Julie Doud me too!!! Social workers and pastors have a lot in common ;) Nami would make an AMAZING ministry partner with Michael 🙏💕 the boys too... they’re gonna grow up to be such awesome young men 🤗 Nami, you’re so lovely, mature, empowered, and doing a good job in LIFE!!! Michael, you’re such an inspiration and it’s wonderful to see the way you love and support Nami 👍👍👍 You guys are such a blessing, thanks for sharing your life 😘😘😘
Your and Michael's relationship is absolutely beautiful, Nami! I really admire how you two are able to talk things through despite feeling emotional and upset... That's something I always strive for and it's inspirational to see you guys do it in such a genuine and loving way :)
Don't cry Nami :( Things like that can happen everyday and we become depressed, its good to cry cause you will let out your tension and then feel better. Being sick and having to take care of the kids who are sick too with the cold is a lot of emotional work too :( but you know ?You are a great mother and you are doing great so don't be sad!!! Fighting!!! I think that parents who lived in a different time than us and in different situations have an other thinking than us.We need to realize that I think and that its hard to change their mind as they can't change our thinking. Times have changed but i think some parents don't realise that and I think we can't change their mind already.They have a way of thinking and because they have experienced different things than us it can't be changed. We from the other hand live in a different environment with different and a more modern views about life. We have to realise that we can't change each others way of thinking easily...I suggest you to either tell her that clearly and explain to her what you feel; that times have changed or make it understandable in a way that is also respectful but firm to her that there must be some limits to what she does and says to you and your family. (because now you have a family on your own and you and Michael have the responsibility to raise them. You are an adult and you have a family ...and she needs to realise that. ) Make some boundaries maybe... Don't be sad Nami! Fighting! Love you girl!
Thank you soooo much Marie for your wise and encouraging words. They really mean so much to me and I agree 110 % !!!!! Love you lots lets keep working hard !!!!
I can relate to some things with my mom and also I can see my friends relate with their mom. Sometimes, I really think we get hurt by the family because it's the gap that neither we or the older generation try to reduce it... I found out that by hearing their point of view and just being patient is the key to have less disagreements and fights. I saw a brief moment of the video when u tried to talk to your mom and I but you two lack of communication and understanding each other maybe...Also not to step each others limits and patiences ... thats why as I said before, have more patience but maybe also be clear and create the boundaries between families.... ~Cheer up Nami! Cheer up Nami!Everything will be fine! ~ ( like twice's "cheer up Baby")Your mom loves you. I'm sure everything will be eventually fine and you will be able to communicate with her and understand each other well :) Fighting~ !!!!
sometimes living with your own family just doesn't work out for the best. You don't hate them but you prefer them to be at a distant. I get along with my siblings better if we don't live together lol. Namii, I hope you can soon find a way to move out ❤❤❤
I get why you were upset. I was sick the past week and I spent time with my grandma, she kept commenting on my weight and how I'm gonna end up alone cuz I'm single and how I don't have any friends. I get she's coming from a good place but she doesn't understand how hurtful it can be. My mum said the older people get, the more impatient they get. She probably wants things to be done a certain way and when you try to talk to them, they think it's disrespectful.
!!!! I'm so sorry you had to hear those unnecessarily discouraging things Laura ): I think you are a beautiful person and whatever you decide will be your choice in the end !! Thank you so much for sharing u_u
I'm so sorry that your mom doesn't acknowledge you. My grandma is the same with my mom. She always tells my mom how she doesn't raise me right -- even though i personally think she does -- and i know this may not help much, but i think you're a wonderful person and that you do such a good job with the boys and with your vlogs and with everything, so please never lose faith in yourself, despite what she says. Sometimes, people's opinions can't quite meet up because of age differences or the time/situations they grew up in. Just keep on believing!!
Hahahaha oh nooo if your mom is still hearing that she must be hearing it for a long long time !!! Thank you so much for your encouragements!!! Let's keep fighting and working hard !!!!
Galahad is too cute and sweet! you raised him amazing! I'm sorry things are so rough right now. and wow Galahad did so well at the dentist! most kids his age need laughing gas to not be scared or anything even I need to and I'm 23! lol anyways I hope everything gets better soon and everyone recovers from their illnesses!
Ahhh I need to work harder, especially with my relationship with him u_u it really changed after Ziek was born but I hope what I've learned from my trip to Korea can really help our relationship re-blossom !!!
oh my goodness, the part where you explained that you loved your family but if were not related you probably would not have as close a relationship was very relatable. I started crying. I love my family but they make me anxious, and we have a history of hurting each other emotionally.
I went through depression and anxiety. I totally understand what you're feeling, all the anger. However, most of my metal disorder came from ptsd from the neglect and me experiencing my parents mood swings since I was about 2. I'm just worried that you're son seems really observant and don't want the parent's mental health to have a wrong impact on your kids. That's something my parents struggled and it was really hard to understand. We have gotten family therapy to improve which, it did a little. I just know that 3-5 in age is a very important phase for brain developing and the impact from the environs the kid is around. I just hope the best for you guys and the way to deal with such strands of non stop emotions away from kids :/ I know that family problems are the worst 😞
I know exactly what you are saying, It look me a very long time to like my mother. Of course I love her.. that's a given, but if I was her age I wouldn't hang out with her just because she isn't a very likable person and thats okay! You won't love or like everyone in life but it doesn't mean you are a bad person because you don't like your mother. I now understand my mother and why she does things and now I act very different around her. Best thing to do is too remove yourself from the situation, understand why she says what she says and then vow to never do like that to you your own children. Fighting is natural but if it makes you so stressed ignore whatever she says (better said than done) and vow to never be like this unto your own children/ other people.
I feel like I have learned a lot from Michael and his level head through many of your videos. He has a very comforting voice when he speaks to you while he is trying to help you. Is he free to be my therapist? lol
14:40 I literally told myself the same thing weeks ago, specifically my mom. I knew I was upset whenever I was with my mom, feeling the desperate need to escape, and counting down the time until college. I love my mom's but being around her makes me anxious and feel horrible. Obviously, we have our good times, but we fight at least once every day.
I completely agree with you in terms of liking and loving family. Me and my family are getting closer a lot more now but for 85% of my life I did not like them at all. I felt judged, degraded, and like an outsider to them. They never supported me and I just didn't have the same world view as them. I decided to mourn the loss of the mother I always wished I had and now me and my mom are developing a whole new relationship with no expectations attached. I really do love your videos.
Wow that is so encouraging to hear, thank you so much for sharing Marlene ! Thank you also for enjoying our videos. We hope we can keep working hard u_u
OMG! I love your channel! Love how you and Michael talk together about how to manage difficulties of communication with family! Hope your family get well
I'm really sorry that you have to go through a tough time Nami💕 Stay strong!You're a very strong mom, keep it up! btw it makes me really happy to see how religious you are💕sending lots of love❤
Sorry to hear about the issues and the stress but it will get better. I know living with parents can be hard but at least you tried to resolve but I suppose letting it go is good too. I think the doggy sensed you were upset so she wanted to make you happy I think pets can feel things even if we try to hide it. I say a lot of bad things about myself also I can relate to you closely on that one. Your mom has her own ideas and mannerisms and expressing herself as she feels also. Though I think I mentioned this before so apologies about being a broken record. Though yes situations could of been different as Michael explained. It's good for you to have him as a mediator and the voice of reason it's good to have so things don't escalate out of control. I'm sure when you two are to move out perhaps you and your mom can have a closer relationship. Please have a safe and wonderful day I wish you a brighter tomorrow.
Yes, Michael is so so good at helping me maintain my sanity and not letting things escalate too far. I also believe my relationship with my mom will only improve and continue to improve after we have some distance to consider things on our own. Thank you so much for your encouragements and wishes as always Steve !!!
i feel you Namii... im don't have a really good relatioship with my mom, i still like her but she is always in a bad mood and when im in a bad mood she says like: oh look at your face why are you in a bad mood? you are always in a bad mood why don't you smile? its terrible! it really hurts me when she is saying it, because she is saying it in a rude voice tone. And she is never saying that its her fault or that she is wrong when she does a mistake, BUT when i do a mistake, its the end of the world... i hope you are feeling better soon
michael i don't know you personally but for what i have seen and heard you are a kind person that shouldn't go through what you're going, especially how namii's mom it's treating you. It's unfair because I believe you and namii love your kids and would never do anything to hurt them or make them sick. that's just not right what her mother said. Even if she's worried about the kids she should learn to word it better because words DO HURT PEOPLE. It's not her call to say what she says to namii or you. You guys are the parents! Not her. She's only the grandmother. I know she's worried for the kid's situation or namii's situation but i can tell this it's not the first time she keeps hurting her daughter like this. It's her daughter's life not hers. It's difficult to love someone who keeps hurting you in so many ways. I hope her mom can learn to appreciate both of you when you two move out. People only know what they have done after they don't have them anymore. And if she doesn't learn from her mistakes, just focus on your life and please, don't let her control your lives. It's okay to be worried about your loved ones but it's not okay to treat them shitty and then pretend everything it's okay. I'm not hating on namii's mom. I just don't like the fact that she wants to make her daughter and you feel like you two are the ones at fault when that's not true. NAMII'S MOM PLEASE LET YOUR DAUGHTER AND SON IN LAW LIVE HOW THEY WANT TO LIVE AND DON'T JUDGE THEM. HELP THEM IF THEY NEED IT BUT NEVER JUDGE THEM FOR MINOR THINGS. THEY ARE NOT PERFECT AND NEITHER ARE YOU. I HOPE YOU CAN START TO CHANGE YOUR MINDSET FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR DAUGHTER AND HER KIDS BECAUSE AFTER ALL, YOU ARE STILL HER GRANDMOTHER.
Hi Jimin, thank you for taking the time to write this and encourage! You are awesome!! You do outline many of the face-to-face conflicts that rise up, and it's been a real learning and growing process for Nami and I throughout these past 4 years. Though its been tough, we've went through it and we've learned a lot :) Thank you for supporting! Bless you!
Oh Lord...the first cut of the video flashed and my heart was already so soft. UGHHH you guys are so squiiishyyyy I can't handle the sad faces and tears!! :
nami i binged-watched your videos that I missed and trying to catch up. but omgggg, I can relate to you soooo much :( with the whole Korean mom thing.truthfully, I actually stopped doing youtube because my mom was reallllly against it. to the point she would yell at me and criticize me. while I was living with her .. I had to sneak around doing videos in my room (we still kind of live together but separate entrances at least after I got married) lmao i got so discouraged and i think it kinda traumatized me to the point I can't really make videos like when I first started. I feel you so much girl.. I used to get into a lot of fights too. thanks for making these transparent and honest vlogs, I feel like I'm not alone and am not the only one going through it.
You are probably stronger now. You know your kids well and what they need, coments from outside your family unit are either to take on or pass on by. YOU WONT be able to change your Mother only how you take on her comments, take what is helpful but trash the unwanted comments. xx
I'm sorry your mom was being so unsupportive. My little brother was a lot like Ziek, he just had a crazy high metabolism to the point where my mom would like force feed him every 2 hours and still he was a twig and everyone thought my mom was starving him. Kids are hardy, they'll eat when they're hungry, kids need to listen to their hunger cues too. I feel you, my family is crazy stressful too. There is a huge difference between loving your family and liking them. I get it
This is from 2 years ago. Im sorry about your day, but sometimes thats just how parents are. You get yelled at even tho your already a parent yourself. Sometimes there are some challenges you have to go through. You guys are great parents. You'll get through it. 😊
im sorry you have to deal with that, at first I didn't understand why you were crying but then it made sense. does your mom live with you? Living with family is hard. when I lived with my mom all we did was fight, and argue. the differences is what makes it difficult and sometimes you can't always get around that when your living with them.
Yes, we live with my parents until this summer !!!!! It is true that it is easier to crash when you are within the same space for a large amount of time u_u Things are getting better and we are working towards further growth and developments !!!! (: (: (:
We didn't think of that !!! but we would've needed car seats for the kids and would've had to remove them from our car and carry them upstairs to our apartment XD i should tell michael about the uber option omg that would've been so much better than walking 40min home 😂😂😂😂😂
Namii, I'm truly sorry about the emotional stress you receive with your mother,, and I do think it's very unfortunate and has affected who you are today. From what you shared, I think you have every right to work and be capable of being a good mom... However, I'm not sure all this, "showing honest sides" this way is the best thing,, especially in making amends with your mom.. Right now, you're just showing how you are being victimized (which you are) and making your mother a very bad image... It might not matter for the rest of the world who doesn't actually know you, but there are people who know you and your mom watching this and creating a harmful negative gossip promoting view of your mother. Speaking ill of one's family (no matter how wrong they are) isn't going to solve your relationship with your mother... I think you can totally be honest without bringing down a family member.. like just the messy ness of raising a child etc. I empathize with your struggles,, but at the same time, I'm sure everyone who has seen this video will agree, they have a more negative image of your mom bc she has "these problems"..
Hello! I like that you're raw and not clickbaity in your videos and Michael helps you resolve those things in God. I deal with the same kinds of issues with my mom. I think in both cases staying in the same house is hard and makes it harder on the relationship (when it's already messed up) because they're still used to you being their child and baby in some ways. But maybe you and your mom should consider counseling from a professional? If it's affordable. I know it's helpful to seek friends and loved one's advice, but professional help definitely works even just for your personal life and walk with God (especially through a Christian based counseling center). &Thank you, as always, for being a authentic and vulnerable youtuber!! :) And in the end, definitely stay strong in God... "A man who was prized and pardoned/And chosen before the world's foundation/His own possession, His royal priesthood/I'm part of His holy nation/I'm his friend, I'm valued completely cared for/Enough for Christ to purchase/According to God I'm an adopted child/With intimate access created with purpose" - from According to God by Beautiful Eulogy (you should listen to this song, it's about worth)
wow what a beautiful song. Thank you so much for this. It is so encouraging and full of love. Life is hard and relationships are hard, especially because of other people's sin and our own sin but it's important to keep moving forward and growing and learning !!!!!
Hi Nami☺☺ I love ur videos and U,Michael,Galahad and Ziek are a beautiful family. And I would also like to say we come from the same background as growing up like full on same background somethings are diffrent but its almost the same I just wanna say keep following your dreams and don't let haters get to you for being who you are. and for doing what your doing we all get depressed and hurt and cry alot cause I have cried alot when I had no one to talk to and had no friends and was a loner and when I found your videos and channel I felt like happiness again...no ine is perfect in this world we all have flaws, weaknesses and insecurities but as long as we are with god and god is with us we can push past the haters and be who god wants us to be and be who we want to be not who others want us to be we all have haters no lie about that but God is the one who we have to help us out and who has pur back and who will lend us a shoulder to cry on and who will help us back on our feet when we need it the most.... God is the one we can trust and count on 100% cause God won't lie to us at all blessings come many ways and we all have blessings that we have or haven't received yet.... sorry gir this long text/inspirational speech😂😂 I juat wanted ti tell you that and tell some other subscribers as well
You guys are the most Hubble couple ever. Michael is like my dream guy. 😂😂😂 forgive me 😜 He is such a hubble husband. If I was married and if I was in your position. I would've been crying being so upset and disagree with Michael. Knowing he is right. You have a such patient manner with your husband and so is Michael with you. Love you both.😘 You both are an amazing couple who people should watch your vlog. I really enjoy watching your whole family vlog. God Bless your family and I hope you guys get better soon. ❤
That happened to my brother too when he was like 4 or 5, he was running up the stairs, he tripped and fell with his upper teeth on one of the stairs, bleeding and crying. One of his incisors started to get a grey-ish color and had it like that until it fell years after (because it was a baby tooth). Now his teeth are just normal.
Honestly you guys should just work full time and earn enough money to move out and live on your own. Mums are really hard to change and their attitudes and the little things they do can be so negative and actually a cause a lot of our anxieties and stresses. She's not going to change her ways or atleast it's going to be hard to, so you guys need to move on if it's bothering you and find peace. Otherwise your just going to contine to be stressed and bothered. Best of luck to you both.
That's great to hear! I didn't mean any disrespect in that comment. But I just wanted to say it from personal experience. I know Korean mums can be very vicious and condescending, espcsilly if you grew up a different way to them. For me personally, I saw my mums attitude and her spitefulness the root cause of some of my anxieties and it really reflected in different ways in how I interacted with people. You will always love you mum and family but moving out and being indepdent will give you good distance and also peace. She treats you like your still kids because well, your still living in her house.. You want respect? Move out and be adults. Also she probly has some kinda resentment cause she wants you to be looking after her as she gets older but your looking after your own kids and even planning to have more. Good luck guys.
Nami, i really hope the world of happiness for you! You and your family are amazing. Keep bring joy and happiness into the world. You are such an amazing woman! I couldnt do what you do, especially with all the drama life brings to you. fighting!^^
I just flew out to Ottawa to see my step dad after 8 years. I took my son whose about to be 1 on June 12. I was surprised as all heck that y'all had milk in a bag down there. Like...what!?
Hahahah right !?!?!?? My childhood friends and I would use the bag of milk and wrap a towel around it to pretend it was a baby when we were around 4 or 5 because we didn't have a baby doll 😂😂😂😂
I know this was filmed 5 years ago but I just wanted to comment that I totally understand what you were going through. My mom tends to say the same about how my kids aren't being fed well and that I don't care to try harder even though they are well and eat well when they are hungry. The one thing that hurts me that my mom Says to me a lot and this is 100% why I do not like to see her is that I am like a sister of hers who abused her children and only cared for her husband. I do not understand where she gets this from, I am either working in roofing 10 hours a day just like my husband does and the rest of the day catering to my kids and our home well being. Yet it hurts when she says this because I know I am far from that but she openly says it infront of people or just everything I see her. I will be telling her to stop next time she brings it up but yea...im happy your husband is very supportive and understanding. That is very important in every relationship.
aweee, Nami, you guys are always so sick ... I hope you guys be healthy this Summer ! By the way, watching Zeik take his medicine made me think of my 1yr old nephew. if you try to feed him medicine from a child Syringe, he doesn't drink it But if you give it to him off a spoon, he thinks he's a grown up so he takes it 😂 Kids are just so darn funny ...
hope u can improve relationship with yr mom,pls understand the cultural differences and her life experiences affect her expectations n reactions, try to prepare yr family to eventually move out n hv hr own home, sending love to yr family
hannah lw I'm sorry to butt in but just because she had a difficult life doesn't mean she can live her daughter's life. That"s how i see it. It's like she wants to live through namii her life because she didn't have the chance to have a loving family like namii has now. Her mom needs to try to change her mindset bc it's affecting her daughter. Namii it's already a grown up woman and she's not a kid anymore. She should let her daughter deal with her issues and with her family. If namii needs help, believe me, she'll call her if she thinks it's the best to do but it's not right or acceptable to do what she was doing. This it's why people live apart from their parents. It parents weren't butting in every second every daughter or son would get along with their parents.
Thank you so much for your insights Hannah !! I do believe culture and time generations play a huge part in how a person's mindsets and believes are shaped. One of our end-year goals this year was to move out and we will be separating from my parents this summer by God's grace ! (:
i hope you and your parents relationship get better , i feel the problem here is communication. The way a certain topic is being presented but yet again we can't tell our moms that b/c they are the parent parent. it's complicated right? :(
Thank you Phurbu !!! i also believe it is communication. Both of us are misunderstanding each other and expressing ourselves in an offensive way. I think it's important to continue to practice understanding the other party and also sharing yourself in the best and kindest way!!!
Ana Jimenez I was thinking the same thing but maybe they don't have the money to do it. I just hope namii can always be happy and soon find a way to move out.
Hi Jimin, yes money was a major factor in whether we would move out or not. Moving was a definite consideration that came up many times throughout our times together living with Nami's parents, and several times I was very close to dropping studies and working full-time so we could move out. One of our main goals was to live separate this year and it will be happening :) One of my hopes was that living together as an inter-generational household, we might learn to cope, work , and live together, but turned out VERY difficult.
mike park I will pray for your happiness. You are such a kind man and namii's such a sweet girl. You guys deserve to live happily and without worries. ❤ It's better this way michael. It's like you're giving everything you have in order for things to work out but sometimes giving your best doesn't go the way you want it to go because the other part has to be on the same page as well. I understand your situation. You both tried and it didn't work and it's not your fault because both of you gave the best to make everything better. keep fighting and don't give up on school. You'll get there with your family but it takes time ❤ be patient, god has everything under control. im so happy that you guys are happy bc you guys are moving out soon 😍
omg i need that peppa pig plushie for my little sister she's so obsessed with peppa and her brother 😂 btw i love how you and your husband always have a lovely conversation it's so cute
Yesyesyes I've heard honey from nurses too u_u We've been giving them a lot of V C but we need to get new honey cuz ours is ghetto and I don't feel safe giving it to the kids 😭😭
try to give them organic pineapple juice...it should said in the ingredient only pineapple juice. is good for coughs/colds NOTE: You don’t usually think of pineapple as a cough remedy, but that’s probably because you’ve never heard of bromelain. There’s evidence to suggest that bromelain - an enzyme found only in the stem and fruit of pineapples - can help suppress coughs as well as loosen the mucus in your throat. To enjoy the most benefits of pineapple and bromelain, eat a slice of pineapple or drink 3.5 ounces of fresh pineapple juice three times a day. There are also claims that it can help relieve sinusitis and allergy-based sinus issues, which can contribute to coughs and mucus. However, there is insufficient evidence to support this. It’s also sometimes used to treat inflammation and swelling. Bromelain supplements should not be taken by children or adults who take blood thinners. Also, be careful using bromelain if you’re also on antibiotics such as amoxicillin, as it can increase the absorption of the antibiotic. Always speak to your doctor before taking new or unfamiliar supplements. Nutrients in pineapple juice may help soothe symptoms of a cough or cold. One 2010 study found that pineapple juice was part of an effective treatment for tuberculosis, thanks to its ability to soothe the throat and dissolve mucus. According to this study, a mixture of pineapple juice, honey, salt, and pepper reduced cough symptoms up to five times faster than over-the-counter (OTC) cough syrup.
I know the situation can be stressful with ur mom I have been there done that and I had to ask the Lord to show me how to respond to the situation and ask him to open ur eyes as to why u get so upset because sometimes the problem is he wants us to humbles ourselves amd take a dif approach how we see what's coming at us and ask for wisdom amd guidance how to make that relationship better . Ask him to show u how to serve her to defuse the problems and in u doin that his way he will show her her ways either thru a dream or other people , but some people don't know how to communicate . I'm a talker my husband is not so I have learned some stuff he just doesn't get so I have to pray about the issues . Thank God he has given u a u understanding husband that can see and that does care . I hope u can find a way to work it out espec because the bible tells us to honor our mother and father so we can have long life and make sure u guard ur heart with these issues because goin to sleep on it and thinkin of it days after is how resentment comes from our anger setting in guard ur heart with all diligence out if flows the issues of life .. this is clearly an issue ur going to have to guard and be mindful over .at the end we are responsible for how we act even when the wrong things are being done to us
You don't have to explain how much or what you feed "YOUR CHILDREN". That's why they are your children. Hopefully you'll get your own place soon and thing will get better.
I don't like how she hates what her mom does . It's all cuz she cares about you . I don't like how she expose about how her mom is . She is doing that cuz you guys are young and need s to learn what's need to be done when you have a child !
He is such a patient and understanding husband
I am so blessed !!!!!
You both are so emotionally mature. I feel like Michael has a pastoral calling.
Hi Julie, I wonder if God is calling me towards serving as a pastor. A little scary, but if it be God's will, then let it be :)
Thank you Julie !!! Michael I'm scared to samo hahahaha but I'm sure if God has a will He will make a way for us too....
Julie Doud agreed!
Julie Doud me too!!! Social workers and pastors have a lot in common ;) Nami would make an AMAZING ministry partner with Michael 🙏💕 the boys too... they’re gonna grow up to be such awesome young men 🤗
Nami, you’re so lovely, mature, empowered, and doing a good job in LIFE!!! Michael, you’re such an inspiration and it’s wonderful to see the way you love and support Nami 👍👍👍
You guys are such a blessing, thanks for sharing your life 😘😘😘
Your and Michael's relationship is absolutely beautiful, Nami! I really admire how you two are able to talk things through despite feeling emotional and upset... That's something I always strive for and it's inspirational to see you guys do it in such a genuine and loving way :)
Thank you for your loving words
I teared up when you said "I want to be happy, let us be happy"
I hope the best for you and your family 😭💕
Don't cry Nami :( Things like that can happen everyday and we become depressed, its good to cry cause you will let out your tension and then feel better. Being sick and having to take care of the kids who are sick too with the cold is a lot of emotional work too :( but you know ?You are a great mother and you are doing great so don't be sad!!! Fighting!!! I think that parents who lived in a different time than us and in different situations have an other thinking than us.We need to realize that I think and that its hard to change their mind as they can't change our thinking. Times have changed but i think some parents don't realise that and I think we can't change their mind already.They have a way of thinking and because they have experienced different things than us it can't be changed. We from the other hand live in a different environment with different and a more modern views about life. We have to realise that we can't change each others way of thinking easily...I suggest you to either tell her that clearly and explain to her what you feel; that times have changed or make it understandable in a way that is also respectful but firm to her that there must be some limits to what she does and says to you and your family. (because now you have a family on your own and you and Michael have the responsibility to raise them. You are an adult and you have a family ...and she needs to realise that. ) Make some boundaries maybe... Don't be sad Nami! Fighting! Love you girl!
Thank you soooo much Marie for your wise and encouraging words. They really mean so much to me and I agree 110 % !!!!! Love you lots lets keep working hard !!!!
I can relate to some things with my mom and also I can see my friends relate with their mom. Sometimes, I really think we get hurt by the family because it's the gap that neither we or the older generation try to reduce it... I found out that by hearing their point of view and just being patient is the key to have less disagreements and fights. I saw a brief moment of the video when u tried to talk to your mom and I but you two lack of communication and understanding each other maybe...Also not to step each others limits and patiences ... thats why as I said before, have more patience but maybe also be clear and create the boundaries between families.... ~Cheer up Nami! Cheer up Nami!Everything will be fine! ~ ( like twice's "cheer up Baby")Your mom loves you. I'm sure everything will be eventually fine and you will be able to communicate with her and understand each other well :) Fighting~ !!!!
Awww Michael is such a good husband! caring! gentle! kind! and always the middle man. Bless you all. 💞
Thank you for your kind words Fei
sometimes living with your own family just doesn't work out for the best. You don't hate them but you prefer them to be at a distant.
I get along with my siblings better if we don't live together lol.
Namii, I hope you can soon find a way to move out ❤❤❤
Yes, I agree !! The time apart helps you appreciate each other more without offending each other all the time either u_u
I get why you were upset. I was sick the past week and I spent time with my grandma, she kept commenting on my weight and how I'm gonna end up alone cuz I'm single and how I don't have any friends. I get she's coming from a good place but she doesn't understand how hurtful it can be. My mum said the older people get, the more impatient they get. She probably wants things to be done a certain way and when you try to talk to them, they think it's disrespectful.
!!!! I'm so sorry you had to hear those unnecessarily discouraging things Laura ): I think you are a beautiful person and whatever you decide will be your choice in the end !! Thank you so much for sharing u_u
I Just started the video and I see you crying and idk what's wrong but I hope you get through it :)
thank you my luv i did get through it things are GREAT now :D (will update soon hehehe)
NamiiCho that's very good to hear.
I'm so sorry that your mom doesn't acknowledge you. My grandma is the same with my mom. She always tells my mom how she doesn't raise me right -- even though i personally think she does -- and i know this may not help much, but i think you're a wonderful person and that you do such a good job with the boys and with your vlogs and with everything, so please never lose faith in yourself, despite what she says. Sometimes, people's opinions can't quite meet up because of age differences or the time/situations they grew up in.
Just keep on believing!!
Hahahaha oh nooo if your mom is still hearing that she must be hearing it for a long long time !!! Thank you so much for your encouragements!!! Let's keep fighting and working hard !!!!
Galahad is too cute and sweet! you raised him amazing! I'm sorry things are so rough right now. and wow Galahad did so well at the dentist! most kids his age need laughing gas to not be scared or anything even I need to and I'm 23! lol anyways I hope everything gets better soon and everyone recovers from their illnesses!
Ahhh I need to work harder, especially with my relationship with him u_u it really changed after Ziek was born but I hope what I've learned from my trip to Korea can really help our relationship re-blossom !!!
oh my goodness, the part where you explained that you loved your family but if were not related you probably would not have as close a relationship was very relatable. I started crying. I love my family but they make me anxious, and we have a history of hurting each other emotionally.
I went through depression and anxiety. I totally understand what you're feeling, all the anger. However, most of my metal disorder came from ptsd from the neglect and me experiencing my parents mood swings since I was about 2. I'm just worried that you're son seems really observant and don't want the parent's mental health to have a wrong impact on your kids. That's something my parents struggled and it was really hard to understand. We have gotten family therapy to improve which, it did a little. I just know that 3-5 in age is a very important phase for brain developing and the impact from the environs the kid is around. I just hope the best for you guys and the way to deal with such strands of non stop emotions away from kids :/ I know that family problems are the worst 😞
I know exactly what you are saying, It look me a very long time to like my mother. Of course I love her.. that's a given, but if I was her age I wouldn't hang out with her just because she isn't a very likable person and thats okay! You won't love or like everyone in life but it doesn't mean you are a bad person because you don't like your mother. I now understand my mother and why she does things and now I act very different around her. Best thing to do is too remove yourself from the situation, understand why she says what she says and then vow to never do like that to you your own children. Fighting is natural but if it makes you so stressed ignore whatever she says (better said than done) and vow to never be like this unto your own children/ other people.
This is beautifully written.
I feel like I have learned a lot from Michael and his level head through many of your videos. He has a very comforting voice when he speaks to you while he is trying to help you. Is he free to be my therapist? lol
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I literally told myself the same thing weeks ago, specifically my mom. I knew I was upset whenever I was with my mom, feeling the desperate need to escape, and counting down the time until college. I love my mom's but being around her makes me anxious and feel horrible. Obviously, we have our good times, but we fight at least once every day.
I completely agree with you in terms of liking and loving family. Me and my family are getting closer a lot more now but for 85% of my life I did not like them at all. I felt judged, degraded, and like an outsider to them. They never supported me and I just didn't have the same world view as them. I decided to mourn the loss of the mother I always wished I had and now me and my mom are developing a whole new relationship with no expectations attached. I really do love your videos.
Wow that is so encouraging to hear, thank you so much for sharing Marlene ! Thank you also for enjoying our videos. We hope we can keep working hard u_u
Namii You and your family are loved💜❤️ Don't let anyone bring you down, you are an amazing person
Thank you so much Pushkina. Many hugs and kisses !!!!
OMG! I love your channel! Love how you and Michael talk together about how to manage difficulties of communication with family! Hope your family get well
Thank you so much Diana. We really believe effective communication is so important in all relationships, even with children !!!!
Michael is such a good husband and son in law you are blessed beyond measure I pray God fills that void in your life the wound from your mom
Thank you so much Daze. I also hope God fills the painful gashes in our whole family and extended family one day u_u
I'm really sorry that you have to go through a tough time Nami💕 Stay strong!You're a very strong mom, keep it up! btw it makes me really happy to see how religious you are💕sending lots of love❤
thank you for your encouragements dia
Please stay strong, I saw you crying in the beginning of vid idk why but please stay strong ; n ;
thank you so much shiira
Dw Nami we love your long vlogs, please keep them coming !!!
Sorry to hear about the issues and the stress but it will get better. I know living with parents can be hard but at least you tried to resolve but I suppose letting it go is good too. I think the doggy sensed you were upset so she wanted to make you happy I think pets can feel things even if we try to hide it. I say a lot of bad things about myself also I can relate to you closely on that one. Your mom has her own ideas and mannerisms and expressing herself as she feels also. Though I think I mentioned this before so apologies about being a broken record. Though yes situations could of been different as Michael explained. It's good for you to have him as a mediator and the voice of reason it's good to have so things don't escalate out of control. I'm sure when you two are to move out perhaps you and your mom can have a closer relationship. Please have a safe and wonderful day I wish you a brighter tomorrow.
Yes, Michael is so so good at helping me maintain my sanity and not letting things escalate too far. I also believe my relationship with my mom will only improve and continue to improve after we have some distance to consider things on our own. Thank you so much for your encouragements and wishes as always Steve !!!
i feel you Namii... im don't have a really good relatioship with my mom, i still like her but she is always in a bad mood and when im in a bad mood she says like: oh look at your face why are you in a bad mood? you are always in a bad mood why don't you smile? its terrible! it really hurts me when she is saying it, because she is saying it in a rude voice tone. And she is never saying that its her fault or that she is wrong when she does a mistake, BUT when i do a mistake, its the end of the world... i hope you are feeling better soon
michael i don't know you personally but for what i have seen and heard you are a kind person that shouldn't go through what you're going, especially how namii's mom it's treating you. It's unfair because I believe you and namii love your kids and would never do anything to hurt them or make them sick.
that's just not right what her mother said. Even if she's worried about the kids she should learn to word it better because words DO HURT PEOPLE.
It's not her call to say what she says to namii or you. You guys are the parents! Not her. She's only the grandmother. I know she's worried for the kid's situation or namii's situation but i can tell this it's not the first time she keeps hurting her daughter like this. It's her daughter's life not hers.
It's difficult to love someone who keeps hurting you in so many ways. I hope her mom can learn to appreciate both of you when you two move out.
People only know what they have done after they don't have them anymore. And if she doesn't learn from her mistakes, just focus on your life and please, don't let her control your lives. It's okay to be worried about your loved ones but it's not okay to treat them shitty and then pretend everything it's okay.
I'm not hating on namii's mom. I just don't like the fact that she wants to make her daughter and you feel like you two are the ones at fault when that's not true.
NAMII'S MOM PLEASE LET YOUR DAUGHTER AND SON IN LAW LIVE HOW THEY WANT TO LIVE AND DON'T JUDGE THEM. HELP THEM IF THEY NEED IT BUT NEVER JUDGE THEM FOR MINOR THINGS. THEY ARE NOT PERFECT AND NEITHER ARE YOU. I HOPE YOU CAN START TO CHANGE YOUR MINDSET FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR DAUGHTER AND HER KIDS BECAUSE AFTER ALL, YOU ARE STILL HER GRANDMOTHER.
Hi Jimin,
thank you for taking the time to write this and encourage! You are awesome!! You do outline many of the face-to-face conflicts that rise up, and it's been a real learning and growing process for Nami and I throughout these past 4 years. Though its been tough, we've went through it and we've learned a lot :) Thank you for supporting! Bless you!
Hey Namii! have you tried tried drinking apple cider vinegar and water for the acne? It helped me alot when I was getting cystic acne last year
I haven't !!!! that sounds nasty but I should look into it !!!!
Yea it's pretty nasty but it works lol just RUclips a tutorial on how to prepare it and you're good to go :)
Feel better guys! I hope you guys get healthy again. I'm praying for you. #fighting
Hi Gabby,
Thank you for your prayers! Blessings to you.
Hope everything gets better in time, love! :)
Thank you so much Joyce
When ever Namii cries or gets distressed I just want to tuck her under a blanket, feed her soup and take care of her 💕
Oh Lord...the first cut of the video flashed and my heart was already so soft. UGHHH you guys are so squiiishyyyy I can't handle the sad faces and tears!! :
Jewel Jes sorry jesssss 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈😭😭💓
Can't help the bonds we have by blood, I agree with a lot of your feelings.
nami i binged-watched your videos that I missed and trying to catch up. but omgggg, I can relate to you soooo much :( with the whole Korean mom thing.truthfully, I actually stopped doing youtube because my mom was reallllly against it. to the point she would yell at me and criticize me. while I was living with her .. I had to sneak around doing videos in my room (we still kind of live together but separate entrances at least after I got married) lmao i got so discouraged and i think it kinda traumatized me to the point I can't really make videos like when I first started. I feel you so much girl.. I used to get into a lot of fights too. thanks for making these transparent and honest vlogs, I feel like I'm not alone and am not the only one going through it.
The dog's fur looks so softttttt awwww Lov ur video and hope you and the kids gets better!! :))
Hahaha she is soft !!!! Thank you Jiaya I hope they get better too !!! They got sick again after they got better from this sickness T T
You are probably stronger now. You know your kids well and what they need, coments from outside your family unit are either to take on or pass on by. YOU WONT be able to change your Mother only how you take on her comments, take what is helpful but trash the unwanted comments. xx
I'm sorry your mom was being so unsupportive. My little brother was a lot like Ziek, he just had a crazy high metabolism to the point where my mom would like force feed him every 2 hours and still he was a twig and everyone thought my mom was starving him. Kids are hardy, they'll eat when they're hungry, kids need to listen to their hunger cues too. I feel you, my family is crazy stressful too. There is a huge difference between loving your family and liking them. I get it
This is from 2 years ago. Im sorry about your day, but sometimes thats just how parents are. You get yelled at even tho your already a parent yourself. Sometimes there are some challenges you have to go through. You guys are great parents. You'll get through it. 😊
Thank you for your vlogs! :)
Thank you so much for your time Selina T___T
you two remind me so much of my husband and I
, He used to have to mediate for my father and I because we couldn't communicate very well.
Ugh it brokes my heart to see you crying, I'm so glad you have Mike to take care of you.
aw thank you for your caring heart david. I'm also glad Michael is always with me and understanding the whole situation u_u
Sending you lots of love and always love Michael.
Thank you Hli
My Great Aunty always said to say yes but then do what ever the hell you want.
Everyone needs a Michael in their lives.
im sorry you have to deal with that, at first I didn't understand why you were crying but then it made sense. does your mom live with you? Living with family is hard. when I lived with my mom all we did was fight, and argue. the differences is what makes it difficult and sometimes you can't always get around that when your living with them.
Yes, we live with my parents until this summer !!!!! It is true that it is easier to crash when you are within the same space for a large amount of time u_u Things are getting better and we are working towards further growth and developments !!!! (: (: (:
Nami, glad your car situation worked out! Why didn't you Uber home?
We didn't think of that !!! but we would've needed car seats for the kids and would've had to remove them from our car and carry them upstairs to our apartment XD i should tell michael about the uber option omg that would've been so much better than walking 40min home 😂😂😂😂😂
I enjoyed the video! Keep it up!
Thank you Mr B ! (:
Namii, I'm truly sorry about the emotional stress you receive with your mother,, and I do think it's very unfortunate and has affected who you are today. From what you shared, I think you have every right to work and be capable of being a good mom... However, I'm not sure all this, "showing honest sides" this way is the best thing,, especially in making amends with your mom.. Right now, you're just showing how you are being victimized (which you are) and making your mother a very bad image... It might not matter for the rest of the world who doesn't actually know you, but there are people who know you and your mom watching this and creating a harmful negative gossip promoting view of your mother. Speaking ill of one's family (no matter how wrong they are) isn't going to solve your relationship with your mother... I think you can totally be honest without bringing down a family member.. like just the messy ness of raising a child etc. I empathize with your struggles,, but at the same time, I'm sure everyone who has seen this video will agree, they have a more negative image of your mom bc she has "these problems"..
omg when i saw the title.... :/
sorry maria 😭😭😭😭
Wait a sec, was that milk..in a bag?
Hello! I like that you're raw and not clickbaity in your videos and Michael helps you resolve those things in God. I deal with the same kinds of issues with my mom. I think in both cases staying in the same house is hard and makes it harder on the relationship (when it's already messed up) because they're still used to you being their child and baby in some ways. But maybe you and your mom should consider counseling from a professional? If it's affordable. I know it's helpful to seek friends and loved one's advice, but professional help definitely works even just for your personal life and walk with God (especially through a Christian based counseling center).
&Thank you, as always, for being a authentic and vulnerable youtuber!! :) And in the end, definitely stay strong in God...
"A man who was prized and pardoned/And chosen before the world's foundation/His own possession, His royal priesthood/I'm part of His holy nation/I'm his friend, I'm valued completely cared for/Enough for Christ to purchase/According to God I'm an adopted child/With intimate access created with purpose" - from According to God by Beautiful Eulogy (you should listen to this song, it's about worth)
wow what a beautiful song. Thank you so much for this. It is so encouraging and full of love. Life is hard and relationships are hard, especially because of other people's sin and our own sin but it's important to keep moving forward and growing and learning !!!!!
I dunno what happened yet but I'm happy for an upload.
Update: I love the realness of your vlogs and how you share your life.
aw thank you for enjoying our videos yaquelin T T
I love the Christ-centered relationship you have with your husband.
Hope you get better and the situation with your mom gets better
Thank you Naidza ! It is getting better every week !!! (: Let's keep working hard
I am glad to hear that 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Hi Nami☺☺ I love ur videos and U,Michael,Galahad and Ziek are a beautiful family. And I would also like to say we come from the same background as growing up like full on same background somethings are diffrent but its almost the same I just wanna say keep following your dreams and don't let haters get to you for being who you are. and for doing what your doing we all get depressed and hurt and cry alot cause I have cried alot when I had no one to talk to and had no friends and was a loner and when I found your videos and channel I felt like happiness again...no ine is perfect in this world we all have flaws, weaknesses and insecurities but as long as we are with god and god is with us we can push past the haters and be who god wants us to be and be who we want to be not who others want us to be we all have haters no lie about that but God is the one who we have to help us out and who has pur back and who will lend us a shoulder to cry on and who will help us back on our feet when we need it the most.... God is the one we can trust and count on 100% cause God won't lie to us at all blessings come many ways and we all have blessings that we have or haven't received yet.... sorry gir this long text/inspirational speech😂😂 I juat wanted ti tell you that and tell some other subscribers as well
You guys are the most Hubble couple ever. Michael is like my dream guy. 😂😂😂 forgive me 😜 He is such a hubble husband. If I was married and if I was in your position. I would've been crying being so upset and disagree with Michael. Knowing he is right. You have a such patient manner with your husband and so is Michael with you. Love you both.😘 You both are an amazing couple who people should watch your vlog. I really enjoy watching your whole family vlog. God Bless your family and I hope you guys get better soon. ❤
Thank you so much for your support !!! We are so glad you are enjoying our videos and so thankful for your time. Blessings to you too coreymoua !!!
That happened to my brother too when he was like 4 or 5, he was running up the stairs, he tripped and fell with his upper teeth on one of the stairs, bleeding and crying. One of his incisors started to get a grey-ish color and had it like that until it fell years after (because it was a baby tooth). Now his teeth are just normal.
!!!! Oh my gosh so scary Luna !!! Good thing it happened to his baby tooth !!! Michael is really scared of his root canal surgery XD
Zieks little moans at 4:28 are just so cute
Honestly you guys should just work full time and earn enough money to move out and live on your own.
Mums are really hard to change and their attitudes and the little things they do can be so negative and actually a cause a lot of our anxieties and stresses. She's not going to change her ways or atleast it's going to be hard to, so you guys need to move on if it's bothering you and find peace. Otherwise your just going to contine to be stressed and bothered.
Best of luck to you both.
Hi jenn, I fully agree. We will be living on our own starting mid-June :)
That's great to hear! I didn't mean any disrespect in that comment. But I just wanted to say it from personal experience. I know Korean mums can be very vicious and condescending, espcsilly if you grew up a different way to them. For me personally, I saw my mums attitude and her spitefulness the root cause of some of my anxieties and it really reflected in different ways in how I interacted with people. You will always love you mum and family but moving out and being indepdent will give you good distance and also peace. She treats you like your still kids because well, your still living in her house.. You want respect? Move out and be adults. Also she probly has some kinda resentment cause she wants you to be looking after her as she gets older but your looking after your own kids and even planning to have more. Good luck guys.
Thank you for sharing Jen!! I agree, it's really hard, especially if they have aged the way they have in their mindsets and values u_u
Nami, i really hope the world of happiness for you!
You and your family are amazing. Keep bring joy and happiness into the world. You are such an amazing woman! I couldnt do what you do, especially with all the drama life brings to you.
fighting!^^
Awe when Nami cry....the feels THE FEELS 😭 ❤️
sorry it's so ugly 😂😂😂 i'm like omg michael why are you recording this but i'm too upset to care how ugly i look 😂😂😂😭
NamiiCho I HAVE THE WORST CRYING FACE...trust me yours is fine 😂
I just flew out to Ottawa to see my step dad after 8 years. I took my son whose about to be 1 on June 12. I was surprised as all heck that y'all had milk in a bag down there. Like...what!?
Hahahah right !?!?!?? My childhood friends and I would use the bag of milk and wrap a towel around it to pretend it was a baby when we were around 4 or 5 because we didn't have a baby doll 😂😂😂😂
Oh my god!!! 😂😂😂 I used a hot water bottle!!!
#Growinguppoor
Happy belated mother's day and much love from Virginia 💞
Thank you Nisa !!! happy belated mothers day !! (:
I know this was filmed 5 years ago but I just wanted to comment that I totally understand what you were going through. My mom tends to say the same about how my kids aren't being fed well and that I don't care to try harder even though they are well and eat well when they are hungry. The one thing that hurts me that my mom Says to me a lot and this is 100% why I do not like to see her is that I am like a sister of hers who abused her children and only cared for her husband. I do not understand where she gets this from, I am either working in roofing 10 hours a day just like my husband does and the rest of the day catering to my kids and our home well being. Yet it hurts when she says this because I know I am far from that but she openly says it infront of people or just everything I see her. I will be telling her to stop next time she brings it up but yea...im happy your husband is very supportive and understanding. That is very important in every relationship.
Never have been so early :o and now enjoying your vlog🙈 love you ❤️
ahh yay love you more anastazja !!!!!!!!
Nami: brush right away
Galahad: it’s somebody’s birthday 🤨
aweee, Nami, you guys are always so sick ... I hope you guys be healthy this Summer ! By the way, watching Zeik take his medicine made me think of my 1yr old nephew. if you try to feed him medicine from a child Syringe, he doesn't drink it But if you give it to him off a spoon, he thinks he's a grown up so he takes it 😂 Kids are just so darn funny ...
AGH i hope we stop this sickness things !!!!!!!!! Hahaha it's true kids are so funny !!!!
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hope u can improve relationship with yr mom,pls understand the cultural differences and her life experiences affect her expectations n reactions,
try to prepare yr family to eventually move out n hv hr own home,
sending love to yr family
hannah lw I'm sorry to butt in but just because she had a difficult life doesn't mean she can live her daughter's life. That"s how i see it. It's like she wants to live through namii her life because she didn't have the chance to have a loving family like namii has now. Her mom needs to try to change her mindset bc it's affecting her daughter.
Namii it's already a grown up woman and she's not a kid anymore. She should let her daughter deal with her issues and with her family. If namii needs help, believe me, she'll call her if she thinks it's the best to do but it's not right or acceptable to do what she was doing.
This it's why people live apart from their parents. It parents weren't butting in every second every daughter or son would get along with their parents.
Thank you so much for your insights Hannah !! I do believe culture and time generations play a huge part in how a person's mindsets and believes are shaped. One of our end-year goals this year was to move out and we will be separating from my parents this summer by God's grace ! (:
Namiii! My heart broke when I saw U crying 😰
shoot. you guys just reminded me that i have to go to the dentist. dentist freak me out!!!!!!
😢😭it’s gets stressful seeing your kids sick 😷 🤒. He’s such a good boy at the dentist jaja 😆
i hope you and your parents relationship get better , i feel the problem here is communication. The way a certain topic is being presented but yet again we can't tell our moms that b/c they are the parent parent. it's complicated right? :(
Thank you Phurbu !!! i also believe it is communication. Both of us are misunderstanding each other and expressing ourselves in an offensive way. I think it's important to continue to practice understanding the other party and also sharing yourself in the best and kindest way!!!
I really want to hug you when you crying :'(
Thumbs up crying is fine you know your kids looking at you like ......here's a baby too loll
LOOOL hahahahaha this made me crack up !!!! 😂😂😂😂
Our mums are similar in that way 😅
not tryna be rude but why don't y'all just move out? that will solve the issue of your mom
Ana Jimenez I was thinking the same thing but maybe they don't have the money to do it. I just hope namii can always be happy and soon find a way to move out.
Hi Ana,
In mid-June (month from now) we will be living separately.
Hi Jimin, yes money was a major factor in whether we would move out or not. Moving was a definite consideration that came up many times throughout our times together living with Nami's parents, and several times I was very close to dropping studies and working full-time so we could move out. One of our main goals was to live separate this year and it will be happening :) One of my hopes was that living together as an inter-generational household, we might learn to cope, work , and live together, but turned out VERY difficult.
Hi HeyItsGaYoung,
It sure didn't happen overnight, but we will finally be transitioning into living independently next month.
mike park I will pray for your happiness. You are such a kind man and namii's such a sweet girl. You guys deserve to live happily and without worries. ❤
It's better this way michael. It's like you're giving everything you have in order for things to work out but sometimes giving your best doesn't go the way you want it to go because the other part has to be on the same page as well.
I understand your situation. You both tried and it didn't work and it's not your fault because both of you gave the best to make everything better.
keep fighting and don't give up on school. You'll get there with your family but it takes time ❤ be patient, god has everything under control.
im so happy that you guys are happy bc you guys are moving out soon 😍
omg i need that peppa pig plushie for my little sister she's so obsessed with peppa and her brother 😂 btw i love how you and your husband always have a lovely conversation it's so cute
hahahahaha that's so cute of her !!! XD we try to keep effective communication !!! ^ ^
I would love to have a partner like Michael
i heard honey helps with sore throats because it is also anticiotic and is also antibacterial. 🤔
Yesyesyes I've heard honey from nurses too u_u We've been giving them a lot of V C but we need to get new honey cuz ours is ghetto and I don't feel safe giving it to the kids 😭😭
try to give them organic pineapple juice...it should said in the ingredient only pineapple juice. is good for coughs/colds
NOTE:
You don’t usually think of pineapple as a cough remedy, but that’s probably because you’ve never heard of bromelain. There’s evidence to suggest that bromelain - an enzyme found only in the stem and fruit of pineapples - can help suppress coughs as well as loosen the mucus in your throat. To enjoy the most benefits of pineapple and bromelain, eat a slice of pineapple or drink 3.5 ounces of fresh pineapple juice three times a day.
There are also claims that it can help relieve sinusitis and allergy-based sinus issues, which can contribute to coughs and mucus. However, there is insufficient evidence to support this. It’s also sometimes used to treat inflammation and swelling.
Bromelain supplements should not be taken by children or adults who take blood thinners. Also, be careful using bromelain if you’re also on antibiotics such as amoxicillin, as it can increase the absorption of the antibiotic. Always speak to your doctor before taking new or unfamiliar supplements.
Nutrients in pineapple juice may help soothe symptoms of a cough or cold. One 2010 study found that pineapple juice was part of an effective treatment for tuberculosis, thanks to its ability to soothe the throat and dissolve mucus. According to this study, a mixture of pineapple juice, honey, salt, and pepper reduced cough symptoms up to five times faster than over-the-counter (OTC) cough syrup.
Thank you so much for the helpful information Meyling !!! That sounds so yummy hahaha much better than cough syrup !!! I should look up a recipe !!!
I know the situation can be stressful with ur mom I have been there done that and I had to ask the Lord to show me how to respond to the situation and ask him to open ur eyes as to why u get so upset because sometimes the problem is he wants us to humbles ourselves amd take a dif approach how we see what's coming at us and ask for wisdom amd guidance how to make that relationship better . Ask him to show u how to serve her to defuse the problems and in u doin that his way he will show her her ways either thru a dream or other people , but some people don't know how to communicate . I'm a talker my husband is not so I have learned some stuff he just doesn't get so I have to pray about the issues . Thank God he has given u a u understanding husband that can see and that does care . I hope u can find a way to work it out espec because the bible tells us to honor our mother and father so we can have long life and make sure u guard ur heart with these issues because goin to sleep on it and thinkin of it days after is how resentment comes from our anger setting in guard ur heart with all diligence out if flows the issues of life .. this is clearly an issue ur going to have to guard and be mindful over .at the end we are responsible for how we act even when the wrong things are being done to us
I dont wanna see you cry again, its too !much to handle😊😭😭
aww love you ~~~ I'm ok nowww (:
does michael also speak korean?
only a little !! but he wants to become more fluent u_u
Awwwww nami is such a baby
It can also be menopause
hi namii have a nice weekend
thank you abeer !!! Hope you had a good weekend too hehe
You don't have to explain how much or what you feed "YOUR CHILDREN". That's why they are your children. Hopefully you'll get your own place soon and thing will get better.
Thank you for your support and understanding Anna! Our family will be having a move this summer !!! :D
you know you’re from Canada when... 20:40
Jk. Y’all are so cool.
I need a Mike!
Why were u crying
what was the reason
WHAT WAS THE REASONNNNNNNN
LOL cuz my mom 🤣
Galahad is so adorable!
hehehe thank you kimberly
Omg I really want to get married :
I don't like how she hates what her mom does . It's all cuz she cares about you . I don't like how she expose about how her mom is . She is doing that cuz you guys are young and need s to learn what's need to be done when you have a child !
Thank you for your insights tsering ! (:
You're so beautiful