My lovely wife of died of a stroke after 41 years together & later I lost my beautiful daughter to cancer aged 34, its heartbreaking but I still see them in my dreams which is a comfort, God bless you always.
This video showed up in my feed and I randomly clicked it. Now I'm crying my eyes out for a woman and family I don't even know. Sending you my love and virtual hugs from the USA. You have a beautiful family, stay strong for them.
Me too I'm so touched by your video. That's life.. we have to accept that death would come when we least expect it. Just hold on to GOD's promise ...HE WILL NEVER LEAVE US NOR FORSAKE US😇♥️🙏
By uploading this video on the internet you have made your wife somewhat immortal. She will be grieved and prayed by countless generations and billions of people from all over the world till time immemorial.
@@tonynguyen7360 his video will be part of youtube history , just like how this video randomly got recommended for me , in the same way it will be for others too in the future. I still get recommended with videos which are as old as youtube itself.
@@tonynguyen7360 this video is going to garner a lot of clicks due to its very upsetting title + that’ll cause it to get recommended more, it’s not over-exaggerating, it’s highly likely. Especially as this video gets older.
@@randomaccount1840 it's over exaggerating, videos as old as youtube dont just generate billions of views randomly. when the algorithm completely drops a video because people arent clicking on it anymore it gets lost to time unless people specifically have a reason to look it up. also youtube is likely not going to be around long enough for old videos to just generate billions of views due to time. humanity probably wont even last that long.
Unlike many of the comments I'm just a 18 yr old college student but the appreciation and love you have for your wife is so beautiful. I never thought I would care about being married but your video made me hope that I find someone I love as much as you love your wife. Ive lost many family members to cancer and I know how hard it can be. F cancer May her soul rest in peace
As a 19 year old in college I feel exactly as you do friend. Hope there is still true love out there or people like them out in these modern and social media world
@@alicelee7410I really hope that God and the heavens continue to help me keep loving people and my environment. Hopefully one day I will have a loving partner.
53 is no age to die, my father did at 53 but that was 60 years ago, no one should die young these days. You were lucky to have her, very beautiful lady, l lost my son too and now i have no living family, but, life goes on.
Incredibly sad reading your comment sir. No parent should ever bury their own child. What a very cruel world, and may your son dwell peacefully in a better one
I am 16 years old and my father died 10 months ago. He was a great human. He was always honest and never made a lie. But soon I realised being sad is not an option I have to accept and move on. But I think about my grandparents who are still alive they've seen the death of their 3 adult sons and my father was 4th i just think about them and think how strong they are....
@@ZAXD775 You have your whole future ahead of you. Just follow your heart and work hard as you go through life. I’m sure it’s what your Father would have wanted.
My wife of exactly 34 years and 6 months passed away from stomach cancer in 2019. From the day of her diagnosis I realized we did not have much time together any more. It was the most heart wrenching time period of my life. I did not let her see me cry. I think she quietly cried when I was not looking. It broke my heart to see her undergoing chemo and the pain. She was gone after 9 months. I lost interest in everything. I went to a park and sat in my car alone for most of the days for over a year. It has been over 5 years but there has not been one day I did not think of her. I can totally relate to how you might feel after losing your beloved wife. I hope time can alleviate your pain somewhat. Life does go on.
A beautiful set of images. Having lost someone dear to me, I know how difficult can be as the life of the person is intertwined with the way one thinks and one enjoys the good moments and the beauty of the world and the way we face difficulties. I can see you have many beautiful moments, and I am sure that the urgency to cry will turn little by little into a smile, most of the time when you remember.
Hope you feel better. She would not want to see you in pain. Live life with joy and purpose for your children, family, yourself and for her. Best way to keep her memories alive. ❤❤❤
Dear sir, i lost my wife of 25 years in 2008, it's been 16 years and I still to this day when alone I think of her, I promised her that I will find again, never stop loving her and you will see her again, because true love is eternal.
I met my wife when she was 18 years old and I was 22. We have the same birthday. She is very beautiful, intelligent, and kind. She was a trained swimmer and plays many sports, has two master's degrees in engineering. She is also a good singer and dancer. She is my first girlfriend and I am her first boyfriend. she passed with cancer a year ago. it has been so painful, and it will continue this way forever. Time doesn't heal, and somehow the pain even gets worse as time continues to flow. I am thinking of her every second, every minutes deep in my mind, day and night.
Not sure why this was recommended to me, but just wanted to say you had such a beautiful partner. She looks like the kind of person that is gentle, loving, and caring. I hope you will continue to heal, and even though you never get over a loss, you eventually learn to live with it. She will always be by your side, and I hope you will cherish her memory until the very end.
i don’t know why this was recommended to some random teenage girl… but this video made me cry so hard and just go and love my parents. you appreciate something only when it’s gone :(
I did not plan on crying today. I wish my parents loved each other like this and I'd see my mom smile this much with dad. And I wish my marriage in the future will have such beautiful sweet love and adornment. I'm happy there's people loving each other genuinely out there
I'm really sorry that you have to go through this and carry this pain. No child deserves to grow up in a distanced family. It's never easy to look at your parents fighting. I hope for only the best for you and all your wishes coming true. Also I notice you have a Lain profile picture. It's great to see another fan of this series!
Unfortunately, many didn't meet the right person, I suffered a lot married to a man with NPD. It's over finally. Learn from your parents' sad marriage to find a better partner.
I'm not the type to leave comments like this. This beautiful memorial touched me deeply. I broke down in uncontrollable sobs - partly for your loss, partly for the loss of such a beautiful person, and partly in appreciation for what I do have. I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for the reminder to always cherish the time we have with our family. I will not forget this
It hit me the same way. It was such a special, beautiful tribute that I saved it. I will never forget this lovely lady, and the man who loves her so much.
Deeply sorry for your loss. My husband passed away at the age of 38 from Leukemia and was only hospitalized for 9 days. We have 2 beautiful daughters , time goes by and all the challenging times always make me stronger and wiser . There are blessings in disguise.
My father passed away suddenly when i was 14. I am 26 now but the emptyness i felt that day it never left, typing this with tears in my eyes. I hope you find peace. I'm sorry for your loss.
What a beautiful testimony for your wife. She had kind, happy eyes. You will see her again. Until then, enjoy this short life to the fullest with your children. Your loving wife would want that. When waves of grief hit focus on your breathing and analyze the properties of the grief. In doing so you will be able to step aside from the grief and become a "watcher of the grief" from your deeper self. Follow the breath. The grief will come. The grief will go. Peace to you and your family my friend.
My wife of 23 years died of lung cancer July 2024. Only one year from diagnosis. It was gene mutation. She went through a tough year, was a real fighter. Didn't even reach the chemo treatment. She always stayed positive. I truly understand your feeling, it feels so unfair. She looked after herself and lived healthy. Cancer is so mean. I am still coming to terms with the lose. I long to see my wife again in heaven. God bless, and stay strong.
@@mandybradley3079 We first received the bad news from doctor at Aug 2023. CT scan showed that there was a trace of metastatic cancer in the lung. Robotic surgery was performed at Oct 2023. It was a successful surgery and we thought it was the end of the nightmare. Follow-up scan at Dec showed that signs of cancer tumour still linger. Doctor said no more surgery, and target therapy drug was given yo my wife. The drug worked for a few months, then the cancer cell showed resistance to the drug, and the cancer cell was growing. She was scheduled to start chemotherapy at mid July, but didn't make it.
Mandybradley my late wife from diagnosis till her passing it was 4 months - cholangiocarcinoma. Surgery was attempted to remove her gallbladder but due to metastasis the surgery Team aborted the operation. I don't know what to recommend but I recently read that someone was cured by getting lots of sunshine even going buff, perhaps cut off EM radiation etc too
I always wished for a wife like you have had but alas I never found one. I feel your pain, but you have been very lucky, it is better to have loved than to never have loved at all. Rejoice and feel happy that you had such a wonderful wife for so many years because many people are not so lucky. Good luck my friend.
He did indeed love and he did indeed lose the love of his life. He is entitled to feel the way he does. Just because he was lucky to have found her, doesn't mean he isn't allowed to feel this sudden loss. Your feelings are not the same as his. Please do not dismiss his pain. Your view is a simple case of toxic positivity
I’m going to assume you weren’t trying to mean it that way but it feels like you’re trying to dismiss it because other people didn’t have it, like telling a depressed person that they should be happy because there’s starving kids in Africa
If you can read my comment, I'm a 23 year old living in Vietnam, I admire your love and wish that oneday i could find that special someone to live, laugh and cry like you did. You and your wife truly led a great life. I wish you and your family health, success and most of all peace, it will come with time, please stay strong. Sincere!
Mr. Hogo Ho, I believe your wife will choose you once again in the next life. You, your daughters and those around you ...May peace come to you as fast as it can.
Dear Hogo Ho; I watched the video with sorrow. I cried,. This remind me of my late wife, who had passed away due to cancer 8years ago. I understand how you feel now. I know the sadness you been. My late wife passed away in my arms. She tears in my arms when she left me. Not easy. She is in better place. It takes time to overcome this difficult time. Please stay strong for yourself and your family. Take care. David
My mother, also born in 1971, passed away in April of this year from vulvar cancer. Much like you, my father (along with my brother and I) are grieving heavily for our loss, wishing we could have her back for just a bit longer. I speak from a position similar, perhaps, to your children. I was just 24, and my brother 16, when she passed this spring, and our lives are going to be fundamentally different without her in the picture. Please look out for your children and help them through the long road they have ahead, especially the younger one. I hope you all are able to support each other through these impossibly tough times!
@@徐杰Xavier Very true. A loved one who has passed away, will not want you to be miserable because they are gone. They wish you would think of their memory and smile, not cry.
My husband and I celebrated our 40th anniversary this May and I never gave it much thought. After watching your beautiful tribute to your lovely wife I realised how fortunate we are. Wish you and your family much love & strength to forge forward with her blessing. 🙏🏻💫🤍
Sorry for your lost. I lost my son, 21 then just graduated from university exactly 10 years, all within a day. Saw him in the afternoon and by evening he was gone in his sleep. Unknown was the result from autopsy. The pain was unbearable but somehow 10 years has passed. God took my handsome smart boy with beautiful soul away. We learn to accept. You will accept too. Take care.
25 years ago I lost my father in a traffic accident. I still remember that day: we had lunch together, he went out for something in the afternoon and never come back. So I totally understand how painful losing a beloved person suddenly. Take care!
My sincerest condolences, dear Mr Hogo. This video was recommended to me a few minutes ago, at 4am, and I clicked on it randomly. Now I'm a 22-year-old man tearing up on my bed. Please take care of your family and yourself! I could only wish to find someone to love like that. My dad is a 1971'er too. This video has taught me to treasure every moment with my loved ones. Thank you so much for this video. 节哀顺变.
In life most painful thing is say goodbye to your loved one . Your beautiful wife beautiful memories will always on your mind . Hope she live well there and always let you meet her in dreams. All my best wishes to you and your family .
this was recommended to me by the youtube algorithm. i am with my wife and we have 3 children. watching your video just reminds me to treasure every moment and memory because we do not know when it will go away. this video is beautiful and a good way to tell the world what an amazing woman your wife was, and an amazing husband you are for keeping her memory alive.
Bro, only time can heal everything. My wife passed away three years ago after we shared the pain and joy of 28 journey together. I have gone through everything you said, it still hurts the guts after more than three years. still eating with tears, still sleep with tears, sleep sleep with the light on, still expect she show up all of sudden.still cannot believe she is gone. you need to be strong as I did for the sake of children. Our family broke earlier, but it cannot fall apart, it will not fall apart. We live less happier but we live stronger.
I am still struggling holding my heavy breath not to cry since im a man with a daughter and a wife. And from bunch of comments i read, there are similar more men like you. All my gratitutude and respect to you sir. You MUST hold on and live your life the happiest you could ever do with your children by your side. Because this the only thing that she ever wanted it from you in her last moment, knowing that people she left live happliy even without her. She knew it would be so incredibly hard for you and your beautiful children to live your life without her. Please I beg you, continue on living, THE BEST life you can! Oh God, My single tear just dropped from my right eye in this very moment typing this to you. I can assure you rarely cry, i even forget when the last time I cried. Sending so much love from me Sir. Again, continue on living with so mich joy for your children, eventhoigh its very hard.❤❤
Dear Hogo,Take good care of yourself and be strong for your children… Life is too short but your love and memories for her are eternal… always remember you are not alone… she is watching you on the other side of the veil… gently whispering to your ears and comforting you… smile my friend❤ Sending Love and hope from the Philippines 🇵🇭
my wife and i had been together since 2007..got married in 2012..she was diagnosed with end stage renal disease in 2019..she passed away in 2022..she would be 34 this year and now its just me and my daughter..stay strong brother..we have our children with us
I lost my father when I was 12 due to throat cancer. It's been five years and I'm 17 now I still feel the emptiness and I miss him every single day. I still get flashbacks of the day when I saw his body lying lifeless. The day before his death we were celebrating my sister's birthday and the next day I came to know that my father is no more.
She was as blessed to have you in her life as you were to have her in yours. My heart hurts for you, so I pray that you can be strong and supported through your grief. I hope that, in time, your family will be able to feel more warmth than sadness again. Love your girls twice as much for her too.
How absolutely blessed she would feel to have such a wonderful husband, who is still singing her praises, even as he waits to join her in heaven! What a lovely man you are; I hope life finds away to not erase your pain, but to make it more manageable so that you can continue to live your life.
Thank you - this is exactly how it feels. My husband passed yesterday, 33 years together. What I would do for just one more day with him. I feel like my heart has been ripped out. God Bless, stay well.
I came across your video, after watching it i felt the pain and the sadness you have to endure. I also lost a girlfriend of 10 years from cancer in 2010 and my mother from breast cancer in 1986, so take courage my brother and be strong for your daughters. Your video brought tears to my eyes because i don't wish the pain that i went through on no one, i know the sorrow u feel but with time and faith in God you will heal, God bless you and your two daughters my brother.
Man, I'm tearing up and I don't usually do that. A lovely tribute, and you took so many photographs... I hope these points in time will be places you can still go back to and cherish her memory.
Hi Hogo, my condolences to you and your family will be in my prayers. Truly a lovely tribute and a lovely wife you have. Continue to live life as there are still many goodness in it. Both you and wife, have 2 lovely daughters and your wife still live through them. I understand what you are going through. God bless
This is really very sad and relatable. I am 21 years old and I lost my mother last month (august 2024), she was diagnosed with acute myleoid lukemia(AML), She died after just 5 days of the diagnosis. The most heartbreaking part is that she was completely fine a few days before diagnosis. Even at hospital she was talking and laughing for the first 3 days. This is a Horrible disease.
Dear Hogo. You were truly blessed when you met this woman. Not many people are fortunate enough to share life with someone as special as she was. From your pictures of her and your description of your times together, it is obvious that she would wish for you to carry on, striving to be as happy as you can be in the years remaining to you. I share my deepest sympathies to you and your family.
My lovely wife of died of a stroke after 41 years together & later I lost my beautiful daughter to cancer aged 34, its heartbreaking but I still see them in my dreams which is a comfort, God bless you always.
My heart felt condolences
I wish upon you many nights filled with beautiful dreams.
my mother died this year. i really missed her
Sad to hear that. RIP 🙏🏻
She was beautiful mate.
This video showed up in my feed and I randomly clicked it. Now I'm crying my eyes out for a woman and family I don't even know. Sending you my love and virtual hugs from the USA. You have a beautiful family, stay strong for them.
Me too and I don’t normally. So sad
me too
Me too I'm so touched by your video. That's life.. we have to accept that death would come when we least expect it. Just hold on to GOD's promise ...HE WILL NEVER LEAVE US NOR FORSAKE US😇♥️🙏
Same here. Heartbroken for this man and his family.💔
Same here. I feel so bad for him. I'm heartbroken.
By uploading this video on the internet you have made your wife somewhat immortal. She will be grieved and prayed by countless generations and billions of people from all over the world till time immemorial.
Love this ❤
No offense but countless generations and billon of people is over exaggerating ❤🕊
@@tonynguyen7360 his video will be part of youtube history , just like how this video randomly got recommended for me , in the same way it will be for others too in the future. I still get recommended with videos which are as old as youtube itself.
@@tonynguyen7360 this video is going to garner a lot of clicks due to its very upsetting title + that’ll cause it to get recommended more, it’s not over-exaggerating, it’s highly likely. Especially as this video gets older.
@@randomaccount1840 it's over exaggerating, videos as old as youtube dont just generate billions of views randomly. when the algorithm completely drops a video because people arent clicking on it anymore it gets lost to time unless people specifically have a reason to look it up.
also youtube is likely not going to be around long enough for old videos to just generate billions of views due to time. humanity probably wont even last that long.
打了很多字想要安慰您，但还是都删了，千言万语在您和您夫人的感情面前都是苍白的。谢谢您，让我一个未婚的人更相信爱情了。“庭有枇杷树，吾妻死之年所手植也，今已亭亭如盖矣。”
Unlike many of the comments I'm just a 18 yr old college student but the appreciation and love you have for your wife is so beautiful. I never thought I would care about being married but your video made me hope that I find someone I love as much as you love your wife. Ive lost many family members to cancer and I know how hard it can be. F cancer
May her soul rest in peace
As a 19 year old in college I feel exactly as you do friend. Hope there is still true love out there or people like them out in these modern and social media world
God wants people to be married for life. It is a beautiful and very special bond.
@@alicelee7410I really hope that God and the heavens continue to help me keep loving people and my environment. Hopefully one day I will have a loving partner.
me too! it’s so touching and heartbreaking how strongly people can connect 😭
Pls don't forget your own yearly cheackup as this maybe a heredity disease! So, don't take any chance and always do the necessary checkup!
53 is no age to die, my father did at 53 but that was 60 years ago, no one should die young these days. You were lucky to have her, very beautiful lady, l lost my son too and now i have no living family, but, life goes on.
Incredibly sad reading your comment sir.
No parent should ever bury their own child.
What a very cruel world,
and may your son dwell peacefully in a better one
Ikr so young 😢😢😢.Goodluck.You still have your daughters
May you continue to live on in the loving wishes of your father and son.
I am 16 years old and my father died 10 months ago. He was a great human. He was always honest and never made a lie. But soon I realised being sad is not an option I have to accept and move on. But I think about my grandparents who are still alive they've seen the death of their 3 adult sons and my father was 4th i just think about them and think how strong they are....
@@ZAXD775 You have your whole future ahead of you. Just follow your heart and work hard as you go through life. I’m sure it’s what your Father would have wanted.
My wife of exactly 34 years and 6 months passed away from stomach cancer in 2019. From the day of her diagnosis I realized we did not have much time together any more. It was the most heart wrenching time period of my life. I did not let her see me cry. I think she quietly cried when I was not looking. It broke my heart to see her undergoing chemo and the pain. She was gone after 9 months. I lost interest in everything. I went to a park and sat in my car alone for most of the days for over a year. It has been over 5 years but there has not been one day I did not think of her. I can totally relate to how you might feel after losing your beloved wife. I hope time can alleviate your pain somewhat. Life does go on.
I know it has been 5 yrs already but my condolences to you.
Do you have any kids ?
i would accept your slap on my cheeks after you read my heartfelt suggestion to you, "move on to make her happy."
A beautiful set of images. Having lost someone dear to me, I know how difficult can be as the life of the person is intertwined with the way one thinks and one enjoys the good moments and the beauty of the world and the way we face difficulties. I can see you have many beautiful moments, and I am sure that the urgency to cry will turn little by little into a smile, most of the time when you remember.
Hope you feel better. She would not want to see you in pain. Live life with joy and purpose for your children, family, yourself and for her. Best way to keep her memories alive. ❤❤❤
It is so hard... may you find new meaning to fill and move on. You can. She is already in good place waiting to see you happy.
看到尊夫人陽光燦爛的笑容，很難相信他突然生病離世，願上帝安慰您與全家
我的妻子也因白血病，在8月22日 離開了我和兩個女兒，願你我都能渡過這低潮⋯⋯
希望你和家人能早日遠離喪親之痛！
請節哀 😢 、請保重、請加油
為了女兒們 , 請一定一定要好好照顧自己 , 加油 !!
加油 好好活著 儘可能讓此次輪迴沒有遺憾
要節哀保重
我是路過的網民，看了你對妻子那深深的愛意，覺得很感動，希望你和你的親朋好友都能夠好好的保重。你們都很幸福，在這一世都有好好珍惜對方，也很清楚彼此相愛的心情，真的已經很棒了。有些人一輩子都遇不到對的人。
Me too...............
❤
R.I.P. 😭😭💔💔
Sending love from Australia
hello!
YOOO IM A HUGE FAN
same 💕
new vids pls xd
Look guys its that guy that makes slop content obsessing over everyone !1!111!
he has so many pictures of her, he truly saw her as beautiful and he loved her.
man this got me
Wanted to see some pictures with both of them together. Most of them were her alone or with her whole family
@@simbadooo9055 I'm crying right now! I never got to love a wife like that, I was divorced in 3 short years....I had fatal attraction problem.
Dear sir, i lost my wife of 25 years in 2008, it's been 16 years and I still to this day when alone I think of her, I promised her that I will find again, never stop loving her and you will see her again, because true love is eternal.
I am sorry. Rest in peace sending virtual support.
lead a good life gentleman
Damn…I was born in 2008, it sucks to know that people can experience such pain in what to me seems like such a long time
@@IHEARTCOQUETTECLOTHES.777 yes
I wasn't going to cry until I read "we fell in love at age 18 and spent 36 years together." Your love is beautiful.
我本要自殺，受燥鬱2型的重鬱，影響生活，是你們的愛感動了我，謝謝您。你們是大菩薩
不要自杀，人生在于体验和经历，即便你 不愿意经历这些， 用我同事的话说 打碎牙往肚子里吞，we have to suck it up
Take care brother
上帝的慈愛，勝過發怒
好死不如賴活，螻蟻尚且偷生，雖是老生常談，加油
人生不過短短幾十年，沿途的風景要好好欣賞，不必執著，沒有甚麼是屬於或者不屬於我們的，一天開心一天過就好
妳老婆真的美
I met my wife when she was 18 years old and I was 22. We have the same birthday. She is very beautiful, intelligent, and kind. She was a trained swimmer and plays many sports, has two master's degrees in engineering. She is also a good singer and dancer. She is my first girlfriend and I am her first boyfriend. she passed with cancer a year ago. it has been so painful, and it will continue this way forever. Time doesn't heal, and somehow the pain even gets worse as time continues to flow. I am thinking of her every second, every minutes deep in my mind, day and night.
My condolences 😔🙏
Your wife will always with you.She is definitely very happy there.Because of your love towards her
( My English is not good,sorry)
I am really sad hearing your story 😭😭😭😭😭😭
You should also make a documentary of your wife like this in the video
TO LVE FOR HER
@@mz1651 where are you from?
Not sure why this was recommended to me, but just wanted to say you had such a beautiful partner. She looks like the kind of person that is gentle, loving, and caring. I hope you will continue to heal, and even though you never get over a loss, you eventually learn to live with it. She will always be by your side, and I hope you will cherish her memory until the very end.
i don’t know why this was recommended to some random teenage girl… but this video made me cry so hard and just go and love my parents. you appreciate something only when it’s gone :(
It's just the cosmos reminding you to see life as the precious thing that it is. Not doing so is a mistake that many young people make.
您的故事配上這悲愴的音樂，為您同悲，加油！
本來沒有想打開這影片，但打開後只覺得你老婆好美好美，你們一同去過世界好多地方、做過好多事，每一張照片都笑得燦爛。
好感動!!
不要站在我的墳前哭泣，
我不在那裡，我沒有沉睡。
我是千縷微風吹，
是輕輕的飄雪，
是柔柔的落雨，
是成畦的吐穗。
我是早晨的靜謐，
是優雅的疾飛，
是群鳥的迴旋，
是夜晚的星辰。
我在花朵的盛開裡，
我在安靜的房間裡，
我在鳥兒的鳴唱裡，
我在可愛的事物裡。
不要站在我的墳前悵望，
我不在那裡，我沒有離去。
Mary Elizabeth Frye，1905-2004
落淚了~
這是我選給爸爸安息禮拜上的詩, 你的愛妻在天堂看著你和女兒!
Love❤
99歲，牛逼
感動
I did not plan on crying today. I wish my parents loved each other like this and I'd see my mom smile this much with dad. And I wish my marriage in the future will have such beautiful sweet love and adornment. I'm happy there's people loving each other genuinely out there
I'm really sorry that you have to go through this and carry this pain. No child deserves to grow up in a distanced family. It's never easy to look at your parents fighting. I hope for only the best for you and all your wishes coming true. Also I notice you have a Lain profile picture. It's great to see another fan of this series!
@@Asteria_celest 祝福你平安健康喜樂順心富足，你好孝順，有一個很美的心，祝福你的父母越來越相愛。
How are they distanced ?
Is it what I think it is ?
Unfortunately, many didn't meet the right person, I suffered a lot married to a man with NPD. It's over finally. Learn from your parents' sad marriage to find a better partner.
問世間情為何物，直叫人生死相許。瞬間失去一生摯愛的伴侶，一定是痛徹心斐，肝腸寸斷。而人生最痛苦的就是生離死別，但真心愛過，就沒有遺憾了。
尊夫人在天化為天使，她一定希望你能堅強走下去，一雙兒女也需要父親的愛。希望你能堅強下去!
I'm not the type to leave comments like this. This beautiful memorial touched me deeply. I broke down in uncontrollable sobs - partly for your loss, partly for the loss of such a beautiful person, and partly in appreciation for what I do have. I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for the reminder to always cherish the time we have with our family. I will not forget this
Deeply deeply feel your pain and the pain it gave me. So so sorry.
It hit me the same way. It was such a special, beautiful tribute that I saved it. I will never forget this lovely lady, and the man who loves her so much.
Deeply sorry for your loss. My husband passed away at the age of 38 from Leukemia and was only hospitalized for 9 days. We have 2 beautiful daughters , time goes by and all the challenging times always make me stronger and wiser . There are blessings in disguise.
My father passed away suddenly when i was 14. I am 26 now but the emptyness i felt that day it never left, typing this with tears in my eyes. I hope you find peace. I'm sorry for your loss.
i am so sorry. God bless you. what you must have been through is so heartbreaking i am truly sorry. Bless his soul. rest assured he is at peace now x
What a beautiful testimony for your wife. She had kind, happy eyes. You will see her again. Until then, enjoy this short life to the fullest with your children. Your loving wife would want that. When waves of grief hit focus on your breathing and analyze the properties of the grief. In doing so you will be able to step aside from the grief and become a "watcher of the grief" from your deeper self. Follow the breath. The grief will come. The grief will go. Peace to you and your family my friend.
非常感謝您用心分享，珍貴分享救人一命，足以讓大家在第一時間察覺身體出現異狀儘早就醫。我同事的女兒26歲，台大外文系畢業不久，在準備出國深造當下，一次偶然高燒不退進了急診，接下來所有發生的病症與您的太太『一模一樣』，一位等待展翅高飛的年輕女孩就此告別這個世界…….。看了您的留言感同身受、看完影片潸然淚下，縱然不是當事人，心裡依然倍感不捨，希望您能夠隨著時間流逝慢慢撫平您脆弱的心靈，日子還是得過下去真心祝福您！
My wife of 23 years died of lung cancer July 2024. Only one year from diagnosis. It was gene mutation. She went through a tough year, was a real fighter. Didn't even reach the chemo treatment.
She always stayed positive.
I truly understand your feeling, it feels so unfair. She looked after herself and lived healthy. Cancer is so mean.
I am still coming to terms with the lose. I long to see my wife again in heaven.
God bless, and stay strong.
Sorry, what did she have done.
I have just been diagnosed with. Choosing no treatment right now. Don’t know why this came on my feed today.
@@mandybradley3079 He stated that it was lung cancer
@@mandybradley3079 We first received the bad news from doctor at Aug 2023. CT scan showed that there was a trace of metastatic cancer in the lung. Robotic surgery was performed at Oct 2023. It was a successful surgery and we thought it was the end of the nightmare.
Follow-up scan at Dec showed that signs of cancer tumour still linger.
Doctor said no more surgery, and target therapy drug was given yo my wife.
The drug worked for a few months, then the cancer cell showed resistance to the drug, and the cancer cell was growing.
She was scheduled to start chemotherapy at mid July, but didn't make it.
@@mandybradley3079 oh god i am scared i have been feeling something on my neck throat...
Mandybradley my late wife from diagnosis till her passing it was 4 months - cholangiocarcinoma. Surgery was attempted to remove her gallbladder but due to metastasis the surgery Team aborted the operation. I don't know what to recommend but I recently read that someone was cured by getting lots of sunshine even going buff, perhaps cut off EM radiation etc too
Can't imagine the pain and grief. Thank you for sharing her memory. Married 37 years myself.
I cried so much while watching this.... Made me realize that true love still exists in today's life🥺
被你的影片和文字感動到了，很久沒有為陌生人哭泣，願你的妻子安息，願你一生平安快樂
I always wished for a wife like you have had but alas I never found one. I feel your pain, but you have been very lucky, it is better to have loved than to never have loved at all. Rejoice and feel happy that you had such a wonderful wife for so many years because many people are not so lucky. Good luck my friend.
You have the same point of view with mine that I left the comments here in Chinese a week ago. I can't agree with you more.
Yes, better to have loved than not
He did indeed love and he did indeed lose the love of his life. He is entitled to feel the way he does. Just because he was lucky to have found her, doesn't mean he isn't allowed to feel this sudden loss. Your feelings are not the same as his. Please do not dismiss his pain. Your view is a simple case of toxic positivity
I’m going to assume you weren’t trying to mean it that way but it feels like you’re trying to dismiss it because other people didn’t have it, like telling a depressed person that they should be happy because there’s starving kids in Africa
I agree with you hundred percent, he's a lucky guy
周蓓珍是我靜心小學五六年級同班同學，畢業後再也沒聯絡過。
神奇的演算法把這則影片帶到我面前。
願安息。
这么巧合！
邊度“静心小學”？香港？台灣？
@@鍾九道 台北市
我估台灣人，有支持台灣隊，用繁體字@@鍾九道
@@鍾九道台灣台北
我的女儿2020年4月突然在异国他乡被人杀害，年仅21岁半!
做父母的我们4年多走过震惊，惊吓，悲伤，深深自责，羞愧，忧郁，时间带我们慢慢回到正常世界
但生活工作中的大小事件，像大小锋利的石块仍然不时割开我们的伤口，
石块总是会落在心灵的口袋，重量和锋利可能不会减少，但时间会让口袋越来越有韧性，，，
作为幸存者，继续活下去，
我實在很難想像 你會有多難過。但千萬不要自責。父母不可能 也不應該隨時 呵護子女身邊何況他們成年已後。 這種傷痛 也只有時間才能癒療。
這種痛太難承受了！祝福你們跟天國的女兒。
日子還是要過下去,願你很快能從傷痛中走出來
@@alicedupont6761 看了真是難過，希望她RIP, 你們父母早日脱離痛苦。
Sending lots of light to you and your daughter.
If you can read my comment, I'm a 23 year old living in Vietnam, I admire your love and wish that oneday i could find that special someone to live, laugh and cry like you did. You and your wife truly led a great life. I wish you and your family health, success and most of all peace, it will come with time, please stay strong. Sincere!
我先生也是突然白血病住院半個月就走了，八年了，我跟孩子都好好的活著，感覺只有時間才能治療，祝福你，太太在的時候看起來過得很幸福，也是一個圓滿了！
您是个伟大的母亲
Mr. Hogo Ho, I believe your wife will choose you once again in the next life. You, your daughters and those around you ...May peace come to you as fast as it can.
太太真的好美好美
可以體會失去愛人的痛😢
希望你能好好照顧自己跟孩子
Dear Hogo Ho; I watched the video with sorrow. I cried,. This remind me of my late wife, who had passed away due to cancer 8years ago. I understand how you feel now. I know the sadness you been. My late wife passed away in my arms. She tears in my arms when she left me.
Not easy. She is in better place. It takes time to overcome this difficult time. Please stay strong for yourself and your family. Take care. David
❤
You can contact me anytime 24/7
My mother, also born in 1971, passed away in April of this year from vulvar cancer. Much like you, my father (along with my brother and I) are grieving heavily for our loss, wishing we could have her back for just a bit longer. I speak from a position similar, perhaps, to your children. I was just 24, and my brother 16, when she passed this spring, and our lives are going to be fundamentally different without her in the picture. Please look out for your children and help them through the long road they have ahead, especially the younger one. I hope you all are able to support each other through these impossibly tough times!
It's happened to us like you without mother is like missing something
您好我是路過網民，無意之中得見此影片，深深感受到你們夫妻的伉儷情深，非常動容與感動。面對這麼突然且急速的天人永隔相信你一定很心痛與哀戚，還是要請您接哀與多保重自己，雖然這期間一定會常常忍不住難過哭泣，想哭就好好哭，但別忘了幫自己設定個期限喔，開始慢慢減少悲傷次數，還有你們愛的小孩您的家庭家庭需要您，加油
祝福你早日走出低潮，相信你把自己過好 ，太太在天堂上一定會很開心的 願你平安順心，一切都好
妳未曾經歷過, 妳不會明白的...這樣的悲痛, 在人生中, 絕對不會有期限
@@yipsusan504 但也必须走出来，把爱埋在心底。如果我去世了，我不会希望我的太太每天都沉浸在悲伤中，甚至忘了我，只要她之后能过得好，都可以。
@@徐杰Xavier Very true. A loved one who has passed away, will not want you to be miserable because they are gone. They wish you would think of their memory and smile, not cry.
夫人永遠都像朵盛開的花，好美麗啊
雖然不認識你，但從影片能感受到你的哀傷遺憾，不能為您做些什麼，只能請你保重、為你加油了
無意中看到這影片，3:40秒的影片，完全能感受到您對她的思念及滿滿的愛。即使只有36年，但這愛包圍著你們全家，您的她只是已另外一個形式離開，當天使去了。我閉上雙眼，去感受背景音樂，我的眼淚也不自覺地流了下來。一家四口很簡單卻很深的愛。
My husband and I celebrated our 40th anniversary this May and I never gave it much thought. After watching your beautiful tribute to your lovely wife I realised how fortunate we are. Wish you and your family much love & strength to forge forward with her blessing. 🙏🏻💫🤍
I feel the same after 32 years with my wife. Cannot imagine life without her.
We just celebrated our 40th anniversary as well on May 5, 2024. Congrats to you and may God bless you both.
@@fuguf1sh Oh we celebrated 1st May! Many more years of health and happiness to you both too! 💖
你的妻子是幸福的。她現在在天堂上守護着你和你的家人們🙏🏻 為了愛的人 要堅強下去 祝福你🙏🏻❤️
Sorry for your lost. I lost my son, 21 then just graduated from university exactly 10 years, all within a day. Saw him in the afternoon and by evening he was gone in his sleep. Unknown was the result from autopsy. The pain was unbearable but somehow 10 years has passed. God took my handsome smart boy with beautiful soul away. We learn to accept. You will accept too. Take care.
25 years ago I lost my father in a traffic accident. I still remember that day: we had lunch together, he went out for something in the afternoon and never come back. So I totally understand how painful losing a beloved person suddenly. Take care!
God bless and take care❤
Challenges are What Make Life Interesting and Overcoming Them is What Makes Life Meaningful.
I can not imagine sir.
How very cruel this world can be.
My heart is broken.
May your boy rest in peace, and may you meet him again.
她是散發著光彩的女子，雖然她已遠去，但這光卻永遠不會消失，因為她是受人愛戴，被人所惦記著的。
人究竟什麼時候會死？當世人所遺忘的時候。
她的笑容與樓主的思念，著實感動了我
My sincerest condolences, dear Mr Hogo. This video was recommended to me a few minutes ago, at 4am, and I clicked on it randomly. Now I'm a 22-year-old man tearing up on my bed. Please take care of your family and yourself! I could only wish to find someone to love like that. My dad is a 1971'er too. This video has taught me to treasure every moment with my loved ones. Thank you so much for this video. 节哀顺变.
In life most painful thing is say goodbye to your loved one . Your beautiful wife beautiful memories will always on your mind . Hope she live well there and always let you meet her in dreams. All my best wishes to you and your family .
只是陌生的網民，無意之中得見此影片，能從中感受到您對夫人的愛，備受感動，請您好好保重
單憑影片已能感受到令夫人的善良與溫柔，能有此佳人相伴，實在福氣，
但世事竟如此，實在令人扼腕痛惜
this was recommended to me by the youtube algorithm. i am with my wife and we have 3 children. watching your video just reminds me to treasure every moment and memory because we do not know when it will go away.
this video is beautiful and a good way to tell the world what an amazing woman your wife was, and an amazing husband you are for keeping her memory alive.
演算法帶我來這裡。 妻子好美是仙女下凡。 祂回天上去了。 先生繼續修行。你們一定會再相遇的❤
No words can ease your pain sir.....im so sorry.....thinking of you...
你打的每一字 跟我現在的心情完全一模一樣 我和太太從15歲認識 至今32年 我太太2019確診肺腺癌 她的身心靈努力奮戰四年多 於2023/10月離開了我和兩個女兒 有多少愛 現在就是雙倍的痛苦 為了孩子 我們只能努力帶著悲傷繼續苟活 加油
人生最大的痛是失去至親摯愛之人
但你過得不好，你的愛人在他方也無法放心走不開；把你和你愛人的愛傳承下去⋯⋯把女兒和自己顧好，相信有一天 在天上會再見的。
我也剛失去媽媽，我能體會….
師父說：在凡間的我；多做功德迴向給親人趁我還有肉體，有日ㄧ定在天上相聚…..🙏
生老病死，是人生必經，只有愛能跨越生死。不必逼自己刻意走出，時間會療癒傷口。你終將會和你心愛太太在另一個世界重遇。
不是苟活是帶著他對你的期望加倍精彩活下去
對，悲傷是必然也難免，但為了孩子，也請你們展現出勇敢，與愛給你們的子女，他們的心智沒有我們成熟，他們還有好長的路要走，請保重自己，也保護兒女，祝福你們，加油❤️
有這麼一位美好的妻子, 你和她相愛相守36年, 她走了, 你很悲傷, 但你曾深愛過妻子, 你的人生並沒有虛度. 請多保重, 相信有一天你們會在天國重逢. 祝福你！
您的妻子並沒有離開，她永遠存在在您心裡，她現在在沒有病痛的天堂
希望您能好好的照顧自己和兩個女兒，你是一位好父親，也是一位好丈夫
加油！
看得出來您太太是很好的人，我邊看影片邊難過，願她安息。其實我很羨慕您此生有遇到相知相守36載的好伴侶，你們互相陪伴一起體驗人生的各個階段，這36年來有一位好女友好妻子好太太陪著，這是何等幸福，跟我比起來我幼時喪母，幾年前父親過世，除了坐實成人孤兒的位置，一個人吃飯的日子也是差不多30多年，好羨慕你們的幸福，滿滿幸福。
Bro, only time can heal everything. My wife passed away three years ago after we shared the pain and joy of 28 journey together. I have gone through everything you said, it still hurts the guts after more than three years. still eating with tears, still sleep with tears, sleep sleep with the light on, still expect she show up all of sudden.still cannot believe she is gone. you need to be strong as I did for the sake of children. Our family broke earlier, but it cannot fall apart, it will not fall apart. We live less happier but we live stronger.
I'm so sorry for your loss. That is unimaginable pain. I hope for healing for you and your family.
It is exactly happened to me since my wife left me on December 5 2023 from brain cancer. I still feel exactly like you till this day. God bless you.
夫人氣質典雅、陽光，熱愛棒球運動。一切發生太突然，令人措手不及。痛失摯愛能感同身受，但請您要堅強，還有兩個貼心的女兒陪伴您繼續向前行
目前老婆也在安寧病房，抗癌開始也超過三年了，很能感同身受，我也是兩個千金~一起加油吧!
人生無常, 珍惜當下, 我們每個人都會經歷這個過程. 加油❤
加油
一定要加油~要堅強~~~
She is very lucky to have you. She will be the ANGEL around you
I am still struggling holding my heavy breath not to cry since im a man with a daughter and a wife.
And from bunch of comments i read, there are similar more men like you.
All my gratitutude and respect to you sir.
You MUST hold on and live your life the happiest you could ever do with your children by your side.
Because this the only thing that she ever wanted it from you in her last moment, knowing that people she left live happliy even without her.
She knew it would be so incredibly hard for you and your beautiful children to live your life without her.
Please I beg you, continue on living, THE BEST life you can!
Oh God,
My single tear just dropped from my right eye in this very moment typing this to you.
I can assure you rarely cry, i even forget when the last time I cried.
Sending so much love from me Sir.
Again, continue on living with so mich joy for your children, eventhoigh its very hard.❤❤
大哥 晚上睡前看到影片
目前的我29歲 也即將步入婚姻
你跟太太真摯的愛情讓人好感動。
在她生前你們用心對待彼此，我相信姊姊一定也是無掛礙，有你這個好老公她也很幸福😊
Dear Hogo,Take good care of yourself and be strong for your children… Life is too short but your love and memories for her are eternal… always remember you are not alone… she is watching you on the other side of the veil… gently whispering to your ears and comforting you… smile my friend❤
Sending Love and hope from the Philippines 🇵🇭
加油
my wife and i had been together since 2007..got married in 2012..she was diagnosed with end stage renal disease in 2019..she passed away in 2022..she would be 34 this year and now its just me and my daughter..stay strong brother..we have our children with us
💔
I lost my father when I was 12 due to throat cancer. It's been five years and I'm 17 now I still feel the emptiness and I miss him every single day. I still get flashbacks of the day when I saw his body lying lifeless. The day before his death we were celebrating my sister's birthday and the next day I came to know that my father is no more.
她給了你2個寶貝、你要堅強
無意間看到你的視頻
只想跟你說、她跟你的緣份就只有這樣
慶幸她沒有痛太久、她就睡著了走了、她可能很有福報
下輩子、你們有緣會再相遇
她只是去旅行而已
生老病死是每個人都無法躲避的過程，美麗的樂章也總是會有結束的時刻，雖然都會有道別，但也有個美麗快樂時光，把它永遠記住！
短短幾分鍾讓我哭得亂七八糟的😢可以感受到你對你妻子濃濃的愛意，我想她這輩子很值得，沒有白來人間。
She was as blessed to have you in her life as you were to have her in yours.
My heart hurts for you, so I pray that you can be strong and supported through your grief.
I hope that, in time, your family will be able to feel more warmth than sadness again.
Love your girls twice as much for her too.
45歲我是急性白血症M3型，我是幸運苟存下來已經5年。只是沒有像你的妻子一樣，有個深情款款的另一半。當時在醫院便見識到久病不是無孝子，而是無另一半。 不管如何我也是挺過來了！ 就是同樣患者的心情，只能勸戒你，痛苦的前行向前看吧！當時我放不下的是孩子，所以照顧好家人應該是她心中所願。
加油你還有2個孩子他們是你的責任勇敢的向前走加油
我的太太因為卵巢癌於去年7月過世，她才37歲，我們結婚3年，從發現病灶到病逝不過短短半年，非常能體會您的心情跟痛楚，治療這段期間也讓人驚覺癌症居然已經像慢性病一樣如此普遍，從影片之中可以感受到您與太太是非常相愛及幸福的，希望您為了女兒一定要好好照顧自己，早日走出傷痛，加油
我是偶然路过的网民，不知为何看到你的视频，完全能感受到你对妻子的爱。愿你能释怀，带领你的子女继续前行，你妻子的在天之灵也能安息。我衷心为你们祈祷。
只是一個路過的年輕人，卻被你們深刻的鶼鰈情深深深感動，淚水在眼眶打轉😢謝謝叔叔跟天使太太的生命教育，願恩典及祝福在未來充滿著叔叔跟兩位小孩的生命🙏🏻
How absolutely blessed she would feel to have such a wonderful husband, who is still singing her praises, even as he waits to join her in heaven! What a lovely man you are; I hope life finds away to not erase your pain, but to make it more manageable so that you can continue to live your life.
Thank you - this is exactly how it feels. My husband passed yesterday, 33 years together. What I would do for just one more day with him. I feel like my heart has been ripped out. God Bless, stay well.
從照片中感覺周小姐的人生過得很精彩多姿，人生已值得了！
I came across your video, after watching it i felt the pain and the sadness you have to endure. I also lost a girlfriend of 10 years from cancer in 2010 and my mother from breast cancer in 1986, so take courage my brother and be strong for your daughters. Your video brought tears to my eyes because i don't wish the pain that i went through on no one, i know the sorrow u feel but with time and faith in God you will heal, God bless you and your two daughters my brother.
不善於安慰的言語，雖然有些遺憾以這樣的方式認識了您夫人，但還是謝謝您讓我們知道了你們的故事，帶著她對你們的愛，連同她的份過日子，遇到自己不小心歡笑出來時，請不要內疚或覺得你們開始遺忘親人，我想，這反而是他們所希望的，雖然我也依然思念我逝去的朋友、親人、老師
I'm not sure why this is appreared in my feed, but my heart is broken, I wish you well brother, 生活还要继续，孩子也要爸爸，加油要坚强
Man, I'm tearing up and I don't usually do that. A lovely tribute, and you took so many photographs... I hope these points in time will be places you can still go back to and cherish her memory.
Hi Hogo, my condolences to you and your family will be in my prayers. Truly a lovely tribute and a lovely wife you have. Continue to live life as there are still many goodness in it. Both you and wife, have 2 lovely daughters and your wife still live through them. I understand what you are going through. God bless
加油，橕住
孩子的媽好美
天國一路好走 🤍
要好好保重！有一天一定還會再相見❤
「她只是跳出了時間，變成宇宙里最原始的組成部分分子原子慢慢的重新構建成你身邊的其他事物。 以後為你遮風擋雨的大樹是她，為你抵擋寒冷的毛衣是她，當你疲憊時看著桌頭的掛件還是她，她只是你親人的身份消失了，但是其實她以後無處不在。 她離開了，卻散落四周。」
文笔真精彩！
羨慕你們如此珍惜彼此並度過這麼久的時光，我和我太太只相處了21年，從她大一到39歲去世；如今我已經53歲了，現在我只能看著過去我太太寫給我的信中去回憶曾有的過去，我相信她仍活在我們的心中。
🙏以馬內利🙏
🙇🙇♀️🙇♂️
I do not know you but I hope you and your family are in a good place now. Wishing you the best.
This is really very sad and relatable. I am 21 years old and I lost my mother last month (august 2024), she was diagnosed with acute myleoid lukemia(AML), She died after just 5 days of the diagnosis. The most heartbreaking part is that she was completely fine a few days before diagnosis. Even at hospital she was talking and laughing for the first 3 days. This is a Horrible disease.
How did it happen, did she exercise regularly?
我的太太也是今年初刚刚离开，从确诊肺癌四期到离开才一年多一点时间，年仅46岁，没有机会看到孩子成家立业。愿神祝福你让你早日走出阴影！
Dear Hogo. You were truly blessed when you met this woman. Not many people are fortunate enough to share life with someone as special as she was. From your pictures of her and your description of your times together, it is obvious that she would wish for you to carry on, striving to be as happy as you can be in the years remaining to you. I share my deepest sympathies to you and your family.
無意中睇到呢條片，我太太也在2017年腸癌逝世，終年53。佢唔係太鍾意影相，所以真係冇你地咁多相。人生本來就是無常，但見到你同太太都去過好多唔同嘅地方遊玩，也算係一個好好嘅回憶，時間會慢慢撫平一切。好好地生活落去就係對太太最好嘅回報。
無意間在網路世界裡看到這影片，讓我看著看著眼淚就流下來了，恩愛夫妻一世情，深深感動著我，雖然我們不認識，也不知能做些甚麼，但請節哀順變，保重身體，把你們的小朋友照顧好，是對你太太在天之靈最大的喜悅，加油。
我見證了您與太太世間少有的愛情20年，非常悲傷，非常非常悲傷，近期我也常經過您家裡，不敢多打擾，節哀，保重，務必保重
有位表姐，亮麗又男孩個性，男生能做的事，她還能做的更好，是這一生遇過最幹練又好看的女性，也同樣53歲在廚房邊做菜，邊轉頭和家人聊天說笑，在轉頭回去就倒下，人直接離世，原因在腦部血管疾病，至今還是不相信能用強壯形容的女性，往後清脆有力的聲音再也聽不到，一直會想起她開手排車，側面帥炸
時光倒流七十年，讓這倒流的時空裡你們重溫，溫罄的日子留待天家再敍。🙌🏻
送上來自香港的祝福和打氣，希望你能堅強地繼續生活，讓在天上的妻子也能安心。
你的妻子真美，愿她安息