When my husband wants something done, I do it as soon as I have time. Usually I drop what I'm doing. My husband doesn't do what I ask for months. Why don't they just get it done?
1. Complaining 2. Criticizing 3. Competing 4. Controlling 5. Taking on the masculine role in the relationship. 6. Not being interested in sex. 7. Not taking care of your body. 8. Fakeness
Dear man, do you find all of this unattractive? Then think about why your woman has to complain in the first place. Why haven't you done yet what she asked you for? Why does she have to be in her masculine role? Only because you aren't. Why are you not getting enough s€x? Really think you deserve this reward when she has to take care of her job, your household and your children all by herself all day long. She is neglecting herself? When should she take care of herself? You can avoid those things: BE A MAN AND A PARTNER FOR YOUR WOMAN.
This makes me feel, we shouldn't be ourselves. Like a man wants a submissive woman. 😂 Complaining= venting... Controlling = knows what she wants.. Jeeze... This guy's a controller himself..😅
Thank you for reminding me why Im super happy being single. We have to be masculine women because men are child like and your list is more exhausting than a relationship is worth. Thanks for the reminder!
To me as a woman and an older woman I find that women to go to those extremes are more like children who want to be some sexy woman instead of looking inside themselves and being themselves whatever that is god-given
Sounds to me, men want a Stepford wife who's perfect without any flaws. I think women are tired enough and now they have to be sure a man's not getting his ego hurt. Sounds one sided to me.
That’s not what I got from this video at all. He’s not saying you have to be perfect, literally nobody is perfect. Not everything will apply to every female just like not everything mentioned applies to every man. These are just tips and suggestions
Every time a male friend of mine comes to visit me in my house and urinates in the toilet, half of his urine is always on the floor. I never complain about that to him, instead, I quietly wipe the urine off of the floor with a towel, and say to myself "thank goodness he doesn't live with me in the house". Now, if a live-in husband or boyfriend does that every time and would not change his behavior, should a woman be allowed to complain? Some men don't watch their own behaviors and get upset when a woman points their problems out and call the woman a nagging wife.
Some women are skinny or stick looking and it’s not their choice, using that kind of description of woman body is the same like calling her fat. Very unprofessional
Honestly i would say your points are obviously correct, however if i feel something is off about the relationship or i do not feel loved or appreciated, then things start to slide, and i might try to figure out what the issue is. Which most men are usually not honest about as they do not want to hurt a womans feelings, and then complaining or questioning might start to increase... so communication is something important but it just doesnt always work, if i feel perfectly loved and appreciated then everything else follows natural... because i would want to do everything for that man, but motivation dissapears if i dont feel loved or appreciated... I honestly think this is very much key to a woman not complaining.. Also some men are not sexually interested and sometimes that is because they look too much digital stuff, if you know what i mean, and they cant make a true connection because of that..
I agree with everything but I hope your #8 has some wiggle room bc there are women who are breast cancer survivors who chose to get augmentation and I don’t think that is being fake. Also as much as men say they don’t like fake, they also don’t find “raw,” “au natural” women who don’t shave, don’t use makeup very attractive.
@@joycenoel1008 Thank you and I totally agree with you. Most men love beautiful fake breasts! And I really don’t think there’s anything wrong with women who choose to beautify themselves done in good taste and moderation as long as they are doing it for themselves. 🩷
Interesting, my first thought on the fakeness was more on behavior. I was imagining those women who act smiley and super agreeable. But seems they like that so….
I think his advice is gold. Women today are so down on men. They are bitter and cynical. They don't realize that's precisely what the devil wants to perpetuate the cold war between the sexes.
I would say the list is pretty sensible and it’s pretty much exactly the same for what is unattractive in a man… it’s just what’s unattractive in a partner.
Thanks for sharing this with us. Some of us are still trying to find a better way of expressing ourselves without it sounding like a complaint. Maybe, you can share your thoughts with us on that. A natural look of makeup works for me. I tried fake lashes and hair but never implants. None of the above worked or would have worked. The lashes looked sticky and the extra hair gets old. The hair is workable if needed but, has to be kept up, otherwise, it too, would be a mess😂 I can’t speak on bbl’s as I’m just now understanding the terminology of it. Never needed to travel that route but, I don’t knock those who enjoy any of it. Whatever, makes one happy. I appreciate you sharing your expertise on this feed. It’s very helpful. God bless you❤️✌🏾
Excellent points! Mutual communication to find out about turn on & offs is helpful! Love, honesty & respect make talking about all these points more attractive & compliable❤❤❤
If you love a man you don't criticize or complain that much. You don't compete. Never control a man, let him do whatever he wants, if he fails just leave if necessary. If you do that you are trying to get an incomplete man into a man you like, because you don't really love that man. That's it, you're not with a man you respect and admire and trust, you re trying to control a child you want to make a man from. That won't work. Of course, if you're with a true man you respect, you will feel like a woman and you will respect him and... desire him.
Interesting comments about competing. The woman might not be competing - she might just be being herself and might happen to be good (even better) at what she's doing. Men DO take offense at this sadly. She may have been raised in a home with a Jesus (brother/s) who was worshipped for everything while she was ignored. I think it's natural for those girls to "compete" to try to be thought of as equal or better. No surprise this should carry into adulthood. Maybe men need to be more understanding. I've always felt that if I have to "dumb down" for a man, he's a weenie and not the one for me. I like strong men who appreciate me for what I am. Both people have their strengths and weaknesses, and it might not be who you expect.
I agree with everything except the weight thing. We are beautiful, loveable people no matter what size or shape we are. Men of quality who want women of quality will see that. And appreciate a kind, loving woman for who she is. I would think much less of a man who judged me according to my size and shape. I would never do that to a man
Menopause changes a woman in ways she never knew would ever happen to her: emotionally and physically.....I felt it was beyond my control. I went from a size 6/ 8 to 10/ 12. it can make you feel awfully unattractive. I always walked, swam, exercised. It's only now that I'm a size 6( US2) again and it had nothing to do with walking, exercise.....
If he's abusive/hostile, and generally doesn't show any signs of affection, attention, empathy, etc., it's hard to be interested in having sex with him. Maybe give the guys a tip or two here;-)
Embrace your natural self take care of yourself the best you can physically take care of yourself the best you can psychologically and financially think about your successes try to be happy with those yourself work on your relationships because if you can't even have a decent friendship relationship, how are you going to ever have a decent relationship with a husband or wife
It sounds like all we have to do is stop being ourselves. Would it be better if we were all ourselves and we attracted people that were interested to us is that that your advice isn’t good it’s just not reasonable to ask people to change who they are to attract somebody who is not interested in who they are.
He didn't see a dentist in 20 years of our relationship. Brushed his teeth once a day. Didn't clean the incredible amount of wax from his ears. Didn't clip his toenails, had toenail fungus, skid marks on his bath towel. Ugh. Not attractive.
Best day I went to a friend's house husband says she's bitching complaining nagging Son said "Well, dad, why don't you just do your share without having to be asked?"
Oh now hold up...#7 I am overweight. The guys that have shown interest in me love a bigger woman. One made a mistake in saying a bigger woman will never cheat on you...HA, it doesn't matter the size she is if she's gonna cheat, she's gonna cheat. A guy I hooked up with several times (he did call me his girlfriend, but I never felt that way as he didn't treat me as such imo) loved to kiss and rub allover my belly, loved the jiggle of my bum when I would walk naked to the bathroom or when we were in doggy. He wasn't thin, but not really overweight either. My current boyfriend is overweight (kinda built like a football player with broad shoulders, thick neck) and has a bit of a belly too. *Just saying, it's all about acceptance and you shouldn't discard someone for their weight! I used to be skinny and saw myself as fat and I was a very unhappy person...now I am overweight and gained confidence, feel sexy and beautiful. Not saying I like my body so much, but I embrace it and who I have become over the years. If I lose weight, great, if not, oh well. For me taking care of myself is showering, making sure I am always smelling good for my man...sometimes painting my nails and for myself it's sometimes make up...the guys I have been with really aren't into make up. They like the natural beauty and not fake stuff, they like the honesty I give them as well. Heck on my dating profile I listed I want honesty, I give it and I expect it in return as even the smallest lie is still a lie and that can damage everything. I also say WYSIWYG. My pics have no filters, no make up, some have painted nails and some don't.
Not taking care of your body? I’m someone who does but I do it for my emotional, mental and physical health but men let’s face it don’t care. Y’all will fuck anything with a heart beat and a hole.
Yes but what a bout lazy me and I what a bout men its all way's a bout men how do you feel haveing a man that's dirty does not looking afere him self and one is selfish,greedy you both have too talk a bout thing's and men dont say what's on his mind,I will love a woman too do it a bout men,and she run's a house children and what if he is hardly yes and you both have too work too gether,😮
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When my husband wants something done, I do it as soon as I have time. Usually I drop what I'm doing.
My husband doesn't do what I ask for months.
Why don't they just get it done?
I think it's important for men to take care of themselves as well....not just women.
Absolutely
1. Complaining
2. Criticizing
3. Competing
4. Controlling
5. Taking on the masculine role in the relationship.
6. Not being interested in sex.
7. Not taking care of your body.
8. Fakeness
Dear man, do you find all of this unattractive?
Then think about why your woman has to complain in the first place. Why haven't you done yet what she asked you for? Why does she have to be in her masculine role? Only because you aren't. Why are you not getting enough s€x? Really think you deserve this reward when she has to take care of her job, your household and your children all by herself all day long. She is neglecting herself? When should she take care of herself?
You can avoid those things: BE A MAN AND A PARTNER FOR YOUR WOMAN.
I'm one of these people who like to have an idea about the content so I can ponder more as I listen.
Thank u for helping me save my time
🙌👍😊
This makes me feel, we shouldn't be ourselves.
Like a man wants a submissive woman. 😂
Complaining= venting...
Controlling = knows what she wants..
Jeeze... This guy's a controller himself..😅
Thank you for reminding me why Im super happy being single. We have to be masculine women because men are child like and your list is more exhausting than a relationship is worth. Thanks for the reminder!
I totally agree....😒🙄
Your generalizing about men and it's not helping the cause.
@@danilaroche1156 however it is true. The advisor has just described egoists and narcisists who demand EVERYTHING from a woman
I cannot stand who are controlling. Its also a big turn off for me. My ex husband was controlling. Big turn off to me!
*It is not our purpose to become each other; it is to recognize each other, to learn to see the other and honor him for what he is.*
A lot of this applies to men also.
GOT THAT RIGHT!
To me as a woman and an older woman I find that women to go to those extremes are more like children who want to be some sexy woman instead of looking inside themselves and being themselves whatever that is god-given
Sounds to me, men want a Stepford wife who's perfect without any flaws. I think women are tired enough and now they have to be sure a man's not getting his ego hurt. Sounds one sided to me.
That’s not what I got from this video at all. He’s not saying you have to be perfect, literally nobody is perfect. Not everything will apply to every female just like not everything mentioned applies to every man. These are just tips and suggestions
@@christalfiguereo7469 it's my opinion. You don't have to agree or like it.
Of course we must kiss their butts😂To satisfy their big egos.
You sound bitter. You must heal before you can be in a good relationship.
@@danilaroche1156 it's my opinion. Not yours. So don't worry about it. Have a good day!
Thank you and great video!! Having self awareness is super important, not everyone will understand. But those who do we appreciate you!
Every time a male friend of mine comes to visit me in my house and urinates in the toilet, half of his urine is always on the floor. I never complain about that to him, instead, I quietly wipe the urine off of the floor with a towel, and say to myself "thank goodness he doesn't live with me in the house". Now, if a live-in husband or boyfriend does that every time and would not change his behavior, should a woman be allowed to complain? Some men don't watch their own behaviors and get upset when a woman points their problems out and call the woman a nagging wife.
The best is to share your feelings about it vulnerably which will pull him closer rather than telling him what to do which will push him away
@@MagnetizeYourMan
Point being...HE SHOULD CLEAN UP HIS OWN GROSE DRIBBLES HIMSELF.
Some women are skinny or stick looking and it’s not their choice, using that kind of description of woman body is the same like calling her fat. Very unprofessional
That’s because this guy sucks.
He's a bit arrogant, don't you think??.😂
Honestly i would say your points are obviously correct, however if i feel something is off about the relationship or i do not feel loved or appreciated, then things start to slide, and i might try to figure out what the issue is. Which most men are usually not honest about as they do not want to hurt a womans feelings, and then complaining or questioning might start to increase... so communication is something important but it just doesnt always work, if i feel perfectly loved and appreciated then everything else follows natural... because i would want to do everything for that man, but motivation dissapears if i dont feel loved or appreciated... I honestly think this is very much key to a woman not complaining.. Also some men are not sexually interested and sometimes that is because they look too much digital stuff, if you know what i mean, and they cant make a true connection because of that..
I agree with everything but I hope your #8 has some wiggle room bc there are women who are breast cancer survivors who chose to get augmentation and I don’t think that is being fake. Also as much as men say they don’t like fake, they also don’t find “raw,” “au natural” women who don’t shave, don’t use makeup very attractive.
Exactly. And unfortunately, a beg to differ about the fake breasts - I think most men love them
@@joycenoel1008 Thank you and I totally agree with you. Most men love beautiful fake breasts! And I really don’t think there’s anything wrong with women who choose to beautify themselves done in good taste and moderation as long as they are doing it for themselves. 🩷
@@joycenoel1008totally agree!
Interesting, my first thought on the fakeness was more on behavior. I was imagining those women who act smiley and super agreeable. But seems they like that so….
Doesn’t matter people get bored of each other no matter what
Only shallow people
Yup. Especially in the age of social media where another person is only one DM away.
Exactly. Angelina Jolie even got sick of Brad Pitt. Imagine that lol
@indiegogogirl2662 or did he get sick of her😅
Thank you so much I feel hopeful now and I’m taking everything on board you’re teaching us for my next hopefully successful relationship 😊
I think his advice is gold. Women today are so down on men. They are bitter and cynical. They don't realize that's precisely what the devil wants to perpetuate the cold war between the sexes.
I would say the list is pretty sensible and it’s pretty much exactly the same for what is unattractive in a man… it’s just what’s unattractive in a partner.
Thanks for sharing this with us. Some of us are still trying to find a better way of expressing ourselves without it sounding like a complaint. Maybe, you can share your thoughts with us on that.
A natural look of makeup works for me. I tried fake lashes and hair but never implants. None of the above worked or would have worked. The lashes looked sticky and the extra hair gets old. The hair is workable if needed but, has to be kept up, otherwise, it too, would be a mess😂
I can’t speak on bbl’s as I’m just now understanding the terminology of it. Never needed to travel that route but, I don’t knock those who enjoy any of it. Whatever, makes one happy. I appreciate you sharing your expertise on this feed. It’s very helpful.
God bless you❤️✌🏾
Excellent points! Mutual communication to find out about turn on & offs is helpful! Love, honesty & respect make talking about all these points more attractive & compliable❤❤❤
Is there also a video regarding what men do that push women away? I’m sure it would add up to much move than 8 actions … please be real…
Of course there are those kinds of videos. Search for it and you’ll have it within 10 seconds or less.
If you love a man you don't criticize or complain that much. You don't compete. Never control a man, let him do whatever he wants, if he fails just leave if necessary. If you do that you are trying to get an incomplete man into a man you like, because you don't really love that man. That's it, you're not with a man you respect and admire and trust, you re trying to control a child you want to make a man from. That won't work. Of course, if you're with a true man you respect, you will feel like a woman and you will respect him and... desire him.
This goes both ways.
Interesting comments about competing. The woman might not be competing - she might just be being herself and might happen to be good (even better) at what she's doing. Men DO take offense at this sadly. She may have been raised in a home with a Jesus (brother/s) who was worshipped for everything while she was ignored. I think it's natural for those girls to "compete" to try to be thought of as equal or better. No surprise this should carry into adulthood. Maybe men need to be more understanding. I've always felt that if I have to "dumb down" for a man, he's a weenie and not the one for me. I like strong men who appreciate me for what I am. Both people have their strengths and weaknesses, and it might not be who you expect.
Found these to be amazing tips and habits. All 8 of these are traits even other women don’t want to be around.
True!
Yes but let me say this you dont stay the same has we all change every 10 year's,😮
I agree with everything except the weight thing. We are beautiful, loveable people no matter what size or shape we are. Men of quality who want women of quality will see that. And appreciate a kind, loving woman for who she is. I would think much less of a man who judged me according to my size and shape. I would never do that to a man
As long as you walk everyday you should be good to go
Menopause changes a woman in ways she never knew would ever happen to her: emotionally and physically.....I felt it was beyond my control. I went from a size 6/ 8 to 10/ 12. it can make you feel awfully unattractive. I always walked, swam, exercised. It's only now that I'm a size 6( US2) again and it had nothing to do with walking, exercise.....
If he's abusive/hostile, and generally doesn't show any signs of affection, attention, empathy, etc., it's hard to be interested in having sex with him. Maybe give the guys a tip or two here;-)
Why would you even be with such a person?🤔
Just leave that type. It will never get better.
You should give more examples on the "Competing" category because I didn't understand what the heck you were talking about
Embrace your natural self take care of yourself the best you can physically take care of yourself the best you can psychologically and financially think about your successes try to be happy with those yourself work on your relationships because if you can't even have a decent friendship relationship, how are you going to ever have a decent relationship with a husband or wife
If you have to complain then the guy is not your guy
It sounds like all we have to do is stop being ourselves. Would it be better if we were all ourselves and we attracted people that were interested to us is that that your advice isn’t good it’s just not reasonable to ask people to change who they are to attract somebody who is not interested in who they are.
Only thing i disagree with is the sex part. I dont think you give him wife benefits if he's just a boyfriend.
Thank you for sharing 😊 God bless you more 🙏❤️
What are the 8 things women find unattractive in men???
#1 HIM .☝️ Period
Excellent advice!!
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you Kevin
Keep it real ladies
You hope this video is helpful? SUPER HELPFUL 👍👍👍
Glad it was! :)
He didn't see a dentist in 20 years of our relationship. Brushed his teeth once a day. Didn't clean the incredible amount of wax from his ears. Didn't clip his toenails, had toenail fungus, skid marks on his bath towel. Ugh. Not attractive.
What if you've lost your hair because of disease?
Exactly. I have a few extensions bc my hair is so fine, and I had shedding after covid and after a surgery (anesthesia often thins women’s hair)
Thankyou for this good and helpful video !
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It's not "my masculine"it's my independence! Either deal with it, or there's the door!
If uran slowly replies or something bothers u how to say it without complaining pls do a video for that
I must do all these things lol
As a woman, I gotta say… none of these are difficult 😅
Glad I am on my,❤
Best day I went to a friend's house husband says she's bitching complaining nagging
Son said
"Well, dad, why don't you just do your share without having to be asked?"
Well why don’t I just be my husbands doormat
Ryyyyte?? 😮 imagine being this guy's partner. 😂
Your bitter. If your husband is mistreating you..separate.
I would say speaking about past sex life with an ex will have him running away...that happened to me..
#7 is don’t be fat. Ok. He can’t be either.
Don't know why but I didn't like this one, it's so about men needs and sometimes when we care about all of these they go and do something hurtful
Oh now hold up...#7 I am overweight. The guys that have shown interest in me love a bigger woman. One made a mistake in saying a bigger woman will never cheat on you...HA, it doesn't matter the size she is if she's gonna cheat, she's gonna cheat. A guy I hooked up with several times (he did call me his girlfriend, but I never felt that way as he didn't treat me as such imo) loved to kiss and rub allover my belly, loved the jiggle of my bum when I would walk naked to the bathroom or when we were in doggy. He wasn't thin, but not really overweight either. My current boyfriend is overweight (kinda built like a football player with broad shoulders, thick neck) and has a bit of a belly too. *Just saying, it's all about acceptance and you shouldn't discard someone for their weight! I used to be skinny and saw myself as fat and I was a very unhappy person...now I am overweight and gained confidence, feel sexy and beautiful. Not saying I like my body so much, but I embrace it and who I have become over the years. If I lose weight, great, if not, oh well. For me taking care of myself is showering, making sure I am always smelling good for my man...sometimes painting my nails and for myself it's sometimes make up...the guys I have been with really aren't into make up. They like the natural beauty and not fake stuff, they like the honesty I give them as well. Heck on my dating profile I listed I want honesty, I give it and I expect it in return as even the smallest lie is still a lie and that can damage everything. I also say WYSIWYG. My pics have no filters, no make up, some have painted nails and some don't.
I hate to admit it, but the 4 C's are things that I tend to do as a man with my girlfriend. I'm working on it though.
I think the dynamic shifts with
Not taking care of your body? I’m someone who does but I do it for my emotional, mental and physical health but men let’s face it don’t care. Y’all will fuck anything with a heart beat and a hole.
Yes but what a bout lazy me and I what a bout men its all way's a bout men how do you feel haveing a man that's dirty does not looking afere him self and one is selfish,greedy you both have too talk a bout thing's and men dont say what's on his mind,I will love a woman too do it a bout men,and she run's a house children and what if he is hardly yes and you both have too work too gether,😮
I totally agree:-) you tell them sister 😅
Men criticize to oh my God.
He addressing WOMEN here. Cool it.