Quite clearly some of them want to die or at least prefer death to prison, given that sometimes they kill themselves after the deed is done or when they are in situation they can't escape from
Yeah, i knew a girl who stormed off from her boyfriend after a fight in a bar. She was walking home under a bridge overpass that was in kind of an industrial area, so poorly lit, no sidewalk when she was hit by a car and killed. Her boyfriend was never the same. He had issues with getting close to anyone. This was in the 90’s, in Portland. I hope he has healed and has a good life now. Her best friend was my roommate. And the next day was her (my roommate’s) birthday. She had planned to spend the evening celebrating with her but the girl wouldn’t answer the phone or return her messages. My roommate (who was clinically diagnosed bipolar disorder) tearfully left another message, upset her friend was “ignoring” her, saying in part, “You better be dead!” As her excuse for not calling her back. Then the boyfriend (who lived with the girl) called back later to say that she was, indeed, dead. Sorry I went off on a tangent there. But… you can bet my roommate really felt a lot of guilt. It was a terrible time. Actually, things were never the same. Soon we were no longer roommates as her moods were so bad she started starving her pet rabbit. My other roommate and I would sneak the rabbit food when she wasn’t around. Third roommate and I are still the best of friends. Don’t storm off in the middle of the night. Don’t put yourself in potentially dangerous situations like that. The girl in Bend… that was so shocking as the C.O.C.C. Campus was always thought of as very safe. Danger is everywhere, both accidental and malicious.
Can we just take a moment to really celebrate Isobel Lara! She knew something was off even before he told her, and she gave invaluable information to the police, even though he was her husband ❤️
The woman who took back her husband after he cheated on her and was so suspicious of him she rode along with him at work and then let him have access to her service weapon? Nah thats a pass for me.
What got me is the window down a bit made him look suspicious... I think she knew a few things before time & tried to trick the cops into believing her... The wife.
His wife did the right thing, going forward about the suspicions. I’m really glad she dint hold onto information like that, just because he was her husband. RIP Kaylee
Yes & especially when she knew he was armed with her gun & was aware of his state of mind. If she'd stayed silent there's no telling how many more he might have hurt or killed, if he'd continued running. He lied to his wife about how he had killed her, it was NO accident. Instead of thinking about his actions he made the stupid decision to murder her, he chose that. I mean, if he'd just let her back out of the car, sent her on her way, she may not have even remembered her short talk with him (where he claimed that he hit on her thinking she was a hooker, but who knows if that's even true...?). And even if she did recall it, she might not have reported it, and EVEN if she'd reported it, he MIGHT have lost his job, or get put behind a desk ...but they wouldn't tell his wife why, he could've covered over that & said he quit or was fired. So he ended her innocent life to keep himself from some very MINIMAL & only POSSIBLE consequences. He condemned himself to 30 or 40 years in prison, til he dies. One of the stupidest, most senseless murders ever.......unless....... ...unless he IS & was without empathy & a real conscience, just a cold blooded cruel psychopath with sick desires who was just embarking on a long contemplated & desired killing career.... Which I think is the case. Look how quickly he decided he'd terrorize & traumatize 2 more innocent people's lives, to use them for his own wants, even shooting 1 guy in the gut (& he was just fortunate to not also murder that poor guy...he could've aimed for his toes at least, not the gut..... jeeez) and just to get another car he could drive for a day or 2 maybe. He is where society needs him to be now.
The call operator was amazing! A true ambassador to her organisation and community. Well done to all the three ladies who helped to bring him down; the wife, Aundriana, and the call operator xx....and the 12 good men and women of the jury!!
That policewoman had a great instinct about her husband and went immediately to the police. Fine video presentation of this sad case. That 911 operator was cool, calm and collected.
great instinct? you mean when he basically confessed and took her effing service gun and ran off? what the hell else is she supposed to do?? instincts? lol
So sad she had to report him and it was the correct thing to do. She probably thought she knew him well. Obviously, he had a very dark side. It was very sad to lose a husband who made the worst decision. Turned out to be the scum of the earth.
This murderer's wife let him take her gun,,,,, It just proves that most cops are only concerned about themselves and their lot in this world.....How ironic, where white people "feel" safe is where there are few so-called "black people",,,but one of the most violent slipped through the fence.....
"the first 48 hours are the most crucial for locating a missing person" ------- Every police department ever ---- "Wait 48 hours till you report them missing"
Isn't that Irony. Police are worthless, bruh. They're just high school educated people that couldn't sell a Buick or a pancake, to save their life. The entire police department in that college town in Idaho, couldn't solve the crime of the four students that were murdered. An ENTIRE Police dept.
For real I always feel guilty when watching these cases. But my only fascination with them is hoping I could go back in time and keep these things from happening. If only that was possible.
Right. My fascination is watching the differences in the justice system and sentencing. Also obsessed with seeing how many times they allow killers to leave the interrogation rooms and ask them to come back 2-3 times while having evidence which points to them smh
Or maybe some of us want to see the killers get justice, and know more about how to avoid potentially dangerous situations, but hey, maybe you are different.
The way that he said, "I just silenced her forever." So calmly is chilling. Also, when he said that he didn't do bad things to Andrea, leaves everyone to think that he did do bad things to Kaylee, which he later admits too. What a monster he is. R.I.P. Rest in Peace Kaylee 🙏 R.I.P Rot in Prison Monster ☠
even if he didnt hurt her....he fucking killed someone. So who gives flying fuck how he treated people otherwise. Narcissist trying to minimize things as he would.
Another coward, lusting for an exciting life treating other people like filth. Just to sate his own twisted desires. Sadly there are way too many of them out there.
I used to think everytime a woman goes missing and her spouse says we had a fight and she went to cool off,that instantly makes him guity but this proved me wrong.i feel so bad for the boyfriend cause he pleaded for her to go back home and I bet he feels guity, may she rest in peace
They often do look at the spouse (or boyfriend/girlfriend) bc they’re usually the last person that they have contact with and there’s always some type of motive behind it such as money, a mistress or sideman, they know too much, etc. But they want to rule out the husband/wife from the get go.
I absolutely can't fathom the guilt, the what if, the coulda, shoulda, woulda that young man lives with every single day and probably for the rest of his life! I pray he is able to heal and knows that nothing anyone can do can stop evil. Nobody in that situation after a small argument would imagine the possibility of what happened that night or have it cross their minds, especially young innocent college students. He's also a victim and survivor from this evil and wicked man. That goes for his other multiple victims and survivors and his wife as well. All victims of evil!
No,....never give directions to a caller when they haven't been cleared by the arresting officers. Always follow the orders of the officers or you're at risk of causing alarm. You start making even passive moves they will be on the ready. Bad move by the operator.
@@jessicabecause3717 what makes you think that those instructions didn't come from the officers? She's most likely reading the instructions from the officers and also relaying the information from her end to them. It all goes into the same live document (think of a google doc type system) where everyone can see each others comments/entries.
@@jessicabecause3717She told her at one point that she was telling the officers that the perp couldn't hear their instructions so she was clearly in constant contact with the officers and receiving her instructions from them.
weird, i dont feel unsafe in my neighborhood. because i dont act like a little dick and piss people off, or start fights, or walk around causing trouble for myself. danger in neighborhoods is a lot like guns, it takes a PERSON to make it dangerous. so dont blame neighborhoods for the danger created by people. Neighborhoods are safe, people are dangerous. it takes a willful action to create danger.
@@Rhynocx you’re so silly. A neighborhood without people in it- is the wilderness. Neighborhoods exist via people. Your delusional trust in your neighborhood is a you - thing. There is no safety where humans exist. Period. You think you really did something there. But get yourself more guns. Already know what type of consciousness is going on in that blockhead. Hahaha.
The women in this story (wife of killer, Andrea, 911 operator), are all heroes. All were authentic to themselves and others, and did the right thing. Bravo!🙌
What an odd viewpoint to hold. No different than saying other than the murderer the men in this video did the right thing too. A statement like that says more about you than anything else.
NONE of them were heroes. The wife (a freaking COP) allowed him to run off with her service weapon, and only reported it after a while. Andrea was too embarrassed to let people know she was kidnapped? Are you freaking KIDDING ME?!?! The 911 operator was also telling Andrea to give orders to her kidnapper. I'd be telling the 911 operator to eff off.
@@donjon123 you got a point with that, and the fight was because she wasn't where she said she'd be for pickup after being out on the town without him and dancing with that other guy. Having said that, she was very pretty, and we all know that's what counts with women. Aundrea's fit too though, so maybe he can get with her. What do you think @TheRubyofGod ?
The balls on this guy saying when I stopped, the car, don’t have the cops roughed me up because I have asthma but meanwhile he just killed somebody so he’s worried about his well-being of not being hurt or injured.
I 100% agree with you. This evil man was only ever concerned about himself. The audacity to ask the police to go easy on him is just mind-blowing and indicative of the character of this person.
@@rutetute2763 I'm not 100% sure, but it really doesn't sound like that jurisdiction uses EPD protocols. Maybe I'm wrong, but that kind of deviation from those protocols is a major violation in most PSAPs. I wonder if that was an edited conversation: like, when he first called did he speak with an operator then get transferred to a supervisor? I'd imagine that's what happened: whoever he spoke with was very, very good and obviously experienced enough to know what needs to be said.
There is such a MASSIVE professional difference between white and black 911 operators. One is professionally trained and the other is just picking up a paycheck.
we've got good dispatch out here. had to call in a MVA fatality a few months back. dispatch for DCSO was professional, compassionate, and competent. stayed on the line with me until EMS got there.
I applaud the bravery and courage it took for the wife to go to the police! I can imagine that her life was hell when this all came out! To Kaylee’s family I offer my deepest condolences and pray that in time the pain will ease and the happy times can be remembered!
His poor wife, the 911 operator and the cop who interviewed him are absolutely amazing. So rare you see so many calm, cool, collected people in these cases. They did their best to get as much justice as they possibly could. Sending my love to everyone involved 🩷
You may have only had one seizure, but 24hrs after your last dose, your epilepsy is no longer "well managed" and she had left without her medication. So her mom was right on and not exaggerating at all!
@@ADetailedHouse my daughter had her second seizure 10 years after the first. Then had three in quick succession and that was while she was still on her meds.
there's some confusing subtitles when he's talking about not having a heart which looks as though they were misheard by the person typing the subtitles, which happens all the time so it could've been worse.
I have to say that that operator who spoke with him until he pulled over and that cop who questioned him are exemplary employees. Top-notch in their fields. Phenomenal work.
as crass as this sounds, I don't actually think it was clever at all, it was short sighted emo reaction... She was very very very lucky he didn't kill her instead. By doing that she did nothing but increase her chances of dying. In that situation you have to think to yourself, would I rather get assaulted and buy time? Or potentially get life-ended quicker? She was short sighted, we know this is standard from so many other cases where girls seduce guys to get away. She got insanely lucky IMO. Parents should NOT teach that trick as someone said below.. i'd rather my kid alive than dead.. OFC you don't want EITHER to happen to them. But out of two outcomes, one is undeniably worse. You can recover from being SA'd.. you can't recover from being ded.
I live in Bend Oregon and I do business with her family who owns D & S Hydraulics. I have no remorse for this disgusting sick individual who took the life of an innocent young lady who had her whole life ahead of her! The fact that he had the audacity to pray and not take accountability for his actions is mind blowing! The right sentencing would have been for the judge to hand him over to her dad for him to deal with! This man doesn't deserve to be alive! He has no remorse for his actions!
@@marieeckl2398They are all beautiful. Every woman. In this world beauty equates to valuable. Rarely see or hear about unattractive woman missing make national headlines. Mostly the white pretty ones.
Murder..running from cops with kidnapped girl..driving 120 mph..no wonder you're having an asthma attack dude. Think about the girl you murdered..her last breath. You tell dispatch you're afraid they might shoot you. Wow..just wow. Great job by dispatch.
Looking at this guy & watching his performance, I will say without a shred of doubt, he was putting on an act. Inside, he was proud of what he did, & he would surely have done it again. Once a man or woman crosses that line, there is no going back. --------MJL, 77 y/o
Amazing video! I've watched this same story told 3 to 4 times in length (on prominent crime channels) and yours by far does it justice. For one it's extremely rich in detail (pics, recordings, building background, etc) but more importantly your story telling made many of the human moments palpable which I think is nothing short of amazing. Thank you and keep up the great work!
The scarier thing is that people don't believe in God anymore, and therefore have no reason to not act on those urges. They don't believe that they will be held accountable eternally. Lord have mercy.
I don't believe this killer felt any remorse at all. That "prayer" in the courtroom was a farce - a chance for him to grab the spotlight & revel in his handiwork. I'm not surprised that Kaylee's parents left the room, I wish everyone had walked out so that when he finally opened his eyes after such a sickening reverie he would have found there was no audience. Great video on this tragic loss of life.
@@marisamartin3664 Whatever personal beliefs are held, or not held, by all listening I have every confidence this was nothing more than a way of showing a total lack of respect & remorse towards the victim & their family. The word "prayer" is in inverted commas to indicate that. It is disgusting that the defendant was given such an opportunity to become the centre of attention, a time for them to grab the spotlight & bask in this deliberate act of cruelty. The fact that it was so transparently insincere made it all the more offensive.
Julie's mom is so smart telling the dispatcher that she had epilepsy. It is so ridiculous to me that police wait 2-3 days before they start looking for "healthy" people. Like the narrorator said, the fisrt 48 hours is the most crucial in a missing persons case. I realize that most missing persons cases resolve themselves, but it is coming at the cost of those who really do need help since the police dont have any urgency to investigate further until 3 days later.
As a Father of two girls…. This story crushed me. You want so badly to protect your children regardless of their age. May GOD bring peace to her family… I believe she is at peace in the arms of JESUS CHRIST.
36:19 I had to add…the description used by the detective was deep & heart wrenching 💔. Again, I’ve seen other versions DC but this is the best. Fantastic decoding 👌
"What you mistook for a hooker was an absolute angel" ... this cop is a misogynist piece of shit who should be fired for implying that someone's profession makes them less worthy of life and justice. He is an absolute pig, and not because of the cop thing.
30:24 The "18700" he wrote was a clue as to where he left her body. There's McKenzie Highway running west out of Redmond, Oregon, where the college Lara worked at was. There are no buildings along the highway between Redmond and the next town, except one house half a mile off the highway down a long driveway. A red mailbox for the house is sitting on the highway, with 18700 pasted on the side. He dumped her body somewhere along there.
I think it’s interesting how Edwin doesn’t want to die, but Kaylee probably didn’t want to die either, and he didn’t give her a choice. This “man” Is such a coward. And props to the wife for standing up for what’s right, even in such a difficult situation.
Your children should be unconditionally loved. By no way does that mean to fight for his/her release or expected others to forgive him. I wouldn't send money to his account in prison. I would visit and pay for phone calls. No of what I would do excuses his behavior or expects forgiveness.
if i was in this circumstance as a mother i would 100% overplay my daughters medical to get her labeled as at risk. i pay my taxes, the law is supposed to be there to help me when i am in need or to correct me when i need corrected. we must change how the law reacts to missing persons no matter the age.
I don't even think it's an exaggeration. My kid was accused of having absence seizures by a teacher who's son also had them. We got the EKG back and it was clear. No seizure found. Tell me why I have to eat a written Dr note every year from her Nero saying that she doesn't have seizures and is not on medication for them OR THEY MAKE HER WEAR A HELMET. Even if she did have absence seizures, thy are no clonic tonic. They do not manifest in convolutions. She doesn't fall down when having one. So, no if the school thinks even the remote possibility of a seizure as a serious consideration, then this mom made no foul. It's relevant info.
Lara doesn't seem to have any remorse as clearly seen during his comments at trial. His emotion during the police interview seemed to have more to do with his conflicted feelings about his urge to k*ll, etc. too.
And losing his job. A sincere apology letter doesn't put "Sorry I murdered your daughter" on the same plain as whining about never being a rentacop again
It makes sense. People who are introverted are very private and get embarrassed easily and the thought of people knowing deeply personal things about them is their worst nightmare. Other people based on how they were raised, feel deep shame even when they didn’t do anything to deserve it. The thought of someone thinking they had sex or was molested or did something that brought this upon themselves caused silence. Many people who are raped, never speak of it or outwardly deny it because of these components.
The best 911 operator I've ever heard. One of the murderers personalities is not sorry for what he did. The murderer praying, begging for salvation from God is just another one of his personalities. He's a very dangerous man. Thankfully, he didn't murder more innocent people. Or did he? Excellent presentation of this horrible crime. New fan.
Wow! You diagnose people with multiple personalities! Is it a satisfying career? Psychiatrist, are you? What was it like to interview him? It must have been fascinating!! How long did it take for you to diagnose MPD?
I think we all have different personalities! Not meaning we all have MPD. But we react different in different situations. But you know, that little voice in the back of your head telling you; ‘No, this does not feel right, or don’t do that’ But we usually ignore them. And also, most of us are different at work than we are at home, some people are different with friends than with family. Like telling friend’s things that you would not tell family. At work we usually are professionals, don’t stress, talk/listen to our colleagues, don’t have others ‘walk over us’. Things you might do differently at home or with your partner or children. I don’t think that someone is always the same in every situation. And I also believe that part of him, was not sorry for what he did, he was sorry that he got caught! And then put a ‘show’ of how ‘sorry’ he was. And no, I’m not a psychologist, I am a nurse and have been for the last 34 years. And have seen many a personalities through the years. How many times I’ve seen a patient act completely different when family came to visit, acted then different when friends or one of the nurses where there……….It’s pretty interesting to be honest. I know I’m not the same or react the same in every situation! Is that just me???? I don’t know.
It sounded like he was praying for healing “for the community”, not for himself. Perhaps he did have remorse. These videos only show a portion of the story.😢
Heartwrenching...boyfriends...girlfriends, be kind to each other. We fight sometimes, but don't let them go out into the night after a fight. You never know who is lurking in the darkness. Kaylee is gone, so sad. Andreah made it through, that is good. He is locked up forever. Cops did a good job and his wife deserves a medal for reporting him. I echo the thoughts, fine video presentation.
You have NOT mentioned that Women n girls to have morals, character, wisdom .. please think in that lines.. boyfriend was NOT at fault ... It's her fault and that evil man used her to fullfill his evil instructions from Satan.
It's fkn AI generated. It's garbage. To lazy to actually put work in these videos. There's about 20 of them all ran by a couple of groups. Don't support these AI channels.
I can barely imagine how her boyfriend feels, even though it's not his fault. Two people will always quarrel with each other.But if it hadn't been for this quarrel, she would still be alive. It's such a trauma
Yeah, if he'd have remained calm and just talked her down he could have talked her into coming home, to sleep it off and THEN he could have calmly spoken to her
I can't think of anything more heart-breaking than having a blazing row with the person you love and never getting to make up because they got murdered. Ugh.
This sick guy always wanted to kill someone and was an underachiever who was eventually going to kill somebody just to be the big guy in charge of someone. I hope he gets some justice in prison from his new friends there.
Am I the only one who finds it disturbing that the rescued hostage has to step out of the car like a criminal to assure her safety? Would the police really gun her down for fleeing the car in tears trying to get to her rescuers? My mind can not comprehend this.
you have to remember that people.react in many ways during emergency situations and the reason those procedures are pushed is to keep both the victims and officers safe.
I forget the case where one was was taken hostage and later helped her hostage taker get more victims. Something in her made him click with her and he saw her as a woman it would be easier for other women to trust her. She actually remained in a car when he dragged one victim off into the woods and had his way with her and killed her. She could have easily drove off too. When police get cases like this and are unsure of why the woman is still alive or why the man speaks highly of her (that she is good) and the one that comes to no harm. hmmmm I can see why the police would not trust right off the bat till questioned later or even searched to be sure she has not weapons to gun them down and free him etc...I view it as safetly measures. Once they are sure everyone is safe then they I am sure will treat her more like a victim.
For a suspect to display pride and remorse while trying to spin a defence, indicates to me that this guy is a psychopath or sociopath because he does NOT know or understand what emotion you should feel when brutally murdering a stranger, if it’s an “accident”. I suspect his crime made his satisfied (I don’t know what someone with this personality type might feel/ not feel) and trilled, hence the pride being displayed to others. Anyways, I hope his wife pushes for a mental assessment to help with her process what she was married to, and or, provide insight on red flags that need she needs to be aware of regarding future relationships. May Kaylee rest in perfect peace.🕊️
I read the only reason he gave him self up was because he didn’t have his inhaler with him, and was afraid he was going to die if he didn't get to one ASAP
it bolied my blood when he says, "I don't want to die"....Did Kaylee want to die? I just do not understand how cops or 911 responders stay so calm. They got to be heaven sent
The nerve of this guy asking for special request as he turn himself in. He didn't seem to care about Kaylee's health condition and her well being when he end her life. The conversation he had with the 911 operator was odd, as if he was having a normal conversation with a friend. I like how the 911 operator handle the situation with Edwin and made Aundrea feel safe ..
I suppose it also affects you differently when it's the town you grew up in. A tragedy is bad no matter what, but it is also different when you know everyone and have lived in the town your entire life.
💔 I feel a very deep sadness for Kaylee's family, friends and loved ones. When Kaylee's grandfather spoke it was hard to listen to. But I listened to each and every word recalling the family legacy and my chest tightened even more. You can see in his face & eyes just how much he loves her. And remember all the spouses involved as well. This story was heartbreaking.
I wonder if his wife saw that poster in the shed. And if so why didn’t it cause concern? I’m a true crime fanatic. I have a morbid curiosity and have read/seen almost every horrific story there is however I do not idolize the monsters who do these crimes. I don’t have pictures or posters or anything of that nature. It’s weird
Smart enough, emotional enough, manipulated enough , plan enough . He didn’t want to say where her body is .. but confess and show emotional care .. oh behavior that he did care about his family .
Thank you for the well documented description of this case. One of the best coverage of a case that I have seen. I have subscribed. From a Self proclaimed "True Crime Junkie"
THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS WITH ME. THIS MAN IS SO EVIL AND I DO NOT SEE ANY REMORSE FOR HIM. WHAT THEY DIDN'T CHARGE HIM WITH IS RAPPING THIS YOUNG WOMAN. WHEN HE THOUGHT SHE WAS DEAD HE THEN RAPED HER, BUT WHEN SHE CAME TO AND REALIZED THAT HE WAS RAPPING HER THEN HE TOOK A ROCK AND BEGAN HITTING HER IN THE HEAD UNTIL SHE WAS DEAD. HIS FULL INTENT WAS TO RAPE HER. IT HAS BROKEN MY HEART AND THE HEART'S OF HER FAMILY AND THOSE THAT LOVED HER AS WELL AS HER BOYFRIEND. MY HEART GOES OUT TO HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS. THERE ARE SOME TIMES THAT WE MAKE THE WRONG CHOICES AND ONE OF THOSE CHOICES CAN LEAD TO OUR DEATH AND UNFORTUNATELY THIS HAS HAPPENED TO SO MANY WOMEN THAT LEAVE A BAR OR A NIGHT CLUB OR EVEN GOING FOR A WALK AT NIGHT WHETHER YOUR UPSET AT YOUR HUSBAND OR YOUR BOYFRIEND OR FOR SOME OTHER REASON. UNFORTUNATELY THIS HAS HAPPENED MORE TIMES THAN I CAN COUNT TO WOMEN AND EVEN SOME MEN AS WELL. PLEASE THINK BEFORE YOU DO SOMETHING THAT CAN CAUSE YOU TO LOSE YOUR LIFE! I PRAY THAT GOD WILL PROTECT EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU AND YOUR FAMILY FROM PEOPLE THAT WILL KILL YOU FOR NO REASON AND SOME OTHERS THAT WANT SOMETHING FROM YOU. SO BE VERY VERY CAREFUL AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
Her boyfriend was trying to protect her. But she could not see that. I pray co Fort her family. His wife is a good person. She deserve a medial. He is a sick individual, may he rot in hell
Wow this the most candid suspect that i have seen. Even while on the 911 call, he knew he was going to get caught, and he just laid it all out there. Wow!! I hope Kaylee's family can go on without her, and may she R.I.P. 🤔
Isn't it wonderful how the murderers always say "I don't want to die."
Yet they have worked so hard to earn it
Quite clearly some of them want to die or at least prefer death to prison, given that sometimes they kill themselves after the deed is done or when they are in situation they can't escape from
why would they want to go, they get put on Rolling Stones magazine and women fill the courtrooms hoping to smell them.
They are cowards
@@KristianKumpulaThat’s a very select few. Most get put on death row and do everything they can to get off.
That poor boyfriend . Knowing you had a fight with your loved one who was then killed must be absolutely heartbreaking.
I was thinking that and how much guilt he must be dealing with. I know I’d have a long time dealing with that.
Or he just dodged a life long of fights with this girl lol
Ask him out
The Two people above me are gay, always fiddling with their bot hole
Yeah, i knew a girl who stormed off from her boyfriend after a fight in a bar. She was walking home under a bridge overpass that was in kind of an industrial area, so poorly lit, no sidewalk when she was hit by a car and killed. Her boyfriend was never the same. He had issues with getting close to anyone. This was in the 90’s, in Portland. I hope he has healed and has a good life now.
Her best friend was my roommate. And the next day was her (my roommate’s) birthday. She had planned to spend the evening celebrating with her but the girl wouldn’t answer the phone or return her messages. My roommate (who was clinically diagnosed bipolar disorder) tearfully left another message, upset her friend was “ignoring” her, saying in part, “You better be dead!” As her excuse for not calling her back. Then the boyfriend (who lived with the girl) called back later to say that she was, indeed, dead.
Sorry I went off on a tangent there. But… you can bet my roommate really felt a lot of guilt. It was a terrible time. Actually, things were never the same. Soon we were no longer roommates as her moods were so bad she started starving her pet rabbit. My other roommate and I would sneak the rabbit food when she wasn’t around. Third roommate and I are still the best of friends.
Don’t storm off in the middle of the night. Don’t put yourself in potentially dangerous situations like that. The girl in Bend… that was so shocking as the C.O.C.C. Campus was always thought of as very safe. Danger is everywhere, both accidental and malicious.
Can we just take a moment to really celebrate Isobel Lara! She knew something was off even before he told her, and she gave invaluable information to the police, even though he was her husband ❤️
The woman who took back her husband after he cheated on her and was so suspicious of him she rode along with him at work and then let him have access to her service weapon? Nah thats a pass for me.
@@denisemarie3734 Women are expected to forgive and forget......
Thank you Lara! It got the police immediately on the trail and saved the life of another victim.❤
Absolutely 💯💯💯💯 Thank you
What got me is the window down a bit made him look suspicious... I think she knew a few things before time & tried to trick the cops into believing her... The wife.
His wife did the right thing, going forward about the suspicions. I’m really glad she dint hold onto information like that, just because he was her husband.
RIP Kaylee
Yes & especially when she knew he was armed with her gun & was aware of his state of mind. If she'd stayed silent there's no telling how many more he might have hurt or killed, if he'd continued running. He lied to his wife about how he had killed her, it was NO accident. Instead of thinking about his actions he made the stupid decision to murder her, he chose that. I mean, if he'd just let her back out of the car, sent her on her way, she may not have even remembered her short talk with him (where he claimed that he hit on her thinking she was a hooker, but who knows if that's even true...?). And even if she did recall it, she might not have reported it, and EVEN if she'd reported it, he MIGHT have lost his job, or get put behind a desk ...but they wouldn't tell his wife why, he could've covered over that & said he quit or was fired. So he ended her innocent life to keep himself from some very MINIMAL & only POSSIBLE consequences. He condemned himself to 30 or 40 years in prison, til he dies. One of the stupidest, most senseless murders ever.......unless.......
...unless he IS & was without empathy & a real conscience, just a cold blooded cruel psychopath with sick desires who was just embarking on a long contemplated & desired killing career....
Which I think is the case. Look how quickly he decided he'd terrorize & traumatize 2 more innocent people's lives, to use them for his own wants, even shooting 1 guy in the gut (& he was just fortunate to not also murder that poor guy...he could've aimed for his toes at least, not the gut..... jeeez) and just to get another car he could drive for a day or 2 maybe. He is where society needs him to be now.
The call operator was amazing! A true ambassador to her organisation and community. Well done to all the three ladies who helped to bring him down; the wife, Aundriana, and the call operator xx....and the 12 good men and women of the jury!!
“I just killed somebody but can you go easy on me? I forgot my inhaler at home”
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you would be surprised how many criminals are juat like this. The wellfare of others and what tgey did is never their faults.
I know, the audacity. It portrays exactly what sort of person he is and of how little the life of Kaylee meant to him.
Blows me away how they want their comfort and to. E treated with respect !
I watch a bajillion true crime and a lot of them know to bring out their inner child when necessary. Absolutely hateful and manipulative.
“I don’t want to die” said this coward and don’t hurt me but he kills a beautiful girl. He makes me sick.
Right... and "Don't let them hurt me, I have asthma, I don't want them to be rough with me".... smfh.... Rest in Peace Kaylee. 🙏🏼
He's absolutely DISGUSTING.
He is a PUNK😮
Absolutely enraging 😠
😊@@JennAyBaybAyy
That policewoman had a great instinct about her husband and went immediately to the police. Fine video presentation of this sad case. That 911 operator was cool, calm and collected.
great instinct? you mean when he basically confessed and took her effing service gun and ran off? what the hell else is she supposed to do?? instincts? lol
So sad she had to report him and it was the correct thing to do. She probably thought she knew him well. Obviously, he had a very dark side. It was very sad to lose a husband who made the worst decision.
Turned out to be the scum of the earth.
Is you serious with this drama😢
Initially, she knew something was up, that's intuition or instinct.
This murderer's wife let him take her gun,,,,, It just proves that most cops are only concerned about themselves and their lot in this world.....How ironic, where white people "feel" safe is where there are few so-called "black people",,,but one of the most violent slipped through the fence.....
"the first 48 hours are the most crucial for locating a missing person" ------- Every police department ever ---- "Wait 48 hours till you report them missing"
Isn't that Irony. Police are worthless, bruh. They're just high school educated people that couldn't sell a Buick or a pancake, to save their life.
The entire police department in that college town in Idaho, couldn't solve the crime of the four students that were murdered. An ENTIRE Police dept.
I thought it was 24hrs
who cares chiefs just won im kansas city and proud bbq rights are human rights@@FrayJaeBen
@@FrayJaeBen probably
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Bless dispatchers. The bs they have to listen to and deal with... She kept her cool so well and was able to keep him calm and talking.
To kill somebody then use the knowledge of their whereabouts to bargain for a plea is absolutely low and rotten! People have no shame!
i agree...but he didnt do that
🪨 + 👱 = 💀 😂
@@keithfry6831 he took her life.
He's not the first and won't be the last to do this. But it is horrible.
Pretty smart though, have to give him that. Clever bargaining tool.
This is the first time I’ve seen this case from the victim’s perspective. I’ve seen the wife’s interview and the guy’s interrogation. Great content.
Narrator: The killer had a fascination with murderers.
People Watching this: Looking sideways meme
There's a difference about being obsessed with the murderer and the cases
For real I always feel guilty when watching these cases. But my only fascination with them is hoping I could go back in time and keep these things from happening. If only that was possible.
Right. My fascination is watching the differences in the justice system and sentencing. Also obsessed with seeing how many times they allow killers to leave the interrogation rooms and ask them to come back 2-3 times while having evidence which points to them smh
Or maybe some of us want to see the killers get justice, and know more about how to avoid potentially dangerous situations, but hey, maybe you are different.
You got me there 😂
The way that he said, "I just silenced her forever." So calmly is chilling. Also, when he said that he didn't do bad things to Andrea, leaves everyone to think that he did do bad things to Kaylee, which he later admits too. What a monster he is. R.I.P. Rest in Peace Kaylee 🙏 R.I.P Rot in Prison Monster ☠
even if he didnt hurt her....he fucking killed someone. So who gives flying fuck how he treated people otherwise. Narcissist trying to minimize things as he would.
Another coward, lusting for an exciting life treating other people like filth. Just to sate his own twisted desires. Sadly there are way too many of them out there.
I'm glad Aundreah was OK. The dispatcher seemed genuinely concerned about her safety. Good on her 👍🏼
I used to think everytime a woman goes missing and her spouse says we had a fight and she went to cool off,that instantly makes him guity but this proved me wrong.i feel so bad for the boyfriend cause he pleaded for her to go back home and I bet he feels guity, may she rest in peace
I’m sure they looked into the boyfriend. They always do. They had his wife come in and confess though so they knew.
Teachable moment..... remain open minded to everything, it allows for much more possibilities
They often do look at the spouse (or boyfriend/girlfriend) bc they’re usually the last person that they have contact with and there’s always some type of motive behind it such as money, a mistress or sideman, they know too much, etc. But they want to rule out the husband/wife from the get go.
I absolutely can't fathom the guilt, the what if, the coulda, shoulda, woulda that young man lives with every single day and probably for the rest of his life! I pray he is able to heal and knows that nothing anyone can do can stop evil. Nobody in that situation after a small argument would imagine the possibility of what happened that night or have it cross their minds, especially young innocent college students. He's also a victim and survivor from this evil and wicked man. That goes for his other multiple victims and survivors and his wife as well. All victims of evil!
It is his fault causing the fight at first place!
The recorded call of that 911 operator should be used as an example when training new 911 operators.
Right? She was amazing
No,....never give directions to a caller when they haven't been cleared by the arresting officers. Always follow the orders of the officers or you're at risk of causing alarm. You start making even passive moves they will be on the ready. Bad move by the operator.
@@jessicabecause3717 what makes you think that those instructions didn't come from the officers? She's most likely reading the instructions from the officers and also relaying the information from her end to them. It all goes into the same live document (think of a google doc type system) where everyone can see each others comments/entries.
@@jessicabecause3717i hope you aren't serious with that comment 😂
@@jessicabecause3717She told her at one point that she was telling the officers that the perp couldn't hear their instructions so she was clearly in constant contact with the officers and receiving her instructions from them.
There is no such thing as a “safe neighborhood.”
weird, i dont feel unsafe in my neighborhood. because i dont act like a little dick and piss people off, or start fights, or walk around causing trouble for myself. danger in neighborhoods is a lot like guns, it takes a PERSON to make it dangerous. so dont blame neighborhoods for the danger created by people. Neighborhoods are safe, people are dangerous. it takes a willful action to create danger.
There's no such thing as a safe person either😢
@@Rhynocx you’re so silly. A neighborhood without people in it- is the wilderness. Neighborhoods exist via people. Your delusional trust in your neighborhood is a you - thing. There is no safety where humans exist. Period. You think you really did something there. But get yourself more guns. Already know what type of consciousness is going on in that blockhead. Hahaha.
@@SQUEEDGEY hence there being no safe neighborhoods. They don’t exist without people. Duh.
@@solomoon3083 I was just agreeing with you
The women in this story (wife of killer, Andrea, 911 operator), are all heroes. All were authentic to themselves and others, and did the right thing. Bravo!🙌
What an odd viewpoint to hold. No different than saying other than the murderer the men in this video did the right thing too.
A statement like that says more about you than anything else.
NONE of them were heroes. The wife (a freaking COP) allowed him to run off with her service weapon, and only reported it after a while. Andrea was too embarrassed to let people know she was kidnapped? Are you freaking KIDDING ME?!?! The 911 operator was also telling Andrea to give orders to her kidnapper. I'd be telling the 911 operator to eff off.
@@catej808 came to same the exact same! the woman above is just sexist
But the fiancee of the victim is the real winner he dodged a massive bullet by her fiancee dying as a stupid prize to her stupid games
@@donjon123 you got a point with that, and the fight was because she wasn't where she said she'd be for pickup after being out on the town without him and dancing with that other guy. Having said that, she was very pretty, and we all know that's what counts with women. Aundrea's fit too though, so maybe he can get with her. What do you think @TheRubyofGod ?
That last quote by her grandpa at the end was beautiful omg, brought me to tears.
He felt nothing but what he had been told he should feel. I wouldn’t be surprised to find out she wasn’t his first victim.
The 911 operator handled that really well, calm, efficient and friendly, that's one call she will never forget!
"I have asthma. Tell them to not be too rough on me"... Say WHAT?!
I will NOT say WHAT.
At that time "I can't breathe" wasn't invented yet.
@@sonnylatchstring When are they going to build this guys statue and make his worthless parents rich?
@@sonnylatchstringvery low and not funny at all
The nerve!!!!! 🤦🏻♀️
That 911 dispatcher was awesome at her job. So many of them spend so much time asking ridiculous questions.
Did they find a lot of evidence
Exactly
Really? I disagree. I hated how she kept egging him to stop. What if she would have agitated him
@@hospitaladministrator3359 It worked, so clearly she knew what she was doing.
So disgusting he is so proud of silencing her forever, but so afraid of death himself
The balls on this guy saying when I stopped, the car, don’t have the cops roughed me up because I have asthma but meanwhile he just killed somebody so he’s worried about his well-being of not being hurt or injured.
Useless waste of air and water.
These guys always are the biggest crybabies and lie,lie,lie when they are caught. SMH 🤦🏻♀️
I 100% agree with you. This evil man was only ever concerned about himself. The audacity to ask the police to go easy on him is just mind-blowing and indicative of the character of this person.
“Just killed somebody” does not cover it. He bashed her head in with a rock.
Yes he asthma lol yet he was breathing just fine when he sensly murdered her and didn't have his inhaler
Is it me or was the 911 operator (boyfriend call) SO much more intelligent and empathetic than the usual on this type of video?!
She had to be, she knew what she was dealing with.
That did stick out quite well. She should run the training for all the recruits to Emergency Operator.
@@rutetute2763 I'm not 100% sure, but it really doesn't sound like that jurisdiction uses EPD protocols. Maybe I'm wrong, but that kind of deviation from those protocols is a major violation in most PSAPs. I wonder if that was an edited conversation: like, when he first called did he speak with an operator then get transferred to a supervisor? I'd imagine that's what happened: whoever he spoke with was very, very good and obviously experienced enough to know what needs to be said.
There is such a MASSIVE professional difference between white and black 911 operators.
One is professionally trained and the other is just picking up a paycheck.
we've got good dispatch out here. had to call in a MVA fatality a few months back. dispatch for DCSO was professional, compassionate, and competent. stayed on the line with me until EMS got there.
I applaud the bravery and courage it took for the wife to go to the police! I can imagine that her life was hell when this all came out! To Kaylee’s family I offer my deepest condolences and pray that in time the pain will ease and the happy times can be remembered!
The policeman doing the interview was really professional. Good that the killer has been caught. Condolences to the family.
His poor wife, the 911 operator and the cop who interviewed him are absolutely amazing. So rare you see so many calm, cool, collected people in these cases. They did their best to get as much justice as they possibly could. Sending my love to everyone involved 🩷
So so sad😢 R.i.p sweet Kaylee Im sure you will never be forgotten.❤
You may have only had one seizure, but 24hrs after your last dose, your epilepsy is no longer "well managed" and she had left without her medication. So her mom was right on and not exaggerating at all!
She said her seizure was one year earlier. It actually was much longer than that
@@ADetailedHouse my daughter had her second seizure 10 years after the first. Then had three in quick succession and that was while she was still on her meds.
I agree and being upset will trigger a seizure .
@@tessaoshea5697well, we are not talking about your daughter now
@@bojohannesen4352 I'm sorry, I didn't realize I needed your permission to add personal experiences.
Good job to the Decoder. You pointed out the most important and meaningful parts of this sick case. I pray for the families affected
Thanks for watching :)
I will pray for you getting a million dollar check soon. Let me know when it happens.
@@TheDecoderProduction 👍🏼
there's some confusing subtitles when he's talking about not having a heart which looks as though they were misheard by the person typing the subtitles, which happens all the time so it could've been worse.
I have to say that that operator who spoke with him until he pulled over and that cop who questioned him are exemplary employees. Top-notch in their fields. Phenomenal work.
😂😂😂 "im going 120 mph".
"Can you slow down?
"Well i want to get there quick so i can turn myself in"
So clever of her to think so quickly about an STD❤
That actually surprised me. Hopefully they never have to use it, but parents should teach their daughters that trick.
Parents showing daughters trick with STDs. Next, on Maury.@@infasis
@@infasisAnd sons.
as crass as this sounds, I don't actually think it was clever at all, it was short sighted emo reaction... She was very very very lucky he didn't kill her instead. By doing that she did nothing but increase her chances of dying. In that situation you have to think to yourself, would I rather get assaulted and buy time? Or potentially get life-ended quicker? She was short sighted, we know this is standard from so many other cases where girls seduce guys to get away. She got insanely lucky IMO. Parents should NOT teach that trick as someone said below.. i'd rather my kid alive than dead.. OFC you don't want EITHER to happen to them. But out of two outcomes, one is undeniably worse. You can recover from being SA'd.. you can't recover from being ded.
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I live in Bend Oregon and I do business with her family who owns D & S Hydraulics. I have no remorse for this disgusting sick individual who took the life of an innocent young lady who had her whole life ahead of her! The fact that he had the audacity to pray and not take accountability for his actions is mind blowing! The right sentencing would have been for the judge to hand him over to her dad for him to deal with! This man doesn't deserve to be alive! He has no remorse for his actions!
Yeah his audacity was clearly not appropriate.
She was beautiful 😢
@@marieeckl2398inappropriate comment
@@marieeckl2398They are all beautiful. Every woman. In this world beauty equates to valuable. Rarely see or hear about unattractive woman missing make national headlines. Mostly the white pretty ones.
I can totally relate to the dad asking the judge for permission to deliver his own justice, 100% on the same page.
Murder..running from cops with kidnapped girl..driving 120 mph..no wonder you're having an asthma attack dude. Think about the girl you murdered..her last breath. You tell dispatch you're afraid they might shoot you. Wow..just wow. Great job by dispatch.
Looking at this guy & watching his performance, I will say without a shred of doubt, he was putting on an act. Inside, he was proud of what he did, & he would surely have done it again. Once a man or woman crosses that line, there is no going back. --------MJL, 77 y/o
Amazing video! I've watched this same story told 3 to 4 times in length (on prominent crime channels) and yours by far does it justice. For one it's extremely rich in detail (pics, recordings, building background, etc) but more importantly your story telling made many of the human moments palpable which I think is nothing short of amazing. Thank you and keep up the great work!
Thank you
I've seen different videos and know about this case, but this was the best one yet. Rest in peace, Kaylee. 🙏🏼
Thank you
She dead
he left some important things out though. she wasn't quite the angel.
@@ursodermatt8809bahaha. Did she still your lunch or smth?
@@XalexandraXRrRsteal*
The scariest thing is that there are so many individuals around the world with urges to take someone's life. 😢very sad
Really?? Source plese !
You just making crap up !
@@adambane1719erm the proof is that people get murdered 🤷
@@adambane1719 The source is life experience. You'll get there one day
Somebody look up this person's search history.
The scarier thing is that people don't believe in God anymore, and therefore have no reason to not act on those urges. They don't believe that they will be held accountable eternally. Lord have mercy.
I don't believe this killer felt any remorse at all. That "prayer" in the courtroom was a farce - a chance for him to grab the spotlight & revel in his handiwork. I'm not surprised that Kaylee's parents left the room, I wish everyone had walked out so that when he finally opened his eyes after such a sickening reverie he would have found there was no audience. Great video on this tragic loss of life.
Doubt God was listening either.
@@marisamartin3664 Whatever personal beliefs are held, or not held, by all listening I have every confidence this was nothing more than a way of showing a total lack of respect & remorse towards the victim & their family. The word "prayer" is in inverted commas to indicate that. It is disgusting that the defendant was given such an opportunity to become the centre of attention, a time for them to grab the spotlight & bask in this deliberate act of cruelty. The fact that it was so transparently insincere made it all the more offensive.
I know right! What bs!
It was absolutely an act, an act so overdone it comes off as so pathetic it might just be real to enough people I guess.
@@PaganღHeart You are spot on, he just wanted another minute in the spotlight.
Julie's mom is so smart telling the dispatcher that she had epilepsy. It is so ridiculous to me that police wait 2-3 days before they start looking for "healthy" people. Like the narrorator said, the fisrt 48 hours is the most crucial in a missing persons case.
I realize that most missing persons cases resolve themselves, but it is coming at the cost of those who really do need help since the police dont have any urgency to investigate further until 3 days later.
As a Father of two girls…. This story crushed me. You want so badly to protect your children regardless of their age. May GOD bring peace to her family… I believe she is at peace in the arms of JESUS CHRIST.
I think this is my first time watching your videos, and so much detail !! I love this.
Thank you
36:19 I had to add…the description used by the detective was deep & heart wrenching 💔. Again, I’ve seen other versions DC but this is the best. Fantastic decoding 👌
Thank you a lot work went into making this one. Hopefully youtube algorithm will do it's part
@@TheDecoderProductionI think people are on holidays. I’ve noticed other tc channels viewing numbers are slower revving up.
I agree about that detective.
"What you mistook for a hooker was an absolute angel" ... this cop is a misogynist piece of shit who should be fired for implying that someone's profession makes them less worthy of life and justice. He is an absolute pig, and not because of the cop thing.
That was the pastor, not the detective
Well edited, I like how I can follow the story with the cgi animation and the length is good too. Big fan!
Thank you! Glad you enjoyed it :)
30:24 The "18700" he wrote was a clue as to where he left her body. There's McKenzie Highway running west out of Redmond, Oregon, where the college Lara worked at was. There are no buildings along the highway between Redmond and the next town, except one house half a mile off the highway down a long driveway. A red mailbox for the house is sitting on the highway, with 18700 pasted on the side. He dumped her body somewhere along there.
I think it’s interesting how Edwin doesn’t want to die, but Kaylee probably didn’t want to die either, and he didn’t give her a choice.
This “man” Is such a coward.
And props to the wife for standing up for what’s right, even in such a difficult situation.
This guy.. how does any parent raise a son like this? He's a monster. He did too much violence for his pathetic repentence.
Well they do just say Jesus forgives 😅 🤷
Sometimes I think saying these people are monsters is really insulting...
To ACTUAL Monsters.
Your children should be unconditionally loved. By no way does that mean to fight for his/her release or expected others to forgive him. I wouldn't send money to his account in prison. I would visit and pay for phone calls. No of what I would do excuses his behavior or expects forgiveness.
@Cryton : i am so SICK of y'all blaming parents. YOU BLAME GOD for making Judas??
He may have had a bad childhood or his father could have been like him. He did worship that other killer. I wonder if they were related?
Very VERY well researched, edited and put together.
Absolutely text book !
Thanks you! Glad you enjoyed it
"Enjoyed" is the wrong word, but yes.@@TheDecoderProduction
if i was in this circumstance as a mother i would 100% overplay my daughters medical to get her labeled as at risk. i pay my taxes, the law is supposed to be there to help me when i am in need or to correct me when i need corrected. we must change how the law reacts to missing persons no matter the age.
I don't even think it's an exaggeration. My kid was accused of having absence seizures by a teacher who's son also had them. We got the EKG back and it was clear. No seizure found.
Tell me why I have to eat a written Dr note every year from her Nero saying that she doesn't have seizures and is not on medication for them OR THEY MAKE HER WEAR A HELMET.
Even if she did have absence seizures, thy are no clonic tonic. They do not manifest in convolutions. She doesn't fall down when having one. So, no if the school thinks even the remote possibility of a seizure as a serious consideration, then this mom made no foul. It's relevant info.
The only person he felt sorry for, was himself.
He's pretty adamant about wanting his inhaler and not wanting to die. I imagine Kaylee didn't want to die either
He doesn't have asthma. That was partook his manipulation lies.
Great coverage of this crime !
Lara doesn't seem to have any remorse as clearly seen during his comments at trial. His emotion during the police interview seemed to have more to do with his conflicted feelings about his urge to k*ll, etc. too.
And losing his job. A sincere apology letter doesn't put
"Sorry I murdered your daughter"
on the same plain as
whining about never being a rentacop again
Sorry, did you say the kidnapped victim, Andrea, didn't post this monster's confession ...out of EMBARRASSMENT??!!? I'm SO CONFUSED
I heard it too and if it is true it is a sign of an IQ below 80.
It makes sense. People who are introverted are very private and get embarrassed easily and the thought of people knowing deeply personal things about them is their worst nightmare. Other people based on how they were raised, feel deep shame even when they didn’t do anything to deserve it. The thought of someone thinking they had sex or was molested or did something that brought this upon themselves caused silence. Many people who are raped, never speak of it or outwardly deny it because of these components.
That bullshit he pulled at court smh.. I’m glad her granddad got up and walked out.
Her instincts didnt tell her he did it. He literally told her
Yeah, headline is a bit erroneous.
you might have missed the part where she went to the police and had an interview before he confessed to it...
@SoundGenerati0n no, she told the cops after he confessed and drove off with her gun.
I always waiting for the decoders video. Great work 👍
The best 911 operator I've ever heard.
One of the murderers personalities is not sorry for what he did. The murderer praying, begging for salvation from God is just another one of his personalities. He's a very dangerous man. Thankfully, he didn't murder more innocent people. Or did he?
Excellent presentation of this horrible crime. New fan.
Thank you. Glad you liked it
Wow! You diagnose people with multiple personalities! Is it a satisfying career? Psychiatrist, are you? What was it like to interview him? It must have been fascinating!! How long did it take for you to diagnose MPD?
I think we all have different personalities! Not meaning we all have MPD.
But we react different in different situations.
But you know, that little voice in the back of your head telling you;
‘No, this does not feel right, or don’t do that’
But we usually ignore them.
And also, most of us are different at work than we are at home, some people are different with friends than with family. Like telling friend’s things that you would not tell family.
At work we usually are professionals, don’t stress, talk/listen to our colleagues, don’t have others ‘walk over us’.
Things you might do differently at home or with your partner or children.
I don’t think that someone is always the same in every situation.
And I also believe that part of him, was not sorry for what he did, he was sorry that he got caught!
And then put a ‘show’ of how ‘sorry’ he was.
And no, I’m not a psychologist, I am a nurse and have been for the last 34 years. And have seen many a personalities through the years.
How many times I’ve seen a patient act completely different when family came to visit, acted then different when friends or one of the nurses where there……….It’s pretty interesting to be honest.
I know I’m not the same or react the same in every situation!
Is that just me???? I don’t know.
It sounded like he was praying for healing “for the community”, not for himself. Perhaps he did have remorse. These videos only show a portion of the story.😢
Most people that believe in God are evil. People that don't believe we don't do crazy things like that.
Those dispatchers were just amazing. Tough calls to handle, and they were calm, cool, collected, professional.
Good video. The most comprehensive telling of this horrible tragedy I’ve watched so far. Thank you
A guy like that doesn't feel remorse...just continues with his manipulation!
Heartwrenching...boyfriends...girlfriends, be kind to each other. We fight sometimes, but don't let them go out into the night after a fight. You never know who is lurking in the darkness. Kaylee is gone, so sad. Andreah made it through, that is good. He is locked up forever. Cops did a good job and his wife deserves a medal for reporting him. I echo the thoughts, fine video presentation.
Wmrong @Darcy : the kessons r STAY SINGLE - dont get drunk. - dont walk @night - carry weapon
Yeah the BF is probably never going to stop blaming himself because if they didnt argue she woulda never left.
You have NOT mentioned that Women n girls to have morals, character, wisdom .. please think in that lines.. boyfriend was NOT at fault ... It's her fault and that evil man used her to fullfill his evil instructions from Satan.
@@HoffyRS hope her boyfriend befriends a woman with character, morals n clean habits.
Ladies.. please learn from this. Just because you have an argument with your loved ones. DONT put yourself in harms way
This Channel is a breath of fresh air for true crime
Thank you 😊
It's fkn AI generated. It's garbage. To lazy to actually put work in these videos. There's about 20 of them all ran by a couple of groups. Don't support these AI channels.
Lol it's ai script
*breath
Nice edit : )
I'm so glad to hear his other victim's survived. I can't imagine what that poor girl he kidnapped after work. I hope she gets some peace. RIP KAYLIE.
Super smart move to lie about having an STI!
The operator was amazing. Calm and so good.
Excellently presented information of a sad situation. Well documented expertly prepared, unfortunately a very true saga.
Thank you. Glad you liked it
I can barely imagine how her boyfriend feels, even though it's not his fault. Two people will always quarrel with each other.But if it hadn't been for this quarrel, she would still be alive. It's such a trauma
Yeah, if he'd have remained calm and just talked her down he could have talked her into coming home, to sleep it off and THEN he could have calmly spoken to her
@@louloubelle1330it's not that easy when he gotta call saying she was dancing and flirting with another guy.. emotions run high
Do you realize you’re suggesting it’s his fault. It’s HER killer’s fault.
@@louloubelle1330 If she didn't make a long series of bad decisions things would have been different, too, if you wanna take that approach.
Never let a women alone at night, or anyone for that matter.
I can't think of anything more heart-breaking than having a blazing row with the person you love and never getting to make up because they got murdered. Ugh.
"I forgot my inhaler at home" What a pos
This sick guy always wanted to kill someone and was an underachiever who was eventually going to kill somebody just to be the big guy in charge of someone. I hope he gets some justice in prison from his new friends there.
Am I the only one who finds it disturbing that the rescued hostage has to step out of the car like a criminal to assure her safety? Would the police really gun her down for fleeing the car in tears trying to get to her rescuers? My mind can not comprehend this.
you have to remember that people.react in many ways during emergency situations and the reason those procedures are pushed is to keep both the victims and officers safe.
People lie all the time, they don’t know 100% she was a victim.
It’s better to be careful and get everything under control and then sort out who is a victim and who is the perpetrators
Just like Savannah Graziano, kidnap victim 15 yrs old, shot dead by California Police just this month.
I forget the case where one was was taken hostage and later helped her hostage taker get more victims. Something in her made him click with her and he saw her as a woman it would be easier for other women to trust her. She actually remained in a car when he dragged one victim off into the woods and had his way with her and killed her. She could have easily drove off too. When police get cases like this and are unsure of why the woman is still alive or why the man speaks highly of her (that she is good) and the one that comes to no harm. hmmmm I can see why the police would not trust right off the bat till questioned later or even searched to be sure she has not weapons to gun them down and free him etc...I view it as safetly measures. Once they are sure everyone is safe then they I am sure will treat her more like a victim.
Not a church service in the court room. This man is truly disturbed.
Rest In Peace Kaylee! My thoughts and prayers to her family and friends!
What an amazing 911 operator! Cool,calm, collected, compassionate.
And the bravery of Andrea! She's a legend.
Bravery? Stupid girl was too embarrassed to ask people for help. Wtf is wrong with her?
For a suspect to display pride and remorse while trying to spin a defence, indicates to me that this guy is a psychopath or sociopath because he does NOT know or understand what emotion you should feel when brutally murdering a stranger, if it’s an “accident”. I suspect his crime made his satisfied (I don’t know what someone with this personality type might feel/ not feel) and trilled, hence the pride being displayed to others. Anyways, I hope his wife pushes for a mental assessment to help with her process what she was married to, and or, provide insight on red flags that need she needs to be aware of regarding future relationships. May Kaylee rest in perfect peace.🕊️
I know it doesn't really matter but Kaylee was dazzlingly beautiful 😢
I read the only reason he gave him self up was because he didn’t have his inhaler with him, and was afraid he was going to die if he didn't get to one ASAP
it bolied my blood when he says, "I don't want to die"....Did Kaylee want to die? I just do not understand how cops or 911 responders stay so calm. They got to be heaven sent
The nerve of this guy asking for special request as he turn himself in. He didn't seem to care about Kaylee's health condition and her well being when he end her life. The conversation he had with the 911 operator was odd, as if he was having a normal conversation with a friend. I like how the 911 operator handle the situation with Edwin and made Aundrea feel safe ..
Him preaching in court 😂😂😂😂😂
Smh. What a jerk
Truly the actions of a sociopath.
He is totally nuts and his IQ ??? Below....what do you guess?
This was such a horrible tragedy to happen in our small town
Aren't murders of the innocent always a tragedy?!
Unfortunately, a lot of people have been murdered in Bend by civilians and police. This is just one of the few cases that was heavily reported on.
I suppose it also affects you differently when it's the town you grew up in. A tragedy is bad no matter what, but it is also different when you know everyone and have lived in the town your entire life.
I've heard this story before but Never with these details
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Thank you
The way he says "i dont wanna die.!" Even though he didnt care about his victim.
He planned to unalive her from the start. His sick mind wanted to get off on the SA of a unalived woman.
💔 I feel a very deep sadness for Kaylee's family, friends and loved ones. When Kaylee's grandfather spoke it was hard to listen to. But I listened to each and every word recalling the family legacy and my chest tightened even more. You can see in his face & eyes just how much he loves her. And remember all the spouses involved as well. This story was heartbreaking.
I think that confessions should not be withheld from evidence in court when someone commits such heinous crimes.
Especially with physical evidence validating their confession.
I wonder if his wife saw that poster in the shed. And if so why didn’t it cause concern? I’m a true crime fanatic. I have a morbid curiosity and have read/seen almost every horrific story there is however I do not idolize the monsters who do these crimes. I don’t have pictures or posters or anything of that nature. It’s weird
If he was a criminal justice major she probably would have thought that it was a school project.
My heart goes out to the family and all that were robbed of her light she brought into this world to those whom cared for her and her for them
Smart enough, emotional enough, manipulated enough , plan enough . He didn’t want to say where her body is .. but confess and show emotional care .. oh behavior that he did care about his family .
Thank you for the well documented description of this case. One of the best coverage of a case that I have seen. I have subscribed. From a Self proclaimed "True Crime Junkie"
Thank you
Wow! You hit this one out the park Decoder 👏👏👏👏
Thank you Karen! Glad you liked it :)
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THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS WITH ME. THIS MAN IS SO EVIL AND I DO NOT SEE ANY REMORSE FOR HIM. WHAT THEY DIDN'T CHARGE HIM WITH IS RAPPING THIS YOUNG WOMAN. WHEN HE THOUGHT SHE WAS DEAD HE THEN RAPED HER, BUT WHEN SHE CAME TO AND REALIZED THAT HE WAS RAPPING HER THEN HE TOOK A ROCK AND BEGAN HITTING HER IN THE HEAD UNTIL SHE WAS DEAD. HIS FULL INTENT WAS TO RAPE HER. IT HAS BROKEN MY HEART AND THE HEART'S OF HER FAMILY AND THOSE THAT LOVED HER AS WELL AS HER BOYFRIEND. MY HEART GOES OUT TO HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS. THERE ARE SOME TIMES THAT WE MAKE THE WRONG CHOICES AND ONE OF THOSE CHOICES CAN LEAD TO OUR DEATH AND UNFORTUNATELY THIS HAS HAPPENED TO SO MANY WOMEN THAT LEAVE A BAR OR A NIGHT CLUB OR EVEN GOING FOR A WALK AT NIGHT WHETHER YOUR UPSET AT YOUR HUSBAND OR YOUR BOYFRIEND OR FOR SOME OTHER REASON. UNFORTUNATELY THIS HAS HAPPENED MORE TIMES THAN I CAN COUNT TO WOMEN AND EVEN SOME MEN AS WELL. PLEASE THINK BEFORE YOU DO SOMETHING THAT CAN CAUSE YOU TO LOSE YOUR LIFE! I PRAY THAT GOD WILL PROTECT EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU AND YOUR FAMILY FROM PEOPLE THAT WILL KILL YOU FOR NO REASON AND SOME OTHERS THAT WANT SOMETHING FROM YOU. SO BE VERY VERY CAREFUL AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
Her boyfriend was trying to protect her. But she could not see that. I pray co
Fort her family. His wife is a good person. She deserve a medial. He is a sick individual, may he rot in hell
Why do you write in caps?
This sounds like you are victim blaming. Maybe campuscops should be more highly scrutinized before hire, as should all leo's.
@@iamgabriel5823 boohoo
Leaving the bar and going walking, DID NOT CAUSE her to lose her life. Edwin Lara caused her to die.
Wow this the most candid suspect that i have seen. Even while on the 911 call, he knew he was going to get caught, and he just laid it all out there. Wow!! I hope Kaylee's family can go on without her, and may she R.I.P. 🤔
The inhaler bit was hilarious. Peak comedy
“I forgot it at home, clearly the most tragic thing that happened the past 24 hours… 😔”
He was so into his own apology, like he was putting on a show like a movie or something.
Drunk people should never be allowed to walk alone at night.
Curb the drinking period. Nothing good comes from over drinking.
Adults don't need to be allowed to do that they choose to do it.
@@SusanLegermy first thought this would never have happened😢
When will they ever learn.
What you mean .. such women girls are already out of control... We can NEVER control them n say stay put inside the house..