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So basically cheating is seen as bad here in the US and will be called out But in japan is part of their culture? And calling it "bad" would be disrespectful 🤔 How do you stop this?
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Japanese govt allows such business and wonders why divorce are so high and so many abandoned children smh. And why so many otakus prefer fictional waifus 2d or 3d.
So government should regulate morality? 😂 I guarantee you that divorce and single mothers are merely a symptom, not the cause. Yes, “single mothers” and not “abandoned children”. Until at least the Japanese family court system sees some changes… a lot of the blame can be laid at their feet. Same for the determination of paternity (DNA testing isn’t acknowledged) and lack of enforcement mechanisms. Upon divorce there is no joint child custody and the winning parent may totally cutoff contact with their spouse… and Japanese family courts still heavily lean in favor of mothers. Do some research.
I’ve known lots of couples like this in Japan. They pretty much know their partner is going to cheat they just don’t talk about it. And paid s*x services don’t count as cheating in Japan, from what I’ve heard from many. Doesn’t mean the partner (mostly the woman) approves of it, but “as long as I don’t know” seems to be the common phrase. Don’t ask don’t tell!
Do any of these married woman become pregnant from these affairs? It would put huge economic strain on the husband if he had to take care of a kid that was not his.
Meshida-sensei, I would like to suggest for you to make some videos about existent rivalries, mocking and stereotypes that exist between Japanese people from different cities and prefectures towards each other. Things that all Japanese people might know but we foreigners don't. It would be really interesting to know.
I'm using Random chat app from Japan, and there are so many Married Japanese Man who using the app to talk to woman. Broo why don't you talk to your wife 😭 they always say their relationship is not in a good situation. Some of them have Gf in the app. And they say "It's only in the app, so it's not cheating" 😢 i actually feel bad, because some of them also have kids too💔
So… without knowing the whole story, you assume that the guy is terrible and all at fault? Broo maybe his wife doesn’t want to talk to him (or other stuff). Maybe every time they talk it’s an argument. Maybe all she cares about now is raising the children and him bringing home the paycheck which he turns over to her every month. Maybe she has a boyfriend or frequents host clubs. Or maybe she’s a perfect wife and he’s a scumbag. Who knows, but unless you at least have heard both sides of the story (or have first hand information)… less being judgmental.
I have a few friends (gaijin guys) that have joined it... According to them 1. Tons of bored/lonely housewives out there 2. Most are looking for more than mere conversation 3. Being a gaijin is not a problem.... If you can speak some Japanese. 4. Being a gentleman, not pushing things on a first date usually is good, but after the first date... He who hesitates is lost 5. Be prepared for some unusual woman... One friend met a single woman on the site, but she just wanted something light so she figured a married guy is better.... Another woman was 7 months pregnant and basically said, hubby is nice and rich, but now that I have fulfilled my duty as a wife (popping out a brat) I want to have fun.. Basically she was in the meeting phase for a future BF (post popping out the little kid) 6. 5980 yen a month was bit expensive and worth every yen.
This is what happens when you're in a "relationship" but treat each other as strangers I guess. No communication, keeping to yourself, no love. Just the obligation of a relationship. Then again, it's not an only in Japan thing either.
I would love to see her comments about this video. Specially because her main topic is teaching Gaijins how to find japanese girlfriends/wifes. The sexless marriage topic is a very important aspect that should be addressed.
It's an interesting situation and the organization is impressive!! I'm single, so my opinion doesn't matter very much...but, I think the merit of these apps relies on one critical factor: _Are both spouses okay with them dating?_ Ultimately, I think that, (for anything) if you feel guilty about telling your husband/wife about it, then it's wrong to do So, depending on who uses the app, it's either absolutely wonderful, or absolutely terrible 😅
To stops cheating or anything like that they need to do that:- i) Need to consume good amount of podcast video based on sex, intimacy related experts video you can also see and follow that channel (named as DOAC) ii) People really need to join online courses based on topic of law of attraction, face reading(so that they can identify & spot partner's inner desire and act upon that)
Most of these app have working women too . Who are there to provide there service ,almost i wud say 70% of married women are there on this app are working women even the hub knows they are doing this service .
Tragic what is happening in Japan. You want to see an old Japan romantic movie? Gorgeous romantic 1957 movie, "Sayonara." Yes, it's in color. I challenge anyone to see how beautiful that story is. Also, on a site I'm not allowed to write here, I have a novel on the site, "Sayonara Revisited." About Japan now. I believe in it and urge many to read it and think on Japan's future.
People not having kids doesn’t mean they aren’t having sex. We live in an age of birth control so low birth rate doesn’t mean people aren’t having sex.
Yes, abortion is legal. There is also the concept of “shotgun weddings” (出来ちゃった結婚)… as well as the large number of single mothers… many of whom are in poverty.
@@citizenoftheworld2694Although… 1. You’d be surprised at the shitty quality of Japanese school sex education. (They separate boys and girls to give them different lessons!) 2. You’d also be surprised at the number of women who will say “it’s ok, it’s the safe time of the month” or “why would you want to do that after we’ve gotten to know each other so well” or even “it’s ok, just don’t inside…” (aka withdrawal method).
“Marrying and not loving your wife” WTF? Why no comment about wives cheating on their husbands? Obviously no one marries someone they don’t love. What happens when the wife treats him more like a brother than a romantic partner? What happens when the wife changes to turn her entire attention to child rearing (to the exclusion of the husband)? Remember… Japanese family courts heavily favor mothers, there is no such thing as joint custody in Japan and custodial parents are known to cut off all contact with their ex after divorce.
@@pedrohenrique-et3fs Why is it *obviously* wrong? The point I am trying to make is that your morality is not someone else’s, so you shouldn’t go around assuming such and pushing your own ideals on others. That doesn’t mean you should accept it in your own life… but that is *your* life and that is the point.
@@Funkensturme LOL! Yeah I am not entirely sure why it got started but at least for Japan, while officially men became only able to have one wife after the Meiji Restoration, when Japan was rapidly modernizing based on their interpretation of the West at that time. However as we can see from Meshida and other various RUclips videos, adult entertainment and having girlfriends on the side still goes on in Japan.
@@Funkensturme not really, I've had talk with couple of ppl in japan it's mostly company policy. and you will find any one in high position or free lancer or someone who doesn't give damn about the policies or artist (freelancers in different name) they have beards and foreigner not working in public position. so mostly it is just policies if it's about appealing to girls it's 50/50
@@Funkensturme Nah. Just many guys can’t grow a decent beard (not enough facial hair) or office policy doesn’t allow it. The city hall I worked for in Tohoku did but no earrings, but one in Gunnar allowed earrings and no beards. However several guys I worked with at tech companies were able to and did grow beards though.
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This explains why NTR doujins are so popular....
What is that?? 🤔
@@mayshusakuhanamurasufferli5438 An education gap
So basically cheating is seen as bad here in the US and will be called out
But in japan is part of their culture? And calling it "bad" would be disrespectful 🤔
How do you stop this?
Why would you stop it?
Who are you to decide it needs to be stopped?
Selfishly polite
Just left Meshida-san comedy show and WOW!!! Thanks for the insights, fun and laughs!!
Truly the best way to spend an evening in Japan.
Do yourselves a favour and book some tickets to a wonderfully creative, hilarious, live show!!
Thank you Meshida-san from the drunk Irish man in the front row and his wife! 🙏
Arigatoooo!
Yet another eye opening and master piece by Meshida. Thank you very much!
Japanese govt allows such business and wonders why divorce are so high and so many abandoned children smh. And why so many otakus prefer fictional waifus 2d or 3d.
So government should regulate morality? 😂
I guarantee you that divorce and single mothers are merely a symptom, not the cause.
Yes, “single mothers” and not “abandoned children”. Until at least the Japanese family court system sees some changes… a lot of the blame can be laid at their feet. Same for the determination of paternity (DNA testing isn’t acknowledged) and lack of enforcement mechanisms. Upon divorce there is no joint child custody and the winning parent may totally cutoff contact with their spouse… and Japanese family courts still heavily lean in favor of mothers. Do some research.
@@jmbickham "So government should regulate morality?" As stupid as it sounds, that's what most conservatives think nowadays.
I don't want a waifu anymore 😭😭
Oh, I see, you're married to one.
I wonder how many would be mad that your using the app but was actually single?
I’ve known lots of couples like this in Japan. They pretty much know their partner is going to cheat they just don’t talk about it. And paid s*x services don’t count as cheating in Japan, from what I’ve heard from many. Doesn’t mean the partner (mostly the woman) approves of it, but “as long as I don’t know” seems to be the common phrase. Don’t ask don’t tell!
Arigatou 😂, this explains so much. If I ever lived in Japan a girlfriend would be great, but a wife should be avoided 😅🎉
Good. Go ahead and waste your time😂
Just waiting on Meshida to touch on Tokyo Night Style for foreigners. That will be an interesting video.
Maybe, instead of making baby, they could get a plant. Increase oxygen.
Do any of these married woman become pregnant from these affairs? It would put huge economic strain on the husband if he had to take care of a kid that was not his.
Meshida-sensei, I would like to suggest for you to make some videos about existent rivalries, mocking and stereotypes that exist between Japanese people from different cities and prefectures towards each other. Things that all Japanese people might know but we foreigners don't. It would be really interesting to know.
So Japan is the land of non stop sex just not with your partner.... so very interesting.
Yep! As a seven year resident, I can confirm lol😊
@@yankeeinjapan8869 Hide your wives from this man, Nihonjins! Or don't.
@@Funkensturme 😂🤣😂🤣
I'm using Random chat app from Japan, and there are so many Married Japanese Man who using the app to talk to woman.
Broo why don't you talk to your wife 😭 they always say their relationship is not in a good situation.
Some of them have Gf in the app. And they say "It's only in the app, so it's not cheating" 😢 i actually feel bad, because some of them also have kids too💔
So… without knowing the whole story, you assume that the guy is terrible and all at fault? Broo maybe his wife doesn’t want to talk to him (or other stuff). Maybe every time they talk it’s an argument. Maybe all she cares about now is raising the children and him bringing home the paycheck which he turns over to her every month. Maybe she has a boyfriend or frequents host clubs. Or maybe she’s a perfect wife and he’s a scumbag. Who knows, but unless you at least have heard both sides of the story (or have first hand information)… less being judgmental.
I have a few friends (gaijin guys) that have joined it... According to them
1. Tons of bored/lonely housewives out there
2. Most are looking for more than mere conversation
3. Being a gaijin is not a problem.... If you can speak some Japanese.
4. Being a gentleman, not pushing things on a first date usually is good, but after the first date... He who hesitates is lost
5. Be prepared for some unusual woman... One friend met a single woman on the site, but she just wanted something light so she figured a married guy is better....
Another woman was 7 months pregnant and basically said, hubby is nice and rich, but now that I have fulfilled my duty as a wife (popping out a brat) I want to have fun..
Basically she was in the meeting phase for a future BF (post popping out the little kid)
6. 5980 yen a month was bit expensive and worth every yen.
Woah.
Meshida-San, this is some content that you should have also included. 😉
This is what happens when you're in a "relationship" but treat each other as strangers I guess. No communication, keeping to yourself, no love. Just the obligation of a relationship. Then again, it's not an only in Japan thing either.
Asagi San of "Asagi Asagi's Life (No BS Japan)" RUclips channel would not be happy about this topic.
I would love to see her comments about this video. Specially because her main topic is teaching Gaijins how to find japanese girlfriends/wifes. The sexless marriage topic is a very important aspect that should be addressed.
Divorce is common in japan .lots of women have divorced there husband because of cheating ,which used to be rare before.
I wanna visit Japan because I love anime culture, it’s amazing!
But, im muslim, and cheating in my culture it’s absolutely unacceptable 😅
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What’s the male to female ratio on these marriage apps Meshida?
heyyy i didn't know this! thanks
I find this so sad...
Wonder how many couples are using these for swapping and foursomes?
Q for question lol thanks for the video
Japan is out of date, in my country people cheating using uber eats apps.
It's an interesting situation and the organization is impressive!!
I'm single, so my opinion doesn't matter very much...but, I think the merit of these apps relies on one critical factor:
_Are both spouses okay with them dating?_
Ultimately, I think that, (for anything) if you feel guilty about telling your husband/wife about it, then it's wrong to do
So, depending on who uses the app, it's either absolutely wonderful, or absolutely terrible 😅
Bro i need that shirt
To stops cheating or anything like that they need to do that:-
i) Need to consume good amount of podcast video based on sex, intimacy related experts video you can also see and follow that channel (named as DOAC)
ii) People really need to join online courses based on topic of law of attraction, face reading(so that they can identify & spot partner's inner desire and act upon that)
This is not cheating, this is consented cheating, which means open relationships 😂
Most of these app have working women too . Who are there to provide there service ,almost i wud say 70% of married women are there on this app are working women even the hub knows they are doing this service .
Japan is improving😂
Since I know a bit about Japanese marriage I kinda understand why they do it but it's so wrong. The system seems so broken.
So having an affair is a way to get oil flowing again from a dried up well? Sounds like fracking.
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You need to make T shirt that says Hentai academy 😂 bet it would sell awesome
Tragic what is happening in Japan. You want to see an old Japan romantic movie? Gorgeous romantic 1957 movie, "Sayonara." Yes, it's in color. I challenge anyone to see how beautiful that story is. Also, on a site I'm not allowed to write here, I have a novel on the site, "Sayonara Revisited." About Japan now. I believe in it and urge many to read it and think on Japan's future.
It always baffles me that there's tons of things related to sex in japan (AV, doujin, toys, etc) yet their birth rate is getting lower and lower😂
People not having kids doesn’t mean they aren’t having sex. We live in an age of birth control so low birth rate doesn’t mean people aren’t having sex.
P@rn@graphy addiction, simple as that.
Is abortion legal in Japan?
Yes, abortion is legal.
There is also the concept of “shotgun weddings” (出来ちゃった結婚)… as well as the large number of single mothers… many of whom are in poverty.
@@citizenoftheworld2694Although…
1. You’d be surprised at the shitty quality of Japanese school sex education. (They separate boys and girls to give them different lessons!)
2. You’d also be surprised at the number of women who will say “it’s ok, it’s the safe time of the month” or “why would you want to do that after we’ve gotten to know each other so well” or even “it’s ok, just don’t inside…” (aka withdrawal method).
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marrying and not loving your wife...confusing.
Society’s pressure to get married soon.
“Marrying and not loving your wife” WTF? Why no comment about wives cheating on their husbands?
Obviously no one marries someone they don’t love. What happens when the wife treats him more like a brother than a romantic partner? What happens when the wife changes to turn her entire attention to child rearing (to the exclusion of the husband)? Remember… Japanese family courts heavily favor mothers, there is no such thing as joint custody in Japan and custodial parents are known to cut off all contact with their ex after divorce.
@@jmbickham cheating is obviously wrong, im just not focusing on it because this is a comedy channel
@@pedrohenrique-et3fs Why is it *obviously* wrong?
The point I am trying to make is that your morality is not someone else’s, so you shouldn’t go around assuming such and pushing your own ideals on others. That doesn’t mean you should accept it in your own life… but that is *your* life and that is the point.
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Monogami is not a thing in Japan...
Why should monogamy be a thing?
@@jmbickham Because of Jesus Christ our lord and savior! (I'm not sure where the monogamy part comes in but it is somewhere in the history).
@@Funkensturme LOL! Yeah I am not entirely sure why it got started but at least for Japan, while officially men became only able to have one wife after the Meiji Restoration, when Japan was rapidly modernizing based on their interpretation of the West at that time. However as we can see from Meshida and other various RUclips videos, adult entertainment and having girlfriends on the side still goes on in Japan.
Wasn’t swinging way more common im edo, feudal and heian Japan. Seems like people need to go back to open marriages/swinging in Japan.
Isn't this the digital version of an open marriage? 🤷♀️
Viva lacheating apps.
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J society is so weird
hmm, outside the scope of the video why not grow a beard
A goatee might change things up with the ladies, Meshida-San. 👍🏽
Isn't facial hair generally frowned upon in Japan?
@@Funkensturme not really, I've had talk with couple of ppl in japan it's mostly company policy.
and you will find any one in high position or free lancer or someone who doesn't give damn about the policies or artist (freelancers in different name) they have beards and foreigner not working in public position.
so mostly it is just policies
if it's about appealing to girls it's 50/50
@@Funkensturme Nah. Just many guys can’t grow a decent beard (not enough facial hair) or office policy doesn’t allow it. The city hall I worked for in Tohoku did but no earrings, but one in Gunnar allowed earrings and no beards.
However several guys I worked with at tech companies were able to and did grow beards though.
Meshida, great video as always. The things you describe happens everywhere
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