My Out-Of-Control Granddaughter Needs Your Help | KARAMO
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- Опубликовано: 20 янв 2025
- Her teen granddaughter is smoking weed, partying, drinking, and posing for photos with guns. This relationship has soured and gotten violent. Can Karamo help them?
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That deep breath she took when she told karamo her mom always chose men, instead of her own daughter. That deep sigh hit me, I just wanted to hug her.
My mom does same thing I still find a way to love mom cause I know it how she's been raised! I need a hug when my mom hug me it shocks me 😢 so I understand this!
@@DaughterOfJudah144 😩🥺 I feel that too many young ladies go through this, and even young men. I’m always praying to keep having hope for this world in the people in it, that’s filled with so much chaos, but it truly sucks to see so much pain in this world that keeps growing. Hugs are so important to me, an I’m someone who fear physical touch, so to learn the value of it really taught me the nurturing hug from my Mother ❤️🙏🏽 May you have a blessed day love!
A lot of women black specifically do that
Time stamp pls
The granddaughter could literally be a model, she’s soo beautiful. Hope she grows & heals
She absolutely beautiful, but she's hurting, she's gone get away her grandma
I was just saying that! I ran to the comments to see if anyone picked her up to be in an modeling agency. Even when she cries it’s heartwarming lol. She’s beautiful even when she cry. She gotta be an actor or something. It’s giving black Barbie doll. The ponytail is slayed too
girl RIGHT?!
Im like... I'm GAy as HELL.... but that girl could have a CAREER.
So unfair this young girl has to take care of a parent that didn't take care of her. Too many adults expect kids to get life lessons from material things. This young girl needs counseling to deal her abandonment issues with her parents.
That first sentence omg ‼️
When we know better we DO better,,,, like she said….. that’s STILL her mother, we don’t necessarily have to treat people poorly because they treated us that way, we do things because it’s just the RIGHT THING TO DO, I promise she will be rewarded largely for her efforts,,,, this family is gonna be blessed
@@melanie9063 just because it’s her mother doesn’t mean she’s obligated to take care of her, i wouldn’t take care of my mom if she abandoned me either. some people aren’t worth doing the right thing for, mother, family or not.
I don't belive that she is her mother stomach for 9 months she cannot pay her mom
@@bakarydampha198 this doesn’t even make any sense.
Lawd give Grandma strength not only taking care of 7 grands, but the mother and the uncle that's got to be such an overload
How is it that both grandchildren didn’t have stable loving mothers? She’s taking care of them because she didn’t raise her children with love and affection or direction. I don’t feel sorry for her.
@@Tpina305I’m glad you said it!!!
Keep in mind she could pay care givers with the money she receives. Instead she keeps the money and the load.
@@Tpina305exactly. I came to say the grandmother has to have some fault. I was told “you better raise your kids right or you’ll end up raising their kids!”
Yall sound slow asl a parent can only guide you so much she probably did a great job with her kids they chose to go a different route its not on the granny its on them
This episode was tough because I hate that they’re so many parents that arent parents . It’s just sad
I see this far to often. It’s not fair to the kids.
That grandmother was so proud to say “I beat her too! With my fists!” when the oldest grandchild was speaking… did anybody else catch that? She’s proud to be abusive - kinda makes me wonder if she’s the underlying reason her daughter turned out to be a dismissive & uninterested mother to her children.
Nall baby adults make their own choices, ppl wanna blame parents when the Adult child make bad choices. Go figure. I pray y’all be perfect parents
Old school is not about excessive talking. The children today are self-centered and have rights. There is the conflict.
I peeped too. With a parent like that it’s no wonder she’s taking care of her grandkids.
@@doubled5927 trauma exist, it doesn't just disappear when one becomes an adult. It's definitely no excuse for bad parenting but it makes sense as to why the cycle continues.
There is no evidence she did her daughter anything so adverse to cause her to abandon her own child. Some young people when they go and get children and still want to party they abandon their children to go with the crowd. It is not fair to this woman that she raised her children, then had to turn around and raised her grandchildren, had to deal with a lot of teenage drama to current, now also have two sick adults living in her home. Grandma has not been able to enjoy her senior years and this could frustrate anyone. A lot of people would have put those children in foster care and put the sick adults in a home but she undertook all of that responsibility. I empathize with her.
It's unfair that this little girl has to take care of her mom who was not even there for her...very unfair
Yes, but when has life ever been fair? We must all play the cards we’ve been dealt.
@@wadilotus she isnt felt those cards, they aren’t her responsibility’s. they were forced upon her.
Isn't it also unfair on the grandma to have to raise grandkids after raising her children?
Even if her mom was there and got sick, y’all would say the same thing. She just a kid, it’s too much responsibility 🤦🏾♀️. Making sure my mom took her meds before she passed wasn’t too much for me even after a stressful workday and a family to go home and attend to.
@@doubled5927 everybody isn’t the same, what’s easy for you isn’t easy for everybody else and it’s not an obligation, you chose to take care of your mom after a stressful day and with a family to go home to, she didn’t choose that it was forced on her.
When she said she'd been accepted, I teared up YOU GO BABY!!! THROUGH ADVERSITY AND ALL YOU DID THAT!
There’s a thin line between discipline and abuse. It’s good to be tough, but don’t be rough with your grandchildren. They all need professional help. The children are going through a lot, because their parents were not there. The grandma should fill that vacuum with love and affection.
Beautifully said
I agree that there is a thin line between discipline and abuse. However, it is not fair to the grandma that she raised her children and then had to turn around and raise her grandchildren. This woman has not catch a break to enjoy her senior years and all now still dealing with teenage drama. She seems to be dealing with two sick children as well. She needs a vacation. I have empathy for her because lots of people would have put those sick relatives in a home but she has accommodated them.
That has nothing to do with abusing kids
@@hazelboyce7230 you are so right with your input. This is all that I was thinking. The grandma hasn't had time to catch a break and enjoy her life, raising your children and then raising 7 grandchildren, and on top of that caring for 2 sick children, that's a lot.
Grandmothers' raising grandchildren get tired, too! She has raised seven and caring for two disabled adult children. They all need counseling, but if they didn't have their grandmother they would not have had the successes that they have. Lady, I understand what you're experiencing, firsthand. May God bless you for keeping your family together! ❤ I don't take any disrespect either, and "they will understand it better by and by."
❤🙏🙏🙏❤
Getting a GED is not lazy!! It shows you didn’t give up.
exactly
@@SugaMamaProud yes I caught that like what. I couldn’t graduate with my class because I got pregnant with my oldest son and put on bed rest. I went and got my GED while I was pregnant failed the math part because I left from being sick. After I had him I went back immediately and got it.
I don’t like when people down people with GEDs.
Amen 🙌🏽💯💯
most people who talk down on ged aren't even college educated or couldn't keep a "B" average in school. don't let it worry you.
@@Digitalcreatorsmasterclass❤❤❤
Definitely need a home nurse so she can be a teen. Too much emotional and physical pain to bare
Who in the hell takes care of their Deadbeat Parents, I don't get it.
@@knightclassic1 Plenty of folks.
exactly, this young child is doing too much, i was her, it was too much and left scars
@@knightclassic1I'm confused about that too. If my mom didn't want me, I don't want her. She can go to hell for what she did to her daughter 🤦🏽♀️
I believe the grandma doesn't want to make the same mistakes she made with their parents, so proud of her for getting into 3 schools! Good job!
True!
My heart goes out to Grandma and the girls. Poor Grandma, she gave up her life to raise her grandchildren. Grandma could have been traveling and kicking up her heels in her retirement years, but she gave up her life to raise these children when their parent's didn't give a hoot. Life isn't fair. There are lots of children that one or more parents are disabled, and the children help their parents. One day these grandchildren might need the help from their children. What goes around comes around. I wish them all the very best life has to offer. God bless Grandma❤
That’s what I’m doing. My kids said this world to horrible to reproduce. No need to save my money to spoil’s grandchildren. I travel ❤️
Life isn’t fair
But why add to it
… children who are not allowed to be children grow to be unwell adults
Something went wrong that all the grandma kids are on drugs what type of household was she running sorry it’s start with the head. The grandma ain’t innocent to me she lied she don’t hit that girl she does.
yea i get that but why does she feel like its ok and cute to abuse her granddaughter
it looks like her parents didn’t do anything to help her though so why should she have to help them when they couldn’t even help their own kid?
Sadly this is a generational thing. Older folks have the mentality “im big your small im right your wrong” no matter wat . Every action is justified, no accountability, and they are always the victim.
The comment “ if i leave tomorrow i did my best”
That is bs. Even me bein a mom now i have accountability there are things ive done WRONG. There have been times ive could of done BETTER etc. Their mentality is so cursed and sets the youth back. As long as my kids are respectful i want them to tell me if im doin something wrong/ making them feel bad so i can fix it in a healthy way. Not brush them off because im the adult and in essentially “always right”
“Always right no Accountability and always the victim “ As a child I feel it and it’s no easy to deal with😢
still that slave mentality. grama was proud to say she beat her granddaughter up
When she told her she wanted the best for her and if she leave this earth, she know she did her best…tears. This whole thing touching because I go through this with my daughter and I tell her when I leave I wanna know she can stand on her own. This family gonna be ok, prayers.
Grandma had a lot put on her. Taking the responsibility of 7 of your grandchildren and then your sick daughter and another person. They all need help. Pulling together and being vulnerable with one another will open the doors to their family going back to where it needs to be💜
Keep in mind she could pay care givers with the money she receives. Instead she keeps the money and the load.
@@kesleyk6731 what money? Never heard either of them mention a dime. It’s horrible to assume things!
We’re missing something because why didn’t her children raise their children? Grandma didn’t do something with her kids.
@@dayum_mi i disagree with that because their was things in life that I learned to stay away from through my parents and CHOSE to take a different route. Self accountability. Most of the girls upset should be with her parents. Not the grand mom who stepped in & stepped up to take care of her.
@@ericabrown19 you are right
People focus so much on the surface level things: she’s avoiding chores, skipping school, going out with friends, smoking weed…etc….lots obvious to me she’s trying to escape her life. She feels overwhelmed at home, she wants to feel free and she’s looking for connection with things and people away from the home because she’s lacking connection at home. Lacking support. The grandmother is clearly overwhelmed too, and I think probably hasn’t gotten the recognition and support she’s needed over her life. And so they both affect each others need for support and contribution to creating support and connection. That comes out as stress from all that trauma. And both of them are experiencing fight, flight, freeze and fawn…they’re both missing the things the need and are struggling to give it to each other. I think even when/if they did…it would be from a place of compensation…because neither of them had the original support from their caregivers to heal that emotional wound of feeling abandoned and unsupported. So there’s no escaping. You contribute to supporting at the home, the girl feels overwhelmed and wants to ‘flight’ she doesn’t contribute she probably feels freeze and feel lonely and needs things to till that space. And I imagine the grandmother feels a lot of anger/fight too. Suppressed anger and resentment for having to give so much with out getting it back. Trauma is so cyclic but recognising how others have affected us and how we’ve affected others and communicating to that to the people in our lives creates healing.
Karamo-Thank You for caring about families. You have shown a TOTALLY DIFFERENT APPROACH
I am so glad the grand daughter is smart and knows she must finish school. All the anger, hanging out, fighting w/ grand ma etc... and she STILL sits down and gets her work done to where she has 3 schools that want her to attend. She is smart and beautiful. Grandma has NO excuses- throwing things and saying awful things to these beautifully smart and sensitive young ladies. Shame on her for that. Grandma doesn't know how to control her anger and it would seem she would be more mindful that this hurts them and it encourages the same uncontrollable feelings from them when they're angry. How was that not the FIRST thing not thought of by her? I don't understand the continuous problem of people having and then not wanting to take care of their children. Its the same old story, had me OR had me young, then drugs, then men, then neglect etc.. WHY does this STILL go on? WHY??????? Why can't there EVER be another narrative like- I was born, loved, coddled, cuddled, treasured, praised, etc... in a wonderful two-parent household and went to the finest schools and etc etc, etc? We don't hear those stories often. Its the same ole thing...... At any rate, I hope the best for this family truly. I hope she goes to college, sets her focus there. Cut out the smoking and hanging out because it can lead to trouble more with NO way out. Listen to ur grandma, but grandmother, see the importance of leading with LOVE, humility, grace. Discipline sure- but other things as well. For the other grand daughter- she is quiet and she needs help too. Just as much focus needs to be on her too PLEASE in Jesus name. Best
Yes! 💕
The grandma is the problem! That girl needs therapy and even the cousin had a similar story. Grandma stepped in when their mothers did not and i'd never take that away from anyone but the abuse is unacceptable. The fact that the grandma laughs about the abuse too.
the girl is smart and bright, she just needs to listen and make some better friends.
It’s all so easy and simple. You have all the answers don’t you.
@@wadilotus Obviously not and no one does but you can't seriously be thinking condemning abuse is somehow "having all the answers." Seems pretty cut & dry to me, not rocket science.
Grandma is not the problem . She has slot on her plate and us trying to show them life skills
@@ramonahamm6292 yes showing them life skills by throwing hot sauce bottles at them, when CLEARLY the granddaughter is going through things as well.
Grandma why want you put ur daughter & brother in the rest home
Black grandmothers have so much on their plates sometimes than their children and grandkids realize.After taking care of their children, they are often stuck with caring for the grandchildren, sometimes for life. That has got to change!
Its because they don't discipline their children and now they have to pay the price of taking care of grandkids and children.
It has nothing to do with being “black” grand mothers in general*** have alot on their plates. yall bring race into everything what does being black have to do with it💀
Grand mothers in general have a lot on their plates. Y’all bring race into everything 💀
The weight they carry is unimaginable and they deserve the world.
No, Karamo, the trauma started with the grandmother. Her daughter(s) were searching for love in all the wrong places and gave birth to all these kids for the grandmother to raise. Children who grew up in neglectful households are like a sponge ready to absorb any affection offered to them.
Her daughters could have had trauma due to an absent father or a number or traumatic experiences that family’s go through. It does not have to be the gmoms fault
Wrong the parents absence
There are many of factors that can contribute to whatever the mother went through.
That was my first thought too.
How do you know that it wasn’t their father. You’re placing blame Ware. You don’t even even understand it could have come from.
That grandma is going through a lot. She has to take care of her grand children plus her daughter and son. WOW!
This was beautiful Karamo said EVERYTHING that needed to be said!
At first I thought wtf Grandma but shit raising 7 grandkids after raising kids etc ummm just no lol.Grandma did her job!
I love that the audience never boos people and I love that we always happen to hear both sides to each case
Props to grandma. She raised kids then grand kids. My grandma could care less what we went through. They better recognize the love that they have !
GMom is old. She paid her dues but can't relax in her golden years. These young people don't understand what that Woman has gone through.
What I find interesting is that "grandma" is bragging about how she raised SEVEN of her grandchildren, but those same grandchildren came from her own kids. Why were the majority of GRANDMA'S kids not equipped to be functional parents? I'm not saying she is ALL of the problem, but she definitely is a big cog in this dysfunction. There is no way I'm raising most of MY kid's children and I'm going to think it's just because my kids were not good enough parents. Mothers learn how to be mothers from their mothers and fathers learn how to be fathers from their fathers (and that's a whole other conversation). Grandma needs to put her fist down and carry her old as.s to therapy.
@@kirascullark5224 thank you so much!!! She has proven to be an amazingly strong and tough woman...
@@sallyrutherford1771 excuse me... therapy for what? this is a woman who feels like her own kids had failed her. And she's trying everything within her possible best to make sure that her grandkids do not follow the same path and fail her as well, please give her her deserved flowers...
@@chukaanyiam1429 you’re a smart and understanding woman. You get it. SMH others don’t
Karamo you are absolutely wonderful. Your wisdom is just amazing, but what I really think sets you apart is your kindness.
All the kids and grandkids all descend from someone though and that is the grandmother and their grandparents before her. Where are people going wrong? WHERE?! That is what needs to be looked at and addressed. We’ve fallen off as a whole. This is sadly many people’s story. This is sad on every level. I want the granddaughter’s concerns and needs to be met.
That Is Not True And People Like You Irritate Me When Y’all Try To Remove The Blame From The Person And Place It Else Where ASSUMING Stuff: At Some Point FRIENDS AND PEERS Have More Influence Than Parents. Kids Are Taught Right And Do Wrong On Their OWN. Kids Spend The Majority Of Their Time AT SCHOOL Around Peers. And Plenty Kids Have Great Parents But Much rather Disappoint Their Parents Than Not Be Accepted By Peers
@@SoleahWright Parents should put God first than their children. If they didn't want their children, they should have used protection not to have children. That's totally irresponsible
If they didn't want their children, they should have given them up for adoption. These parents needed to stay out of the clubs and quit chasing men!!! Put your children first after God of course!!!
Why do these parents keep having children and not raising them? These parents leave their children for someone else to pick up the pieces. Shame on these parents. The parents are the ones to blame and should be held accountable!!! This entire situation is so very sad. My heart goes out to the grandmother and the children. God bless them all. Blessings and Peace❤
@@sandrarice4197 I Don’t Think You Read My Comment Or What I Responded To.
@@SoleahWright the original comment is right though. Generational curses are a real thing. Kids are influenced by friends , very much so however imagine knowing your mom is actively choosing men over you as a child. That has to hurt and will cause some behavioral issues. Humans are supposed to grow up a certain way. It may vary but there’s a pretty standard way you should bring up children. Love, discipline, and time. Not abandonment
@@danielvidal46 Everything Ain’t A Generational Curse. People Make Bad Choices Individually
Love that the oldest cousin was there to help connect some dots - big respect for the cousin showing up
Hold on y'all. Grandma is under a TON of pressure. Just because her children didn't do right doesn't mean she did wrong. Sometimes you do EVERYTHING you can and your children still turn down the wrong path. Grandma doesn't have the option to say No. She took on everyone's else's responsibilities
All her children on drugs something happen in grandmas house hold. I hate black community is when it’s grandma they do nothing wrong and they do.
Okay? Not an excuse for physical abuse
Still doesn’t mean she can treat her granddaughter like that
@@wetsock7790exactly
@@wetsock7790true. However, if she didn’t take those kids they would’ve ended up bouncing from foster home to foster home. And you know what happens to kids in foster home? Physical abuse plus s3xual abuse. They would’ve ended up much worse off without their grandmother. I do agree though that the grandmother shouldn’t be hitting them. But it sounds like the grandmother is tired and frustrated. She is raising 7 grandchildren after raising her own plus 2 adult children. That woman is tired. When people are frustrated or tired they tend to react how she does. Sounds like instead of judging the grandmother we should be offering her support so that she can learn how to properly parent. Let’s also thank her for taking in her grandchildren when no one else would. That’s not easy.
I am team grandma. Because this hit home for me. My kids were smart but because they chose to hang with their friends they wanted to be just like them. They skipped school, then they started stealing, next they started smoking. I used to find myself in an argument with them then their father. Because they did what they did then try to lie. I knew they were lying but their father used to believe what they said and when he knew they were lying, he helped them cover it up; Anyway, one lost a job because with her friends, she received a felony. Her friends are now dead and in jail. Life is a struggle for them now they are adults.
I'm sure the older sister has also been helpful and needs some recognition also
Cousin. Not Sister
@@SoleahWright sorry cousin
Each episode makes me teary. I love how karamo explores all different black stories. So touching.
Karamo always gets me in my feelings 😢
The guy with the bow tie looking at the cousin butt at 6:34 I’m deadd 😭😭😭😭😂😂😂
This is a wonderful grandma ❤🙏🏽
Nothing was resolved… that Grandma is a menace and abusive asf and she’s proud of her abuse. That wasn’t even addressed smh
It sounds like a family thing, the older cousin speaking up. They may need family therapy. Hope get the help they all need, God bless them
Some beautiful gems 💎 dropped on the advice given to this amazing family 🖤🖤
Honestly, growing up in the Caribbean, I get Grandma’s strict, my way or the highway, discipline. She didn’t have to step up and take care of her grandchildren but she did. I think she is trying her best to raise them so they don’t turn out like their parents. I also understand that this teenager feels overburdened by her “responsibilities” but you can’t just go out and do whatever you want to do at that age. Yes, grandma could listen more to how she feels and more conversations be had but that doesn’t mean as the child, you just decide oh I have enough “responsibilities” so I’m not going to do what grandma says I should do. The fact the she was able to get into colleges is wonderful and she is respectful and I think she has her grandma to thank for that. I appreciate and agree with Karamo’s reasoning and talking to both grandchildren and grandma.
So should the children suffer in silence?
She feel overwhelmed and your advice was to be quiet and just be overwhelmed. This why people are unwell in they heads
Well said agreed
@@kualawilliams4649 she never said suffer in silence. Clearly you can relate to the situation bcuz you are bias.
@@poohchi6205 she said she can’t go out and do what a teen wants to do because her responsibilities
So the teen must stay home and suffer ?
Gotta love what Karamo is doing here. He is able to lay everything out on the table and try to tackle them with resolution. He’s very great at NOT passing judgement on the guests and has a kind heart so the guests are able to feel his positivity.
The problem is grandma’s don’t get to be a grand mother’s they out raising kids like they had them and it’s sad..hell they tired and the way this world set up..kids can do whatever they want and when a parent guardian or authority figure say something..they become the problem smh..
Let's cut grandma a slack. She means well and want the best for those kids. She is old school and that's how some of us grew up , we hated it but we came out ok and grateful for all of it. Having said that, those kids have equally been through a lot of trauma from their parents as well. That whole family needs therapy on how to effectively communicate, how to be strong and still vulnerable and how to better communicate. I see a lot of love there, they will be fine. Grandma raised good grandbabies.
Well said❤️
Exactly
Agree wholeheartedly. Grandma did her best AND they all need therapy. Two things can be true at once.
Great Grandma! great job......God bless you.
As usual Karamo, u handled it well.
Perspective was all they needed. Thank God they received that and will break the cycle and be great parents to their future kids. Even better, they become successful and spoil the grandma, she deserves it.
Grandmom is super tired!!!
BaBy Girl is deprived of a teen life.
Off topic, I HOPE GRANDMOM HAS THE FATHER IN COURT FOR FINANCIAL SUPPORT!!!!
Omg That's My bestfriend..aka my lil sister Starkeesha aka Star or Keke..I would have never known that was her cousn if she didn't go to the show..I'm praying 🙏 for my other half..Yal grandma love yall.yall love her..And Life always unfold how it is meant to be..We just gotta talk more and grow..I LOVE 😍 yalll..Thanks Karamo for having them and helping them..God Bless
Our communities are suffering - one generation after the next. When will it get better??
Patrice is stunning!!!!!! Her black is soooooooo beautiful!!!!!!
This episode had me in tears because I see myself in the young lady In The green our stories are similar but she is gonna overcome every obstacle and grandma is not gonna be there always trust me mine is gone but everything she taught will equip you for real life I’m a living witness to that
Little one. Please be kind to the ones that love YOU. When she’s gone no one else is going to love you so you have to take care of her like a gem. The little girl has a lot of emotion. But she’s a really good girl just please let her speak. She needs to be able to talk to someone. I love you little one you’re beautiful and grandma please let them express themselves. Girls listen to grandma and please don’t talk back and take care of her. ALL OF YOU BE KIND TO EACH OTGER.
Girl Bye I hate when people encourage people to cherish narcissistic parents fawk them... they don't deserve to be cherished or respected
Onething I've seen and learned in this life is that there's no perfect individuals no matter the title. There's enough blame to be placed all around but the Key Word that Karamo said is give GRACE and that needs to be on All ends. Although her mother was not there for her she is dojng as the bible says and honoring thy mother (and yes I know sometimes parents dont always deserve that) However this young woman is making it her choice to do so. With Grace, Respect and effective communication on All ends I think they will make strides in the right directions. I pray for them all and congratulations young lady on your college acceptance. I pray your future is bright and beautiful as you are. 🙏💕
Now I know I watch Karamo too much. I caught the video when it said “posted one minute ago” 😭
Same
😂same love this show
that child is going through something and she needs to get out of that house.
Exactly
Grandma have alot on her plate. May all of grandma dreams come true for her grandchildren.❤🙏🙏🙏
Cherish the moments with ur grandmother i miss mines everyday ! She only means well !
Very proud of you my daughter congratulations 🎉🎉continue to strive in Jesus name always respect and love your grandmother she may rough with you but I know she love and care for you are very beautiful and intelligent young lady keep shining hun❤🙏🫶🇯🇲🇱🇷♥️🙏
Karamo this grandmother is the best i really appreciate her
Karamo - I hope you continue to look in on her - The teen hasn't really even experienced normalcy, balance or responsible freedom. Please look in on her because she really does have a bright mind and bright future.
OMG this is the first time I'm watching your show I am bawling my eyeballs out I know maybe Grandma needs to just calm down a little but she's stressing 2 and also have to take care of her daughter and her son I pray for this family blessings to you and everyone
Throwing objects, punching and telling kids that “I hate you” is abusive and damaging. She already doesn’t want to be there.
As a full time caregiver of my mom since 2012 "sometimes you have to let them touch the flame". She has a right to learn about the bad and the good
There’s a lot of love here - more than most of the other families I’ve seen on this show. I pray they make it ❤
Congratulations to her for getting into multiple colleges. Thank God granny was there to raise 7 grandkids ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You always have the best advice for the family thanks for sharing..🥰
God Bless this woman
Grandma need to give her grand daughter some freedom and independence. Especially since she got accepted to 3 different colleges!
I AM LITERALLY IN TEARS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THIS IS TOO SWEET !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SO REAL
Wait hold on now … nothing wrong with getting GED! My mom thought the same thing . I wanted to drop out and get my GED but my mom didn’t want me too drop out . Now I got my GED❤ I’m proud of baby girl to getting into college! Grandma means well
Stop being sensitive. She said what she said. She ended with stating it is her opinion
This is a good grandmother cherish her because I never got to have that experience please my grandmother suffered an aneurysm when I was a young girl and had a stroke and she passed when I was 18 and I still miss and love her so even though she's tough at least she was able to be there mines was in a convalescent hospital so just be grateful ❤wish you all good blessings
I pray for them all for healing, restoration, peace, wisdom. They all have some traumas to heal from.
She cannot stay home at all times, she has to live, her mother's life is hers , other peoples lives is theirs but SHE is out of control and rebellious, children says so and they end up bad.
The grandmother is doing her best! She has to accept all that baggage from her children and grandchildren. I have one kid, and let me tell you, it’s not easy!! And the young lady has a bright future ahead of her! She has the rest of her life to hang with friends, shop, and all the fun stuff, but if grandma is caring for all those ppl, hell yea you have to help with household management. She cannot do it by herself.
Did it occur to you that grandma put herself in this position because of the abuse she placed on her children? The cousin said herself that her own mother didn’t know how to parent.
@@Belladonna-ot3to once you become 21 you’re responsible for your own actions. Trauma is not a reason to be a shitty person. At all. Ijs common sense exist for a reason. At least the grandma kept going, she never gave up on her children or grandchildren.
@@jessicajaid4205 Oh really? How come grandma is throwing hands on her grandchildren? I’m betting she did the same thing with her children and they ended up on drugs.
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What you’re doing is advocating for generational trauma to continue.
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If she did her best, how come she had to take care of all 17 of her grandchildren?
Agreed
@@Belladonna-ot3to if the granny ain’t throw hands on em, they mama was gone throw hands on em either way bc they’re so disrespectful. Anyway, the granny still fed, housed, and clothe all 7 of her grandbabies. SHE NEVER GAVE UP ON THOSE KIDS… SHE ONLY DID HER BEST
Please no matter what don’t forget your grandma
I LOVED THIS EPISODE SO MUCH! they got they beauty from Grandma ~ okay lol lol all gorgeously amazing.
Baby girl once you get into college, move out and never go back. Too much toxicity. Grandma needs to stop being everyone’s safety net and put her daughter and brother in a nursing home or get a full time home caregiver.
“My grandma says she hates me too.”
*Grandma walks out*
Audience : “WOOOOOO! 🤪🥳”
Beautiful girl. Praying for your healing.
HOW IS A WHOLE FAMILY SO BEAUTIFUL ?!?!?!? GRANNY DID A GREAT JOB
The grandma really dropped the ball on her actual kids. It's a really telling that all of them just kind of dumped all their kids on her
God Bless Grandma young Lady she laid her life down for you and all your siblings when you old and have children you going to ask your child or children to wash dishes and when they say no that's when you will say now I see what Grandma was saying
GRANDMA'S ARE UNDERATED , THEY MAKE SACRIFICES , THEY RAISE US TRYING TO CURRECT THE WROUNGS THEY DID WITH OUR PARENT'S . THEIR CHILDREN. WE LOVE YOU TO GRANDMA'S JUST HANG IN THERE🥰
Both grandma & granddaughter have some growing to do. I know they’re both stressed with being caregivers & every life struggles. I think he gave them some very good advice concerning listening to one another & being more vulnerable. I pray that they heal & prosper.🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
Every day*
Wow Karamo! Wow! You are blessing people's lives
They are both in overload. Grandma was thrust into being a parent to a 2 yr old in her years of living her life.
It like I hear the hurt in this girl voice it made me cry I hope she get help she needs
Listen to your Grandmother beautiful young lady.She wants the best for you and Also. It's Grandma time for peace and relaxation. 🎉❤
She’s so beautiful I hope she’s heals
Grandma put your daughter and your brother in retirement home. You can go everyday to see them. Grandma and granddaughter need a break. Need to spend time together.
Prayers and hugs 🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️🌹🌹🌹
This beautiful young girl deserves so much better.
The way its so dangerous out here now. Its not safe “hanging out “ with friends anymore. Mess around and get caught in a tragic situation 5:09
That'd what I was thinking. Kids go to hang out these days and never make it back home. She really not missing out on much but I do understand that it's stressful to be taking care of her Mom.
3 generations of beautiful strong black women.
Thank God for grandma!! Because those kids could be in the system
Aww this was a beautiful episode. So happy karamo was able to see both sides! Karamo you are amazing. I’m so happy the young lady got into college she deserves it. I hope they stick together ❤❤❤
I think the family is under a lot of stress and pain. Grandma is a good grandma and the girl is a good girl but hurt people hurt people I wish this family prosperity,healing and peace ❤
Im loving Karamo whole getty up! That red suit is 🔥 with his handsome self. I love this show❤
Grandma needs the help.
She needs jail
Go help her. She has 7 grandkids. Go babysit
@@afroxfairyxxx8382 jail ? What did she do ?
@@blackout9519 nope. I don’t have kids we all make choices.
@@jimmyneutron8914 you can’t hit ppl with hot sauce bottles. If she did this to anyone besides a child you’d understand that.
Her granddaughter is 17 going on 18, when she's 18 you could lose her for good. I know an 18 year old in majority of cases is still a baby and not very mature but the police ain't hearing that, if she decide at 18 she don't want nothing to do with the grandmother and wants to leave, she can "for good". When parents go off on their teenage kids/abuse them, realize they have 4 or 5 years until they are 18 and can make a choice that you have not much power over by "law". If you love them their are other ways.
GOD will bless her. She has been accepted into colleges.. so that's good. The grandmother dealing with hurt and pain too. She raised all grandkids.. she didn't make those babies.. but she too is a blessing to be able to do that. This family not bad at all. They are strong women and that I love. ❤❤ 2:45 ❤