"don't be needy" is actually the main point of this. Not "idgaf". When you got your own life, your own dreams, your own hobbies to do when she's away. That will show her you're a strong attractive and stable man.
Nah, why react so harshly? People make mistakes and test for boundaries...just like puppies. You don't abandon a puppy to the humane society after its first mistake. You correct, teach, lead, and you end up with a loyal dog.
@@wolfman231 You can't compare a puppy to a grown-ass woman. You can correct, teach, lead kids and animals, not a woman who should already know how to behave. Why would anybody want to waste time and energy to "fix" someone's bullshit instead of finding another cool lady, who doesn't do such things? I'm talking about REAL/meant disrespect, not a light fun teasing. That's different
@@realdeskent if your strategy is working well for you, of course you should stick with it. I apply positive reinforcement whenever someone behaves in a pleasing manner by giving them praise or attention. If someone mistreats me or is disrespectful, I apply negative reinforcement by correction or withdrawing my attention. It works pretty well with friends, employees, romantic interests, customers, and yes, dogs.
I experienced it. And I learned that even if you are emotionally falling for her so badly never reveal it to her ... It will make her the most evil person. She will always keep making you feel worthless.
Don’t make a girl fall in love with you like this, Infact if you think it will make her love you you don’t know what love is. if you meet a girl that actually loves you, you won’t needa be like this, a relationship like that won’t last long
Exactly bro , a girl will love guus who do these type of things and don't care. A women will always have more interess in someone who take care of her.
This. This is the perfect response. When you find the right girl... she'll like you even if you're needy If a girl treats you like shit... Walk! Don't play no games with her. Too many girls out there.
This is so true I did the same in previous relationship. I had MA purpose following MA path . She loved me a lot but after some time boom she is gone . One thing I didn’t do is I trusted her too much and didn’t set boundaries. I think we have to strike the balance. Correct me if I am wrong
This is really true. I remember those first days I started trying to asked girls numbers face to face. I was shy and needy and yes, those girls lost interest even though I was one of the good looking guys in my high school. Overtime I practiced and talked to more girls and got more confident. Now I've been having a girlfriend for 4-5 months. It is really about practicing and putting yourself out there. Focus more on yourself because the girls are only the supplement of your awesome life !
She needs to know you have a life... with or without her... and it's also good to have a plan b and c. She also needs to know this... Will keep her in check!!!
Friend zone her first then let her earn her way out of your friend zone don’t be too invested in her women can feel it if you are too invested in something. Always remember you are the prize not her.
Yes, exactly correct. Now here is a tip for you when you meet a new girl. If she brings up the subject - and it is only a matter of time before she does and she asks about an ex girlfriend, here is your golden opportunity. Tell her how she did not make the grade and you got rid of her, and how she tried to come back and you would not have it. Important - tell her that this occurred before you met her, and that you preferred to be alone and not have to tolerate nonsense, or flaking, or not being punctual or whatever faults you choose, and that puts her on warning. It always works.
@@albertodeulofeu5277 I would say there are some guys that fit 'Nice Guys' who are not really so and pretend to be,there are also 'Nice guys' who have been mistreated badly by whoever and wised up to life and as a result have had to be manipulative as a result of negative people around them so being a 'Nice guy' isn't always a a bad thing when the people being manipulated are the negative sort.There are nice guys who don't have to pretend to be anyone else ,and are themselves and genuine.Being a 'Nice guy' is not ticking just one box category.As well as anyone of us can be manipulative when we need or want to be,I think that is part of being human too.
Great video Tripp, hitting on some crucial truth; the line of disrespect is more specifically aggression, belittlement and deception, all truly bad behavior falls under those 3 (e.g., cheating of time or money is a form of deception). Emotional strength is showing you're uninfluenced internally by fear, anger or craving (and a few other toxic emotion-thoughts), responding calmly/assertively/authentically/confidently instead; that's showing mental/spiritual power, which is attractive to women like you said.
I always find it amazing how certain people know how to capatalize on emotion... Guys the secret is be who you are and not what someone else wants you to be, there's someone for everyone, there's no secret there's no formula... So stop trying so hard, what you seek is not RUclips or online, just project your humanity and the rest takes care of itself.
I am working hard to cultivate the “I don’t give a crap“ attitude. It is extremely difficult. I am over 40 with limited experience with women. You name it, I’ve dealt with it: insecurity, jealousy, obsessiveness, neediness, loneliness.But your videos definitely give me something to work with. I believe you mentioned meditation at some point, is any app your favorite?
This is so great and true! I was thinking exactly about that from a couple of weeks, indifference vs standing up for yourself! And this perfectly explains it. Thank you, Tripp!
There is a girl at my job that revealed to a closed group of friends that she is in a very abusive relationship, one guy calls her trying to help her leave and offers her a place to stay, calls and checks up on her periodically (Nice guy). I offered her a place to stay but i told her we having fun and she knows what i meant, i straight up told her shes an adult and i dont care abut the shit she got herself into its her business.....guess which one of us is sleeping with said girl.
This is brilliant & so true. I’ve experienced this exact thing in my last relationship. For 8 years I had an easy-going whatever attitude & she was in love with me, then she started testing me & I didn’t understand anything about women and relationships at the time. I failed her tests and she began to pull away & I made every needy desperate mistake in the book. Her attraction dropped & even though at one point she wanted to marry me, she broke up with me this past April. It devastated me but it also motivated me to study like hell about women & relationships. If only I had known then. Very sad.
We're in the same situation bro. My first love ex turned me into a beta and I got no control and confidence in the relationship. My self esteem dropped. Finally she left me. Its time for me to work on myself.
Thanks !!! I gave some stock tips one . She puts me in a competition with her so call millionaire friend ??? I told her I gave her those tips to help her , not to be put into a competition between me and her and somebody else !!!!! Yes I said my piece !!! Do not F with me , is the underlying message I was conveying to her !!!
Not true, when a guy acts like he does not care, i leave and never come back. Women have busy schedule too, things happen. Sometimes business women don't have the time to chase and want a relaxing life when they go home. No headache please.
Once,a long time ago,I was a simpy nice guy. The very first girlfriend I had ripped my heart out. Now,I don't care. I don't care if I have a girlfriend or not. I'm not that simp anymore.
What if you don’t give a shit but when you do that, she may tell you that it hurts her when you don’t respond back or when you don’t pick up her calls...
So true. I always feel like I’m the catch, if the girls not interested I just move on to someone who is. It’s that simple, no dwelling or being down or any pussy shit like that
Thanks for this wisdom. If you have your own destiny and you thing to do. Don't care if the girl flakes you have more options to take because you are a excelente fun and succeful island. And the girls are boats.
If you're in love, just give her the time and attention she deserves. If she's truly in love with you, she will reciprocate with the same intensity. If she doesn't I guess she can be the asshole. Just find the right person. You don't need to be a jerk.
Emotional stability, confidence, independence, and ‘caring’ are all attractive qualities for women. I think the message here is to not be over bearing and needy, but NOT GIVING A SHIT, is poor wording. If you genuinely think IDGAF mentality is how you get a quality relationship I’m sorry. Would you want a girl who doesn’t give an F about you. Haha and only address you about being disrespected
This will also help with what he is talking about and that is to create more options for yourself. Adding more options will allow this "do not give a shit" attitude to be genuine because of the addtional options you will not care if she doesn't text, call, act flaky etc...you will have other woman keeping you busy. ;)
Have you told them what you want? Tell them what you want and back off a little...interesting and intriguing is always attractive. DONT BE OVERLY NICE...BEST WISHES BUDDY
Men focus on excellence. Work on ur physique, confidence, sense of dressing. U can't get a girl into u unless u put the effort to improve ur self physically, emotionally, mentally. Girls will only find u interesting if u r better than them. U gotta first work on urself buddy, gradually then make the move.
Don't focus on "hot girls" but rather think about what you want in a relationship... If you show that and find someone who thinks alike she will want to be with you! I know if you're young still and might have a lot of pressures from thinking you have to be a certain way to "get" someone, but in the end find what's meaningful to you. How many people you "get" is just a number, but if you find the right person you'll only need one
Your messages are mixed here. You are saying it’s ok 👌 for her to boink other guys or is it showing jealousy and neediness or disrespect if you are upset that she is riding other sausages? Which one ☝️ is it?
Conscious women aren't attracted to what you're suggesting. You know why? Adopted attitudes are seen very clearly as egoic overlays covering over tremendous insecurities. Pretending you don't care is fake. Just as being too nice is fake. Women who have a clue see and feel this level of self protection. These two strategies are polarities which, when you identify with either one, you come from a space of distortion. Polarity, by nature, demands expression. And it cannot express freely and healthily when identified with. That's what all the drama is about. Conscious women fall in love with life, not men. Men are part of life. Part. Everything is life. Women are life. They are here to surrender to being life itself incarnate. They fall in love with being the embodiment of love. Anything less is unhealthy attachment, drama and neediness. Dont play the biological card unless you want a connection based on self preservation and defensiveness. Invest in true self awareness and support that cultivation in the other. A man who strategizes to get a woman to fall in love with him is just as selfish and unattractive as a woman who strategizes to get a man to fall in love with her. Let's grow up.
@@cv6176 i mean... i understand this working for first encounters or dating withing 2-3 months, but would you still act this way even when you've been together for over a year? The tactics that are usually displayed on dating channels are mostly used for Beginning of interactions with woman in my opinion. In other words, to get them on a Hook. They sure worked in the beginning of relationship, but after all, its who you truly are on the inside that matters, no?
@@DgamesJ Bro wake up. I'm not talking about 'tactics' I'm talking about female nature and my own experiences and absorbing knowledge from the experience of others. Be secure and fun but unshakable. Even if you are daft enough to love her never ever tell her that you do.. even if you actually do. You will lose your power and masculinity and she'll be off to the next stronger man (which will happen anyway at some point) I'm sure this guy has just told you that! Best wishes
Hey Tripp, the wording here is totally off. A guy who does not care? Bullshit, that is a Zero and women recognize it. (Even the hopeless masochists.) - A guy who can state what he wants, discuss what he accepts, and make clear what he will not accept is an adult. He will do that with more or less charm, tact and firmness, depending. If he walks because his criteria is not met he's a man.
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Perhaps the best advice I ever had thx a lot bro respect..new subscriber
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"don't be needy" is actually the main point of this. Not "idgaf". When you got your own life, your own dreams, your own hobbies to do when she's away. That will show her you're a strong attractive and stable man.
Yes. When you make her the center of your life all day every day that's a problem .
When she's away and when she's not away 😊
Whatever you chase is running away from you, don’t chase her, attract her
If she disrespects me, I fully ghost her. I don't need that attitude in my life.
Nah, why react so harshly? People make mistakes and test for boundaries...just like puppies. You don't abandon a puppy to the humane society after its first mistake. You correct, teach, lead, and you end up with a loyal dog.
@@wolfman231 You can't compare a puppy to a grown-ass woman. You can correct, teach, lead kids and animals, not a woman who should already know how to behave. Why would anybody want to waste time and energy to "fix" someone's bullshit instead of finding another cool lady, who doesn't do such things? I'm talking about REAL/meant disrespect, not a light fun teasing. That's different
@@realdeskent if your strategy is working well for you, of course you should stick with it. I apply positive reinforcement whenever someone behaves in a pleasing manner by giving them praise or attention. If someone mistreats me or is disrespectful, I apply negative reinforcement by correction or withdrawing my attention. It works pretty well with friends, employees, romantic interests, customers, and yes, dogs.
I only give one chance to women..i' ll tell what she did wrong ..if she repeats..bye2
@@wolfman231 you are a simp.
I experienced it. And I learned that even if you are emotionally falling for her so badly never reveal it to her ... It will make her the most evil person. She will always keep making you feel worthless.
Sounds like my ex wife she is an evil bitch.
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Don’t make a girl fall in love with you like this, Infact if you think it will make her love you you don’t know what love is. if you meet a girl that actually loves you, you won’t needa be like this, a relationship like that won’t last long
Exactly bro , a girl will love guus who do these type of things and don't care.
A women will always have more interess in someone who take care of her.
True advice man
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This. This is the perfect response. When you find the right girl... she'll like you even if you're needy
If a girl treats you like shit...
Walk! Don't play no games with her. Too many girls out there.
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I used to think the same way, like you do here.
But now.... I've realized that women think differently from us (men)
This is so true I did the same in previous relationship. I had MA purpose following MA path . She loved me a lot but after some time boom she is gone . One thing I didn’t do is I trusted her too much and didn’t set boundaries. I think we have to strike the balance. Correct me if I am wrong
We are the prize fellas
Amen
Well if you have nothing going for you then you’re not much of a prize.
Justin Lawrence I actually have quite a few things going for me and more coming in the process. Thanks for the opinion though my brother.
@@joemonteirosportsshorts3343 that's great man. I wasn't targeting you I was just making a statement.
Justin Lawrence no worries 💪🏼
this guy got straight to the point and ended the video at the last second, no intro, no outro no bullshit
i like this guy
Having respect is a simple thing if people cross the line then set the temp.
This is really true. I remember those first days I started trying to asked girls numbers face to face. I was shy and needy and yes, those girls lost interest even though I was one of the good looking guys in my high school. Overtime I practiced and talked to more girls and got more confident. Now I've been having a girlfriend for 4-5 months. It is really about practicing and putting yourself out there. Focus more on yourself because the girls are only the supplement of your awesome life !
She needs to know you have a life... with or without her... and it's also good to have a plan b and c. She also needs to know this... Will keep her in check!!!
So true. I WISH I had known this years ago. Better late than never though.
Absolutely buddy. We keep on learning every now and then.
Same.
Friend zone her first then let her earn her way out of your friend zone don’t be too invested in her women can feel it if you are too invested in something. Always remember you are the prize not her.
Yes, exactly correct. Now here is a tip for you when you meet a new girl. If she brings up the subject - and it is only a matter of time before she does and she asks about an ex girlfriend, here is your golden opportunity. Tell her how she did not make the grade and you got rid of her, and how she tried to come back and you would not have it. Important - tell her that this occurred before you met her, and that you preferred to be alone and not have to tolerate nonsense, or flaking, or not being punctual or whatever faults you choose, and that puts her on warning. It always works.
Women who are attracted to the "jerk" are of low quality anyway, so don't compare yourself to other guys who are jerks and can "get" women.
Not true. It goes deeper than that.
Anonymous CuzOfCrazyEx That’s the same thing with dogs,they can sniff out weakness.
oh so all of them. makes sense lol
@@albertodeulofeu5277 I would say there are some guys that fit 'Nice Guys' who are not really so and pretend to be,there are also 'Nice guys' who have been mistreated badly by whoever and wised up to life and as a result have had to be manipulative as a result of negative people around them so being a 'Nice guy' isn't always a a bad thing when the people being manipulated are the negative sort.There are nice guys who don't have to pretend to be anyone else ,and are themselves and genuine.Being a 'Nice guy' is not ticking just one box category.As well as anyone of us can be manipulative when we need or want to be,I think that is part of being human too.
@@GoldKingsMan you’re using too much logic right now. You’re misunderstanding.
To be honest bad guys really don’t give a shit. That’s why it works so well
That WE'RE LEGENDS!!!! stay up men🤘🔥🤘🔥 best wishes from another mans channel
Actually it’s not caring but you are doing your own thing. You aren’t needy, and are pursing your goals
Great video Tripp, hitting on some crucial truth; the line of disrespect is more specifically aggression, belittlement and deception, all truly bad behavior falls under those 3 (e.g., cheating of time or money is a form of deception). Emotional strength is showing you're uninfluenced internally by fear, anger or craving (and a few other toxic emotion-thoughts), responding calmly/assertively/authentically/confidently instead; that's showing mental/spiritual power, which is attractive to women like you said.
I always find it amazing how certain people know how to capatalize on emotion... Guys the secret is be who you are and not what someone else wants you to be, there's someone for everyone, there's no secret there's no formula... So stop trying so hard, what you seek is not RUclips or online, just project your humanity and the rest takes care of itself.
This guy knows exactly what he’s talking about!
This man is saying exactly the right thing when we overcare/overlove she leaves out....... Try it I experienced.
When She Rejects Us It Is Her Loss :D ^_^
Tony Montana said it best: "First you get the money, then you get the power, THEN you get the woman."
And even then they still won't really love you just what you can do for them.
This advise ain't just for my dating life, but also it goes hand in hand with personal life. Anyone tries mugging me, then it's simple look off time.
I am working hard to cultivate the “I don’t give a crap“ attitude. It is extremely difficult. I am over 40 with limited experience with women. You name it, I’ve dealt with it: insecurity, jealousy, obsessiveness, neediness, loneliness.But your videos definitely give me something to work with. I believe you mentioned meditation at some point, is any app your favorite?
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I always showed a woman that I cared and kept dibs on her and she wanted to hump my bone and stay with me right away.
This is so great and true! I was thinking exactly about that from a couple of weeks, indifference vs standing up for yourself! And this perfectly explains it. Thank you, Tripp!
Exactly
There is a girl at my job that revealed to a closed group of friends that she is in a very abusive relationship, one guy calls her trying to help her leave and offers her a place to stay, calls and checks up on her periodically (Nice guy). I offered her a place to stay but i told her we having fun and she knows what i meant, i straight up told her shes an adult and i dont care abut the shit she got herself into its her business.....guess which one of us is sleeping with said girl.
None of you, she stil fucking her ex. Who you kidding? lmao
You?
THAT AND YOUR FINANCES !!!!
Spot on bro. It worked with me. I did that and many of my girl classmates came after me. 👍😊😊
This is brilliant & so true. I’ve experienced this exact thing in my last relationship. For 8 years I had an easy-going whatever attitude & she was in love with me, then she started testing me & I didn’t understand anything about women and relationships at the time. I failed her tests and she began to pull away & I made every needy desperate mistake in the book. Her attraction dropped & even though at one point she wanted to marry me, she broke up with me this past April. It devastated me but it also motivated me to study like hell about women & relationships. If only I had known then. Very sad.
You must practice every day.
We're in the same situation bro. My first love ex turned me into a beta and I got no control and confidence in the relationship. My self esteem dropped. Finally she left me. Its time for me to work on myself.
Mohd Amirul Good luck to you bro! Let the women chase you. : )
Don't study women... study a subject. Get your degree, your dream job, the women will flow when you've got your shit together.
If she dumps you, she must also think you're not that special for her. It's not just attraction, it's about what you mean for one another
There is like and love these two words are totally different , women don't love men they like what a man got , man got the option of love not woman .
...I don’t know what’s better, getting laid or getting paid I just know when I’m getting one, the other’s getting away...
Guys if a girl disrespects you in any way , its your duty to not ever show that you’re someone above her league. She doesn’t fucking deserve you guys.
Lot's of money, they will fall for you.
Doesn't matter if you don't give them the time of day, they still cheat and it's your fault they do.
Come on Tripp tell us that you learnt this lesson from Darius M 😁
Darius is the man
Dang, that's funny as hell. Totally true
Very to the point. Love it 😂
the bad guy displays confidence. If you're confident then you can give a shit.
Great information, thank you!
Thanks !!! I gave some stock tips one . She puts me in a competition with her so call millionaire friend ??? I told her I gave her those tips to help her , not to be put into a competition between me and her and somebody else !!!!! Yes I said my piece !!! Do not F with me , is the underlying message I was conveying to her !!!
Not true, when a guy acts like he does not care, i leave and never come back. Women have busy schedule too, things happen. Sometimes business women don't have the time to chase and want a relaxing life when they go home. No headache please.
If she disrespects you say "yellow card"
I think you are right !
Thanks for this . I learned the hard way . I think its defo right though
Once,a long time ago,I was a simpy nice guy. The very first girlfriend I had ripped my heart out. Now,I don't care. I don't care if I have a girlfriend or not. I'm not that simp anymore.
What if you don’t give a shit but when you do that, she may tell you that it hurts her when you don’t respond back or when you don’t pick up her calls...
So true. I always feel like I’m the catch, if the girls not interested I just move on to someone who is. It’s that simple, no dwelling or being down or any pussy shit like that
Learning more and more from this and other red pill content👍
thanks
seems to work...but some women need someone who cares...itz tough sometimes...!
Just maintain a line between jerk & simp
Worked for me
Bro I really don’t give two Ducks but I still dont get it.
Exactly 😂
I've got shit going on man!! ;)
Great content
This is so Accurate
Thanks for this wisdom. If you have your own destiny and you thing to do. Don't care if the girl flakes you have more options to take because you are a excelente fun and succeful island. And the girls are boats.
Man it always worked for me i've always make my self as the prise to get , you have to convince me.
Call me crazy but I’m a realist. The only time I can play the role of “not giving a shit” is when I really for reals don’t give a shit.🤷🏻♂️
This works in movies well and in real life it is limited to few percent only
Let's tell her when something is wrong and if she wants to argue, let's argue. She has to know that we're not afraid of losing her, she must be!
Real Talk! 💯 👍👌✊💪🤜🤛🤝
i'll try and and see this week.
i am going to subscribe and press the bell icon, so i wont miss any further notification.
Hey Im a girl and I don't like bad boys and have never dated one.. 🙄
I alwlays actracted to good guys. feel like I'm a weirdo here 😄
Lol ur a rare one a good one stay that way 😊
@@jjm2948 so do the good girls.
@yashoda Mahasinghe good nice to meet hope aap ache hi honge ?😍😜🇮🇳🙏😇💜
Thanks Tripp
She dumped me for being like this. Not caring only last so long.
If you're in love, just give her the time and attention she deserves. If she's truly in love with you, she will reciprocate with the same intensity. If she doesn't I guess she can be the asshole. Just find the right person. You don't need to be a jerk.
Emotional stability, confidence, independence, and ‘caring’ are all attractive qualities for women. I think the message here is to not be over bearing and needy, but NOT GIVING A SHIT, is poor wording. If you genuinely think IDGAF mentality is how you get a quality relationship I’m sorry. Would you want a girl who doesn’t give an F about you. Haha and only address you about being disrespected
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This will also help with what he is talking about and that is to create more options for yourself. Adding more options will allow this "do not give a shit" attitude to be genuine because of the addtional options you will not care if she doesn't text, call, act flaky etc...you will have other woman keeping you busy. ;)
so should i Reveal i'dont give a shit also in street ? or when there is some girls that i like walking around too ??
What if she is recently saying maybe to dates and says she’s always sick yet hangs out with her guy best friend
It's actually not acting like you don't give fuck , it's ALL ABOUT DON'T GIVING A FUCK.
Everybody cares and hurts but it’s about to not fucking show
This would presume all women are the same. I treated a woman once as if l didn't care only to find she didn't either
4:42 phsycological level is the word you were lookin for
Yes, but when I don't give a shit then I actually don't give a shit and she can be as attracted to me as she wants.
I'm not going to bother with her.
So True
Bad guys finish first
But you can be nice bad guy
Don't give a damn shit... just stay cool!!
I’m not a bad looking guy and I’m nice and say all the right things but I can’t pull any of the hot girls at my school pls help me
Have you told them what you want? Tell them what you want and back off a little...interesting and intriguing is always attractive. DONT BE OVERLY NICE...BEST WISHES BUDDY
ALPHA|DOG| AFFIRMATIONS wdym tell them what I want then back off they just reject me so I can’t do that
Men focus on excellence. Work on ur physique, confidence, sense of dressing. U can't get a girl into u unless u put the effort to improve ur self physically, emotionally, mentally. Girls will only find u interesting if u r better than them. U gotta first work on urself buddy, gradually then make the move.
studios perfect🤘🔥🤘🔥
Don't focus on "hot girls" but rather think about what you want in a relationship... If you show that and find someone who thinks alike she will want to be with you! I know if you're young still and might have a lot of pressures from thinking you have to be a certain way to "get" someone, but in the end find what's meaningful to you. How many people you "get" is just a number, but if you find the right person you'll only need one
They just want what they can’t have
Me gustan los videos que no pedestalizan a las mujeres como si nosotros no importáramos
they become attracted but women never fall in love. never
I don’t know if that happens to me only is that I want to text her all day and doble text her I can’t just be there without talking to her
Make yourself busy and care less.
Need this advice
Missed watching your vid tripp
I liked that u are to the pint
Your messages are mixed here. You are saying it’s ok 👌 for her to boink other guys or is it showing jealousy and neediness or disrespect if you are upset that she is riding other sausages? Which one ☝️ is it?
Women fall in love when men reveal that they are rich.
This made me laugh 😂
To easy, their wallet and bank card!
where does ur sentences end? are u saying yes or no for certain situations as there is no full stop, comma, for your lines
Conscious women aren't attracted to what you're suggesting. You know why? Adopted attitudes are seen very clearly as egoic overlays covering over tremendous insecurities. Pretending you don't care is fake. Just as being too nice is fake. Women who have a clue see and feel this level of self protection. These two strategies are polarities which, when you identify with either one, you come from a space of distortion. Polarity, by nature, demands expression. And it cannot express freely and healthily when identified with. That's what all the drama is about.
Conscious women fall in love with life, not men. Men are part of life. Part. Everything is life. Women are life. They are here to surrender to being life itself incarnate. They fall in love with being the embodiment of love. Anything less is unhealthy attachment, drama and neediness.
Dont play the biological card unless you want a connection based on self preservation and defensiveness. Invest in true self awareness and support that cultivation in the other. A man who strategizes to get a woman to fall in love with him is just as selfish and unattractive as a woman who strategizes to get a man to fall in love with her. Let's grow up.
What if we’ve been together for over 5 months? Still play the a**hole game or show how much I care for her?
Still be an asshllle sometimes.. or she's will leave if you start expressing feelings.. don't do it... apart from performing in the bedroom
@@cv6176 i mean... i understand this working for first encounters or dating withing 2-3 months, but would you still act this way even when you've been together for over a year? The tactics that are usually displayed on dating channels are mostly used for Beginning of interactions with woman in my opinion. In other words, to get them on a Hook. They sure worked in the beginning of relationship, but after all, its who you truly are on the inside that matters, no?
@@DgamesJ
Bro wake up.
I'm not talking about 'tactics' I'm talking about female nature and my own experiences and absorbing knowledge from the experience of others. Be secure and fun but unshakable. Even if you are daft enough to love her never ever tell her that you do.. even if you actually do.
You will lose your power and masculinity and she'll be off to the next stronger man (which will happen anyway at some point)
I'm sure this guy has just told you that!
Best wishes
@@DgamesJ Don't be an asshole, as long as ur not her pet dog it's fine, and say "no" now and then
Me actually not giving a shit for years: *Crickets*
This...'When you don't give a shit'. Save you guys some time
MRS FARTHOUSE WHERE YOU AT BOO
Hey Tripp, the wording here is totally off. A guy who does not care? Bullshit, that is a Zero and women recognize it. (Even the hopeless masochists.) - A guy who can state what he wants, discuss what he accepts, and make clear what he will not accept is an adult. He will do that with more or less charm, tact and firmness, depending. If he walks because his criteria is not met he's a man.