My daughter this is too much, whether you check his phone or not, just pray your husband did not come in contact with this devlish women.l am telling you out of my own experience l was 60+when it happens to me He came begging by that time every thing has turn upside down for him,he was also seriously sick,l forgive l just stay jeje in my own house,he eventually died My daughter it's a bad experience,if the woman is a one way woman like me (if she's the type that doesn't flirt)
I only see a devilish man here, they tell lots of lies to involve these women in thier dirty lifestyle, then the two women begin the fight at each other and the man becomes a good man, wake up dear women, yoruba women have no problem sharing thier men though, but some women despite tribe cannot handle it that's why the evil man is disappointed,
Neze, thanks for talking about this story. This type of story is so common with Diaspora wives. Diaspora wives work several shifts in the cold and spend the money to support their husband's business ventures in Nigeria. I have said that no wife should give her hard earned money to any man unless the business is in where she and her children lives either in UK, US , Canada etc. If he want to do the business in Nigeria, let him do it all by himself. Diaspora wives, dont work ur tail off to use ur money to fund another wife in Nigeria. If ur husband goes to Nigeria every year,twice or more in a year, know that there is another woman in Nigeria. If he want to go to Nigeria, I advice u go with him. Don't use ur money to build house for another woman to live in. U work so hard overseas, to entrust it over a decieving man. God will help u all.
I think the advice should be if it ain’t working look out for your sanity. If one needs to do FBI work in marriage, is it still a loving marriage? It’s not hard to see when one ain’t wanted or when one is being used. No parent will want their daughter to be used as a doormat by a spouse in the name of marriage. I come in peace.
As a diaporian Nigerian I can confirm this to be true. My father would leave for Nigeria at least once every year from the US and leave my mother behind with four children. He had a mistress in Edo state and she even had the guts to call our home. I’m not sure what it is with “some” Nigerian men who think they can treat their wives and children anyhow. It’s traumatizing and children do not forget. My sisters still remind my father of what he has done years ago until this day. So think twice before make foolish mistakes that can affect everyone around you
First of all well said....how can the wife or wives living abroad always park up their luggages going to Nigeria each time he want to visit home,it doesn't fully make sense because most of these women are busy working for hours everyday most of their stay home times are major holiday/s. Why can't we trust the man we live with, so very important you discuss your intentions and purpose with your partner before thinking of Settling down with that man or woman so if it's not longer aligning you can start speaking up then if nothing can be done, you can sign out, Men that are intentional doesn't misbehave period
Yes, Neze would be very good at narrating stories for children - they would be mesmerised. Perhaps she could also write books for children, books with moral messages about good behaviour and virtues, so as to provide moral education.
😁😁you've never seen something, her hubby is the luckiest man on earth. I swear I sincerely do not love women even my besties as deep n genuinely as I love everything about Neze,she's such a dull n a queen of our castle💞❤👄
No doubt this story is so heartbreaking. I wept for Oyindamola. The betrayal is in quantum measures. She shld forgive him as a true Christian but does not need to stay married to him only for this reason...her life and her children's lives safety because the intruder is armed for a full take over with her diabolic ammunition. Her doom will be served in due season. Oyindamola, if you 're reading this, my heart breaks for you but see, you'll be good. Whatever happens, commit to survive. You will laugh last. God sees u and pls. Let Him fight for you. Just hold ur peace.
Thank God she found out the truth and left alive with her children. She was married to the enemy, but God delivered her and will bless her with her real husband. I pray she stays strong and does not allow people to talk her into going back to the devil.
I don’t blame him I blame silly women who give useless man like this a chance. What business do you have with a man who betrayed the women he vowed to and the mother of his children yours will be any better? Your own is coming x 2
I have a philosophy that has helped me in life: what the ears do not hear does not upset the stomach. Women should even in the midst of love and loyalty learn to have a life, secure these lives, and make sure that everything you jointly work for must have your both names in full; not Mr and Mrs, but Mr Jacob James and Mrs Stephanie Oluchi Jacob-James. Wisdom is the principal thing, women!!!
Even if u have both names on all properties. U have to keep ur eyes open. I know a woman who her husband goes to Nigeria every year. The wife died and her husband remarried and brought another woman from Nigeria in 14 months after her death. Who knows whether it is the sidechick that killed her. The jointly owned properties is now jointly owned with another woman. Being naive and Ignorance can kill . God will save us from women who want to reap where they don't sew.
The other thing is ladies, be very business minded. Properties being purchased should also include the children’s names and have both parties putting down EQUAL portion in down payments. Make sure that no activity can occur on the family home in the abroad(loan), without you being notified for signature. She TRUSTED this charlatan. Be active in ANY transactions, don’t give over your strength. She trusted him wholeheartedly. Ladies, ALWAYS keep one eye open, alert. Love doesn’t mean that you have to give over your astuteness. I feel so sad for this lady. Another blogger, OBODO OYINBO TV, did a complete program on this couple and the details of the betrayal, with audiences calling in. Please check it out, it had over 25,000 views.
I have gone thru dis. Tnx neze for telling my story I used to cry each time I recall but listening to your voice helped me fight back my tears and I have moved on from today
@@christisgodd If she will want to remarry , she will have to be healed first. It's hard to trust a man again after going thru that ordeal of decieving and lies from a man one was loyal to.
Your narrative is absolutely correct. Oyindamola is a good friend to my adopted sister, who confirmed their marriage here in the USA was indeed a blissful one. Oyindamola threw a big bash birthday party for her mother-in-law here in the USA when she visited. All those, the woman, has forgotten. I bet the new wife was dishing the parents' in-law money. Very soon, the new wife will serve them breakfast. Wicked world!
Trust and believe that most parents will support their son. That's why never give your all to any human. Trust me. Not even your husband. All of us humans are flawed
OMG, I completely relate. She is lucky it was only after a year that she found out. It could have been 7 or 14 years and by then would have been in a 20 (or 27) years marriage without knowing anything. Some mothers-in-law are just impossible. I am yet to understand the rationale behind their decision to support their male children to hurt other people's children. May God help us all I applaud her courage to leave for her sanity. Prayers for her and her children.
Why do we ladies derive joy in hurting our fellow women? Are single guys finished on the planet earth? What boldness! Breaking another woman's home without no second thought. Why get married when you know you are not ready to commit as a man? May God give her strength, these pains will be worse than death but you have to keep living cos of your children and God that created you was for a purpose. Be strong!! You will laugh best in the end
I don't use my money to play love. My father may he rest in peace warned me never to ever to forget that a husband is not my blood relative, that even blood relatives can betray u, that it is not my job to build any man financially only support and encourage.
From some other source, I heard that it was an elaborate high-society wedding, and they gave instructions for nobody to take pictures of the couple together. So the guests at the wedding knew what played out. The wife is a registered nurse in the US, so he was cashing out and wanted to keep her for his pocket. Wicked man.
That’s true. They come wanting to kill you and take over your home or take over your home and turn you to feaces in the presence of your husband and his family members.
Unbelievable!!!. Another Yul and May saga. Pls women always stay on your knees in prayers for your marriage. Do not settle for a second wife. God will give you your OWN HUSBAND. This is my prayer for every woman. What God cannot do will never never exist. To you my Girl and Friend Neze I give you ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ ❤ ❤👍👍👍
My heart really goes out to her and her children. It's apparent that what she didn't know, would've eventually killed her. Imagine if she hadn't found this out, they would've ended her, maybe the children and her mother. Further, i don't understand how the side wife has nerve to be upset as if she were the one betrayed, lied to, and made a fool of! She should forgive, so it will be well with her, but i don't think I would encourage her to take him back. This is only the beginning of what the husband is capable of... he doesn't even care about the children, with all the juju the mom found in her house. He is a very danderous man! God will punish him and his family!!!
A cheater is a cheater and will not stop. Also, he who has beaten before will bite you again. Please let Oyidamola stay away from that evil man and his family especially that mother in-law.
As I listened to this story I cry, this is exactly what happened to me, but mine did not eventually marry her, I found out after 10 years, men in diaspora are wicked, their relatives are worse, they will never tell you. Even though I decided to forgive because of children, my life is not the same. I have been trying to move on but it's not easy. If is possible I would have loved to get in touch with this lady.
Exactly, please be strong. I don't think it's adviceable to go back to him please. Ask God to give you à strong mind. Its hard but it's possible. Try to work on yourself, focus your energy on yourself, your kids and what makes you happy and you will definitely heal❤
I don’t know how will I have handle this, but I know it would have been good. I am so sad for this woman. If a man does not want you have his phone, he is hiding something, and woman intuition is always right. This in-laws are always involved especially if they get money for silence. Thank you Neze as always brilliant story telling.
Let her run for her life and thank God she found out about her husband's double life, going back to him will not change a grown man like him, he will do it again 😢
Pls run for your dear life and your children. Pls don't accept him back cos he will move to the next lady. The mother inlaw is a long throat woman. It is a shame tho
This is a blessing in disguise she'll one day see that! Thank God for the revelation at the right time. Its okay to be hurt, it's okay to feel the shock. His family is verrrryyyy aware of all these. Eeeeeiiiii people are wicked, he'll reap what he's sown at the right time! Gosh you're an excellent orator... lovvveeeeee from Ghana 🇬🇭.
My main takeaway: Always put God at the center of your marriage. Thanks Neze for sharing this story so we can learn something from it. This is an extremely tough situation, and I pray for God's strength for this woman and her kids.
Waow!!! This is deep. I don't know when women would begin to know that most men are consistently, inconsistent, unreliable and heartless. The truth is, they don't ever get away with their numerous betrayals! It's just a matter of time. Women should not be caught unawares. Always be prepared. You can never tell the magnitude of betrayal, but it usually comes. God help us. Amen.
I will personally not allowed such man back in my life. The separation might be hard but time will be the healer. I have seen such amount of deceit in my life
Neze, Nollywood is calling 🤣😍 It stands to reason that if you narrate this well, your writing skills are amazing!! *** And for sure, women can lead these organizations in regards to investigative skills***
I really enjoy how you tell these stories..u tell it so well...Now about this story..I feel in all honesty..woman should stop putting their trust on man..to build themselves and to love their kids more then man..These days man have no remorse and woman have no guilty conscience...I have learned to take care of myself more, love my kids more and build myself..so that if anything has to happen that i loose my marriage..I would move on the next day..I learned to accept that yes my man is capable of doing what other man r doing.. Praying at the same time that his not.. Acceptance can bring peace in ur heart.. Nigerian man r not to be trusted at allllll.... Learn from this story ladies and fix urself while u can..pray more and protect urself n home.. spiritually..
Your narrative skills are out of this world. This story is really heartbreaking. I pray for God’s protection over the ex wife and her children. Whatever evil they plan for her will return back to sender.
This is the height of wickedness. It shall never be well with Bunmi and Tunde. It won’t end well for them. May they experience the sadness and sorrow this woman went through with her children. If you’re no longer interested in a woman talk with her and part ways mutually. You don’t have to treat another human being like this. Demons in human form! They will pay dearly for this! It’s a matter of time. This thing pained me to the bone though I don’t know any of them😢
This is time to have a good relationship with God. Teach your children to know God as their source and creator. Daily devotions at home with them will help them tremendously. God is with you.
Neze, thanks for this thorough explanations that you have provided. Some men are worse than dogs ! No matter what a woman does you can't please a man at the end you are paid back in this manner. Any man that puts a password on his phone and doesn't allow his wife access to his phone has a double standard life. The wife should be very careful and watchful . Women have natural instinct that reveals any abnormal behaviour. Do not be in a hurry to speak out , watch him for sometimes and the truth will unfold by itself. Every woman should prepare and update themselves, be financially independent, educationally up to date, psychologically and mentally stable . Keep yourself and children on a balance scale ! You are not praying for evil to befall your family. But watch and pray ! This is what the bible says . Instead of being traumatised in a relationship, go your separate ways and be alive for your children.
Thank you for sharing this massage, bible says a wise woman build is home, when a wise woman mistakingly married her enemy as a husband , the evil husband will uproot the home and plants sadness, sorrow and everlasting murn in to the heart of wise woman
Neze I really want to commend you for your story telling skills. I was glued to my screen for the whole 20 minutes without blinking,😀😀 and still didn't want it to end. You'll definitely go far, Thank you Neze. Now this story is one of the worst betrayal I've ever heard. It's not the first neither will it be the last, but like Neze asked, what my thought is? My answer is straight forward, I will not marry him again. As for forgiveness, time will heal all that wound, then forgiveness will come with prayers and supplications. I will rather try to be strong for my children than to be in the arms of someone that does not have any atom of respect or regard for me. She said they had a lovely marriage, whatever the issue was should have been discussed, but he chose not to speak to her. What are we talking about please? You don't let people push you and still show you where to fall.
She should have sued him for bigamy. Of course she can forgive him later and visit him in prison 'for old times sake' )actually, just to make sure he's still there). What a snake!
She can still do that. That is what I expected her to do before filing a divorce. Besides, that husband and second woman will suffer their evil did. That is for sure.
Moral of this story is that women should be independent, educated and empower yourself with everything that will not make men treat you this way, I think they're just taking the piss because our culture allows this behaviour, it's learned behaviour and it has been propagated by our culture. Our eyes are opening now. Women, let us use all the powers that God has given us, we have our strong intuition, we are strong, we have God's backing. A man like this will definitely get what is coming to him, karma will sure knocks on his door, he thinks he's enjoying now, it is his latter end that he will know there is a God is gives recompense for every action we do and every wrong decision. Oyindamola please don't consider going back, your children needs you, don't let them kill you, they're capable of killing you because they need your cash to live. Run for your life. As for d other woman, she wants to reap where she has not sown, God will deal with her don't worry, it's a matter of time. Oyindamola do take care of your mental health, God is on your side, you will laugh last!
This is my story too. I experienced something similar but l acted differently. I have written a book on this. The writing of my book was therapeutic for me.
Tell her to find strength..I know its painful..but she will be just fine.Its best that she moved on. Let her do her best to protect those children. This story reminds of the yul edochie story....at the end of the day the mothers peace of mind is important and the childrens as well. Let her guard her life and her childrens life by distancing herself from the evil ex husband and his mistress. Never love any man more than you love yourself. Its well with you
This is just my story as we are speaking now. I have been married to my husband for 23th years, in the UK with my four children. I just found out that my husband has been married for over a year now, in Nigeria and he hid it from me until I found out by myself. It's so painful 💔 I don't know what to do.
She can forgive him but she doesn't have to take him back. He's obviously not remorseful. A dog will always go back to it's vomit. Which is to say a remorseless man will never change from his ways. His actions was pure heartlessness. A man like that is capable of murder. She should just focus on her kids and herself. No man's worth dying for. Thanks Neze for bringing this story to us. My prayer goes to the lady and her kids. You're looking good as usual❤
Please Nze..come back and update us on how she doing now. I really pray she and her children are all fine. As for "privacy" story..my dear as soon as you say "I do" there is nothing private between you 2, nothing at all. The husband's cellphone is the wife's and vice-versa. As for forgiving him..Yes she should forgive him for her own piece of mind but never go back to him. What he did to her is too painful. As for the kids..they will grow up well with good counseling...
This story left my heart pounding so hard, It's better to check a phone and know my stand, Let her let it go and move on, holding on to such a person is toxic and she could even get killed if she holds on to him and his family
You are right, thank God for her life, this is exactly what happened to a Christian singer's osinachi who married to her best enemy, a wicked husband whom later sent osinachi to earlier grave
Happy Easter dear, No privacy in marriage,we have to check each other phone every time,this is also a big lesson to learn from and thanks for sharing🎉🎉
😢😢this story got to me. The worst is that they always lie, thinking that every woman they deal with is a fool. No woman should go through this horrible experience in life. The nightmares won't go away...never 😢
Being single is not a sin. Apostle Paul admonished it's better to remain single than marry. Families ought to assist their divorced daughters with children. Cheating is abuse!! It only gets worse & more painful over time. Learn to love yourself before becoming a doormat to another imperfect being.
Great narration as always. Fluency, vivid imagery and voice dynamics bring story to life. A story which affirms that happiness is but an occasional episode in a general drama of pain!(T. Hardy).
Even if she forgives, the husband is definitely not willing to let go of the other woman after all the wedding things with her and continuous frolicking with her? Even with the juju stuff which is the most devious thing haba, she should just move on, it’s gonna be hard and the pain will never go, but with her total trust in God, she and her children will be fine.
May God Protect her and her kids. It's his lost not hers . He will cry and no one will tell him sorry .. such a betrayal and cheat are too Grevious . She and the kids will heal with time. They should Co parent peacefully so the kids will not suffer much mentality. This man is another Yul . Tufiakwa
How do you even do-parent with those evil man. A man who has placed fetish things in your home. Can you trust that he means well for the children? Can you trust your children with him?
The man will suffer so much. It is better that I know so I will check my husband’s phone if I suspect anything and my intuition tells me to. I hope she and her children are healing from this trauma. Lots of hugs to them
I have come to a point in life where nothing surprises me. In my own opinion, if there is communication and true love in any marriage, so many things will be curbed before it will go that sour. We all know the difference between what is right and wrong and there's no justification for any wrong act whatsoever. the same way a man has eyes for other women is vice versa with the women, but most women out of discipline stick to one man. E no mean say anoda man no dey enter her eye oo... Men take note!!! because women are learning. I don go
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My daughter this is too much, whether you check his phone or not, just pray your husband did not come in contact with this devlish women.l am telling you out of my own experience l was 60+when it happens to me
He came begging by that time every thing has turn upside down for him,he was also seriously sick,l forgive l just stay jeje in my own house,he eventually died
My daughter it's a bad experience,if the woman is a one way woman like me (if she's the type that doesn't flirt)
I only see a devilish man here, they tell lots of lies to involve these women in thier dirty lifestyle, then the two women begin the fight at each other and the man becomes a good man, wake up dear women, yoruba women have no problem sharing thier men though, but some women despite tribe cannot handle it that's why the evil man is disappointed,
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Lord have mercy
The husband is also devilish
Neze, thanks for talking about this story. This type of story is so common with Diaspora wives. Diaspora wives work several shifts in the cold and spend the money to support their husband's business ventures in Nigeria. I have said that no wife should give her hard earned money to any man unless the business is in where she and her children lives either in UK, US , Canada etc. If he want to do the business in Nigeria, let him do it all by himself. Diaspora wives, dont work ur tail off to use ur money to fund another wife in Nigeria. If ur husband goes to Nigeria every year,twice or more in a year, know that there is another woman in Nigeria. If he want to go to Nigeria, I advice u go with him. Don't use ur money to build house for another woman to live in. U work so hard overseas, to entrust it over a decieving man. God will help u all.
My sister, you are very correct. 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 . 💯 💯 💯 .
Men are very stupid and heartless .
I think the advice should be if it ain’t working look out for your sanity. If one needs to do FBI work in marriage, is it still a loving marriage? It’s not hard to see when one ain’t wanted or when one is being used. No parent will want their daughter to be used as a doormat by a spouse in the name of marriage. I come in peace.
I would like to meet with nezeepeperepe one on one, ❤
As a diaporian Nigerian I can confirm this to be true. My father would leave for Nigeria at least once every year from the US and leave my mother behind with four children. He had a mistress in Edo state and she even had the guts to call our home. I’m not sure what it is with “some” Nigerian men who think they can treat their wives and children anyhow. It’s traumatizing and children do not forget. My sisters still remind my father of what he has done years ago until this day. So think twice before make foolish mistakes that can affect everyone around you
First of all well said....how can the wife or wives living abroad always park up their luggages going to Nigeria each time he want to visit home,it doesn't fully make sense because most of these women are busy working for hours everyday most of their stay home times are major holiday/s. Why can't we trust the man we live with, so very important you discuss your intentions and purpose with your partner before thinking of Settling down with that man or woman so if it's not longer aligning you can start speaking up then if nothing can be done, you can sign out, Men that are intentional doesn't misbehave period
Neze’s storytelling skills are out of this world 😎
True talk
😁honestly, I give it to her💪🤝👏👍
She is just good in her job
Any working class woman should invest on herself and her children not husband , because husband belong to every woman
Yes, Neze would be very good at narrating stories for children - they would be mesmerised. Perhaps she could also write books for children, books with moral messages about good behaviour and virtues, so as to provide moral education.
Am I the only Zambian who thinks Nezeville is the most good spoken Nigerian RUclipsr? Boy or boy, do you act in Nollywood too?
She's just the best. I love her always❤
You can say that again! I have always said she was born for this.
😁😁you've never seen something, her hubby is the luckiest man on earth.
I swear
I sincerely do not love women even my besties as deep n genuinely as I love everything about Neze,she's such a dull n a queen of our castle💞❤👄
She is a barrister/lawyer by profession. So her English is expected to be sound and proven. Not minding the old lawyers' English.
@@EniolaIjaduolagoodnews.... very true
No doubt this story is so heartbreaking. I wept for Oyindamola. The betrayal is in quantum measures. She shld forgive him as a true Christian but does not need to stay married to him only for this reason...her life and her children's lives safety because the intruder is armed for a full take over with her diabolic ammunition. Her doom will be served in due season.
Oyindamola, if you 're reading this, my heart breaks for you but see, you'll be good. Whatever happens, commit to survive. You will laugh last. God sees u and pls. Let Him fight for you. Just hold ur peace.
Thank God she found out the truth and left alive with her children. She was married to the enemy, but God delivered her and will bless her with her real husband. I pray she stays strong and does not allow people to talk her into going back to the devil.
They knew all along
Some men don't care about their children once they start dating another woman.
I don’t blame him I blame silly women who give useless man like this a chance. What business do you have with a man who betrayed the women he vowed to and the mother of his children yours will be any better? Your own is coming x 2
My dear. Look at yul Edoche?? Once a man I'd gone it's done. Let them go. Their story in your destiny is over
I have a philosophy that has helped me in life: what the ears do not hear does not upset the stomach. Women should even in the midst of love and loyalty learn to have a life, secure these lives, and make sure that everything you jointly work for must have your both names in full; not Mr and Mrs, but Mr Jacob James and Mrs Stephanie Oluchi Jacob-James. Wisdom is the principal thing, women!!!
Even if u have both names on all properties. U have to keep ur eyes open. I know a woman who her husband goes to Nigeria every year. The wife died and her husband remarried and brought another woman from Nigeria in 14 months after her death. Who knows whether it is the sidechick that killed her. The jointly owned properties is now jointly owned with another woman. Being naive and Ignorance can kill . God will save us from women who want to reap where they don't sew.
Franca Austin, EXACTLY!!!!
The other thing is ladies, be very business minded. Properties being purchased should also include the children’s names and have both parties putting down EQUAL portion in down payments. Make sure that no activity can occur on the family home in the abroad(loan), without you being notified for signature. She TRUSTED this charlatan. Be active in ANY transactions, don’t give over your strength. She trusted him wholeheartedly. Ladies, ALWAYS keep one eye open, alert. Love doesn’t mean that you have to give over your astuteness. I feel so sad for this lady. Another blogger, OBODO OYINBO TV, did a complete program on this couple and the details of the betrayal, with audiences calling in. Please check it out, it had over 25,000 views.
I have gone thru dis.
Tnx neze for telling my story
I used to cry each time I recall but listening to your voice helped me fight back my tears and I have moved on from today
I 💜 you
do you want to remarry ?
@@christisgodd If she will want to remarry , she will have to be healed first. It's hard to trust a man again after going thru that ordeal of decieving and lies from a man one was loyal to.
@@CA-tq7kl very difficult indeed. It's like going back to the kindergarten
The lord is your strength
I hope they both reap the wind. May the man not go unpunished for traumatising his children.
Your narrative is absolutely correct. Oyindamola is a good friend to my adopted sister, who confirmed their marriage here in the USA was indeed a blissful one. Oyindamola threw a big bash birthday party for her mother-in-law here in the USA when she visited. All those, the woman, has forgotten. I bet the new wife was dishing the parents' in-law money. Very soon, the new wife will serve them breakfast. Wicked world!
Some in-laws paa
supposedly blissful
Evil parent in-laws covering up.
Trust and believe that most parents will support their son. That's why never give your all to any human. Trust me. Not even your husband. All of us humans are flawed
OMG, I completely relate. She is lucky it was only after a year that she found out. It could have been 7 or 14 years and by then would have been in a 20 (or 27) years marriage without knowing anything. Some mothers-in-law are just impossible. I am yet to understand the rationale behind their decision to support their male children to hurt other people's children. May God help us all I applaud her courage to leave for her sanity. Prayers for her and her children.
It’s almost the story of my life. She will be okay because there’s life after a divorce.
Why do we ladies derive joy in hurting our fellow women? Are single guys finished on the planet earth? What boldness! Breaking another woman's home without no second thought.
Why get married when you know you are not ready to commit as a man?
May God give her strength, these pains will be worse than death but you have to keep living cos of your children and God that created you was for a purpose. Be strong!! You will laugh best in the end
Bc you're infected with mail evil. You know how men love to shit on women right?!
I don't use my money to play love. My father may he rest in peace warned me never to ever to forget that a husband is not my blood relative, that even blood relatives can betray u, that it is not my job to build any man financially only support and encourage.
Best advise a loving father could give his daughter. You are blessed to have been advised well by your loving father❤
@@technophobe1912 Yes, he loved me very much , I miss him everyday.
Thank your father everyday
You are a wise daughter for listening to your dad.
This one na Yul and Judy o. Hmmmmm. So painful. Oyindamola, be strong. God's got you.
Another Yul... Rebecca in the red dress reminds me of Judy Austin..😢...luv u Neze
Lmaooo
From some other source, I heard that it was an elaborate high-society wedding, and they gave instructions for nobody to take pictures of the couple together. So the guests at the wedding knew what played out. The wife is a registered nurse in the US, so he was cashing out and wanted to keep her for his pocket. Wicked man.
What’s going with Nigerian RNs in the US? A lot of them are going through nonsense like this
Wow
Some men are evil
My husband always say that second wives don't come empty handed (they come with juju). He learnt this from his family.
That’s true. They come wanting to kill you and take over your home or take over your home and turn you to feaces in the presence of your husband and his family members.
Unbelievable!!!. Another Yul and May saga. Pls women always stay on your knees in prayers for your marriage. Do not settle for a second wife. God will give you your OWN HUSBAND. This is my prayer for every woman. What God cannot do will never never exist.
To you my Girl and Friend Neze I give you ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ ❤ ❤👍👍👍
This happens all the time in Africa.
My heart really goes out to her and her children. It's apparent that what she didn't know, would've eventually killed her. Imagine if she hadn't found this out, they would've ended her, maybe the children and her mother. Further, i don't understand how the side wife has nerve to be upset as if she were the one betrayed, lied to, and made a fool of! She should forgive, so it will be well with her, but i don't think I would encourage her to take him back. This is only the beginning of what the husband is capable of... he doesn't even care about the children, with all the juju the mom found in her house. He is a very danderous man! God will punish him and his family!!!
Amen!!
A cheater is a cheater and will not stop. Also, he who has beaten before will bite you again. Please let Oyidamola stay away from that evil man and his family especially that mother in-law.
For her SANITY, and the SAFETY OF HER KIDS. Hold on to God, he will SURELY fight your battle.
Girl, you're good at what you do , I can watch your videos the whole day.
I appreciate that
Me too, she's my icon of intelligence and beauty and my own sister too, can't wait to meet Neze one on one,much love honey'm
Correct! Women can be investigative journalists if they want to.
As I listened to this story I cry, this is exactly what happened to me, but mine did not eventually marry her, I found out after 10 years, men in diaspora are wicked, their relatives are worse, they will never tell you. Even though I decided to forgive because of children, my life is not the same. I have been trying to move on but it's not easy. If is possible I would have loved to get in touch with this lady.
Please stay strong ❤
I hope you didn't get back to him..
Exactly, please be strong. I don't think it's adviceable to go back to him please. Ask God to give you à strong mind. Its hard but it's possible. Try to work on yourself, focus your energy on yourself, your kids and what makes you happy and you will definitely heal❤
I don’t know how will I have handle this, but I know it would have been good. I am so sad for this woman. If a man does not want you have his phone, he is hiding something, and woman intuition is always right. This in-laws are always involved especially if they get money for silence. Thank you Neze as always brilliant story telling.
Yes those men who like to go into the toilet and shower with their phones pls watch out , there is something they are hiding
My dear many things can happen, the most painful is that devoted wife's are always the victim of such ,
Such a heart breaking story. May God Almighty uphold her and lead her every step of the way
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Let her run for her life and thank God she found out about her husband's double life, going back to him will not change a grown man like him, he will do it again 😢
Pls run for your dear life and your children. Pls don't accept him back cos he will move to the next lady. The mother inlaw is a long throat woman. It is a shame tho
Neze here are your flowers 🌹 🌺 💐 🌸 as the best African storyteller on RUclips. You are indeed phenomenal and a woman of substance. 👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This is really heartbreaking,shame on the mother-inlaw. Her daughters will be treated worse.
Sweet Neze, I can never have enough of ur content and ur delivery is top notch. Keep it up babe. You rock.
Ahhhh!! Neze you are an amazing story teller. You keep me captivated till the end.
This is a blessing in disguise she'll one day see that! Thank God for the revelation at the right time. Its okay to be hurt, it's okay to feel the shock. His family is verrrryyyy aware of all these. Eeeeeiiiii people are wicked, he'll reap what he's sown at the right time! Gosh you're an excellent orator... lovvveeeeee from Ghana 🇬🇭.
Ur too much..." The woman went into full FBI mode"...😂😂I so much love ur charisma, so interesting, one u tune in, ur hooked❤
My main takeaway: Always put God at the center of your marriage.
Thanks Neze for sharing this story so we can learn something from it. This is an extremely tough situation, and I pray for God's strength for this woman and her kids.
She must have put God in her marriage. Both parties need to put God at the centre, not the woman alone.
Hmm what a sad story, l pray to God to comfort her and takes care of her children
I hate when woman try to convince wives to stay in abusive marriages. Omg, just leave you shall live and not die. Say NO to Abuse!
Nezeville never said that she was abused. Her husband only secretly married a second wife. That is different from abuse
It’s emotional abuse. Abuse is not only physical
@@smartlewis75so, what's is it called? Ever heard of emotional abuse ? It's just as bad as physical abuse, even worse in some cases
@@smartlewis75 This is the most heart wrecking abuse of all.
@smartlewis75 Agbons Betrayal, deception, denial, manipulation, and adultery are all forms of domestic abuse. Violence is not only physical abuse.
Tears was running down my eyes, I will fight back but need to be strong for my 4 beautiful children,
Waow!!! This is deep. I don't know when women would begin to know that most men are consistently, inconsistent, unreliable and heartless. The truth is, they don't ever get away with their numerous betrayals! It's just a matter of time. Women should not be caught unawares. Always be prepared. You can never tell the magnitude of betrayal, but it usually comes. God help us. Amen.
This life na waoooo😢😢😢😢...The heart of man is indeed wicked...
Nne, I love the way you speak, u are eloquent and audible with the smile you put from time to time
I will personally not allowed such man back in my life. The separation might be hard but time will be the healer. I have seen such amount of deceit in my life
I have read the story somewhere but I still have to come here to listen to your beautiful narration. You’re too much Sis❤
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Neze you are sooooooooooooooooooo gifted. This story is so hurtful!
I am TEAM CHECK PHONE!!!!
Oh my goodness! You are such a great storyteller. Well done.
Neze 😂 at 2:38 mins you Sabi tell Tori! It's as though you were in Dubai when they made the call home. Love your skills!!!
just discover your channel of all the Nigerian I watch you are the most authentic vlog and a true story teller keep being real
She is very authentic. I only listen to her and one other person
Neze, Nollywood is calling 🤣😍
It stands to reason that if you narrate this well, your writing skills are amazing!!
*** And for sure, women can lead these organizations in regards to investigative skills***
Neze was formally in Nollywood. Although briefly. 🥰
@@zainabibrahim293 oh really? Lol
I really enjoy how you tell these stories..u tell it so well...Now about this story..I feel in all honesty..woman should stop putting their trust on man..to build themselves and to love their kids more then man..These days man have no remorse and woman have no guilty conscience...I have learned to take care of myself more, love my kids more and build myself..so that if anything has to happen that i loose my marriage..I would move on the next day..I learned to accept that yes my man is capable of doing what other man r doing.. Praying at the same time that his not.. Acceptance can bring peace in ur heart.. Nigerian man r not to be trusted at allllll.... Learn from this story ladies and fix urself while u can..pray more and protect urself n home.. spiritually..
Mine I was in the hospital while he was, in Ngwa Abia state marrying another woman. I will tell my story.
😭😭😭😭😭😭 so sorry to hear about this, May God the almighty heal you.
@@candicet.9565 Amen!
Karma will catch up with any man or woman who courses another such pain and I pray the Lord comfort you greatly .
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Can't resist your content Neze...watching from Manila Philippines ❤
My beautiful sister, you are amazing. I cried. Some men are so wicked. May almighty God see her through. She shouldn't go back to that evil man.
Very heart breaking.
I pray Damilola find joy again.
Amen 🙏🏾
This story is indeed a sad one. The heart of man is wicked
Your narrative skills are out of this world. This story is really heartbreaking. I pray for God’s protection over the ex wife and her children. Whatever evil they plan for her will return back to sender.
This is the height of wickedness. It shall never be well with Bunmi and Tunde. It won’t end well for them. May they experience the sadness and sorrow this woman went through with her children. If you’re no longer interested in a woman talk with her and part ways mutually. You don’t have to treat another human being like this. Demons in human form! They will pay dearly for this! It’s a matter of time. This thing pained me to the bone though I don’t know any of them😢
Tell them o! Just tell her and she would appreciate your honesty. You work out arrangements for kids upkeep and every body goes their way amicably.
This is time to have a good relationship with God. Teach your children to know God as their source and creator. Daily devotions at home with them will help them tremendously. God is with you.
When it comes to your partner's phone. What you don't know WILL hurt you. Go through that phone sis
I personally find it very necessary to check my spouse's phone cus i don't like being taken for a fool. Men's phones have a lot of hidden secrets.
We women are graced with investigative skills by God himself
I tell ya 😊
@@isabellaankrah9002 hahahahahahahaha 😊
🤣🤣😝hahaha...exactly, the right words used, tnx dear👏 👍
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Like seriously
OMG. I have been crying all through the narration. Some people are seriously wicked
Neze, thanks for this thorough explanations that you have provided.
Some men are worse than dogs !
No matter what a woman does you can't please a man at the end you are paid back in this manner.
Any man that puts a password on his phone and doesn't allow his wife access to his phone has a double standard life.
The wife should be very careful and watchful .
Women have natural instinct that reveals any abnormal behaviour.
Do not be in a hurry to speak out , watch him for sometimes and the truth will unfold by itself.
Every woman should prepare and update themselves, be financially independent, educationally up to date, psychologically and mentally stable .
Keep yourself and children on a balance scale !
You are not praying for evil to befall your family.
But watch and pray ! This is what the bible says .
Instead of being traumatised in a relationship, go your separate ways and be alive for your children.
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Thank you for sharing this massage, bible says a wise woman build is home, when a wise woman mistakingly married her enemy as a husband , the evil husband will uproot the home and plants sadness, sorrow and everlasting murn in to the heart of wise woman
Neze I really want to commend you for your story telling skills. I was glued to my screen for the whole 20 minutes without blinking,😀😀 and still didn't want it to end. You'll definitely go far, Thank you Neze.
Now this story is one of the worst betrayal I've ever heard. It's not the first neither will it be the last, but like Neze asked, what my thought is? My answer is straight forward, I will not marry him again. As for forgiveness, time will heal all that wound, then forgiveness will come with prayers and supplications. I will rather try to be strong for my children than to be in the arms of someone that does not have any atom of respect or regard for me. She said they had a lovely marriage, whatever the issue was should have been discussed, but he chose not to speak to her. What are we talking about please? You don't let people push you and still show you where to fall.
She should have sued him for bigamy. Of course she can forgive him later and visit him in prison 'for old times sake' )actually, just to make sure he's still there). What a snake!
😝😝😝🤣funny ooh,sounds so normal,true n funny aswell.
A beautiful name for the guy,SNAKE
True but if he can betray her like that he can ki ll her. Good thing she left.
The man is evil wicked he can even kill her
She can still do that. That is what I expected her to do before filing a divorce. Besides, that husband and second woman will suffer their evil did. That is for sure.
Mama I like the way you talk and the way you bring your Storys no insults but explain the story very well love you mama
Moral of this story is that women should be independent, educated and empower yourself with everything that will not make men treat you this way, I think they're just taking the piss because our culture allows this behaviour, it's learned behaviour and it has been propagated by our culture. Our eyes are opening now. Women, let us use all the powers that God has given us, we have our strong intuition, we are strong, we have God's backing. A man like this will definitely get what is coming to him, karma will sure knocks on his door, he thinks he's enjoying now, it is his latter end that he will know there is a God is gives recompense for every action we do and every wrong decision. Oyindamola please don't consider going back, your children needs you, don't let them kill you, they're capable of killing you because they need your cash to live. Run for your life. As for d other woman, she wants to reap where she has not sown, God will deal with her don't worry, it's a matter of time. Oyindamola do take care of your mental health, God is on your side, you will laugh last!
I bet that man had no job here in the US. He will come and beg so she can continue to sponsor him and his wife.
This is my story too. I experienced something similar but l acted differently. I have written a book on this. The writing of my book was therapeutic for me.
So sad. Karma is real and God will fight for the first wife.
Thanks neze you r a good story teller love you all the way from Zambia,
This story is heartbreaking! Am lost for words !
Tell her to find strength..I know its painful..but she will be just fine.Its best that she moved on. Let her do her best to protect those children. This story reminds of the yul edochie story....at the end of the day the mothers peace of mind is important and the childrens as well. Let her guard her life and her childrens life by distancing herself from the evil ex husband and his mistress. Never love any man more than you love yourself. Its well with you
This is just my story as we are speaking now. I have been married to my husband for 23th years, in the UK with my four children. I just found out that my husband has been married for over a year now, in Nigeria and he hid it from me until I found out by myself. It's so painful 💔 I don't know what to do.
I love how you analyze issues. Your channel is always my go to when any new gist is in town
Gisike my sister
She can forgive him but she doesn't have to take him back. He's obviously not remorseful.
A dog will always go back to it's vomit. Which is to say a remorseless man will never change from his ways.
His actions was pure heartlessness. A man like that is capable of murder. She should just focus on her kids and herself. No man's worth dying for.
Thanks Neze for bringing this story to us. My prayer goes to the lady and her kids.
You're looking good as usual❤
Please Nze..come back and update us on how she doing now. I really pray she and her children are all fine. As for "privacy" story..my dear as soon as you say "I do" there is nothing private between you 2, nothing at all. The husband's cellphone is the wife's and vice-versa.
As for forgiving him..Yes she should forgive him for her own piece of mind but never go back to him. What he did to her is too painful. As for the kids..they will grow up well with good counseling...
Excellent story telling wow. Love from Philadephia Pennsylvania.
I enjoyed watching your analysis. You are amazing Barr. Neze ❤. Thank you for updating us in details
Neze you are so estactic in your presentation thanks for a job well done, keep it up
madam you are second to none
This story left my heart pounding so hard,
It's better to check a phone and know my stand,
Let her let it go and move on, holding on to such a person is toxic and she could even get killed if she holds on to him and his family
You are right, thank God for her life, this is exactly what happened to a Christian singer's osinachi who married to her best enemy, a wicked husband whom later sent osinachi to earlier grave
Happy Easter dear,
No privacy in marriage,we have to check each other phone every time,this is also a big lesson to learn from and thanks for sharing🎉🎉
😢😢this story got to me.
The worst is that they always lie, thinking that every woman they deal with is a fool.
No woman should go through this horrible experience in life. The nightmares won't go away...never 😢
Being single is not a sin. Apostle Paul admonished it's better to remain single than marry. Families ought to assist their divorced daughters with children. Cheating is abuse!! It only gets worse & more painful over time. Learn to love yourself before becoming a doormat to another imperfect being.
Neze you're just the best, and nothing but the best 😊.
Am so much in Love with you. Keep the good work.
Great narration as always. Fluency, vivid imagery and voice dynamics bring story to life. A story which affirms that happiness is but an occasional episode in a general drama of pain!(T. Hardy).
God had given her and the children second chance at life. She should leave that man and never look back.
Even if she forgives, the husband is definitely not willing to let go of the other woman after all the wedding things with her and continuous frolicking with her? Even with the juju stuff which is the most devious thing haba, she should just move on, it’s gonna be hard and the pain will never go, but with her total trust in God, she and her children will be fine.
She already filed for divorce
May God Protect her and her kids. It's his lost not hers . He will cry and no one will tell him sorry .. such a betrayal and cheat are too Grevious . She and the kids will heal with time. They should Co parent peacefully so the kids will not suffer much mentality. This man is another Yul . Tufiakwa
How do you even do-parent with those evil man. A man who has placed fetish things in your home. Can you trust that he means well for the children? Can you trust your children with him?
Imagine sitting down to gist one on one with Neze! Chai... It would be so much fun... Thanks for your story telling
Brilliant story telling
As sad as it is, I am glad she found out what was going on & that as painful as it was for her, she made the decision to leave him.
The man will suffer so much. It is better that I know so I will check my husband’s phone if I suspect anything and my intuition tells me to. I hope she and her children are healing from this trauma. Lots of hugs to them
Thanks Neze for the way you always share your stories and may God help Oyidamola and her kids
Great analytical skill demonstrated !
Neze,sincerely am silent watcher,but I can't hold my self today,Indeed you are a great storyteller.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Though is a sad story 😢, but I have listen to the story close to 8times to listen to your voice.
@Rebecca hills Ares . I see you🥰❤️I have been watching neze for a while .
@Kuul Mama. Haaaaaaaaa! my wonderful sis, I love you so much. Ok, you are?❤️ that is great,I enjoy her too.
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So the parents of her husband didn't know anything about this? Wicked people, they lied to her. This world is full of evil deeds
They lie. They knew about it very very well. All wicked !
They are aware of everything,
@@passivepanda3656 the parents in-laws are accomplices, wicked people, some useless in-laws this poor Lady has.
It might even be them who organized for him a local wife
@@zainabbusari120I thought this only happened in Nollywood movies.😂😂
This is the height of wickedness! This is indeed a sad story!
I have come to a point in life where nothing surprises me. In my own opinion, if there is communication and true love in any marriage, so many things will be curbed before it will go that sour.
We all know the difference between what is right and wrong and there's no justification for any wrong act whatsoever. the same way a man has eyes for other women is vice versa with the women, but most women out of discipline stick to one man. E no mean say anoda man no dey enter her eye oo... Men take note!!! because women are learning. I don go
This is beyond me. Father Lord, have mercy. The Lord will stand up for you Oyindamola and the children. Wow! Why human are wicked to each other ?
NEZE YOU ARE AN AMAZING STORYTELLER!