My JOURNEY to SINGLE SELFLOVE and MARRIAGE at 42 - Pierra Makena
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- Опубликовано: 10 фев 2025
- In the previous episode of the Obinna Show Live, Kenyan DJ and actress Pierra Makena opened up about her journey to self-discovery and embracing self-love at 42. She shared her experience of never falling in love and the reasons behind her decision not to marry. Pierra reflected on her feelings towards marriage, revealing that her past experiences were driven by lust rather than genuine connection. Join us as we delve into Pierra's inspiring story of finding fulfillment and empowerment through self-love.
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Thumbs up for you pierra...its true women critise other womens especially if you're single and they are married...singles we are alot here but trusting God he will make us complete
After being ran through till forties with a kid is when we should listen to her advice??!!!🤔🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤡🤡🤡🤡
Im 40 no kid and im not financially stable at all but i love my self, nowadays i believe uhai ndio muhimu
so sad
And you are not even looking for someone? You want to grow old alone?
@@Fred-O-86 God timing is always the best
I have a bro who is 45 single,no kids am so worried about him.these things are spiritual 😊
Tuko wengi
First time I saw her I was like wow, nani huyu! I was still holed up in Europe studying. I recently saw her dejaying at Casa Vera and was still smitten.
@itsTheTruthTeller
😢😮👁💋👁.
U know her?!!!Is this Kifeeee
The way she's carrying herself! She has a long way forward.
My neighbour from ushagoo...and her mother being my primary school teacher ...very humble family and blessed too
I met her and her sister long ago when doing Tahidi. Nice decent meru chicks..lakini Nairobi fastlife discourages women to settle down.
Went to CGHS way back.
Life is moving very fast, when i was at thirtys i started developing unease since i used to meet my class mates with their kids and iwas wondering when i will get mi😢. Dear lady your conditions had spoiled you, remember menopause is knocking your door, drop your conditions and settle as soon as you can
I don't believe so...As one can marry for children but what about companionship
Like why do many couples separate after the children grow up? Its coz of lack of genuine love, friendship and companionship.
Love yrself first, true love will come along if one is a firm believer of the same.dont make unmarried pple think marriage is gateway to heaven,or society will judge one harshly.
Obina stop explaining what love is to Pierra. People fall in love differently, the feeling is not universal. Give Pierra the chance to explain herself without too many explanations of what your expect her to do or be
Buy a dog and spend the rest of your life alone
The issue is not the fact that she is not married. Many women are not married and have children, long term partners and have been in love before. The concern is the fact that she struggles to get into or have a relationships.She needs prayers, there might be a spiritual issue to this. She might have a spirit spouse disturbing her. Wish her all the best, as i can see the issue is troubling her. May God direct her to break her through.
@@swift3070 clearly she not enjoying singlehood. Singlehood is not something you should suffer in.
@@swift3070Christ was God’s word manifested in the flesh. Stop being so naive, just because people say their single that doesn’t mean their celibate, fasting and praying on a daily basis. You modern women literally think like children
She is tired of being single now. Alijienjoy sana sasa anataka mtu wa kupick her pieces up. 😅
Very true
Obinna siunipee huyu madam anakaa mature and all wil work.
My opinion..she oky she deserves what she has and she has done Great parenting we can all see from her daughter... Marriage should not be a need for a woman or else u wil do marry wrongly
Pierra makena she is a matured lady I can tell from his conversation.
I care
@@marionmutembei7644 Leave this mentally retarded man alone, instead of focusing on his wife and children (if he even has them in the first place) he is everywhere spreading hate against Pierra ni kama alimkatia akakataliwa 😅😅.
There was an old lady from our rural areas who did not get married and she didn't bear any children ,she used to live from her sister's homes until death took her, family is everything forget saying you enjoy being single,you have to take your place in the society, imagine your parents saying they didn't want to have you.
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Iam praying for you lady...keep it up role model. God will being yours
Very true....society will always talk....l dont see them saving women who are suffering in marriages they were pressured into....l just see them talking about them. Do what pleases God and gives you peace young ladies....you dont need a man, that is a lie. You only need God, peace, water, food, oxygen, shelter, and money. Thats all....if you meet a good man that is well but dont be so desperate for marriage that you pick a drunk, a serial baby daddy or a cheat....you will cry alone
Obina marry this girl ohh!❤
Obinna, hope you got it right, she was describing you. You are a magnet of the most fine stuff.
I was in high school with her, she was ahead of me and our head girl at that time. ..
She saved herself alot of low quality experiences.
Am 32 and am not in hurry until i meet the man i want but people always say i have a problem 😅😅😅ooh y you don't have children at your age blablaaaah....I ain't having no kids for the sake of pleasing the society and enslave myself as single mother nefa
Very true....society will always talk....l dont see them saving women who are suffering in marriages they were pressured into....l just see them talking about them. Do do what pleases God and gives you peace young ladies....you dont need a man, that is a lie. You only need God, peace, water, food, oxygen, shelter, and money. Thats all....if you meet a good man that is well but dont be so desperate for marriage that you pick a drunk, a serial baby daddy or a cheat....you will cry alone
From 18 to 32 with multiple body count yet you haven't met the man you want. Don't you think you could be the problem.
@@becomingchannel men are too stupid to realise that women in their 30s are from a diffetent era before social media. A smart man knows that a 32yr old millenial has a lower body count than a 24 yr old genz. Plus why give your virginity to a man who will cheat....men who have been sleeping around should not be pointing fingers....otherwise God, who hates hypocrisy, will keep giving women the grace to excel and make money and you men will be so bitter and the only thing you will be left with is telling women" you are not married, you are single, you are old"....not realising that they dont care and that they are living their best life.
@@becomingchannel smart men know that a 32yr old millenial has a lower body count than a 24yr old gen z.
@@esther.6965 Could it be that your definition of smart men is wrong! Whether the body count is higher or lower is still body count. Where's the statistics that proves your assertions?
Miss Piera, i"ve those qualifications you've mentioned 😂😂. A'm 25 yrs. From Egypt. But i normally come to Kenya to visit my colleagues in Nairobi. This year a'm coming Early Dec.. hoping to meet you
You are 1000% correct❤
Imagine i started loving this lady kitambo aki
Nobody give a fuck whether you loved her or not,even her doesn't give a fuck
I also love her crazily
You are one of the guys she ghosted 😅
Hahahahaaaa😂😂 simps will always amaze me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Girl, like your vibes
I like this lady.... Awesome conversation over there
Lady's don't force ur self into love, I've forced several times loving men but it didn't work, I've decided to wait for God's time which is the best. Let people talk but look up for God. Am 43 but leaving happily waiting for God's time
Don't drag God into this. When you were being ran through and rejecting good polished men in your prime, were you involving God?? Deal with the consequences knowing that the guy that you desire is in his prime now and won't give you the slightest second of his time 😎😎
@Penaldo_suprena uko na maubad kwani were you among them??macy
Bina is attempting to throw a cupid arrow 💘 at Pierraz
One of my all time crushes back then, including mwanyiga.. Damn
na sasa usha0a nani
@@MyJOSE2013 Tunajuana nani?
😅😅😅😅😅@@royalusala8527
I don't think she has fallen in love or she will ever fall in love. She loves herself too much... Loving someone else means sacrifices
Who said if you don't get married the world will end.
I love the courage
@itsTheTruthTelleryou should love yourself. U are just an hater
@@marionmutembei7644how is he a hater when he asked a very legitimate question? By being defensive you just revealed that there's something wrong somewhere 😁🤣🤣🤣
Gwagon is my favorite car❤❤❤
She's just described my qualities 😅😅😅
Waiting for it
With God fearing I think ringtone can be the person no wonder she said she loves kisiis, ringtone apoko jitume hapa bro
The fact that it has taken her 42 years to get someone to marry , shows that she is too difficult to be with.
You have lived half of your life girl. Infact most women look beautiful when single, stay that way.
She is sad within her , only her way of talking, God Would send thé Good one my dear , bé patient.
Society - an institution that WE have created.
Marriage - a contract WE too have created, suits some but not all. It is not mandatory. Whatever suits one, LIVE AND LET LIVE! DO YOU!
*Marriage - An institution created by God.
Obinna kindly give your guests to give their story...unaongea mingi sana
True,its giving narcissist and invalidating her.
When a single woman first argument is even you who is married ... It clearly shows she's the problem.
There are deeper issues.
you are beautiful and i love your voice❤
Where's the full video please
I wonder oh! these guys have left us hanging,we need a full video
That is exactly me...
😂😂😂😂
Lv is not emotional. People fall in lv differently.
Utangoja sana righteous man.
Surely
😂weee
Says otieno but it’s her believes .. belief it till you can make it
Hiyo n yako, imani humpa mtu kile atakacho.ww Huna imani yakuwa kuna waume wazuri, there's no day utakutana na mzuri
She is not desperate to be married,it is af the earth will crumble
Wewe, Obinna sometimes be professional
Piera much Love ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
😅😅😅 I get you when you wonder,"niwache job juu ya ?"
The trouble is not that YOU ARE SINGLE and LIKELY TO STAY SINGLE, that should worry you but it's the FACT you are or will be severely LONELY and likely to STAY LONELY.... If you don't change your imaginary idea of the perfect 'right person' and I DONT WANT TO GET married to please society! ... FYI your one election away from being 50 YEARS OLD! Change!
I think have never been inlove
U hav started getting tensed
Application inatumwa where😂😂
Kwa email ya obinna😅
Bado hujapata type Yako heheeeeee endelea😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
Hehehe.....
Kourtney Kardashian found her true love at 43 so ladies not rush
At 43 Jesus christ what was she doing in her prime 😂😂😂😂 it's always the kardashians😅 you look up to
Stupidity. Those people are paid to stay single inorder to promote their shows and programmes on tv. You follow such characters while you are in a village in Nyeri with your mother
Any children you get above 40 the chances of downs syndrome increase
That's like marrying a grandma 😂😂😂
You forget that's a rich woman with real money, you can't be a nobody and expect to be a Kardashian
Lady of her own standards❤
Women should accept when time is over for marriage because God's time is also in the time limits. Over 40 is already in the no man 's land. The marriage range is 23 yrs to 35 yrs, 36 to 39 is red card zone. well u can say i am 40 and i have so many men who wants to date me, that is true as long as u allow yrself to be dated and be smashed to pass time but when it comes to marriage that is a different situation, they can even buy u an engagement ring just to keep u until yr eyes are open , when time to marry they go back and get a 28 yr old.
😮
Is makena a May girl, Taurus
Salasya is the best 🔥🤠😅😅
the best of all. I have laughed🤣🤣🤣
Wow
This host also...
obinna siunipatie huyo mgaldem
Piera makena is hurt,u can see it in her eyes💔
She's delusional 🙄
Cover the face fire the base😅
all the character traits amesema ni upuzi tu. she went past her prime and now she is willing to okotaa any weak man. War unto you ladies who ringaa dueing their 20s.
True 💯 WELL SAID
Mnataka tukue desperate so we can end up with garagaria like you and divorce later😂😂. Being alone is an option....enjoying life is the point....not to suffer in a marriage to please society😂
@@esther.6965😂😂😂
@@esther.6965u r a product of social conditioning... it's really sad😢😢
anadanganya hakuna asiopenda kuolewa Hyo ni Uongo
New sub nipitie nami
selfishness and feminism will never defeat creation and nature
A 42 year old woman saying she hasn't been in love. At the same time saying she would love a man who believes in God, hardworking.😂😂 Uliskia wapi?
I am 42, past menopause & I am looking for a man who is: God fearing, hardworking, very clean{smells good}, & alittle good looking. I don't mind money...😂😂
😅😅😅😅
That God fearing idea comes when women ages.They become religious,but their life still rotten!
@@ngangajeremiah9912 Thats ridiculous....guess you never met a young girl who loves God. Keep judging on your way to hell....the road is wide enough😄
😂😂😂😂😂
Truest words
What if i totally dont find love
You're to blame
Then you don't and it's okay
I don't want a God fearing. I want a GOD LOVING...
😂😂😂😂it all the same madam😂😂😂
@@bestbots1 imagine it's not. Everybody including the devil fears God
Nonsense.
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this man is wasting time complicating this love thing na ni singo dad of 4. ulizaa without being in love or why you singo? si love ni love tu
42
😂😂😂You the only one who can see through the the whole thing. 42😮
Forty-two
Obinna, i think u r pushing pierra to the Conner coz u want her in ur box?
Obinjwa ni ka shoga
😅😂😅😂😅
Obinna u r Anxietious...
She has her own reasons bt something ain't adding up
U said God fearing do u fear God urself
why di i feel obinna you were joking but serious in a way
It's hard to marry a woman DJ ...its not that easy
Ni kujua haujui kuandika neno impossible ama?
Sema impossible, not hard
This one is a gone case. The bus already left her 25 years ago.
Am there Makena 😂😂😂
Huyu ndio pierra makena? Anakaa aje kwani? Mlikua mumemchocha banaa
Evening newspapers have no buyers
You just compared a whole human being to newspaper😂😂...and you think you are smart😂😂
Mbinguni utaionea Viusasa
Grown up woman
You can see fear on her face
The ending though😂🤦🏻♂️
Hehe future partner...not bad
she spent early 20s chasing men away na kuburudhika , older she grows it will become harder and harder. Because sasa older men going for young women. Hakuna wanaume anataka mschana over 35 unless kama ni divorcee, ben10 ama desperate.
I guess unajua wanaume wote in the world😂😂😂...this stupidity gotta end. Being alone is also an option. Do you know the number of women sufferring in marriages?
@@esther.6965 how did our parents or grandparents do it? if you ask them, there were many times they could walk away but they didn't. you persevere marriage isn't holiday camp. it is no longer about you once you get married.
@@tomondiek2839i don’t think anyone cares about suffering in marriages anymore. After all the suffering you’re talking about is mostly one person enduring infidelity while nursing stds and constant nervous system breakdown.
Mankind has become more civilized to want to endure that.
@@Njitagwo_Shiro look what "civilized" has got us, divorce rates almost 60 percent and women having relationships with fellow women? The old ways were the best, my sister you need a man quick fast lower your standards or the older you grow the more angry and miserable you will become
@@tomondiek2839 are you talking about the uneducated generation who thought is was ok to cicumcise women to keep them faithful😅😅? Ask marriwd men who constantly cheat on their wives if its about them.....but a womans peace of heart doesnt matter to you...just a mans peace. Women are waking up....all we need is money truth period....this you need a man thing is a lie.....if it was true broke men wouldnt be single
For this lady you are lost
42 years and you know nothing about love, i swear yiu wont find it
Marry a pastor
42 umechapa ...
Bado unaonjwa onjwa tuu...!😂😂😂
Mdomo mingi ur already mzee u dont even look 42 but u look 50 whats special about her she is not mrembo ur ok but maringo mingi
What?? 😮😂😂
Only 3yrs to menopause. Ladies ought to realise that their clock ticks so fact.
Not everyone is lucky though..And sometimes it is better to be alone than being in a bad relationship where you are treated like a punching bag
She is not complaining go where you are wanted she doesn't want you
Women are giving birth even at 50
Yours isn't ticking? Everyone's clock is actually ticking.
Your's is ticking as well😅. We're all on a ticking time clock. And to me, she looks better than even most people in their 20s.
Buy a cat, lady! Loneliness during old age is a real bih😂😂😂
Empty head ..don't you think a partner can also die and u turn lonely?
@@faithmuthoni307 42 no kids no partner? BUY A F%rkdng CAT miss no man wants to deal with 42 yrs of PTSD😂😂😂😂