I always tell people this: you don’t need to pretend to be someone else just to be liked or to avoid being called proud or seen as a bad person. The truth is, the same people who judge you will still disrespect you, even if you stay calm and try to please them. The key is to find a balance. Be yourself, but also create clear boundaries. You don’t need to overdo anything to prove yourself to anyone. Stay respectful, but don’t let anyone walk over you either. Life is too short to live pretending or constantly worrying about what others think.
I’m telling you. I was already nodding at point 1. If you’re too humble and accessible, you go chop insult tire. I don’t really put up this over humble and accessible front and I see people who do that get taken for granted a lot of times. It can never be me 😂😂
This video really touched on some key issues we tend to overlook. The way you explained how people undervalue you if you’re too humble, the importance of correcting wrong narratives for long-term outcomes (especially for our children), and women taking exercise seriously for their health-it was all broken down so well. It’s a real eye-opener and a reminder that the simplest lessons often hold the deepest wisdom. It’s amazing to see you in such a good mental and physical space. I’m so excited for your content moving forward and pray that God continues to bless you with His wisdom, knowledge, and understanding. May you reach new heights of success, help as many people as your heart desires, and may the unity in your family continue to grow stronger over the years. Imagine how much better the world would be if more people created wholesome content like this! You are a true blessing, and I really appreciate all the hard work, time, and dedication you put into this. Thank you!
Nigerians and surface level things are 5&6. They think being smart is by shouting and talking too much. I’ve observed on other videos how Ava expresses herself in questions and comments and often said to myself this girl is brilliant. If someone is observant they can see how smart she is and very clear on what she likes and wants. Good talk and points in this video!
Omg how did this feel so relatable 21:00 forward 😊3 kids after 4 years too I just got to see my eye .I mean I just got to know myself .I reduce alot of stress,I just got to know there is something called water 😅and trying to do things just to feel self independence when no one send me 😂.now I watch few movies .exercise, play with my kids accept my situations as it is.and enjoy the moment .learn to make cool money.sleep as much as i can,dress good for my self ,clean up my face and no stress pls.I intentionally hide my Instagram and Facebook to avoid over comparison that kept me thinking I want doing well.when I log in I just want to catch fun enough laughter and comment positively and boom am out again .if I am bored I watch series 😊.say bible verses and reduce shouting on my kids 😂.they aren't at fault that I didn't see my self first .and lest I forget I pray and spend my hubby money .either by saving or spending after all if I am to be an advisor and home keeper I would be paid respectively 🤗
The exercise part is ringing a bell in my ear because of recent i have been so lazy to do so. Correcting negative words about my kids at the spot is what we parents should emphasize more on if not it leaves a stigma on the kids. Stress is a killer seriously. You dropped facts.
I think Eva is a genius. I think she's very thoughtful, artistic/creative and to top it all up, i think she has a soft spot for God. I can't publicly say she is my favorite 🫣 but i can say i look forward to always seeing her, especially when u got to the uk, i felt she just bloomed 🌸
You look gorgeous mama ❤❤❤ Even if a child was a little slower, why would you put such a name on a child, shame on that person. I once had someone close to me call my son ugly ‘jokingly’ because he was not interacting with her… I shut her down immediately! I am proud of myself for correcting those narrative especially on my kids!!!!
Smhhhh, and I feel like Ava is even a very bougie talker. When I hear her talk, I'm really impressed. Reminds me of my husband. Slow to speak but when he actually wants to express, very outstanding. Smh, na that person be olodo.
Love love this video Adaeze and of course I love your take on working out and eating right. Our body does so much for us and we don't treat it as well as we should 🙆🏾♀️ You look amazing btw ❤
Yes 👍 💯 TRUE Happiness comes from “helping people”even the bible say there is money “happiness” in giving more than receiving,well done Ada eze,always enjoying your videos,full of flavour😊👍
Hahahahaha 😂😂 the olodo part is so funny. "This your pikin na olodo o see as she dey talk now" You sounded like Judy😂😂 You hair is giving 100/100.. I love your sit-down videos alot. Your microphone is so good, I can be listening while cooking. Your videos are educative. You are doing well Ada.
I’ve been watching your videos for a long time now ma’am. You are very very beautiful I must say but there’s this different glow up lately. You look extremely beautiful ❤😍😍😍. You are so so so so beautiful ❤
It is true Ada, someone telling me that she is very difficult 😅😅because I'm a quiet person but she doesn't know that I can be crazier than her I laughed ohhh bcoz ......😅
Please ma, can you help me? I am a final year English Studies student of the university of Port Harcourt Nigeria. If things continue with me like this, I can't help but to drop out,The story is long, but I don't mind giving the details if I can reach out to you.
People can talk sha.you just feel comfortable talking bad about another person's innocent child based on whatvyou watched for 12 or 15 mins.na wa oh. Exercise here I come🏃♀️🏃♀️
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Hair, skin, jewelry, makeup, outfit… this is so beautiful 😍💚
I always tell people this: you don’t need to pretend to be someone else just to be liked or to avoid being called proud or seen as a bad person. The truth is, the same people who judge you will still disrespect you, even if you stay calm and try to please them.
The key is to find a balance. Be yourself, but also create clear boundaries. You don’t need to overdo anything to prove yourself to anyone. Stay respectful, but don’t let anyone walk over you either. Life is too short to live pretending or constantly worrying about what others think.
It's actually esteem issues that bring about overdoing things
I’m telling you. I was already nodding at point 1. If you’re too humble and accessible, you go chop insult tire. I don’t really put up this over humble and accessible front and I see people who do that get taken for granted a lot of times. It can never be me 😂😂
This video really touched on some key issues we tend to overlook. The way you explained how people undervalue you if you’re too humble, the importance of correcting wrong narratives for long-term outcomes (especially for our children), and women taking exercise seriously for their health-it was all broken down so well. It’s a real eye-opener and a reminder that the simplest lessons often hold the deepest wisdom.
It’s amazing to see you in such a good mental and physical space. I’m so excited for your content moving forward and pray that God continues to bless you with His wisdom, knowledge, and understanding. May you reach new heights of success, help as many people as your heart desires, and may the unity in your family continue to grow stronger over the years.
Imagine how much better the world would be if more people created wholesome content like this! You are a true blessing, and I really appreciate all the hard work, time, and dedication you put into this. Thank you!
When will people realise that quiet people are usually the smartest because the take in a lot by listening and when they speak they speak sense.
Nigerians and surface level things are 5&6.
They think being smart is by shouting and talking too much. I’ve observed on other videos how Ava expresses herself in questions and comments and often said to myself this girl is brilliant. If someone is observant they can see how smart she is and very clear on what she likes and wants.
Good talk and points in this video!
Omg how did this feel so relatable 21:00 forward 😊3 kids after 4 years too I just got to see my eye .I mean I just got to know myself .I reduce alot of stress,I just got to know there is something called water 😅and trying to do things just to feel self independence when no one send me 😂.now I watch few movies .exercise, play with my kids accept my situations as it is.and enjoy the moment .learn to make cool money.sleep as much as i can,dress good for my self ,clean up my face and no stress pls.I intentionally hide my Instagram and Facebook to avoid over comparison that kept me thinking I want doing well.when I log in I just want to catch fun enough laughter and comment positively and boom am out again .if I am bored I watch series 😊.say bible verses and reduce shouting on my kids 😂.they aren't at fault that I didn't see my self first .and lest I forget I pray and spend my hubby money .either by saving or spending after all if I am to be an advisor and home keeper I would be paid respectively 🤗
The exercise part is ringing a bell in my ear because of recent i have been so lazy to do so. Correcting negative words about my kids at the spot is what we parents should emphasize more on if not it leaves a stigma on the kids. Stress is a killer seriously. You dropped facts.
Spot on with the first point of not being too accessible. It will invite a lot of disrespect even in church.
Adaeze, you look so beautiful! It’s the beauty that made me open this video so fast! Your hair looks stunning on you💅🏾! I loveeet
I totally agree💯💯💯 , there is a joy that comes from helping other pple especially those who you don't know and don't expect anything from🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I think Eva is a genius. I think she's very thoughtful, artistic/creative and to top it all up, i think she has a soft spot for God. I can't publicly say she is my favorite 🫣 but i can say i look forward to always seeing her, especially when u got to the uk, i felt she just bloomed 🌸
must you have favorite in someone else's children? Haaaaaaaa oga ooooo. Just shut up!!!!!!!!
You look gorgeous mama ❤❤❤ Even if a child was a little slower, why would you put such a name on a child, shame on that person. I once had someone close to me call my son ugly ‘jokingly’ because he was not interacting with her… I shut her down immediately! I am proud of myself for correcting those narrative especially on my kids!!!!
Adaeze, please put the link to this wig you have on here. You look so pretty
Smhhhh, and I feel like Ava is even a very bougie talker. When I hear her talk, I'm really impressed. Reminds me of my husband. Slow to speak but when he actually wants to express, very outstanding.
Smh, na that person be olodo.
Oh Adaeze, we are similar in a lot of things. I’m now just trying to correct a lot of things. Thank you for this video
This hair looks so good on you 😍
Love love this video Adaeze and of course I love your take on working out and eating right.
Our body does so much for us and we don't treat it as well as we should 🙆🏾♀️
You look amazing btw ❤
People don't have boundaries since social media made it more accessible, imagine calling someone's child an olodo. Block and ignore such people.
Yes how you described Eva is very true i observed it in one of your video about questions and answers with them outdoors one time as you relocated
Ada thanks for your recent videos. I’m learning a lot from you. Thanks for sharing.
Everything you said really make sense adaeze
Thanks
Beautiful Adaeze i just realized I have not been seeing your post, you look so beautiful, thank you for your beautiful words of wisdom.
You are glowing ❤,amazing video as always. I always look forward to your videos
Your first point is everything for me. Thanks for sharing
In that regard, we are similar. I am energetic, but i dont just like stress
Nice one! Lovely hair. We need a hair review on this one 🔥
You are looking really good and well put together hair, makeup and accessories on point❤❤❤
Adaeze you are gorgeous Ma'am 😍, love the entire look, hair, makeup, etc
Always making sense ma'am.Thanks for the advice n true facts
I love your video picture quality so clear.you look beautiful as always
I agree with your views Adaeze, by the way you look so demure and classy ❤
"They will match your head and waka past" LOL😂😂😅
Life...... You just spilled the first rule of life, yourself first and every other persons comes second.
So beautiful and YES to everything you said in this video ❤
Thank you for sharing, am the type that will keep quiet and allow things to die off by itself. Anyway, you are looking good.
Yes 👍 💯 TRUE Happiness comes from “helping people”even the bible say there is money “happiness” in giving more than receiving,well done Ada eze,always enjoying your videos,full of flavour😊👍
Great and well said❤ love your look😊
Gorgeous Ada! Hair, make up, jewelries, skin, poise, and topic all 100/100🎉🎉🎉
Well said, it all wouldn’t have be said any better. About 70% applies to me. Thanks
Hahahahaha 😂😂 the olodo part is so funny. "This your pikin na olodo o see as she dey talk now" You sounded like Judy😂😂
You hair is giving 100/100..
I love your sit-down videos alot. Your microphone is so good, I can be listening while cooking. Your videos are educative. You are doing well Ada.
Looking so demure Ada❤i love everything. True talk 👄
I’ve been watching your videos for a long time now ma’am. You are very very beautiful I must say but there’s this different glow up lately. You look extremely beautiful ❤😍😍😍. You are so so so so beautiful ❤
This hair is really lovely.
This video deeply touched me
You look gorgeous 😍, love your hair beautiful Adaeze
You look absolutely stunning, your make up is so professionally put together ❤
Well said.Thank you.
All points are valid ❤
No wonder I get you so well. We have a lot in common
See eehn I TRIPPLE agree with every point 100%
3rd point..u have helped me. Kindly extend your help by sowing this wig into my life😊
Eziokwu m you said it all .. too much of everything is bad ..no b small one have to be careful the degree 📜 to which one is humble honestly..
I agree hence I free my kids, especially my daughter on how to ask for anything and I make sure to give her. She is not entitled duo
😄Guess you already told yourself but I'm still gonna say it "You look so good!!"💯
Getting beautiful by day Adeaze ❤
Great video❤
You look beautiful
I love you so much ma❤😅😅😅
I've subscribed
I love the jewelry 😍
You are beautiful and speak with wisdom.
Your hair is so beautiful, please can you share link. Thanks in advance
Exactly how I’ve been insulted for the longest of times
Mama you need ahare your beauty and makeup regiment with us biko nnu❤
Girrrrllll, you are Radiating. This moving to UK was a Great Idea. Say THANKS to your Husband.
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Love love love your hair and make up. IF glow up was in the dictionary.... mama... ❤❤❤❤
Pls o give us the plug for your hair😊
Love this Vlog sis. Let me just subscribe. I used to be quiet about matters. Now l am not letting me suppress me..l do me
Lovely wig, pls can you share the link.
It is true Ada, someone telling me that she is very difficult 😅😅because I'm a quiet person but she doesn't know that I can be crazier than her I laughed ohhh bcoz ......😅
This is always happening in my marriage
Go Ava!!
I am hereeee🎉
You look absolutely gorgeous 🥰😍
You are so beautiful Ada ❤
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This hair is beautiful
You are looking so beautiful adaeze
This hair 😭😍😍😍😍😍😍
You look good, this hair 😍& neckpiece 👌 is just distracting my attention from the video 😅😂❤
I have missed your videos...
Pls how do they apply for Visa to UK
I need to raid someone’s closet ooooooooooooooh… Melanin pops, explodes🤯
Kindly recommend supplements for over 30yrs
What do I do if my job is the source of my stress? 😫
Please ma, can you help me? I am a final year English Studies student of the university of Port Harcourt Nigeria. If things continue with me like this, I can't help but to drop out,The story is long, but I don't mind giving the details if I can reach out to you.
Send me a dm
@@AdaezesSpacei can't find the message icon on your YT timeline, but I sent a mail ma, please check 🙏🙏🙏🙏
You look so good Dear. Pls what supplements do you use??
I have different ones but I'm currently doing my research on one that will be best I'll let you know when I find out.
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Please, is there a link to the hair you have on, thank you
Olodo ke, how rude to say to anyone and even to a child….
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What's "Onolodo"sorry just want to know I'm Zimbabwean
Someone who is not smart. Usually used for kids who don't do well in school
Too bad
Be strong pls
Love from 🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱
@@AdaezesSpace that's hurtful to say to someone's child,anyway that's not true!she is a brilliant girl
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Gorgeous
Honestly, people lose alot when they don't exercise, the point is pointing ❤
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People can talk sha.you just feel comfortable talking bad about another person's innocent child based on whatvyou watched for 12 or 15 mins.na wa oh.
Exercise here I come🏃♀️🏃♀️
You look absolutely stunning, your make up is so professionally put together ❤
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