How to build trust in seconds | Adrienne Bankert | TEDxReno

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  • Опубликовано: 26 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 59

  • @arlenesolis024
    @arlenesolis024 4 месяца назад +92

    I believe Maya Angelou said “people will forget what you said but remember you by how you made them feel.” I believe this is an example of it. Kindness is action. Thank you

  • @kris.listen748
    @kris.listen748 4 месяца назад +37

    9:59 | “What question do you wish more people asked you?”
    WOW! That’s a striking conversation starter!

    • @XeaRae
      @XeaRae 4 месяца назад +2

      To me this question is a cop out. Making interviewee do your job for you.
      I’ve seen multiple interviews with this question and the answer is never interesting and it doesn’t look like it builds a connection.

  • @heregoeseverythiing
    @heregoeseverythiing 4 месяца назад +29

    Someone actually told me I was a breath of fresh air yesterday. It made my day!!!😊

    • @ChanningAyers
      @ChanningAyers 4 месяца назад +3

      Based off of your unique screen name, seems like you would be that person.. ❤️

  • @botsworkroom5943
    @botsworkroom5943 4 месяца назад +24

    Be true to your word and follow through with your actions. ...
    Learn how to communicate effectively with others. ...
    Remind yourself that it takes time to build and earn trust. ...
    Take time to make decisions and think before acting too quickly.
    I hope this may help you from my side.😊😊

    • @Lolcoca
      @Lolcoca 4 месяца назад

      It depends on each person, the situation, the interaction and the relationships that you have with that person.

  • @AliceHeiman
    @AliceHeiman 4 месяца назад +4

    Wonderful ideas for being comfortable starting conversations when networking or interviewing. Prompting is something everyone can learn. Love this talk.

  • @alexandrabcarter
    @alexandrabcarter 4 месяца назад +1

    So many people talk about trust, but not how to earn it. Loved seeing this talk in person! Congrats Adrienne!

  • @JudyHoPhD
    @JudyHoPhD 4 месяца назад +3

    Thanks for sharing your personal story and ways to help people spark interesting and meaningful conversations. Beginning with empathy and a desire to genuine understand another person is so important.
    It was great to meet you at TEDx Adrienne!

  • @ewalichorowicz4614
    @ewalichorowicz4614 4 месяца назад +3

    Such a great speech! ❤ Every person we meet has a story. 'We all need a breath of fresh air' 🙏😊

  •  4 месяца назад +1

    This speech is just spectacular!

  • @ipsitaroy27
    @ipsitaroy27 4 месяца назад

    Kindness speaks! You’re a real encourager! Thank you, this is a wonderful learning.

  • @KayaStanley
    @KayaStanley 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for this amazing and moving talk, Adrienne! I have thought about this many times since I heard you give this talk live!

  • @VaxjoyOllie2
    @VaxjoyOllie2 4 месяца назад +10

    Great message to takeaway!

  • @aryaraj-eb1du
    @aryaraj-eb1du 4 месяца назад +5

    Thank you so much ❤😊

  • @XinYuan-y8x
    @XinYuan-y8x 2 месяца назад +1

    Our prof asked us to listen to this video and learn something about "prompt". Hard for me to understand anything only by listenning to this video just once (English is my second language). I listenned to this video twice and finally take a detailed notes about amost every sentence. I am wasting a lot of time doing so. May be I should omit examples in my notes and keep the nots simple. However, examples do help me to understand the concepts. Hard to choose. This is my first assignment of university. Really hope my listenning ability to be better.

  • @dm_chae7787
    @dm_chae7787 4 месяца назад +6

    Very insightful. Thank you!

  • @marieschmidt9416
    @marieschmidt9416 4 месяца назад +1

    Wow, how inspiring! Great talk.

  • @BobThomason-rht
    @BobThomason-rht 4 месяца назад +1

    I find when I can make the conversation more about them and a genuine curiosity about them, it leads to very interesting conversations. Bing all about me is no fun for either of us. This is a challenge for my personality type but I continue to work on it. Well don presentation.

  • @ЗухраДанабаева-ю9б
    @ЗухраДанабаева-ю9б 4 месяца назад

    Welfare is the most important thing in human being
    We all should have dignity for certain cases
    To solve problems , first we should discern them deeply
    People should motivate those subdued ones
    I love an ease in her speech :)

  • @Mallowolf
    @Mallowolf 4 месяца назад +4

    Really fun and interesting talk. Thank you for sharing your hard earned expertise.

  • @chinyeakaemmanuel2137
    @chinyeakaemmanuel2137 4 месяца назад +2

    GREAT TALK

  • @biniz5919
    @biniz5919 4 месяца назад

    Impressive appearance and speech ❤❤❤❤

  • @tetsubo57
    @tetsubo57 4 месяца назад +8

    I'm autistic and wasn't diagnosed until I was 58. I've spent my entire life doing the emotional labor of masking who I am to make other people comfortable. I'm done with that. This just sounds like doing more emotional labor for others. Something almost no one has ever done for me.

    • @Lolcoca
      @Lolcoca 4 месяца назад +1

      Because the inclusive society is not too highlighted ! And also we live in a society which we have to think about group’s mind not individual’s mind so if the group said something and if you’re not following or not agreed about it then you’re the one who are weird ! They called individualism, I called it diversity . . . Each person have a different way of thinking . . . That doesn’t mean that they are wrong or right or you are wrong or right ! Just two different perceptions . . .
      Since I bet a lot on the quality of the relationship than on the quantity, I know my relationship with this person and the improvement I have with it as . . . So I don’t ask myself too many questions

  • @stevemartin7464
    @stevemartin7464 4 месяца назад +1

    I agree, you need to be kind o yourself, I battle with connection and I definitely have imposter syndrome. Its really a sh!tty thing to have. I was abused as a kid so I have trouble getting to believe in myself because I was beaten for being "too clever". But, I have worked on it, I am much better but still not perfect.

  • @olalekanbamidele-qp7tt
    @olalekanbamidele-qp7tt 4 месяца назад +1

    Great content. Awesome watching this.

  • @TrentSheltonVideos
    @TrentSheltonVideos 4 месяца назад

    Amazing 🔥

  • @genog5791
    @genog5791 4 месяца назад

    This was good!

  • @suryajaiswal2514
    @suryajaiswal2514 4 месяца назад +2

    Great mam

  • @theschoolofbodylanguage
    @theschoolofbodylanguage 4 месяца назад

    Congratulations

  • @IINoirII
    @IINoirII 4 месяца назад +3

    What if you were born in a place where kindness is treated as weakness and with hostility?

  • @veebhasharma3403
    @veebhasharma3403 4 месяца назад +4

    Watching now

  • @reemhasan37
    @reemhasan37 4 месяца назад

    Thank you beautiful 😻

  • @shubinternet
    @shubinternet 4 месяца назад +3

    So, she talks about Empathy being key to finding prompts, but what if you’re on the autism spectrum and Empathy is simply not something that exists in your tool bag?

    • @Lolcoca
      @Lolcoca 4 месяца назад

      Yes she does not set up here the inclusive society and disabled people like Autism’s people . . .

  • @ВладимирИвашечкин-п4е
    @ВладимирИвашечкин-п4е 4 месяца назад

    Agree and disagree.

  • @sixfiftyfive2386
    @sixfiftyfive2386 4 месяца назад +5

    What exactly is a prompt tho

    • @XeaRae
      @XeaRae 4 месяца назад +3

      Instructions on how to do the prompt are very unclear.
      The only clear example she gives is:
      a) asking an interviewee what question you’d like to be asked more (inapplicable unless you are an interviewer)
      b) telling CEO she thinks being a CEO is the hardest job in the world
      c) asking Lady Gaga how to call her during interview and reffering what a man spoke in her name.
      None of the above seems usable. The second example seems to be ‘notice if someone is down and assume what they are down about’.
      Like there is a lot of fluff about serving people, connecting, being genuine, believing in your own value but the application of the above is not explained.

  • @SEKoranteng
    @SEKoranteng 4 месяца назад +1

    Who else was surprised this video was more than a few seconds long....

  • @harisguldiken9890
    @harisguldiken9890 4 месяца назад +1

    Niye Türkçe çeviri seçeneği yok altyazı olarak.

  • @syedhashimnaqvi3321
    @syedhashimnaqvi3321 4 месяца назад

  • @AndNoted
    @AndNoted 4 месяца назад +1

    Can one help me summerize? English not first language

  • @MaleahsDiary
    @MaleahsDiary 4 месяца назад

    👏👏👏👏👏

  • @joblo2671
    @joblo2671 4 месяца назад +1

    Dont forget to be pretty. How the TV manipulates you :

  • @cloudyname
    @cloudyname 4 месяца назад

    ey baru ges mau ah eyy

  • @freebrook
    @freebrook 4 месяца назад +3

    That Lady Gaga story is actually kind of disappointing. :(

  • @KW-3030
    @KW-3030 4 месяца назад +2

    Why would anyone want advice from her when she was DEMOTED from her morning anchor job in January

  • @陳鈞鼎
    @陳鈞鼎 4 месяца назад +2

    美國🇺🇸是神的國度

  • @MarvelousMusicmmusic
    @MarvelousMusicmmusic 4 месяца назад +3

    I don't trust tv anchors though

    • @DanFrederiksen
      @DanFrederiksen 4 месяца назад +1

      definitely shouldn't trust her on JewsNation, a mossad company.

    • @KW-3030
      @KW-3030 4 месяца назад +2

      ​@@DanFrederiksen her being ULTRA pro-israel is odd cause she was fired from KCRA in 07 for making Antisemitic comments.

    • @DanFrederiksen
      @DanFrederiksen 4 месяца назад +1

      @@KW-3030 she is a working girl for a million dollars a year. anchors are grotesquely overpaid. And she even does it in the name of God. Her judgment will be harsh

    • @KW-3030
      @KW-3030 4 месяца назад +1

      @@DanFrederiksen 💯💯💯