Can you see how you people pick and mix??? Of all the things that happened to Chioma, she stayed and fought for her marriage!!! Gullible May ran to divorce her husband simply cos you guys are pushing her!!!😂😂😂😂 if yul is making a mistake, is it not May's duty to help the husband????? Make she continue. I wish her all the BEST 👍
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Are you for real. It's better to go to heaven with one eye thsb hsve both eyes and end up in hell. What do you mean. So if even if she is in pain she should stay and fight for her Marriage .I beg she has money she can start her life all over. And I am sure lots of wonderful men are waiting in line to make her the queen that she is.am surprised how Marriage is been glorified these days whiles the wife is suffering. She should go and start her new life best believe. When she gets out of that marriage mjudy and yul will not last.
Wow, what a response!!!! Why our mother's no run away when there husbands married second, 3rd,4th 5th etc . Now, she is asking for divorce or has divorced. What will she do if her new husband cheats ???? Can you boldly advise her to keep jumping from one marriage to the other because she is rich and so many men out there waiting????
In my opinion, she is making the best decision. For her losing a child in this whole brouhaha and her husband of 18 years doesn't feel anything, no, no. This is too much to bear. Whoever advises her to stay is not fair to her. Yul has reduced himself to nothing , it will be difficult to show love to such a man again.
I totally agree with May, The husband is way too disrespectful to his family. The daughter is in order to say how she feels. The and Judy are fair game as they have exposed themselves to ridicule.
I believe that May should ignore the noise and do what she deems fit for her life and the lives of her children. May has mourned alone when she has a husband and that alone is unforgivable to me. I am not May and no matter the situation NO ONE can feel May's feelings and as similar as situations might be EVERYONE is not the same! Your anger is not my anger, my happiness is not your happiness so people should STOP with the "What I would do," or what May should have done. Would have, should have, could have, at the end of the day May has to live with the decision and she is the one who has to make it. That is May's life pray for May and her children and STOP making noise about what she should or should have done or do!
May is a very kind hearted caring respectable lady, she waited all this while hoping the husband Will come back to his sense. Its good she finaly dumping his sorry ass.
It’s insane that people are telling her to stay…telling her to try and bring him back…to pray…absolutely insane …why should she stay in a place where she isn’t being treated well? Why is it her job to accept all the shit her man does..? This isn’t a little matter..bro got a whole other wife…a whole other family…PLEASE guys..if you aren’t happy..leave…men need to be held responsible…play stupid games win stupid prizes…advices like this is what makes women stay in abusive relationships…why should she go on her knees praying and fasting? Are those people okay?
People are acting as though she's the one that brought in the other woman whilst it was her husband,he's the one that stepped out so he should be the one grovelling 😢
@Ihechi_. My thoughts exactly. Why is it her sole job to fix. He has no remorse for what he continues to do. They both willingly signed a contract to be married and committed to each other however, he’s broken that contract why should she stay alone fighting and for what. Also, this whole mess doesn’t just involve the two of them, there are children involved and May has already lost one in this whole saga. What evil person would advice her to stay under those circumstances. People are truly evil. If he is under a spell or whatever, May can pray for him from a distance as any other human being. Must she lose her self or life because of marriage! This is just too much and ridiculous. It is her life after all. I support whatever decision she deems right for her self and her children all considered. Also, why do we continue to infantilize men? We give them so much grace for all their foolish ways, grace that is never offered to women when they mess up. This needs to stop. Men need to be held to account for their actions too and made to face the consequences of their actions. Who’s to say he will change if May stays. Has he even tried to change in the year since this whole mess started? Please people, stop being wicked.
@@nnekaokoro2978why can’t the woman be under spell? Y’all are really DUMB REALLY! PLAY STUPID GAMES, and WIN STUPID PRICES! Spell my foot! YOU WOULDNT FIND WHAT YOU ARE NOT LOOKING FOR! Other Men can’t be spelled Abi! Mtcheeeewww
Long overdue but I also understand that it takes some time for a woman to get to the point where they're ready to call it quits. May is so classy and sophisticated...you can't even compare her with Judy, it's like comparing oranges and apples. Yul will never be able get a woman of May’s calibre to look at him twice again after what he has done to himself. If they do, it will be because they know nothing about him, and he will have portrayed himself as he used to be, not the new version. The implications of his actions are far more reaching than he can ever imagine.
Anyone that thinks Judy won anything, should please explain how Yul and his shameless behaviour is a prize. Anybody that can treat you this way after over 19 years together does not have your best interest at heart.
She made the right decision for her and her children. If she did not leave, she'll be setting bad example for her children that you should stay even if youre being disregarded, cheated on and treated like crap. The daughter didnt throw any names but we all know she was referring to her father and side chick and she's right. How you get him is how you'll lose him. Neither women will be winners. Lastly, it's weird that 2 celebrity men (Yul and Davido) who both lost a child are also trending om the news for infidelity not too long after losing their child. Na wa.
May, did the right thing. It seems that in Nigeria many women will tolerate ANYTHING in their marriages, to ‘keep their home’. May went through and going through a lot. She must save herself and her children, her life. She has covered for him and took his behaviors over the years, only she and Yul knows.May take your Life back. He can refuse as much as he wants, it will be done.
As a mother who lost her daughter two years ago, I feel her, she's strong she can post his photos, I have not healed to even admire her pictures, it's a pain I can never describe, God heal her
In time it will get better ❤️🩹 but you will never forget and you will always feel that empty space I to lost my only Son I know how that feel a part of you is gone . May God give the strength that she needs 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
She should go on her knees alright, but to pray for her children! If he’s in bondage or under a spell, she’s not an exorcist. He strayed in the first place before he could have gotten “caged” His own mother will pray for him. Thank God she’s alive.
Queen May has prayed ceaselessly for Yul Edochie to come back but that wasn't possible and so filing for desolation of her marriage is the best decision she has made so far. Leaving her marriage however, doesn't make Judy Austin a win in any way.
Unfortunately for Yul he has lost all respect from his daughter. He might not realise now but he will soon discover how much he has allowed adultery to steal from him. So sad.
For me May’s decision is the best because Yul is a complete nuisance there’s no need fight for that type of animal that calls himself a human being. My take he is not worth any headache at all.
My heart goes to the children. They are the ones that really need counseling. Whatever anybody may say, Yul remains their biological father and seeing their mum hurt is painful. God be with them.
Even if May initially wanted to fight for her marriage, now leaving after the death of her son and Yul's behaviour afterwards is not a crime, her sanity and safety for her and the remaining children should be her priority...
You're spot on sis. May has every right to walk out on the marriage 'cause during the wedding, an agreement was reached btw both parties that they'd love each other only without a third party (ie second wife). Yul has broken that marital vow and that is a solid ground for divorce. It annoys me when some people especially women that should know better brings religion into it. Of course God said He hates divorce but that doesn't mean it won't happen. Unfaithful was condition for divorce so those mouthing trash should read/study their bible well. Yul Edochie is beyond redemption or fighting for and I support any decision by May; whether to stay or quit that toxic marriage and she chose the latter. It pisses me off when people drink Panadol over someone elses headache! Very annoying indeed!!!
Nezeville, with all these self deception from YUL, you won’t believe that, YUL goes behind the scene and cry begging MAY every to give him time, then in front of Judy he misbehave! Marriage should never be a do or die, because we don’t want another OSINACHI’S incident
Yul is a manipulator and a narcissist.... Queen May is his victim.....A narcissist doesn't live his victim easily....so they employ all the tactics available including begging in other to keep his victim or prisoner in his prison. The earlier Queen May takes her stand and leave this toxic marriage the better for her....this decision alone may save her life and Free her from yul's prison.
Good for May.Long overdue. Yul has so much disrespected her in every way un imaginable.They lost a child, he acted as if he didn’t care, rather he was on social media flaunting his love for Judy. Who does that after lossing a child?That was disheartening to watch. My heart goes out to May. She has been through hell and back, so bravo to her for finally filing for a divorce. No one should be treated like trash . Life goes on and she will be fine.Be strong and God will see you through. You have made the right decision.!!!
That marriage was over the day the guy moved to his new wife's house. My prayer is that May be found by the man that would love her as she deserves to be loved (if that is what she desires). Let everyone be happy in their worlds. huh
May is amazing. With all of what’s going on, she has never blamed her husband or the second wife. Neither has she portrays drama nor seeks public attention. She’s very strong and has endured a lot. I totally admire her strength and I’m motivated by her level of Maturity . As a young lady in her 20s, May’s story has taught me a great lesson. As for her daughter, she has all right to speak out. Imagine how beautiful her family was and today, she’s going through a lot that she can’t put out. May God bless May and her family ❤
Well said my dear, what people don't understand is that they young people like you watching. No woman deserves to be treated like May. It's not your portion in Jesus gracious name.
Oh how the mighty are fallen! Yul is finished. May edochie is taking the best decision, so no one should stop her pls. Neze I've been waiting for your analysis, thanks. Yul should pls sign the papers quick quick.
I dont understand why women are always expected to fight for men and win him like a trophy. If May were to be in Yule's position, all hell would have let lose and i dont think anyone would advise Yule to wait and pray for May, infact, Yule for don divorce her tey tey, remarried and forgotten that she even exists. Abeg, for me i belong first school of thought and if not for any other thing, the way he handled the death of their son is enough to leave him
Mehn whoever feels like May is making a mistake needs to go and marry that man and rescue him since they care more than her who has faithfully committed to him for 18 years smh
It was a powerful message only to see Jezebel replying uninvited. I still find it very difficult to fathom how juju did what she did to a follow woman destroying her 20+ marriage.
While she has been mourning, Yul has been playing a fool. At a time when his family needed him, he was showing the world how empty his head is. If he wasn’t going to do it for May, he should have done it for his children. What they are going through is indescribable pain. Whatever feelings she might have still had for him, have died. He broke down his home with his own hands and he shouldn’t be surprised or give her issues.
How is she going to save Yul. I support her decision. She is human what Yul and Juju was displaying is so annoying honestly. Yul is not ready to leave juju.We don't know if juju is remoting him with charm. We are only assuming that his behavior looks like someone under remote control. I pity May honestly. You can see Yul is not happy either and looking old and stressed out. It is written all over his face. I guess they are exhibiting nuisance on internet to pepper May. She need to sue him for bigamy that's when the charm will clear if it's the reason why he is behaving so childish.
Thanks Neze, I thank God for May, she took a decision worth it.She is as wise as Solomon in the bible. I appreciate and I am proud of May s parents for the good values inculcated in this proud daughter of God.Light and darkness cannot be together.God forbid.Thank you Jesus.🙏
May is on the right track!!! Of course it’s an action well overdue! Yul has got to the point of no return and May cannot rescue someone who does not desire to be rescued! Their daughter has every right to react to the situation- she has lost her brother and has seen the injustice being meted to her mother!!! She is in order to show she has a voice!!!
As for me I think May is old enough to make her own decisions in her life. After all she is the one who went through it all... Any choice she makes we just have to support her ❤❤
May has the right to move on before she loses her sanity. This yul is a cloned one, he needs to finish what he stated. Anyone that decided to be a second wife definitely came prepared. God please shield May and her remaining children with your armor.
How many women can take Yul's rubbish?Let us be honest with ourselves She should die out of frustration?The children are already fatherless Yul can even remember that he is the father of these children.A man dancing on the Social media barely two weeks after his sixteen year old son?Yul is finished May should not look back I pray for the best for her and her children
I am so proud of May, God continue to strengthen her. Nothing ad powerful as a women in control of own life. She didn't want to be labeled nothing but WIFE no damn 1 WIFE and she got exactly what she wanted. May thank you for setting and sticking by your own standard.
You can't force anyone to love you , love is a choice if after 20 years you are not their choice its always good to choose your self 100% in support with May let go of dramer
The universe waits for us to pick a path and then steps forward to support us. May is a gorgeous lady and beautiful soul. May the creator continue to protect her. Counsel your submissions were A+ !!!
I don't even want to get angry with those clowns who think May should go down praying on her knees or whatever to get a husband who doesn't even want to help himself. Is having Yul an achievement for May? Obviously no!!!! So why is she compelled to go into a fight she didn't invite on herself? Something that might even end up costing her life and that of her other kids which God forbid. Let her run for her safety and that of her kids before more touching stories come up. If truly he is avoiding the divorce then it means he is in his right frame of mind because if not, the same way he has been playing on social media with Judy that makes everyone thinks he is being used he should have been used the same way to accept the divorce without realising. To know he still wants his first Marriage while doing peti things online shows he is very well okay mentally and is doing all that from a palace of clear mindset. He has made May an object of redicule and even brought her so much shame and embarrassement on social media. I don't owe Yul any remourse. Let May do whatever she wants as long as it safeguards her happiness and life with that of her other kids
There's a BREAKING POINT in everyone's life, We all have different shades of MENTAL TOUGHNESS and high pain tolerate... MAY EDOCHIE has exhausted her breaking point limits. From psychological trauma of loosing a child and husband to restlessness, The best bet of fresh Air is for her to go Oblivion from YUL who's responsible for the agony so she could heal. Divorce is the way to protect her mental health @Nezeville, more power to your elbow.. but find me one of your fine sister as cute as you make I marry na😅
Nothing to salvage from this unfortunate situation. Yul is a loser and shamed his first family beyond words. May didn’t deserve any of this. I STAND WITH MAY TO END THE SO CALLED MARRIAGE. Who needs a senseless cheap hubby like Yul. The guy is a disgrace..!! May deserves better..! Good riddance to bad rubbish… losing Yul is not a loss at all to May..! He deserves his witch juju agba Lou,akpu-garri agba-okwute, Alao-beans dirty Austin…! Btw May did not lose to Akpakpu judy….May is choosing to walk away. Her values are no longer the same with Yul…they don’t hve anything in common anymore apart from the children they share..! May has done the right thing by filing for divorce. She should never look back..! It’s a pity it took over 18 yrs & the loss of a child to find out that he was her household enemy..! All these years she had been married and cohabiting with an enemy..! As for Danielle, kudos to her for supporting her mom..! She has feelings too and she should express herself at least for a Mental well-being and health Her father thus far has not been a good role model. Scorn him as he has scorned people that hve been good, faithful and loyal to him. Yul will get all he deserves from his chosen path..! Karma is a bitch and will be awesome served cold and on ice to him…Yul is just an efulefu..!!
May has made the best decision of her life divorce is the best for her Mental Health and that of her children looking at Yul and the other woman they don't really look like responsible adults or adults who have been married before They really look like teenagers in love and mixing is such is like living with fools in the same room She better moves on with her kids peacefully
Thanks my learned friend for so beautifully analysing the divorce proceedings. You make it so simple to understand. I am in support of May's decision. The humiliation and mental torture is too much to handle. For her sanity and self worth, good that she has 'taken the bull by the horn' and has started the process.
How does she remain married to a man missing in action. Congratulations, May. It's well and shall remain so for you and your children in Jesus Mighty Name Amen 🙏 ❤
10:49 Again Neze, you have done justice to this presentation. I go to RUclips looking for your new posts. I even go back on your past videos. The way you present brings everything to life. Jisie ike inugo. ❤
May have proven to be a very patient woman. Personally I wouldn't have stayed this long. She is doing the right thing by divorcing that childish and wicked Yul. For Danielle, she's an adult now and has the right to make her own decisions. No child will watch his father treat her mother so badly and not be pissed. May God help Queen May and give her the strength to go through this.
May has no powers to tame Yul. Pete Edochie, his father, could not tame him. Why should she be the one to do so. Yul started everything thing right in the full glare of his children, so he had involved them in this drama ab initio so they could comment. I am a man. I am going to be 73 soon. If May were my daughter, I would respect her decision and give her my support. On the other hand, if Yul were my son, I would have long come into the matter to avoid it getting to this level. Yul has behaved highly irresponsibly. Especially when he lost his son. No remorse. No show of losing a dear on. It is a shame on him and, by extension, his family. No one, nobody is worth dying for. If May wants to go, let her go. Or, do you wish her the same fate as her late son? God forbid. If God calls Yul today, would she follow him? Yul is a nuisance to be with.
I pray for May’s healing/great health, peace, rest, victory, success, happiness and more abundant blessings of the Almighty God! May the Lord equip her with love, strength, wisdom and discernment to continue being a wonderful mother to her children and a wonderful servant of the Almighty God🙏🏾 I also pray that the Lord will continue to surround her with the right people! 🙏🏾 peace, love and joy to her and her children!
Pl good are you a lawyer. You’re very knowledgeable and intelligent. You sound good, like my daughter. Whaooo. I respect law. Thank you for standing by Queen May. My prayers is for God to guide and protect Queen May and her children.
Just started following or watching you and I luv you all you do and you are one of the must beautiful soul in the universe keep doing what you luv god bless 😊
Im in the first group. I know the pain, I went through that after been married for fifteen years. It's painful I'm telling you. Emotionally draining. Biblically it is allowed to divorce if there is infidelity in the marriage.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Well presented. You are super lawyer 🙏♥️ May had made the right decision to move on with her life. She should leave Nigeria to abroad and raise her children in peace. What a lucky chap will marry this saint lady. Yul is not in his right mind. He needs spiritual awakening. He is insane and soon remorse will finish him. Be blessed beautiful Nezeeeeye 👏🏽♥️
For her to take this decision after Kambili’s death? a lot has been discovered and you know in africa when untimely death is involved, investigations here and there to know why , water don pass Garri so she is not ready to face whatever is going to befall Yul , let him face it and to the daughter, she is old enough to read on understand the hand writing so she is right , she’s got to express herself now that her mom has come out . Shame on men that bring in another woman to scatter and destroy the destiny of their families. May , you know what is best for you please it’s your life , choose wisely and as far as your family of 5 isn’t complete then take a decision that will protect the remaining ones . Yul, he who the gods want to destroy, they first of all make them blind “. If you love your second wife so much then come out and sign the divorce papers now ?you all are losers . Actors indeed .
It's very devastating, painful and indeed very obnoxious what our dear and beloved beautiful May has gone through our brother and friend Yul. In my view, May, please stay strong and hold strong to your children. It's not gonna be easy spiritually and physically too. Your spiritual healing process comes from the Lord. Your physical healing requires your personal motivation and self encouragement. What was your late son's view when this heat came up? I would request that you honor his wishes for his sake and also consider your comfort. Whatever happens, may the good Lord continue to strengthen you and your children. Don't give up hope.
Can you see how you people pick and mix??? Of all the things that happened to Chioma, she stayed and fought for her marriage!!! Gullible May ran to divorce her husband simply cos you guys are pushing her!!!😂😂😂😂 if yul is making a mistake, is it not May's duty to help the husband????? Make she continue. I wish her all the BEST 👍
When young people chose sports for their carreer. They must first check with à sport doctor to conform that. Ithere are many sportsman that is denied by sports doctors.
Keep your opinion to urself.Ur not in her shoe, lf you are ,u will do the same.
Are you for real. It's better to go to heaven with one eye thsb hsve both eyes and end up in hell. What do you mean. So if even if she is in pain she should stay and fight for her Marriage .I beg she has money she can start her life all over. And I am sure lots of wonderful men are waiting in line to make her the queen that she is.am surprised how Marriage is been glorified these days whiles the wife is suffering. She should go and start her new life best believe. When she gets out of that marriage mjudy and yul will not last.
Wow, what a response!!!! Why our mother's no run away when there husbands married second, 3rd,4th 5th etc . Now, she is asking for divorce or has divorced. What will she do if her new husband cheats ???? Can you boldly advise her to keep jumping from one marriage to the other because she is rich and so many men out there waiting????
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In my opinion, she is making the best decision. For her losing a child in this whole brouhaha and her husband of 18 years doesn't feel anything, no, no. This is too much to bear. Whoever advises her to stay is not fair to her. Yul has reduced himself to nothing , it will be difficult to show love to such a man again.
I agree with you
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MAY has giving her everything to YUL and YUL instead took MAY’S humility and respect for granted
Absolutely!
U don’t know my dear let’s watch n pray
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But such is life. She does not need to die because of that. Life must go on.
Losing marriage or a man is not the end of life; Nkiruka!
I will forever and ever support May…wish I can give her a hug… that letter to her son is so so sad…😢
I totally agree with May, The husband is way too disrespectful to his family. The daughter is in order to say how she feels. The and Judy are fair game as they have exposed themselves to ridicule.
I believe that May should ignore the noise and do what she deems fit for her life and the lives of her children. May has mourned alone when she has a husband and that alone is unforgivable to me. I am not May and no matter the situation NO ONE can feel May's feelings and as similar as situations might be EVERYONE is not the same! Your anger is not my anger, my happiness is not your happiness so people should STOP with the "What I would do," or what May should have done. Would have, should have, could have, at the end of the day May has to live with the decision and she is the one who has to make it. That is May's life pray for May and her children and STOP making noise about what she should or should have done or do!
Well said.
I completely agree with you. She is the one in the situation. She knows what is best for her and her family.
May is a very kind hearted caring respectable lady, she waited all this while hoping the husband Will come back to his sense. Its good she finaly dumping his sorry ass.
Thank you💥
Well said
It’s insane that people are telling her to stay…telling her to try and bring him back…to pray…absolutely insane …why should she stay in a place where she isn’t being treated well? Why is it her job to accept all the shit her man does..? This isn’t a little matter..bro got a whole other wife…a whole other family…PLEASE guys..if you aren’t happy..leave…men need to be held responsible…play stupid games win stupid prizes…advices like this is what makes women stay in abusive relationships…why should she go on her knees praying and fasting? Are those people okay?
People are acting as though she's the one that brought in the other woman whilst it was her husband,he's the one that stepped out so he should be the one grovelling 😢
Gbam👍
What if this man is under a spell for real
@Ihechi_. My thoughts exactly. Why is it her sole job to fix. He has no remorse for what he continues to do. They both willingly signed a contract to be married and committed to each other however, he’s broken that contract why should she stay alone fighting and for what. Also, this whole mess doesn’t just involve the two of them, there are children involved and May has already lost one in this whole saga. What evil person would advice her to stay under those circumstances. People are truly evil. If he is under a spell or whatever, May can pray for him from a distance as any other human being. Must she lose her self or life because of marriage! This is just too much and ridiculous. It is her life after all. I support whatever decision she deems right for her self and her children all considered.
Also, why do we continue to infantilize men? We give them so much grace for all their foolish ways, grace that is never offered to women when they mess up. This needs to stop. Men need to be held to account for their actions too and made to face the consequences of their actions. Who’s to say he will change if May stays. Has he even tried to change in the year since this whole mess started? Please people, stop being wicked.
@@nnekaokoro2978why can’t the woman be under spell?
Y’all are really DUMB REALLY!
PLAY STUPID GAMES, and WIN STUPID PRICES!
Spell my foot! YOU WOULDNT FIND WHAT YOU ARE NOT LOOKING FOR! Other Men can’t be spelled Abi!
Mtcheeeewww
You Go May. The Angels are going to fight this battle for you. Don't back down. Fight for your freedom.
Long overdue but I also understand that it takes some time for a woman to get to the point where they're ready to call it quits. May is so classy and sophisticated...you can't even compare her with Judy, it's like comparing oranges and apples. Yul will never be able get a woman of May’s calibre to look at him twice again after what he has done to himself. If they do, it will be because they know nothing about him, and he will have portrayed himself as he used to be, not the new version. The implications of his actions are far more reaching than he can ever imagine.
Yul is a low life, he won’t even see himself as ‘reduced’.
Anyone that thinks Judy won anything, should please explain how Yul and his shameless behaviour is a prize. Anybody that can treat you this way after over 19 years together does not have your best interest at heart.
My thoughts exactly!! I see that Judy and wonder what she thinks will happen to her in a few years when another Judy comes along 🤦🏽♀️
Exactly! Her mental health is at stake people don’t realize this! You only fight for a man who wants to be fought for🤷🏻♀️
Judy blind yul eyes
Neze, you will not kill us with roof tearing vocabs 🤣🤣🤣
She made the right decision for her and her children. If she did not leave, she'll be setting bad example for her children that you should stay even if youre being disregarded, cheated on and treated like crap.
The daughter didnt throw any names but we all know she was referring to her father and side chick and she's right. How you get him is how you'll lose him. Neither women will be winners.
Lastly, it's weird that 2 celebrity men (Yul and Davido) who both lost a child are also trending om the news for infidelity not too long after losing their child. Na wa.
May’s humility, calmness, and resilience should be studied. I pray for sunshine after the storm.
May, did the right thing. It seems that in Nigeria many women will tolerate ANYTHING in their marriages, to ‘keep their home’. May went through and going through a lot. She must save herself and her children, her life. She has covered for him and took his behaviors over the years, only she and Yul knows.May take your Life back. He can refuse as much as he wants, it will be done.
May has made a best decision , her health is very important!!
As a mother who lost her daughter two years ago, I feel her, she's strong she can post his photos, I have not healed to even admire her pictures, it's a pain I can never describe, God heal her
The Lord is your strength ❤❤❤
May Allah give you the fortitude to bear her loss it is indeed a big test but whoever God loves the most he test the most.
God's Light remains on you🙏
In time it will get better ❤️🩹 but you will never forget and you will always feel that empty space I to lost my only Son I know how that feel a part of you is gone . May God give the strength that she needs 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Na really tighten her belt🤣😂🤣😂🤣 men no dey tighten belt abi. Pls let the women breatttthhhhheeeee. Is long overdue
She should go on her knees alright, but to pray for her children!
If he’s in bondage or under a spell, she’s not an exorcist.
He strayed in the first place before he could have gotten “caged”
His own mother will pray for him. Thank God she’s alive.
Yes oooo
Let her mum pray him out
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naso Africa Sabi think... we don't want to be realistic... we blame every action n choice we make on the devil....
Queen May has prayed ceaselessly for Yul Edochie to come back but that wasn't possible and so filing for desolation of her marriage is the best decision she has made so far. Leaving her marriage however, doesn't make Judy Austin a win in any way.
Unfortunately for Yul he has lost all respect from his daughter. He might not realise now but he will soon discover how much he has allowed adultery to steal from him. So sad.
I could not shed tears but those tears were embedded in my Soul. God is your strength, be comforted. Heaven has truly gained an angel.
I stand by the word in Exodus 14 vs 14 "The Lord shall fight for you, and you shall hold your peace" May the good Lord fight for May Edochie.
My advice for the 2nd school of thought is this "sometimes you loose to win".May needs to take care of her mental health.
Neze I could feel the emotions while you were reading May’s message.
Could this be May 😮
For me May’s decision is the best because Yul is a complete nuisance there’s no need fight for that type of animal that calls himself a human being. My take he is not worth any headache at all.
Excellent. I'm particularly pleased that you dealt with the issue of the service of the petition.
My heart goes to the children. They are the ones that really need counseling. Whatever anybody may say, Yul remains their biological father and seeing their mum hurt is painful. God be with them.
👏 go May proud of you girlfriend.! He got it coming! You will be fine🙏🙏
Even if May initially wanted to fight for her marriage, now leaving after the death of her son and Yul's behaviour afterwards is not a crime, her sanity and safety for her and the remaining children should be her priority...
You're spot on sis. May has every right to walk out on the marriage 'cause during the wedding, an agreement was reached btw both parties that they'd love each other only without a third party (ie second wife). Yul has broken that marital vow and that is a solid ground for divorce. It annoys me when some people especially women that should know better brings religion into it. Of course God said He hates divorce but that doesn't mean it won't happen. Unfaithful was condition for divorce so those mouthing trash should read/study their bible well. Yul Edochie is beyond redemption or fighting for and I support any decision by May; whether to stay or quit that toxic marriage and she chose the latter. It pisses me off when people drink Panadol over someone elses headache! Very annoying indeed!!!
Nezeville, with all these self deception from YUL, you won’t believe that, YUL goes behind the scene and cry begging MAY every to give him time, then in front of Judy he misbehave!
Marriage should never be a do or die, because we don’t want another OSINACHI’S incident
Yul is a manipulator and a narcissist.... Queen May is his victim.....A narcissist doesn't live his victim easily....so they employ all the tactics available including begging in other to keep his victim or prisoner in his prison. The earlier Queen May takes her stand and leave this toxic marriage the better for her....this decision alone may save her life and Free her from yul's prison.
May God Almighty answer all your prayers queen may, your three children will make you proud they'll make you cry but TEARS OF JOY amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Good for May.Long overdue. Yul has so much disrespected her in every way un imaginable.They lost a child, he acted as if he didn’t care, rather he was on social media flaunting his love for Judy. Who does that after lossing a child?That was disheartening to watch. My heart goes out to May. She has been through hell and back, so bravo to her for finally filing for a divorce. No one should be treated like trash . Life goes on and she will be fine.Be strong and God will see you through. You have made the right decision.!!!
That marriage was over the day the guy moved to his new wife's house. My prayer is that May be found by the man that would love her as she deserves to be loved (if that is what she desires). Let everyone be happy in their worlds. huh
May is amazing. With all of what’s going on, she has never blamed her husband or the second wife. Neither has she portrays drama nor seeks public attention.
She’s very strong and has endured a lot. I totally admire her strength and I’m motivated by her level of Maturity .
As a young lady in her 20s, May’s story has taught me a great lesson.
As for her daughter, she has all right to speak out. Imagine how beautiful her family was and today, she’s going through a lot that she can’t put out.
May God bless May and her family ❤
Well said my dear, what people don't understand is that they young people like you watching. No woman deserves to be treated like May. It's not your portion in Jesus gracious name.
Karma never dissapints, Especially how they treated her loss, their turn is coming someday
I just love the way you narrate your stories ❤ more grace to you sis 😊
The best decision ever. Wishing her the best always. ‘ Poor thing’. She does not deserve this in any way. ‘Bless her heart’ ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Oh how the mighty are fallen! Yul is finished. May edochie is taking the best decision, so no one should stop her pls. Neze I've been waiting for your analysis, thanks. Yul should pls sign the papers quick quick.
I dont understand why women are always expected to fight for men and win him like a trophy. If May were to be in Yule's position, all hell would have let lose and i dont think anyone would advise Yule to wait and pray for May, infact, Yule for don divorce her tey tey, remarried and forgotten that she even exists.
Abeg, for me i belong first school of thought and if not for any other thing, the way he handled the death of their son is enough to leave him
Best decision ever taken by May! Go girl, go!❤❤❤❤
The blood of Kambi shall continue to chase his killers for revenge
Amen
Amen!
Mehn whoever feels like May is making a mistake needs to go and marry that man and rescue him since they care more than her who has faithfully committed to him for 18 years smh
Why must she rescue a fool who is ungreatful yul is useless he have remose
😂😂 yes let THEM marry and babysit him!
It was a powerful message only to see Jezebel replying uninvited. I still find it very difficult to fathom how juju did what she did to a follow woman destroying her 20+ marriage.
I want to also understand but still don't
Why can some people be this heartless?
Because Judy destroyed her own marriage,so it's easy for her. She is a Jezebel.
Probably isn’t juju, they are both narcissistic that’s why they are together
While she has been mourning, Yul has been playing a fool. At a time when his family needed him, he was showing the world how empty his head is. If he wasn’t going to do it for May, he should have done it for his children. What they are going through is indescribable pain. Whatever feelings she might have still had for him, have died. He broke down his home with his own hands and he shouldn’t be surprised or give her issues.
How is she going to save Yul. I support her decision. She is human what Yul and Juju was displaying is so annoying honestly. Yul is not ready to leave juju.We don't know if juju is remoting him with charm. We are only assuming that his behavior looks like someone under remote control. I pity May honestly. You can see Yul is not happy either and looking old and stressed out. It is written all over his face. I guess they are exhibiting nuisance on internet to pepper May. She need to sue him for bigamy that's when the charm will clear if it's the reason why he is behaving so childish.
Nezeeee!!!!😂😂😂😂 That description of those who want her to stay have me rolling 😂😂😂
Very well explained and detailed🔥🔥
Thanks Neze, I thank God for May, she took a decision worth it.She is as wise as Solomon in the bible. I appreciate and I am proud of May s parents for the good values inculcated in this proud daughter of God.Light and darkness cannot be together.God forbid.Thank you Jesus.🙏
May is on the right track!!! Of course it’s an action well overdue! Yul has got to the point of no return and May cannot rescue someone who does not desire to be rescued!
Their daughter has every right to react to the situation- she has lost her brother and has seen the injustice being meted to her mother!!! She is in order to show she has a voice!!!
Thank you so much Neze for reading out her post. I couldn't get myself to read it on IG. God help us from wierd evil happenings in this world.
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A resounding Amen
As for me I think May is old enough to make her own decisions in her life. After all she is the one who went through it all... Any choice she makes we just have to support her ❤❤
May has the right to move on before she loses her sanity. This yul is a cloned one, he needs to finish what he stated. Anyone that decided to be a second wife definitely came prepared. God please shield May and her remaining children with your armor.
How many women can take Yul's rubbish?Let us be honest with ourselves She should die out of frustration?The children are already fatherless Yul can even remember that he is the father of these children.A man dancing on the Social media barely two weeks after his sixteen year old son?Yul is finished May should not look back I pray for the best for her and her children
can not even remember that he is the father of these children
My sister I wonder ooo. Useless yeye man
I’m proud of May💯
I’m happy for her!
You have spoken very well and truthfully! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 May is doing the right thing.
I am so proud of May, God continue to strengthen her. Nothing ad powerful as a women in control of own life. She didn't want to be labeled nothing but WIFE no damn 1 WIFE and she got exactly what she wanted. May thank you for setting and sticking by your own standard.
You can't force anyone to love you , love is a choice if after 20 years you are not their choice its always good to choose your self 100% in support with May let go of dramer
That letter was very heavy, it’s not one any parent should have to write. 😢😢
The universe waits for us to pick a path and then steps forward to support us. May is a gorgeous lady and beautiful soul. May the creator continue to protect her. Counsel your submissions were A+ !!!
I don't even want to get angry with those clowns who think May should go down praying on her knees or whatever to get a husband who doesn't even want to help himself. Is having Yul an achievement for May? Obviously no!!!! So why is she compelled to go into a fight she didn't invite on herself? Something that might even end up costing her life and that of her other kids which God forbid. Let her run for her safety and that of her kids before more touching stories come up.
If truly he is avoiding the divorce then it means he is in his right frame of mind because if not, the same way he has been playing on social media with Judy that makes everyone thinks he is being used he should have been used the same way to accept the divorce without realising. To know he still wants his first Marriage while doing peti things online shows he is very well okay mentally and is doing all that from a palace of clear mindset.
He has made May an object of redicule and even brought her so much shame and embarrassement on social media. I don't owe Yul any remourse. Let May do whatever she wants as long as it safeguards her happiness and life with that of her other kids
Sure. She was praying. Her son died. They want her to die? Let him agree to be served. He is wicked. He wants to kill May
Best decision to avoid further loss. May God grant u grace! Wishing u d very best May!
There's a BREAKING POINT in everyone's life,
We all have different shades of MENTAL TOUGHNESS and high pain tolerate...
MAY EDOCHIE has exhausted her breaking point limits.
From psychological trauma of loosing a child and husband to restlessness,
The best bet of fresh Air is for her to go Oblivion from YUL who's responsible for the agony so she could heal. Divorce is the way to protect her mental health
@Nezeville, more power to your elbow..
but find me one of your fine sister as cute as you make I marry na😅
For me,this is the best comment so far, he used the right words, big ups bro
👏👏👏👏...
Yes Neville, let the process beginn
There is always exceptione on every case..
Biko Yul brought this nonsense upon himself so for that reason everyone has freedom of speech including his grown up daughter📌
You are so intelligent. The way you explain this makes it so so easy to understand
Nothing to salvage from this unfortunate situation. Yul is a loser and shamed his first family beyond words. May didn’t deserve any of this. I STAND WITH MAY TO END THE SO CALLED MARRIAGE.
Who needs a senseless cheap hubby like Yul. The guy is a disgrace..!! May deserves better..! Good riddance to bad rubbish… losing Yul is not a loss at all to May..!
He deserves his witch juju agba Lou,akpu-garri agba-okwute, Alao-beans dirty Austin…!
Btw May did not lose to Akpakpu judy….May is choosing to walk away. Her values are no longer the same with Yul…they don’t hve anything in common anymore apart from the children they share..!
May has done the right thing by filing for divorce. She should never look back..! It’s a pity it took over 18 yrs & the loss of a child to find out that he was her household enemy..! All these years she had been married and cohabiting with an enemy..!
As for Danielle, kudos to her for supporting her mom..! She has feelings too and she should express herself at least for a
Mental well-being and health Her father thus far has not been a good role model. Scorn him as he has scorned people that hve been good, faithful and loyal to him. Yul will get all he deserves from his chosen path..! Karma is a bitch and will be awesome served cold and on ice to him…Yul is just an efulefu..!!
I wish I can give you 2 thumbs up 😮
I swear!
She have made a right decision, if I was her, he will not even last one minute. Great presentation thank you.
May has made the best decision of her life divorce is the best for her Mental Health and that of her children looking at Yul and the other woman they don't really look like responsible adults or adults who have been married before
They really look like teenagers in love and mixing is such is like living with fools in the same room
She better moves on with her kids peacefully
Thanks my learned friend for so beautifully analysing the divorce proceedings. You make it so simple to understand.
I am in support of May's decision. The humiliation and mental torture is too much to handle. For her sanity and self worth, good that she has 'taken the bull by the horn' and has started the process.
How does she remain married to a man missing in action. Congratulations, May. It's well and shall remain so for you and your children in Jesus Mighty Name Amen 🙏 ❤
What a strong woman, such dignity in the face of everything
10:49 Again Neze, you have done justice to this presentation. I go to RUclips looking for your new posts. I even go back on your past videos.
The way you present brings everything to life. Jisie ike inugo. ❤
Amazing video as always 🤗❤️
May have proven to be a very patient woman. Personally I wouldn't have stayed this long. She is doing the right thing by divorcing that childish and wicked Yul. For Danielle, she's an adult now and has the right to make her own decisions. No child will watch his father treat her mother so badly and not be pissed. May God help Queen May and give her the strength to go through this.
Tears dropped hearing this tribute. May God continue to protect you and children.
D first line of thinking she has to leave to start her life again
Nezeville, you are an orator, narrator, analyzer and an educator! Kudos dear. May must move on. Yul can't eat his cake and have it!!
May has no powers to tame Yul. Pete Edochie, his father, could not tame him. Why should she be the one to do so. Yul started everything thing right in the full glare of his children, so he had involved them in this drama ab initio so they could comment. I am a man. I am going to be 73 soon. If May were my daughter, I would respect her decision and give her my support. On the other hand, if Yul were my son, I would have long come into the matter to avoid it getting to this level. Yul has behaved highly irresponsibly. Especially when he lost his son. No remorse. No show of losing a dear on. It is a shame on him and, by extension, his family. No one, nobody is worth dying for. If May wants to go, let her go. Or, do you wish her the same fate as her late son? God forbid. If God calls Yul today, would she follow him? Yul is a nuisance to be with.
LOVE IS ONE THING THAT CAN NOT BE FORCE
I was so waiting for your notification let go now queen ❤❤❤❤❤❤
She has made the best decision. Although it took a long time to come. At least she can start fresh as well as heal fast. I wish her the best of Life.
I pray for May’s healing/great health, peace, rest, victory, success, happiness and more abundant blessings of the Almighty God! May the Lord equip her with love, strength, wisdom and discernment to continue being a wonderful mother to her children and a wonderful servant of the Almighty God🙏🏾 I also pray that the Lord will continue to surround her with the right people! 🙏🏾 peace, love and joy to her and her children!
Well said my dear beautiful and intelligent Barrister ❤
She has actually done something most Igbo women do not have the courage or gumption to do. Goodluck to her
Omo this guy is definitely under some Serious Jazz! It's not easy I tell you. Sahh! Have mercy Lord!
Go May, best decision ever. When it's over everyone goes his/her way 🙏🙏
Pl good are you a lawyer. You’re very knowledgeable and intelligent. You sound good, like my daughter. Whaooo. I respect law. Thank you for standing by Queen May. My prayers is for God to guide and protect Queen May and her children.
This man behaves like a drunkened man. He did not show any sense of remorse for his actions.
Just started following or watching you and I luv you all you do and you are one of the must beautiful soul in the universe keep doing what you luv god bless 😊
Yul has a mother and father so they should pray for him. May doesn’t believe in polygamy. Period. I’m delighted that she is leaving the fool of a man.
Im in the first group. I know the pain, I went through that after been married for fifteen years. It's painful I'm telling you. Emotionally draining. Biblically it is allowed to divorce if there is infidelity in the marriage.
And to remarry.
May loosing her eldest son in this saga, is no longer a child's play. I support her to take whatever decision that suit her. Period!!!!!
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Well presented. You are super lawyer 🙏♥️
May had made the right decision to move on with her life. She should leave Nigeria to abroad and raise her children in peace. What a lucky chap will marry this saint lady.
Yul is not in his right mind. He needs spiritual awakening. He is insane and soon remorse will finish him.
Be blessed beautiful Nezeeeeye 👏🏽♥️
Thanks for the legal enlightenment jare. I hope more women in toxic marriages have heard, otherwise let them stay there until Osinachi happens to them
For her to take this decision after Kambili’s death? a lot has been discovered and you know in africa when untimely death is involved, investigations here and there to know why , water don pass Garri so she is not ready to face whatever is going to befall Yul , let him face it and to the daughter, she is old enough to read on understand the hand writing so she is right , she’s got to express herself now that her mom has come out . Shame on men that bring in another woman to scatter and destroy the destiny of their families. May , you know what is best for you please it’s your life , choose wisely and as far as your family of 5 isn’t complete then take a decision that will protect the remaining ones . Yul, he who the gods want to destroy, they first of all make them blind “. If you love your second wife so much then come out and sign the divorce papers now ?you all are losers . Actors indeed .
Indeed lose actors 👎
You are right, something has been discovered behind the scenes, for her to make the ultimate decision to leave means she has reached her limit
My Neze beautifully beautiful ❤️❤️❤️ as usual let me watch and come back to the comment section 😂
Love you, you channel, way of broadcasting.❤
Queen May is class personified. God will help her through the whole brouhaha and bring her out stronger, wiser, richer and better
Beautiful video. May made the decision I would have made long before now. Let people talk.
It's very devastating, painful and indeed very obnoxious what our dear and beloved beautiful May has gone through our brother and friend Yul. In my view, May, please stay strong and hold strong to your children. It's not gonna be easy spiritually and physically too. Your spiritual healing process comes from the Lord. Your physical healing requires your personal motivation and self encouragement. What was your late son's view when this heat came up? I would request that you honor his wishes for his sake and also consider your comfort. Whatever happens, may the good Lord continue to strengthen you and your children. Don't give up hope.