WEST INFATUATED JAAHIL MUSLIMAHS LIKE YASMIN MOGAHED, DALIA MOGAHED, NIGHAT HASHMI, FARHAT HASHMI ETC. because lecturing & freemixing & WORKING WITH NONMAHRAMS ARE ALL HARAM IN THE ISLAMIC SHARIAH! There is no concept of female public dawah in Islam! Allah never sent a SINGLE female "prophetess"!! EVERY PROPHET AND MESSENGER was strictly a man because public dawah to mixed audience is only HALAL for MEN AND HARAM FOR WOMEN! PROPHETﷺ'S WIVES NEVER DELIVERED ANY FRIDAY KHUTBAHS FROM PULPITS OR ANY GENERAL DAWAH LECTURE FROM TOP OF MOUNTAINS LIKE PROPHET MUHAMMAD SALLALLAHUALAIHIWASALLAM!_*

  • @ihafidh
    @ihafidh 14 дней назад +1

    Great research that is very relevant! Jazaki Allah khair sheikha Fatima. This is a great resource for Imams, researchers and students of knowledge.

    • @FatimaBarkatulla
      @FatimaBarkatulla 11 дней назад

      Jazakallahu khairan for the feedback and encouragement.

  • @quixoticmelancholic7141
    @quixoticmelancholic7141 17 дней назад +1

    Wonderful insight about dealing with converts only as individuals. Every effort should be made to show, reassure, and invite the family . Given how much ignorance/ misinformation there is about Islam and Muslims, it just makes sense that this must be part of the support provided to new sisters/brothers in faith.

    • @FatimaBarkatulla
      @FatimaBarkatulla 16 дней назад +1

      Absolutely. At the moment this is what is missing. The mosque gets excited to witness a Shahadah and doesn’t always enquire about the family or invite the family to the mosque to introduce them and include them.

  • @me78723
    @me78723 25 дней назад +8

    Sub han Allah , great talk Alhamdu Lillah . This is much needed.

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 25 дней назад +1

      *They must divorce their kuffar husbands end of story! Their marriage automatically breaks as soon as 1 of them accepts Islam!*
      *But AhlulKitab (jew/christian) wives are halal & valid only for Muslim men! Meaning if a Muslim has a jewish or christian wife, their marriage is valid unless & until she becomes a Non Kitabi disbeliever such as an atheist, hindu, buddhist, agnostic etc.*

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 25 дней назад

      *_NO WE DON'T NEED SUCH WESTERNIZED & WEST INFATUATED JAAHIL MUSLIMAHS LIKE YASMIN MOGAHED, DALIA MOGAHED, NIGHAT HASHMI, FARHAT HASHMI ETC. because lecturing & freemixing & WORKING WITH NONMAHRAMS ARE ALL HARAM IN THE ISLAMIC SHARIAH! There is no concept of female public dawah in Islam! Allah never sent a SINGLE female "prophetess"!! EVERY PROPHET AND MESSENGER was strictly a man because public dawah to mixed audience is only HALAL for MEN AND HARAM FOR WOMEN! PROPHETﷺ'S WIVES NEVER DELIVERED ANY FRIDAY KHUTBAHS FROM PULPITS OR ANY GENERAL DAWAH LECTURE FROM TOP OF MOUNTAINS LIKE PROPHET MUHAMMAD SALLALLAHUALAIHIWASALLAM!_*

  • @Itsn1te
    @Itsn1te 25 дней назад +26

    There’s an answer that only needs to be explained, not debated.

    • @davepugh2519
      @davepugh2519 25 дней назад +3

      And that's the problem with religion.

    • @Itsn1te
      @Itsn1te 25 дней назад +4

      @@davepugh2519 it is OK Dave you having Confort in your life comes through the fact that you don’t believe in any religion probably so don’t try to hurt other people because of your dissatisfaction with religion

    • @davepugh2519
      @davepugh2519 25 дней назад +2

      @@Itsn1te I'll stop criricising religion when religions stop trying to take away other people's rights.

    • @disuser-lp3qv1tm8f
      @disuser-lp3qv1tm8f 25 дней назад

      ​​@@davepugh2519 The zionist child-killers who have brainwashed you are the ones who are taking peoples' rights, including yours. Think about that for a little while and then continue your anachronistic inquisition.

    • @jojos9788
      @jojos9788 25 дней назад +2

      @@davepugh2519 have your rights bro. Nobody's dictating your life

  • @AshK1999
    @AshK1999 25 дней назад +11

    Thank you! With so many reverts l, male and female, we his question is coming up more and more

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 25 дней назад

      *They must divorce their kuffar husbands end of story! Their marriage automatically breaks as soon as 1 of them accepts Islam!*
      *But AhlulKitab (jew/christian) wives are halal & valid only for Muslim men! Meaning if a Muslim has a jewish or christian wife, their marriage is valid unless & until she becomes a Non Kitabi disbeliever such as an atheist, hindu, buddhist, agnostic etc.*

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 25 дней назад

      *_NO WE DON'T NEED SUCH WESTERNIZED & WEST INFATUATED JAAHIL MUSLIMAHS LIKE YASMIN MOGAHED, DALIA MOGAHED, NIGHAT HASHMI, FARHAT HASHMI ETC. because lecturing & freemixing & WORKING WITH NONMAHRAMS ARE ALL HARAM IN THE ISLAMIC SHARIAH! There is no concept of female public dawah in Islam! Allah never sent a SINGLE female "prophetess"!! EVERY PROPHET AND MESSENGER was strictly a man because public dawah to mixed audience is only HALAL for MEN AND HARAM FOR WOMEN! PROPHETﷺ'S WIVES NEVER DELIVERED ANY FRIDAY KHUTBAHS FROM PULPITS OR ANY GENERAL DAWAH LECTURE FROM TOP OF MOUNTAINS LIKE PROPHET MUHAMMAD SALLALLAHUALAIHIWASALLAM!_*

  • @trinitytotawheed
    @trinitytotawheed 24 дня назад +6

    Thank you for this Paul 🙏🏽 I’ve waited for a long time to get a teaching on this. I’ve been in this situation and Alhamdulillah I can say I’ve taken the right path w my marriage. But having kids too, it’s not being easy as a mother. The wait is important if you know for sure your husband will convert; in my case. And I still ask Allah ﷻ to make way for my marriage, to open the door for it In sha Allah. So it’s not in my hands. Abstaining is not easy, especially for husbands. But it’s not impossible. May Allah ﷻ make it easy for us reverts.

  • @midosaleh9298
    @midosaleh9298 22 дня назад +1

    May Allah reward you both paradise.

  • @me78723
    @me78723 25 дней назад +11

    24 Min ive never heard of this in my life

  • @funtimesforever7709
    @funtimesforever7709 25 дней назад +6

    They get onto the subject in question at around 15:10

    • @lamortexotique
      @lamortexotique 23 дня назад +2

      Thanks a lot! 10 mins in and she’s talking about random unrelated things and wasting time. Hope this is going to be worth it. Let’s see.

  • @akhtarmehjabeen
    @akhtarmehjabeen 25 дней назад +2

    Very informative session....

  • @PenangNorthamRd.
    @PenangNorthamRd. 24 дня назад +2

    Salam from Penang. This is very good 👍

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 25 дней назад +2

    One of the most important signs that we advise people to pay attention to is that this mufti or scholar should be someone who became famous for his sincerity and knowledge among the academic elite and specialised circles, not only among ordinary people. Rather scholars and specialists should testify to his understanding and skill, and they should acknowledge that he is well versed and his views are well-founded. Here we will quote as evidence what the scholars of hadith have said about ways of proving that a narrator is of good character. Ibn al-Salaah said: His sound character may be proven when two other scholars state that he is of good character, or because it is widely known. If a person is widely known to be of good character among the scholars of hadith or other scholars, and he was widely praised for his trustworthiness and honesty, there is no need for a statement from specific people testifying to his good character. This is the correct view according to the madhhab of ash-Shaafa‘i (may Allah have mercy on him), and it is the principle that is adopted in the field of usool al-fiqh.
    End quote from Muqaddimat Ibn as-Salaah (p. 105)

  • @ashish_parikh
    @ashish_parikh 25 дней назад +3

    May Allah reward you guys ❤

  • @citycentregreen
    @citycentregreen 25 дней назад +4

    MashaAllah great talk

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 25 дней назад

      *They must divorce their kuffar husbands end of story! Their marriage automatically breaks as soon as 1 of them accepts Islam!*
      *But AhlulKitab (jew/christian) wives are halal & valid only for Muslim men! Meaning if a Muslim has a jewish or christian wife, their marriage is valid unless & until she becomes a Non Kitabi disbeliever such as an atheist, hindu, buddhist, agnostic etc.*

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 25 дней назад

      *_NO WE DON'T NEED SUCH WESTERNIZED & WEST INFATUATED JAAHIL MUSLIMAHS LIKE YASMIN MOGAHED, DALIA MOGAHED, NIGHAT HASHMI, FARHAT HASHMI ETC. because lecturing & freemixing & WORKING WITH NONMAHRAMS ARE ALL HARAM IN THE ISLAMIC SHARIAH! There is no concept of female public dawah in Islam! Allah never sent a SINGLE female "prophetess"!! EVERY PROPHET AND MESSENGER was strictly a man because public dawah to mixed audience is only HALAL for MEN AND HARAM FOR WOMEN! PROPHETﷺ'S WIVES NEVER DELIVERED ANY FRIDAY KHUTBAHS FROM PULPITS OR ANY GENERAL DAWAH LECTURE FROM TOP OF MOUNTAINS LIKE PROPHET MUHAMMAD SALLALLAHUALAIHIWASALLAM!_*

  • @mohamedsh9435
    @mohamedsh9435 25 дней назад +2

    Masha Allaah, beautiful
    Sister jasaaka Allaah

  • @kalijasin
    @kalijasin 25 дней назад +3

    Good discussion 😊

  • @osmantokul2034
    @osmantokul2034 24 дня назад +2

    Very good question

  • @abuhanaaaan
    @abuhanaaaan 25 дней назад +1

    Jaxakumullaahu khairan

  • @knucklehead4787
    @knucklehead4787 25 дней назад +2

    Interesting topic

  • @shamidreesshahveerjafryzai9036
    @shamidreesshahveerjafryzai9036 21 день назад

    Brother assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barkatu brother your Tableeg excellent mind-blowing beautiful lajawaab I like it I am Abdul shaid Shaikh from Ahmedabad City Gujarat India I am Indian muslim

  • @ahmedhassan3016
    @ahmedhassan3016 24 дня назад +2

    Slms very good talk

  • @Dilrabo_Bobojonova
    @Dilrabo_Bobojonova 25 дней назад +1

    Thank u so much

  • @MuhammadTariq-ke4zu
    @MuhammadTariq-ke4zu 25 дней назад

    وعليڪم السلام و رحمت الله و برڪاتہ سائين منھنجا پال ماشاءالله ❤

  • @MuhammadNawaz-xw2fu
    @MuhammadNawaz-xw2fu 21 день назад

    SISTER FATIMA BARKATULLAH PLEASE TELL TO THE WORLD ANY MIRACLE THAT YOU GOT IN ISLAM

  • @xzibit2781
    @xzibit2781 3 дня назад

    Assalam alaykum, Insha Allah I am ready to help revert muslims to learn Arabic and Quran while accommodating them in my modest place in Tunisia. You are welcome. May Allah bless you all.

  • @user-kb3wd2tx7y
    @user-kb3wd2tx7y 23 дня назад +2

    People love to welcome individual western women into Islam because it is seen as a vindication over the stereotype of the oppressed Muslim woman. This is why the focus is on HER and not her children or husband. She is symbolic. The other issue is that we have to look at the modern context of the family in the West. We are in such a dire state that we should do everything we can to keep couples who are willing to work together, together. It is certainly not ideal for a Muslim woman to be married to a non-believing man; but given the fragility of marriage nowadays, it makes sense, as sister Fatima says to give them a grace period. We used to stress out about our teenagers having boyfriends and girlfriends but in today's climate we are just thankful they are attracted to the opposite sex. Crazy times.

  • @najmulhasan5317
    @najmulhasan5317 25 дней назад

    Masha Allah 🤲🏻

  • @danielahmed8162
    @danielahmed8162 25 дней назад

    Al hamdulillah

  • @farahmay8052
    @farahmay8052 21 день назад +1

    Is this about the answering the question or talking about their travels ?

  • @waqasbashir3539
    @waqasbashir3539 21 день назад +2

    Sir, I'm waiting for your visit in leicester.

  • @ammarahsajid2457
    @ammarahsajid2457 25 дней назад +1

    As an American watching I find it very interesting how brits view the states.

  • @cooldesertknight9013
    @cooldesertknight9013 24 дня назад +1

    Salaam to all.
    I don't have 2+hrs !!
    Any "summary-video" coming?
    Jazakum'Allah Khair, all.

  • @IslamTruth-kr8vo
    @IslamTruth-kr8vo 25 дней назад +1

    Mashallah

  • @janrudnik6870
    @janrudnik6870 24 дня назад

    Allah made me do it !

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 25 дней назад +1

    For a woman to that is from a Christian family and marriage to enter Islam in these days and times, is a sign of her sense of strong conviction.

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 25 дней назад

    Another sign of the scholars is that they are very religiously committed and have a good attitude, and they are also keen to follow the example of the righteous of the early generations, namely the Sahaabah and Taabi‘een, and the leading scholars. So in general they do not drift away from their path, and every fatwa or word that they utter they attribute to one of the earlier leading scholars such as Abu Bakr, ‘Umar, Sufyaan, al-Awzaa‘i, Abu Haneefah, Maalik, ash-Shaafa‘i, Ahmad, al-Ghazaali, al-‘Izz ibn ‘Abd as-Salaam, an-Nawawi, Ibn Taymiyah, Ibn al-Qayyim, Ibn Katheer, Ibn Hajar and other scholars of Islam concerning whose prominence in knowledge, devotion and sincerity the Muslims do not differ.

  • @harharharharharharharharha240
    @harharharharharharharharha240 25 дней назад +3

    I am guessing it is the same thing with male converts who are in relationships with women who aren’t of the people of the book or Muslim

  • @alberxenos
    @alberxenos 25 дней назад +1

    السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ
    Assalamu’alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

  • @quixoticmelancholic7141
    @quixoticmelancholic7141 18 дней назад +1

    Sort of glad you didn’t come to Houston- I would have felt real regret to have missed meeting you🙂.

  • @faizakaply9656
    @faizakaply9656 14 дней назад

    the cover photo of this video is the dome of Masjid Putra in Putrajaya, Malaysia

  • @komrij1944
    @komrij1944 25 дней назад

    Yes.

  • @user-zo7vo5me3d
    @user-zo7vo5me3d 25 дней назад

    She's buitiful ❤

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 24 дня назад +1

    True scholars of Ahlu Sunnah, when they answer a question or speak on a subject, don’t leave the people in a state of ambiguity. They don’t waste much time talking about unfounded opinions from unknown people. The true Ulema, informs the people the qualified positions of the topic and leave them with the strongest opinion based on the Quran and Sunnah.

  • @SabeerAbdulla
    @SabeerAbdulla 25 дней назад

    Yes, they should.

  • @AshK1999
    @AshK1999 25 дней назад +1

    1.08 so interesting

  • @MegaAli213
    @MegaAli213 10 дней назад

    Reliance of the Traveler by Shaykh Nuh Ha Mim Keller !!!!

  • @mujahidmuffasir
    @mujahidmuffasir 25 дней назад

    Wa Alaikum Assalam

  • @thewisetzar5363
    @thewisetzar5363 25 дней назад +4

    Husband must revert within a timeframe before the Muslim woman must leave him

    • @Peaches10608
      @Peaches10608 24 дня назад +1

      What happens to the children

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 23 дня назад +4

      ​@Peaches10608 children should be with the Muslim parent following Islam

    • @Peaches10608
      @Peaches10608 23 дня назад +3

      @@muhammadsalafiahlulhadith that's going to cause a mess because any father is going to fight for custody too. lookup statistics on single mother homes... Children literally need their father

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 23 дня назад +2

      @Peaches10608 Doesn't matter! Islam comes first! Not custody or money or whatever!

  • @ilmoyaqeen2928
    @ilmoyaqeen2928 22 дня назад

    Islam is peace

  • @sheriefkhandalwai9347
    @sheriefkhandalwai9347 10 дней назад +2

    What scholars says is their opinion

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 25 дней назад +2

    Organized innovations, how nice SICNA
    “The Nation of Mislam.”

  • @Okenyyahya
    @Okenyyahya 24 дня назад +1

    It's not easy when a woman converts to Islam to continue living in marriage with a non Muslim husband but it looks feasible when the man converts he can still keep his non Muslim wife
    The problem is Islam is a way of life and there is likely to be some complications if both can not observe the culture together....

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 25 дней назад +2

    The Standing Committee for Issuing Fatwas was asked about a Christian woman who was elderly, as was her husband. She became Muslim but he did not, and there was no sexual relationship between them. Is it permissible for her to stay with him or should the marriage be annulled?
    They replied:
    If a Christian woman becomes Muslim and she is the wife of a Christian man, the marriage contract is annulled. Based on that, it is not permissible for her to stay with him even if they are old and have no sexual relationship. End quote.
    Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa’imah, 19/16-17

  • @NONNON-yp4zr
    @NONNON-yp4zr 25 дней назад +3

    More than 14 mins. spent before getting into the subject which made me change the channel.

  • @abdullateef8212
    @abdullateef8212 7 дней назад

    WHEN are you going to Address the TOPIC???

  • @abdullateef8212
    @abdullateef8212 7 дней назад +1

    Please ANSWER the question

  • @moizahmed4705
    @moizahmed4705 25 дней назад +14

    Qur'an has addressed this issue:
    *You who believe, test the believing women when they come to you as emigrants- God knows best about their faith- and if you are sure of their belief, do not send them back to the disbelievers: they are not lawful wives for them, nor are the disbelievers their lawful husbands. Give the disbelievers whatever bride-gifts they have paid- if you choose to marry them, there is no blame on you once you have paid their bride-gifts- and do not yourselves hold on to marriage ties with disbelieving women. Ask for repayment of the bride-gifts you have paid, and let the disbelievers do the same. This is God’s judgement: He judges between you, God is all knowing and wise. [Qur'an 60:10]*

    • @user-jt8vj1vm6y
      @user-jt8vj1vm6y 25 дней назад

      "and if you are sure of their belief, do not send them back to the disbelievers: they are not lawful wives for them, nor are the disbelievers their lawful husbands"
      Here Allah seems to confuse being sure of something and something being true.
      Suppose a man is sure that a woman is a believer, does that mean that she actually is a believer ?
      That's what Allah seems to conclude, when he says she is then unlawful for unbelieving men.

    • @Yoyo-dx8wz
      @Yoyo-dx8wz 25 дней назад

      ​@@user-jt8vj1vm6y this verse won't go in heads of jahil/ignorant 🤡

    • @IrfanAli-so5hh
      @IrfanAli-so5hh 25 дней назад +4

      ​@@user-jt8vj1vm6yyou pointed a accuracy of the Qur'an and say it's a mistake.
      Woe to you for your ignorance and arrogance

    • @user-jt8vj1vm6y
      @user-jt8vj1vm6y 25 дней назад

      @@IrfanAli-so5hh how it's not a mistake.

    • @panduvandal
      @panduvandal 25 дней назад

      What are you trying to point out​@@user-jt8vj1vm6y

  • @reyhaneh_Barros
    @reyhaneh_Barros 23 дня назад +3

    She speaks very slowly with many pauses, making it difficult and uncomfortable to listen and learn from her. It feels as if she is struggling to speak...

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 25 дней назад

    The sign of the scholar and faqeeh who is qualified to issue fatwas is that he is able to use as evidence the verses of the Qur’an and the hadiths of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), distinguishing what is sound from what is not, what abrogates and what is abrogated, what is specific in meaning and what is general in meaning, and who understands the meaning and the context of revelation. That is because the true scholar is the one who gives precedence to the Holy Qur’an in his list of priorities, because it is the source of knowledge and fiqh, and is the basis of sharee‘ah and rulings.

  • @dortoka
    @dortoka 25 дней назад +2

    She’s correct. The comments are ignorant as to the reality

    • @JoBlogz
      @JoBlogz 25 дней назад

      what did she say?

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 25 дней назад +1

      *They must divorce their kuffar husbands end of story! Their marriage automatically breaks as soon as 1 of them accepts Islam!*
      *But AhlulKitab (jew/christian) wives are halal & valid only for Muslim men! Meaning if a Muslim has a jewish or christian wife, their marriage is valid unless & until she becomes a Non Kitabi disbeliever such as an atheist, hindu, buddhist, agnostic etc.*

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 25 дней назад

      *_NO WE DON'T NEED SUCH WESTERNIZED & WEST INFATUATED JAAHIL MUSLIMAHS LIKE YASMIN MOGAHED, DALIA MOGAHED, NIGHAT HASHMI, FARHAT HASHMI ETC. because lecturing & freemixing & WORKING WITH NONMAHRAMS ARE ALL HARAM IN THE ISLAMIC SHARIAH! There is no concept of female public dawah in Islam! Allah never sent a SINGLE female "prophetess"!! EVERY PROPHET AND MESSENGER was strictly a man because public dawah to mixed audience is only HALAL for MEN AND HARAM FOR WOMEN! PROPHETﷺ'S WIVES NEVER DELIVERED ANY FRIDAY KHUTBAHS FROM PULPITS OR ANY GENERAL DAWAH LECTURE FROM TOP OF MOUNTAINS LIKE PROPHET MUHAMMAD SALLALLAHUALAIHIWASALLAM!_*

  • @Yoyo-dx8wz
    @Yoyo-dx8wz 25 дней назад

    Sheikh Us Islam Ibn Qudamah is correct may Allah have mercy on him.

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 25 дней назад +1

    Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allah have mercy on him) said: What is indicated by the ruling of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) is that the marriage is suspended. If he becomes Muslim before the end of her ‘iddah, then she is still his wife, but if her ‘iddah ends, then she may marry whomever she wants, or if she likes she may wait for him, then if he becomes Muslim, she is still his wife without any need for a new marriage contract. End quote.
    Zaad al-Ma‘aad, 5/137

    • @FatimaBarkatulla
      @FatimaBarkatulla 25 дней назад +3

      Yes and he expands on it in Ahkam ahl-Adh-Dhimmah

  • @HussainFahmy
    @HussainFahmy 24 дня назад +2

    💯👍

  • @akhan8456
    @akhan8456 25 дней назад +22

    If I correctly remember, the female revert will immediately separate from the non Muslim husband and If within (three months/or three menstural cycles) the non Muslim husband does not come to Islam then their marriage is completely dissolved, however If he reverts withing three months then they don't need to make a new contract of marriage (Nikah). However, If the husband revertes after three months, then they will be making a New Contract (Nikah)

    • @balisurf8994
      @balisurf8994 25 дней назад +6

      Correct

    • @user-wc7ku7ud3e
      @user-wc7ku7ud3e 25 дней назад +2

      Your words are not true. They are the words of ignorant sheikhs. If you read the Qur’an, you will find something different. The Qur’an allowed the marriage of a Muslim woman to the People of the Book. It allowed the wife who converted to Islam to remain the wife of her non-Muslim husband.

    • @sidahmed789
      @sidahmed789 25 дней назад +14

      @@user-wc7ku7ud3eback it up, you can’t tell him "you said something wrong and without proof" and then say something without the actual proof

    • @akhan8456
      @akhan8456 25 дней назад

      @@user-wc7ku7ud3e Give me the verse of Quran

    • @akhan8456
      @akhan8456 25 дней назад

      At least quote the chapter and verse No. I will post it here

  • @user-zy3ys9hx3w
    @user-zy3ys9hx3w 21 день назад

    Assalamo alukum i like I am Muslim my sister any Muslim like married I like good pactecing Muslim sister or any like conversations Muslim sister thanks you

  • @sabirali7704
    @sabirali7704 25 дней назад

  • @ME-yp7fn
    @ME-yp7fn 25 дней назад +8

    المسلمات الجدد ليس عليهن طلاق ازواجهن الغير مسلمين فور اعتناقهم الاسلام, ولكن يمكنها الامساك عليه وعدم طلاقه والحرص علي عدم المساس بها بتمكينه من وطئها واعطائه الوقت لمراجعة نفسه والتفكير في اعتناق الاسلام وهذا الحكم مذكور بتفاصيل اكثر في كتاب احكام اهل الذمة لابن قيم الجوزية

    • @user-wc7ku7ud3e
      @user-wc7ku7ud3e 25 дней назад

      متمكنوش انه ي ن ي ك ه ا؟ انت عاقل؟هو ابن القيم الجوزيه دا عاقل والا بيفهم؟ انت بتهجص بخرافات الشياطين

    • @ME-yp7fn
      @ME-yp7fn 25 дней назад +1

      @@user-wc7ku7ud3e تأدب في كلامك علي علماء الاسلام الربانيين, ابن قيم الجوزية رحمه ذكر وعرض ادلة علماء الاسلام في كافة المذاهب الفقهية قبل القول بكلامه المدعم بالدليل الشرعي وبيان وجه المصلحة فيه, اذهب وافتح كتاب احكام اهل الذمة, فصل في أحكام نكاحهم ومناكحاتهم

  • @pushpanusair1201
    @pushpanusair1201 25 дней назад +7

    Phoarah was not Muslim yet his wife will go to Paraside

    • @appu1sundaram
      @appu1sundaram 25 дней назад

      That's true. But their sharia was not the same as what we have now. Islam doesn't allow a. Muslim woman to marry or stay married to a non Muslim man period.

    • @abed7922
      @abed7922 20 дней назад

      I had that in mind all along too.

    • @appu1sundaram
      @appu1sundaram 20 дней назад +2

      @@abed7922 That was a different time and a different sharia altogether. Monotheism was the message of all prophets but sharia was different. It was allowed then but it is prohibited for the ummah of our Prophet saw. Prophet saw himself took his daughter Zainab RA away from her husband as soon as the commandment came down. They lived separately until her husband eventually embraced Islam. She could have married someone else but she didn't. She waited as a single mother. Allah guided her husband and the family was whole again.

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 25 дней назад +2

    Al-Shawkaani (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
    The words of Allah, “They are not lawful (wives) for the disbelievers nor are the disbelievers lawful (husbands) for them” explain the reason why it is forbidden to send them back. This indicates that a believing woman is not permissible for a kaafir and that if the woman becomes Muslim she must leave her husband. End quote.
    Fath al-Qadeer, 5/301

  • @truetopsoialusdclassicthro2177
    @truetopsoialusdclassicthro2177 25 дней назад +1

    Most?

  • @ABC-wi6vt
    @ABC-wi6vt 19 дней назад +2

    Short answer : yes ; you can’t sleep with a kaafir; can’t uncover in front of a kaafir , can’t obey a kaafir , can’t be alone with a kaafir.

    • @user-ir1lu1ei4n
      @user-ir1lu1ei4n 12 дней назад

      Then leave and live in a Muslim country

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 25 дней назад +2

    O you who believe! When believing women come to you as emigrants, examine them, Allah knows best as to their Faith, then if you ascertain that they are true believers, send them not back to the disbelievers, they are not lawful (wives) for the disbelievers nor are the disbelievers lawful (husbands) for them. But give the disbelievers that (amount of money) which they have spent [as their Mahr] to them. And there will be no sin on you to marry them if you have paid their Mahr to them. Likewise hold not the disbelieving women as wives, and ask for (the return of) that which you have spent (as Mahr) and let them (the disbelievers, etc.) ask back for that which they have spent. That is the Judgement of Allah. He judges between you. And Allah is All-Knowing, All-Wise.

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 25 дней назад +1

    I don’t see the point in mentioning Tunisia and their position on this matter or modern day innovations of governments. The time could have been used to talk about some proofs and evidences.

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 25 дней назад +7

    Sometimes these long explanations of an Islamic matter does more to confuse the common people than bring clarity. Also for many common people it opens doors for them to follow their desires rather than the evidence or truth. There is an Islamic principle that we should take the stricter of fatawah because it provides the greatest protection of our Deen, and keeps us further away from doubtful matters and sins.