This song literally picked me up when I was in the pits.😍 I learned to love myself unconditionally, forgive myself for letting myself down, taught me how to show up for myself.
You may never see this but can you please share some of those steps if you can... I also have let myself down in addition to others and now I am most certainly in the pits... Thanks Beloved This song is AMAZING
OMG... This is now our official theme song! Nearly 40 million of us have been taught from birth that we are NOT valuable, NOT attractive, NOT worthy of love, NOT this, NOT that, just NOT. "Use your past to get ahead... Hold your tears and think instead... You HAVE TO FIND A WAY TO MAKE IT..." ...thank you, God for this phenomenal sister (Lalah Hathway) and this phenomenal song.
This Song set's me free from all the pain I have endure during my life time. 41 and loving all of me....God's love will always shower over my life..... 💝💝💝
This song saved me. I was in a terrible relationship the first time I heard this song. The mental abuse had me tired. Had my self esteem non existent. I was simply headed to the mall and this song came on and I had to pull over and I cried and cried and cried. By the time I left that mall parking lot my mind was made up that I choose ME. Thank you Lalah. This was 4 years ago
So so so UNDERRATED It is so refreshing to actually hear a song that encourages us, lifts us up, reminds us to love who we really are. Positive message. Unless it's gospel music its hard to find real music these days that just seems so pure, simple yet powerful. This woman is truly gifted.
Turned 66 yrs old yesterday and this song spoke Volumes to my heart ♥️, to my soul and my LIFE!!! Thank you Lalah Hathaway, you’ve Touched where So Many Couldn’t ✌🏾✌🏾❤️✊🏾🦋🦋🦋🦋
Bitter hearts don't hold a smile Troubled minds will wear you down Use your past to get ahead Hold your tears and think instead You have to find a way to make it These clouds are letting up for awhile Sometimes you gotta make the mirror your best friend Maybe then, you'll find some peace within Stop hiding yourself, stop hiding yourself Love yourself When no one else can Now you know the remedy Tell yourself you will achieve Just go on and brush your shoulders off This bridge is one that you must cross You have to find a way to make it These clouds are letting up for awhile Sometimes you gotta make the mirror your best friend Maybe then, you'll find some peace within Stop hiding yourself, stop hiding yourself Love yourself When no one else can If you love yourself, you don't need nobody else (Don't need nobody else) No one can love you like you If you look inside, (look inside) You'll find where your strength resides No one can love you like you Sometimes you gotta make the mirror your best friend And maybe then, you'll find some peace within Stop hiding yourself, stop hiding yourself Love yourself When no one else can Stop hiding yourself, stop hiding yourself Love yourself When no one else can Stop hiding yourself, stop hiding yourself Love yourself When no one else can
I validate myself 100 percent from within. It’s ok to be me, authentically. I won’t code switch or hide my full potential ever again. I am living for a purpose at all times. I play to win in all things everyday.
I heard her singing this song in a concert in Philadelphia. I was on a trip with my parents and my ex broke up with me at that time. I took them to the concert and I heard this song... Love yourself, when no one else can
I thought no one could sing better than her Dad....He had the Gospel flair that catapulted his vocals to the top of the R & B chart in my eyes. This woman..... has added a classical jazzy element to his already phenomenal vocals and now I am up in the (the two) the 2nd Heaven just enjoying every note! Beautiful Job Lalah! I'm sure your Father would be pleased.
Love yourself like no one else can...smh...this song speaks volumes. She sung it live in my home town and her voice commanded the entire building. Keep doing you Lalah.
I cannot begin to express how much strength this song gives me right now. I am grateful for the blessing that is Ms Lalah Hathaway, a phenomenal woman with a phenomenal voice.
Just got to see her live in Cincinnati, OH the vocals are unmatched she sounds impeccable. 😍 She doesn't depend on any systems to enhance her voice. Such a delightful talent and she's funny and bossy!
I seen her live in concert and she sung this song. I got goosebumps and felt the presence of GOD speaking directly to me. This is a healing prayer song.🙌💃
I am so thankful to God, Lalah, and Gourdon Banks (songwriter) for being able to share this timely, incredible message with one of my former students who needed a reminder of how important he is to God, himself, and the world.🙌🏾🥰💯
I just shared this song with one of my granddaughters who hit a rough patch a few months back. I had to release the issues so God would move in! As a parent and grandparent, we have to learn how to move out of God's way! Amen! Thank you for this beautiful song!🙏🙏🙏
I love the verse " Stop hiding yourself, love yourself, when no one else can " . So much inspiration behind Lalah Hathaway's words. I can listen to this song all day. Sing that song!
this song means so much to me when I first lost my mom over a month ago I felt so lost but this song just popped up on my phone and when I listened to it I took it as a message from my mother and when I feel down and has no one to turn to I listen to this song it's as if it my mom talking to me .....
I’m going through some stressful moments in my life right now ❤️❤️❤️❤️💯💯🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾back God hasn’t turn on me once I have loving family in my circle for the
Im still growing as a person. For so long, i havent been loving myself. I have always been trying to find validity elsewhere. But then i realized people come and go. What if the person i depended leaves me? How would I cope? I need to make self the base. The foundation of my life before anyone else. This is whybi love this song because it speaks to me. Lalah is very talented!
Thank you GOD for this anointed singer and songwriter!!! Thanks Amara, my beautiful and extremely smart niece for introducing me to this songstress. I haven't fallen in love with the music of a secular female artist since Anita Baker. About to order the CD and everything else she sings.
Dr. Hathaway indeed. A prophetic presence. I proclaim healing to the hearers and see the City of Baltimore in my spirits eye. Make the mirror your best friend. Stated like no one else can❤
I just loss my Dad on Christmas Day... This song is inspiration. Her voice is calming to me. Not to mention, my Dad loved Donnie Hathaway, and his daughter Laylah.
I need for Lalah Hathaway to stop running through my mind and singing my thoughts. Musical therapy! Loved her since heaven knows...see what I did there? haha!
I lost my best friend of 16 years suddenly September 13th ...Good co worker , Friend, Brother miss u Marlon Twin Collie. I love this song it reminds me of the times me and my brotha had ...Some times I don't want to continue on with out my Ace...
I love Lalah Hathaway and this song is just another amazing example of her beauty and talent. Her vocals are crazy! Love you Lalah! Thanks for sharing your gift.
This song helped me in a very dark and lonely period in my life. I just remembered it and needed to hear it again. ❤ I am remembering to make the mirror my best friend
ThankYou For Sharing your Gifts with Us,You Are A Beautiful Soul&I Love You 💞May You See All The BLESSING of THE MOST HIGH ELOHIM YAH as Your Journey Continues.🙏
Beautiful song. This song is sooooooo me.. I Hide myself alllll the time. I literally cried when listening to this song. It's the first time I have heard it today. I am going to see her in concert. She's coming to TN with Anthony Hamilton & Eric Benet. Can't wait. My new inspirational song. Thanks Lalah..
Just come out of relationship of 5 yeats, and I was driving home from work one night a this song right here! Spoke volume to my ❤... Where I felt unloved, didn't love me 1st! I am my best friend, I no longer behind someone who's love wasn't real, this song is so powerful
This song gives me a Sunday afternoon vibe: sunny, full of warmth, reminiscing about the past, looking forward to the future and simply embrace what is, what is here and the now. Thank you Miss Lalah.
Oh my goodness I love this woman. Did anyone else notice the harmony break down @ 1:18 amazing. I mean this whole song is amazing but the break down harmony I kept playing over and over . Excuse me I have to go back to it LOVE YOU LALAH LOVE LOVE LOVE YOU my favorite singer of any artist
Literally,the greatest voice of our generation,She is every true singers FAVORITE SINGER! Lalah it is a gift to the world that we have your VOICE! PEACE to you.
Girl, I had never heard this song before, girl it hit home made me cry! But not in a bad way but it made me realize all my growth since my DV marriage. Beautiful
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This song literally picked me up when I was in the pits.😍 I learned to love myself unconditionally, forgive myself for letting myself down, taught me how to show up for myself.
Beautiful! I hope you are living an amazing life!😘
Agreed!!
You may never see this but can you please share some of those steps if you can... I also have let myself down in addition to others and now I am most certainly in the pits... Thanks Beloved
This song is AMAZING
I'm back beautiful souls! I decree whomever reads this,finds the love,bliss and happiness here for us all!🫂🫂 I love you all!
God bless us with this beautiful moment ❤❤❤
OMG... This is now our official theme song! Nearly 40 million of us have been taught from birth that we are NOT valuable, NOT attractive, NOT worthy of love, NOT this, NOT that, just NOT. "Use your past to get ahead... Hold your tears and think instead... You HAVE TO FIND A WAY TO MAKE IT..." ...thank you, God for this phenomenal sister (Lalah Hathway) and this phenomenal song.
Incredible song! It's now my anthem for my gdaughters.
So true❤
WOW....Again❤
This is a beautiful song. Now my eyes are sweating😭😭😭😭😭😭I'm not hiding myself anymore. All praise to The Most High!!!
This Song set's me free from all the pain I have endure during my life time. 41 and loving all of me....God's love will always shower over my life..... 💝💝💝
Monica J I'm so proud of you Queen
Monica J AMEN SIS🙌🏾👐🏾💃🏽
Monica J Agree
I love this so much. it speaks to my soul
Monica J I know that's right 😀
This song saved me. I was in a terrible relationship the first time I heard this song. The mental abuse had me tired. Had my self esteem non existent. I was simply headed to the mall and this song came on and I had to pull over and I cried and cried and cried. By the time I left that mall parking lot my mind was made up that I choose ME. Thank you Lalah. This was 4 years ago
Amen God bless you it helped too❤😊
Wow, I needed to hear this song. Beautiful!!
So so so UNDERRATED
It is so refreshing to actually hear a song that encourages us, lifts us up, reminds us to love who we really are. Positive message.
Unless it's gospel music its hard to find real music these days that just seems so pure, simple yet powerful.
This woman is truly gifted.
Karen May
I so totally agree with you
Turned 66 yrs old yesterday and this song spoke Volumes to my heart ♥️, to my soul and my LIFE!!! Thank you Lalah Hathaway, you’ve Touched where So Many Couldn’t ✌🏾✌🏾❤️✊🏾🦋🦋🦋🦋
She didn't write the song. Gourdan Banks
Nothing like the grace of a woman.
My God, what a beautiful voice, beautiful song. Her music always soothes the soul. Thank you Lalah! We Love you!!
Yes!!
When Lalah and her dad literally have voices and songs that can sing you out of a dark place!!!
I fell in love with this song as soon as I heard it.
Me too! : )
I did also.
Same
Me too! So much so, I bought the album just for this song!
Me too. 💜 it!
Bitter hearts don't hold a smile
Troubled minds will wear you down
Use your past to get ahead
Hold your tears and think instead
You have to find a way to make it
These clouds are letting up for awhile
Sometimes you gotta make the mirror your best friend
Maybe then, you'll find some peace within
Stop hiding yourself, stop hiding yourself
Love yourself
When no one else can
Now you know the remedy
Tell yourself you will achieve
Just go on and brush your shoulders off
This bridge is one that you must cross
You have to find a way to make it
These clouds are letting up for awhile
Sometimes you gotta make the mirror your best friend
Maybe then, you'll find some peace within
Stop hiding yourself, stop hiding yourself
Love yourself
When no one else can
If you love yourself, you don't need nobody else
(Don't need nobody else)
No one can love you like you
If you look inside, (look inside)
You'll find where your strength resides
No one can love you like you
Sometimes you gotta make the mirror your best friend
And maybe then, you'll find some peace within
Stop hiding yourself, stop hiding yourself
Love yourself
When no one else can
Stop hiding yourself, stop hiding yourself
Love yourself
When no one else can
Stop hiding yourself, stop hiding yourself
Love yourself
When no one else can
ashley golden Big ups!
Thanks
Thanks live
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POWERFUL LYRICS!!!!!!!
Such an earthy voice, soothing.
I validate myself 100 percent from within. It’s ok to be me, authentically. I won’t code switch or hide my full potential ever again. I am living for a purpose at all times. I play to win in all things everyday.
I heard her singing this song in a concert in Philadelphia. I was on a trip with my parents and my ex broke up with me at that time.
I took them to the concert and I heard this song... Love yourself, when no one else can
I've been following this woman since "Heaven Only Knows" & had the pleasure of meeting/having dinner with her once too. Awesome energy.
this song is so powerful!!
Yazzzzzzzzzz soooo many Tearsssss
This song is Deep
From 2:45 on, I have to keep checking to make sure I'm still alive. Just BEAUTIFUL!!!
Really helps out on those days when you feel like no one cares.
Amen 🙏 God bless you ❤Jesus loves you 🙏 😊
@@tahiramartinezGodislove thank you
I thought no one could sing better than her Dad....He had the Gospel flair that catapulted his vocals to the top of the R & B chart in my eyes. This woman..... has added a classical jazzy element to his already phenomenal vocals and now I am up in the (the two) the 2nd Heaven just enjoying every note! Beautiful Job Lalah! I'm sure your Father would be pleased.
Thank you
Exactly
My English teacher legit plays this two times during our class so this can be stuck in our brains 😭
We need more Educators like her
Wonderful!
In a Class all by herself.... 🥂Here's a toast to a Real artist with Real unmatched talent. I truly Love her music...
Love yourself like no one else can...smh...this song speaks volumes. She sung it live in my home town and her voice commanded the entire building. Keep doing you Lalah.
words to live by,,,,stop hiding yourself,love yourself like noone else can... I love it!!!!!
This song is so beautiful and so true. It touches the depths of your very soul.
Recently saw Lalah, Anthony Hamilton and Eric Benet. AWESOME!!!!!!
I cannot begin to express how much strength this song gives me right now. I am grateful for the blessing that is Ms Lalah Hathaway, a phenomenal woman with a phenomenal voice.
Amen 🙏 God bless you 😊
Donnie's baby girl! Very nice LahLah
Just like her dad to me...really blessed w/those vocals...one of GODS gifts to this world..
Who else can hear, Donny Hathaway voice, within Layla’s beautiful lyrics.🖐🏾💚🖤❤️
This song is getting me through a rough patch in my life. Thank you Ms. Lalah!
Just got to see her live in Cincinnati, OH the vocals are unmatched she sounds impeccable. 😍
She doesn't depend on any systems to enhance her voice. Such a delightful talent and she's funny and bossy!
The lyrics to this beautiful song speak deep truth into my soul; makes me want to cry. I love this song!
I cried my heart out when I saw her do this song recently. She sounds just like this live!
Sooo true
carly1luv
carly1luv come cry over here baby...
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I seen her live in concert and she sung this song. I got goosebumps and felt the presence of GOD speaking directly to me. This is a healing prayer song.🙌💃
If we could only live by these words. Life could be so much better for some of us. What a beautiful and powerful song! Lalah is that deal!!
Lalah is my favorite artist I'm only 22 years old. I appreciate everything she does
I am so thankful to God, Lalah, and Gourdon Banks (songwriter) for being able to share this timely, incredible message with one of my former students who needed a reminder of how important he is to God, himself, and the world.🙌🏾🥰💯
I just shared this song with one of my granddaughters who hit a rough patch a few months back. I had to release the issues so God would move in! As a parent and grandparent, we have to learn how to move out of God's way! Amen!
Thank you for this beautiful song!🙏🙏🙏
this song makes me smile bc I have finally learned to love me
Yess so Happy for you
Amen 🙏 God bless you 😊❤
I love the verse " Stop hiding yourself, love yourself, when no one else can " . So much inspiration behind Lalah Hathaway's words. I can listen to this song all day. Sing that song!
This song is about true love- love for yourself. You can’t love anyone if you don’t learn to love yourself first.
Jesus thank you for letting me hear this song ❤❤❤❤❤
My GOD when you need that song to carry you through, this is the one. GREAT JOB Lalah, SLADEDA!!!!!!!
This women's voice is velvet.
oh my icant hold back the tears my mom is no longer her this song makes me thinj of her what a beautiful song .... ive been hiding
Thank you Jesus you heard my cry
The first time I heard her voice in 1990 after Desert Storm. I'm melting right now. True story. I love het. Badass
I don't know what I did to deserve Lalah Hathaway in my life but I honestly feel like it's a blessing.
this song means so much to me when I first lost my mom over a month ago I felt so lost but this song just popped up on my phone and when I listened to it I took it as a message from my mother and when I feel down and has no one to turn to I listen to this song it's as if it my mom talking to me .....
Cuts deep..but softly.....REAL song..REAL music....
It's sad when u don't know the music is not played for u!!! When are u gonna let me go William I love all kind of music !!!!!
I definitely missed this one , for I rocks with all her music, and now it’s been on replay ! I shared it with my tribe in my phone !
This is one of my favorite songs!!!
Stop hiding yourself stop hiding yourself! Sometimes you gotta make the mirror your best friend. Love this song. Touches my heart deeply.
this song is so powerful.......i listen to it daily
My God....this song moves me each time I hear it.
I’m going through some stressful moments in my life right now ❤️❤️❤️❤️💯💯🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾back God hasn’t turn on me once I have loving family in my circle for the
Im still growing as a person. For so long, i havent been loving myself. I have always been trying to find validity elsewhere. But then i realized people come and go. What if the person i depended leaves me? How would I cope? I need to make self the base. The foundation of my life before anyone else. This is whybi love this song because it speaks to me. Lalah is very talented!
Thank you GOD for this anointed singer and songwriter!!! Thanks Amara, my beautiful and extremely smart niece for introducing me to this songstress. I haven't fallen in love with the music of a secular female artist since Anita Baker. About to order the CD and everything else she sings.
The Lord is speaking here. The Hathaway genius continues......!
Man I forgot how gooooooood this song is. Thanks Terrell 💓💓
I just heard this on Pandora and I’ve had it on repeat for the last 3 days!
Beautiful singing. Beautiful woman. Beautiful message in a song. Props to the songwriter!
This song takes me to such a beautiful place. I love her voice and the words.
I’ve listened to this song like 10x already one of my favorite!!! So very true! 💜
Dr. Hathaway indeed. A prophetic presence. I proclaim healing to the hearers and see the City of Baltimore in my spirits eye. Make the mirror your best friend. Stated like no one else can❤
My go to song...it made me realize who I am...thanks Ms. Hathaway
I just loss my Dad on Christmas Day... This song is inspiration. Her voice is calming to me. Not to mention, my Dad loved Donnie Hathaway, and his daughter Laylah.
Universal song for THOSE days or anyday
Lalah's voice is a soul healer!!!
Amen 🙏 😊
Nice, Lalah. Awesome lyrics and sound. I know dad is so proud. Rev. ETP
I am so in love with this song!!
I listen to this song every morning to start my morning, very inspirational. We all need that.
I had to pull over and collect myself!
33coffy Yaaaaassssss....
33coffy on my momma!!!
I swear I still can’t listen without crying.
Girl! It's touching! 🙌🏽
I definitely have to agree 💜
I came across this song about year ago. When I was losing my mother. This song gotten me through so many storms. Thank you
This song gave me a whole Mood this Morning added light on my Raining Day..and lead me to faith.
I need for Lalah Hathaway to stop running through my mind and singing my thoughts. Musical therapy! Loved her since heaven knows...see what I did there? haha!
Let’s call her what she truly is HEALER...💎🏆🌹
I lost my best friend of 16 years suddenly September 13th ...Good co worker , Friend, Brother miss u Marlon Twin Collie. I love this song it reminds me of the times me and my brotha had ...Some times I don't want to continue on with out my Ace...
I've been going through so much this year alone and listening to this song let me know that god is with me and it's okay to exhale all your hurt.
I love Lalah Hathaway and this song is just another amazing example of her beauty and talent. Her vocals are crazy! Love you Lalah! Thanks for sharing your gift.
If self-care had a voice...thank you Queen Hathaway
194 idiots. Thank you Lalah found this gem 2 days b4 my 40th. I needed this. God bless you always Queen
All she has to do is open her mouth!
This song speaks to me right now!
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Her voice is like an expensive soothing wine. Very comforting.
I have listened to this a hundred plus times ... so inspirational and fitting for me at this moment of my life... fills my soul!! love Lalah ❤
A beautiful voice from a beautiful and lovely singer. Love this song. She does her father proud.
If u ever need a male background vocalist,it would be my honor. This song sent chills. This the one rite here. The message, I needed this thanks
fred dubose, maybe she’d give me a spot too. Been trying to figure out how to break into these singing gigs 🎤!!!
This song helped me in a very dark and lonely period in my life. I just remembered it and needed to hear it again. ❤ I am remembering to make the mirror my best friend
What a beautiful song...our young girls with self-esteem issues need listen to this song
Locs are the crown of black women ! She have a great voice and she is naturally beautiful !
The lyrics hit home for me....this is like a testimony and spoken word..I love this😊
I LOVE THIS ARTIST SO MUCH... THIS SONG SPEAKS TO MY SOUL. THANK YOU
ThankYou For Sharing your Gifts with Us,You Are A Beautiful Soul&I Love You 💞May You See All The BLESSING of THE MOST HIGH ELOHIM YAH as Your Journey Continues.🙏
She speaks to my heart. Thank you for being true.
I needed this today. Very authentic and raw artist.
Beautiful! People need to learn to love themselves FIRST. When this is accomplished things will make sense and fall into place. ♥️♥️
Beautiful song. This song is sooooooo me.. I Hide myself alllll the time. I literally cried when listening to this song. It's the first time I have heard it today. I am going to see her in concert. She's coming to TN with Anthony Hamilton & Eric Benet. Can't wait. My new inspirational song. Thanks Lalah..
I just wanna meet her .an give a great bug hug and Thank her 😊😊😊😊😊luv you laylay from Cc of L...A
😊😋😙😗💗💗💗💟💟💖💖💔💔💓💓❤❤💙
It's my time to shine
This song makes me cry. Idk why, maybe bcz its PURE
Just come out of relationship of 5 yeats, and I was driving home from work one night a this song right here! Spoke volume to my ❤... Where I felt unloved, didn't love me 1st! I am my best friend, I no longer behind someone who's love wasn't real, this song is so powerful
1st time I heard this song , it affected me similar
This song gives me a Sunday afternoon vibe: sunny, full of warmth, reminiscing about the past, looking forward to the future and simply embrace what is, what is here and the now. Thank you Miss Lalah.
Oh my goodness I love this woman. Did anyone else notice the harmony break down @ 1:18 amazing. I mean this whole song is amazing but the break down harmony I kept playing over and over . Excuse me I have to go back to it LOVE YOU LALAH LOVE LOVE LOVE YOU my favorite singer of any artist
I came here from IG. I am trying not cry but this song right here. I love this.
Literally,the greatest voice of our generation,She is every true singers FAVORITE SINGER! Lalah it is a gift to the world that we have your VOICE! PEACE to you.
Girl, I had never heard this song before, girl it hit home made me cry! But not in a bad way but it made me realize all my growth since my DV marriage. Beautiful