it’s so strange watching this from the future and knowing when the queen dies and seeing all the pics from matt and patricia’s engagement haha congrats!!!
For anyone confused bc I was at first, Matt said on Unfiltered that he was originally supposed to propose the same week he got apendicitis. So this was filmed awhile ago but they had to wait since they talked about the proposal! But the engagement finally happens just 4 days ago!
@@violettawright7539 yeah they said they filmed this episode over a month ago but couldn't post it because of "secret tea" which i believe was the postponed proposal!! congrats matt + patricia
@@sarahfickey3493 I also feel like they were dragging the whole unfiltered crew about being late because they always have stories about almost missing flights and the boat to Catalina island lol
Erin says that sometimes, “well, it’s not just that” But definitely not to be dismissive I don’t think. Just to bring more understanding of where she’s coming from.
matt described trisha paytas perfectly in regards to 30 yr olds that are picky eaters. she hates sauces, veggies etc... just eats plain pasta, tenders, fries and plain burgers lmao
So do I. I cannot help when I don’t like sauces or veggies & fruits. People would be appalled at how “picky” I am. However, why does it bother people? Is it embarrassment or something? Because I make sure I make accommodations for myself- I don’t put it on others. I feel sometimes I’m just not allowed the same social eating benefits as others lol. That’s a genuine question too- I really have no clue what I’m supposed to do around other people & the judging aspect. Some insight would be helpful. /gen
I recognize “I love that for you” from Schitt’s Creek. It was a line that Alexis would say frequently, and there was always a slight hint of condescension but I personally don’t get offended by it because I know it’s a show reference
My fiance is super duper picky (and yes he had a bad childhood, and he's autistic and 34 years old), but after he had a mild stroke earlier this year, he actually started trying, and even liking new things. But slowly as he's recovered from the stroke, he doesn't want to try anything new anymore, but for that first month, we took full advantage and be tried so much new stuff and was so proud of himself and I was so happy for him!
I totally understand why people get frustrated with slow walkers but please keep in mind that a few of those people could have invisible disabilities that cause them to walk slower!!! I’m in a wheelchair now but around high school I was able to walk and looked totally “normal”, but I walked slow due to my disability and I was often made to feel bad about it and it really sucked. Just something to think about, no hate at all!! Love you guys 🤗
also please don’t use a disabled child to “inspire” other people (at least not without their consent). Exploiting disabled people to inspire others is called “inspiration porn” - please educate yourselves on it. again, no hate!
@@misguidedolivia Honestly, I just looked this up and it really opened my eyes. Totally changed my perspective and language around those with disabilities! Thank you :)
I can’t explain the rage that comes out of me when I can hear someone chew their food. It’s irritates the day lights out of so much that I wish it didn’t because it puts me in such a bad mood that I can’t enjoy my meal either. 😫
Matt and Carly are so funny 😂 - Matt's face at 44:52 and then Carly with the "just say David's name" lmao 💀 - "And they have to take birth control" - Matt
Omg. Get this: I just got engaged in Venice on September 8th. We got off our gondola ride *so excited* & the driver of our boat shook my fiancé’s hand & said “congratulations. I regret to inform you the queen has died”
Just a thing about the picky eater, same thing was said about me and there is an eating disorder called ARFID, (avoidant restrictive food intake disorder), super debilitating. It has to do with trauma surrounding food, there are safe foods and not safe foods. It can be based around choking or vomiting that can be part of why they eat what they do…Just for future reference!❤
I was in a public bus a few weeks ago and this guy was blasting music videos through his smart phone. I happened to have an extra pair of Bluetooth headphones on me and literally gave them to him. he was a little older so I had to show him how to sync up but he was very appreciative and so was everyone else on the bus 😅😅
My BIGGEST pet peeve is inconsideration. Which alot of times relates to most pet peeves. I just hate that others sometimes won’t consider people around them. Example: driving slow in the wrong lane with a line of cars behind you. Standing in a walkway and seeing people coming. And just stand there anyway. Just not considering other people. Aaah
just a damned nod of acknowledgement that someone did something nice for you! The people that just walk by like they're gd royalty so *of course* you held the door for them piss me off.
I also always notice when people say, "its not just that...". It's almost like being shut down for adding to conversation. I think my heightened awareness comes from the fact that I used to be very shy and barely talked & I had to work to gain the confidence to speak up. So now when I speak up & I'm ignored or brushed off, in my head I'm like FINE ILL JUST NEVER TALK AGAIN 😂 lmao. For some reason I don't think Matt used to be quiet/ shy but I'd love to hear his thoughts!
Some topics I would like to see: Spooky stories Traditions Sports Christmas Unpopular opinions Death/afterlife The future (time travel, what you think it will be like, inventions etc) The USA (stereotypes, debunking stereotypes, cultural differences, traditions)
I so get matt’s pet peeve one of my professors is very experienced in his field and he likes to show it off so whenever a student tries to participate in a topic or even answer a question HE ASKED he goes “it’s not just that” and totally dismisses them to the point where I don’t participate anymore cuz what’s the point?😑
A as a someone that makes food at a sandwich shop if I give someone an allergen that they’re sensitive to they need to say so. We need to be made aware when we’re fucking up in that way
Slow walkers are a pet peeve of mine as well . I'm nice enough to walk behind them slowly but the whole time I'm yelling at them in my head . Might just need to be more assertive on my part but that's hard to even think about
I love the “it’s not just that” point, I didn’t think it would grind anyone else’s gears because I thought I was just reallly dumb and that’s why it was said to me a lot but if Matt gets it then I know the people that say it are just pricks 😂
HAHAH I was the one who sent in the singing submission. I don’t like when people sing randomly like when they are a big theater kid and that’s all they do all day or like you guys said “ am I a good singer?” Type singing.
The last podcast on irrational fears literally manifested me getting trapped in an elevator. 3 days after I listened to the episode I stepped into my friend’s apartments elevator with two strangers and 10 seconds after the doors closed we felt a jerk and a clanking sound and next thing we know we are calling the help line to be rescued. Sooo thankful it was only 3 of us trapped in there and we were only stuck for about 30 min because it’s a pretty busy apartment complex with 18 floors but seriously what are the damn odds that the first time I get trapped in one is after listening to your podcast?! Can your next topic be about winning the lotto so that i can manifest that instead? 😂
Carly does the exact time thing come from working at Target? When I worked at the mall if it was 9:59 and we open at 10 and someone wanted to come in, they waited a minute lol
What do you guys think about some thing I heard from a productive high performance motivational guy (I can’t remember who).. If someone is late yes it’s “wasting your time” but ultimately it’s your job to make sure you are being as productive with your time as possible. So if someone’s 10 minutes late you can use that time going through and responding to emails, Reading an article, Setting up an appointment (doctor, nails, hair etc.), calling a friend and chatting for a few mins. simple, quick and small tasks that we have on our to do lists to be more mindful w the time we spend waiting. I realize it’s rude to make someone late but it made me rethink it a little instead of waiting on someone and just scrolling mindlessly on my phone for 10-15 mins.
I wanna share this bc not many people know!! ARFID is an Eating Disorder that is picky/sensory eating. ARFID means Avoidant/Restricted Food Intake Disorder. Most people who have this eat like a “child” (which can be demeaning to some people), some people have trauma with food. I have ARFID, my personal experience I have mainly sensory problems meaning textures weird me out, sight, smell it all just makes me uncomfortable. Do your own research if you wanna learn more but just wanted to share.
Pet peeve for me is when a streaming platform doesn't include all the movies of a franchise. Like paranormal activity the latest one is on Canadian Netflix, then you wanna watch all the others ones too but all they got is the one movie.
I ask what’s happening during movies/shows 😭 I like to make conversations. Unless I’m in a theater or watching with a crowd. But if I’m comfortable, I’ll ask questions 😭
LOL great episode! But uhm y’all if you are spending money at a restaurant and the food comes with things specially asked to have without..it’s getting sent back for sure !
yeah, Matt had appendicitis and then had to recover and then I think went out of the country and had to get back before they could do the whole proposal so they just held the episode until afterward
it’s so strange watching this from the future and knowing when the queen dies and seeing all the pics from matt and patricia’s engagement haha congrats!!!
MATT AND PATRICIAS ENGAGEMENT??????
Edit: I lost my insta and I don’t follow Matt anymore so I’ve been out of the loop I’m so happy for him 🥹
@@Rona44 yes!!! they got engaged last week!!
@@Rona44 listen to grits and glam for the details! Patricia’s pod
@@Rona44 watch unflitereddd podcast!!
currently watching this the day after the wedding!!
For anyone confused bc I was at first, Matt said on Unfiltered that he was originally supposed to propose the same week he got apendicitis. So this was filmed awhile ago but they had to wait since they talked about the proposal! But the engagement finally happens just 4 days ago!
so was this filmed before he got appendicitis?
@@violettawright7539 yeah they said they filmed this episode over a month ago but couldn't post it because of "secret tea" which i believe was the postponed proposal!! congrats matt + patricia
Thanks for explaining, I was sooooo confused😂
i’m crying at matt shading unfiltered being untimely HAHA congrats on the engagement! loved this ep xoxoxoxo
Matt’s genuine concern for doing brand deals for his unborn child is making me laugh so hard I’m crying 😂 “I shouldn’t do that??” Lol I love him
Carly’s sense of humor is so great
Yes! And her laugh is so contagious.
Why did I feel Matt was dragging Zane with all his pet peeves 😂
Bro literally cause I feel like Zane says 'it's not just that" all the time but I have felt the "tension" before in other episodes..
@@sarahfickey3493 I also feel like they were dragging the whole unfiltered crew about being late because they always have stories about almost missing flights and the boat to Catalina island lol
I was actually thinking Zane & Mariah 😂
Not Erin saying “not only that” literally 7 mins after Matt talked about it🤣🤣 but love y’all so happy for you Matt ❤🎉
I feel like erin does that “its not just that” on only friends all the time lol
So happy for Matt and Patricia!! 🎉🥺💗
Erin says that sometimes, “well, it’s not just that”
But definitely not to be dismissive I don’t think. Just to bring more understanding of where she’s coming from.
CARLY'S SWEATER IS EVERYTHING
I agree I need it
There is always a tension between Matt and Mike 😂 it is SOO FUNNY 🤣
I honestly think... it's Mike 🤐
them talking about the queen please 😭
matt described trisha paytas perfectly in regards to 30 yr olds that are picky eaters. she hates sauces, veggies etc... just eats plain pasta, tenders, fries and plain burgers lmao
So do I. I cannot help when I don’t like sauces or veggies & fruits. People would be appalled at how “picky” I am. However, why does it bother people? Is it embarrassment or something? Because I make sure I make accommodations for myself- I don’t put it on others. I feel sometimes I’m just not allowed the same social eating benefits as others lol. That’s a genuine question too- I really have no clue what I’m supposed to do around other people & the judging aspect. Some insight would be helpful. /gen
mike’s hair looks great :)
I recognize “I love that for you” from Schitt’s Creek. It was a line that Alexis would say frequently, and there was always a slight hint of condescension but I personally don’t get offended by it because I know it’s a show reference
I fell off RUclips for a little, but I’m back. Can’t wait to binge these!!
Carly seems so much more open and free this episode! Love it!
My fiance is super duper picky (and yes he had a bad childhood, and he's autistic and 34 years old), but after he had a mild stroke earlier this year, he actually started trying, and even liking new things. But slowly as he's recovered from the stroke, he doesn't want to try anything new anymore, but for that first month, we took full advantage and be tried so much new stuff and was so proud of himself and I was so happy for him!
Watching you guys more more I must say, I love Carly's energy
I totally understand why people get frustrated with slow walkers but please keep in mind that a few of those people could have invisible disabilities that cause them to walk slower!!! I’m in a wheelchair now but around high school I was able to walk and looked totally “normal”, but I walked slow due to my disability and I was often made to feel bad about it and it really sucked. Just something to think about, no hate at all!! Love you guys 🤗
also please don’t use a disabled child to “inspire” other people (at least not without their consent). Exploiting disabled people to inspire others is called “inspiration porn” - please educate yourselves on it. again, no hate!
@@misguidedolivia Honestly, I just looked this up and it really opened my eyes. Totally changed my perspective and language around those with disabilities! Thank you :)
I completely agree with Matt’s “it’s not just that” you’re like no I understand
I can’t explain the rage that comes out of me when I can hear someone chew their food. It’s irritates the day lights out of so much that I wish it didn’t because it puts me in such a bad mood that I can’t enjoy my meal either. 😫
Matt and Carly are so funny 😂
- Matt's face at 44:52 and then Carly with the "just say David's name" lmao 💀
- "And they have to take birth control" - Matt
The chicken fingers at Long John Silvers is way better than the fish anyway 😂
your intro song should just be the sound of heavens opening up to the chorus of the angels, you know, as Good Influences 👼
Omg. Get this: I just got engaged in Venice on September 8th. We got off our gondola ride *so excited* & the driver of our boat shook my fiancé’s hand & said “congratulations. I regret to inform you the queen has died”
Just a thing about the picky eater, same thing was said about me and there is an eating disorder called ARFID, (avoidant restrictive food intake disorder), super debilitating. It has to do with trauma surrounding food, there are safe foods and not safe foods. It can be based around choking or vomiting that can be part of why they eat what they do…Just for future reference!❤
Glad someone said something ❤
I was in a public bus a few weeks ago and this guy was blasting music videos through his smart phone. I happened to have an extra pair of Bluetooth headphones on me and literally gave them to him. he was a little older so I had to show him how to sync up but he was very appreciative and so was everyone else on the bus 😅😅
Congrats Matt 💍
Love the chemistry with you all. I always feel like i'm in the room with you. Please no intro/theme song. It's truly not necessary
My BIGGEST pet peeve is inconsideration. Which alot of times relates to most pet peeves.
I just hate that others sometimes won’t consider people around them.
Example: driving slow in the wrong lane with a line of cars behind you.
Standing in a walkway and seeing people coming. And just stand there anyway.
Just not considering other people. Aaah
Yes! It’s the lack of self awareness in public that drives mes nuts.
Day 3 of asking you to do the Myer Briggs personality test for the podcast x
Carly's so funny lmao
Don’t underestimate the effort that goes into making drinks!!
A lot of “Gen Z” terms are from AAVE and black culture btw! Gay culture as well but gay culture often appropriates black culture…
***WHEN YOU HOLD THE DOOR FOR SOMEONE AND THEY DON'T SAY THANK YOU***
just a damned nod of acknowledgement that someone did something nice for you! The people that just walk by like they're gd royalty so *of course* you held the door for them piss me off.
hate to be that person commenting on appearance not content, but i will not rest until i know where carly got her sweater from lol absolutely so cute!
Erin looks amazing in that dress, the red going with her hair and the black with her nails, gorgeous
It is a really cute/pretty dress. And looks great on her
@@lashonna She knows how to style for herself so dang well, you never see her wear something that isn't very complimentary to her
ONE OF MY FAVE PODCASTS! Congratulations Matt!!
About "I love that for you",unless its shown with genuine Enthusiasm, I Completely see it the way Matt does.
Lmaooo not AAVE being a pet peeve!
yeah, matt being problematic at least once in every episode is my pet peeve
I totally agree with Mike about the whole kid social media thing. Kids cannot give consent.
SO much has happened since they recorded this lmaooo
I also always notice when people say, "its not just that...". It's almost like being shut down for adding to conversation. I think my heightened awareness comes from the fact that I used to be very shy and barely talked & I had to work to gain the confidence to speak up. So now when I speak up & I'm ignored or brushed off, in my head I'm like FINE ILL JUST NEVER TALK AGAIN 😂 lmao. For some reason I don't think Matt used to be quiet/ shy but I'd love to hear his thoughts!
my comfort podcast. i love you guys
I agree with Matt 100%! I hate when people say “ it’s not just that”
Some topics I would like to see:
Spooky stories
Traditions
Sports
Christmas
Unpopular opinions
Death/afterlife
The future (time travel, what you think it will be like, inventions etc)
The USA (stereotypes, debunking stereotypes, cultural differences, traditions)
“And they have to take birth control” HAHAHAHA
My pet peeve is ppl saying “that’s fair” I feel like it’s condescending 😩
"Do we get an amber alert for that?" lmao Matt 😂
Congrats on the engagement, Matt!! 😍🎉 & you're TOTALLY such a wedding band guy 💍✨
I look forward for these episodes every Tuesday
I loved this ep 😂 you guys bounce off each other so well also congratulations Matt 🥳
I so get matt’s pet peeve one of my professors is very experienced in his field and he likes to show it off so whenever a student tries to participate in a topic or even answer a question HE ASKED he goes “it’s not just that” and totally dismisses them to the point where I don’t participate anymore cuz what’s the point?😑
I’m with Carly on saying the exact time. It’s currently 11:54.
My biggest pet peeve is when my sock(s) slip off of my heel in my shoe😤
okay but Erin's hair is soo pretty
crazy watching this the day after matt's wedding !!
well its not just that matt, i wanted to say congrats on the engagement too!
the queen😂😂😂
I, for one, appreciate the Bye Bye Birdie reference 👍
I’m experiencing the same thing with the “it’s not just that” conversations. From two co workers.
Congrats Matt ❤️💍 So happy for you and Patricia ❤️
A as a someone that makes food at a sandwich shop if I give someone an allergen that they’re sensitive to they need to say so. We need to be made aware when we’re fucking up in that way
Slow walkers are a pet peeve of mine as well . I'm nice enough to walk behind them slowly but the whole time I'm yelling at them in my head . Might just need to be more assertive on my part but that's hard to even think about
I totally agree with being punctual. It's respecting others' time
dudee this podcast is awesome! ⭐️ u all bring something wonderful to the table 🍽️ 🎙️
You can hold down on a voice note and it opens up as a “video” or whatever and you can pause or fast forward and you can save it like that
I feel like the whole episode Erin was just defending all the things she does 😂 like it’s ok to do these things and it annoy ppl lol
People being late is one of my BIGGEST pet peeves. It’s so disrespectful, ESPECIALLY when it’s a common thing by said person.
I LOVEDDDDD this episode !!!!!
heath says its not just that all the time haha
I love the “it’s not just that” point, I didn’t think it would grind anyone else’s gears because I thought I was just reallly dumb and that’s why it was said to me a lot but if Matt gets it then I know the people that say it are just pricks 😂
HAHAH I was the one who sent in the singing submission. I don’t like when people sing randomly like when they are a big theater kid and that’s all they do all day or like you guys said “ am I a good singer?” Type singing.
I’m one of the people who has a pet peeve with loud chewing but also have adhd so I’ll blame it on that lol
The last podcast on irrational fears literally manifested me getting trapped in an elevator. 3 days after I listened to the episode I stepped into my friend’s apartments elevator with two strangers and 10 seconds after the doors closed we felt a jerk and a clanking sound and next thing we know we are calling the help line to be rescued. Sooo thankful it was only 3 of us trapped in there and we were only stuck for about 30 min because it’s a pretty busy apartment complex with 18 floors but seriously what are the damn odds that the first time I get trapped in one is after listening to your podcast?! Can your next topic be about winning the lotto so that i can manifest that instead? 😂
no stopppp, 2 days after that episode an elevator caught fire at my university and its all I could think about
Carly does the exact time thing come from working at Target? When I worked at the mall if it was 9:59 and we open at 10 and someone wanted to come in, they waited a minute lol
I say “tbh” 😅😅😅 no idea when I started doing it but now it’s a habit
When I say "love that for you" I'm like I WOULD NEVER BUT GOOD LUCK HOMIE
What do you guys think about some thing I heard from a productive high performance motivational guy (I can’t remember who)..
If someone is late yes it’s “wasting your time” but ultimately it’s your job to make sure you are being as productive with your time as possible. So if someone’s 10 minutes late you can use that time going through and responding to emails, Reading an article, Setting up an appointment (doctor, nails, hair etc.), calling a friend and chatting for a few mins. simple, quick and small tasks that we have on our to do lists to be more mindful w the time we spend waiting. I realize it’s rude to make someone late but it made me rethink it a little instead of waiting on someone and just scrolling mindlessly on my phone for 10-15 mins.
congratulations matt and pat !! 🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️
Carly, I’m obsessed with your sweater!! Where is it from??
Patricia and Matt are couple goals💕💕
CONGRATS TO MATT AND PATRICIA 🤗🤗🤗❤❤❤❤❤😊
If I left my lights on my dad would take my light bulbs out 😂
I wanna share this bc not many people know!! ARFID is an Eating Disorder that is picky/sensory eating. ARFID means Avoidant/Restricted Food Intake Disorder. Most people who have this eat like a “child” (which can be demeaning to some people), some people have trauma with food. I have ARFID, my personal experience I have mainly sensory problems meaning textures weird me out, sight, smell it all just makes me uncomfortable. Do your own research if you wanna learn more but just wanted to share.
Please link the shirts
I listen to THIS podcast while I shop
Not mat talking shit about unfiltered 😂
Pet peeve for me is when a streaming platform doesn't include all the movies of a franchise. Like paranormal activity the latest one is on Canadian Netflix, then you wanna watch all the others ones too but all they got is the one movie.
Early gang! Great hair Mike!
Omg so excited for this pod!!
I agree with the exact time thing. Doesn’t really bother me, just a preference. If it’s me I read the exact time. Always have a digital watch.
Carly carrying the pods peruse
Carly, if you ever wanna sell that shirt, I love it!!!
When I had chicken in Italy it did taste very odd "I assume it was just more real than the chicken here in America" but I didn't complain
I ask what’s happening during movies/shows 😭 I like to make conversations. Unless I’m in a theater or watching with a crowd. But if I’m comfortable, I’ll ask questions 😭
LOL great episode! But uhm y’all if you are spending money at a restaurant and the food comes with things specially asked to have without..it’s getting sent back for sure !
This was filmed on 8th September and they uploaded it after 1.5 months. 😱
yeah, Matt had appendicitis and then had to recover and then I think went out of the country and had to get back before they could do the whole proposal so they just held the episode until afterward
As a bartender at vail Colorado. It does not take 30-60seconds to remake a drink. I have 15 ppl in front of you.