Hey guys hope this was helpful! Leave me a comment with your thoughts? Be sure to check out my brand new masterclass on the 5 Proven Steps to Rebuilding Your Relationship/Marriage. (Warning: Spots are limited) 💪 Here is the link to the MASTERCLASS! -> urlgeni.us/MCTSELBODS 🎁 Download the FREE GUIDE! -> relationshipsmastered.com/healing-partner-emotions 🎉 To see how all my clients have achieved massive success through dire & hopeless circumstances, click here! ruclips.net/p/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU
Elisa here: so just a few days before this video dropped my former partner tested me hard- it was that make or break moment that the program had prepared me for. My partner was waiting for the old Elisa to show up- having a temper tantrum, bitter, nasty- but no- she’s gone! What he got instead was warmth, understanding, empathy and someone who only wanted him to be happy. He was stunned and then he repeatedly apologized to me saying he had known I had changed a little, but in his mind he had not acknowledged or given me credit for how deeply and completely I had changed. He kept apologizing and saying “you’ve changed so much!” After that we had a wonderful conversation and we acknowledged that we both really love being with one another, spending time together, talking with each other, etc. He was happy and enthusiastic, talking to me for an hour. There is no finish line- just growth and slow rebuild of the trust and safety with real communication and openness. I highly recommend this program to everyone I meet.
@@elisabompadre8 Boom! Resistances are where the opportunities lie! The successful know this secret and knows how to take advantage of it... The failures interpret resistances all wrong, and fail to turn them from negative into positive! Keep going Elisa! Keep showing the way!
What she is describing about self sabotaging, knowing it and can't change, frustrating, "no tool in the tool box"... this all fits with my situation. It's so nice in a way to hear some one articulating how I feel too. Thank you for this interview.
Thanks for this great interview. The more I watch your videos and the client interviews the more convinced I am that I need to take this program. It is so true though, as I go through your videos I can see how these ideas go beyond just relationships. This is the first personal development platform I have seen with practical steps for dealing with the junk in our minds. I love it and I want more. You have literally inspired me to rethink the entire strategy for my life.
@@GeoffreySetiawan How the subtle things we don't see as important are the very blind spots that destroy safety...like dismissing your partner's interest. Then the importance in having the right process to making those internal changes to the point where it's just who you are. I'm in the same situation as Elisa was. Changes have been acknowledged but no commitment lol. I have more work to do. Effort and surrender (giving things time). There are weeks where I'm just thriving and flying then , a very crazy scenario I didn't expect happens and then I find myself struggling lol. In all, enjoying and staying obsessed with the process💪🏾🔥.
I like that more women tell their story. Strangely enough most interviews with couples are not as interesting as those whith the people that actually took the program. Can't put my finger on it though. Maybe the people left behind can more precisely explain what they went through and what they learned because of your program.
Yup! You hit it right on the nail. Just goes to show how "not easy" it is to be doing these interviews for my clients and how much of the program they've mastered to have a deep enough discussion about their journey, principles and learnings that is insightful for all :)
Losing hope I made a mistake last night by asking a logical question but it led to her resentment of me not trusting her, although she has no trust for me, I'm still on step one trying to build trust and emotional security , she's backing off more today
Ah I about to get a loan for the program because I need the methods of FAE and bulletproof for jealous and victim mindset because now I want my partner to spend time with me more only after she wants to separate/divorce ...i miss her and so many actions didn't speak loud enough but I'm going to win her back matter what I got this .@@GeoffreySetiawan
Geoffrey I watched the interview with James Rickenbaugh(thank you for that, its really helpful and big kudos to James for how he handled it all) I noticed his situation was almost exactly the same as its mine currently, could you give me some advice on how to interact, respond and behave in a work environment where I will see both of them? While I am going through the process of bettering myself(plan on taking the Relationship Revival program also). Any advice much appreciated
Hey geoffrey, man i love your videos. This should be mandatory for ppl thinging about getting married. I have a question. Me and my wife almost divorced. She asked to stop the divorce to work things out. I moved out of the house at the beginning of the divorce. I've been staying at the house some mights to help with taking the kids to school. I am thinking of moving in back but staying in different rooms. Should i? Also I kiss her goodbye before she goes to work and seems happy.
Hello Geoffrey, I am curious about the program without necessarily the one-on-one coaching. Finances is a real issue for me so I cannot afford one-on-one coaching but I do love your videos and hearing about the program.
Hi Zimbertica, Do I offer program portal access without the direct coaching services? Short answer: No, scan the comments through all of my videos and see just how many people improperly misinterpret the concepts and understandings. In my program, we go much deeper, and this causes much more concepts and understandings to be misunderstood. Having worked to help save thousands of relationships, I have learned that videos and concepts alone will not enable a client to become successful. Please take a look at all of the interviews and see firsthand from my clients that they needed all six tools my program delivers to achieve their desired results. If I offered anything less, this would be me taking someone's money, knowing they do not have the tools necessary to become successful. I hope you can appreciate that my principles do not allow me to take your money, unlike those of many options found on the market with program levels and paywalls. For the reason that some can not currently afford the complete program, I invest so much time and effort to deliver what many feel is the best free content available on RUclips. :)
Thanks for the reply and all very understandable reasons and I will agree that you have the best content in this category on RUclips, however the cost of the program is too much for me right now. @@GeoffreySetiawan
Geoff , i lost my love on feb , everything was may fault, I admited front of her , she is like i don't want you anymore or in future also , is there any hope , coz its nov now she still doesn't want to talk , whenever i manufacture contact she doesn't even talk well
Hi geoff , wanted to ask u about poc . My gf has once or twice talked with me very little of how she felt and after sometime she got more resistant to my messages . Doesn't reply them for days and doesn't want to talk to me on a regular basis . I tried talking about deeper things but I unable to open those gates RN. Can this be considered as paradox of change?
It is considered The Paradox of Change when someone has genuinely changed, learning mastery of the internal shifts, the anti-fragile mindset, untethering, and the frameworks. They have changed considerably, and their partner has yet to catch up to this new becoming person. Their partner's resistance does not faze this person because they are sourcing the validation and change from within. They have conviction in their changes, and they know they will keep growing these changes as a lifestyle regardless of their current outcomes. (Untethered) Resistance, or "The Valley of Resistance," as I describe in this video below, is when someone begins to doubt and seeks to gain validation from external sources such as their partner. They often question themselves and doubt their changes due to their changes needing to be more massive and permanent and still tethered to outcomes. Check out this video below to learn more. ruclips.net/video/iyxOuKmuTuY/видео.htmlsi=uH5FLpoOJ5ZxVixy
Hey guys hope this was helpful! Leave me a comment with your thoughts? Be sure to check out my brand new masterclass on the 5 Proven Steps to Rebuilding Your Relationship/Marriage. (Warning: Spots are limited)
💪 Here is the link to the MASTERCLASS! -> urlgeni.us/MCTSELBODS
🎁 Download the FREE GUIDE! -> relationshipsmastered.com/healing-partner-emotions
🎉 To see how all my clients have achieved massive success through dire & hopeless circumstances, click here! ruclips.net/p/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU
Elisa here: so just a few days before this video dropped my former partner tested me hard- it was that make or break moment that the program had prepared me for. My partner was waiting for the old Elisa to show up- having a temper tantrum, bitter, nasty- but no- she’s gone! What he got instead was warmth, understanding, empathy and someone who only wanted him to be happy. He was stunned and then he repeatedly apologized to me saying he had known I had changed a little, but in his mind he had not acknowledged or given me credit for how deeply and completely I had changed. He kept apologizing and saying “you’ve changed so much!” After that we had a wonderful conversation and we acknowledged that we both really love being with one another, spending time together, talking with each other, etc. He was happy and enthusiastic, talking to me for an hour. There is no finish line- just growth and slow rebuild of the trust and safety with real communication and openness. I highly recommend this program to everyone I meet.
@@elisabompadre8 Boom! Resistances are where the opportunities lie!
The successful know this secret and knows how to take advantage of it...
The failures interpret resistances all wrong, and fail to turn them from negative into positive!
Keep going Elisa! Keep showing the way!
As a female viewer, I really appreciate this content. Thanks!
Keep tuning in because I have a few more female interviews coming up in the weeks ahead. :)
What she is describing about self sabotaging, knowing it and can't change, frustrating, "no tool in the tool box"... this all fits with my situation.
It's so nice in a way to hear some one articulating how I feel too.
Thank you for this interview.
So true don't give up at the wrong time there going to pull away but keep going start the change. Untether!
Great interview. I'm working to become more like Elisa.
This was a good video. Thanks guys
Thanks for this great interview. The more I watch your videos and the client interviews the more convinced I am that I need to take this program.
It is so true though, as I go through your videos I can see how these ideas go beyond just relationships. This is the first personal development platform I have seen with practical steps for dealing with the junk in our minds. I love it and I want more.
You have literally inspired me to rethink the entire strategy for my life.
GREAT interview!!!!👍🏻
Thank you Geoffrey, this addresses a lot for me😊.
What did you find most eye-opening?
@@GeoffreySetiawan How the subtle things we don't see as important are the very blind spots that destroy safety...like dismissing your partner's interest.
Then the importance in having the right process to making those internal changes to the point where it's just who you are.
I'm in the same situation as Elisa was. Changes have been acknowledged but no commitment lol. I have more work to do. Effort and surrender (giving things time).
There are weeks where I'm just thriving and flying then , a very crazy scenario I didn't expect happens and then I find myself struggling lol.
In all, enjoying and staying obsessed with the process💪🏾🔥.
I like that more women tell their story. Strangely enough most interviews with couples are not as interesting as those whith the people that actually took the program. Can't put my finger on it though. Maybe the people left behind can more precisely explain what they went through and what they learned because of your program.
Yup! You hit it right on the nail. Just goes to show how "not easy" it is to be doing these interviews for my clients and how much of the program they've mastered to have a deep enough discussion about their journey, principles and learnings that is insightful for all :)
@@GeoffreySetiawan I can say only one thing: You are doing great with these interviews. And I hope you will get more recognition soon.
Losing hope I made a mistake last night by asking a logical question but it led to her resentment of me not trusting her, although she has no trust for me, I'm still on step one trying to build trust and emotional security , she's backing off more today
Ah I about to get a loan for the program because I need the methods of FAE and bulletproof for jealous and victim mindset because now I want my partner to spend time with me more only after she wants to separate/divorce ...i miss her and so many actions didn't speak loud enough but I'm going to win her back matter what I got this .@@GeoffreySetiawan
12:55 Omg Brutal 😮....
Paradox of Change
Geoffrey I watched the interview with James Rickenbaugh(thank you for that, its really helpful and big kudos to James for how he handled it all) I noticed his situation was almost exactly the same as its mine currently, could you give me some advice on how to interact, respond and behave in a work environment where I will see both of them? While I am going through the process of bettering myself(plan on taking the Relationship Revival program also). Any advice much appreciated
Hey geoffrey, man i love your videos. This should be mandatory for ppl thinging about getting married. I have a question. Me and my wife almost divorced. She asked to stop the divorce to work things out. I moved out of the house at the beginning of the divorce. I've been staying at the house some mights to help with taking the kids to school. I am thinking of moving in back but staying in different rooms. Should i? Also I kiss her goodbye before she goes to work and seems happy.
Yes if you are serious about reconciling and she wants you to move in
1:02:48 i can totally relate to this💯
Hello Geoffrey, I am curious about the program without necessarily the one-on-one coaching. Finances is a real issue for me so I cannot afford one-on-one coaching but I do love your videos and hearing about the program.
Hi Zimbertica,
Do I offer program portal access without the direct coaching services?
Short answer: No, scan the comments through all of my videos and see just how many people improperly misinterpret the concepts and understandings. In my program, we go much deeper, and this causes much more concepts and understandings to be misunderstood.
Having worked to help save thousands of relationships, I have learned that videos and concepts alone will not enable a client to become successful. Please take a look at all of the interviews and see firsthand from my clients that they needed all six tools my program delivers to achieve their desired results.
If I offered anything less, this would be me taking someone's money, knowing they do not have the tools necessary to become successful. I hope you can appreciate that my principles do not allow me to take your money, unlike those of many options found on the market with program levels and paywalls.
For the reason that some can not currently afford the complete program, I invest so much time and effort to deliver what many feel is the best free content available on RUclips. :)
Thanks for the reply and all very understandable reasons and I will agree that you have the best content in this category on RUclips, however the cost of the program is too much for me right now.
@@GeoffreySetiawan
Geoff , i lost my love on feb , everything was may fault, I admited front of her , she is like i don't want you anymore or in future also , is there any hope , coz its nov now she still doesn't want to talk , whenever i manufacture contact she doesn't even talk well
The seed of consciousness should like a shroom trip
"Seat of consciousness" Is better described as identifying the mind with consciousness and self-awareness.
@@GeoffreySetiawanCan you made video about That? That depth explanation of consciousness and seed consciousness?
Hi geoff , wanted to ask u about poc . My gf has once or twice talked with me very little of how she felt and after sometime she got more resistant to my messages . Doesn't reply them for days and doesn't want to talk to me on a regular basis . I tried talking about deeper things but I unable to open those gates RN. Can this be considered as paradox of change?
It is considered The Paradox of Change when someone has genuinely changed, learning mastery of the internal shifts, the anti-fragile mindset, untethering, and the frameworks. They have changed considerably, and their partner has yet to catch up to this new becoming person. Their partner's resistance does not faze this person because they are sourcing the validation and change from within. They have conviction in their changes, and they know they will keep growing these changes as a lifestyle regardless of their current outcomes. (Untethered)
Resistance, or "The Valley of Resistance," as I describe in this video below, is when someone begins to doubt and seeks to gain validation from external sources such as their partner. They often question themselves and doubt their changes due to their changes needing to be more massive and permanent and still tethered to outcomes.
Check out this video below to learn more.
ruclips.net/video/iyxOuKmuTuY/видео.htmlsi=uH5FLpoOJ5ZxVixy
To bad this program is for people with money. Really unfortunate