" Looks aren't important" is the biggest lie my parents told me. I don't think they realized but it held me back socially because I found that anyone I putting to much attention in their looks as "shallow". I know they were trying to help my confidence, I was chubby due to medications I was taking, but my gosh this was detrimental. Glad I learned the truth.
@@abdim1500 looks did matter back then but with social media we constantly see a lot of attractive people and we see people look more attractive on their posts that in real life. So now our generations perception of what attractive looks like is skewed
Improving my mental health had a strong effect on my looks. I look at pictures of myself from 5 months ago when I was at rock bottom suffering from depression and addiction and the difference between then and now is very noticeable in my face alone. The eyes are truly the window to the soul.
FACTS. People always assume I got my confidence from my looks, but it’s the opposite. My newly acquired confidence gave me the push to improve my looks
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
@@thedarkking32 Hamza was one of the first "Tribe leaders" who shared his Looksmaxxing journey with RUclips. The message he always strives to convey is, "improve yourself by building and strengthening a good mindset first". Who starts building an impressive physique and doesn't look into how to improve his looks to match that physique? "Be not quick to judge, for the word is not yours once spoken."
@@thedarkking32 well skincare? good teeth? What else to change about face since its mostly genetics and predetermined? ok maybe a beard or not or hair..
@@thedarkking32 he sees attraction in face too, he never said in the video that face is not important. In fact he gave 20% of looks to his face and genetics. Just look at him, he has an attractive beard, brushes his teeth, probably has some kind of skincare routine (or has good genetics and doesn't need it) but that's all he can do except some facial exercises, it is maxed by those and nature. Body is more important tho especially when you take in account that after a point you can't improve your face but you can improve your body until the end of your life with great success. Ask a woman, they don't say that the most attractive part of a man is his face. And if you're born with bad genetics then well, you can still max out your body and you will be desirable (not as much as a ripped guy with good genetics but probably more than a guy with good genetics but bad physique). Genetics only matter in body when you max it out
Looks are much like a "hook" when you are writing a book or an article. While focusing so much effort on the first sentence might seem "shallow", if you can't catch the attention of the reader, it doesn't matter how "deep" you are, because very few will actually read your book or article. Looks operate the same way. Your looks are what catches people, but your personality and values are what keep them. You need a healthy balance, but in the culture as it stands right now, we are told to focus almost exclusively on personality, and that is the wrong message, about as much as focusing almost exclusively on looks is.
Sort of true, but looks are the largest factor in attraction and it is important for a relationship’s longevity to maintain this attraction. Quite often looks will keep people around, but it isn’t likely to be enough to make them truly happy.
@@thomasowen2585 Exactly. Ceaselessly putting effort into your aesthetics is usually an indicator that you care for yourself and care what other people think about you. Puzzle pieces aren't squares by default, they are malformed and uneven. They only become a square once interlocked with other pieces. It is your job to complete your puzzle. Your looks, intelligence, personality, relationships, etc. are all pieces of your puzzle.
True but we most take care of looks and personality and mindset togheter, for me i wouldnt marry a girl who has a glass body shape but her personality and mindset and her knowledge about our religion are crap
Looks are definitely very important but we shouldn’t focus on them for superficial reasons. I work hard at the gym and take care of my diet and sleep, not for vanity, not to sleep with as many women as I can, but so I can be attractive to my future wife and be the man that she deserves
Great mindset mate, I strongly agree. The Hedonism has it’s downsides and it can be driven by wrong motives, but a strong man knows how to tame it to his purpouse. Stay strong
Great. Years of work (which your future wife didn't have to do, because of the structure of the dating market). Then a hotter, taller, higher status guy appears in her DMs looking to smash and it all comes crashing down. Sure looksmax because it gives you broad advantages in life but don't think it'll spare you from being treated like a disposable and replaceable object by women
"Looks aren't important" "Men need to be more sensitive" "Everyone is equal" all nothing but lies. Looks are important, men need to be have hearts of steel, and some people are superior than others.
I have to say there is a VERY STRONG correlation with looks and your mental health in terms of your self-image and how you see yourself physically. It took me 20 years to actually admit and viscerally accept that I’m not an ugly person. I used to believe that I was ugly and as a result, this spilled over in to me not taking pride in my appearance as a person. This toxic belief I once had led me to lying to myself about not caring about my appearance, as I had given up at the time. Also whenever my friends would host parties at their house and bring me along - my goals were to just get drunk as possible and have a good time - I wasn’t even trying to chat to women at the time. I used to wear this oversized grey hoodie and a beanie all the time to parties and to the club. The jeans I used to wear were a bit discoloured as well. If it was a house party, I would sometimes wear basic tracksuits (not even branded 😂). I wore the beanie because I hated my natural hair and I always wished for my hair to be bigger in size and to just look better and more fresh. Eventually, when I met my group of friends, one of them who is very good in fashion once thought that I wasn’t a bad looking guy at all but I just needed to do better self-care. It was also the same summer (summer 2020 - COVID) that changed my life in a multitude of ways for the better. The first time I had a solid group of friends in over a decade, the first time in many months that I actually started socialising more, speaking to people and putting myself out there (no longer begging friends). The first time since I was in my early teens that I actually moved to a girl (I got rejected, but learnt very valuable lessons about myself and social skills in general). I made some friends who were very attractive women and got to know people with a little bit more clout and that’s when I finally began the process of no longer putting people on huge pedestals (I used to have a crippling inferiority complex and social anxiety - these are things that I’m still working on to this day and which got a lot better but still no where near where I want to be) The shift happened when I started getting clean hair cuts and taper fades, started dressing in better and more fashionable clothes and when I started my hair journey of protective styles by platting and putting cornrows in my hair. I also started working out properly in this summer and that’s when I slowly started seeing the positive correlations between confidence building, mental health and caring about how I look. I also find that taking pride in how you look helps you break out of your comfort zone in life as you become less anxious and self-conscious. Now, I signed to a modelling agency a week ago and I’ve got my first portfolio shoot happening later this month. I’m also starting to see things slowly change in a better direction from me.
That's it, if you take care of your body you take care of yourself which will fix your mental health (if you don't have chronic symptoms) I need an update after your photoshoot, I'm curios about how it went 😉
What’s absolutely rich, is my mother (my parents split when I was 7 and my stepdad never talked to me, so I was pretty much raised by her) told me all throughout my middle school and early highschool years that looks don’t matter and I need to just be myself. As a result, I was a skinny little autist that wore sweatpants and a T-shirt to school, had a buzzcut because my mom didn’t know any male hairstyles, and I lacked the self awareness to find out what’d look good on me, and nobody wanted to talk to me and I was perpetually sad. Even now, she calls me neurotic for being so “obsessed” with how I look. This same woman got breast implants and cheated on my stepdad 3 months later around this time last year 🤡 I went through a Blackpill phase in late highschool and became very shut in and depressed, but also kind of an emo looking kid, and I had a few unattractive girls express interest in me. Then I graduated high school a little over a year ago and didn’t know what I wanted to do, so I started working a job I dislike. On my time off, I started working out. I got a different hairstyle, I tried bettering my social skills, and I downloaded Tinder. Then I discovered Hamza back in March, immediately set myself 30 goals for the next 3 months I had 0 chance of attaining by June, but at least I tried. Now, I’m doing all the same things really, just taking it more seriously. I’ve gained about 15 pounds of muscle, become a little more extroverted, delaying gratification, etc. Unsurprisingly, I still do terribly on Tinder, and I’ll admit a lot of me doesn’t even feel like dating is worth it, seeing how women treat men and knowing that as soon as I stop being of service/value to her, she’ll move on to someone else. Hopefully once I start college this fall, I’ll meet more people, a good crowd of people, because right now, it sorta seems like everyone is dry and boring, and despite my efforts, everyone else has an easier time dating and finding relationships even though they sometimes don’t do anything at all. And seeing all these girls complaining about how men are terrible because they got their heart broke or some shit, meanwhile it’s a struggle for me to even get looked at, makes it very difficult to empathize with them.
That sucks man but Ive had a very similar experience with my life so far. We're pretty much at the same point in life right now too, I'm also waiting to start college and I'm hopeful that I'll finally meet more like minded people. My highschool experience wasnt the best, I never had any luck with girls and people treated me like I was a monster. I started on self improvement about 6 months ago and I'm doing way better than I was then, it's all about wavelength. All those kids in school acted like children, it's no wonder I didn't engage. I've been improving my social skills though and it's important to do that. At one point I've also been unimpressed and bored with life and that comes from not changing anything, right now I'm still learning to drive and its something I'm doing right now to get out there. I wish you luck down the road brother, I promise you it'll get better. You just need to work towards it.
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video he is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
Looks determine how your personality is perceived. If you are bad-looking and talkative, your annoying. If you are good-looking and talkative, you are outgoing.
THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO. As a chubby girl ive ALWAYS been conditioned to “accept” my body the way it is and to just be “body positive” and all that bullshit but the truth is, especially as a girl looks do matter ALOT. I used to always say “oh if a guy doesnt like my body thats his loss” but in all honesty you have to have both good personality AND good looks. This video was like a breath of fresh air the way you only spoke facts. Thank you for your honest content. Even though im not your “young men” target audience I learn alot from your vids. Bless up 🙏🏼😊
Don't buy into pathetic 'woke' bs where women are told plus size is good and accept your body. Obesity is a serious disease and obese women are unattractive
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
If anyone is out there trying to grow long hair like me: the transition phase is just for a short time and after it you'll have an awesome mane, brothers So don't you dare quitting. Stay healthy and positive😘
I also try to grow long Hair and all my friends call me gay or are beeing rude to me when in group but when alone all of them tell me that some other in the group is jealous of me soo just but that i realized how much i have bad friends so win-win i guess (sry for low quality English I'm from the Balkans)
Improving your looks will have a compounding effect on everything else in your life. So many things in life are correlated with your looks it’s insane, nearly everything is. There’s literally no reason to not improve your looks.
As males, we have a plethora of things that we can do to take care of our physical selves and if you think you’re ugly, chances are that you just need to tweak some things (style, fitness, diet, good haircuts/beard shape-ups) to become a better version
The problem is not that, man. We know we can improve, but it doesn't matter because there's always someone better farming matches on dating apps. My genetic cealling might be some othey guy's minimal effort state, and that is just depressing. All incentive is lost that way.
@@neburarerreh4958 nah I def get that. I think it’s cuz we start to compare ourselves to other people when the only comparison we should be making is the one w ourselves
Don’t do dating apps, it’s a waste of time. Meet girls in real life. If you make a good impression in real life, you’ll beat any guy she met on a dating app. If you are around her in person and you’re turning her on, it’s over. Look wt who most women cheat with. It’s not a guy she met online. It’s her bf’s friend, or a friend of a friend, or the bf’s brother or something. It’s someone sees in person. In person always does it. I never get any messages back online, but in person I do good, and every single one of my friends gfs or wives has had a crush on me.
Sometimes I have doubts about improving my looks due to my height, some days I remember I’ll always be at some disadvantage for being 5’7. But then I realise, I’m gonna be in this race anyways so why not do all I can to look my absolute best. It can be hard. Especially at the start of the journey but it’s so worth it.
You don't really have to be in the race. Nothing really stops you from taking your own life, at least physically. Either that, or find a way to shut your libido off.
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
@@thedarkking32 your face changes when you loose fat man atleast defined what else do you want. With race yes your right every prefers there own race nothing wrong in that but not because the others are ugly
The "looks aren't important_ are the biggest lie in the world. How are you gonna approach someone when you are not looking good? You might have an awesome character but you won't get the chance to show that if no one approaches you. Yes we shouldn't focus on just looks obviously, but they are the main reason people approach each other
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
@@thedarkking32 thank you! I'm glad someone pointed this out. He claims that having muscles and a six pack gets the girls when theres like hundreds of guys with beer bellies that have very attractive looking girlfriends. This guy has some type of arrogance
@OnlyOne_1 I'm not hating on this guy but he is spreading pretty kinda false information. Many guys such as myself with muscles have gotten compliments from mostly guys not women and this guy thinks that we're morons. Reality is many women could care less about physics and women will never approach you even if you have a physique of a super model
One of the regrets of my life is that I haven't taken more interest into fitness and building my physique earlier. I first entered the gym when I was about 19, but I was inconsistent for YEARS. I was starting and dropping it on and on and on. I've just turned 30, I started being consistent about a year, maybe 2 years ago. I haven't got any spectacular results until I found an awesome coach, but I've built up a consistency and love for the physical effort. It's still not too late for me to build the attractive body (especially that I've got everything else in order - money, life situation, etc.), but I would be sooooo much further in terms of attractiveness if I just stuck to it when I was younger. One of my excuses was exactly this - "Looks aren't that important. It's what values you represent that matters". The second part is true, but by using this as an excuse you represent making excuses instead on working on your attractiveness and health. It's not what I want to represent. I want to represent self-love, consistency, dedication and self-respect. Not avoiding effort. That's weak. And I refuse to be weak.
Dose it actually help your dating life tho I’m 18 and honestly very skeptical about because all guys who are ripped and in shape all have one thing in common they all seem to have attractive faces
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
@@user-tb9cl2my6i even if the "attractive face" would be purely genetics (which it isn't), having a "mediocre" or even unattractive AND an attractive physique is still 100x better than being being mediocre/ugly and FAT on top of that. Besides - Daily physical exercise is so much more than just looks. It's a way to build up your consistency, dedication, time management, being able to delay gratification, hard working, being ok with discomfort, figjting off the resistance with in you when you don't feel like doing something but you do it anyways because it's good for you. If you're skeptical about the attractive Ness it can bring you, do it for the things I just mentioned. You'll get an attractive physique as a bonus and you'll be a more complete human being.
Reason why looks are that important now is the constant exposure to so many people all at once through social media. The availabilty of people is through the roof bc of the internet. Either you go with it or you don't
I Got Mocked by basic girls back then when i was in high school because of my bad appearance i used to look little chubby and acne in my face So i decided to get into shape and did a Glow up, now they are in complete shock that how could I do that. Now they are lurking Looking for a way to attach themselves to me Back then they didn't want to give me a chance but now what??? Back Then I Didn't Used To Know The Importance Of Appearance That It Play A Very Important Role in Life.
Looks Matter So Much Nowadays That If You Want To Get Into Dating Game You Need Be Above 5 In Dating Scale Out Of 10, During My High School I Was Dark Skin Chubby Acne On My Face But Now I've Changed Everything , I Glowed Up Now I Wonder Why People Treat Very Nicely.
Yep, looks are important! If we are not attracted to the other physically, there won't be any intimacy... this is how we work. Obviously what we wear can make us more confident and radiant, but in overall any kind of relationship is based on the looks and what is inside. You can be the most handsome being, if you have a trash personality, there is nothing that could make someone be with you. Looks pop you out the crowd, the reason the other notices you, so smile a lot! Unless you're looking for a sugar daddy/mommy, but in that case you belong where you belong.
Cope ramirez is literally à killer and women throw their selfs to him If u are good looking u can have tye worst personality and everyone will respect u + if u are good looking u don t watch hamza video
This is where men get confused. Idk why women use personality argument a lot but as a dude i overlook women's personality if she's hot. Women do the same under many circumstances. But if it's real long term relationship, i give importance to personality too. If it's purely smashing, she has no personality in my mind.
Looks get you through the door, and they keep you in the room. Personality means nothing in the end, because relationships are defined by sexual intimacy. Without it, it's pretty much just friendship. "This is how we work", then relationships are completely worthless and stripped off their inherent value. They're pure vanity in essence. Also: you think you'll win simply because you know the rules of the "game"? You can play perfectly by the rules and still lose. In fact, that is why you keep losing sometimes, because you keep playing by the rules. I've said many time before: you're not going to win just because you care (about looks in this case). There is no "winning" the game; it has you wether you succeed or not.
@Kirin No, to hell with that. Both. What makes you think that in LTR the reason your partner sticks with you is not because of your looks? or anything else besides "affection"? Didn't you read all the seething I wrote above?
It’s okay to be selfish sometimes focusing on improving yourself shouldn’t be viewed as a negative thing it’s almost selfish to not self improve as self improvement often times has a positive effect on people around you
Looks are important but personality is also important too in the long run. They are both equally as important to each other. Thank you Hamza for this informative video!
Hamza i just need to thank you for motivating me and introduce me to the self improvement, i was a blackpillar who was blaming others and blaming myself and my body because i didn't get girls. I start to workout, follow a strict diet to get shredded and man the results are amazing for real, i feel confident and i feel amazing seeing myself in the mirror and not depressed. And now that you just upload this video, i agree in all of your points, working out and having a good physique help us to at least get some stares by some girls in the gym or even likes on tinder if you prefer this social media
hamza I've been watching you for a week now consistently,I've been a bit of a Jeffrey,but now I'm taking action!,I like that you give real advice and don't just do it for personal gain,love you alot bro❤,no homo.
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
Hamza is one of the few self improvement people out there that i trust, his harsh truths are beneficial if you just take it as constructive criticism and use it to better yourself, i admit i am a beta rn but i know i can improve and the fact that you can improve should drive you TO improve, to become the best update of yourself you can possibly be. Take your average workout like a bug patch in a game or smthn if that helps, all i wanna see is as many people as healthy and happy as possible whilst living a successful life and remember, i believe in you just like every good person should.
Looks are an important part of your success when it comes to everything in life and it can be improved by doing the hard work especially when you don't feel like it
Looks Matter So Much Nowadays That If You Want To Get Into Dating Game You Need Be Above 5 In Dating Scale Out Of 10, During My High School I Was Dark Skin Chubby Acne On My Face But Now I've Changed Everything , I Glowed Up Now I Wonder Why People Treat Very Nicely.
"Looks are an important part". More like "looks are everything in the end". They might not be everything as soon as you get them right, but without them you can do pretty much nothing. Everything depends on them, hence everything is vain in the end; emotionality, romance, attraction, spirituality, all of that shit It's worthless.
@@neburarerreh4958 Nah that's black pill bs. Some people who weren't beautiful by most standards still succeeded. Yes it's much harder but it's far from impossible. Besides most people who are depressed (as is often the case with incels/ blackpillers) tend to see themselves as worse than they really are. Just improve and stop with the toxic mindsets. It's really a kind of moral duty
@@13thengineering33 What moral duty, goddamnit? You think those people with not so attractive "high status" partners wouldn't go for someone better looking if they could? And by the way, before you say anything, I'm actually on self-improvement. But ironically, I feel like the more I improve, the more I see the vanity in everything. Honestly, I just keep pushing because I have nothing better to do.
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
Thanks bro you truly changed my life my life's feels better then ever self improvement helped me you helped me I'm 13 and I'm strong 7 months in gym and I feel great
Not trying to be a blackpill-sounding person, but it's true: Appearance is everything. Ever since I've started glowing up, I've started getting positive attention from everyone. I've lived a whole life of being called ugly and unlovable, and that was mainly because of my looks. Once I started getting a great job and investing on my skin, hair, and clothing, things started changing. People are shallow. You. Me. Everyone. Accept it, get over it if it hurts you, and adapt. You will win, Kings and Queens.
Most people are fake tbh, not many real ones left, on the Burger King Valentine’s Day questions polls the last question asked was “would you rather find true love or have a million dollars” and a whooping 69% of people picked the million.
Thank you, Hamza I've been watching your videos since grade 7 and I'm about to turn 8 you got me so many things but the most important thing you did was shift me into a healthy person thanks alot!
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
@@asduhaisjdjasd having a good face is way more important than having a good body. I know this because I have an amazing body but was ujnfortunately born with very bad teeth and extreme overbite that can't even be hidden with a beard tbh. I am getting jaw surgery this year or early next depending on when my surgeon schedules it. But yeah even though I have a top 1 percent body I still get treated so badly by many people. I think what annoys me the most is those who think it's a confidence issue. I am actually a naturally confident and out going person but became more closed off because of how I was treated by society due to my overbite. You can be as confident as you want but certain traits such as bad teeth and jaw will be impossible to overcome tbh. Even if you have a bad body if you have a decent face at the very least you'll be treated like a human being.
@@loverofhumanity speaking facts bro I hope everything works out well for you ☺️ My face is already naturally quite good I just gotta lose some fat in my neck area and get my jawlines nice and big
I'm gonna be honest. I'm pissed off. being told looks don't matter the whole time has definitely contributed to me letting myself go, I never fully believed it, but having hamza actually hammer home the importance of looks made me realize how rare it is anyone even does that! thank you hamza as usual, this has helped clear away the doubts in my mind on how CRITICAL it is to maximise looks, "play the game by its current rules" is a mantra
Thank you for all the motivation and inspiration, Hamza. Because of you, I've started my own RUclips channel and hope to see you at the top. Granted it is about anime/manga but this is something I'm passionate about.
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
Yesterday I talked to a friend who lost 80 pounds, I'm also obese and 1/3 of the way to lean. He said people treat you 300% better for being lean. Damn that's rough. Given me renewed drive.
“Just focus on your studies”. “You’ll find a good job and a girl someday”. Thank God I strayed away from that advice and went to the gym. Ngl my parent’s dating advice gave me depression since it didn’t work and I didn’t know why
I can confirm what Hamza is saying back in the day in my teens and very early 20s, that i sorta believed just be yourself thing while it holds some value it is just not as big of a deal as it has gotten made out to be. Ive lifted for 12 years by now and 2 years ago i started to try and be a little more serious about loosing weight, even tho i started out with that as the main goal i ended up being a perma bulker. I capped out at 308 lbs and by no means being lean, now over these 2 years from my top weight til now i lost 54 lbs in the first year i only lost 11 lbs funny enough. However ive now reached a point where i have some veins in my arms showing and so on, and what i can say female attention has taken off even girls that used to see me when i was fat suddenly started to pay attention. So 100% looks matter far more than ever, and expercing this first hand was really a wake up call to how much looks matter.
“U either play the game and win it or you lose” is so motivating because I’ve struggling with dating for a very long time. Even on my self improvement journey. I have a good friend that’s a 4/10 (long rainbow hair, fat and 0 drip, he is not on self improvement ) and he pulled a 8/10 girl that I was interested in and my best friend is on self improvement and is a 7-8/10 and he is dating a good looking girl and he didn’t even try. Personally I’m a 7-8/10 (hopefully I’m not buyest). I was very demotivated about the dating game. But you’re advise game me new hope and motivation to do better. Thank you hamza. I’ve been following your ever since January 2022
I think wheat waffles and Hamza have rubbed off on each other. Wheat waffles used to be very depressing he doesnt sound like that no more and now Hamza is talking about how important looks are.
I don’t understand how healthy ppl r able to let themselves be fat like ur potential literally plumages to 0. But more importantly how much it affects ur mental health
Good Evening, Hamza. Please make a video about the importance of Intelligence and its connections with self improvement for us lot who aren't interested in love, friendships and relationships. Thanks.
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
@@thedarkking32 bro, more times than not you can’t really change your face, it’s your face. Sure you can mew, chew hard gum, haircut, eyebrows etc but physique is easier to improve
@@thedarkking32 when you loose fat, your face normally changes too. You know better jaw line, no double chin, the creases in your face are more visible etc.
I’ve started lifting and it’s helped me lots. I’ve always had charisma but the looks dragged me down now I’m getting girls left and right. Trust me he’s talking facts
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
don't do anything to impress women, do good things to better yourself as a man. attracting women is just an accessory, like what Hamza always says. "prioritize your mental health above all else"
Hamza could you make a video on how entrepreneurialism is misunderstood? A lot of people fall into the trap of ‘financially free and choose your own hours’, when in reality only a very few business creators can have the opportunity to do (like yourself, you outsource a lot of your work). Hopefully you consider it, thanks for the great content as of late.
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
Not necessarily. Physique is more of a bonus to women they look more for good height hair and facial features. This is coming from a guy who is deep into bodybuilding (taking steroids peds etc)
@@nottherishov6415 nah bro never said height is everything I’m sure ur an above average looking dude considering the fact that you put in effort with ur body plus I’m sure you keep urself lean which helps with face body and skin. Height is a multiplier I won’t lie and say it doesn’t help a lot however 5”7 isn’t as bad as 5”4 for example you’ve always gotta have a sense of comparison
I counts agree more. I moved to a new school this year and started out with terrible fashion sense, not working out, didn’t care about my hair, and it sucked and nobody gave me a second look. But now I’ve been working out, I have a good jawline and good build and have a good fashion sense. I have a girlfriend, my confidence is up and I’m over all doing better because of how I look.
For people watching this, i would suggest u go to 15% body fat as it can still look aesthetic and be healthy, 15% body fat is the best for health and for building more muscle because if u maintain 10%, u dont get enough food to add more muscle and it can also make some people not feel well or energetic
"Looks aren't important" is a cope. I have noticed that older people from past generations tend to say that only shallow people care about looks. Maybe if was true when they were younger, but it's definitely not true nowadays. There's so many ways to looksmaxx: Going to the gym, getting a good haircut, having a good dressing style, etc.
I didn't care about my looks until I was 14 and I did some soft lookmaxxes such as losing BF, stopped getting short cuts, and building muscle and the difference in how people treat me is day and night.
since i found this channel, my confidence and way to live have just skyrocketed, i hope i can help Hamza to expand this way of living by teaching self improvement like he does, but until then i still have to work on myself ... see you until then Hamza you'll see me again
good video and im not mad but i find it disappointing that you were blaming yourself in previous videos because you didnt like the fact that you abused the "dopamine receptors" by using those sort of zoom edits yet in this video the editor used some again
Your looks as a male aren't really in your control though. All you can do is get to a low body fat % but your height and facial features aren't in your control at all. A lot of men can become handsome by getting to 10-13% body fat but a lot can't because they might not have a jawline, they might have a small chin, a crooked nose or even worse multiple flaws combined. Just because these men are "unloveable" to women, it doesn't mean they should pack up and move to the mountains. You can still be happy without a relationship, intimacy, love and sex.
I think I agree that you should look into how to improve how you look right now but it’s a bad idea to constantly obsess over it and check the mirror 24/7. That’s what women do and it’s not for us to play that game and its only gonna make you anxious. Become good looking enough to be confident enough in yourself to not have to check how you look in the mirror. I think you should become attractive to be happy and proud of yourself but worrying a lot about if other people find you attractive is just an insecurity that isn’t gonna help you.
Right, we are men not women. But yeah, at first when we're improving ourselves we have to be a bit vain for a little while. But once looking attractive becomes natural to us after the hard work put in, we can become confident in ourselves so we don't have to obsess over it as much.
It's not obsessing just to make sure you look presentable before going outside and starting your day it's the same way like when you brush your teeth or wipe your ass no one has fun doing it but it's just work ppl enjoy knowing they look presentable for the boost of confidence it feels refreshing to know I'm not out here looking like a bum
Status is most important. Looks is only most important for those without high status in society. Lower status men are the ones who are on dating apps. High status men don't even have to seek out women, women come to them. If you really want to have your pick of women then get your status all the way up, which really means get your money up, although fame is good too. Otherwise, yes your looks will be the most important thing.
I'm not a big fan of dating apps tbh where it is all just based on looks or height. Looks are important of course but I just don't like how shallow women are in those dating apps. I prefer cold approaching more which I know is way harder. Maybe I'm just a bit traditional minded but I prefer to go old-school and meet girls in the real world.
Well I am working on my health both mentally and physically so far I feel so much better. Be selfish and work on yourself and be the best version of yourself. Control the variables you can control.
I Always supported ur ideas but after getting rejected for like the 50th time from a girl just for being "too short" im quitting, its taking a lot of my time that i can put in better thing like working more houres and studing more so i can get a better job and support more my family. I saw some of them going with jobless skinny-fat guy before dening my request for a date just because they have a normal height😂, I really want to meet them after 10 year struggling with the life they choose.
@@speedybonsky you might have 2 to 3 maybe 4yrs at most and depending on whether or not your genetics allow for you to grow taller, cuz dem growth plates start to fuse, you might have a chance of getting 1-2 inches taller.
@@speedybonsky growth hormone or leg lengthening surgery (actively help) , or less likely but still worth trying are vitamine k2/D3 with absolute belive you can grow . These are the only real things you can do that can produce results. I won't go over legality / risk or anything like that but I obsessively researched this for a few months and these are your options . I stoped growing at 14 at just around 5'6 and suddenly in June I started growing again at 17 and a half now im 5'7 1/2 and iv since 13 iv been a gym rat with decent sleep and taken all vitamins necessary but i shit you not litteraly the only change i made when I started growing after the abnormal 3 year complete pause , was believing I could grow and then I did. Luck , fate , or genetics , either way im happy ! Hope you can grow too brother 🙏
Looks are important. But personally I think they’re over-hyped when it comes to women. As men, we should look the best we can, and be confident. And so we feel better about ourselves, which helps mentally also. A good diet keeps us healthy. Honestly, I struggle with women, and I have a v-shape, a 6 pack with 10% body fat. All my hair, stubble beard with sharp jaw, and I’m 6’1. Sure I get looks at the gym and beach, but I’ll see guys who are short, chubby, and don’t look good, in a relationship. And I’m single lol. With that said, it feels good, and we carry ourselves different when we’re lean and ripped. Good video.
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
@@thedarkking32 I agree with him in a sense. Body is important, but it’s more complimentary. A gym body with an unattractive face won’t get you far. I mean, it gets you farther than being unattractive and having a bad body. Being lean does help your face somewhat, if you have the bone structure for it. Which is genetic. My jawline and cheekbones pop at low body fat. So, I look better than average, but I’m also not a Chad. So I’m not doing bad, but not doing good. I’m Latino, but luckily I don’t have the indigenous features that some have. I’m tall, so I have more Spanish features, as I’m Mexican, Spanish, and have a little Sicilian.
@@mannygonzales1985 bro im asian 5'4 and yet i can get laid everynight with different girls if i want to...or i could just go to club and bring women home at night. i think the most important thing is confidence and how you feel about yourself. if you are truely confident, you can develop your own swag and it makes getting girls ez
@@Zogang69 Oh I believe it. I’m confident, but don’t put in effort with women. I’m pretty selective, and I’ll make effort, but the moment I don’t feel it’s reciprocated I move on super fast, and ignore. I used to get approached in the past, my ex wife was the one who came up to me. And girls I went out with approached me, and of course I approached some also. I just don’t get approached anymore. I’m more ripped than before, so just shows times have changed. Can’t put my finger on it, but seems like women want to down play me for some reason. I see some guys that are basically obese and short with health problems with girls. But they’re really great talkers, can sell you beach front property in Arizona basically. But they had to be, because they know they’re not attractive. I simply need to develop my game at the end of the day.
@@mannygonzales1985 maybe you move on fast becuz you have fear of rejection or abandonment issues! im stuck on this dilemma of beung selective too, sometimes i am not satisfied with the kind of women i attract that are low quality i would say becuz they got no ambitions or aspirations apart from getting high or drunk. as a short dude i am compensating my short height by making music in my language which does indeed help me so much
Hamza, thank you for everything. I just got into self improvement like 2 or 3 months ago, and I already got a """"girlfriend"""" who ended up leaving me for another girl, cuz she's bi. You made me realise that I should not look for girls at this day and age. I should only focus on my own self improvement so that one day, hopefully, I can attract a real woman, who is honest, loyal, feminine, and I can feel comfortable about my masculinity because I will be a high value, attractive man by then.
I once had a girl attracted to me back then but when I said I was straight, she told me she was bi. I also have a bunch of my girl classmates who consider themselves bi as well. Is this becoming a trend or whatever with girls cause there seems to be more and more non-straight girls haha
@@jamesmccloud7535 shit's fucking frustrating man. And she was a very kind, generous and strong woman. She didn't officially leave me yet, but she texted me with caps lock that "WE NEED TO TALK" "LONG STORY SHORT. I GOT GF". I just know it's coming. Even if she doesn't even want to "break up" I know that I want to. I don't want to be a cuckold. Also I don't want to be in a relationship where I know I will never be able to fully satisfy my girl, because they have sexual attraction towards their own gender too, which I cannot satisfy because I'm a man. FUCK. THIS . SHIT. FUCK LIFE. I feel like shit right now. Why did I even waste my time on this hoe, why did I even let her take my virginity.. Because I was desperate?? And curious? Most likely yes. God damn, I feel so fucking pathetic now. I hope God can forgive me for my sins. I hate myself now. Sorry for this rant, I just had to let this out.
@@xtdycxtfuv9353 sadly, I have to say you might be right. But shallow, temporary relationships will never fulfill me, and knowing that there will probably never be anything more than that is insanely agonizing.
@@jamesmccloud7535 I feel like they think their Bi just because they know that girl is attractive. Maybe I'm ignorant about that knowledge since I'm not a girl.
Hamza I know it’s early but I think a huge next level for this movement is how to effectively communicate to our children the dangers of instant gratification and how to avoid the behaviors before it becomes an addiction that has to be broken and healed from. This would give future generations a huge advantage as they could spend valuable energy on noble causes other than resetting from modern addictions as many young men today have to. It would set them ahead and future parents need to know how to teach it.
I'm only 18 years and I am balding pretty quickly and it has destroyed my confidence and motivation for self improvement. Hamza do you have any advice? I am not a particularly good looking person in the first place and losing my hair is devastating at this age Update: I am going to the gym and am in decent shape, and I started taking finasteride for my hair
Pe proud of it bro...u r touching this stage of masculinity early the dht hormone thing....embrace it if it's too much just shave it off ...1st man always emphasise upon a bald head ...go for it no shame build ur body work on ur face with orthotropics take care of ur skin educate urself with fashion everything will be 10/10 fine ......hair or no hair it will 10/10
Charisma and confidence is still more important than looks IMO. Most of the pretty girls I have known have dated guys way below their beauty level and are still happy and content with them. Men are more shallow when it comes to looks, for a girl it is not that important. That being said, you should still strive to be as attractive as possible.
Don’t for fall for this trap brother. Women will date you if you’re not so physically attractive but the relationship dynamic will be defined by their lack of physical attraction. They will expect you to “make up” for it with money, status, charisma, etc and there will be less sex for obvious reasons. How often would you want to fuck a girl that you’re not so attracted to, but you started dating because she’s rich/fun to hang out with/etc? Men and women want to date people who would be good partners and they want to have sex with people who are sexy. Become sexy otherwise you will have to negotiate for sex with your other attributes and your quality of relationships will suffer for it.
I was literally thinking today that people are just nicer and more warm to you the more attractive you are. If you’re an attractive girl this is the peak of it, but honestly as a guy you can just lose body fat and observe this.
My Parents never let me work on my looks . They always used to stop me when I tried to work on my looks . This has led to me being socially awkward , and being treated like shit by people .
Look dude. You're videos are great and you do mean well creating these videos to improve us. But watching this video just really puts alot of pressure on my mental health dude. Call me a pussy and call me feminine all you want. But you don't know me ok. I appreciate the journalling and meditation and social skills. They really helped me so much in building my friend group and my mindset on life. But this huge emphasis on looks really puts alot of people down including myself. I can put the work in but jambing all this pressure down peoples throat and constantly setting goals 24/7 just burns me out.
Expecially being introverted. I don't want to sound like a dick. I just need help. I'm starting to do sprints and 20 push ups a day but I also have no interest in attracting women at the moment as I want to settle in college first and have clarity on where I am. Yes I said college. Because I'm interested in becoming a camera man, not drop shipping online businesses
If the information is true, does that really matter? Surely you're better off knowing, and experiencing the pressure, than not knowing and not having the ability to capitalise on it. If you experience pressure from information then you're the person with the problem, not the person who fed you the information. Ideally you want to be able to brush off things that stress you out. You should consider how you can resolve your negative relationship with information you receive. Look into stoicism, it will definitely help.
I agree with the above guy, he doesnt make videos for just you, but for all of us. Some info will hurt, imagine some jeffery being salty being told to meditate. You crossed that line and did it anyway. This video is no different, you have to take the info and deal with it. Keep hitting the gym and do what hamza says here, and in a few months you will look at yourself and see improvements, insecurity will go away. You should watch his other video on how you should just take a few hours to just chill and de load every week, not grind 24/7 like you think, burnout is a thing i myself can suffer from but a little bit of chill time and im back at it. Keep going king.
@@work1264 idk I just felt like hamza doesn't allow any down time. That there's this huge emphasis on purpose. But summer will definitely give me time. Thanks for responding
@@obsidianoxide1719 with the time I have, I will try to put a little bit in each day. I just wish I could manage my time better. But thanks for replying
" Looks aren't important" is the biggest lie my parents told me. I don't think they realized but it held me back socially because I found that anyone I putting to much attention in their looks as "shallow". I know they were trying to help my confidence, I was chubby due to medications I was taking, but my gosh this was detrimental. Glad I learned the truth.
tbf, I don't think looks meant as much when our parents were dating but for sure, that quote is quite far from the truth!
@@tomdudley5314 so did we just evolve over the course of a generation? Of course looks mattered back then fam
Majority of humans are shallow in nature. We accept and treat anything that is appealing to the eyes in a high pedestal.
@Peter Lsgd and people can't think for themselves, so they listen to anyone of higher power. Happens all the time, modern society is no different.
@@abdim1500 looks did matter back then but with social media we constantly see a lot of attractive people and we see people look more attractive on their posts that in real life. So now our generations perception of what attractive looks like is skewed
Bro has mastered how to articulate his thoughts and experiences in effective and simple way.
man you must be getting a lot of girls based on how you look like. Chad imho from looking at the profile pic.
@@BuffSoldierWithBigGun not really hes normie
@@fuarkk3611 stfu he got it 🤣
@@fuarkk3611 LOL
@@fuarkk3611 ye he is a six..this not anything madeup..go watch wheat waffles analysis about him
Improving my mental health had a strong effect on my looks. I look at pictures of myself from 5 months ago when I was at rock bottom suffering from depression and addiction and the difference between then and now is very noticeable in my face alone. The eyes are truly the window to the soul.
Damn man well said.
Okay tarzan
@@thedarkestknight8381 🤣
FACTS. People always assume I got my confidence from my looks, but it’s the opposite. My newly acquired confidence gave me the push to improve my looks
What all did you do to improve your mental health?
The advice is 100% right: Just Be Yourself.
Improve yourself. Improve your mindset. Then be yourself.
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
@@thedarkking32 Hamza was one of the first "Tribe leaders" who shared his Looksmaxxing journey with RUclips.
The message he always strives to convey is, "improve yourself by building and strengthening a good mindset first". Who starts building an impressive physique and doesn't look into how to improve his looks to match that physique?
"Be not quick to judge, for the word is not yours once spoken."
@@consistentialist trur
@@thedarkking32 well skincare? good teeth? What else to change about face since its mostly genetics and predetermined?
ok maybe a beard or not or hair..
@@thedarkking32 he sees attraction in face too, he never said in the video that face is not important. In fact he gave 20% of looks to his face and genetics. Just look at him, he has an attractive beard, brushes his teeth, probably has some kind of skincare routine (or has good genetics and doesn't need it) but that's all he can do except some facial exercises, it is maxed by those and nature. Body is more important tho especially when you take in account that after a point you can't improve your face but you can improve your body until the end of your life with great success. Ask a woman, they don't say that the most attractive part of a man is his face. And if you're born with bad genetics then well, you can still max out your body and you will be desirable (not as much as a ripped guy with good genetics but probably more than a guy with good genetics but bad physique). Genetics only matter in body when you max it out
Looks are much like a "hook" when you are writing a book or an article. While focusing so much effort on the first sentence might seem "shallow", if you can't catch the attention of the reader, it doesn't matter how "deep" you are, because very few will actually read your book or article.
Looks operate the same way. Your looks are what catches people, but your personality and values are what keep them. You need a healthy balance, but in the culture as it stands right now, we are told to focus almost exclusively on personality, and that is the wrong message, about as much as focusing almost exclusively on looks is.
Sort of true, but looks are the largest factor in attraction and it is important for a relationship’s longevity to maintain this attraction. Quite often looks will keep people around, but it isn’t likely to be enough to make them truly happy.
@@thomasowen2585 Exactly.
Ceaselessly putting effort into your aesthetics is usually an indicator that you care for yourself and care what other people think about you.
Puzzle pieces aren't squares by default, they are malformed and uneven. They only become a square once interlocked with other pieces. It is your job to complete your puzzle. Your looks, intelligence, personality, relationships, etc. are all pieces of your puzzle.
True but we most take care of looks and personality and mindset togheter, for me i wouldnt marry a girl who has a glass body shape but her personality and mindset and her knowledge about our religion are crap
@@dzryad7400 ofc bro, only 1% of women are great in all those areas, so pursue becoming a 1% man.
@@sammyt2000 That's true, good luck bro we all can make it
Looks are definitely very important but we shouldn’t focus on them for superficial reasons. I work hard at the gym and take care of my diet and sleep, not for vanity, not to sleep with as many women as I can, but so I can be attractive to my future wife and be the man that she deserves
Great mindset mate, I strongly agree. The Hedonism has it’s downsides and it can be driven by wrong motives, but a strong man knows how to tame it to his purpouse. Stay strong
Exactly mindset is everything when u die u wont be worried about how attractive u are
I agree and do what you do it's the better mindset imo
where r u from m8? I see you often in the comments on Hammie's vids.
Great. Years of work (which your future wife didn't have to do, because of the structure of the dating market). Then a hotter, taller, higher status guy appears in her DMs looking to smash and it all comes crashing down. Sure looksmax because it gives you broad advantages in life but don't think it'll spare you from being treated like a disposable and replaceable object by women
Focusing too much on how you look will give you anxiety and will bring you into an endless loop of feeling not good enough
Will i have BDD now and struggle in my whole life thanks to the blackpillers
"Looks aren't important" "Men need to be more sensitive" "Everyone is equal" all nothing but lies. Looks are important, men need to be have hearts of steel, and some people are superior than others.
I miss the room setup😭
edit: see I do have friends mom
same bro😭
Yeah same. It had some kind of warmth to it. (Maybe because I dont usually go outside 😭)
Me too😭
That's comfort zone
ME TOO
I have to say there is a VERY STRONG correlation with looks and your mental health in terms of your self-image and how you see yourself physically. It took me 20 years to actually admit and viscerally accept that I’m not an ugly person. I used to believe that I was ugly and as a result, this spilled over in to me not taking pride in my appearance as a person. This toxic belief I once had led me to lying to myself about not caring about my appearance, as I had given up at the time. Also whenever my friends would host parties at their house and bring me along - my goals were to just get drunk as possible and have a good time - I wasn’t even trying to chat to women at the time.
I used to wear this oversized grey hoodie and a beanie all the time to parties and to the club. The jeans I used to wear were a bit discoloured as well. If it was a house party, I would sometimes wear basic tracksuits (not even branded 😂). I wore the beanie because I hated my natural hair and I always wished for my hair to be bigger in size and to just look better and more fresh. Eventually, when I met my group of friends, one of them who is very good in fashion once thought that I wasn’t a bad looking guy at all but I just needed to do better self-care. It was also the same summer (summer 2020 - COVID) that changed my life in a multitude of ways for the better. The first time I had a solid group of friends in over a decade, the first time in many months that I actually started socialising more, speaking to people and putting myself out there (no longer begging friends). The first time since I was in my early teens that I actually moved to a girl (I got rejected, but learnt very valuable lessons about myself and social skills in general). I made some friends who were very attractive women and got to know people with a little bit more clout and that’s when I finally began the process of no longer putting people on huge pedestals (I used to have a crippling inferiority complex and social anxiety - these are things that I’m still working on to this day and which got a lot better but still no where near where I want to be)
The shift happened when I started getting clean hair cuts and taper fades, started dressing in better and more fashionable clothes and when I started my hair journey of protective styles by platting and putting cornrows in my hair. I also started working out properly in this summer and that’s when I slowly started seeing the positive correlations between confidence building, mental health and caring about how I look. I also find that taking pride in how you look helps you break out of your comfort zone in life as you become less anxious and self-conscious.
Now, I signed to a modelling agency a week ago and I’ve got my first portfolio shoot happening later this month. I’m also starting to see things slowly change in a better direction from me.
That's it, if you take care of your body you take care of yourself which will fix your mental health (if you don't have chronic symptoms)
I need an update after your photoshoot, I'm curios about how it went 😉
What’s absolutely rich, is my mother (my parents split when I was 7 and my stepdad never talked to me, so I was pretty much raised by her) told me all throughout my middle school and early highschool years that looks don’t matter and I need to just be myself. As a result, I was a skinny little autist that wore sweatpants and a T-shirt to school, had a buzzcut because my mom didn’t know any male hairstyles, and I lacked the self awareness to find out what’d look good on me, and nobody wanted to talk to me and I was perpetually sad. Even now, she calls me neurotic for being so “obsessed” with how I look. This same woman got breast implants and cheated on my stepdad 3 months later around this time last year 🤡
I went through a Blackpill phase in late highschool and became very shut in and depressed, but also kind of an emo looking kid, and I had a few unattractive girls express interest in me.
Then I graduated high school a little over a year ago and didn’t know what I wanted to do, so I started working a job I dislike. On my time off, I started working out. I got a different hairstyle, I tried bettering my social skills, and I downloaded Tinder. Then I discovered Hamza back in March, immediately set myself 30 goals for the next 3 months I had 0 chance of attaining by June, but at least I tried. Now, I’m doing all the same things really, just taking it more seriously. I’ve gained about 15 pounds of muscle, become a little more extroverted, delaying gratification, etc. Unsurprisingly, I still do terribly on Tinder, and I’ll admit a lot of me doesn’t even feel like dating is worth it, seeing how women treat men and knowing that as soon as I stop being of service/value to her, she’ll move on to someone else. Hopefully once I start college this fall, I’ll meet more people, a good crowd of people, because right now, it sorta seems like everyone is dry and boring, and despite my efforts, everyone else has an easier time dating and finding relationships even though they sometimes don’t do anything at all. And seeing all these girls complaining about how men are terrible because they got their heart broke or some shit, meanwhile it’s a struggle for me to even get looked at, makes it very difficult to empathize with them.
I feel you man. Went through the similar experience. Keep working on yourself.
Stop listening to the redpill, it dehumanizes women.
That sucks man but Ive had a very similar experience with my life so far. We're pretty much at the same point in life right now too, I'm also waiting to start college and I'm hopeful that I'll finally meet more like minded people. My highschool experience wasnt the best, I never had any luck with girls and people treated me like I was a monster. I started on self improvement about 6 months ago and I'm doing way better than I was then, it's all about wavelength. All those kids in school acted like children, it's no wonder I didn't engage. I've been improving my social skills though and it's important to do that. At one point I've also been unimpressed and bored with life and that comes from not changing anything, right now I'm still learning to drive and its something I'm doing right now to get out there. I wish you luck down the road brother, I promise you it'll get better. You just need to work towards it.
I respect the process you're going through. Keep it up
Bro eat healthy ,hit the gym , move out from home , pray to God and always Aim to be a better man each and every single day 🙏🫂
Everyone can looksmax 😎
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video he is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
Looks determine how your personality is perceived. If you are bad-looking and talkative, your annoying. If you are good-looking and talkative, you are outgoing.
THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO. As a chubby girl ive ALWAYS been conditioned to “accept” my body the way it is and to just be “body positive” and all that bullshit but the truth is, especially as a girl looks do matter ALOT. I used to always say “oh if a guy doesnt like my body thats his loss” but in all honesty you have to have both good personality AND good looks. This video was like a breath of fresh air the way you only spoke facts. Thank you for your honest content. Even though im not your “young men” target audience I learn alot from your vids. Bless up 🙏🏼😊
Yea you gotta be fit ain't no one gonna like you it is what it is and work both ways
Hell yeah, and not even for looks alone, being fat is super risky to your health, I'm glad you realized the truth, peace
Meh guys will still give some sort of attention even if yure fat fack off privilegded
Don't buy into pathetic 'woke' bs where women are told plus size is good and accept your body. Obesity is a serious disease and obese women are unattractive
Keep fighting
It's like auditioning for a movie how you look gets you the audtion how you act gets you the part 💯
great analogy
Not bad
Acting Part Is Not Even Need If Individual Is Extremely Attractive 🙂
Your looks do all the acting for you. No need to worry about how you act.
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
If anyone is out there trying to grow long hair like me: the transition phase is just for a short time and after it you'll have an awesome mane, brothers
So don't you dare quitting.
Stay healthy and positive😘
I had to deal with the awkeard phase for so long but now it's finally there. This is so true just push through
I also try to grow long Hair and all my friends call me gay or are beeing rude to me when in group but when alone all of them tell me that some other in the group is jealous of me soo just but that i realized how much i have bad friends so win-win i guess (sry for low quality English I'm from the Balkans)
I'm black I'm going for the native man bun
@@kanyenorth2605 brilliant brother
@@goopbrain8919 strong. I'm somewhere around like 11-12 cm all around the head. But I won't surrender
Improving your looks will have a compounding effect on everything else in your life. So many things in life are correlated with your looks it’s insane, nearly everything is. There’s literally no reason to not improve your looks.
As males, we have a plethora of things that we can do to take care of our physical selves and if you think you’re ugly, chances are that you just need to tweak some things (style, fitness, diet, good haircuts/beard shape-ups) to become a better version
The problem is not that, man. We know we can improve, but it doesn't matter because there's always someone better farming matches on dating apps. My genetic cealling might be some othey guy's minimal effort state, and that is just depressing. All incentive is lost that way.
@@neburarerreh4958 nah I def get that. I think it’s cuz we start to compare ourselves to other people when the only comparison we should be making is the one w ourselves
well, you'd have to use dating apps to well and truly get to know the current situation.
Don’t do dating apps, it’s a waste of time. Meet girls in real life. If you make a good impression in real life, you’ll beat any guy she met on a dating app. If you are around her in person and you’re turning her on, it’s over. Look wt who most women cheat with. It’s not a guy she met online. It’s her bf’s friend, or a friend of a friend, or the bf’s brother or something. It’s someone sees in person. In person always does it. I never get any messages back online, but in person I do good, and every single one of my friends gfs or wives has had a crush on me.
@@nickp3949 you should do RUclips videos
Sometimes I have doubts about improving my looks due to my height, some days I remember I’ll always be at some disadvantage for being 5’7. But then I realise, I’m gonna be in this race anyways so why not do all I can to look my absolute best. It can be hard. Especially at the start of the journey but it’s so worth it.
Legit I’m 5’7, but uhh, still get bitches. No excuse for us short kings
You don't really have to be in the race. Nothing really stops you from taking your own life, at least physically.
Either that, or find a way to shut your libido off.
My brother 5 6 and got one of the hottest chick so this is bullshit what u thinking just ignore and move on
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
@@thedarkking32 your face changes when you loose fat man atleast defined what else do you want.
With race yes your right every prefers there own race nothing wrong in that but not because the others are ugly
i swear to god you're so good at stopping people from coping
If you look good enough girls will pursue you believe me
The "looks aren't important_ are the biggest lie in the world. How are you gonna approach someone when you are not looking good? You might have an awesome character but you won't get the chance to show that if no one approaches you.
Yes we shouldn't focus on just looks obviously, but they are the main reason people approach each other
true, good looks means you are probably way more approachable as well
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
@@thedarkking32 thank you! I'm glad someone pointed this out. He claims that having muscles and a six pack gets the girls when theres like hundreds of guys with beer bellies that have very attractive looking girlfriends. This guy has some type of arrogance
@OnlyOne_1 I'm not hating on this guy but he is spreading pretty kinda false information. Many guys such as myself with muscles have gotten compliments from mostly guys not women and this guy thinks that we're morons. Reality is many women could care less about physics and women will never approach you even if you have a physique of a super model
One of the regrets of my life is that I haven't taken more interest into fitness and building my physique earlier. I first entered the gym when I was about 19, but I was inconsistent for YEARS. I was starting and dropping it on and on and on. I've just turned 30, I started being consistent about a year, maybe 2 years ago. I haven't got any spectacular results until I found an awesome coach, but I've built up a consistency and love for the physical effort. It's still not too late for me to build the attractive body (especially that I've got everything else in order - money, life situation, etc.), but I would be sooooo much further in terms of attractiveness if I just stuck to it when I was younger. One of my excuses was exactly this - "Looks aren't that important. It's what values you represent that matters". The second part is true, but by using this as an excuse you represent making excuses instead on working on your attractiveness and health. It's not what I want to represent. I want to represent self-love, consistency, dedication and self-respect. Not avoiding effort. That's weak. And I refuse to be weak.
Stick at it brother.
I just started working out, maybe 2 months ago i am already 35. I feel good already that is why I am driven. I cant wait to see myself in a year.
Dose it actually help your dating life tho I’m 18 and honestly very skeptical about because all guys who are ripped and in shape all have one thing in common they all seem to have attractive faces
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
@@user-tb9cl2my6i even if the "attractive face" would be purely genetics (which it isn't), having a "mediocre" or even unattractive AND an attractive physique is still 100x better than being being mediocre/ugly and FAT on top of that. Besides - Daily physical exercise is so much more than just looks. It's a way to build up your consistency, dedication, time management, being able to delay gratification, hard working, being ok with discomfort, figjting off the resistance with in you when you don't feel like doing something but you do it anyways because it's good for you. If you're skeptical about the attractive Ness it can bring you, do it for the things I just mentioned. You'll get an attractive physique as a bonus and you'll be a more complete human being.
Reason why looks are that important now is the constant exposure to so many people all at once through social media.
The availabilty of people is through the roof bc of the internet.
Either you go with it or you don't
Wrong. Every human who can see cares about looks. Even people who claim they don't.
@@chadalpha
Most People Have Hidden Hypocrisy
I Got Mocked by basic girls back then when i was in high school because of my bad appearance i used to look little chubby and acne in my face So i decided to get into shape and did a Glow up, now they are in complete shock that how could I do that. Now they are lurking Looking for a way to attach themselves to me Back then they didn't want to give me a chance but now what???
Back Then I Didn't Used To Know The Importance Of Appearance That It Play A Very Important Role in Life.
Looks Matter So Much Nowadays That If You Want To Get Into Dating Game You Need Be Above 5 In Dating Scale Out Of 10, During My High School I Was Dark Skin Chubby Acne On My Face But Now I've Changed Everything , I Glowed Up Now I Wonder Why People Treat Very Nicely.
That's false. Looks do matter but not because of social media but because of how our brain is wired.
Yep, looks are important! If we are not attracted to the other physically, there won't be any intimacy... this is how we work. Obviously what we wear can make us more confident and radiant, but in overall any kind of relationship is based on the looks and what is inside. You can be the most handsome being, if you have a trash personality, there is nothing that could make someone be with you. Looks pop you out the crowd, the reason the other notices you, so smile a lot!
Unless you're looking for a sugar daddy/mommy, but in that case you belong where you belong.
Cope ramirez is literally à killer and women throw their selfs to him
If u are good looking u can have tye worst personality and everyone will respect u + if u are good looking u don t watch hamza video
@@theinco8118 🤣🤣 ur not wrong tbh Looks have the power to create a halo around anything you do good or bad
This is where men get confused. Idk why women use personality argument a lot but as a dude i overlook women's personality if she's hot. Women do the same under many circumstances. But if it's real long term relationship, i give importance to personality too. If it's purely smashing, she has no personality in my mind.
Looks get you through the door, and they keep you in the room. Personality means nothing in the end, because relationships are defined by sexual intimacy. Without it, it's pretty much just friendship.
"This is how we work", then relationships are completely worthless and stripped off their inherent value. They're pure vanity in essence. Also: you think you'll win simply because you know the rules of the "game"? You can play perfectly by the rules and still lose. In fact, that is why you keep losing sometimes, because you keep playing by the rules.
I've said many time before: you're not going to win just because you care (about looks in this case). There is no "winning" the game; it has you wether you succeed or not.
@Kirin No, to hell with that. Both. What makes you think that in LTR the reason your partner sticks with you is not because of your looks? or anything else besides "affection"?
Didn't you read all the seething I wrote above?
“you’re playing the game anyways so you might as well win” - hamza
Wow that hits hard
It’s okay to be selfish sometimes focusing on improving yourself shouldn’t be viewed as a negative thing it’s almost selfish to not self improve as self improvement often times has a positive effect on people around you
Looks are important but personality is also important too in the long run. They are both equally as important to each other. Thank you Hamza for this informative video!
Imposter
Hamza i just need to thank you for motivating me and introduce me to the self improvement, i was a blackpillar who was blaming others and blaming myself and my body because i didn't get girls. I start to workout, follow a strict diet to get shredded and man the results are amazing for real, i feel confident and i feel amazing seeing myself in the mirror and not depressed. And now that you just upload this video, i agree in all of your points, working out and having a good physique help us to at least get some stares by some girls in the gym or even likes on tinder if you prefer this social media
hamza I've been watching you for a week now consistently,I've been a bit of a Jeffrey,but now I'm taking action!,I like that you give real advice and don't just do it for personal gain,love you alot bro❤,no homo.
@Angelo Montaner I really appreciate it,thank you bro!I hope to see you at the top too!
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
Bro I feel motivated doing gym everyday now let's F go ima transition into ADONISS!
@@everydayfun9531 let's goooo!!!
Hamza is one of the few self improvement people out there that i trust, his harsh truths are beneficial if you just take it as constructive criticism and use it to better yourself, i admit i am a beta rn but i know i can improve and the fact that you can improve should drive you TO improve, to become the best update of yourself you can possibly be. Take your average workout like a bug patch in a game or smthn if that helps, all i wanna see is as many people as healthy and happy as possible whilst living a successful life and remember, i believe in you just like every good person should.
Looks are absolutely important. I honestly think the ppl who say it isn’t are either old or npcs
Unfunny
You Should Respect Old Peapol
Looks are an important part of your success when it comes to everything in life and it can be improved by doing the hard work especially when you don't feel like it
Looks Matter So Much Nowadays That If You Want To Get Into Dating Game You Need Be Above 5 In Dating Scale Out Of 10, During My High School I Was Dark Skin Chubby Acne On My Face But Now I've Changed Everything , I Glowed Up Now I Wonder Why People Treat Very Nicely.
"Looks are an important part". More like "looks are everything in the end". They might not be everything as soon as you get them right, but without them you can do pretty much nothing. Everything depends on them, hence everything is vain in the end; emotionality, romance, attraction, spirituality, all of that shit It's worthless.
@@neburarerreh4958 Nah that's black pill bs. Some people who weren't beautiful by most standards still succeeded. Yes it's much harder but it's far from impossible. Besides most people who are depressed (as is often the case with incels/ blackpillers) tend to see themselves as worse than they really are. Just improve and stop with the toxic mindsets. It's really a kind of moral duty
@@13thengineering33 What moral duty, goddamnit? You think those people with not so attractive "high status" partners wouldn't go for someone better looking if they could?
And by the way, before you say anything, I'm actually on self-improvement. But ironically, I feel like the more I improve, the more I see the vanity in everything. Honestly, I just keep pushing because I have nothing better to do.
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
Thanks bro you truly changed my life my life's feels better then ever self improvement helped me you helped me I'm 13 and I'm strong 7 months in gym and I feel great
Not trying to be a blackpill-sounding person, but it's true: Appearance is everything.
Ever since I've started glowing up, I've started getting positive attention from everyone. I've lived a whole life of being called ugly and unlovable, and that was mainly because of my looks. Once I started getting a great job and investing on my skin, hair, and clothing, things started changing.
People are shallow. You. Me. Everyone. Accept it, get over it if it hurts you, and adapt.
You will win, Kings and Queens.
Most people are fake tbh, not many real ones left, on the Burger King Valentine’s Day questions polls the last question asked was “would you rather find true love or have a million dollars” and a whooping 69% of people picked the million.
Thank you, Hamza I've been watching your videos since grade 7 and I'm about to turn 8 you got me so many things but the most important thing you did was shift me into a healthy person thanks alot!
ive found since ive started taking care in my looks, my confidence has greatly increased, and now my life in general is so much better
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
@@thedarkking32 that's true, I've mainly focused on my face but once that's perfect imo I'm gonna work more on my body
@@asduhaisjdjasd having a good face is way more important than having a good body. I know this because I have an amazing body but was ujnfortunately born with very bad teeth and extreme overbite that can't even be hidden with a beard tbh.
I am getting jaw surgery this year or early next depending on when my surgeon schedules it. But yeah even though I have a top 1 percent body I still get treated so badly by many people. I think what annoys me the most is those who think it's a confidence issue. I am actually a naturally confident and out going person but became more closed off because of how I was treated by society due to my overbite. You can be as confident as you want but certain traits such as bad teeth and jaw will be impossible to overcome tbh.
Even if you have a bad body if you have a decent face at the very least you'll be treated like a human being.
@@loverofhumanity speaking facts bro I hope everything works out well for you ☺️ My face is already naturally quite good I just gotta lose some fat in my neck area and get my jawlines nice and big
I always hated the mindset of "looks matter" until i lost some weight and *everyone* started treating me differently
Can you share any specific examples?
I'm gonna be honest. I'm pissed off. being told looks don't matter the whole time has definitely contributed to me letting myself go, I never fully believed it, but having hamza actually hammer home the importance of looks made me realize how rare it is anyone even does that! thank you hamza as usual, this has helped clear away the doubts in my mind on how CRITICAL it is to maximise looks, "play the game by its current rules" is a mantra
Great vid man, you’ve really changed my life and I appreciate it!
@Miwomp looooool💀💀💀
@Miwomp I already know it’s gonna be great before I watch as all of his vids have helped me, just trying to be supportive
@@barrettld i see
@Miwomp and what's wrong with it 🤨
Thank you for all the motivation and inspiration, Hamza. Because of you, I've started my own RUclips channel and hope to see you at the top. Granted it is about anime/manga but this is something I'm passionate about.
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
@@thedarkking32 I was just thanking him bro
@@thedarkking32 can't see who tf asked
Yesterday I talked to a friend who lost 80 pounds, I'm also obese and 1/3 of the way to lean. He said people treat you 300% better for being lean. Damn that's rough. Given me renewed drive.
I did the same, and its 100% true
“Just focus on your studies”. “You’ll find a good job and a girl someday”. Thank God I strayed away from that advice and went to the gym. Ngl my parent’s dating advice gave me depression since it didn’t work and I didn’t know why
Same lmao
Funny they told me the same thing and im asian, and looking at your user your also asian so that makes sense haha
I can confirm what Hamza is saying back in the day in my teens and very early 20s, that i sorta believed just be yourself thing while it holds some value it is just not as big of a deal as it has gotten made out to be. Ive lifted for 12 years by now and 2 years ago i started to try and be a little more serious about loosing weight, even tho i started out with that as the main goal i ended up being a perma bulker. I capped out at 308 lbs and by no means being lean, now over these 2 years from my top weight til now i lost 54 lbs in the first year i only lost 11 lbs funny enough. However ive now reached a point where i have some veins in my arms showing and so on, and what i can say female attention has taken off even girls that used to see me when i was fat suddenly started to pay attention. So 100% looks matter far more than ever, and expercing this first hand was really a wake up call to how much looks matter.
“U either play the game and win it or you lose” is so motivating because I’ve struggling with dating for a very long time. Even on my self improvement journey. I have a good friend that’s a 4/10 (long rainbow hair, fat and 0 drip, he is not on self improvement ) and he pulled a 8/10 girl that I was interested in and my best friend is on self improvement and is a 7-8/10 and he is dating a good looking girl and he didn’t even try. Personally I’m a 7-8/10 (hopefully I’m not buyest). I was very demotivated about the dating game. But you’re advise game me new hope and motivation to do better. Thank you hamza. I’ve been following your ever since January 2022
You're not going to win simply because you "play" the game, dude. You can play the game perfectly and still lose.
I think wheat waffles and Hamza have rubbed off on each other. Wheat waffles used to be very depressing he doesnt sound like that no more and now Hamza is talking about how important looks are.
Hamza became so active these 2 months! RESPECT! AND check out him, shouting for 17 seconds🤧
Looks is everything
I don’t understand how healthy ppl r able to let themselves be fat like ur potential literally plumages to 0. But more importantly how much it affects ur mental health
Hamza you are the best greetings From Austria lets get Like Arnolds my Friends letsss goo 💯
Love you Hamza❤
the editing on this video is phenomenal. very good job nikola
Your aesthetic body doesn't just look good but also shows that u have that discipline and that mindset of a muscular man
Good Evening, Hamza.
Please make a video about the importance of Intelligence and its connections with self improvement for us lot who aren't interested in love, friendships and relationships.
Thanks.
Yeah, intelligent it’s very important, if I’m jacked but the stupidest dickwad out there, who’s going to want to date me?
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
@@thedarkking32 bro, more times than not you can’t really change your face, it’s your face. Sure you can mew, chew hard gum, haircut, eyebrows etc but physique is easier to improve
@@thedarkking32 when you loose fat, your face normally changes too. You know better jaw line, no double chin, the creases in your face are more visible etc.
@@ItsOnlyFate777 And what if you're not fat and your genatics are weak ?
I’ve started lifting and it’s helped me lots. I’ve always had charisma but the looks dragged me down now I’m getting girls left and right. Trust me he’s talking facts
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
I kinda given up on getting relationships beacues of my autism but I didn't stop my self improvement journey, I found a new motivation.
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
don't do anything to impress women, do good things to better yourself as a man. attracting women is just an accessory, like what Hamza always says. "prioritize your mental health above all else"
Hamza could you make a video on how entrepreneurialism is misunderstood? A lot of people fall into the trap of ‘financially free and choose your own hours’, when in reality only a very few business creators can have the opportunity to do (like yourself, you outsource a lot of your work).
Hopefully you consider it, thanks for the great content as of late.
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
Male beauty is mostly his physique, strength,grooming and overall health.
Looks don't matter is the biggest lie ever told by society.
Not necessarily. Physique is more of a bonus to women they look more for good height hair and facial features. This is coming from a guy who is deep into bodybuilding (taking steroids peds etc)
@@bigmac159 being reminded that my height is everything makes me insecure yet again cuz I'm 5'7 and it really isn't the ideal height for a man
@@nottherishov6415 nah bro never said height is everything I’m sure ur an above average looking dude considering the fact that you put in effort with ur body plus I’m sure you keep urself lean which helps with face body and skin. Height is a multiplier I won’t lie and say it doesn’t help a lot however 5”7 isn’t as bad as 5”4 for example you’ve always gotta have a sense of comparison
I counts agree more. I moved to a new school this year and started out with terrible fashion sense, not working out, didn’t care about my hair, and it sucked and nobody gave me a second look. But now I’ve been working out, I have a good jawline and good build and have a good fashion sense. I have a girlfriend, my confidence is up and I’m over all doing better because of how I look.
Love that Hamza wants to show lateral delt but flex biceps instinctively :D
Great video
For people watching this, i would suggest u go to 15% body fat as it can still look aesthetic and be healthy, 15% body fat is the best for health and for building more muscle because if u maintain 10%, u dont get enough food to add more muscle and it can also make some people not feel well or energetic
I want to go between 12-15
Never take fashion and dating advice from your mother
Love you Hamza.
Every girl thinks I'm so attractive but I'm shy af.
Same
"Looks aren't important" is a cope. I have noticed that older people from past generations tend to say that only shallow people care about looks.
Maybe if was true when they were younger, but it's definitely not true nowadays.
There's so many ways to looksmaxx: Going to the gym, getting a good haircut, having a good dressing style, etc.
Looking more and more handsome is like an exam to succeed. We just need to find the right answers and not the wrong ones.
I didn't care about my looks until I was 14 and I did some soft lookmaxxes such as losing BF, stopped getting short cuts, and building muscle and the difference in how people treat me is day and night.
Boy is spitting facts!
Yeah
since i found this channel, my confidence and way to live have just skyrocketed, i hope i can help Hamza to expand this way of living by teaching self improvement like he does, but until then i still have to work on myself ... see you until then Hamza you'll see me again
good video and im not mad but i find it disappointing that you were blaming yourself in previous videos because you didnt like the fact that you abused the "dopamine receptors" by using those sort of zoom edits yet in this video the editor used some again
But it's a lot less and only in the beginning.
yea he only does it at the beginning to hook up new viewers, and eventually he will talk in the video without editing
Thank you for your leadership on this initiative
thank you for your leadership on this initiative
I really feel bad for those guys who truly bear the name "Jeffrey"💀
☠
Your looks as a male aren't really in your control though. All you can do is get to a low body fat % but your height and facial features aren't in your control at all. A lot of men can become handsome by getting to 10-13% body fat but a lot can't because they might not have a jawline, they might have a small chin, a crooked nose or even worse multiple flaws combined. Just because these men are "unloveable" to women, it doesn't mean they should pack up and move to the mountains. You can still be happy without a relationship, intimacy, love and sex.
Not everyone is average to begin with. That's the point
Someone uttering the truth at last
Looks=personality
Any teenagers wanna improve together?
Gotta get a group man, maybe a separate discord server? We will wait until more 5-6 guys
I think I agree that you should look into how to improve how you look right now but it’s a bad idea to constantly obsess over it and check the mirror 24/7. That’s what women do and it’s not for us to play that game and its only gonna make you anxious.
Become good looking enough to be confident enough in yourself to not have to check how you look in the mirror. I think you should become attractive to be happy and proud of yourself but worrying a lot about if other people find you attractive is just an insecurity that isn’t gonna help you.
Right, we are men not women. But yeah, at first when we're improving ourselves we have to be a bit vain for a little while. But once looking attractive becomes natural to us after the hard work put in, we can become confident in ourselves so we don't have to obsess over it as much.
And if you compare to other buff models and bodybuilders, then you’re likely to over train yourself, you need to work out for yourself.
It's not obsessing just to make sure you look presentable before going outside and starting your day it's the same way like when you brush your teeth or wipe your ass no one has fun doing it but it's just work ppl enjoy knowing they look presentable for the boost of confidence it feels refreshing to know I'm not out here looking like a bum
Can't believe that you cut out the goodbay kiss 😩💔 that's the only thing that gets me through the whole video.
"speshjimen" -Hamza 2022
yes
Status is most important. Looks is only most important for those without high status in society. Lower status men are the ones who are on dating apps. High status men don't even have to seek out women, women come to them. If you really want to have your pick of women then get your status all the way up, which really means get your money up, although fame is good too. Otherwise, yes your looks will be the most important thing.
I'm not a big fan of dating apps tbh where it is all just based on looks or height. Looks are important of course but I just don't like how shallow women are in those dating apps. I prefer cold approaching more which I know is way harder. Maybe I'm just a bit traditional minded but I prefer to go old-school and meet girls in the real world.
cope harder
Wheat waffles left the chad
Wheat waffles saying the exact same thing though? He always said looks matter and work on it.
Love you hamza. Thank you big man.
Well I am working on my health both mentally and physically so far I feel so much better. Be selfish and work on yourself and be the best version of yourself. Control the variables you can control.
Hamza, can you do a video on improving T naturally?
I Always supported ur ideas but after getting rejected for like the 50th time from a girl just for being "too short" im quitting, its taking a lot of my time that i can put in better thing like working more houres and studing more so i can get a better job and support more my family. I saw some of them going with jobless skinny-fat guy before dening my request for a date just because they have a normal height😂, I really want to meet them after 10 year struggling with the life they choose.
What is your height ??
@@memyself2448 5'5 but im 20
@@speedybonsky you might have 2 to 3 maybe 4yrs at most and depending on whether or not your genetics allow for you to grow taller, cuz dem growth plates start to fuse, you might have a chance of getting 1-2 inches taller.
@@speedybonsky growth hormone or leg lengthening surgery (actively help) , or less likely but still worth trying are vitamine k2/D3 with absolute belive you can grow . These are the only real things you can do that can produce results. I won't go over legality / risk or anything like that but I obsessively researched this for a few months and these are your options . I stoped growing at 14 at just around 5'6 and suddenly in June I started growing again at 17 and a half now im 5'7 1/2 and iv since 13 iv been a gym rat with decent sleep and taken all vitamins necessary but i shit you not litteraly the only change i made when I started growing after the abnormal 3 year complete pause , was believing I could grow and then I did. Luck , fate , or genetics , either way im happy ! Hope you can grow too brother 🙏
Thank u guys im gonna try some of ur advices at the end I dont have nothing to lose but everything to win
Wheatwaffle would be proud of this video.
Looks are important. But personally I think they’re over-hyped when it comes to women. As men, we should look the best we can, and be confident. And so we feel better about ourselves, which helps mentally also. A good diet keeps us healthy. Honestly, I struggle with women, and I have a v-shape, a 6 pack with 10% body fat. All my hair, stubble beard with sharp jaw, and I’m 6’1. Sure I get looks at the gym and beach, but I’ll see guys who are short, chubby, and don’t look good, in a relationship. And I’m single lol. With that said, it feels good, and we carry ourselves different when we’re lean and ripped. Good video.
Hamza's problem is that he sees that attraction is mostly in the body and not the face and this shows his ignorance, in this video hw is recommend only taking care of the body and forget or ignore that halo effect is in the face only, and Hamza of Indian race and is the less fortunate race in dating
@@thedarkking32 I agree with him in a sense. Body is important, but it’s more complimentary. A gym body with an unattractive face won’t get you far. I mean, it gets you farther than being unattractive and having a bad body. Being lean does help your face somewhat, if you have the bone structure for it. Which is genetic. My jawline and cheekbones pop at low body fat. So, I look better than average, but I’m also not a Chad. So I’m not doing bad, but not doing good. I’m Latino, but luckily I don’t have the indigenous features that some have. I’m tall, so I have more Spanish features, as I’m Mexican, Spanish, and have a little Sicilian.
@@mannygonzales1985 bro im asian 5'4 and yet i can get laid everynight with different girls if i want to...or i could just go to club and bring women home at night. i think the most important thing is confidence and how you feel about yourself. if you are truely confident, you can develop your own swag and it makes getting girls ez
@@Zogang69 Oh I believe it. I’m confident, but don’t put in effort with women. I’m pretty selective, and I’ll make effort, but the moment I don’t feel it’s reciprocated I move on super fast, and ignore. I used to get approached in the past, my ex wife was the one who came up to me. And girls I went out with approached me, and of course I approached some also. I just don’t get approached anymore. I’m more ripped than before, so just shows times have changed. Can’t put my finger on it, but seems like women want to down play me for some reason. I see some guys that are basically obese and short with health problems with girls. But they’re really great talkers, can sell you beach front property in Arizona basically. But they had to be, because they know they’re not attractive. I simply need to develop my game at the end of the day.
@@mannygonzales1985 maybe you move on fast becuz you have fear of rejection or abandonment issues! im stuck on this dilemma of beung selective too, sometimes i am not satisfied with the kind of women i attract that are low quality i would say becuz they got no ambitions or aspirations apart from getting high or drunk.
as a short dude i am compensating my short height by making music in my language which does indeed help me so much
Hamza, thank you for everything. I just got into self improvement like 2 or 3 months ago, and I already got a """"girlfriend"""" who ended up leaving me for another girl, cuz she's bi. You made me realise that I should not look for girls at this day and age. I should only focus on my own self improvement so that one day, hopefully, I can attract a real woman, who is honest, loyal, feminine, and I can feel comfortable about my masculinity because I will be a high value, attractive man by then.
I once had a girl attracted to me back then but when I said I was straight, she told me she was bi. I also have a bunch of my girl classmates who consider themselves bi as well. Is this becoming a trend or whatever with girls cause there seems to be more and more non-straight girls haha
@@jamesmccloud7535 shit's fucking frustrating man. And she was a very kind, generous and strong woman. She didn't officially leave me yet, but she texted me with caps lock that "WE NEED TO TALK" "LONG STORY SHORT. I GOT GF". I just know it's coming. Even if she doesn't even want to "break up" I know that I want to. I don't want to be a cuckold. Also I don't want to be in a relationship where I know I will never be able to fully satisfy my girl, because they have sexual attraction towards their own gender too, which I cannot satisfy because I'm a man. FUCK. THIS . SHIT. FUCK LIFE. I feel like shit right now. Why did I even waste my time on this hoe, why did I even let her take my virginity.. Because I was desperate?? And curious? Most likely yes. God damn, I feel so fucking pathetic now. I hope God can forgive me for my sins. I hate myself now. Sorry for this rant, I just had to let this out.
@@xtdycxtfuv9353 sadly, I have to say you might be right. But shallow, temporary relationships will never fulfill me, and knowing that there will probably never be anything more than that is insanely agonizing.
@@xtdycxtfuv9353 :|
@@jamesmccloud7535 I feel like they think their Bi just because they know that girl is attractive. Maybe I'm ignorant about that knowledge since I'm not a girl.
Hamza I know it’s early but I think a huge next level for this movement is how to effectively communicate to our children the dangers of instant gratification and how to avoid the behaviors before it becomes an addiction that has to be broken and healed from. This would give future generations a huge advantage as they could spend valuable energy on noble causes other than resetting from modern addictions as many young men today have to. It would set them ahead and future parents need to know how to teach it.
Looks is what allows you to play the game, personality is what allows you to win it. If you can't even play the game, how can you win it?
I'm only 18 years and I am balding pretty quickly and it has destroyed my confidence and motivation for self improvement. Hamza do you have any advice? I am not a particularly good looking person in the first place and losing my hair is devastating at this age
Update: I am going to the gym and am in decent shape, and I started taking finasteride for my hair
Look into micro needling for your scalp
Peppermint oil + platelet rich plasma + infrared theraphy + local finasteride + intermittent fasting + good diet (If nothing works hair transplat)
shave your head, develop your neck and jawline, bulk up
Pe proud of it bro...u r touching this stage of masculinity early the dht hormone thing....embrace it if it's too much just shave it off ...1st man always emphasise upon a bald head ...go for it no shame build ur body work on ur face with orthotropics take care of ur skin educate urself with fashion everything will be 10/10 fine ......hair or no hair it will 10/10
Then be like Andrew Tate 😂
Charisma and confidence is still more important than looks IMO. Most of the pretty girls I have known have dated guys way below their beauty level and are still happy and content with them. Men are more shallow when it comes to looks, for a girl it is not that important. That being said, you should still strive to be as attractive as possible.
Women care about looks far more than men do, if they’re with a less attractive guy there’s always some reason like money etc
Don’t for fall for this trap brother. Women will date you if you’re not so physically attractive but the relationship dynamic will be defined by their lack of physical attraction. They will expect you to “make up” for it with money, status, charisma, etc and there will be less sex for obvious reasons.
How often would you want to fuck a girl that you’re not so attracted to, but you started dating because she’s rich/fun to hang out with/etc?
Men and women want to date people who would be good partners and they want to have sex with people who are sexy. Become sexy otherwise you will have to negotiate for sex with your other attributes and your quality of relationships will suffer for it.
I was literally thinking today that people are just nicer and more warm to you the more attractive you are. If you’re an attractive girl this is the peak of it, but honestly as a guy you can just lose body fat and observe this.
My Parents never let me work on my looks . They always used to stop me when I tried to work on my looks . This has led to me being socially awkward , and being treated like shit by people .
Adonissssss
We all trying to lookmax right lads? 😎
yes
Islam teaches us to take pride in our appearance
you started going to the gym to get girls, i started going to the gym because i got hurt by girls, we are not the same
Look dude. You're videos are great and you do mean well creating these videos to improve us. But watching this video just really puts alot of pressure on my mental health dude. Call me a pussy and call me feminine all you want. But you don't know me ok. I appreciate the journalling and meditation and social skills. They really helped me so much in building my friend group and my mindset on life. But this huge emphasis on looks really puts alot of people down including myself. I can put the work in but jambing all this pressure down peoples throat and constantly setting goals 24/7 just burns me out.
Expecially being introverted. I don't want to sound like a dick. I just need help. I'm starting to do sprints and 20 push ups a day but I also have no interest in attracting women at the moment as I want to settle in college first and have clarity on where I am. Yes I said college. Because I'm interested in becoming a camera man, not drop shipping online businesses
If the information is true, does that really matter? Surely you're better off knowing, and experiencing the pressure, than not knowing and not having the ability to capitalise on it.
If you experience pressure from information then you're the person with the problem, not the person who fed you the information.
Ideally you want to be able to brush off things that stress you out. You should consider how you can resolve your negative relationship with information you receive. Look into stoicism, it will definitely help.
I agree with the above guy, he doesnt make videos for just you, but for all of us. Some info will hurt, imagine some jeffery being salty being told to meditate. You crossed that line and did it anyway. This video is no different, you have to take the info and deal with it. Keep hitting the gym and do what hamza says here, and in a few months you will look at yourself and see improvements, insecurity will go away.
You should watch his other video on how you should just take a few hours to just chill and de load every week, not grind 24/7 like you think, burnout is a thing i myself can suffer from but a little bit of chill time and im back at it. Keep going king.
@@work1264 idk I just felt like hamza doesn't allow any down time. That there's this huge emphasis on purpose. But summer will definitely give me time. Thanks for responding
@@obsidianoxide1719 with the time I have, I will try to put a little bit in each day. I just wish I could manage my time better. But thanks for replying