Mental health problems definitely do cause stalking, but every situation is different. Some stalkers have more awareness of their actions than others. Some mental health issues cause distortions in perception which may help a stalker to justify their actions or believe that their actions are appropriate.
@@ShalaLiciaThey know its wrong tho Mostly after someone told them They know their friends and family members dont stalk They have those thoughts coming in more than others but they still have a counscience
My sister was stalked by a guy at work, hid in her bushes and one night she came home and he was able to get into her back yard. She called me saying she could hear someone, my husband went to go check on her and when opening the back door he was standing at the sliding door. He was fired but that was extremely scary for her. Was a very bad time! She lived alone so I was always scared something would happen.
Isla your amazing for speaking out about this , i stay in West Lothian and have also been a victim of this with a neighbor who I met at a party back in 2007 he was obsessed with me I unknowingly moved across the road from him and it became a living nightmare, I’m now safe thankfully, keep moving forward these people will have there karma x
Happened to me exactly same, new house in rural area and neighbour start stalking me and ex. stand outside my window 22.00 knocking even on window and try get into house. The neighbour had taken post from my postbox that I seen was in my postbox but I had left it and the neighbour had taken it and used it to come to my house seek contact 22.00. And etc etc. Still a unsolved problem and I think I have no other option than move.
I was stalked for months by an obsessive co worker. She followed me home from work one day and then would "coincidently" appear outside my house most mornings as I left for work, claiming she walked that way home. She had an excuse for every time I logged her following me. People might say thats creepy. But the creepiest thing I've seen her do (I watched on cctv) was when I was on my break and she walked around the whole store looking for me, almost in a panic attack, and then when she found me she stood still then calmly went back to work. She couldn't go 30 minutes without knowing where I was!! These people are dangerous and their obsessions might seem harmless to the police but it ruins our confidence! 2 years later and I'm still waiting for my workplace to take action, never mind the police
Just sell the house and move away, somewhere where the stalker wouldn't find you. It's not gonna get worse, he might break into your house and hurt you. Stalking always escalates - I speak from my personal experience. Your health and well-being is more important than that house.
So either youre manipualtih my algorithm, i got a stalker which i an go into or youre claiming im one so? Which is it. Side note tqo strokes causes a mobility issue
even if that was the case, does that justify any of what happened? besides, plenty of stalkers stalk without that happening so commenting on it is irrelevant and ignorant
@willywillybumbum9851 absolutely not,it's wrong! But what happens is these creep become attached after a it especially if the women's strung him along.
How horrific, so disappointing to hear the way that police officer spoke to her too..
Man, there’s weirdos everywhere. Poor thing, this is so traumatising
Tell it as it is, coercive control and stalking.
She is…
Mental health problems don't cause stalking. Stalkers know exactly what they are doing.
This woman is so brave.
As usual, the mainstream media mainly portray more rare examples by women.
Mental health problems definitely do cause stalking, but every situation is different. Some stalkers have more awareness of their actions than others. Some mental health issues cause distortions in perception which may help a stalker to justify their actions or believe that their actions are appropriate.
I agree about this but this is counscience and it goes for ANY crime
We all have counscience even the bad or sick ones
@@ShalaLiciaThey know its wrong tho
Mostly after someone told them
They know their friends and family members dont stalk
They have those thoughts coming in more than others but they still have a counscience
My sister was stalked by a guy at work, hid in her bushes and one night she came home and he was able to get into her back yard. She called me saying she could hear someone, my husband went to go check on her and when opening the back door he was standing at the sliding door. He was fired but that was extremely scary for her. Was a very bad time! She lived alone so I was always scared something would happen.
Its nice to be friendly!
Isla your amazing for speaking out about this , i stay in West Lothian and have also been a victim of this with a neighbor who I met at a party back in 2007 he was obsessed with me I unknowingly moved across the road from him and it became a living nightmare, I’m now safe thankfully, keep moving forward these people will have there karma x
The worry is reall.. I feel for her😭 I was once faced by someone like that who terrified me
Madness
Such a brave strong woman
Impossible situation, I feel so sorry for her !
podcast called strictly stalking. This story in more depth is on there for anyone wanting to know more.
Where can you obtain access to the podcast pls ?
Happened to me exactly same, new house in rural area and neighbour start stalking me and ex. stand outside my window 22.00 knocking even on window and try get into house. The neighbour had taken post from my postbox that I seen was in my postbox but I had left it and the neighbour had taken it and used it to come to my house seek contact 22.00. And etc etc. Still a unsolved problem and I think I have no other option than move.
God! Poor woman
I was stalked for months by an obsessive co worker. She followed me home from work one day and then would "coincidently" appear outside my house most mornings as I left for work, claiming she walked that way home. She had an excuse for every time I logged her following me.
People might say thats creepy. But the creepiest thing I've seen her do (I watched on cctv) was when I was on my break and she walked around the whole store looking for me, almost in a panic attack, and then when she found me she stood still then calmly went back to work. She couldn't go 30 minutes without knowing where I was!!
These people are dangerous and their obsessions might seem harmless to the police but it ruins our confidence!
2 years later and I'm still waiting for my workplace to take action, never mind the police
So true i people looking at me through house windows and i c atch them at time
Just sell the house and move away, somewhere where the stalker wouldn't find you. It's not gonna get worse, he might break into your house and hurt you. Stalking always escalates - I speak from my personal experience. Your health and well-being is more important than that house.
On the blurred picture around 4:30 . He didn't have his old chap in his hand did he ?
I feel sorry for the poor lady, what that evil and creepy man was doing.
ThE same things happened to me but the police didn’t take it seriously because I’m a man
Man or woman it doesn't sound like the police want to do anything helpful.
As long u haven't exchanged contracts you can always back out of a sale
Why is it always Jonathan’s? 🤯
Real life Jim bell
This morning thx to expose the gang stalkers and educate the public about that
Where was the Police offerces ? Never help
So either youre manipualtih my algorithm, i got a stalker which i an go into or youre claiming im one so? Which is it. Side note tqo strokes causes a mobility issue
My victim, acted like he wanted to marry me
The wife??
A stalker is a friend who has yet to pick up the courage to say i like you!
no
Stalkers have no interest in friendship.
@@redwoods7370 Sure we do we just lack confidence.
@@rogermoore-gd9do You don't know what a stalker is buddy. And if you profess to be one, you need to seek professional help.
@@redwoods7370 Its nice to be friendly!
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I think he stalked her cause she slept with him!
even if that was the case, does that justify any of what happened? besides, plenty of stalkers stalk without that happening so commenting on it is irrelevant and ignorant
That’s not true
@@daus6035 tarabee is a troll. Not even worth responding.
@willywillybumbum9851 absolutely not,it's wrong! But what happens is these creep become attached after a it especially if the women's strung him along.
Have you seen him? A dog wouldn't sleep with him. Be for real. 🙄
Its all fashion carry on weirdos 😂