THE WHOLE TRUTH ABOUT NIG WOMAN WHOSE HUSBAND GOT MARRIED TO ANOTHER LADY WITHOUT HER KNOWLEDGE.

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  • THE WHOLE TRUTH ABOUT NIG WOMAN WHOSE HUSBAND GOT MARRIED TO ANOTHER LADY WITHOUT HER KNOWLEDGE.
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  • @anthoniaalonge8200
    @anthoniaalonge8200 Год назад +46

    My daughter this is too much, whether you check his phone or not, just pray your husband did not come in contact with this devlish women.l am telling you out of my own experience l was 60+when it happens to me
    He came begging by that time every thing has turn upside down for him,he was also seriously sick,l forgive l just stay jeje in my own house,he eventually died
    My daughter it's a bad experience,if the woman is a one way woman like me (if she's the type that doesn't flirt)

    • @comfortmarthaoginuche806
      @comfortmarthaoginuche806 10 месяцев назад

      I only see a devilish man here, they tell lots of lies to involve these women in thier dirty lifestyle, then the two women begin the fight at each other and the man becomes a good man, wake up dear women, yoruba women have no problem sharing thier men though, but some women despite tribe cannot handle it that's why the evil man is disappointed,

    • @alisaalex3276
      @alisaalex3276 7 месяцев назад

      😮

    • @gladdigitalprints8097
      @gladdigitalprints8097 4 месяца назад

      Lord have mercy

  • @user-co4wk5ee7v
    @user-co4wk5ee7v Год назад +71

    Am I the only Zambian who thinks Nezeville is the most good spoken Nigerian RUclipsr? Boy or boy, do you act in Nollywood too?

    • @zurieldivine8071
      @zurieldivine8071 Год назад +9

      She's just the best. I love her always❤

    • @maryjuan508
      @maryjuan508 Год назад

      You can say that again! I have always said she was born for this.

    • @osinachiamuzuo4444
      @osinachiamuzuo4444 Год назад +8

      😁😁you've never seen something, her hubby is the luckiest man on earth.
      I swear
      I sincerely do not love women even my besties as deep n genuinely as I love everything about Neze,she's such a dull n a queen of our castle💞❤👄

    • @EniolaIjaduolagoodnews
      @EniolaIjaduolagoodnews Год назад +8

      She is a barrister/lawyer by profession. So her English is expected to be sound and proven. Not minding the old lawyers' English.

    • @mmanduruth4791
      @mmanduruth4791 Год назад +1

      @@EniolaIjaduolagoodnews.... very true

  • @risimamabunda2952
    @risimamabunda2952 Год назад +163

    Neze’s storytelling skills are out of this world 😎

    • @candicet.9565
      @candicet.9565 Год назад +3

      True talk

    • @osinachiamuzuo4444
      @osinachiamuzuo4444 Год назад +1

      😁honestly, I give it to her💪🤝👏👍

    • @hariethjohn1729
      @hariethjohn1729 Год назад +1

      She is just good in her job

    • @funkeoniya8568
      @funkeoniya8568 Год назад +1

      Any working class woman should invest on herself and her children not husband , because husband belong to every woman

    • @helen9681
      @helen9681 28 дней назад

      Yes, Neze would be very good at narrating stories for children - they would be mesmerised. Perhaps she could also write books for children, books with moral messages about good behaviour and virtues, so as to provide moral education.

  • @CA-tq7kl
    @CA-tq7kl Год назад +268

    Neze, thanks for talking about this story. This type of story is so common with Diaspora wives. Diaspora wives work several shifts in the cold and spend the money to support their husband's business ventures in Nigeria. I have said that no wife should give her hard earned money to any man unless the business is in where she and her children lives either in UK, US , Canada etc. If he want to do the business in Nigeria, let him do it all by himself. Diaspora wives, dont work ur tail off to use ur money to fund another wife in Nigeria. If ur husband goes to Nigeria every year,twice or more in a year, know that there is another woman in Nigeria. If he want to go to Nigeria, I advice u go with him. Don't use ur money to build house for another woman to live in. U work so hard overseas, to entrust it over a decieving man. God will help u all.

    • @battleforwoodyplushshorts1268
      @battleforwoodyplushshorts1268 Год назад

      My sister, you are very correct. 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 . 💯 💯 💯 .
      Men are very stupid and heartless .

    • @Iphie2019
      @Iphie2019 Год назад +28

      I think the advice should be if it ain’t working look out for your sanity. If one needs to do FBI work in marriage, is it still a loving marriage? It’s not hard to see when one ain’t wanted or when one is being used. No parent will want their daughter to be used as a doormat by a spouse in the name of marriage. I come in peace.

    • @mathewosayande4144
      @mathewosayande4144 Год назад +1

      I would like to meet with nezeepeperepe one on one, ❤

    • @kind2423
      @kind2423 Год назад +24

      As a diaporian Nigerian I can confirm this to be true. My father would leave for Nigeria at least once every year from the US and leave my mother behind with four children. He had a mistress in Edo state and she even had the guts to call our home. I’m not sure what it is with “some” Nigerian men who think they can treat their wives and children anyhow. It’s traumatizing and children do not forget. My sisters still remind my father of what he has done years ago until this day. So think twice before make foolish mistakes that can affect everyone around you

    • @stephnoraeddyson2177
      @stephnoraeddyson2177 Год назад +7

      First of all well said....how can the wife or wives living abroad always park up their luggages going to Nigeria each time he want to visit home,it doesn't fully make sense because most of these women are busy working for hours everyday most of their stay home times are major holiday/s. Why can't we trust the man we live with, so very important you discuss your intentions and purpose with your partner before thinking of Settling down with that man or woman so if it's not longer aligning you can start speaking up then if nothing can be done, you can sign out, Men that are intentional doesn't misbehave period

  • @hlengiwemasondo2858
    @hlengiwemasondo2858 Год назад +59

    Some men don't care about their children once they start dating another woman.

    • @kind2423
      @kind2423 Год назад +3

      I don’t blame him I blame silly women who give useless man like this a chance. What business do you have with a man who betrayed the women he vowed to and the mother of his children yours will be any better? Your own is coming x 2

    • @lorettemaufor1088
      @lorettemaufor1088 3 месяца назад

      My dear. Look at yul Edoche?? Once a man I'd gone it's done. Let them go. Their story in your destiny is over

  • @tryphenabanks8151
    @tryphenabanks8151 Год назад +56

    Thank God she found out the truth and left alive with her children. She was married to the enemy, but God delivered her and will bless her with her real husband. I pray she stays strong and does not allow people to talk her into going back to the devil.

    • @amaka8086
      @amaka8086 Год назад +1

      They knew all along

  • @ceemu8419
    @ceemu8419 Год назад +69

    I have gone thru dis.
    Tnx neze for telling my story
    I used to cry each time I recall but listening to your voice helped me fight back my tears and I have moved on from today

    • @Nezeville
      @Nezeville  Год назад +7

      I 💜 you

    • @christisgodd
      @christisgodd Год назад +2

      do you want to remarry ?

    • @CA-tq7kl
      @CA-tq7kl Год назад +10

      ​@@christisgodd If she will want to remarry , she will have to be healed first. It's hard to trust a man again after going thru that ordeal of decieving and lies from a man one was loyal to.

    • @christisgodd
      @christisgodd Год назад +5

      @@CA-tq7kl very difficult indeed. It's like going back to the kindergarten

    • @elohoroyimita9006
      @elohoroyimita9006 Год назад +5

      The lord is your strength

  • @amakachima-kanu9089
    @amakachima-kanu9089 Год назад +82

    No doubt this story is so heartbreaking. I wept for Oyindamola. The betrayal is in quantum measures. She shld forgive him as a true Christian but does not need to stay married to him only for this reason...her life and her children's lives safety because the intruder is armed for a full take over with her diabolic ammunition. Her doom will be served in due season.
    Oyindamola, if you 're reading this, my heart breaks for you but see, you'll be good. Whatever happens, commit to survive. You will laugh last. God sees u and pls. Let Him fight for you. Just hold ur peace.

  • @rosemary7109
    @rosemary7109 Год назад +18

    Why do we ladies derive joy in hurting our fellow women? Are single guys finished on the planet earth? What boldness! Breaking another woman's home without no second thought.
    Why get married when you know you are not ready to commit as a man?
    May God give her strength, these pains will be worse than death but you have to keep living cos of your children and God that created you was for a purpose. Be strong!! You will laugh best in the end

  • @tiyan8573
    @tiyan8573 Год назад +18

    It’s almost the story of my life. She will be okay because there’s life after a divorce.

  • @chinenyeigwegbe
    @chinenyeigwegbe Год назад +19

    My husband always say that second wives don't come empty handed (they come with juju). He learnt this from his family.

    • @mamaosun3587
      @mamaosun3587 3 месяца назад

      That’s true. They come wanting to kill you and take over your home or take over your home and turn you to feaces in the presence of your husband and his family members.

  • @mojisolaadebowale-marykayb6701
    @mojisolaadebowale-marykayb6701 Год назад +55

    Evil parent in-laws covering up.

    • @lorettemaufor1088
      @lorettemaufor1088 3 месяца назад +1

      Trust and believe that most parents will support their son. That's why never give your all to any human. Trust me. Not even your husband. All of us humans are flawed

  • @atty7697
    @atty7697 Год назад +14

    I hope they both reap the wind. May the man not go unpunished for traumatising his children.

  • @francaaustin3364
    @francaaustin3364 Год назад +118

    I have a philosophy that has helped me in life: what the ears do not hear does not upset the stomach. Women should even in the midst of love and loyalty learn to have a life, secure these lives, and make sure that everything you jointly work for must have your both names in full; not Mr and Mrs, but Mr Jacob James and Mrs Stephanie Oluchi Jacob-James. Wisdom is the principal thing, women!!!

    • @CA-tq7kl
      @CA-tq7kl Год назад +28

      Even if u have both names on all properties. U have to keep ur eyes open. I know a woman who her husband goes to Nigeria every year. The wife died and her husband remarried and brought another woman from Nigeria in 14 months after her death. Who knows whether it is the sidechick that killed her. The jointly owned properties is now jointly owned with another woman. Being naive and Ignorance can kill . God will save us from women who want to reap where they don't sew.

    • @yvettewilliams5967
      @yvettewilliams5967 Год назад +4

      Franca Austin, EXACTLY!!!!

    • @yvettewilliams5967
      @yvettewilliams5967 Год назад

      The other thing is ladies, be very business minded. Properties being purchased should also include the children’s names and have both parties putting down EQUAL portion in down payments. Make sure that no activity can occur on the family home in the abroad(loan), without you being notified for signature. She TRUSTED this charlatan. Be active in ANY transactions, don’t give over your strength. She trusted him wholeheartedly. Ladies, ALWAYS keep one eye open, alert. Love doesn’t mean that you have to give over your astuteness. I feel so sad for this lady. Another blogger, OBODO OYINBO TV, did a complete program on this couple and the details of the betrayal, with audiences calling in. Please check it out, it had over 25,000 views.

  • @Kalin3284
    @Kalin3284 Год назад +56

    She should have sued him for bigamy. Of course she can forgive him later and even visit him in prison. What a snake!

    • @osinachiamuzuo4444
      @osinachiamuzuo4444 Год назад +3

      😝😝😝🤣funny ooh,sounds so normal,true n funny aswell.
      A beautiful name for the guy,SNAKE

    • @fauxgars736
      @fauxgars736 Год назад +7

      True but if he can betray her like that he can ki ll her. Good thing she left.

    • @lawrencekunda9253
      @lawrencekunda9253 Год назад

      The man is evil wicked he can even kill her

    • @ronkebossey4413
      @ronkebossey4413 4 дня назад

      She can still do that. That is what I expected her to do before filing a divorce. Besides, that husband and second woman will suffer their evil did. That is for sure.

  • @nka8786
    @nka8786 Год назад +50

    I don't use my money to play love. My father may he rest in peace warned me never to ever to forget that a husband is not my blood relative, that even blood relatives can betray u, that it is not my job to build any man financially only support and encourage.

    • @technophobe1912
      @technophobe1912 Год назад +2

      Best advise a loving father could give his daughter. You are blessed to have been advised well by your loving father❤

    • @nka8786
      @nka8786 Год назад +2

      @@technophobe1912 Yes, he loved me very much , I miss him everyday.

    • @lorettemaufor1088
      @lorettemaufor1088 3 месяца назад

      Thank your father everyday

    • @dorisalfred2760
      @dorisalfred2760 2 месяца назад +2

      You are a wise daughter for listening to your dad.

  • @caramelkisses8396
    @caramelkisses8396 Год назад +84

    My heart really goes out to her and her children. It's apparent that what she didn't know, would've eventually killed her. Imagine if she hadn't found this out, they would've ended her, maybe the children and her mother. Further, i don't understand how the side wife has nerve to be upset as if she were the one betrayed, lied to, and made a fool of! She should forgive, so it will be well with her, but i don't think I would encourage her to take him back. This is only the beginning of what the husband is capable of... he doesn't even care about the children, with all the juju the mom found in her house. He is a very danderous man! God will punish him and his family!!!

  • @tinachizo6944
    @tinachizo6944 Год назад +24

    From some other source, I heard that it was an elaborate high-society wedding, and they gave instructions for nobody to take pictures of the couple together. So the guests at the wedding knew what played out. The wife is a registered nurse in the US, so he was cashing out and wanted to keep her for his pocket. Wicked man.

    • @kind2423
      @kind2423 Год назад +5

      What’s going with Nigerian RNs in the US? A lot of them are going through nonsense like this

    • @mamab2937
      @mamab2937 Год назад +2

      Wow
      Some men are evil

  • @NaaNaa_gh
    @NaaNaa_gh Год назад +14

    Another Yul... Rebecca in the red dress reminds me of Judy Austin..😢...luv u Neze

  • @staraj2960
    @staraj2960 Год назад +68

    Your narrative is absolutely correct. Oyindamola is a good friend to my adopted sister, who confirmed their marriage here in the USA was indeed a blissful one. Oyindamola threw a big bash birthday party for her mother-in-law here in the USA when she visited. All those, the woman, has forgotten. I bet the new wife was dishing the parents' in-law money. Very soon, the new wife will serve them breakfast. Wicked world!

  • @adawoguby
    @adawoguby Год назад +17

    A cheater is a cheater and will not stop. Also, he who has beaten before will bite you again. Please let Oyidamola stay away from that evil man and his family especially that mother in-law.

  • @hujamayagaye6045
    @hujamayagaye6045 Год назад +34

    Let her run for her life and thank God she found out about her husband's double life, going back to him will not change a grown man like him, he will do it again 😢

    • @evelynchukujama451
      @evelynchukujama451 Год назад +5

      Pls run for your dear life and your children. Pls don't accept him back cos he will move to the next lady. The mother inlaw is a long throat woman. It is a shame tho

  • @lorettaowobamirin8053
    @lorettaowobamirin8053 Год назад +21

    Correct! Women can be investigative journalists if they want to.

  • @joyabongwa6223
    @joyabongwa6223 Год назад +15

    Such a heart breaking story. May God Almighty uphold her and lead her every step of the way

  • @nikkyloveg1941
    @nikkyloveg1941 Год назад +6

    Unbelievable!!!. Another Yul and May saga. Pls women always stay on your knees in prayers for your marriage. Do not settle for a second wife. God will give you your OWN HUSBAND. This is my prayer for every woman. What God cannot do will never never exist.
    To you my Girl and Friend Neze I give you ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ ❤ ❤👍👍👍

    • @amehka5416
      @amehka5416 9 месяцев назад

      This happens all the time in Africa.

  • @kebomalunga1974
    @kebomalunga1974 Год назад +32

    I don’t know how will I have handle this, but I know it would have been good. I am so sad for this woman. If a man does not want you have his phone, he is hiding something, and woman intuition is always right. This in-laws are always involved especially if they get money for silence. Thank you Neze as always brilliant story telling.

    • @amanda51600
      @amanda51600 Год назад

      Yes those men who like to go into the toilet and shower with their phones pls watch out , there is something they are hiding

    • @nonyegladys9163
      @nonyegladys9163 Год назад

      My dear many things can happen, the most painful is that devoted wife's are always the victim of such ,

  • @lorettaowobamirin8053
    @lorettaowobamirin8053 Год назад +28

    Waow!!! This is deep. I don't know when women would begin to know that most men are consistently, inconsistent, unreliable and heartless. The truth is, they don't ever get away with their numerous betrayals! It's just a matter of time. Women should not be caught unawares. Always be prepared. You can never tell the magnitude of betrayal, but it usually comes. God help us. Amen.

  • @agnesnzomene4640
    @agnesnzomene4640 Год назад +51

    OMG, I completely relate. She is lucky it was only after a year that she found out. It could have been 7 or 14 years and by then would have been in a 20 (or 27) years marriage without knowing anything. Some mothers-in-law are just impossible. I am yet to understand the rationale behind their decision to support their male children to hurt other people's children. May God help us all I applaud her courage to leave for her sanity. Prayers for her and her children.

  • @annjoseph8197
    @annjoseph8197 Год назад +20

    As I listened to this story I cry, this is exactly what happened to me, but mine did not eventually marry her, I found out after 10 years, men in diaspora are wicked, their relatives are worse, they will never tell you. Even though I decided to forgive because of children, my life is not the same. I have been trying to move on but it's not easy. If is possible I would have loved to get in touch with this lady.

    • @promiseukpong9043
      @promiseukpong9043 Год назад +3

      Please stay strong ❤

    • @bibaolaitan5189
      @bibaolaitan5189 Год назад +2

      I hope you didn't get back to him..

    • @dorisike9153
      @dorisike9153 7 месяцев назад

      Exactly, please be strong. I don't think it's adviceable to go back to him please. Ask God to give you à strong mind. Its hard but it's possible. Try to work on yourself, focus your energy on yourself, your kids and what makes you happy and you will definitely heal❤

  • @millicentogola9911
    @millicentogola9911 Год назад +30

    Girl, you're good at what you do , I can watch your videos the whole day.

    • @Nezeville
      @Nezeville  Год назад +3

      I appreciate that

    • @osinachiamuzuo4444
      @osinachiamuzuo4444 Год назад

      Me too, she's my icon of intelligence and beauty and my own sister too, can't wait to meet Neze one on one,much love honey'm

  • @mau1150
    @mau1150 Год назад +10

    For her SANITY, and the SAFETY OF HER KIDS. Hold on to God, he will SURELY fight your battle.

  • @Unapologeticallyme89
    @Unapologeticallyme89 Год назад +7

    Your narrative skills are out of this world. This story is really heartbreaking. I pray for God’s protection over the ex wife and her children. Whatever evil they plan for her will return back to sender.

  • @PstChristy
    @PstChristy Год назад +11

    This life na waoooo😢😢😢😢...The heart of man is indeed wicked...

  • @Emma_forever21
    @Emma_forever21 Год назад +35

    We women are graced with investigative skills by God himself

  • @paulinekamau9633
    @paulinekamau9633 Год назад +5

    Neze here are your flowers 🌹 🌺 💐 🌸 as the best African storyteller on RUclips. You are indeed phenomenal and a woman of substance. 👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @ChoiceObayuwana
    @ChoiceObayuwana Год назад +7

    Hmm what a sad story, l pray to God to comfort her and takes care of her children

  • @olamao786
    @olamao786 Год назад +9

    I will personally not allowed such man back in my life. The separation might be hard but time will be the healer. I have seen such amount of deceit in my life

  • @kksal4375
    @kksal4375 Год назад +12

    My main takeaway: Always put God at the center of your marriage.
    Thanks Neze for sharing this story so we can learn something from it. This is an extremely tough situation, and I pray for God's strength for this woman and her kids.

    • @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood
      @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood Год назад +1

      She must have put God in her marriage. Both parties need to put God at the centre, not the woman alone.

  • @caramelkisses8396
    @caramelkisses8396 Год назад +7

    Neze, Nollywood is calling 🤣😍
    It stands to reason that if you narrate this well, your writing skills are amazing!!
    *** And for sure, women can lead these organizations in regards to investigative skills***

  • @dorisobiora
    @dorisobiora Год назад +5

    Neze you are sooooooooooooooooooo gifted. This story is so hurtful!
    I am TEAM CHECK PHONE!!!!

  • @gloriatsaro-dii4831
    @gloriatsaro-dii4831 Год назад +34

    Neze, thanks for this thorough explanations that you have provided.
    Some men are worse than dogs !
    No matter what a woman does you can't please a man at the end you are paid back in this manner.
    Any man that puts a password on his phone and doesn't allow his wife access to his phone has a double standard life.
    The wife should be very careful and watchful .
    Women have natural instinct that reveals any abnormal behaviour.
    Do not be in a hurry to speak out , watch him for sometimes and the truth will unfold by itself.
    Every woman should prepare and update themselves, be financially independent, educationally up to date, psychologically and mentally stable .
    Keep yourself and children on a balance scale !
    You are not praying for evil to befall your family.
    But watch and pray ! This is what the bible says .
    Instead of being traumatised in a relationship, go your separate ways and be alive for your children.

    • @deborahakhibi5241
      @deborahakhibi5241 Год назад

    • @funkeoniya8568
      @funkeoniya8568 Год назад +1

      Thank you for sharing this massage, bible says a wise woman build is home, when a wise woman mistakingly married her enemy as a husband , the evil husband will uproot the home and plants sadness, sorrow and everlasting murn in to the heart of wise woman

  • @tarnyc7611
    @tarnyc7611 Год назад +10

    When it comes to your partner's phone. What you don't know WILL hurt you. Go through that phone sis

  • @amakachima-kanu9089
    @amakachima-kanu9089 Год назад +12

    Sweet Neze, I can never have enough of ur content and ur delivery is top notch. Keep it up babe. You rock.

  • @lilianobi9731
    @lilianobi9731 Год назад +20

    Ahhhh!! Neze you are an amazing story teller. You keep me captivated till the end.

  • @missdella8
    @missdella8 Год назад +5

    This is a blessing in disguise she'll one day see that! Thank God for the revelation at the right time. Its okay to be hurt, it's okay to feel the shock. His family is verrrryyyy aware of all these. Eeeeeiiiii people are wicked, he'll reap what he's sown at the right time! Gosh you're an excellent orator... lovvveeeeee from Ghana 🇬🇭.

  • @estherkozah3704
    @estherkozah3704 Год назад +21

    This is really heartbreaking,shame on the mother-inlaw. Her daughters will be treated worse.

  • @mariaassumptaobieruwou399
    @mariaassumptaobieruwou399 Год назад +4

    Tears was running down my eyes, I will fight back but need to be strong for my 4 beautiful children,

  • @colorfunch
    @colorfunch Год назад +7

    I have read the story somewhere but I still have to come here to listen to your beautiful narration. You’re too much Sis❤

  • @graceokeke2912
    @graceokeke2912 Год назад +20

    This story is indeed a sad one. The heart of man is wicked

  • @CA-tq7kl
    @CA-tq7kl Год назад +10

    These stories always happen when they want to start business in Nigeria or when they want to build a house in Nigeria. The funny part is they want to get ur money to start the business or build the house. Why don't u do it by urself. If it's only ur money, I won't care about the second wife u have. We just part our ways .Period. It hurts when I put all my hard earned money down and he use it to take care of another woman. How will he feels if I get money from him to take care of another man in Nigeria when I go home.

    • @lorettemaufor1088
      @lorettemaufor1088 3 месяца назад +1

      I tell all my friends in the US once your husband start talking about a business in Africa, know it's time to tighten up.

  • @toyinorekoya5859
    @toyinorekoya5859 Год назад +9

    So sad. Karma is real and God will fight for the first wife.

  • @mariaassumptaobieruwou399
    @mariaassumptaobieruwou399 Год назад +11

    Mine I was in the hospital while he was, in Ngwa Abia state marrying another woman. I will tell my story.

    • @candicet.9565
      @candicet.9565 Год назад +1

      😭😭😭😭😭😭 so sorry to hear about this, May God the almighty heal you.

    • @tobiloba8778
      @tobiloba8778 Год назад

      @@candicet.9565 Amen!

    • @blessingeyakwaire2696
      @blessingeyakwaire2696 Год назад +3

      Karma will catch up with any man or woman who courses another such pain and I pray the Lord comfort you greatly .

    • @shirleychima7335
      @shirleychima7335 Год назад

      omg

  • @RosasResources
    @RosasResources Год назад +61

    I hate when woman try to convince wives to stay in abusive marriages. Omg, just leave you shall live and not die. Say NO to Abuse!

    • @smartlewis75
      @smartlewis75 Год назад +1

      Nezeville never said that she was abused. Her husband only secretly married a second wife. That is different from abuse

    • @kind2423
      @kind2423 Год назад +15

      It’s emotional abuse. Abuse is not only physical

    • @justgud1985
      @justgud1985 Год назад +6

      ​@@smartlewis75so, what's is it called? Ever heard of emotional abuse ? It's just as bad as physical abuse, even worse in some cases

    • @nnekaewa6995
      @nnekaewa6995 Год назад +3

      ​@@smartlewis75 This is the most heart wrecking abuse of all.

    • @Armour201
      @Armour201 Год назад +3

      ​@smartlewis75 Agbons Betrayal, deception, denial, manipulation, and adultery are all forms of domestic abuse. Violence is not only physical abuse.

  • @florenceonuora4574
    @florenceonuora4574 Год назад +3

    Nne, I love the way you speak, u are eloquent and audible with the smile you put from time to time

  • @joyyummyyummykitchen
    @joyyummyyummykitchen Год назад +8

    Very heart breaking.
    I pray Damilola find joy again.

  • @helenojo1347
    @helenojo1347 Год назад +18

    Moral of this story is that women should be independent, educated and empower yourself with everything that will not make men treat you this way, I think they're just taking the piss because our culture allows this behaviour, it's learned behaviour and it has been propagated by our culture. Our eyes are opening now. Women, let us use all the powers that God has given us, we have our strong intuition, we are strong, we have God's backing. A man like this will definitely get what is coming to him, karma will sure knocks on his door, he thinks he's enjoying now, it is his latter end that he will know there is a God is gives recompense for every action we do and every wrong decision. Oyindamola please don't consider going back, your children needs you, don't let them kill you, they're capable of killing you because they need your cash to live. Run for your life. As for d other woman, she wants to reap where she has not sown, God will deal with her don't worry, it's a matter of time. Oyindamola do take care of your mental health, God is on your side, you will laugh last!

    • @lorettemaufor1088
      @lorettemaufor1088 3 месяца назад

      I bet that man had no job here in the US. He will come and beg so she can continue to sponsor him and his wife.

  • @joanisuama9516
    @joanisuama9516 Год назад +3

    Oh my goodness! You are such a great storyteller. Well done.

  • @mamalin
    @mamalin Год назад +16

    This is the height of wickedness. It shall never be well with Bunmi and Tunde. It won’t end well for them. May they experience the sadness and sorrow this woman went through with her children. If you’re no longer interested in a woman talk with her and part ways mutually. You don’t have to treat another human being like this. Demons in human form! They will pay dearly for this! It’s a matter of time. This thing pained me to the bone though I don’t know any of them😢

    • @chynwejoiez3217
      @chynwejoiez3217 Год назад +1

      Tell them o! Just tell her and she would appreciate your honesty. You work out arrangements for kids upkeep and every body goes their way amicably.

    • @atweiwilson2492
      @atweiwilson2492 2 месяца назад

      This is time to have a good relationship with God. Teach your children to know God as their source and creator. Daily devotions at home with them will help them tremendously. God is with you.

  • @PstChristy
    @PstChristy Год назад +8

    Can't resist your content Neze...watching from Manila Philippines ❤

  • @maanipeters
    @maanipeters Год назад +33

    So the parents of her husband didn't know anything about this? Wicked people, they lied to her. This world is full of evil deeds

    • @passivepanda3656
      @passivepanda3656 Год назад +10

      They lie. They knew about it very very well. All wicked !

    • @mariaassumptaobieruwou399
      @mariaassumptaobieruwou399 Год назад +2

      They are aware of everything,

    • @zainabbusari120
      @zainabbusari120 Год назад +2

      @@passivepanda3656 the parents in-laws are accomplices, wicked people, some useless in-laws this poor Lady has.

    • @Musaliyomunde1
      @Musaliyomunde1 Год назад

      It might even be them who organized for him a local wife

    • @amehka5416
      @amehka5416 9 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@zainabbusari120I thought this only happened in Nollywood movies.😂😂

  • @veronaacampora
    @veronaacampora Год назад +3

    just discover your channel of all the Nigerian I watch you are the most authentic vlog and a true story teller keep being real

    • @GracefulKnots
      @GracefulKnots Год назад

      She is very authentic. I only listen to her and one other person

  • @XoliMlilo-pn4db
    @XoliMlilo-pn4db 7 месяцев назад +1

    I really enjoy how you tell these stories..u tell it so well...Now about this story..I feel in all honesty..woman should stop putting their trust on man..to build themselves and to love their kids more then man..These days man have no remorse and woman have no guilty conscience...I have learned to take care of myself more, love my kids more and build myself..so that if anything has to happen that i loose my marriage..I would move on the next day..I learned to accept that yes my man is capable of doing what other man r doing.. Praying at the same time that his not.. Acceptance can bring peace in ur heart.. Nigerian man r not to be trusted at allllll.... Learn from this story ladies and fix urself while u can..pray more and protect urself n home.. spiritually..

  • @carollaker
    @carollaker Год назад +5

    This story left my heart pounding so hard,
    It's better to check a phone and know my stand,
    Let her let it go and move on, holding on to such a person is toxic and she could even get killed if she holds on to him and his family

    • @funkeoniya8568
      @funkeoniya8568 Год назад +1

      You are right, thank God for her life, this is exactly what happened to a Christian singer's osinachi who married to her best enemy, a wicked husband whom later sent osinachi to earlier grave

  • @enobongimaha2012
    @enobongimaha2012 Год назад +3

    This is my story too. I experienced something similar but l acted differently. I have written a book on this. The writing of my book was therapeutic for me.

  • @TrudyloveSmithFreeman
    @TrudyloveSmithFreeman Год назад +10

    She can forgive him but she doesn't have to take him back. He's obviously not remorseful.
    A dog will always go back to it's vomit. Which is to say a remorseless man will never change from his ways.
    His actions was pure heartlessness. A man like that is capable of murder. She should just focus on her kids and herself. No man's worth dying for.
    Thanks Neze for bringing this story to us. My prayer goes to the lady and her kids.
    You're looking good as usual❤

  • @amapomaahamoafo-yeboah1526
    @amapomaahamoafo-yeboah1526 Год назад +2

    OMG. I have been crying all through the narration. Some people are seriously wicked

  • @kelechinwaogu468
    @kelechinwaogu468 Год назад +2

    Ur too much..." The woman went into full FBI mode"...😂😂I so much love ur charisma, so interesting, one u tune in, ur hooked❤

  • @DolineDibabonga
    @DolineDibabonga Год назад +27

    I personally find it very necessary to check my spouse's phone cus i don't like being taken for a fool. Men's phones have a lot of hidden secrets.

  • @Janieveraglobal
    @Janieveraglobal Год назад +12

    Tell her to find strength..I know its painful..but she will be just fine.Its best that she moved on. Let her do her best to protect those children. This story reminds of the yul edochie story....at the end of the day the mothers peace of mind is important and the childrens as well. Let her guard her life and her childrens life by distancing herself from the evil ex husband and his mistress. Never love any man more than you love yourself. Its well with you

    • @ia4228
      @ia4228 Год назад +1

      This is just my story as we are speaking now. I have been married to my husband for 23th years, in the UK with my four children. I just found out that my husband has been married for over a year now, in Nigeria and he hid it from me until I found out by myself. It's so painful 💔 I don't know what to do.

  • @sweetvibes8255
    @sweetvibes8255 Год назад +19

    Neze I really want to commend you for your story telling skills. I was glued to my screen for the whole 20 minutes without blinking,😀😀 and still didn't want it to end. You'll definitely go far, Thank you Neze.
    Now this story is one of the worst betrayal I've ever heard. It's not the first neither will it be the last, but like Neze asked, what my thought is? My answer is straight forward, I will not marry him again. As for forgiveness, time will heal all that wound, then forgiveness will come with prayers and supplications. I will rather try to be strong for my children than to be in the arms of someone that does not have any atom of respect or regard for me. She said they had a lovely marriage, whatever the issue was should have been discussed, but he chose not to speak to her. What are we talking about please? You don't let people push you and still show you where to fall.

  • @ifeyinwaobi869
    @ifeyinwaobi869 Год назад +5

    😢😢this story got to me.
    The worst is that they always lie, thinking that every woman they deal with is a fool.
    No woman should go through this horrible experience in life. The nightmares won't go away...never 😢

  • @irenedontoh9692
    @irenedontoh9692 5 месяцев назад +3

    This one na Yul and Judy o. Hmmmmm. So painful. Oyindamola, be strong. God's got you.

  • @ngozidibia7278
    @ngozidibia7278 Год назад +17

    As sad as it is, I am glad she found out what was going on & that as painful as it was for her, she made the decision to leave him.

  • @maureenchukwuemeka6279
    @maureenchukwuemeka6279 Год назад +22

    Even if she forgives, the husband is definitely not willing to let go of the other woman after all the wedding things with her and continuous frolicking with her? Even with the juju stuff which is the most devious thing haba, she should just move on, it’s gonna be hard and the pain will never go, but with her total trust in God, she and her children will be fine.

    • @pdm8446
      @pdm8446 Год назад +1

      She already filed for divorce

  • @omabkc3513
    @omabkc3513 Год назад +4

    This story is heartbreaking! Am lost for words !

  • @chinyereubani7075
    @chinyereubani7075 Год назад +2

    I love how you analyze issues. Your channel is always my go to when any new gist is in town
    Gisike my sister

  • @margaretdevine9755
    @margaretdevine9755 Год назад +6

    Wow, unfortunately, stories like this are almost becoming the norm nowadays.
    If I were in the first wife’s shoes I will forgive the man but I will not take him back because his not remorseful. This is a traumatic experience I will take myself and my children to therapy and counseling so we can come out on top at the end of all the drama. What goes around comes around, the other woman will surely get the abundant harvest from the seed she had sown. And for the women who are always looking for an already-made man with no respect or regard for marriages beware you are sowing generational curses into your lineage. I am almost certain 12 years ago a man wanted to marry this other woman but she told him she is not born to suffer but now she want to eat another women’s crops. God dey no be poor man prayer oh. God is alive and well and he fights for those that call on Him.

    • @ugoa.299
      @ugoa.299 8 месяцев назад +1

      Well said and I say A men to that!

  • @dynessphiri5576
    @dynessphiri5576 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks neze you r a good story teller love you all the way from Zambia,

  • @CruiseWithBee
    @CruiseWithBee Год назад +6

    May God Protect her and her kids. It's his lost not hers . He will cry and no one will tell him sorry .. such a betrayal and cheat are too Grevious . She and the kids will heal with time. They should Co parent peacefully so the kids will not suffer much mentality. This man is another Yul . Tufiakwa

    • @pdm8446
      @pdm8446 Год назад +1

      How do you even do-parent with those evil man. A man who has placed fetish things in your home. Can you trust that he means well for the children? Can you trust your children with him?

  • @KINGPOWER8008
    @KINGPOWER8008 Год назад +2

    Neze you're just the best, and nothing but the best 😊.

  • @mr-nature0
    @mr-nature0 10 месяцев назад

    I've been watching your videos for a while now, I really enjoy the way you use vocabularies and idioms. I learn in every video I watch, thank you.

  • @eternitychannel5715
    @eternitychannel5715 Год назад +5

    Heart breaking story, everyone is asking Her To for give. Yes , forgiveness is good but let us not Forget, forgiveness is a process. She is still in a place of shock. She need To first runaway with thé children, file for divorce and then Process what has just happen To her before consciously making a décision of letting go. May thé good grant Her thé grâce To put herself together and act accordingly for Her n children safety. May the peace of God be with in Her heart. Much love ❤❤❤

  • @akintolatiwalade5600
    @akintolatiwalade5600 Год назад +6

    It's painful. The husband couldn't have hid it for long, though, as Bunmi would likely succeed in chasing her out.
    Hmm! May God heal her & her children, and restore her.

  • @mabelbah5756
    @mabelbah5756 Год назад +1

    Am so much in Love with you. Keep the good work.

  • @chynwejoiez3217
    @chynwejoiez3217 Год назад +6

    Please I have a question. Why are some men scared of honesty? What do they think will happen if they tell their wives they are no longer interested in the marriage. Is it that they think their women are so dramatic and they won't allow agree to divorce? Because if you ask many married women, the issue isn't the cheating but the deception. Why do these men would choose to string their wives along in their adulterous actions. Simply tell her the truth, you'll be surprised that she won't overreact the way you think. In fact you may realize that she too is tired of you, and is seeking a new path in life. You can now work out arrangements on how to take care of children, if you have any, and share assets amicably. See, no drama at all! But they just won't, so what really drives the need for deception and forcing a woman into 'polygamy'? Is it a case of ego? Wanting to eat ones cake and have it? Saving face so that their male peers will say they handled the first wife and she can't go anywhere? Or just pure wickedness?

    • @CA-tq7kl
      @CA-tq7kl Год назад +1

      The men want to decieve so that they can continue to get the wife's earned money to finance their sidechick. They don't want to leave the wife but they want the sidechick. They want to eat their cake and have it too.

    • @contemplatinggod2791
      @contemplatinggod2791 Год назад

      He wanted them yo fake a lon against their home, thats prt of why he couldn’t tell her so he can cheat her even out of what she owns!

  • @covidvaseline81
    @covidvaseline81 Год назад +4

    I have come to a point in life where nothing surprises me. In my own opinion, if there is communication and true love in any marriage, so many things will be curbed before it will go that sour.
    We all know the difference between what is right and wrong and there's no justification for any wrong act whatsoever. the same way a man has eyes for other women is vice versa with the women, but most women out of discipline stick to one man. E no mean say anoda man no dey enter her eye oo... Men take note!!! because women are learning. I don go

  • @faustineadoboe563
    @faustineadoboe563 Год назад +3

    This is so sad 😭 . The betrayal and deceit is simply too much. God will punish this man according to his deeds 😭😭😭

    • @ugoa.299
      @ugoa.299 8 месяцев назад

      A big Amen!

  • @unoswartbooi
    @unoswartbooi Год назад +3

    Please Nze..come back and update us on how she doing now. I really pray she and her children are all fine. As for "privacy" story..my dear as soon as you say "I do" there is nothing private between you 2, nothing at all. The husband's cellphone is the wife's and vice-versa.
    As for forgiving him..Yes she should forgive him for her own piece of mind but never go back to him. What he did to her is too painful. As for the kids..they will grow up well with good counseling...

  • @princeig656
    @princeig656 Год назад +4

    I enjoyed watching your analysis. You are amazing Barr. Neze ❤. Thank you for updating us in details

  • @mohamedmoijueh4387
    @mohamedmoijueh4387 Год назад +2

    Neze you are so estactic in your presentation thanks for a job well done, keep it up
    madam you are second to none

  • @getfitlucia1738
    @getfitlucia1738 11 месяцев назад +2

    NEZE YOU ARE AN AMAZING STORYTELLER!

  • @Happytobehereee
    @Happytobehereee Год назад +7

    People are always telling women in situations like this and more to just forgive and take him back….literally ask yourself and think…if it was you would you?…

  • @suh-nfortangyie2729
    @suh-nfortangyie2729 Год назад +2

    Great narration as always. Fluency, vivid imagery and voice dynamics bring story to life. A story which affirms that happiness is but an occasional episode in a general drama of pain!(T. Hardy).

  • @chinyerenwude8046
    @chinyerenwude8046 Год назад +2

    Brilliant story telling

  • @Roza_Victorious
    @Roza_Victorious Год назад +6

    God had given her and the children second chance at life. She should leave that man and never look back.

  • @jegbefumen5401
    @jegbefumen5401 Год назад +3

    Prosperity will judge them 😢
    she has the mind to say."She feels sad whenever she sees her picture."
    For a woman you met in marriage 😮

  • @nkemhurunanyaezeh7703
    @nkemhurunanyaezeh7703 Год назад +8

    My question is, was this man doing all of these in his right senses or was he manipulated? That I don't have answers to. All I know is that what so ever a man sow that he will reap for sure 💔💔💔💔💔💔

    • @smt4720
      @smt4720 Год назад +1

      Regardless, these men open themselves to such because they are philanderers period.

    • @mayswalkinlondon158
      @mayswalkinlondon158 5 месяцев назад

      Long throat for most men. They wants to taste different

  • @oluwoletoyin2191
    @oluwoletoyin2191 Год назад +2

    Great analytical skill demonstrated !

  • @joygood2020Vlog
    @joygood2020Vlog Год назад +1

    Happy Easter dear,
    No privacy in marriage,we have to check each other phone every time,this is also a big lesson to learn from and thanks for sharing🎉🎉

  • @priscillaaryee2497
    @priscillaaryee2497 Год назад +6

    Story of my life 😢

    • @katejack6459
      @katejack6459 Год назад +1

      The Lord is your strength 🙏

    • @omowunmid4037
      @omowunmid4037 Год назад

      God will surely give you the Strength you need to move on.
      Trust in God with the whole of your heart.