Is It Worth the Wait? (w/ Stephanie Ike, Sarah Jakes Roberts & Essence Atkins)

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  • Опубликовано: 6 май 2020
  • Waiting is apart of our everyday lives, every desire we have is attached to a wait. On this Same Room Special Episode, Sarah Jakes Roberts and Essence Atkins join Stephanie Ike to discuss how we live between the gap of our desire and whether or not it’s fulfilled. Sarah Jakes Roberts is the founder of Woman Evolve, a movement designed to empower women to shatter the glass ceilings that once limited their ability to dream, grow, and change the world. Essence Atkins, is an actress we all know and love. From the Cosby Show, to Smart Guy, and Half and Half, she has continuously graced our screens teaching us the beautiful complexities that come out of family life, all the while off screen, being a woman who leads a life putting God first.
    In this episode they will discuss how their seasons of waiting proved to be the place that held the keys to unlock their purpose.
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  • @TheSameRoom
    @TheSameRoom  4 года назад +213

    Follow @thesameroom on all social media platforms

    • @msavery_4521
      @msavery_4521 4 года назад +11

      Wow! Amazing content!!! Like literally helping me in the place that I am now.

    • @vuyondudane1310
      @vuyondudane1310 3 года назад +1

      This is so true

    • @deliaadams5
      @deliaadams5 3 года назад

      Complete Confirmation

    • @deliaadams5
      @deliaadams5 3 года назад +3

      Seeing the HANDPRINT of GOD in the Waiting🎯

    • @BrandyBB
      @BrandyBB 3 года назад +2

      i wish i can get on this show and tell my story of how i overcame some things.

  • @sodivinemagazine5593
    @sodivinemagazine5593 3 года назад +1034

    “When you are in your lowest moment, find someone to serve, because it reminds you, that you still have something to give.”

  • @KieshaDoubleU
    @KieshaDoubleU 4 года назад +1557

    “God is so for me that he would protect me from myself”🙌🏾 a Word.

    • @lovelight333
      @lovelight333 4 года назад +9

      Lakiesha Haralson I felt this you said the word I couldn’t find thank you 🙏🏾

    • @mercyannan1027
      @mercyannan1027 4 года назад +3

      This same sentence sync so well with my spirit.

    • @kathy2842
      @kathy2842 4 года назад +9

      Oh my you're so right. I've wanted things so badly to happen and after staving off of it for so long, I've rushed into it for God to still distant that thing or situation from me; as to say; "I'm YOUR FATHER and I've said NO.

    • @lilz97xoxo5
      @lilz97xoxo5 4 года назад +3

      When she said that, man did it hit me to the CORE🙏🏽😭

    • @itslove6168
      @itslove6168 4 года назад +6

      Yes! I had to pause the video and write that awesome truth down!

  • @goldengirl7625
    @goldengirl7625 4 года назад +226

    I didn’t realize Sarah Jake Roberts was only 31, she extremely wise beyond her years and exudes a high level of maturity and confidence. It’s incredible and she is a huge inspiration to me.

    • @zakiahart3919
      @zakiahart3919 2 года назад +4

      I know right? she is anointed that's what it is..

    • @tamikamiller1895
      @tamikamiller1895 Год назад +3

      You won't believe Stephanie as well this 2023 and Stephanie has just turn 30

  • @chumabanjwa4662
    @chumabanjwa4662 4 года назад +580

    I love how Stephanie Ike asks her questions and then steps back to listen and let her guests speak. She doesn't feel the need to insert herself or her story at every turn of the interview. Lovely interview!

    • @samanthagabbudon4559
      @samanthagabbudon4559 4 года назад +33

      I've never watched an interview that's so amazingly organic, with the host asking such authentic questions and listening to both women speaking openly with substance and wisdom.

    • @audreysamuels6077
      @audreysamuels6077 4 года назад +2

      very true.

    • @michelleherbst9866
      @michelleherbst9866 3 года назад +15

      Your comment is so point on because all the other ppl would insert their stories like they are being interviewed by themselves.

    • @irma7133
      @irma7133 3 года назад +2

      Yes very nice , not interrupting them .

    • @oprih8634
      @oprih8634 3 года назад

      Yea...she's doing it so beautiful

  • @mdrenewed
    @mdrenewed 4 года назад +670

    "When we become stagnant, just like water, we start to stink." That was deep. 🙏🏾🙌🏾

    • @mayaewing
      @mayaewing 4 года назад +14

      It's amazing how we can listen to the same interview and hear or resonate with different points. Because I didn't even hear this statement during the interview.

    • @mdrenewed
      @mdrenewed 4 года назад +2

      @@mayaewing about 3:05

    • @nicolaosborne763
      @nicolaosborne763 4 года назад +2

      That part stood out to me, because I watched this video today. However, yesterday on instagram I used a similar analogy- this had me clapping and saying Amen 🙏

    • @dionnelong
      @dionnelong 4 года назад +3

      Keep moving. Amen.

    • @Anonymous-pd1jr
      @Anonymous-pd1jr 4 года назад +2

      I loved how she said that too. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @ashleiellzey9074
    @ashleiellzey9074 4 года назад +894

    I’m definitely going to start using “How is your Heart” instead of “How are you doing” ❤️

    • @annenoel4171
      @annenoel4171 4 года назад +17

      Ashlei Ellzey or I also like how is your mental state?

    • @laradada4080
      @laradada4080 4 года назад +34

      It's so interesting how this question can lead to deeper conversation. I asked a male friend of mine how he was doing this morning and he said he was doing good. About an hour later, I remembered this question and asked him how his heart was. He then told me that he wasn't doing too well and has been feeling lonely. He lives out of state and has been social distancing alone at home. Glad I was able to provide extra emotional support by asking this question!

    • @KelahCash
      @KelahCash 4 года назад +28

      My friend- years ago- always started asking me, "How is your soul, darling?" And I was so thankful for the work God did in her that gave her the utterance to ask such a beautiful and intentional question. ♥️

    • @alanawilliams3422
      @alanawilliams3422 4 года назад +7

      I am also going to use that...it really makes you stop and think before being quick to respond to " How are you doing".

    • @Journey_together2024
      @Journey_together2024 4 года назад +1

      Same to me 😊

  • @Shay.bae92
    @Shay.bae92 3 года назад +316

    God woke me up at 4:44 am this morning and I couldn’t go back to sleep. Prayed a little and God brought me to this video. I am currently in waiting, pruning, cocooning season. Even when I feel my loneliest he lets me know he is right here.

    • @Stacey_Mae
      @Stacey_Mae 3 года назад

      I watched your show Essence

    • @lovegrace3719
      @lovegrace3719 3 года назад +3

      Rest in Hope!🙂❤

    • @acharich
      @acharich 3 года назад

      🔥💎🔥

    • @jaybee4757
      @jaybee4757 3 года назад

      Amen

    • @adarijohnson
      @adarijohnson 2 года назад +3

      Be careful. Some ppl say Angel numbers are demonic.

  • @shirlynmwangi5736
    @shirlynmwangi5736 4 года назад +494

    In this interview, Essence sounds like she is really going through a tough period, God bless her soul, please give her the strength and wisdom to push through this season in her life. Essence, you are loved by the Almighty, all these worldly struggles are temporary...

    • @bonniedavis5342
      @bonniedavis5342 4 года назад +74

      I got the sense that Essence is truly becoming more of who God has intended her to be....embracing her true identity in Christ..i heard the sweetness of her love relationship with the Father! Sweet and Powerful!

  • @ashleynorman40
    @ashleynorman40 4 года назад +788

    Stephanie Ike is an Excellent Interviewer, She has a gift, I love her flow!

    • @neglibre6916
      @neglibre6916 4 года назад +6

      Ashley Norman Indeed, thank you for stating it.

    • @simplydiiane4175
      @simplydiiane4175 4 года назад +23

      Yes!!! Anointed! She wants people healed. The questions she asked were so good and caused the interviewees to go deep And get to the root of some things- which helped me very much.

    • @MrChinnylee
      @MrChinnylee 4 года назад +13

      Stephanie Ike is gifted to hear the heart of the listener. She is a gifted speaker and an equally gifted moderator. I don't know her, but I want to highlight that she is critically needed as a bridge between the featured speaker and the audience. Her timing, reframing, and connection with the hungry heart in her audience are golden.

    • @tolufavour
      @tolufavour 4 года назад +1

      She is ... really beautiful flow at that

    • @latoyayoumans6625
      @latoyayoumans6625 4 года назад +1

      @@MrChinnylee I agree totally

  • @ilovepink21bk
    @ilovepink21bk 4 года назад +656

    Whoo when Essence speaks you can tell it's coming from such a beautiful place. Such wisdom.

    • @laradada4080
      @laradada4080 4 года назад +24

      She has such a beautiful soul! You can tell when one has spent quality time with Jesus.

    • @speakintothemicb
      @speakintothemicb 4 года назад +19

      I am just waiting for her book and podcast. I would read and listen. 💙

    • @monicaivy2497
      @monicaivy2497 4 года назад +17

      I would love to have all these women in my circle. Essence lives her name, even in the space/place she is privately in right now - she speaks from a place of peace, calm and eloquence.

    • @annvaughn8974
      @annvaughn8974 4 года назад +7

      Yes yes

    • @ckinhimdaily
      @ckinhimdaily 4 года назад +11

      And Essence's segment is a blessing in the 2020 documentary, "Behind Her Faith". She is waiting well. I am in the period of waiting myself. I am waiting well. I have done my assessment.

  • @AndreC8915
    @AndreC8915 4 года назад +618

    This wasn’t just an interview, this was an anointed conversation. And so RIGHT ON TIME. Thank you ladies 🙏🏾❤️

  • @jpierreabi
    @jpierreabi 3 года назад +124

    Why is this not trending? Three powerful women in one room🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @Redlipz_chick
    @Redlipz_chick 4 года назад +749

    I need so much more of these types of conversations. They just feed my soul. I wish I could have these types of convos with family and friends.

    • @daughterofzion8305
      @daughterofzion8305 4 года назад +36

      God will bring people for you to be transparent with
      Most importantly be transparent with God In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth amen

    • @thegoddess7297
      @thegoddess7297 4 года назад +12

      I wish the same! I literally started the channel Alexxa Vonn because I desired this kind of community.

    • @kristajennings4015
      @kristajennings4015 4 года назад +20

      These kinds of conversations are soulful.

    • @JustineMfulama
      @JustineMfulama 4 года назад +17

      Amen! These conversations are so important. Women coming together to build each other up!

    • @stephaniefletcher5047
      @stephaniefletcher5047 4 года назад +17

      You know why? Because women need women. We esteem each other, we protect each other and correct each other. Hhuum....isn’t that what sister’s do.

  • @maureenmutua6865
    @maureenmutua6865 4 года назад +720

    Sarah has a wealth of knowledge and wisdom far behold her years which is a blessing.

    • @Mzzsantanasworld
      @Mzzsantanasworld 4 года назад +18

      Maureen Mutua Agreed! She's helped me a whole lot on my spiritual journey. Sarah made God feel safe again for me.

    • @bernicecherfrere7736
      @bernicecherfrere7736 4 года назад +4

      Her story reminds me of the ministry of RC Blakes, Jr. & how God is using his wisdom to bless people all over the world! It's amazing. May God continue to bless y'all.

    • @houseofkindnessbathseda4351
      @houseofkindnessbathseda4351 4 года назад

      True

    • @ishah999
      @ishah999 4 года назад

      *beyond

    • @Unapologeticallyme89
      @Unapologeticallyme89 4 года назад +1

      No lies, you would think she is way older than she is with the knowledge and wisdom she has.

  • @GoziTV
    @GoziTV 4 года назад +113

    “The wait is on purpose for a purpose “ wow 💛💛💛

    • @vickie3359
      @vickie3359 4 года назад

      you should 'wait' loool

    • @alishadennis17
      @alishadennis17 3 года назад +1

      It's our fathers good pleasure to bless those that he loves 💘 is bible!!!

    • @alishadennis17
      @alishadennis17 3 года назад +1

      @@vickie3359 check out brother Tony Haskins a Christian man who gives women advice & guidance in living our purpose, being joy filled, & making wise decisions on dating & or marraige with the quality, respectful, kind, living, responsible, Christian man that God wants to bless to be in your life too.
      To not feel & act on being desperate or settling for the messy, nonchristian, lame, abusive wrong man.
      How to remove & avoid wrong men being in your life either.
      Men if all colors not of one color has been turned on to date, 💘 love & marry women if Color even more now too.
      Don't limit God or your self by color. Make character, intentions, respect, love & purpose be a guide to size up & judge a man that God sends you.

    • @chantelllewis1213
      @chantelllewis1213 3 года назад

      Yes! WOW!❤

  • @mybrwnisbeautifulhin1165
    @mybrwnisbeautifulhin1165 3 года назад +166

    Can we take the time to acknowledge how excellent the interviewer is . She was so engaged and thorough with her questions that she squeezed everything out of them.

    • @EvinNazya
      @EvinNazya 3 года назад +5

      right! such a good model for me as I practice for my own podcast!

    • @naomilaw3969
      @naomilaw3969 Год назад +4

      Stephanie Ike is also an anointed speaker on her own. What beautiful and powerful women.

    • @islandpunch9465
      @islandpunch9465 7 месяцев назад

      @@naomilaw3969 i adore and love stephanie

  • @IrieMarie22
    @IrieMarie22 4 года назад +348

    ESSENCE BETTER BE A PRAYER WARRIOR!!!She prays in the secret place!!!and 48 where??!!

  • @anyonnassong3948
    @anyonnassong3948 4 года назад +333

    "...God is so for me that he would protect me from myself." - Essence 🙌🏾😭💜

  • @DearFutureWifey
    @DearFutureWifey 3 года назад +92

    I'm so glad that the world gets to hear and see my friend Essence in this depth. Essence has a pure heart for God. I've watched Sarah evolve from a 13 year old into a giant in the ministry. She is so dope. I've never heard of Stephanie but she will not be forgotten. She is not only a gifted interviewer but an anointed woman of God.

  • @JustineMfulama
    @JustineMfulama 4 года назад +143

    YOOOOOOO "When we are waiting on something that we believe is gonna give us more worth or value, and we don’t receive it than it takes away from our worth or value!" BOOM! If that is not a word. I loved that sentence. It speaks exactly to the problem. That too often we desire something like a man or relationships because we believe it adds to our value as women and then when we don't get it we compare ourselves to others, thinking we are inferior or a failure. But Sarah is right IF YOU ARE BREATHING, YOU ARE VALUABLE!

  • @emergenation9662
    @emergenation9662 4 года назад +678

    This is better than Red Table talk. We need MORE of this ladies. Love it!

    • @faithkayy
      @faithkayy 4 года назад +5

      Emerge Nation real wisdom right here👌🏾

    • @angeljosephs30
      @angeljosephs30 4 года назад +6

      Yess so over jada 😒

    • @ayeeshahm9078
      @ayeeshahm9078 4 года назад +93

      Emerge Nation why compare the 2? They speak to different audiences & serve parallel purposes while both being dope & impactful

    • @ceciliaatogembasia8222
      @ceciliaatogembasia8222 4 года назад +27

      That's not true. Red table talk and this is beautiful too.

    • @teresa28ist
      @teresa28ist 4 года назад +33

      @@ceciliaatogembasia8222 I love Red Table Talk. I definitely don't want Jada to stop pouring out her power into us. I know everyone has an opinion but the comment bothered me because it has been hard for black women and now black women have found their voices and I don't want them to lose their voice.

  • @onika284
    @onika284 4 года назад +191

    “Understand that the power of waiting is not about the guaranteed that what you want will be fulfilled rather the guarantee that we will find ourselves. Who we are will be revealed and who God has called us to be will be revealed” 💡 Thank you for blessing us with James 1:4

  • @danyalej5054
    @danyalej5054 4 года назад +179

    It makes me smile seeing Essence love for God.. 🥰 don’t see that too much in Hollywood!

    • @lahndee2020
      @lahndee2020 3 года назад +3

      And as crazy as it is that's why you don't see her in Hollywood much. She always seemed to have that pure genuine spirit. She seems to have such a good ❤

    • @ms.gracefullybroken8724
      @ms.gracefullybroken8724 2 года назад

      If I’m not mistaken, she’s a minister

  • @rorisangmaneo629
    @rorisangmaneo629 3 года назад +68

    When Essence said “waiting on myself with patience and not keeping a record of all my wrongs”
    Shuuu sis 🙆🏾‍♀️ read me then

  • @livinlovinleo9496
    @livinlovinleo9496 4 года назад +104

    “ In order for us to enjoy the glory of the resurrection we have to be prepared to endure the persecution of the cross! “ That is a whole sermon by itself! ✝️🔥

  • @solangegarcia536
    @solangegarcia536 4 года назад +116

    "There is nothing outside of you that would help anchor you within"

    • @LoveAlways1002
      @LoveAlways1002 4 года назад +5

      I read your comment while listening and scrolling....I'm only at the 2:52 mark & I could pause and cry with this one quote 😭😭😭😭❤❤❤❤

  • @615BlackBarbie
    @615BlackBarbie 4 года назад +131

    *Essence* is a woman who can look through Muddy water and see dry land. Just like myself. I know her spirit. She's not for Play Play

  • @marylenarouse856
    @marylenarouse856 4 года назад +111

    Loved how Essence Atkins said "Wait Well", that truly blessed my life.

  • @jemimajanvier4706
    @jemimajanvier4706 4 года назад +197

    I’m a student and I’ve been praying to God for scholarships for about a year. I’m still waiting and lately it’s been very discouraging and just confusing, especially in the midst of this pandemic where I really need help because my parents won’t be able to help with my tuition. Every time I think that that I’m qualified for something, it seems that someone else receives it. I was scrolling through Instagram and I found a post for this podcast. This is what I need🙌🏾

    • @melissajackson7576
      @melissajackson7576 4 года назад +13

      Hey, know that God is faithful. Everything is in His timing because when you are bless with your scholarship..you will know that it was all God and give Him all the glory. Cast your cares upon Him for he cares for you....1 Perter 5:7

    • @naturallygifted2002
      @naturallygifted2002 4 года назад +11

      Jemima Janvier, God is definitely using you unceasing prayer to draw you closer to him. And you’re not qualify because God has the greatest and best qualification for you. So take courage that show ears are not deaf and He’s has the best for you. So I encourage you to keep praying and reminding faithful. Because He’s true to His word. Also inquire of Him as to what vocation He’ll have you to take as well. God bless.

    • @ebonysharee
      @ebonysharee 4 года назад +33

      Oh sis I've been where you are but the waiting is NOT in vain. I didn't have money for school the first year of school. I had saved up right after highschool half my income from my summer job and had gotten small scholarships from applications i applied to but not enough to cover a full year. Couldn't get the parent plus loan. Ohhhhh but God. One day at my old church the pastor had mentioned someone was in need of financial breakthrough and at first, I was hesitant to go up but then, I went anyway. I was the only one and he prayed over me. Not long After that my cousin let me know that a colleague of his was looking to sponsor another college student
      Girl He took care of tuition groceries books And place to stay. I am not in deep debt because of that blessing. God was faithful and the back pay of my balance on student loans was paid! All the scholarships I was applying for wasn't coming through my school but God had a ram in the bush. He is faithful, be encouraged.

    • @lizmago7477
      @lizmago7477 4 года назад +9

      I'm in the same boat and I'm hoping for a miracle, l know God will definitely come through for us

    • @DaGoodVybe
      @DaGoodVybe 4 года назад +1

      Jemima Janvier you got this‼️🙏

  • @adeolaadebagbo4098
    @adeolaadebagbo4098 4 года назад +182

    The lady interviewing is so beautiful inwardly and outwardly too. Love your
    hair color

    • @angelinajosina6247
      @angelinajosina6247 4 года назад +11

      Right ❤ her name is Stephanie Ike, you can search her and watch her sermons , they always leave me at awe😭

    • @blessedhighlyfavored9458
      @blessedhighlyfavored9458 3 года назад +1

      @@angelinajosina6247 She’s Nigerian and her sermons are filled with lots of sense of humor 🙏🏾🥰!

  • @mhenderson3407
    @mhenderson3407 4 года назад +108

    The interviewer did a great job! She obviously did her research - asking insightful questions and nicely transitioning the flow of the conversation from topic to topic. Well done! Such a good mix of classiness and intelligence!

  • @nicollepasquel
    @nicollepasquel 4 года назад +202

    This ENTIRE interview just changed my WHOLE life. I literally needed this today!!

    • @audreysamuels6077
      @audreysamuels6077 4 года назад +2

      me too

    • @alishadennis17
      @alishadennis17 3 года назад +1

      God bless you lovely & be lifted up & have answered prayer cause God wants you blessed with truth, wisdom, knowledge, joy, peace, protection & power in your life!!!

  • @MsAurelieBib
    @MsAurelieBib 4 года назад +274

    Stephanie is such a great host, asking great questions too🙌🏾

    • @JustineMfulama
      @JustineMfulama 4 года назад +5

      RIGHT! I wish it was a podcast. Would listen to it on my morning runs!

    • @sweettoothmarie7304
      @sweettoothmarie7304 4 года назад +7

      So true..i love a host that takes time to listen to the response..

    • @chevyd9221
      @chevyd9221 4 года назад

      @@JustineMfulama the same room is a podcast and this episode is on spotify not sure about other outlets

  • @angelantukantu3529
    @angelantukantu3529 4 года назад +130

    Surrender to His will and allow yourself to be vulnerable in His calling for you. ❤️

  • @Zandim.m
    @Zandim.m 4 года назад +65

    Wow! God directed me to this conversation for sure. I so yearn for this type of circle in my life right now.

  • @bdavis470
    @bdavis470 4 года назад +20

    You're often as loyal as your options- Essence ⭐⭐⭐

  • @saquoiag
    @saquoiag 4 года назад +72

    Her introduction to her Pastor and Essence was so wonderful!

  • @ladyfaith7937
    @ladyfaith7937 4 года назад +144

    Woah! The amount of JEWELS just dropped in this video was a blessing! So on time with everything! So looking forward to more content! Anyone that come across this video, I pray you are filled. Your cup will run over. In Jesus Name! ❤️

  • @daintydetails
    @daintydetails 3 года назад +52

    I had to pause this video a couple of times and simply relish at their gentle beauty. It reminded me of 1 Peter 3:3-4. There is a quietness to all three of them that invites you to lean in and want to know more at their feet. There is kindness in their eyes and love in their smiles. I thoroughly enjoyed this interview!!!! I felt affirmed, seen, advised, and shown Godly peaceful beauty.

  • @MargeryHannah
    @MargeryHannah 4 года назад +76

    This is fantastic. The interviewer is one of the best I've see; she really did her research. Sarah is wise; sitting there looking like the perfect balance of both her parents. And Essence--what a smart woman; refreshing to hear an actress of faith speak. God bless all three of you gorgeous women. I am going to watch this with my daughters later.

    • @maelainelopez9317
      @maelainelopez9317 2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much I really relate in your topic today. God bless from Philippines

  • @belindadaniel-oginga929
    @belindadaniel-oginga929 4 года назад +84

    OMG! This is my word! I can barely hold back the tears in the break room here at work. My husband passed in 2015 when he was living with another woman. Ive been so bitter and so hurt and yet so lonely for him. So much has happened. I NEVER thought about this as a period of waiting and assessment and preparation for better in losing all that I lost. PRAISE BE TO GOD! look at Him work. I see that I need to just be thankful for what he has delivered me from. And what He is going to deliver me into. Thank you ladies. Thank you for your honesty, vulnerability, and for your obedience to God. You inspire and encourage me. I so needed that. My soul needed that. I pray that my first thought is always, “thank you, God!” 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

  • @Mzzsantanasworld
    @Mzzsantanasworld 4 года назад +256

    This was such a great interview! 3 intelligent women of God being authentic and raw! I needed to hear this message today. Essence’s prayer at the end was so beautifully prayed. I declare in the name of Jesus that my waiting is not in vain.

    • @royaldominionauthorityglob4813
      @royaldominionauthorityglob4813 4 года назад +7

      Right I cried! Lol this was indeed powerful and for me. I don't have an issue with waiting but my issue is walking in my office/calling of Prophecy. I was bold before but it feels as if I have been stripped. But I feel my help coming on by continuously watching stuff like this that will continue to uplift and empower me so that I may and will arose to the occasion. There is a lost and dieing world out here that needs to hear my voice and what God will have me to say to His people. Pray for me if you believe in Christ Jesus. We all have to bear our cross. And I'm praying for you all as well.

    • @JustineMfulama
      @JustineMfulama 4 года назад +4

      Amen. It's not in vain. We just need to focus on the unseesn.

    • @itslove6168
      @itslove6168 4 года назад +2

      Amen! Everything that our Father does is for a purpose.

    • @alishadennis17
      @alishadennis17 3 года назад

      I think you will be blessed by checking out Tony Haskins channel for women on how Christian women can lift up their lives by 😂 joyful & prepared to make good choices, plans with good results for dating & deciding on quality Christian men alone being in your life & who is the one God has for you.
      He also shares who to leave or put out of your life & live holy not in sin while dating only Christian, respectful, responsible, kind, loving, righteous men only & not settle for dogs & not feel desperate but confident, valued & blessed.
      Men of all colors are available & want women of color more than ever as our blessings from God so be open to love not just one color of man to love you today!!!
      Tony Haskins helps from his marraige & annointing, advice & counseling if you want to get that too!
      Big hugs, be blessed with love & more in Jesus name, Amen!!! 😳😉😊😀💝🏠😍😍🎈🎉🎊🎈

    • @alishadennis17
      @alishadennis17 3 года назад

      @@royaldominionauthorityglob4813 please Check out Tony Gaskins channel for women to bless you with dating & marriage advice & living a blessed life & being prepared for dates & marraige God has for you soon!!!
      Preacher Rufus-faith Generations ministry prays 🙏 for marraige too.
      In Jesus name receive the resources to assist you & have a quality, holy, good husband soon & serve God ❤ TOGETHER, Amen!!!

  • @keishac484
    @keishac484 2 года назад +38

    “Winning him would have cost me to lose myself”
    God I thank you so much for protecting me from what I thought I wanted 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽

    • @miawilson2896
      @miawilson2896 Год назад +4

      I'm currently in this season and it's painful but God promised to sustain me and he's been faithful.
      I realize that God blesses us through some disappointments and would protect us even from ourselves. That's how much he loves us. It's not easy but to any person who is this season, trust God. Trust his process. Trust his plan for you.

  • @aishakennedy2366
    @aishakennedy2366 4 года назад +45

    Beautiful women of God ... encouraging other women of God ... being transparent and sharing their stories. What a blessing!

  • @thejourneytolovingme8336
    @thejourneytolovingme8336 4 года назад +21

    My dad use to tell me the same thing, to stop looking down I had nothing to be ashamed of, it wasn't that i was ashamed of something, it was that i wasn't confident in myself at all.

  • @lizmago7477
    @lizmago7477 4 года назад +51

    We are only a heartbreak away from bitterness

  • @ireenemmah595
    @ireenemmah595 4 года назад +14

    Selfishness during the waiting period.
    "Everything that we are opportune to experience is about the responsibility of the blessing and not about the satisfaction of receiving it"

  • @deborahigiraneza6110
    @deborahigiraneza6110 3 года назад +34

    I usually don't do comments but I loved this sisterhood interview. It reminds me of the verse that says "Many are the plans in man's heart but God's purpose prevails." May God bless you.

  • @tatrask2
    @tatrask2 4 года назад +53

    'Work Ethic" was profound to me but I've found that my work ethic is similar to my spiritual growth effort. I've done a little but wanted a lot. Self assessment has become my posture as I learn to do Colossians 3:1-2 - "Set my mind on things above." Thanks and God bless all of you.

  • @hangingwithmo8126
    @hangingwithmo8126 4 года назад +54

    Room full of anointed women❤️❤️❤️

  • @coffeenomilk
    @coffeenomilk 4 года назад +36

    This is such a beautiful video. Bringing so much clarity for me and I was thinking the whole time like whew I can't wait to meet women like the three of you because you are just so phenomenal, radiant, blessed and mature but i'm realizing that if I want to meet such people with such qualities, I'd have to attract them and to attract, I'd have to BE them and I'm only 19 but the desire to be this phenomenal and inspirational is huge. You ladies are doing a whole lot and God is using you mightily.. talk about goals!!

    • @purpleluvsbestofme8374
      @purpleluvsbestofme8374 3 года назад +4

      I really like you perspective on attracting women that you want around by being that woman!! And at such a young age with that great mindset, if you really put it into action God will take you places with the right women that are aligned with you in HIM! Blessings!

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk 3 года назад

      @@purpleluvsbestofme8374 Amen!! Thank you x

  • @EA-yx9rv
    @EA-yx9rv 3 года назад +8

    "Everything we experience serves the purpose of God." #thatpart

  • @tawanda3333
    @tawanda3333 4 года назад +102

    Who else was waiting for Pastor Sarah to look directly in the camera and say "I don't know who this is for..but I hear God saying".... lol I'm just throwing jokes...but anyway...I enjoyed this conversation.

  • @tolufavour
    @tolufavour 4 года назад +38

    That prayer led by Essence Atkins was beautiful 😍 God bless her

  • @teresa28ist
    @teresa28ist 4 года назад +37

    Essence you are dropping gems chile!

  • @godswilllaks1530
    @godswilllaks1530 4 года назад +57

    The intro? Never idolize men , learn from them, give glory to God and then look beyond them .

    • @alisiasaffore9461
      @alisiasaffore9461 4 года назад +3

      That!!!

    • @alishadennis17
      @alishadennis17 3 года назад +4

      The quality & character of a man is what should be the priority not just his color or even pay check.
      🙏 pray be ready 😊 joy filled in your life & purposeful for God so the one man that's for you can serve God with each other & act on both your Godly purpose in life as the Lord guides!!!! Sooner we are ready we can be blessed & not settle for wrong, UNGODLY, abusive, lame, cheaters & the irresponsible kind who want sex out side of marraige & have responsibility on our women's backs & bad experience we have to recover from again!!!!! Wrong men often don't help with life or give very little help.
      There is great suffering from the affair & the wrong man God didn't send to us ladies some fool who we have sadly allowed in our precious valuable lives that God him self wants more for black women to have & not reach low
      For & accept just to be pulled down by when better is waiting.
      Make plans & standards for your self, a man or friend who is let in your life's journey & please dont settled for less & sadly suffer for when you can & could be wiser be around quality people where they are & have them in your life & keep building on that.
      Remove toxic, negative, losers & jealous fools from your life!!! Replace them monthly with a quality person you can learn from enjoy & trust & love your self & them with respect & honesty or replace them quickly. Even move with your new change & a new school or job too. Planning, timing,
      Good choices are real for our lives to have good or tore up messy lives. It's our choice to do & have good results!!!!😊😀😍
      Bad & messy connections aren't worth it, so lets get wisdom & prepare while we wait. Let our wait & growing season strengthens us to
      Chose good & get mostly good results by God's ways, word & guidance!!!
      Check Tony Haskins & his wife's ministry on women's lives being blessed for God's will &
      Ready for your Christian, quality, kind, respectful man who wants & will befriend, date & marry you!!!!😳😢😊😃😍🏡💝
      & be prepared for your blessing & husband!!

    • @godswilllaks1530
      @godswilllaks1530 3 года назад +1

      @@alishadennis17 Amazing , thank you .

    • @kimgibbs6585
      @kimgibbs6585 3 года назад +5

      Your undoubtedly and absolutely correct. Put God first and yourself second. Now that's a fact. And the
      best investment in life one can make. Remain spiritually hungry for God for eternity. Blessings to you

    • @godswilllaks1530
      @godswilllaks1530 3 года назад +2

      @@kimgibbs6585 Wow!
      God bless you too.

  • @thedurants
    @thedurants 4 года назад +56

    Waiting makes us feel the pain... 👏🏽

  • @Onalenna_Thobega
    @Onalenna_Thobega 4 года назад +35

    I love what Essence said - waiting patiently with ourselves! That’s self love guys. Love is also being patient with ourselves with who we are becoming! & also what Sarah said : waiting forces us to do thorough introspection!

  • @jenniferdevoe9372
    @jenniferdevoe9372 4 года назад +13

    I love transperancy ... Being a Bahamian, not all but many families sweep things under the rug or just plain ignore them !👑💜😔

  • @angelicashobby
    @angelicashobby 4 года назад +12

    I could listen to Essence all day. Genuine and clearly studious in the Word. Stephanie is superb, loved her introductions❤.

  • @American_Boy
    @American_Boy 4 года назад +148

    Man, that story Essence told about talking to that little kid at the party....man it gets me every time. So beautiful.

  • @daniellenicole6989
    @daniellenicole6989 4 года назад +42

    This was absolutely amazing! I pray God blesses me with friends I can just talk to...just like this. None of the surface things...the real life...HEART things 🙏🏾

  • @lesegostorom7779
    @lesegostorom7779 3 года назад +13

    I went through a divorce myself. Still healing from that. And also lost my ten year old autistic daughter. She was abducted and murdered. Healing and waiting. I am thankful that I have a relationship with God and thank God for the people who are there for me, through thick and thin. I agree ☝️ with you ladies on sisterhood and woman empowerment

  • @sophiaf.
    @sophiaf. 2 года назад +5

    Stephanie you are so beautiful. I loved how humble you are in this interview. Pastor Sarah simply anointed. Thank you 🙏🏾 Essence for your wisdom. May God bless all three of you ladies. In Jesus Name. Amen 🙏🏾.

  • @Latoija
    @Latoija 4 года назад +66

    I meannnnnnnnnnn THISSS!!!!! Was INCREDIBLE!!!

  • @kejuanlynette8531
    @kejuanlynette8531 4 года назад +33

    I love Ms.Stephanie Ike. She is inspirational and KIND!!!

  • @p.k.2773
    @p.k.2773 4 года назад +23

    I didn’t want it to end😭 So so good, and so timely, thank you for allowing God to use you all as vessels

  • @krissaca09
    @krissaca09 4 года назад +8

    Oh my. As soon as Essence started praying, the tears started rolling. It’s almost like it sounds like an angel is praying. Her voice is so soothing but her words are so powerful !

  • @athomewithjam3587
    @athomewithjam3587 4 года назад +71

    I needed this 😭 I am here listening and crying because this is what I needed

  • @ihumsIsaac
    @ihumsIsaac 4 года назад +33

    I literally felt the presence of God from just watching these women speak!

  • @makeda3591
    @makeda3591 4 года назад +7

    The wait is on purpose,for your purpose~Essence Definitely a reason why we all saw this video.

  • @zinhletshefu8225
    @zinhletshefu8225 3 года назад +6

    "God is so for me, that He'll even protect me from myself" wow!

  • @portiadladla3753
    @portiadladla3753 4 года назад +25

    "The wait is on purpose for your purpose" wow... So much wisdom from these beautiful ladies, 💕

  • @Africanq_
    @Africanq_ 4 года назад +39

    In my present season of waiting on God, I want to say thank you for this video ❤️

  • @evelynkosita-madu747
    @evelynkosita-madu747 3 года назад +6

    Thanks Essence for highlighting the need to "wait well".

  • @simp1eone
    @simp1eone 4 года назад +7

    Essence is super smart i love her, Sarah is an inspiration too

  • @kaylacausey
    @kaylacausey 4 года назад +33

    I love hearing Stephanie speak!

  • @estheraddo5437
    @estheraddo5437 4 года назад +51

    In a gathering of women so powerful, a discussion so simple has become a Whole Word 🔥

  • @millybadze2117
    @millybadze2117 3 года назад +10

    I didn’t stumble upon this by mistake GOD led me here!..wowww this blessed me sooooooooooooooooo much GOD richly bless you Stephanie, Essence and Sarah❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @bettywright4338
    @bettywright4338 3 года назад +7

    Another comment I’ve watched Essence on different shows, but I didn’t know she was a christian, what a blessing to hear her share her heart and soul, may good things her way.

  • @Testimonials_Cece
    @Testimonials_Cece 4 года назад +22

    "Wait Well" 🙌 being pruned is painful 😭😭😭 but thank God for this new perspective 🙏

  • @thejourneytolovingme8336
    @thejourneytolovingme8336 4 года назад +21

    That is so true, everything that is wrong with everyone started when they were a child, I can relate to that.

  • @patriciacampbell-rowe9403
    @patriciacampbell-rowe9403 4 года назад +11

    Essence wisdom is fantastic. She articulates, waiting so well!

  • @lizsitati9119
    @lizsitati9119 4 года назад +13

    This was amazing! Love from Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @nontobekombatha7909
    @nontobekombatha7909 4 года назад +29

    Part of this conversation has made me cry😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I'm learning to be vulnerable to my sisters as well❤️ Thank you ladies

  • @yellowmama89
    @yellowmama89 4 года назад +20

    Tears of hope and love are streaming down my face. BC God just keeps showing up in waves sending messages back to back to me on the issues of my heart. God never leaves me alone and when I submit my heart to him he always comes through to let me know He is meeting me where I am. I am humbled by this word and by the word I received from Dr. Dharius Daniel's today. When God shows up he pours his loving word on me guiding me into truth and helping me release the weight back onto him.

  • @jasmineboatema
    @jasmineboatema 4 года назад +18

    Wow Essence, every time you speak, it grips my heart. Wow I never expected this at all. God bless you all ladies.

  • @ramkeransusanann796
    @ramkeransusanann796 4 года назад +8

    Essence I love how you dress so modest.great example

  • @k.lorraine
    @k.lorraine 4 года назад +16

    Sarah is awesome no doubt but her husband is the one that helped shape my life so much, Toure speaks to my soul as soon as he opens his mouth

  • @laurab.2427
    @laurab.2427 4 года назад +11

    Stephanie is truly one of the best hosts I have seen in my 33yrs of age. God bless you! 🙏🏼

  • @anyangosylivia4546
    @anyangosylivia4546 3 года назад +1

    That prayer request is eye opening
    🙏🙏🙏

  • @aohio7186
    @aohio7186 4 года назад +4

    Thank you Ms. Stephanie for inviting this two blessed women to share their challenges, successes and wait in life. They are both godly and intelligent.

  • @rubymutegi694
    @rubymutegi694 4 года назад +11

    Me:( shouting that part in every part. )
    I loved these. God bless you.

  • @poohbear713
    @poohbear713 4 года назад +5

    I literally stayed strong the whole video until the end when Essence said she would tell herself “i am proud of you” . Being our worst critics can really take a toll and hearing that made me cry, bc i don’t hear it enough, and don’t get me started on that prayer ! This video was amazing and i felt so seen

  • @sharonnyamvula4618
    @sharonnyamvula4618 4 года назад +10

    it was like there were no cameras there and we were all eavesdropping on an intimate conversation between friends.

  • @fredricatowo6226
    @fredricatowo6226 4 года назад +7

    Powerful chat! I cried half way through 😪😪😪😪😪 reflecting on my personal journey to wanting a child after 4yrs of marriage. I was counting my years of waiting that I totally forgot bout the value of waiting.It now hit me hard to "wait well and to know its purpose."
    I'm struck by these 3 women of Faith 🙏 Bless your Heart ❤

  • @Destiny_detroitdoc
    @Destiny_detroitdoc 4 года назад +33

    THIS TALK YALL WAS HITTING EVERYTHING FOR ME HUNNIE! God sure did lead me to here! Thank you ladies for you transparency! I appreciate and value it! :) MUCH LOVE!

  • @Luwi
    @Luwi 4 года назад +31

    This was a fantastic interview. The interviewer asked great questions and had a good rapport with the guests. Fantastic guests, eloquent and thoughtful! 💕

  • @kwynkaq
    @kwynkaq 4 года назад +2

    Wow.....Essence. Wow! You can tell when a woman loves God and has spent time with Him.