Why can a child be taken away in Russia
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alcoholism is an addiction and it's going to be hard for mum to do this on her own. I am glad you're on her side Sergei and knowing that you give them some support the kids will feel safer knowing that they can get hold of you as they just want their mum to be safe and strong to manage her family.
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Shunflower is more addictive and very dangerous
@killorbekilled2101 hello. What is shunflower please ?
@@marylouberridge1757 it's a kind of drugs which is highly addictive and without hitting up the drugs once you started consuming on daily basis. And if you missed it you started getting body ache running nose and cramps .
PS : never think of even trying.
@@marylouberridge1757 Russia has long had an alcoholism problem and it has not been that long that drunks were thrown sometimes chained in jails, for being- drunk - I remember seeing pictures of this less than 20 years ago. Many things can be- more addictive, but Alcohol is the cheaper and always in the lead. I have no idea what this person is talking about, no drug Ive ever heard of. I wouldnt worry.
If she gets help she has the opportunity to recover and help her family.Her children need her.
Zoe’s sister may be the one to ask, she called the police. Alcoholics relapse repeatedly, it’s doesn’t mean they can’t conquer the addiction. It sometimes takes many tries. You can do spot checks unannounced to keep tabs on Zoe. Loosing her kids would be the worst. She has to know that why she stays sober.
Just curious how you know about her sister? Did they show her? or mention her? I also
hope she can get it together to keep her children!
@Ben Dover what are you even talking about :D ? I was an alcoholic, stop talking about extra drugs to treat other drugs.
Well, her daughter confirmed, that the mom drank alcohol the day when they got the fridge… so she hasn’t started trying after getting “coded”.
@@r.s.9283 the lady he was talking to on the phone said the ladies sister rang the police
@@doodles3075 Thanks! I guess I missed that
Sergey, you're getting quite good at moving fridges! Love the good work you do!
Allow people helps you carry the fridge either woman or man ...it's well
You would like help people allow also people to help you
@@angulaaagula5926 you are right, in Africa or Europe maybe, but you have no idea of russian mans nor the mentality !!
Sergey must be very strong after moving so much furniture, etc. Also, he is very handsome.
Of course she can be helped, but also she has to help herself also. With your help, I think she can do it. Well done for what you’ve doing.
Sergei youre amazing, keep doing whatever youre doing and be blessed 1000 times.
such an understand/n person thank god for people like u
so kind you are Sergei thank you again for all your help GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU ALL THE DAYS OF YOUR LIFE
Amen Amen
I just love you Sergei. I also watch BI Phakcathi in Africa doing same thing and helping the poorest of people. I’m inspired so much. Look how just one person can change the lives of so many. If everyone of us just helped who we could we would all be free from such hard times. I do what I can myself. God Bless who ever reads this and I hope everyone every where Helps at least one person in need this 2023. Inspire each other my friends! ❤ love from USA.
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I also love BI in south Africa. Both These young men are angle's from god. 👍🙏🙏🙏❤️
Really, there's something about him, and how it goes about it , that's puts me off. I think he's the one gaining out of it.
I watch both as well. They are such an inspiration. Love from Canada.
Well said Gloria V. May God bless you for your kind considerate heart. I agree with you 💯👍♥️🇭🇲
That is tough. You are right, Zoe needs help, rehab for her drinking. Are there any other family members that can care for the kids while Zoe goes somewhere to get help to stop drinking?
I don't think there *is* help in Russia.
@@PhyllisGlassup2TheBrim there is
No rehab is guaranteed to succeed, no matter how well funded or experienced. Addiction can be incredibly corrosive and harsh; for some it’s grip feels almost impossible to escape.
JESUS has taken away many of GOD'S children addictions. We only have to ask JESUS to help us.
Matthew 7:7 - 8
Douay-Rheims Bible
And I say to you, Ask, and it shall be given you: seek, and you shall find: knock, and it shall be opened to you.
@@daffodilstang5292 If only it was that easy ... 🤦♀
Wow that girl is beautiful inside and out. You showing her this kindness and generosity is going to change her life. I think the mom needs alot of help and I hope she wants it and takes it when offered
It's hard to give up the drink but on the positive side she's willing to work
I don’t think anyone wants to be an alcoholic. I’m sure Zoe doesn’t either. She needs guidance and help to get through this for herself and her kids.
I think kids thrive with their parents over orphanages but, given to Zoe's drinking, it's scary to think that her need to drink may be more important than her children eating. She would do well to be in an inpatient rehab center to get herself together if there is some option for the kids to go somewhere they are familiar with. Uncles, aunts, cousins, grandparents any would do for temporary living. Zoe has to make it happen though. Rehab only works if she takes part and really wants to change.
@Lynette Agueda Sorry to hear about your mum Lynette.
You shouldn't falsly accuse her,you aren't there,do not know her
I don't think that they have all these services in Russia. It's not like in the West.
@@seangooley8696 They do have services in Russia but the provision of services depends on the area. Some places are better than others.
@lynetteagueda5013 I am so sorry for you going through that with your mum. I pray that your soul has been healed. Love, light, peace and prayers. Hugs.
The more people help her the less she will drink-those children deserve the help!!!
I cant express enough how much i love your channel! Sad situation but no bad judgement. When people are struggling, it is never our place to judge how they cope, even if it is self destructive behavior. But when children are involved and suffering with them it becomes something else, and the person doing the self destructive things have an obligation to make changes. Maybe it's just me but i see her want to do good by her daughter, so hopefully better choices will be made for her sake
keep up doing God's charity on earth ! you never walk alone in this fight . welldone Sergei .
So sad for the children, thanks for trying to help them. Many people with problems look for something to help, but it can also be destructive. Alcohol or drugs isn't the answer, but I've never been in her shoes so don't know why she started to drink. I feel more sorry for the children though.
Thank you so much for helping these people. What you are doing is so very important.
the mother was doing her best with backbreaking hours of work, for little money. No wonder she used alcohol...it provided her with an escape from her hard life., but of course, it's not an answer. Given some help, she can pull her family together and move forward. I wish them some happiness.
The woman said Zoe has been drinking "all her life" though, and i doubt she worked all her life on that farm. I think the problem is deeper rooted than this. Alcoholism is an emotional disease that often roots back to childhood abuse or neglect.
Also, she was getting paid correct money. The woman who paid her, paid off her loans with some of the $ and gave the rest to Zoe, or ended up giving the money to Lubya, so she was being paid her correct amount
She got paid plenty PLUS clothes and food for the kids PLUS she kept her on just for the kids sake even though I’m sure she wasn’t doing good at the job being drunk all day. She said all the money that was given to the mom was spent getting drunk so she started giving the money to Lyuba. So yes she was getting more than her fair share in wages
Zoe did not get paid enough to support her habit.
Typical alcoholic, all the excuses they come up with! Ugh! Feel sorry for the children. Adults before they even grow up!
Please help Zoe for the sake of the kids. You are an inspiration! Keep doing what you do.
She is the one who needs to help herself first, or all else will fail. I have experience with my own husband who has schizophrenia and refuses medication or even tp acknowledge he has an illness. He's been homeless for 2 years, completely out of his mind. Me and his mother have done everything to help but if he won't accept the help, nothing can work.
Relatives called police, but didn’t offer to take the girl to help her out? Why do people do this to their own family? So they wanted the girl to be taken away even if she was safe?
Its Rural Russia people are very poor & dont have pennies to look after more Children.
Maybe this mum turned to alcohol in the first place due to family rejection and lack of support when she needed it.
@@green4661 but had the energy to tell police to put girl into care.
Tough situation. God bless them. I hope she can get the help she needs. Family is the most important thing. As long as they aren't being abused.💓
My heart goes out to the kids
my heart goes out to Zoey
@@theresanolan1157 she's an adult and makes her own decisions the kids rely on her to make the right choices let's hope she does the right thing for them
Thank you sergei, cameraman and everyone who support his channel!! Please subscribe, like and comment. Helps him in algorithm!!!
Well done mentioning this!
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i only recently found your channel and it has taught me that there are still some truly good people out there, bless you and everything that you do
Please keep us posted on this situation.
Happy New Year. May your family and crew be blessed. You are amazing. Take care!
Zoe is an alcoholic from all that I’ve seen. Children are so dependent upon their parents. I hope and pray that Zoe can conquer this. The lives of her children are in the balance. Sergei, you are an amazing man who is opening our eyes to what is happening in Russia and in our own communities too. May God bless you all.
The mom needs the opportunity to stop drinking and keep her kids. You are correct in that Zoe needs something to boost her self-esteem. Blessings for helping.
Thankyou for helping Zoe and her children, your love, your compassion, kindness and understanding are beautiful Sergei! 😊Keep on the great work you do🎉
Not an easy situation. But it takes someone like you to deal with it as you did, with respect, and also being charitable... you are doing good.
I think the mum has learnt that she can't drink and look after her family, the daughter is very strong and will speak up if her mother declines. You have done amazing thank you love from England xx
Hopefully Zoe gets the help and rehab she needs to keep the family together.
It's always the children who suffer for their parent's mistakes. 😢
The innocent will always suffer, (unfortunately) seems like the natural order, I pray Zoe can turn this around.....
Do they have drug and alcohol counseling she could attend to help her? I think it really affected her when the police took her child.. Every thing you could do for her would be wonderful. Then it's up to her . I think she will try hard for the children.
It is Russia. No services for the poor
We can all grow through our mistakes if we have the will to improve.
Happy Christmas Sergei 🎄
If your heart tells you this lady needs help ,then I'm with you all the way ,but this lady needs to meet you all the way, not half way ,as her little girl needs her ..Love to you and your family and friends ❤ ♥ 💕
I agree with you
Very tough situation this is.
Please give the mom the opportunity, but PLEASE also keep an eye on them 🙏 THANK YOU for all you do for people, God bless you
Thank you Sergei for helping this family. I have had first hand experience with addictions of family members and although it's not easy for them to stop, it's not impossible. Maybe having had her daughter taken away from her might be enough for Zoe to realise the serious
situation she's in. I do believe that the best place for the children to be is with their mother. First of all she
has to be accountable to them and secondly, if it's possible, no child should ever be put in an institution.
God Bless you all, I'll pray for everyone to be happy. Children are better off with their mother, she seems to want to better her ways.
Sometimes life is so hard sadly people drink because of sorrow and exhaustion. I don't know if she can give it up, but I pray so for her childrens' sake.
In our hearts we know who needs help and your crew has HEART !!! God bless you to continue to help all these forgotten people
I love what you do Sergei! You restore my faith in humanity.
Zoe does need help, addiction is dreadful.
Thank you for always saving the life of so many people and giving them the chance in life they never thought they would have may God continue to bless you with all of His blessings and unexpected blessings 💖
I feel sorry for Zoe is overwhelmed with all her responsibilities as single mom. And on the other side I feel bad for the kids and what they are going through. Hopefully Zoe gets some much needed mental health done.
I grew up in an alcoholic household and I’m thankful for the help other bestowed upon us. Those that helped always had us children in mind. I’m glad you helped for the children’s sake and I pray the mom will stay sober.
Alkolicism recovery groups are on zoom...
This is difficult Serzhik because if the girl is taken away from her mother, where will she go? She didn't like where she went, did she? This is always the problem. The mother is drinking, so the girl is removed - but goes somewhere worse. In my view she is better with her mother. Even in the UK, children who are taken into care, have poor prospects. They are removed from their parents, but still end up in prostitution, drinking, drugs, poor education, gangs, prison. Maybe it would have been better if they were left at home. When the state is the new parent, it never works out.
Agreed. 100%.
💯 and the parents lose their hope for life when there is no hope for reunification.
This lady needs your ongoing support. You might ask her what led her to becoming addicted to alcohol. Another update would be welcome.
The beautiful smile on that child's face is definitely worth the time you give, Bless your heart...
Alcohol addiction destroys lives, let's pray this mother turns her back on drink and chooses her kids welfare instead. Bless you for not judging and providing help for this family. You and your team show great kindness to many people.
Thank you so much for your work Sergej!
I believe the solution is to offer the mother support & get her help to remain sober and heal. Healing old wounds brings healing for the generations that follow...help the parents is helping the children.
Bless you 💛
It’s impressive that she stopped to get her children back. Your continued support is very important and I am certain you will do what is best.
You might think about calling Larisa back, and asking if she would still be interested in adopting Lyuba, if Zoe continues drinking. Let her know that you didn't talk to Lyuba about it yet, but if she is, then ask Lyuba how she would feel about being adopted by Larisa.
But no matter what you do, it will be the right thing. You are incredibly intuitive.
Please keep helping everyone you find on your journey in this world. I know addiction can be beaten because I am living proof. I was addicted to hard drugs but now at the age of 69 I have been clean for 33 years. Plenty of people gave up on me, but I've never given up on myself. Thank you dear one, for your generous spirit and showing us how to live.
God Bless you Sergei God Bless All of you All
The thing with addiction is that they have to want to stop and give up themselves!
The child deserves help and support and it would be great if Zoe got sober but she has to want to stop drinking.
Yes, very true.
I think I would wait and see how it turns out. It seems like she is trying.
I am glad you are helping mom so the family can stay together. This may be her last chance before she looses everything.
Can we have an update on where you are and your safety?
Thank you for helping. Seeing someone cares about her and family, that may be the ticket to her to stop drinking. You are doing the right thing. That child will always be grateful to you. I never heard mom say thank you. Maybe I just missed it. Anyway, thank you, Earthly Angel. Well done, Sergei, well done!!💜💜💜🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for helping this woman during her addiction struggle. We know the odds are that she will fall down again, but to have someone as nonjudgmental as you to help her up when she does, will increase her odds of success tremendously. She may take two steps forward and one step back repeatedly, but as long as she’s still going forward, she’ll get there eventually. Bless you for your deeds, Sergi . Update us, please. ❤
Children do suffer, but if her mother can slowly get help, then the children should always stay with parents. If the mother doesn't succeed then I'm sorry they should go to family members .
Alcohol is evil. It does nothing but destroy lives. It’s heartbreaking to watch another poor single mum going through this. I wish her and her children all the best. ❤️🙏🏻❤️🏴❤️🇬🇧
Vasya is an amazing man.
Family's should be helped where possible "Not separated, especially the mother of children.
Some child services are evil.
Studies show it is worse to be fatherless then motherless
His name is Sergei… 🤗
@@lottatroublemaker6130 then what does Vasya in the hay mean?
@@bunnylarese2161 Village
Please help this little family, it might be their only chance! Much love from Holland, i appreciate all your good work Sergei! 🙏🏻
Thank you for helping them and making sure the little girl was happy and felt safe and wanted to stay home. It's always best to check up on kids who are in hard & bad situations, instead of just turning the other cheek and hoping everything will be fine. I have seen situations like this turn deadly and wish I could have done more,but, I did everything I could to help the baby :(
What does it mean to be coded from alcohol? What drugs/meds can u get in Russia to help stop drinking. Weed works good but is illegal in Russia. ppl need benzos or something to stop drinking long enough to be able to address underlying problems and stay sober. Always remember that it's a disease as u know and I believe her when she says she would stop drinking for her kids. If only it was that easy....
Yes.
Her smile to the fridge said it all!!! 🥰
Love all of your hard work Sergei ❤❤ I know some of the people that you meet can really be problematic..But I love how you see pass that and give people so much compassion ♥️Thank GOD for people like you😘
Coding against alcohol in Russia is, basically, aversion therapy.
She does need help, for herself first and foremost then for her children. Zoe MUST want the help. She cannot be forced, it will not work. She has to WANT IT MORE THAN ANYTHING!!!!
I feel sorry for the mother and the children because Zoe is an alcoholic and needs help to stay sober as It is almost impossible to beat this addiction in her conditions........so sad.
I feel you are right to give this mother your attention and buying the food and refrigerator had to boost her spirits. It could possibly take several chances for it to settle into mother's head that, unless she stops drinking she may loose her children. Best wishes to mother and children. Thank you for your loving and generous h3art. God bless you.❤️
There's hope for any Alcoholic! Purpose and Friends!
You are blessed love watching the program wish I could visit
Nu mi as dori sa vad niciodata lacrimi in ochii unei mame , in ochii nimanui ...❤️
Yes, but the mother is taken by her sin, and is unfortunately making her children miserable in the process. I don't feel badly for her tears at this point.
Amazing man well done.Can you if possible slow the English translation ,as it to fast to read and understand in real time
I just pause it when the words come up.
Thank you for having compassion for Zoe. I hope she keeps it together for the kids. Her daughter is lovely and she is wise. More than anything I want the children to be in the best place for their growth.
It doesn’t hurt to try for the children’s sake 🙏🏻
The children should be helped. Thank you!
Zoey should be helped . Thank you.
Two new subscribers 4rm me and my mom.bro i really appreciate and admired you.keep it up and we will always support you anyways.we need more people like you.God bless you and your team👍❤
Hopefully she makes it. Great work as always.
I think you are doing the right thing by giving her the opportunity to prove herself. She needs good people to be involved, to give her help and encouragement, and to hold her accountable. I hope the best for this family. ❤️
Hope and pray Zoe gets the help that is needed 🙏😌
Forced Labour happens the World over, they were taking advantage of her dependency on Alcohol, I tell you I would drink if I had to work in those conditions.
I think you are guiding her in the right direction and like you said the kids are most important. Great video as always.
Life is so challenging. I'm so sorry for what she's going through. May God fill her heart with love and healing
the mother should stop drinking
Thankyou for giving the mother the opportunity to try to overcome addiction. I agree it is very important for her children too. It gives the daughter time to grow up.
The mother will also need all the support she can get. She has an illness and it is no different to helping the mother for any other disease. She needs to be supported to try to overcome her addiction - not punished for being unwell. Thankyou for supporting her.
This is why my sister lost her children, we are in the US. She's an active addict and homeless. You cannot force people to get help, they have to want it. 2 kids live with family and the other was taken and we didn't know so he was adopted by his foster family. Unfortunately our child services doesn't have to contact family when they take children. We don't know where he is since he was 3.
Zoe needs help and not condemnation. But she does need to want to do it. Hopefully after this scare she will commit to becoming sober. And the truth about what happened at the farm probably lies somewhere in between the two accounts of what happened. It always does!
I truly am in awe of the great things you do for people who need help, I would not ever presume to tell you who or how to help but as someone who can help you help others I would love to work together to help addicts alcoholics people who society usually seems unworthy of help
*deems
I was really impressed by this girl and her brother when I saw their first video. I don't know why, I've seen many troubled kids, but I feel that this girl is blessed and will do fine. The mother seems genuine in her trying to provide for them and to deal with her addiction. Wish that they sort this out soon at least to some manageable level, until the girl starts to shine and take care of her mom and brother.
You can tell she loves her children...i hope with your help she will overcome the addiction x
I think that you are an angel here on earth. What you are doing for people is selfless, you are full of love for your fellow man. Please stay strong and healthy. You are much loved all over the world for your generosity and compassion.
I'm happy you decided to help Mum because she and kids need it. Thank you for helping people. I love what you do. God bless🙏💙
No one is beyond help, and support is sometimes all that people need to turn things around. Thank you for your compassion Sergei.