Another one is when mothers call their daughter’s “husband snatcher”or “husband’s side chick” 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ and they post videos/pictures about it. I hate it so much, It’s that serious. Just say my daughter(s) prefers their Dad to me.
Hey! This one pisses me off too much. I can't explain how disgusted I feel when I see it. You'll even see some dragging their child off their father. That's crazy!
This right here!!!!makes me so 😡 . There was a certain hair vendor I used to follow on IG, I had to unfollow her for my peace of mind 😂cos she’s always referring to her daughter as “ her husband’s side chick “🤦♀️and I couldn’t quite stand it 😅
I’ve seen some women saying “As a woman, you’re supposed to be a mother to your husband!” That pisses me off! I mean, first of all, he’s probably older than me and should know better. Get your acts together oga and don’t stress me. I’ll do all I should and chip in here and there but not carry it as my responsibility to baby an adult that is supposed to be in charge of the home.
😂 someone told me in church one day that my husband is my father, my priest and brother. I brought out my father's picture and showed her😂. I am a mother to my kids and not to another adult nau.
@@bee-beeibk2016 yes nau. We appear to diminish the position of our parents when we get married as women. The position of spouse, parents, children and friends are different. The one can fill the other .
I’m on this with you. I’m not my husband’s mother and he’s not my father. We are married couple that are sharing our lives together in love. Thank God my husband is well coordinated and knows what to do at every point in time. I’m really proud of the kind of family he’s from because of the way he was raised.
You and Nelo really have organised thoughts. You can talk about literally anything and make sense of it. The way your points flow, damn!!I can listen to you the whole day🎉❤
When i was young my moms favourite lines were " use your initiative" or " if I wasn't here, how/what would you have done?". They helped us think rather than asking her all the time
As a new mom, I really learned a lot from this video and I think you should do more of this kind of video especially about marriage and raising kids.❤❤❤
I don’t bail out men as well. But I have a neighbour who is always feeling sorry for men/boys. So it happens that her son and my sons go to the same primary school this year and my husband would pick and drop them up from school. Can you imagine what this lady did? She is feeling sorry that my husband is doing his duty of picking up and dropping the kids. So one afternoon, she goes to school and my husband is there as well to pick up the kids(I have three boys and she has 1) and that is how she tells my husband that she would be picking them up in the afternoon. That’s how this lady made my husband to stop picking the kids up at closing time. I just told her that’s you people’s business. Keep bailing men out from their responsibilities, it can never be me.
For your last point, it means you are very secure in your marriage. If as a married woman you have to snoop on your husband it means the communication between you two has hitches. I believe in marriage there must be trust between us and that’s why I should let you know my whereabouts and trust that you are where you said you are. Truly, I don’t understand these insecurities in marriage. It’s draining.
@@botashekiyah1444 I hope she doesn’t call you one day to go pick the kids after making your husband stop doing it? But what if she feels guilty for the burden and is also trying to help out? Sha sha… 😅
God bless you Ada, it's almost like you had a conversation with me and came to discuss it here because these things drive me crazy when I hear or see people make it sound funny.
One thing I love about Adaeze's channel is how unique her channel is❤ I enjoyed listening to you speak about the things you did in this video, i also picked more than a thing in this video. Thank you for this.
Adaeze, 100% that woman over sabi was me!!! I carried my self well but my eyes and soul was dead! Until I woke up and took control of my life and let go of dead load ie man. This video is useful for young women or women stuck in bad relationships thinking they have no other way. We have one life and is short. Thank you for the video
Thank you for another wonderful video. One thing I tell my kids is that because someone is doing something doesn’t mean you should do it, and that has made a lot of difference.
I mean this is me, I do what works for me . I don't care what anyone thinks about it. My 15 year old son has been on my neck for a phone because few people in his class owns one, he will get one after SSCE.
Oh! Adaeze. I thoroughly enjoyed watching this video. I love it so much when I see women who think like me. It's important to first know who you are and what you stand for as a human being. That's the only way to build values and principles that you can then pass on to your kids. I 💯 recommend this video.
Oh Ada! You put across these first two points so well. One of our favourite quotes in my home from the Bible regarding unhealthy competition is “those that compare themselves to themselves are foolish and not wise”.
You see that competitive part ehn, I’m fed up. I am not a competitive person but everyone around me wants to have everything I have😢and it’s sooo annoying, I have stopped having friends because it’s draining me. Everything thing you said is just on points 😍
The put it on my head got me laughing because i do that always my kids are so use to it i just press the ignore button and remove my eyes and they end up doing things right.
Well sid Adaeze. My friend who was sitting beside me while i was on your video just asked me to share her the link to the video. I told her no. She should just come on RUclips and type Adaezes space nd subscribe because there's a lot to learn on this channel and she agreed so i just got u additional subscriber. I'm rooting for this daezy tribe always. Much love ma'am.
This is why I watch and follow. We couple of similar opinions. Growing up, my mum will never give you an option either you eat what the household is eating or you stay hungry. You can’t even eat biscuits 😂😂😂 As I new mom, I will employ that habit when my baby grows up
I simply allow the Holy Spirit guide me on my parenting journey. So much nonsense and pressure on social media as to how to raise kids, 700 activities to do,what not to say its overwhelming. I pray and ask God for grace and instruction along with my husband. I agree with everything you've shared Adaeze. The first video i watched of you last year i was like i love this lady, you are funny but so real. God bless you and your family ❤️
We can't be enabling nonsense! However , the presentation should be with wisdom so as not allow the enemy weaponize the situation. Thank you sis Alot of wisdom
Haha, I have checked his phone, I have the password. However, I don't think I have the time now. But if i suspect anything fishy, I will check. I agree with you on a lot of things quite frankly.
The day my husband tried the not flushing thing with me,he actually flushed but needed to be flushed again,I snapped it and sent it to him,tagged it,someone is saying hello,he had to apologize
I’m with you on everything here. My daughters asked for a phone at 10/11yrs old I said NO. They said but our friends ….. I said YOU ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS, I AM NOT YOUR FRIENDS MOTHER. When the right time came, I gave them a phone (I always explain why I take certain decisions) Same for make up, I did not allow it until they clocked 18… same for food options (I cannot come and kill myself) I also don’t teach Santa, Halloween, tooth fairy….. to my kids. In fact I agreed 💯 on everything with you. I feel no pressure at all, everybody is entitled to their rules and opinions. Well done mama❤️❤️❤️❤️
Some of us didnt baby our husbands but we got tired of complaining. I do what makes my home okay because i like a very organized space but he's not. Leave his stuff till he figures to clean them. And get my kids to keeep the home tidy. For women who have husbands with no organizational habit, Try this, pack yours and leave his. He will catch up with time.
Or excusing stupid behaviors when the husband’s club looses a match and sees it as a means to misbehave with the wife or girlfriend like he can do that with his boss
I find it funny when mums complain that children look like their dad. When in realuty they love it, they feel that they have proved to the world that the child belongs to the man. A weird sense of pride. I had a friend who would get a little angry when i told her her son looks like her more than the dad. Especially their first borns😂😂😂women are funny. Im not a mum but yoh this makes me laugh
You see that "over correctiveness" eh. I told a Friend that we will be helicopter parents. We want to "undo" what are parents did with our own kids, but we didn't die nau. God will help us Sha.
Oh my God,not me baby sitting my husband too,is very annoying, doesn't flush toilet is highly annoying,no my husband doesn't do that. They should stop normalising terrible bad habits
My first time commenting although I watch your videos a lot very informative I totally agree…especially the husband part like where do they guys get the energy to monitor their husbands😅😅😅😅 is it not exhausting?
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Another one is when mothers call their daughter’s “husband snatcher”or “husband’s side chick” 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ and they post videos/pictures about it. I hate it so much, It’s that serious. Just say my daughter(s) prefers their Dad to me.
Hey! This one pisses me off too much. I can't explain how disgusted I feel when I see it. You'll even see some dragging their child off their father. That's crazy!
@ when they also call their sons “my little boyfriend or my husband”. I feel like calling the police 🤣 what in the incest is going on
I just had to pause and comment on the first point. 😆it makes my skin crawl too, cos what?
This right here!!!!makes me so 😡 . There was a certain hair vendor I used to follow on IG, I had to unfollow her for my peace of mind 😂cos she’s always referring to her daughter as “ her husband’s side chick “🤦♀️and I couldn’t quite stand it 😅
@@estherkingsleyBo hairs is standing on this 😂😂😂😂
I’ve seen some women saying “As a woman, you’re supposed to be a mother to your husband!” That pisses me off! I mean, first of all, he’s probably older than me and should know better. Get your acts together oga and don’t stress me. I’ll do all I should and chip in here and there but not carry it as my responsibility to baby an adult that is supposed to be in charge of the home.
😂 someone told me in church one day that my husband is my father, my priest and brother. I brought out my father's picture and showed her😂. I am a mother to my kids and not to another adult nau.
@@callistaolebara34 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣weak!
@@bee-beeibk2016 yes nau. We appear to diminish the position of our parents when we get married as women. The position of spouse, parents, children and friends are different. The one can fill the other .
I’m on this with you.
I’m not my husband’s mother and he’s not my father. We are married couple that are sharing our lives together in love. Thank God my husband is well coordinated and knows what to do at every point in time. I’m really proud of the kind of family he’s from because of the way he was raised.
You and Nelo really have organised thoughts. You can talk about literally anything and make sense of it. The way your points flow, damn!!I can listen to you the whole day🎉❤
When i was young my moms favourite lines were " use your initiative" or " if I wasn't here, how/what would you have done?". They helped us think rather than asking her all the time
As a new mom, I really learned a lot from this video and I think you should do more of this kind of video especially about marriage and raising kids.❤❤❤
I don’t bail out men as well.
But I have a neighbour who is always feeling sorry for men/boys.
So it happens that her son and my sons go to the same primary school this year and my husband would pick and drop them up from school.
Can you imagine what this lady did? She is feeling sorry that my husband is doing his duty of picking up and dropping the kids.
So one afternoon, she goes to school and my husband is there as well to pick up the kids(I have three boys and she has 1) and that is how she tells my husband that she would be picking them up in the afternoon.
That’s how this lady made my husband to stop picking the kids up at closing time.
I just told her that’s you people’s business.
Keep bailing men out from their responsibilities, it can never be me.
For your last point, it means you are very secure in your marriage. If as a married woman you have to snoop on your husband it means the communication between you two has hitches.
I believe in marriage there must be trust between us and that’s why I should let you know my whereabouts and trust that you are where you said you are.
Truly, I don’t understand these insecurities in marriage.
It’s draining.
@@botashekiyah1444 I hope she doesn’t call you one day to go pick the kids after making your husband stop doing it? But what if she feels guilty for the burden and is also trying to help out? Sha sha… 😅
God bless you Ada, it's almost like you had a conversation with me and came to discuss it here because these things drive me crazy when I hear or see people make it sound funny.
I think your candour is one of the things that kept me glued to your channel since the day ( stumbled on it. I like you Ada.
One thing I love about Adaeze's channel is how unique her channel is❤
I enjoyed listening to you speak about the things you did in this video, i also picked more than a thing in this video. Thank you for this.
Adaeze, 100% that woman over sabi was me!!! I carried my self well but my eyes and soul was dead! Until I woke up and took control of my life and let go of dead load ie man. This video is useful for young women or women stuck in bad relationships thinking they have no other way. We have one life and is short. Thank you for the video
I always look forward to listening to you, Adaeze, especially when I cook.....it's highly therapeutic.....
Thank you for another wonderful video. One thing I tell my kids is that because someone is doing something doesn’t mean you should do it, and that has made a lot of difference.
I mean this is me, I do what works for me . I don't care what anyone thinks about it. My 15 year old son has been on my neck for a phone because few people in his class owns one, he will get one after SSCE.
That's me. 💯
Not all trend should be followed,make your own decision and healthy comparison should be encouraged. Set your boundaries ❤❤❤
In summary
Oh! Adaeze. I thoroughly enjoyed watching this video. I love it so much when I see women who think like me. It's important to first know who you are and what you stand for as a human being. That's the only way to build values and principles that you can then pass on to your kids. I 💯 recommend this video.
Oh Ada! You put across these first two points so well. One of our favourite quotes in my home from the Bible regarding unhealthy competition is “those that compare themselves to themselves are foolish and not wise”.
You see that competitive part ehn, I’m fed up. I am not a competitive person but everyone around me wants to have everything I have😢and it’s sooo annoying, I have stopped having friends because it’s draining me. Everything thing you said is just on points 😍
Totally correct 💯
The put it on my head got me laughing because i do that always my kids are so use to it i just press the ignore button and remove my eyes and they end up doing things right.
You are you funny “am I James mother 😂😂😂.this is so educative.
I’m not even a millennial mom or wife but I agree 💯 with everything you’ve said… I even feel these things you just mentioned are/should be NORMS… ❤❤
Put it on my head 😂😂😂😂 Adaeze and big big English ehn! She said it’s weaponized incompetence 😅
Lol 😂
Those are not big English words like you called it.
I totally agree with everything you said Adaeze if you don’t require accountability from people trust me they won’t ever feel the need to be
Would love contents on Balancing Working from Home and Managing the home..Also love anything you put out cause you are being you...
Adaeze I totally agree with all your point, i always feel we reason same way , like I’m so indifferent
This video reminded me of why I subscribed to your channel. God bless you
Well said ❤❤❤well done 🎉
Insightful. I second your perspective.
You share same perspective as myself .
I'll definitely operate this way in future when i am a parent
Truth is I’m yet to see a Nigerian wife that looks younger than her husband. They are always looking older and stressed out especially the SAHW.
Congratulations on your 70k sub
Lol😂😂 i can't stop laughing, you're very funny. Exactly do what works for you.
My daughter will say but all my friends are doing it, i tell her but your friend is not my child.
Well sid Adaeze. My friend who was sitting beside me while i was on your video just asked me to share her the link to the video. I told her no. She should just come on RUclips and type Adaezes space nd subscribe because there's a lot to learn on this channel and she agreed so i just got u additional subscriber. I'm rooting for this daezy tribe always. Much love ma'am.
This is why I watch and follow. We couple of similar opinions. Growing up, my mum will never give you an option either you eat what the household is eating or you stay hungry. You can’t even eat biscuits 😂😂😂 As I new mom, I will employ that habit when my baby grows up
That's exactly how I'm raising my children. I can't kill myself.
Bravo 👏. I agree with everything you said. Keep up the good work. We're not clones, and we don't have to follow follow or ge copycats. 😊
Sure. Giving children too much options spoil them and its important for parents to take control, otherwise you will stress yourself.
You are my sister from another family. Totally agree 👍
Set your boundaries not all trend should be followed make your own decisions and healthy and educational comparison should be encouraged that's❤❤❤❤❤❤
Regarding to all the wifey parts I am EXACTLY like you 😂 and I love it ❤
I simply allow the Holy Spirit guide me on my parenting journey. So much nonsense and pressure on social media as to how to raise kids, 700 activities to do,what not to say its overwhelming. I pray and ask God for grace and instruction along with my husband. I agree with everything you've shared Adaeze. The first video i watched of you last year i was like i love this lady, you are funny but so real. God bless you and your family ❤️
We can't be enabling nonsense! However , the presentation should be with wisdom so as not allow the enemy weaponize the situation.
Thank you sis
Alot of wisdom
I am you, you are me on this take 😂😂😂😂
Haha, I have checked his phone, I have the password. However, I don't think I have the time now. But if i suspect anything fishy, I will check. I agree with you on a lot of things quite frankly.
I love watching this type of videos… do another one when your kids become teens 😂😂😂😂
Ada, how can you suggest someone should focus on their focus when the person doesn't have a focus.
Oh yes there is no way I'm babying a grown man, I can never be attracted to that
The day my husband tried the not flushing thing with me,he actually flushed but needed to be flushed again,I snapped it and sent it to him,tagged it,someone is saying hello,he had to apologize
😂😂😂😂
Eziokwu like these are grown men ooo smh🤦🏽♀️
Please can we get part two of this
I’m with you on everything here.
My daughters asked for a phone at 10/11yrs old I said NO. They said but our friends ….. I said YOU ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS, I AM NOT YOUR FRIENDS MOTHER. When the right time came, I gave them a phone (I always explain why I take certain decisions) Same for make up, I did not allow it until they clocked 18… same for food options (I cannot come and kill myself)
I also don’t teach Santa, Halloween, tooth fairy….. to my kids.
In fact I agreed 💯 on everything with you.
I feel no pressure at all, everybody is entitled to their rules and opinions.
Well done mama❤️❤️❤️❤️
I thought I'm the only one like this. It surely feels good to know that I'm not the only one like this.
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Some of us didnt baby our husbands but we got tired of complaining. I do what makes my home okay because i like a very organized space but he's not. Leave his stuff till he figures to clean them. And get my kids to keeep the home tidy. For women who have husbands with no organizational habit, Try this, pack yours and leave his. He will catch up with time.
QED!
Add the women that are jealous of how their husbands like abi love their children (daughters).
😂The last point had you talking in CAPS LOCK
Please let's get a part 2 of the video
Or excusing stupid behaviors when the husband’s club looses a match and sees it as a means to misbehave with the wife or girlfriend like he can do that with his boss
very informative. I really enjoyed watching
I have seen my mummy twin. I am the exact same way 😂
Good talk, I love it so much
I find it funny when mums complain that children look like their dad. When in realuty they love it, they feel that they have proved to the world that the child belongs to the man. A weird sense of pride. I had a friend who would get a little angry when i told her her son looks like her more than the dad. Especially their first borns😂😂😂women are funny. Im not a mum but yoh this makes me laugh
This really annoys me a lot
This woman❤❤ I just love you. I wish every woman can reason the you do❤❤❤
Am not a competitive person too. I thought am alone.
😅Your palms and fingers are so long jezzz,u will be so tall Ada,nice video
Ride on Pastor! Preachh!!!!
You see that "over correctiveness" eh. I told a Friend that we will be helicopter parents. We want to "undo" what are parents did with our own kids, but we didn't die nau. God will help us Sha.
Still watching but point #1 is 👏👏👏👏
Oh my God,not me baby sitting my husband too,is very annoying, doesn't flush toilet is highly annoying,no my husband doesn't do that. They should stop normalising terrible bad habits
My first time commenting although I watch your videos a lot very informative I totally agree…especially the husband part like where do they guys get the energy to monitor their husbands😅😅😅😅 is it not exhausting?
Thats true l also wonder why wives do that really
great advice! love this. Ada, do you and hubby drink alcohol? just curious
Adaeze ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
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Yes to not babying husbands pls.
What do you say to a woman married to a man who wants to be infantilized?
Sophia is not last born ooo😊😊
Honestly Sis..that first point just annoys me..talking petit things about your husband
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I'm early today
The gag is that I’m looking at Adaeze and I feel she’s not happy internally. That may not be true. Don’t judge what people post on SM.