Awww. Similar here. Engaged after a month.. after I had broken off a two year engagement. My Mother slipped into eternity one month later. Married six months after that forty years ago last summer. I was three weeks from 23 and he had turned thirty three weeks earlier.
This is adorable, because honestly peopl who choose their significant others only a little bit after meeting them (ofc those that are trusted) and then propose truly know what they want in the world I think that’s how it should be. And ofc some marriages don’t work out, but you have to find your person, and you’ll definitely know when you find them.
Jamie Redknapp and Louise dating and having dinner in a restaurant in Southport. Two lads walked past window making rude gestures- Louise says yeh jog in sick heads. Apparently that was when Jamie knew he’d marry her 😢divorced now
My parents wanted to get married 2 weeks after meeting each other. Their pastor told them to wait. They waited a few more weeks and got married. They have been married for close to 35 years now. When i asked them about them waiting a little longer like their pastor said my mom always says "That was a waste of time and i wish we didn't listen to him."
my mom married my dad according to Indian marriage traditions. They had only met each other for less than 24 hours before they got engaged. They were separated because my dad went to school in Singapore for 7months and would write love letters to each other. They’ve been married for 28 years and it is so clear that they love each other.
My brother and his wife got engaged pretty quickly- not THAT quickly, but sooner than the rest of us expected. They were 22 and 21 at the time, got married about six months later, and have been happily married for the last 13 and a half years :) They aren't perfect, but rarely have I seen two people so well suited to one another. She just fits, not just with my brother, but with our family. She's another sister for myself and my older sister. She's another daughter to my parents. Her mom is best friends with my mom. Her whole family is family now to ours. I mean, how soon is too soon to propose in a relationship when it's really the right relationship, and you both know it?
I was 18 and my now-husband was 19 when we met. I knew he was the one immediately! He proposed 10 days later…we just celebrated 30 years! (And yes, we got a ton of negativity from people, especially my mother, but here we still are!)
@@daredevilsdaughter3889 Well, I kinda just ignored my mother, since she was the one giving me the most crap! It’s kinda sad though…she refused to go wedding dress shopping with me, so I took my maid of honor instead. Amazingly, she eventually chilled out when she finally realized in time how awesome her son-in-law was…but that was a solid year after the wedding. Some of my friends thought I was crazy, too…didn’t talk to some of them ever again, but some did eventually come around after I stayed married and proved them wrong. You really just have to do what’s right for you and your future spouse. I also prayed a lot!😅
My husband and I were married less than 6 months from our first date, and have been married for just over 10 years now. We went into dating with the intention of finding a spouse and knew what traits we wanted in a spouse.
Me and my husband were the same way (except younger lol). We met junior year of high school and a few weeks after meeting we started dating. I believe the end of month two he told me he loved me, but that I didn’t have to say it back. A couple weeks later I told him I loved him and he gave me a promise ring (it was his Granny’s). And two years later we got married and we’ve been married for three years now. Happy, though poor, with two beautiful girls. 😊
When you look back on your life, these will be some of your happiest years. The money will come, but I can tell you from experience that long term it’s better for kids to not have much growing up.
Marrying her quickly was the smartest thing he's ever done. I no longer date men who can't foresee a future. Ben got me out of the pointless, sexually driven dating scene. I want more than sex. I want a life partner. A man knows if that what he wants as well. Why waste time? Being alone is better than being in multiple, disappointing relationships.
Benjamin tells the story of how many times he said "I love you" to his then GF and she returned with a "Thank you", I think it was. Seek it out, it is really cute.
He's in a happy marriage with a woman he's very in love with after dating for 2 months. While people who have been dating for 10 years still can't commit
Great story. I’m very happy for you Ben. The beauty and romance that is inherent between the natural connection between husband and wife is so underrated.
That is also one of the reason why at one point i was thinking of ending things with my boyfriend (we are from different backgrounds) but realizing that I'm just afraid of other people opinions made the choice to stay with him easier.
Leave it to Ben to make an marriage proposal via an argument where he just goes "Well, here's my argument, you got a counter for that? We should get married - change my mind (with sources and citations or gtfo)" "Well, you're not really my type" "Ehem, ad hominem. Doesn't count. Try again"
Both my husband and I knew we wanted to marry one another shortly after we started dating. We didn't want to move too fast cause we both thought it would be better to wait for whatever reason I can't seem to remember... So we decided to wait until after both our birthdays before any sort of proposal. Which ended being about 8 months of dating. We've been together 12 years and still going strong and even better than when we started dating. Sometimes when you know... You just KNOW. It's hard to explain, but I just knew in my heart VERY early on that I wanted to and was going to marry this man ❤️
My parents were engaged by their 3rd date (after about 3-4 weeks) They were married within 10 months of meeting one another (they decided to wait 6 months do they could finish school) They were married 50 years before my dad passed away.
Speaking as someone who knew my human was my soul mate by day four and got engaged about 2 weeks later and we are still going strong to this day: when you know, you know and you should act accordingly.
My husband and I dated for two weeks before he proposed. We had only known each other a month. A week after the proposal, we eloped. I was 23 he was 31. We’ve been married 33 years! When you know, you know. He was NOTHING like any man I had ever dated and still keeps me on my toes. I realized that I was too busy looking at how men looked instead of real substance and morals. My husband is perfect for me.
My dad proposed to my mum on the very first date. They were married less than 9 months later. They’ve been together 43 years now ❤ My man and I 100% knew within 1 week we were meant for each other (though we had a suspicion on the first date too). When you know, you know 🥰
HELL TO THE NO! I LOVE BEN'S LAUGH BUT WHEN HE SPEAKS UGH' 4 YEARS OF HEARING THAT? WORSE THAN HEARING FEEBLE MINDED JOSE IN THE WHITE HOUSE NOW!. BLESSINGS TO ALL MANKIND.
My Son in law knew on their 1st date! He gave my Daughter a ring week 3! It’s been almost 5 yrs and they have a 3 and a 1/2 yr old. He’s the best ❤ They balance each other. They’re absolutely best friends. I’m so happy for my little girl! His only flaw is he lived too far away 😢 so I don’t get to see them.
I proposed 2 months in, and got married a little while later. Marrying young is the most beautiful thing you can do. You grow, and learn with eachother. And you mature.
My husband proposed three months on the dot (coincidentally) after we were officially a couple, which was only a month after casually dating. Then we got married a little over A year later (primarily because I knew my parents wouldn’t be able to scrounge up the money for a wedding so fast). This upcoming May 22 will be our ten year anniversary, and we still feel we are absolutely perfect for each other, and truly understand each other better than others could.
Me and my husband got married after 3 months at 21&24!! Still together at 29&31! It’s awesome instead over being super in love and it faded over time, our love just keeps growing as we grow together. ❤
Moving this fast usually does not work out well, you don’t really know each other yet so there’s a good chance you will not be compatible. Happy it all worked out for him.
I'm just going by this tiny clip, so I have no idea how long they knew each other before they actually started dating. If you just meet each other and get engaged after 2 months, I can see where that may not be be wise. But if you knew each other for a while before you started dating, then that would be different.
I can guarantee that "I wanna lock this down" is not the most romantic thing he ever said to her. I mean, be still my beating heart -- he wants to 'get this period of his life overwith.' SO romantic!
Hey Ben, my wife and I were married after 2 months as well! We began dating early November, I proposed to her before Christmas and we were married early January. It’s beautiful when you find the right person! 😊
My dad first saw/met my mom at the airport where his parents were waiting to pick him up. He had just arrived from Germany on furlough. He returned to Germany 3 weeks later a married man. Fifty four years later they’re still married and have 16 children. (Yes, 16)
My grandparents got married within two months of dating, haha, but they had a fairytale love story and their loss has deeply impacted the entire family. Though they insisted to their children to not move so quickly, their kids seem to not (yet at least) be having the same full graces in marriage. I've long wondered if moving quicker tends to be better than drawing the dating stage out. What's funnier is they would have wed even more quickly but had to make 3 announcements in the local paper before they could have their marriage ceremony! [I don't recall the reason for that, if it was church related as Catholics or community culture regardless of religion]z I pray something so beautiful finds me
We decided to get married after dating for 22 days. We were friends for a long time but never dated before. When you met the right one no matter how young, it will work out. We were 24 and 26 at the time.
Love the some the comments. My hubby asked me to marry him after 3 days. I said I need time to think about it, again worried what others would think. As Christians we had certain standards. Married 6 months later. Married 26 years with 8 children. Go Ben!
I just love healthy relationships and people. I don’t agree with everything Ben says persay in his political approaches, but he seems like a pretty wholesome human and partner for his wife. That matters and it makes me happy to see couples like this to help encourage others
Clips in context are important Ben. After 2 months I'd still be afraid of; the guy not being serious, (potentially) being controlling/abusive/homicidal, wanting to force me to do things against my will or exploit me financially, lots of reasons. All of which have happened to women I've know who jumped in too soon. I know he's not like that but that's why you need to *KNOW* the person.
I didn't care what people thought. I was 19 when he proposed and 6 months later still 19 when we got married. We have been married 15 years and going strong.
Haha this is so adorable! I was engaged and married at twenty also🥰 plenty of people roll their eyes but it's so worth it not to wait if you already know you both want to get married!
I've been with my fiancee for 7 months, and we have a baby on the way. When you know, you know, and I'm 38, I've been in several long term relationships, and have only casually entertained the idea of marriage before. Had honestly come to the conclusion a few years ago that I would probably never get married, and I was completely fine with that.
Great that you know your fiancé is ‘the one’. As you said, “when you know, you know.” With a baby on the way, it’s time to move on from fiancé to spouse.
Identifying fears and working through them set us free just like truth does. Four kids later! God Speed Ben and family. Marriage isn't for everyone. What I realize is "that piece of paper" a marriage license IS important. It is designed to protect parties involved. Assets earned can be divided up. No to any pre nup. Love evolves and the manifestations of love change. Many days the Decision to love is powerful. Marriage I've found is work. To compromise.. ..balance. losing yourself raising kids letting go are all opportunities to grow and change. Grow where you are planted. Then on some days (this is when feelings aren't always facts) illusions take over and bam! one is questioning and identifying the other's patterns. Making a gratitude list takes one off as the center of the universe and brings us to a place however briefly to humility. Who else could tolerate our own shortcomings and nutness? But if one continues to build an iron cast case. then.....the S or D word is flung about. There are times divorcing takes a lot more courage than hacking it out totally miserable. Differences never to be resolved. Many couples stay for the kids. Permission is granted to split. Assets divided up....pesions fought over.....real estate....American Express rewards causes havoc. Madness ensues. Then we are invited to a wedding and WE attend. Men need the eggs....WOODY ALLEN
My mother set me up.on a blind date. I was in love by the end of the date. He told coworkers the next day he was going to marry me. He told me he loved me on the third date. We eloped four months later. That was 30 years ago.
Two months is about right. It took Isaac about 10 minutes. Why delay? You can get to know each other AFTER the marriage has begun. Many people will spend two years or more--Does it really take that long to know?
It's so true how your reputation affects your interpersonal life. It's bittersweet but at least it filters out people who wouldn't bother to form their own opinions about you.
Sounds a lot like my husband (of 25 years) and I! We were ring shopping after 6 weeks, engaged after 3 months (but that felt like forever to me!) and I was 20. 25 years and 5 kids later, and we're doing better than ever!
Friends: You got married after two fucking months!!! What's wrong with you.... Her: Well he does speak very fast so 2 months is more like 10 months. Her: also he doesn't need time, he analysed everything with facts and logics. Friends: 🥺
My husband and i dated 3 months,then he was stationed away to a remite site for 13 months.we married a few months after he got back.that was 47 years ago
Ben doesn't just talk fast.
Ben also MOVES fast.
You gotta get married to get laid in some religions can you blame him? Haha
Probably also finishes fast/
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Lol
@@iKayorei
And the baby was born in 4.5 months
I proposed to my wife after 3 weeks. We were married 14 months later, over 40 years ago, when we were each 27.
Awww. Similar here. Engaged after a month.. after I had broken off a two year engagement. My Mother slipped into eternity one month later. Married six months after that forty years ago last summer. I was three weeks from 23 and he had turned thirty three weeks earlier.
Congratulations for having such a beautiful family, sir.
How did you know?
This is adorable, because honestly peopl who choose their significant others only a little bit after meeting them (ofc those that are trusted) and then propose truly know what they want in the world I think that’s how it should be. And ofc some marriages don’t work out, but you have to find your person, and you’ll definitely know when you find them.
I got engaged at 2 weeks & we married 5 months later. That was 20 years ago.
Someone who spoke at normal speed would've taken 8 months
He slammed through that "small talk" phase in record time, don't hate, that's just called efficiency.
😂😂😂
He can read his children a whole Harry Potter book before bed
@@FootballTbg9 LMAO!!! 😂
@@FootballTbg9 🤣😂😅😆
Look how happy he is talking about his wife and getting married, its so nice to see 💗
Ben’s wife: people are so full of shit!
Ben: facts don’t care about their feelings! Let’s get married!
Jamie Redknapp and Louise dating and having dinner in a restaurant in Southport. Two lads walked past window making rude gestures- Louise says yeh jog in sick heads. Apparently that was when Jamie knew he’d marry her 😢divorced now
I had no idea you played violin so beautifully!!!! 🎊😍 couldn’t comment on that video
Ben has no feelings - repressed short man. He actually bribed his wife to marry him. He paid for her medical school lol
Hilarious that Ben used facts & logic to propose😂
I expected nothing less
im obsessed with this dude hes crazy wild
I have proposed to my girlfriend (now wife) after 2 months by an essay argumenting why we should get married :)
@@slavkosster good for you
@@slavkosster Although in America if she divorces you then she gets most of *YOUR* cash.
The most romantic thing she said to him was "People are so full of shit." This speaks to his high level of rationality.
My parents wanted to get married 2 weeks after meeting each other. Their pastor told them to wait. They waited a few more weeks and got married. They have been married for close to 35 years now. When i asked them about them waiting a little longer like their pastor said my mom always says "That was a waste of time and i wish we didn't listen to him."
my mom married my dad according to Indian marriage traditions. They had only met each other for less than 24 hours before they got engaged. They were separated because my dad went to school in Singapore for 7months and would write love letters to each other. They’ve been married for 28 years and it is so clear that they love each other.
That is so cute 🥰 I’m happy for them.
I love how much Ben loves his wife! Really great role model ✨
@Mark Kuleck *your
@Mark Kuleck 🥴
Try 7 days, and we’ve been married 28 years and still like each other 😊
Same here. My husband and I got married 7 days later, too. 😂
Dang! Congrats to you and yours. ❤
My brother and his wife got engaged pretty quickly- not THAT quickly, but sooner than the rest of us expected. They were 22 and 21 at the time, got married about six months later, and have been happily married for the last 13 and a half years :)
They aren't perfect, but rarely have I seen two people so well suited to one another. She just fits, not just with my brother, but with our family. She's another sister for myself and my older sister. She's another daughter to my parents. Her mom is best friends with my mom. Her whole family is family now to ours.
I mean, how soon is too soon to propose in a relationship when it's really the right relationship, and you both know it?
I was 18 and my now-husband was 19 when we met. I knew he was the one immediately! He proposed 10 days later…we just celebrated 30 years! (And yes, we got a ton of negativity from people, especially my mother, but here we still are!)
sounds like a romantic novel lol
How did you deal with the negativity? I'm in a similar boat myself, so I'm curious
@@daredevilsdaughter3889 Well, I kinda just ignored my mother, since she was the one giving me the most crap! It’s kinda sad though…she refused to go wedding dress shopping with me, so I took my maid of honor instead. Amazingly, she eventually chilled out when she finally realized in time how awesome her son-in-law was…but that was a solid year after the wedding. Some of my friends thought I was crazy, too…didn’t talk to some of them ever again, but some did eventually come around after I stayed married and proved them wrong. You really just have to do what’s right for you and your future spouse. I also prayed a lot!😅
The day we met, my husband told his best friend, "I'm going to marry that girl." And here we are, 30 years later happily married and crazy in love.
When you know, you know👍❤
My husband and I were married less than 6 months from our first date, and have been married for just over 10 years now. We went into dating with the intention of finding a spouse and knew what traits we wanted in a spouse.
Me and my husband were the same way (except younger lol). We met junior year of high school and a few weeks after meeting we started dating. I believe the end of month two he told me he loved me, but that I didn’t have to say it back. A couple weeks later I told him I loved him and he gave me a promise ring (it was his Granny’s). And two years later we got married and we’ve been married for three years now. Happy, though poor, with two beautiful girls. 😊
how old are you if i can ask
You stay strong, together, and you'll reach your 100th year anniversary!
How very blessed you two are!
@@sweetgal7644 he is 22 now and I am 23.
When you look back on your life, these will be some of your happiest years. The money will come, but I can tell you from experience that long term it’s better for kids to not have much growing up.
I did it in less time, 3 weeks I proposed, 2 kids later a beautiful family and going on 10 years of marriage this year.
Marrying her quickly was the smartest thing he's ever done. I no longer date men who can't foresee a future. Ben got me out of the pointless, sexually driven dating scene. I want more than sex. I want a life partner. A man knows if that what he wants as well. Why waste time? Being alone is better than being in multiple, disappointing relationships.
Benjamin tells the story of how many times he said "I love you" to his then GF and she returned with a "Thank you", I think it was. Seek it out, it is really cute.
She said "I like you"
Nothing wrong with that Ben I proposed at two months I've been married with my wife since 2016 💍🤵🏻♂️👰🏿♀️
Interracial? 🤢🤮
@@Changinghandlename nothing wrong with that, long as they're both happy and hold the same values.
@@Changinghandlename What’s wrong with that?
@Ash_Queen it’s an issue for people who are ether gay, incel or inbred.
@@kugelblitz1557 A white man shouldn't be with a black woman. Their kids will be black 🤮
He's in a happy marriage with a woman he's very in love with after dating for 2 months. While people who have been dating for 10 years still can't commit
Great story. I’m very happy for you Ben. The beauty and romance that is inherent between the natural connection between husband and wife is so underrated.
Really, why wait? If you know you know! My grandparents got married after 3 weeks of knowing each other. Respect you Ben
I've learned to love this man. Top quality human. Don't have to agree with all of his views but he certainly deserves listening to and respect.
That is also one of the reason why at one point i was thinking of ending things with my boyfriend (we are from different backgrounds) but realizing that I'm just afraid of other people opinions made the choice to stay with him easier.
Leave it to Ben to make an marriage proposal via an argument where he just goes "Well, here's my argument, you got a counter for that? We should get married - change my mind (with sources and citations or gtfo)"
"Well, you're not really my type"
"Ehem, ad hominem. Doesn't count. Try again"
Like I used to make jokes about how he convinced his wife with facts and logic to marry him but that is actually kind of what happened here? LMFAO
Man's got rizz level 100
Rizzerd of OZ
What rizz? Like game ?
@@honey25873 Yes
@@honey25873 it’s pretty much sipping on a girl
Both my husband and I knew we wanted to marry one another shortly after we started dating. We didn't want to move too fast cause we both thought it would be better to wait for whatever reason I can't seem to remember... So we decided to wait until after both our birthdays before any sort of proposal. Which ended being about 8 months of dating. We've been together 12 years and still going strong and even better than when we started dating. Sometimes when you know... You just KNOW. It's hard to explain, but I just knew in my heart VERY early on that I wanted to and was going to marry this man ❤️
My parents were engaged by their 3rd date (after about 3-4 weeks) They were married within 10 months of meeting one another (they decided to wait 6 months do they could finish school)
They were married 50 years before my dad passed away.
Speaking as someone who knew my human was my soul mate by day four and got engaged about 2 weeks later and we are still going strong to this day: when you know, you know and you should act accordingly.
My husband and I dated for two weeks before he proposed. We had only known each other a month. A week after the proposal, we eloped. I was 23 he was 31. We’ve been married 33 years! When you know, you know. He was NOTHING like any man I had ever dated and still keeps me on my toes. I realized that I was too busy looking at how men looked instead of real substance and morals. My husband is perfect for me.
My dad proposed to my mum on the very first date. They were married less than 9 months later. They’ve been together 43 years now ❤
My man and I 100% knew within 1 week we were meant for each other (though we had a suspicion on the first date too).
When you know, you know 🥰
I proposed after three months and now I''m happily married for 23 years.
Ben Shapiro should run for president
HELL TO THE NO!
I LOVE BEN'S LAUGH BUT WHEN HE SPEAKS UGH' 4 YEARS OF HEARING THAT?
WORSE THAN HEARING FEEBLE MINDED JOSE IN THE WHITE HOUSE NOW!.
BLESSINGS TO ALL MANKIND.
My Son in law knew on their 1st date! He gave my Daughter a ring week 3! It’s been almost 5 yrs and they have a 3 and a 1/2 yr old. He’s the best ❤ They balance each other. They’re absolutely best friends. I’m so happy for my little girl! His only flaw is he lived too far away 😢 so I don’t get to see them.
I proposed 2 months in, and got married a little while later. Marrying young is the most beautiful thing you can do. You grow, and learn with eachother. And you mature.
My husband proposed to me 3 months after we started dating. This year will be our 40th wedding anniversary. Three kids and 4 grandchildren later ❤️
My husband proposed three months on the dot (coincidentally) after we were officially a couple, which was only a month after casually dating. Then we got married a little over A year later (primarily because I knew my parents wouldn’t be able to scrounge up the money for a wedding so fast). This upcoming May 22 will be our ten year anniversary, and we still feel we are absolutely perfect for each other, and truly understand each other better than others could.
Oh, Ben, you sweet talkin' man, " I wanted to get this locked down."😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤
Me and my husband got married after 3 months at 21&24!! Still together at 29&31! It’s awesome instead over being super in love and it faded over time, our love just keeps growing as we grow together. ❤
2 months. *cracking whip sound* 😂
My husband and I bought our wedding rings together after one month of dating. We are still happily married years after. When you know, you know.
Moving this fast usually does not work out well, you don’t really know each other yet so there’s a good chance you will not be compatible. Happy it all worked out for him.
I'm just going by this tiny clip, so I have no idea how long they knew each other before they actually started dating. If you just meet each other and get engaged after 2 months, I can see where that may not be be wise. But if you knew each other for a while before you started dating, then that would be different.
@@Yesica1993 I agree
Man’s the embodiment of the study of rizzilics 2 month wife easy days work
I can guarantee that "I wanna lock this down" is not the most romantic thing he ever said to her. I mean, be still my beating heart -- he wants to 'get this period of his life overwith.' SO romantic!
Hey Ben, my wife and I were married after 2 months as well! We began dating early November, I proposed to her before Christmas and we were married early January. It’s beautiful when you find the right person! 😊
Ben’s future wife said the most romantic thing to him…”people are just full of shit!” 🤣🤣🤣💯‼️ Awe! That Ben, he is such a romantic guy! He’s a keeper.
Ben is an excellent example of everything a masculine and God fearing man should be 👏
That's interesting, never heard of getting married THAT quick! But good for you!
My dad first saw/met my mom at the airport where his parents were waiting to pick him up. He had just arrived from Germany on furlough. He returned to Germany 3 weeks later a married man. Fifty four years later they’re still married and have 16 children. (Yes, 16)
Fun little known fact is Ben's wife is a Doctor.
18 days for me, married 36 days later, 9800 miles away. Coming up on 8 years. Just do it.
My grandparents got married within two months of dating, haha, but they had a fairytale love story and their loss has deeply impacted the entire family.
Though they insisted to their children to not move so quickly, their kids seem to not (yet at least) be having the same full graces in marriage. I've long wondered if moving quicker tends to be better than drawing the dating stage out.
What's funnier is they would have wed even more quickly but had to make 3 announcements in the local paper before they could have their marriage ceremony! [I don't recall the reason for that, if it was church related as Catholics or community culture regardless of religion]z
I pray something so beautiful finds me
We decided to get married after dating for 22 days. We were friends for a long time but never dated before. When you met the right one no matter how young, it will work out. We were 24 and 26 at the time.
I wish men were more like Ben. He doesn't waste anyone's time.
I love everything about Ben.
Run for president Ben. You would be amazing. America needs you.
Love the some the comments. My hubby asked me to marry him after 3 days. I said I need time to think about it, again worried what others would think. As Christians we had certain standards. Married 6 months later. Married 26 years with 8 children. Go Ben!
That’s a man with no nonsense
He debated, he won, he got married. Nice 💪
I wish them more happy years together
Engaged after a month, on separate continents until the wedding and until 6 months after. 😂 It sounds crazy, but it worked.
She said facts don't care about your feelings, that's when I knew she was the one
I thought women were supposed to sleep around until they are thirty 😂
I believe the politically correct term for that is “ finding themselves” 😂
@@dil.210 yup. Then once the good dudes reach success alone after years of rejection and unfaithfulness they return the favor by "finding themselves"
@@brandonanderson2066 Exactly then the same girls complain there’s no nice guys left 😂
My boi leveled up congrats 🎉 🎉🎉
I love stories like this! Please more!
My husband proposed after a month, because we actually communicated what we wanted from our relationship on day one😅
Her: damn the haters
Ben: ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I was engaged after two months of dating and married 6 months later. We’ve been married 41 years. It just gets better and better.
It was great to hear this personal story of Ben's.
I married my wife after 2 weeks, her 19 me 22.
Now we have a daughter and are 5 years together, just best friends and enjoying life
I just love healthy relationships and people. I don’t agree with everything Ben says persay in his political approaches, but he seems like a pretty wholesome human and partner for his wife. That matters and it makes me happy to see couples like this to help encourage others
Clips in context are important Ben. After 2 months I'd still be afraid of; the guy not being serious, (potentially) being controlling/abusive/homicidal, wanting to force me to do things against my will or exploit me financially, lots of reasons. All of which have happened to women I've know who jumped in too soon. I know he's not like that but that's why you need to *KNOW* the person.
I didn't care what people thought. I was 19 when he proposed and 6 months later still 19 when we got married. We have been married 15 years and going strong.
Haha this is so adorable! I was engaged and married at twenty also🥰 plenty of people roll their eyes but it's so worth it not to wait if you already know you both want to get married!
I would like to see this woman! She must be something!
her friends secretly hated her. Even when thinking it wouldn't last. they forgot your a hardworking rich man. timing doesn't matters
My parents did the same thing. They’ve been together for 25 years
Awesome beautiful story!
I've been with my fiancee for 7 months, and we have a baby on the way. When you know, you know, and I'm 38, I've been in several long term relationships, and have only casually entertained the idea of marriage before. Had honestly come to the conclusion a few years ago that I would probably never get married, and I was completely fine with that.
Congratulations 🎊 I wish you only happiness!!
So, still having sex without marriage.
Great that you know your fiancé is ‘the one’. As you said, “when you know, you know.” With a baby on the way, it’s time to move on from fiancé to spouse.
Identifying fears and working through them set us free just like truth does. Four kids later! God Speed Ben and family. Marriage isn't for everyone. What I realize is "that piece of paper" a marriage license IS important. It is designed to protect parties involved. Assets earned can be divided up. No to any pre nup. Love evolves and the manifestations of love change. Many days the Decision to love is powerful. Marriage I've found is work. To compromise.. ..balance. losing yourself raising kids letting go are all opportunities to grow and change. Grow where you are planted. Then on some days (this is when feelings aren't always facts) illusions take over and bam! one is questioning and identifying the other's patterns. Making a gratitude list takes one off as the center of the universe and brings us to a place however briefly to humility. Who else could tolerate our own shortcomings and nutness? But if one continues to build an iron cast case. then.....the S or D word is flung about. There are times divorcing takes a lot more courage than hacking it out totally miserable. Differences never to be resolved. Many couples stay for the kids. Permission is granted to split. Assets divided up....pesions fought over.....real estate....American Express rewards causes havoc. Madness ensues. Then we are invited to a wedding and WE attend. Men need the eggs....WOODY ALLEN
Very cool Ben, I wish you and yours the absolute best!👍🙏
Believe it or not this is how the world used to be. 20 would actually be considered late. And guess what these type of unions of love last!!!!
My mother set me up.on a blind date. I was in love by the end of the date. He told coworkers the next day he was going to marry me. He told me he loved me on the third date. We eloped four months later. That was 30 years ago.
We started dating 2 weeks after I broke off an engagement with someone else. We were married 13 months later. When you know, you know!
Did you ask for her Dads/moms blessing? Just curious 🧐
Two months is about right. It took Isaac about 10 minutes. Why delay? You can get to know each other AFTER the marriage has begun. Many people will spend two years or more--Does it really take that long to know?
It's so true how your reputation affects your interpersonal life. It's bittersweet but at least it filters out people who wouldn't bother to form their own opinions about you.
Sounds a lot like my husband (of 25 years) and I! We were ring shopping after 6 weeks, engaged after 3 months (but that felt like forever to me!) and I was 20. 25 years and 5 kids later, and we're doing better than ever!
ben wooed his wife with facts and logic
Got engaged after two months married the third month. Been married 19 years now. He was only 20 I was 26 with a four year old.
How am I now just noticing the Peter Griffin balls he has for a lower lip.. 😂😭😭😭😭
I thought my husband and I moved fast 😅 met in February, engaged in June, married in September.
Ben's the man.
That's a beautiful story Ben!💜
Friends: You got married after two fucking months!!! What's wrong with you....
Her: Well he does speak very fast so 2 months is more like 10 months.
Her: also he doesn't need time, he analysed everything with facts and logics.
Friends: 🥺
I love him I swear I do but that man's bottom lip BAFFLES TF OUT OF ME 😂
After 2 months ur brave. Wow most ppl wait year or so Candice and her husband did same thjng when u know u know
My husband and i dated 3 months,then he was stationed away to a remite site for 13 months.we married a few months after he got back.that was 47 years ago
“Let’s say hypothetically, I wanted to marry you”
Married mine after 6 months of dating and we are almost 23 years married.