When the scapegoat is escaping the "family dungeon" it is their first move to paint the victim as being mentally deranged. I experienced the same. Just file for a RO and call police if they even appear on the same street as you . Keep in contact with your aunt so that you don't miss their downfall. Trust me, Lady Karma has her ways.
I’m glad the op’s family is actually trying to change after op cut them off, as they seemed to finally realize how bad they have been to them. I’m glad it had a happy ending too
The fact that their dad reached out with a heartfelt apology and is seeking therapy shows there might be hope for change, but it's totally understandable that OP remains cautious.
Around 14:34 minutes in, OP says her information says that her dad was "still upset over the 911 incident." I would have asked him, "what part of "fnck off" was so hard to understand it didn't make sense without policemen to underscore the fact that "fnck off" means "fnck off"?
Situations like these don’t deserve forgiveness, and it literally disgusts me how people think that you can move past this. You can still move on with your life from all of this, but there is such thing as a “too little too late” ideology which a lot of people seem to lack. All those years of different treatment and neglect for OP will never be healed. OP’s parents and sister can do all the self reflecting all they want and can go to all their therapy sessions to fix themselves, but those efforts will only be in vain since they can’t turn back the clocks for OP. What’s done is done and there’s nothing that will ever change that. NOTHING.
There is a wise saying: “Apology accepted, access denied” Forgiving the instances of unfair treatment is exactly that. It’s for one’s own sanity. Access denied means that albeit one is forgiving it doesn’t mean that suddenly there’s a social connection. One can love or care for someone from afar.
Try putting actual distance between you and your family. They just want an easy punching bag to talk about and half someone to compare their golden child.
@@naptime1900 Truer words were never spoken. Take your distance and live for yourself and at your own pace. OP, I was you, once I took my distance even the food tasted better. Take one day at a time, enjoy the small things, celebrate every small goal you reach because the tallest mountain is primarily formed out of pebbles. Good luck to you.
Clearly AI, as it’s too consistory politely written and the bad people all started pulling their heads out trying to be better people, neither of which are human traits.
And the contrast between the way the silver and golden children are treated is always just too sharp to be believed. "A car for your sister's 18th" vs. "a $50 gift card for yours'", "food for your golden sister" vs. "dust for you"...please give us a little credit. 🙄 The story arcs are so extreme and the villain of every same such plot has the most unrealistically drawn narcissistic traits, it beggars belief. It's all done to trigger the reader, (rage-bait, if you will) and most people respond as you would expect.The whole point is, to create a narrative so polarizing that people have no choice but to react, usually in anger, which is most people's drug of choice nowadays. That's how these content creators get upvotes, likes, views, whatever online validation they can monetize. This story was like a variation of 'Cinderella' on speed, and they're all like this. It's all so formulaic and overdone at this point! Real life is not a 'Disney telenovela'. In real life, most of these protaginist OP's don't get a happy ending. There's no light at the end of the tunnel, no new fiancé, or amazing job opportunity 'making lots of money' as a reward for their hardship. In real life, there's struggle, therapy(if you can afford it) and difficulty finding your footing throughout life. Dysfunctional parents, siblings and/or relatives never typically admit wrongdoing and they almost never apologize or reconcile with the family members they victimize.
If they want a chance to rebuild the relationship tell them to sign over their home to you, that’s the only way for them to even even out the resource disparity and to give you the power and trust you were never given.
Not me just listen to another story similar to this one. These story are starting to sound very very similar. Down to an Individual writing a letter after silence when everyone else apologised. Somethings fishy😂
The phrase “cautiously optimistic” has been used in every story I have read over the past few weeks, possibly a month. It’s like AI has created buzz words that are suppose to guarantee likes on a story and this phrase has been abused. Some stories will use it repeatedly as if no one will notice. Well I noticed!!! It takes away from your story’s individuality creating instead a 100% manufactured assembly line product. Previously they all used the same endings so now you’ve moved onto catch phrases/buzz words. Next it’ll be just fill in the blanks with verbs, adjectives, nouns etc like old school Mad Libs!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
AH, therapy comes to the rescue once again. Happy endings brought about by therapy. How could we live without it. However, here in the real world, I don't know of anyone who has been helped by it. In fact, they've been made worse.
Therapy is not the answer for everything. They treatment was so harsh I dont see how you could trust these people. And there is no way you can make up for what they did. Kimberely is a victim of the toxic parents. She should not be in any contact with her parents. I doubt they have changed just more manipulation
I know that this story probably is fake. But i find it fascinating, that in these kind of stories there's talk about making amends and making things right. But never what they are going to do to fix it? Can it even be fixed? It would be interesting if anyone has any experience about this subject in real life and could inform me about how it could happen.
It's not your fault it's your parents fault because they are favored hers Golden child sister over her and they neglect her over their Golden child daughter and they punished her for everything over Their Golden child daughter and that's not right and they should pay for their actions and go to hell for what they have done to her and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and they don't deserve anything for favored they're Golden child daughter over their other daughter and you don't have to apologize for anything.
Besides the writing, ths story itself isnt believable... I know of real life golden child situations and its not like that. there is a bit of nuance to everything. This story is all too extreme. Clearly written for the dramatic effect
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When the scapegoat is escaping the "family dungeon" it is their first move to paint the victim as being mentally deranged. I experienced the same. Just file for a RO and call police if they even appear on the same street as you . Keep in contact with your aunt so that you don't miss their downfall. Trust me, Lady Karma has her ways.
Finally a person with senses
Abusers go crazy when the scapegoat decides to leave. They can't handle it.
I’m glad the op’s family is actually trying to change after op cut them off, as they seemed to finally realize how bad they have been to them. I’m glad it had a happy ending too
Never mind that it's totally made-up😐.
@@tmajuru559 Literally nobody cares.
@@tmajuru559 Bro no one cares a story is a story
@@tmajuru559 LOL he is probably part of some twelve stop program or something.
Maybe i should share. Too..
Dad wants to break cycles? Missed the boat on that with two adult children.
The fact that their dad reached out with a heartfelt apology and is seeking therapy shows there might be hope for change, but it's totally understandable that OP remains cautious.
LOL he is probably part of some twelve stop program or something🙄
OP, those people don't love you and you know it. Why do parents do this to their kids?
Around 14:34 minutes in, OP says her information says that her dad was "still upset over the 911 incident."
I would have asked him, "what part of "fnck off" was so hard to understand it didn't make sense without policemen to underscore the fact that "fnck off" means "fnck off"?
Ah those great family memories of threatening your daughter by saying "we will always find you." you will never escape us.
Her sister is sinister. You should never deal with her again. Find your happiness and hold on to your truth.
Situations like these don’t deserve forgiveness, and it literally disgusts me how people think that you can move past this. You can still move on with your life from all of this, but there is such thing as a “too little too late” ideology which a lot of people seem to lack. All those years of different treatment and neglect for OP will never be healed. OP’s parents and sister can do all the self reflecting all they want and can go to all their therapy sessions to fix themselves, but those efforts will only be in vain since they can’t turn back the clocks for OP. What’s done is done and there’s nothing that will ever change that. NOTHING.
There is a wise saying: “Apology accepted, access denied”
Forgiving the instances of unfair treatment is exactly that. It’s for one’s own sanity. Access denied means that albeit one is forgiving it doesn’t mean that suddenly there’s a social connection. One can love or care for someone from afar.
Even though this may be fake, this just shows how generational trauma has consequences on each individual.
Once a doormat always a doormat!
You'll get more of the same, give them time. YOU will be the scapegoat again.
Try putting actual distance between you and your family. They just want an easy punching bag to talk about and half someone to compare their golden child.
@@naptime1900 Truer words were never spoken. Take your distance and live for yourself and at your own pace. OP, I was you, once I took my distance even the food tasted better. Take one day at a time, enjoy the small things, celebrate every small goal you reach because the tallest mountain is primarily formed out of pebbles. Good luck to you.
Clearly AI, as it’s too consistory politely written and the bad people all started pulling their heads out trying to be better people, neither of which are human traits.
And the contrast between the way the silver and golden children are treated is always just too sharp to be believed. "A car for your sister's 18th" vs. "a $50 gift card for yours'", "food for your golden sister" vs. "dust for you"...please give us a little credit. 🙄
The story arcs are so extreme and the villain of every same such plot has the most unrealistically drawn narcissistic traits, it beggars belief. It's all done to trigger the reader, (rage-bait, if you will) and most people respond as you would expect.The whole point is, to create a narrative so polarizing that people have no choice but to react, usually in anger, which is most people's drug of choice nowadays. That's how these content creators get upvotes, likes, views, whatever online validation they can monetize.
This story was like a variation of 'Cinderella' on speed, and they're all like this. It's all so formulaic and overdone at this point! Real life is not a 'Disney telenovela'. In real life, most of these protaginist OP's don't get a happy ending. There's no light at the end of the tunnel, no new fiancé, or amazing job opportunity 'making lots of money' as a reward for their hardship. In real life, there's struggle, therapy(if you can afford it) and difficulty finding your footing throughout life. Dysfunctional parents, siblings and/or relatives never typically admit wrongdoing and they almost never apologize or reconcile with the family members they victimize.
*protagonist, not protaginist.
You got this don't let anyone tell you want to do
If they want a chance to rebuild the relationship tell them to sign over their home to you, that’s the only way for them to even even out the resource disparity and to give you the power and trust you were never given.
Isn’t 911 for emergencies?
I think OP should have just forwarded that message from her sister about her being the favourite to their parents.
Op misses the inside jokes with those people little did she know she was always the inside joke...
Not me just listen to another story similar to this one. These story are starting to sound very very similar. Down to an Individual writing a letter after silence when everyone else apologised. Somethings fishy😂
The phrase “cautiously optimistic” has been used in every story I have read over the past few weeks, possibly a month. It’s like AI has created buzz words that are suppose to guarantee likes on a story and this phrase has been abused. Some stories will use it repeatedly as if no one will notice. Well I noticed!!! It takes away from your story’s individuality creating instead a 100% manufactured assembly line product. Previously they all used the same endings so now you’ve moved onto catch phrases/buzz words. Next it’ll be just fill in the blanks with verbs, adjectives, nouns etc like old school Mad Libs!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
AH, therapy comes to the rescue once again. Happy endings brought about by therapy. How could we live without it. However, here in the real world, I don't know of anyone who has been helped by it. In fact, they've been made worse.
Well what app and page these stories get uploaded
Therapy is not the answer for everything. They treatment was so harsh I dont see how you could trust these people. And there is no way you can make up for what they did. Kimberely is a victim of the toxic parents. She should not be in any contact with her parents. I doubt they have changed just more manipulation
I know that this story probably is fake. But i find it fascinating, that in these kind of stories there's talk about making amends and making things right. But never what they are going to do to fix it? Can it even be fixed? It would be interesting if anyone has any experience about this subject in real life and could inform me about how it could happen.
It's not your fault it's your parents fault because they are favored hers Golden child sister over her and they neglect her over their Golden child daughter and they punished her for everything over Their Golden child daughter and that's not right and they should pay for their actions and go to hell for what they have done to her and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and they don't deserve anything for favored they're Golden child daughter over their other daughter and you don't have to apologize for anything.
This sounds oddly similar to other stories with the same topic. I reckon that chat gpt worked extra hours on this one
how many times are you going to repeat the same things
For the entire story, lol. These stories could all be told in half the time if the filler were removed.
Besides the writing, ths story itself isnt believable... I know of real life golden child situations and its not like that. there is a bit of nuance to everything. This story is all too extreme. Clearly written for the dramatic effect
AI Crap.
Fake
It most certainly is. All tosh from start to finish.
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