It's not a blame thing at all. It's a symptom of something wrong in the relationship. Now the problem can be on either side. However, men can fix most of the potential problems. And total ownership is always a good position to be in because it means you can potentially fix it.
@@MarriageMoneyMindset your video kind of counters this reply. You made it sound like it was totally the man's fault. I agree that relationships go both ways, but this was not the case that you were describing.
@@MarriageMoneyMindset yes it is a blame thing that IS the point of the video. Your explaining why its OK to use sex as a manipulative reward system. Older women have waning sex drives due to lowering hormone levels starting in her late 20s early 30s. It is why men like women younger than this to have good relationships with. Men walk away from this, divorce her. You will never have peace if you start jumping through her hoops for affection. What are you a poodle? Move on gents, its not worth it any longer.
@@MarriageMoneyMindset For men I suggest avoiding women that use sex as some Pavlovian behavior control. Those women will always be critical and judging. Your life and peace will be at the mercy of her and her feelings. For women, I have no suggestions. All I can offer is not many of you are attractive as you age because your looks fade and what is left matters much more. Only the women that are really kind and compassionate look good with low collagen in their faces and a few extra pounds. The rest start looking like their fathers with longer hair. The good news is men as group are ready to find old, fat, contentious women attractive and suitable for long term relations IF the ladies will date shorter and broke men. :)
I agree that sex shouldn't be used as a manipulation too. This happens WAY too often and it's a crappy thing to do. And if a man allows the levels of sex to be contingent upon some kind of performance linked to something he does around the house for the wife, then he will be training her how to train him. Most people regardless of gender as a whole "let themselves go" after marriage. It's sad and frankly it's a bait and switch. I don't find it acceptable for either the man or the woman. But at the end of the day, I'm here to help marriages get better because they can be SO much more than they are...
@@MarriageMoneyMindset you seem to again blame the man for "training her how to train him". This type of advice is awful. You said that men have to "do the work" to have intimacy. Your whole outlook is exchanging treatment for sex. And the whole "maybe" a hormone is a "helper" and then saying you take testosterone is comical. Lady stop giving advice to others you are not helping anyone make their marriage better.
“It’s all on you”….perfect. Strong, independent, responsible…nope. It’s all on you, lol.
well, the solution is. Exit her.
That's one solution. But how will you know the same problem won't show up in another relationship?
Haha! It may get to that for sure.
@@MarriageMoneyMindset It will. Women do NOT learn. Until itis too late.
So, blame men. It's our fault. Same old excuses.
It's not a blame thing at all. It's a symptom of something wrong in the relationship. Now the problem can be on either side. However, men can fix most of the potential problems. And total ownership is always a good position to be in because it means you can potentially fix it.
@@MarriageMoneyMindset your video kind of counters this reply. You made it sound like it was totally the man's fault. I agree that relationships go both ways, but this was not the case that you were describing.
@@MarriageMoneyMindset yes it is a blame thing that IS the point of the video. Your explaining why its OK to use sex as a manipulative reward system.
Older women have waning sex drives due to lowering hormone levels starting in her late 20s early 30s. It is why men like women younger than this to have good relationships with.
Men walk away from this, divorce her. You will never have peace if you start jumping through her hoops for affection. What are you a poodle? Move on gents, its not worth it any longer.
This could be used as THE bad example of dealing with older women.
No thanks.
May I ask please what would you suggest?
@@MarriageMoneyMindset For men I suggest avoiding women that use sex as some Pavlovian behavior control. Those women will always be critical and judging. Your life and peace will be at the mercy of her and her feelings.
For women, I have no suggestions. All I can offer is not many of you are attractive as you age because your looks fade and what is left matters much more. Only the women that are really kind and compassionate look good with low collagen in their faces and a few extra pounds. The rest start looking like their fathers with longer hair.
The good news is men as group are ready to find old, fat, contentious women attractive and suitable for long term relations IF the ladies will date shorter and broke men. :)
I agree that sex shouldn't be used as a manipulation too. This happens WAY too often and it's a crappy thing to do. And if a man allows the levels of sex to be contingent upon some kind of performance linked to something he does around the house for the wife, then he will be training her how to train him.
Most people regardless of gender as a whole "let themselves go" after marriage. It's sad and frankly it's a bait and switch. I don't find it acceptable for either the man or the woman.
But at the end of the day, I'm here to help marriages get better because they can be SO much more than they are...
@@MarriageMoneyMindset you seem to again blame the man for "training her how to train him". This type of advice is awful. You said that men have to "do the work" to have intimacy. Your whole outlook is exchanging treatment for sex.
And the whole "maybe" a hormone is a "helper" and then saying you take testosterone is comical. Lady stop giving advice to others you are not helping anyone make their marriage better.