Lol the cookie one was hilarious but definitely not the asshole my older brother would’ve done this shit to me so I get it and I have horrible timing like him too I would’ve done something similar not gonna lie but I don’t think it would’ve blown up this way we probably wouldn’t be able to stop laughing about though
The cookie cake story is really a story about terrible parents. The elder brother should not have been allowed to treat his brother like that. He shouldn’t have been permitted to touch his brother’s cookies. I seriously do not understand how a child would think to poop on another person’s gift
Not to mention the older brother thinks it's something bad enough to sue over and doesn't seem to realize then that he admitted to actually committing the act and therefore should be sued in turn.
I honestly think the last one, OP doesn't sound that "spoiled". He is privileged, but he is able to recognize that and has worked for his spending money. He's even willing to spend money he earned from part time jobs he had before this bet with his did to buy the car instead of accepting it from his dad who is being a dick. I think that OP has probably had his feelings shit down by his dad his whole life, and when you just want one person to do something that they promised for ONCE and you work your ass off to make it happen and they pull the same bs line they've used to make you feel stupid and small your whole life... You're gonna be upset. If his dad was going to buy a used car for OP anyway, why not just lead with that? I'm sure OP would've accepted a nice used car with the same deal, but his dad CHOSE to crush his spirits instead. It wasn't a reasonable ask, but OP didn't ask it, his dad OFFERED only to turn around and shove it in OPs face.
Just to add context to the last story, the OP's sister got a either Lexus or Lincoln from the father. I forget, but it was a similarly priced car to OP's request for a BMW. So, it's more favoritism than OP being spoiled. Edit: it was a Lexus
Also, wasnt OP 15 when he asked to quit piano and go do something else? When he passed, he was 17. That’s 2 years of his life, wasted to something he doesn’t love. 2 years he could have spent on finding something he loves to do. 2 years long he thought he would get “the car of his choice”, and 2 years long the father was just making a fool of him every time they talked about it. Heartbreaking
@@reljapopovic I agree, it sounded like they want this to be a lighthearted joke but it sounds off putting that I had to pause the video and look for comments to see if someone noticed.
I 100% agree. OP is privliged, but he seems to understand that and no amount of privlige will make you a good piano player without practice. That takes some serious dedication. And getting a teenager to dedicate 2 years to this is incredible! Like shorter attention span, wanting to rebel - those are normal teenage years. And let's not forget 2 years for a 15 y.o. is a relatively big chunck of life. Yes, life isn't fair, but shouldn't you as a parent want to make life as fair and as beautiful as possible for your kids? A no, I'm not talking about a BMW necessarily, but I do think sth is seriously wrong with OP's dad just from this loophole attitude. How about some praise for the kid? Edit: Also, I agree, they didn't have to make fun of him like that. He acknowledged his privlige and he worked hard. No need to insult him.
The second story OP is totally justified. The brother deserved it and the way he projected onto OP was insane. The cookies thing is just awful and I’d even consider something going on psychologically
The car thing, I hope OP treats his father the way he was treated. Oh you want to be invited to the wedding, you gotta do X, Y and Z, and then he gets an invite to friend's wedding. Oh you want to meet the baby, brings a baby doll. This is not be a healthy relationship.
The last story really irks me. This boy didn’t want to play the piano anymore. He wanted to do other things and explore other options. He decided not to that based off a deal. His father offered to him, and he fulfilled his part. He worked hard and was working and kept his grades up. Yet his dad willingly play the prank on him, and then said I’ll get you something else. The fact that this boy is willing to buy a car on his own with the money he saved up from working part time on principle. It literally means the father has went to far is the straw that broke the camels back it’s one thing to play Lil pranks on your kid is another thing to offer them something tell them they can get it, and agreed to everything smile in they face, and then willingly not do it. Because all that doesn’t prove that he can never trust his word. Like his dad is trash
For the Fourth story if I was OP, i would never trust my Dad again Like OP just wanted to take up new hobbys, he didnt ask for a new car, The dad brought it up. So he sacrificed and worked really hard for it and the Dad just broke their end of the deal. Doesn't matter if it was a ridiculous gift, His dad suggested it and then broke his promise, in a way that seriously effected OPs life. Don't blame him for refusing the used Car, It would be letting the dad off the hook.
Yeah if the price was out of the question, the dad could have said "how about any car up to this price?" But no, let's make him waste two years for something he'll never actually get
Sarah is a text book narcissist. These people just always play victim and do insane stuff and always get sympathy. I worked with someone like that named Bianca, it was hell.
For the rich kid story. He fully understands that he is privileged, but has been saving his money, even getting summer jobs, so he can buy what he wants. His parents are raising him right in that sense, where if you want luxury, you have to earn it yourself. the kid doesn't seem that spoiled, privileged yes, but not spoiled. BOTH of his parents are the a**holes. When he wanted to stop piano to try other things, they convinced him to continue doing something he was no longer happy doing, just to receive a toy. His dad is destroying his relationship with his son because he is setting a precedent that his son will never be able to rely on or trust him ever. What happens if the son needs help paying for college, will he agree to pay, but back out saying you didn't specify which college to pay that money towards? Or what about when he gets married or has a kid? OP is 17 and already understands he can not rely on his father for the major moments in life. Getting your first car, which I am assuming it is, is a major moment in a teenager's life. The dad is acting like a 12-year-old in debate class.
Yeah son might as well sike them later by saying something like “I promised to sending you to a nursing home, but I didn’t say which one. And it’s not reasonable for me to pay for those top tier ones anyway.”
I hope the kid gets a car himself and refuses to let his father use it inan emergency and then ay "life isn't fair" when hisfather claims that his son is being unreasonable.
I really take issue with their representation of OP as spoiled when he is clearly very aware of his privilege and does not abuse it. He still puts in a lot of hard work!
Op should not let his parents get involved with his life & if they have an opinion he can say “I don’t care” & when the parents whine he can hit them with the “life isn’t fair”
Also if you see the full story it wasnt unreasonable at all for op to expect the bmw as the dad had bought his sister a lexus so the cost thing is a lie and its just favoritism and cruelty
For the last story I would have looked at the dad and said “how dare you not honor our deal. You promised me a CAR not a TOY CAR. I chose this car because you didn’t set any other parameters for what I can choose. No price range or anything. If you want to buy me a used car then I’d rather you pay me the money that one is worth so I can use my savings and the money you give me to actually buy the car I want. Otherwise you’ll loose me as your daughter/son at 18 and I’ll never talk to you again”
This one is so unhindged. I've have dealt with manipulators and they are literally cancer. I suffer from PTSD now. And I'll never be the same 😂 while they'll forever be the same.
I have been a manipulator in the past due to substance issues, but definitely not to this degree, Sarah is absolutely insane, I would never speak to her or the parents again.
That isn’t a spoiled kid. In any way. The kid worked to pay for anything he wanted. The dad was a jerk. If you SAY you’re going to do something and make a deal with your child, follow through. Don’t set them up, make them do a thing they don’t want to do instead of what they want to do and then screw them over. Yes. I’d expect my parent to keep their end of a multi-year bargain that involves me sacrificing what I truly want because they want me to continue the very hard work of being good at something that I don’t even want to do anymore.
The dad is also giving the example that it’s okay to not honor your word and not be reliable. Good thing OP is smart enough to see how damaging that behavior is.
The story regarding the child whose dad keeps saying life isn't fair the father is definitely a hole the way he he speaks to his son and treats his son going back on his word he is going to cause psychologically long term issues for his son. The son is going to have a lot of trust issues when it comes to male relationships. Their wealth doesn't matter it's how he psychologically treating his son that is an issue
Never apologize to in-laws when they are wrong or wrong you. If you apologize they will misbehave in the future. Put your in-laws in their place and keep them there. You can respect and care for others in a controlled manner without letting them get away with wrongful comments and actions.
Story 3: on the one hand... it could be dangerous to tell someone you were an escort (i was one for 3 years) BUT I am a firm believer in informed consent. I told my current partner on our second date so he could decide if he wanted to continue dating. I think that once things get more serious and/or you start sleeping with each other that conversation needs to happen.
For that first story, I genuinely hope the dad fights for full custody, and is able to use what she was doing to OP as evidence why she isn't mentally stable enough to raise a child. This woman was doing everything in her power to not only victimize herself, but set others up for failure, and didn't care that it was all a lie, and the child would one day suffer for it.
Just to add context to the last story, the OP's sister got a either Lexus or Lincoln from the father. I forget, but it was a similarly priced car to OP's request for a BMW. So, it's more favoritism than OP being spoiled.
17:02 honestly wouldn’t be surprised if OP did keep the grudge cause his brother was a MAJOR butthole always at any given chance to tell the story n tells it when OP is or isn’t in the room. He help his brother’s ex dodge the major poop marriage.
Story 1: Glad to hear the OP went no contact with the step-sister, but I do feel bad for their child and I hope the real father fights for custody. He is clearly more stable than the step-sister and openly admitted that he wants to be there for their child, meanwhile, the step-sister used the child as a pawn. The step-sister also clearly needs therapy or something. Story 2: I feel so bad for the OP. This seemed like a case of miscommunication and missed social cues. Story 3: Ooh hell no! That's just cringe. FIL is definitely the a-hole in this story and went way too far. The husband is also partially the a-hole for not defending the OP. Story 4: The OP may sound like a spoiled brat, but the father was totally the a-hole because they were definitely manipulative.
The husband is definitely not the a-hole in story 3. He defended her in past instances and in this instance his wife spoke before he could. That's what she wrote.
My ex-husband/father of my boys is a gaslighting narcissist. It was so bad that he made me believe I was going insane. He also pushed my depression to the edge, I am glad I am still here (never tried to un-alive myself but thought about it often). I divorced him 10 years ago and spent a few years in therapy. I have never felt as good as I do now. The freedom from the narcissist is amazing and I would rather be alone than be with that master manipulator.
The last one pisses me off because OP actually doesn't seem spoiled, I'd have to learn more about him in his regular day to day life to understand completely. You can be poor and spoiled, rich doesn't automatically make you. Spoiled. The dad is just a plain old jerk. My parents did that to my family, but we're poor, they did it so we could joke to our friends we got a car for our 16th birthday and we could walk around with it in our pockets. His dad could've been very clear on it, and if you make a promise you keep to it. Loopholes, or not.
I had a similar experience. I broke up with a guy when we were 14, were both 25 today, and he's never got over this obsession he has with me. When I was 22 we slept together a few times and then I moved to another Province/State. I got engaged in this new place, and was so happy. Then his new girlfriend who ive never even met started attacking me online, bc she found a nude of me on his phone sent from an instragram with my name? He doesn’t have any pics of me that he or I took, and i dont use Intagram. I asked how she knew it was me and she said he confirmed it was my body. I didn't know how this happened, so I admitted that I send pictures to a lot of people, and one of them probably made this account for shits and giggles. Even called myself a slut to try and make her feel less threatened. She called me a liar and told me to leave her boyfriend alone and that he was over me, etc. I told her I didn't care about him, I hadn't spoken to him in months, and she was being unreasonable. So I cut contact with her and decided to talk to my ex to assure him it hadn't been me. However, it didn't take me long to realize there was no Instagram or pictures. She made IT ALL UP as a way to get me to leave him alone. So I did, dropped them both since as i reminded her I DIDN'T EVEN LIKE THIS DUDE ANYMORE. It was insane. Jealousy is scary.
The biggest a hole in the stepsister's story is actually OP's mom. How could she take the side of this woman who is practically a stranger that she did not raise, over her own goddamn daughter?! Yes, Sarah was an a hole but from the entire story it seems that she had always been a crayzee manipulator and a skank so her entire behavior is to be expected. OP's mom failed in defending OP exactly for what, a woman who was already an adult when she married her father. She should to an extent treat Sarah as a stranger because mom has no idea of Sarah's character and behavior and whether this could have been a pattern when she was growing up. Again, she was not blood related to Sarah and she did not raise that woman. Sarah just happened to be a package deal she got for marrying her new husband, but mom's responsibility should always have been to her own daughter. Mom could have shut that ish down from the beginning by taking her daughter's side, have a sit down with dad, OP, her fiancé and Sarah; in no uncertain terms she could just say wait until the baby is born and have a paternity test to get the proof. Whatever the DNA result, then they will act accordingly. If mom had put her foot down, Sarah would backtrack because she knows her lie will soon be found out. Instead, mom takes Sarah's side with no evidence and put OP in a corner to defend herself and her future life with fiancé. It's like, DNA test had been around for several decades and if it's good enough for Law and Order, it should be good enough for regular civil cases.
yeah, your fiancé is never entitled to know anything about you. I mean you can say that in order to have a close relationship. You might tell your fiancé a lot of things, but if it’s something that was traumatic for you and embarrassing it’s up to you when you want to tell it. if you’re clean and not gonna give anything to your fiancé, then that’s all that matters. As of course, it was before you even knew them.
I love these stories ect, but one thing about this story made me a bit ticked. It was when the somewhat rich OP was telling their story and was called a rich spoiled brat. Not everyone who is rich is a brat nor spoiled at times like he explained he earned money by working for it not from allowance (I’m not rich at all low class in fact so I’m not speaking from experience just what I’m listening to)
Their dad is so proud of his beautiful, humble children. Their mother did a heck of a job going through the grief and still raising such phenomenal humans. 👏
Story 3 should do the worst "good apology" ever. Just "I'm so sorry FIL I understand the joke that you think I'm screwing everyone in the family." And if he pushes back just keep going "No I really get it it's real funny to say that I would cheat on my fiance/husband with his dad or uncles I mean I can't imagine a better joke."
My first car was a 2005 chevy cavalier. Bless its little metal heart ❤ The speedometer and gas gauge didn't work, and he'd "cough dirt" into your face from the air vents if you had "bad vibes" 😂😅 (or slammed on the gas petal too hard)
Wow the brother is over-reacting to what she said about the cake and his own guilt at having did what he did to her cookies is fuelling all this. This marriage was obviously not stable to begin with for this to crumble so quickly over what only days before at his bucks party with his mates was so funny. Absolute case of you can dish it out but can’t take it. The groom is a sook and whinger and the bride has had a lucky escape.
Here is what needs to happen with the cake story every time the brother tells this from on he gets hit in the head with a ball peen hammer I mean absolutely full-on hit in the head with a ball peen hammer.
It’s sad when parents don’t keep their promises. And there’re exceptions when parents promised but then something unexpected happened. And now their finances are not in a good state… But that rich daddy purposely mocked his son. That’s just idiotic.
no normal child thinks to poo on cookies and give it to the sibling. that kid should have been put in counseling and maybe his marriage would not have imploded the night of the wedding. also how is the car kid spoiled? He works for his own money, he keeps his grades up. Rich does not equal spoiled.
My dad did the car prank on my 16th birthday! I wasn't asking for a car, but my dad just got it so I can I got a "car" for my birthday. I still have the toy.
If i had the money to buy my kid any car they wanted, i would have pulled this joke too, but immediately followed it with "ok in all seriousness, go look outside." Like this miniature car joke is only funny if you follow it up with the actual car, otherwise its just cruel.
Our hospitals gave a hospital "copy" with the babies foot prints and the parent's names and pretty fonts. I have them from four different hospitals. I also have mine from my birth and one of my sibling's. We are in the U.S.? Each hospital has a slightly different one but they are so precious! My thumbprints are also included.
In Portugal its different, you can register the child the next day, when you are still at the hospital and get the certificate straight away. For you to be discharge with your baby you have to present that on your way out 2x. 12y ago It was like this when I had mine.
Just cos your parents are rich doesnt mean you're spoilt. Taken advantage of by his dad, working super hard at piano, buying himself treats from his own money, come on guys you're not being fair to him at all
Tbh the dad with the car pissed me off. It would be one thing if the dad just said he would get his son a car and he didn't get the car he wanted, but they had a deal that the father would provide him the car of his choice if he sacrificed several YEARS of his time and energy into something his dad wanted him to do. If that were me my father would never hear me play piano AGAIN Edit: my first car was a black 2000 hyundai elantra that my neighbors gave me for free. Nothing wrong with a shitty used car, but these guys had a deal!
Something similar happened to me when I 1st moved back to Portland,. I made friends with a group of people and there was a guy in the group that liked me. He pursued me but I could tell he was a little bit of a player so I wasn't interested, but since I was new in town I continue to hang out with him and his group of friends. My cousin who had mooched off of /lived with me shortly in LA Started accusing me of going after her sloppy seconds. At the time we were both in our thirties but when she dated him it was basically high school and she was married with 4 kids and had been married and divorced once before. She started harassing me, and threatening me even turned her side of the family against me, including her children calling me wh*re / sl*t. The funny thing is nothing really happened between me & that guy, though he tried to corner & kiss me a couple of times. There was one picture of him with his arm over my shoulder and over another girls shoulder and giving us kisses on the cheek on his birthday, which sent her over the edge. It was pretty obvious that we were just friends, but she couldn't handle it. The kicker was she will she was sneaking around talking to her ex boyfriend behind her husband's back and trying to blame me somehow because she tricked. Me into driving her to go meet up with him at his restaurant by offering me sushi to thank me for taking care of her daughter, I didn’t know it was her ex's business & I never got any sushi. It's been over twelve years since we spoke, though I've run into her at events maybe once a year, and I am perfectly happy I never ever have to speak to that crazy woman again.
Rich kid aside, breaking a promise through loop holes is still breaking a promise. All that dude has done is make certain his kid never fully trusts a word that leaves his mouth.
Id never lie to my kid like that. If I had the means to buy my kid a new car and promised a new car, I would deliver. It wouldnt be their choice WHICH new car, because I'd be looking for the cheapest option, but you promise something to your child you have to deliver or youll break their trust. "Life isnt fair" isnt an argument you use on your own child, it's something the real world teaches them but home should be a safe place for them to exist.
My first car was a 2001 Honda Civic. Bought that car when I was 24 years old, with my own money that I earned from my own job. I LOVED that car, even with all its quirks, like the broken AC, the missing seat belts in the back, the chipped paint on the roof, and the lack of a key fob. Still loved it. Kept it for 2 years before I had to "put it down" due to a busted transmission that would cost more than the car was worth to replace. I still miss that car. ❤
For the car story. That joke would have been funny if it was a “haha just kidding, your car’s outside!” Yes, a BMW is not a car a 17 yr old should have, but the dad also MUST have known what was in his son’s head when he made that deal.
Ok, but if the toy car can't be plugged in and charged, then he actually didn't meet the specifications the son presented to him... and therefore, his "loop hole" is null. Maybe he should have found an X5 RC car
Sarah’s just badly playing checkers with the people in her life. Like she’s clearly not playing chess but doing the bare minimum to get attention and support
Sarahs parent wears the pants while ops parent is afraid of upsetting them. So instead of standing up for op they join in and support Sarah. I wouldn’t want to around parents that are biased like that.
I bought my first car at 18 with the social security payout of $6,000 when my dad died. He had severe untreated schizophrenia and I had never lived with him since the age of two since I got taken into foster care. I saw him on weekends and i now know, it shouldn't have been allowed but I'm grateful. I got to spend time with him and I was the only one in my family who didnt make fun of him or mock him when he spoke to the things he saw. I tried to protect him from the fake beings he saw and he actually cared about me and my interests. I look just like him as a female, it hurt to look into the mirror for awhile after his death but his death actually jumpstarted my life. I bought my first car, paid for my first apartment (first and last) fees and got a new bedding set. I bought a perfect old honda accord for 1,800 back in 2013. I gave it to my boyfriend (now husband) because I hate/hated driving as a reault of witnessing a close friends death in an accident. 10/10, I loved that honda. Still cant drive. 😅
Why are people judging the piano boy for living with a rich family. Just because he wanted a fancy car? He worked for it. His dad said he would give it to him. What does it matter that it’s a bit much for a seventeen year old? How’s a seventeen year old to decide that? His father is abusive.
Okay! Just because OP’s family has money, doesn’t mean he’s spoiled. Many kids who come from money actually live hellish lives, have their privilege rubbed in their face as a guilt tactic if they complain, have parents rich enough to get away with abuse and end up burning out early due to their unrealistic expectations that most people couldn’t handle. Just because they can always afford food doesn’t mean they’ll bother to feed you… and no one will believe you when you say they don’t.
No the day is the AH 100% I’m sorry but his kid wanted to do something else he made a deal with him if he stuck to that and didn’t give it up he would give him what he wanted his son worked for it he busted his ass for no im sure the kid probably had to bring home nothing less then a B and it’s clear the father doesn’t spoil him and that’s good but if the kid worked for it he earned it on top of the fact he showed responsibility he earned that and the father should have kept his word and just out rules on it for more safety measures
As questionable as the behaviour was in story 2, this is in part the price you pay for money for play (regardless if escorting, leeching or sugar daddying). Sad she felt herself compelled to do sex work and had no other intrinsic means of value creation. In any case the "family" is way over the line and while they can disagree with her past, she still has the right to be afforded basic human dignity.
I would call child protection service on my stephsister because if you are that crazy you should not raise a child. I hope the plumber gets full costudy of his child.
I really hate to say this but you cannot DNA test someone stool tell who it comes from, so there is no way that they can do that and there is no way he can ever sue this person there is absolutely no way you can tell one person stool from another person stool.
IM BUYING A CRANE TO LIFT THE PIANO AND DUMPING IT ON TOP OF THE FATHERS CAR PERIOD WITH A NOTE SAYING LIFE ISNT FAIR AND SEE IF THE FATHER IS WILLING TO PRESS CHARGES ON ME HIS SON !! LOL OR DISOWN MY FATHER PERIOD FOR LETS SAY A 5 YEARS OR A DECADE.
The MIL taking the finance aside to ask whether or not her partner is actually the father was just inappropriate you don't do that and FIL making a "joke" like that is disgusting, people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.
The piano guy’s dad motivated his son into being an amazing pianist lol NTA he’s keeping his son from being an entitled person. As a pianist myself it’s really difficult and takes a lot of hard work to get to that level and not everyone can. It takes real talent.
5:28 blood makes me related I would cut everyone off I want real proof if I don’t have that then no I will believe my partner because I know how good of liars ppl can be and I would never ever walk away from the man I love unless I have true solid proof of infidelity. I would also probably curse every last one of my so called family members off for believing a stupid chick they know is lying why they all seem to favor her is crazy to me 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
first off denying paternity test red flag one that she is lying cause she knows that baby isn’t his. He offered that from jump second blood make you related to some of your family while the rest is through marriage if I heard correctly cut everyone off love them from a distance until you have true proof you are staying with your man because he knows how crazy Sara is and I’m sure he wouldn’t even waste his time cheating with a nut bag.
I don’t think they dad and the kids is the a hole. Mostly because my dad totally has done this to me. I’m a bit spoiled but still humble. I ask my dad for a truck but instead he bought me a used kia Soul. I was still over the moon excited for having a car plus the thing is built like a tank (great for a 16 year old girl at the time) he even thought about the stereo system for me ❤️❤️ it’s the thought
You and your dad relationship is vastly different. You asked your father for a truck. He got you something different. That’s completely different than the sun here whose father offered him a car at his choosing so long as he finished out playing piano. If your father offered you a truck and they gave you a different vehicle, he offered you a truck and told you he would get the truck. Are you really trying to tell us in this conversation you would’ve been over the moon with not receiving the truck, even though he offered it to you, you didn’t ask he willingly offered it.? 😂😂😂 the son isn’t the ahole here because he’s willing to just use the money he saved up from work over the summer, so just buy his own car. And he’s doing that based off the principle of the fact that his father lied to him willingly. If his dad, I just said hey, if you do this deal, I will buy you you know a car I’ll give you money to buy a car. I’m sure that would be fine. But his father willingly let him pick a car that using his father agreed to this after he offered the deal. That means his dad is a liar, and if he’s willing to lie and manipulate his children to doing something and then laugh it up and want to give a consolation prize afterwards that’s a sign of being a bad parent 😅
Let us know who you think was the Biggest Most GAPING A Hole down below!
None of the OPs in this episode are the AHOLE and First! 😁
Bringing a human life into the world just to get back at an ex you cheated on seems pretty up there
Lol the cookie one was hilarious but definitely not the asshole my older brother would’ve done this shit to me so I get it and I have horrible timing like him too I would’ve done something similar not gonna lie but I don’t think it would’ve blown up this way we probably wouldn’t be able to stop laughing about though
The cookie cake story is really a story about terrible parents. The elder brother should not have been allowed to treat his brother like that. He shouldn’t have been permitted to touch his brother’s cookies. I seriously do not understand how a child would think to poop on another person’s gift
Not to mention the older brother thinks it's something bad enough to sue over and doesn't seem to realize then that he admitted to actually committing the act and therefore should be sued in turn.
And the grandpa, imagine baking the cookies with all his love and wait for his delightful reaction just to see him vomit because they smell like fart😢
were you an only child? that shit is pretty normal.
I honestly think the last one, OP doesn't sound that "spoiled". He is privileged, but he is able to recognize that and has worked for his spending money. He's even willing to spend money he earned from part time jobs he had before this bet with his did to buy the car instead of accepting it from his dad who is being a dick.
I think that OP has probably had his feelings shit down by his dad his whole life, and when you just want one person to do something that they promised for ONCE and you work your ass off to make it happen and they pull the same bs line they've used to make you feel stupid and small your whole life... You're gonna be upset.
If his dad was going to buy a used car for OP anyway, why not just lead with that? I'm sure OP would've accepted a nice used car with the same deal, but his dad CHOSE to crush his spirits instead. It wasn't a reasonable ask, but OP didn't ask it, his dad OFFERED only to turn around and shove it in OPs face.
Just to add context to the last story, the OP's sister got a either Lexus or Lincoln from the father. I forget, but it was a similarly priced car to OP's request for a BMW. So, it's more favoritism than OP being spoiled.
Edit: it was a Lexus
Also, wasnt OP 15 when he asked to quit piano and go do something else? When he passed, he was 17. That’s 2 years of his life, wasted to something he doesn’t love. 2 years he could have spent on finding something he loves to do. 2 years long he thought he would get “the car of his choice”, and 2 years long the father was just making a fool of him every time they talked about it. Heartbreaking
also , host making fun of him "$10k is'nt enough".. where did OP said it? these guys really put some false narratives sometimes.
@@reljapopovic I agree, it sounded like they want this to be a lighthearted joke but it sounds off putting that I had to pause the video and look for comments to see if someone noticed.
I 100% agree. OP is privliged, but he seems to understand that and no amount of privlige will make you a good piano player without practice. That takes some serious dedication. And getting a teenager to dedicate 2 years to this is incredible! Like shorter attention span, wanting to rebel - those are normal teenage years. And let's not forget 2 years for a 15 y.o. is a relatively big chunck of life.
Yes, life isn't fair, but shouldn't you as a parent want to make life as fair and as beautiful as possible for your kids? A no, I'm not talking about a BMW necessarily, but I do think sth is seriously wrong with OP's dad just from this loophole attitude. How about some praise for the kid?
Edit: Also, I agree, they didn't have to make fun of him like that. He acknowledged his privlige and he worked hard. No need to insult him.
The second story OP is totally justified. The brother deserved it and the way he projected onto OP was insane. The cookies thing is just awful and I’d even consider something going on psychologically
Ya like I don’t know how that’s funny. That’s some movie bully shit
😂 why is everyone's first assumption that a grown man would shit in a wedding cake!? I understand the brother, but everyone that believed the lie?!
RIGHT! Absolutely insane
@OKOP Show everyone on the wedding guest list in an asshole. OP could sue the brother for defamation!
That pregnant woman's response to the dad's and sibling's joke proves she is READY to be a parent! Good for you OP!!
Absolutely. That tactic will serve her well. Hats off, OP.
The car thing, I hope OP treats his father the way he was treated. Oh you want to be invited to the wedding, you gotta do X, Y and Z, and then he gets an invite to friend's wedding. Oh you want to meet the baby, brings a baby doll. This is not be a healthy relationship.
He didn’t hold a grudge. The psycho brother kept bringing it up for years.
The last story really irks me. This boy didn’t want to play the piano anymore. He wanted to do other things and explore other options. He decided not to that based off a deal. His father offered to him, and he fulfilled his part. He worked hard and was working and kept his grades up. Yet his dad willingly play the prank on him, and then said I’ll get you something else. The fact that this boy is willing to buy a car on his own with the money he saved up from working part time on principle. It literally means the father has went to far is the straw that broke the camels back it’s one thing to play Lil pranks on your kid is another thing to offer them something tell them they can get it, and agreed to everything smile in they face, and then willingly not do it. Because all that doesn’t prove that he can never trust his word. Like his dad is trash
For the Fourth story if I was OP, i would never trust my Dad again
Like OP just wanted to take up new hobbys, he didnt ask for a new car, The dad brought it up. So he sacrificed and worked really hard for it and the Dad just broke their end of the deal. Doesn't matter if it was a ridiculous gift, His dad suggested it and then broke his promise, in a way that seriously effected OPs life. Don't blame him for refusing the used Car, It would be letting the dad off the hook.
Yeah if the price was out of the question, the dad could have said "how about any car up to this price?" But no, let's make him waste two years for something he'll never actually get
Sarah is a text book narcissist. These people just always play victim and do insane stuff and always get sympathy. I worked with someone like that named Bianca, it was hell.
Not understand the stupid voices at the end mocking someone who is born into wealth but not handed everything as a kid??
I get it. For me, it was an Ashley.
She was and probably still is, diabolical, but no longer my personal problem as of 13 years ago. 😂
For the rich kid story. He fully understands that he is privileged, but has been saving his money, even getting summer jobs, so he can buy what he wants. His parents are raising him right in that sense, where if you want luxury, you have to earn it yourself. the kid doesn't seem that spoiled, privileged yes, but not spoiled. BOTH of his parents are the a**holes. When he wanted to stop piano to try other things, they convinced him to continue doing something he was no longer happy doing, just to receive a toy. His dad is destroying his relationship with his son because he is setting a precedent that his son will never be able to rely on or trust him ever. What happens if the son needs help paying for college, will he agree to pay, but back out saying you didn't specify which college to pay that money towards? Or what about when he gets married or has a kid? OP is 17 and already understands he can not rely on his father for the major moments in life. Getting your first car, which I am assuming it is, is a major moment in a teenager's life. The dad is acting like a 12-year-old in debate class.
Yeah son might as well sike them later by saying something like “I promised to sending you to a nursing home, but I didn’t say which one. And it’s not reasonable for me to pay for those top tier ones anyway.”
I hope the kid gets a car himself and refuses to let his father use it inan emergency and then ay "life isn't fair" when hisfather claims that his son is being unreasonable.
I really take issue with their representation of OP as spoiled when he is clearly very aware of his privilege and does not abuse it. He still puts in a lot of hard work!
Op should not let his parents get involved with his life & if they have an opinion he can say “I don’t care” & when the parents whine he can hit them with the “life isn’t fair”
Also if you see the full story it wasnt unreasonable at all for op to expect the bmw as the dad had bought his sister a lexus so the cost thing is a lie and its just favoritism and cruelty
Op isn't spoiled tho. He gets one piano and has to pay for everything by working himself. That is the opposite of spoiled
For the last story I would have looked at the dad and said “how dare you not honor our deal. You promised me a CAR not a TOY CAR. I chose this car because you didn’t set any other parameters for what I can choose. No price range or anything. If you want to buy me a used car then I’d rather you pay me the money that one is worth so I can use my savings and the money you give me to actually buy the car I want. Otherwise you’ll loose me as your daughter/son at 18 and I’ll never talk to you again”
For that second story. How to break up a couple in 10 words or less. OP is fine. That marriage was not that strong to begin with
This one is so unhindged. I've have dealt with manipulators and they are literally cancer. I suffer from PTSD now. And I'll never be the same 😂 while they'll forever be the same.
Literally, litteral? Meaning actually is, so they were cancer riddled?
I’m with you. I’m still not dating because my ex was such a manipulator. That, and because I’m still in love with him. Ya, I know, sad.
Yeah same. It sucks cuz the toxic people's comments will stick in your head for years, but they won't think about your words at all.
I have been a manipulator in the past due to substance issues, but definitely not to this degree, Sarah is absolutely insane, I would never speak to her or the parents again.
That isn’t a spoiled kid. In any way. The kid worked to pay for anything he wanted. The dad was a jerk.
If you SAY you’re going to do something and make a deal with your child, follow through. Don’t set them up, make them do a thing they don’t want to do instead of what they want to do and then screw them over.
Yes. I’d expect my parent to keep their end of a multi-year bargain that involves me sacrificing what I truly want because they want me to continue the very hard work of being good at something that I don’t even want to do anymore.
The dad is also giving the example that it’s okay to not honor your word and not be reliable. Good thing OP is smart enough to see how damaging that behavior is.
The story regarding the child whose dad keeps saying life isn't fair the father is definitely a hole the way he he speaks to his son and treats his son going back on his word he is going to cause psychologically long term issues for his son. The son is going to have a lot of trust issues when it comes to male relationships.
Their wealth doesn't matter it's how he psychologically treating his son that is an issue
Never apologize to in-laws when they are wrong or wrong you. If you apologize they will misbehave in the future. Put your in-laws in their place and keep them there. You can respect and care for others in a controlled manner without letting them get away with wrongful comments and actions.
Story 3: on the one hand... it could be dangerous to tell someone you were an escort (i was one for 3 years) BUT I am a firm believer in informed consent. I told my current partner on our second date so he could decide if he wanted to continue dating. I think that once things get more serious and/or you start sleeping with each other that conversation needs to happen.
The cookie story just makes me think that slow karma is the scariest and just accumulates.
For that first story, I genuinely hope the dad fights for full custody, and is able to use what she was doing to OP as evidence why she isn't mentally stable enough to raise a child. This woman was doing everything in her power to not only victimize herself, but set others up for failure, and didn't care that it was all a lie, and the child would one day suffer for it.
Just to add context to the last story, the OP's sister got a either Lexus or Lincoln from the father. I forget, but it was a similarly priced car to OP's request for a BMW. So, it's more favoritism than OP being spoiled.
If Tim is not the father, I say she should run away with Tim and never speak tonher family again.
17:02 honestly wouldn’t be surprised if OP did keep the grudge cause his brother was a MAJOR butthole always at any given chance to tell the story n tells it when OP is or isn’t in the room. He help his brother’s ex dodge the major poop marriage.
Cake Prank Brother is an idiot - he should never have left the wedding. He should’ve EATEN THE ENTIRE CAKE to prove his point 😂
Right
Story 1: Glad to hear the OP went no contact with the step-sister, but I do feel bad for their child and I hope the real father fights for custody. He is clearly more stable than the step-sister and openly admitted that he wants to be there for their child, meanwhile, the step-sister used the child as a pawn. The step-sister also clearly needs therapy or something.
Story 2: I feel so bad for the OP. This seemed like a case of miscommunication and missed social cues.
Story 3: Ooh hell no! That's just cringe. FIL is definitely the a-hole in this story and went way too far. The husband is also partially the a-hole for not defending the OP.
Story 4: The OP may sound like a spoiled brat, but the father was totally the a-hole because they were definitely manipulative.
The husband is definitely not the a-hole in story 3. He defended her in past instances and in this instance his wife spoke before he could. That's what she wrote.
@@emihleb2698 When people do not want to read the info given and blame all into some group of people, you can't do much
Everyone is worried about the marriage and the cake I wanna know if grandpa ever re made those cookies lol
Tim has done nothing wrong, nor has OP. She and Tim seems to make her happy. So I'd ignore the step-sister, and keep it going.
“Ruined a marriage”
No. Saved the bride.
My ex-husband/father of my boys is a gaslighting narcissist. It was so bad that he made me believe I was going insane. He also pushed my depression to the edge, I am glad I am still here (never tried to un-alive myself but thought about it often). I divorced him 10 years ago and spent a few years in therapy. I have never felt as good as I do now. The freedom from the narcissist is amazing and I would rather be alone than be with that master manipulator.
The last one pisses me off because OP actually doesn't seem spoiled, I'd have to learn more about him in his regular day to day life to understand completely. You can be poor and spoiled, rich doesn't automatically make you. Spoiled. The dad is just a plain old jerk. My parents did that to my family, but we're poor, they did it so we could joke to our friends we got a car for our 16th birthday and we could walk around with it in our pockets. His dad could've been very clear on it, and if you make a promise you keep to it. Loopholes, or not.
I had a similar experience. I broke up with a guy when we were 14, were both 25 today, and he's never got over this obsession he has with me. When I was 22 we slept together a few times and then I moved to another Province/State. I got engaged in this new place, and was so happy.
Then his new girlfriend who ive never even met started attacking me online, bc she found a nude of me on his phone sent from an instragram with my name? He doesn’t have any pics of me that he or I took, and i dont use Intagram. I asked how she knew it was me and she said he confirmed it was my body. I didn't know how this happened, so I admitted that I send pictures to a lot of people, and one of them probably made this account for shits and giggles. Even called myself a slut to try and make her feel less threatened.
She called me a liar and told me to leave her boyfriend alone and that he was over me, etc. I told her I didn't care about him, I hadn't spoken to him in months, and she was being unreasonable. So I cut contact with her and decided to talk to my ex to assure him it hadn't been me.
However, it didn't take me long to realize there was no Instagram or pictures. She made IT ALL UP as a way to get me to leave him alone. So I did, dropped them both since as i reminded her I DIDN'T EVEN LIKE THIS DUDE ANYMORE.
It was insane. Jealousy is scary.
WOW
The biggest a hole in the stepsister's story is actually OP's mom. How could she take the side of this woman who is practically a stranger that she did not raise, over her own goddamn daughter?! Yes, Sarah was an a hole but from the entire story it seems that she had always been a crayzee manipulator and a skank so her entire behavior is to be expected.
OP's mom failed in defending OP exactly for what, a woman who was already an adult when she married her father. She should to an extent treat Sarah as a stranger because mom has no idea of Sarah's character and behavior and whether this could have been a pattern when she was growing up. Again, she was not blood related to Sarah and she did not raise that woman. Sarah just happened to be a package deal she got for marrying her new husband, but mom's responsibility should always have been to her own daughter.
Mom could have shut that ish down from the beginning by taking her daughter's side, have a sit down with dad, OP, her fiancé and Sarah; in no uncertain terms she could just say wait until the baby is born and have a paternity test to get the proof. Whatever the DNA result, then they will act accordingly. If mom had put her foot down, Sarah would backtrack because she knows her lie will soon be found out.
Instead, mom takes Sarah's side with no evidence and put OP in a corner to defend herself and her future life with fiancé. It's like, DNA test had been around for several decades and if it's good enough for Law and Order, it should be good enough for regular civil cases.
The Mom is siding against her own daughter for the sake of her new husband.
yeah, your fiancé is never entitled to know anything about you. I mean you can say that in order to have a close relationship. You might tell your fiancé a lot of things, but if it’s something that was traumatic for you and embarrassing it’s up to you when you want to tell it. if you’re clean and not gonna give anything to your fiancé, then that’s all that matters. As of course, it was before you even knew them.
Tell the stepsister that she has to do a DNA test now or you going to get the court involved and she will have to do it anyway
I love these stories ect, but one thing about this story made me a bit ticked. It was when the somewhat rich OP was telling their story and was called a rich spoiled brat. Not everyone who is rich is a brat nor spoiled at times like he explained he earned money by working for it not from allowance (I’m not rich at all low class in fact so I’m not speaking from experience just what I’m listening to)
Parents like the last one is why I have trust issues.
He should have put a chocolate poo on his brothers plate.😂 Then it would have been specific to the brother.
I think the fact the brother s*it in the cookies is the effed up part.
Their dad is so proud of his beautiful, humble children. Their mother did a heck of a job going through the grief and still raising such phenomenal humans. 👏
Story 3 should do the worst "good apology" ever. Just "I'm so sorry FIL I understand the joke that you think I'm screwing everyone in the family." And if he pushes back just keep going "No I really get it it's real funny to say that I would cheat on my fiance/husband with his dad or uncles I mean I can't imagine a better joke."
My first car was a 2005 chevy cavalier. Bless its little metal heart ❤ The speedometer and gas gauge didn't work, and he'd "cough dirt" into your face from the air vents if you had "bad vibes" 😂😅 (or slammed on the gas petal too hard)
Wow the brother is over-reacting to what she said about the cake and his own guilt at having did what he did to her cookies is fuelling all this. This marriage was obviously not stable to begin with for this to crumble so quickly over what only days before at his bucks party with his mates was so funny. Absolute case of you can dish it out but can’t take it. The groom is a sook and whinger and the bride has had a lucky escape.
Here is what needs to happen with the cake story every time the brother tells this from on he gets hit in the head with a ball peen hammer I mean absolutely full-on hit in the head with a ball peen hammer.
It’s sad when parents don’t keep their promises. And there’re exceptions when parents promised but then something unexpected happened. And now their finances are not in a good state… But that rich daddy purposely mocked his son. That’s just idiotic.
no normal child thinks to poo on cookies and give it to the sibling. that kid should have been put in counseling and maybe his marriage would not have imploded the night of the wedding. also how is the car kid spoiled? He works for his own money, he keeps his grades up. Rich does not equal spoiled.
My dad did the car prank on my 16th birthday! I wasn't asking for a car, but my dad just got it so I can I got a "car" for my birthday. I still have the toy.
I would make an agreement with Tim to do a fake break up and get close to Sarah so I can get the dna and get the truth
My first car was my Great Grandpa's 66 Ford Mustang 😁 She's a big piece of work, but I absolutely love my Baby
If i had the money to buy my kid any car they wanted, i would have pulled this joke too, but immediately followed it with "ok in all seriousness, go look outside." Like this miniature car joke is only funny if you follow it up with the actual car, otherwise its just cruel.
The birthday cookies and wedding cake, I laughed so hard.
The brother who did a turd in the cookies ruined his own wedding cake and marriage.
Babies don't get birth certificate on day they're born, this was a troll post. Hospital submits docs and it gets mailed later.
We had my daughter's birth certificate 3 days after birth. About the quickest possible. 😂
Our hospitals gave a hospital "copy" with the babies foot prints and the parent's names and pretty fonts. I have them from four different hospitals. I also have mine from my birth and one of my sibling's. We are in the U.S.? Each hospital has a slightly different one but they are so precious! My thumbprints are also included.
In Portugal its different, you can register the child the next day, when you are still at the hospital and get the certificate straight away. For you to be discharge with your baby you have to present that on your way out 2x. 12y ago It was like this when I had mine.
It might be area dependent. Where I live it takes about a week more or less, but others have shorter or longer waiting times.
Just cos your parents are rich doesnt mean you're spoilt. Taken advantage of by his dad, working super hard at piano, buying himself treats from his own money, come on guys you're not being fair to him at all
Get the test and also screw the family because when she marries tim she will have a brand new family
Tbh the dad with the car pissed me off. It would be one thing if the dad just said he would get his son a car and he didn't get the car he wanted, but they had a deal that the father would provide him the car of his choice if he sacrificed several YEARS of his time and energy into something his dad wanted him to do. If that were me my father would never hear me play piano AGAIN
Edit: my first car was a black 2000 hyundai elantra that my neighbors gave me for free. Nothing wrong with a shitty used car, but these guys had a deal!
Something similar happened to me when I 1st moved back to Portland,. I made friends with a group of people and there was a guy in the group that liked me.
He pursued me but I could tell he was a little bit of a player so I wasn't interested, but since I was new in town I continue to hang out with him and his group of friends.
My cousin who had mooched off of /lived with me shortly in LA Started accusing me of going after her sloppy seconds. At the time we were both in our thirties but when she dated him it was basically high school and she was married with 4 kids and had been married and divorced once before. She started harassing me, and threatening me even turned her side of the family against me, including her children calling me wh*re / sl*t.
The funny thing is nothing really happened between me & that guy, though he tried to corner & kiss me a couple of times.
There was one picture of him with his arm over my shoulder and over another girls shoulder and giving us kisses on the cheek on his birthday, which sent her over the edge. It was pretty obvious that we were just friends, but she couldn't handle it.
The kicker was she will she was sneaking around talking to her ex boyfriend behind her husband's back and trying to blame me somehow because she tricked. Me into driving her to go meet up with him at his restaurant by offering me sushi to thank me for taking care of her daughter, I didn’t know it was her ex's business & I never got any sushi.
It's been over twelve years since we spoke, though I've run into her at events maybe once a year, and I am perfectly happy I never ever have to speak to that crazy woman again.
Rich kid aside, breaking a promise through loop holes is still breaking a promise. All that dude has done is make certain his kid never fully trusts a word that leaves his mouth.
Id never lie to my kid like that. If I had the means to buy my kid a new car and promised a new car, I would deliver. It wouldnt be their choice WHICH new car, because I'd be looking for the cheapest option, but you promise something to your child you have to deliver or youll break their trust. "Life isnt fair" isnt an argument you use on your own child, it's something the real world teaches them but home should be a safe place for them to exist.
The cookie story: his one sentence didn’t end their marriage, his brothers issues ended the marriage.
He didn’t break up a marriage he saved a nice lady from years of hell
My first car was a 2001 Honda Civic. Bought that car when I was 24 years old, with my own money that I earned from my own job. I LOVED that car, even with all its quirks, like the broken AC, the missing seat belts in the back, the chipped paint on the roof, and the lack of a key fob. Still loved it. Kept it for 2 years before I had to "put it down" due to a busted transmission that would cost more than the car was worth to replace. I still miss that car. ❤
IF SARAH WENT TO THE WEDDING ... YOU KNOW THAT DELULU WOULD TURN UP IN A BRIGHT RED DRESS 👻🌹😆
For the car story. That joke would have been funny if it was a “haha just kidding, your car’s outside!” Yes, a BMW is not a car a 17 yr old should have, but the dad also MUST have known what was in his son’s head when he made that deal.
My mother manuplates people into believing that she isn't a Karen.
The story2 make me feel like it just ‘a unstable relationship that need someone to blame’ kinda things Is it just me tho?
Yeah, Op was a scapegoat so the their doesn’t have to face any accountability for their actions.
@@LakinMae5 nice to know it wasn’t just me,hi and thank
(Sorry, I just feel extra lonely.)
Story 1: lawyer for paternity test and then restraining order.
Ok, but if the toy car can't be plugged in and charged, then he actually didn't meet the specifications the son presented to him... and therefore, his "loop hole" is null. Maybe he should have found an X5 RC car
Op of the $#!t cookies & wedding cake thing is not the a-hole. It just showed the true colors of his brother to his new wife.
Sarah’s just badly playing checkers with the people in her life. Like she’s clearly not playing chess but doing the bare minimum to get attention and support
Sarahs parent wears the pants while ops parent is afraid of upsetting them. So instead of standing up for op they join in and support Sarah. I wouldn’t want to around parents that are biased like that.
Just when I’m like man I need to get off RUclips for the day… I scroll upon an irresistible title 😂 well done
grandpa’s gourmet fart cookies 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Secret family recipe
I bought my first car at 18 with the social security payout of $6,000 when my dad died. He had severe untreated schizophrenia and I had never lived with him since the age of two since I got taken into foster care. I saw him on weekends and i now know, it shouldn't have been allowed but I'm grateful. I got to spend time with him and I was the only one in my family who didnt make fun of him or mock him when he spoke to the things he saw. I tried to protect him from the fake beings he saw and he actually cared about me and my interests. I look just like him as a female, it hurt to look into the mirror for awhile after his death but his death actually jumpstarted my life. I bought my first car, paid for my first apartment (first and last) fees and got a new bedding set. I bought a perfect old honda accord for 1,800 back in 2013. I gave it to my boyfriend (now husband) because I hate/hated driving as a reault of witnessing a close friends death in an accident. 10/10, I loved that honda. Still cant drive. 😅
I'm cutting everyone, but Tim.
7:16 if she has an SMI she could lose custody.
Why are people judging the piano boy for living with a rich family. Just because he wanted a fancy car? He worked for it. His dad said he would give it to him. What does it matter that it’s a bit much for a seventeen year old? How’s a seventeen year old to decide that? His father is abusive.
Okay! Just because OP’s family has money, doesn’t mean he’s spoiled. Many kids who come from money actually live hellish lives, have their privilege rubbed in their face as a guilt tactic if they complain, have parents rich enough to get away with abuse and end up burning out early due to their unrealistic expectations that most people couldn’t handle. Just because they can always afford food doesn’t mean they’ll bother to feed you… and no one will believe you when you say they don’t.
No the day is the AH 100% I’m sorry but his kid wanted to do something else he made a deal with him if he stuck to that and didn’t give it up he would give him what he wanted his son worked for it he busted his ass for no im sure the kid probably had to bring home nothing less then a B and it’s clear the father doesn’t spoil him and that’s good but if the kid worked for it he earned it on top of the fact he showed responsibility he earned that and the father should have kept his word and just out rules on it for more safety measures
Her boyfriend must be such a catch that Sarah ruined her life to see if she could get him back.. but that’s toxic
His brother sounds like a bully
Does Tim not kno what her parents thinkk
1st story, another final update crazy sister crashes wedding.
My one of my ex's is extremely good at gaslighting so i can relate on that.
I’m not sure if you want to hear about me being manipulated. It’s a lot and a lot of trauma.
First story, go scorched earth at this point we know wherevloyalties ly
Life isn’t fair… but you should be able to trust your parents.
Dads a dick
As questionable as the behaviour was in story 2, this is in part the price you pay for money for play (regardless if escorting, leeching or sugar daddying).
Sad she felt herself compelled to do sex work and had no other intrinsic means of value creation.
In any case the "family" is way over the line and while they can disagree with her past, she still has the right to be afforded basic human dignity.
that stank on it lmao
I would call child protection service on my stephsister because if you are that crazy you should not raise a child. I hope the plumber gets full costudy of his child.
JK, this man! I die for him! He is so freaking precious!!!
Also love you dave!!!
I really hate to say this but you cannot DNA test someone stool tell who it comes from, so there is no way that they can do that and there is no way he can ever sue this person there is absolutely no way you can tell one person stool from another person stool.
IM BUYING A CRANE TO LIFT THE PIANO AND DUMPING IT ON TOP OF THE FATHERS CAR PERIOD WITH A NOTE SAYING LIFE ISNT FAIR AND SEE IF THE FATHER IS WILLING TO PRESS CHARGES ON ME HIS SON !! LOL OR DISOWN MY FATHER PERIOD FOR LETS SAY A 5 YEARS OR A DECADE.
hahaha CLAP BACK!
Damn
The MIL taking the finance aside to ask whether or not her partner is actually the father was just inappropriate you don't do that and FIL making a "joke" like that is disgusting, people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.
I wouldn't want my son bringing home a sex worker either.
Court summoned paternity test
The piano guy’s dad motivated his son into being an amazing pianist lol NTA he’s keeping his son from being an entitled person. As a pianist myself it’s really difficult and takes a lot of hard work to get to that level and not everyone can. It takes real talent.
86 Ford tempo. it didn't have a/c but it would have lasted longer than other cars I have driven. i paid $300
5:28 blood makes me related I would cut everyone off I want real proof if I don’t have that then no I will believe my partner because I know how good of liars ppl can be and I would never ever walk away from the man I love unless I have true solid proof of infidelity. I would also probably curse every last one of my so called family members off for believing a stupid chick they know is lying why they all seem to favor her is crazy to me 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
first off denying paternity test red flag one that she is lying cause she knows that baby isn’t his. He offered that from jump second blood make you related to some of your family while the rest is through marriage if I heard correctly cut everyone off love them from a distance until you have true proof you are staying with your man because he knows how crazy Sara is and I’m sure he wouldn’t even waste his time cheating with a nut bag.
I don’t think they dad and the kids is the a hole. Mostly because my dad totally has done this to me. I’m a bit spoiled but still humble. I ask my dad for a truck but instead he bought me a used kia Soul. I was still over the moon excited for having a car plus the thing is built like a tank (great for a 16 year old girl at the time) he even thought about the stereo system for me ❤️❤️ it’s the thought
You and your dad relationship is vastly different. You asked your father for a truck. He got you something different. That’s completely different than the sun here whose father offered him a car at his choosing so long as he finished out playing piano. If your father offered you a truck and they gave you a different vehicle, he offered you a truck and told you he would get the truck. Are you really trying to tell us in this conversation you would’ve been over the moon with not receiving the truck, even though he offered it to you, you didn’t ask he willingly offered it.? 😂😂😂 the son isn’t the ahole here because he’s willing to just use the money he saved up from work over the summer, so just buy his own car. And he’s doing that based off the principle of the fact that his father lied to him willingly. If his dad, I just said hey, if you do this deal, I will buy you you know a car I’ll give you money to buy a car. I’m sure that would be fine. But his father willingly let him pick a car that using his father agreed to this after he offered the deal. That means his dad is a liar, and if he’s willing to lie and manipulate his children to doing something and then laugh it up and want to give a consolation prize afterwards that’s a sign of being a bad parent 😅