“Tell me about her”😭😭❤️Oh my😭😭this mean so much❤️❤️❤️ It reminds me of the time when I came out to my parents three years ago, when my parents could not accept it, and I can still remember everything deeply. My parents said:"we love you very much, we are willing to pay for you, and you mean everything to us, but we can't accept you, I think you are not my child at the moment, and you are too strange for us." This sentence hurt me deeply at that time, then I moved out with my gf. In the next two years, my parents and I basically had no contact, even at Thanksgiving and Christmas. Until last Thanksgiving,My dad come to me. He said:"when you came out to us, I thought it was the worst thing in the world, but the two years made me realize that it was the most terrible thing to lose you. Please forgive us. No matter what kind of person you are, you are our children. Parents should love everything about you, accept and inclusiveness everything about you. So,Tell me about her." Thank you for sharing❤️ God bless gay❤️🌈🌈🌈Love you guys
Kruaua Stam omg i wtf i fucking i had tears this should never NOBODY should ever have to go through this im so sorry but im glad it was enough for at least ur father to understand that there is more to life than just labels and realized what a huge part i their lives u made 💜💖💜✊🏻
oh my god, I just watched this and read comments from you, I feel jealous of you now, because your parents have accepted you and also your girlfriend. I didn't even dare to say the truth to my parents. I feel afraid they will hate me and also insult me and don't think of me as their child anymore. But, I have to be honest with them someday. In my country, even this is very strange and disgusting. they mostly can't think openly or accept this. I sometimes even fear living in my country. Because I feel alienated and also uncomfortable. But I feel happy with your story. I wish I had more courage, and my parents accept whatever I say to them later 😁
I could hear the nervousness in your voice, but you did a wonderful job sharing your truth. Your sincerity will reach those who need to hear it. Well done! Thank You! 😙😙
I've seen so many coming out videos over the years but this has been the only one I have ever been able to relate with. Everything aspect of it from tomboy to googling questions to just find that one answer to make you feel like everything's normal. I've recently come out to my bestfriend because of the confidence videos like this give me. Thank you for sharing your story, it has truly helped a lot!
I could tell by your voice that you were nervous to talk about your coming out story. Well guess what you did great and you should be very proud of yourself. Nobody has the right to judge you, they don’t know you. 😁💕🇨🇦
This is by far my favorite RUclips couple.. I can't wait till y'all start doing blogs and pranks and all that kind of stuff.. it's gonna be great. Love this couple. And
You are amazing Holly, I'm glad that's you finally found who you are and be free, confident and happy with yourself. For me it also took more than 5 years, so I know it's ok to question, everyone is different and some people just need more time. Thank you so much for sharing ❤️❤️❤️
I’m still working on being okay with be being me fully and not worrying about other opinions but this really helped. People telling their stories helps more than you guys know. “It’s okay not to be okay” ❤️
everything you are describing is what i’m currently going through. i now feel less alone and it makes so happy that i’m not alone. there has been no other coming out story that i’ve related to their struggles. thank you!
It's so refreshing to hear a coming out story where you didn't just know.. I'm 21 and I'm very much questioning who I am and who I want to be. I literally have 0 experiences but hearing that it took you so long to wrap your head around things makes me feel not so alone. I'm so glad I've discovered you and Paige! ❤❤
I e seen most all your posts and you did the absolute right thing. You’re helping so many ladies around the world accept their situations. Honesty is the best policy, to your family and yourself. Good luck both.
“It’s okay to not be okay.” I’m straight, but I have anxiety and depression. The things you say about finding an outlet is so amazing for not just coming out. Thanks Holly, love you two.
Idk if I only heard it or if I'm going crazy or if it's the camera, which by the way is fine, but there was to me at least so much of emotion in your voice and it immediately broke my heart. U had a better coming out story than some but it doesn't mean it wasn't hard to realize it urself and accept yourself. Anyways much love like always and it's a nice shirt 💖💖💖🤗🤗🤗
Madelyn Weaver Agreed - think there was some swift editing done to avoid the tears being on screen Must be hard to go through this in front of a camera without emotion
Thank you so much for this video. I've never related to any coming out story more. At 14, I kind of knew I liked girls, but wasn't quite sure. I was never allowed to date, so I didn't have any positive or negative responses with either sex, but somehow I just knew. So I told one of my closest friends (who I thought I could trust) then she told my mom accidentally. My mom is very accepting with the LGBTQ+ community so I wasn't scared, but like you said in this video, it's hard to explain something to someone when you can't explain it to yourself. I was kind of forced to come out to my mom because she asked me about it. So I told her. I'm 16 now, more confused now than when I was 14. I wish I hadn't had to come out so early because I'm still trying to figure things out and it's hard when people have already "labeled" you as one way. And I'm still trying to figure out who I am as a person, not just with my sexuality. (Sorry this is so long btw. But I just really wanted to get that out.)
Paige And Holly And growing up in southern United States I'm being raised in a community that is so conditioned to labeling and stereotyping, it's so hard getting out of that mentality. Also, You guys’ videos have really helped me in the past couple of months still trying to come to terms with myself. Love y’all! ❤️❤️
This video always makes me tear up. Holly this video made me more comfortable with myself to come out to my family and friends. Thank you so much. I just watched this again because I showed it to my best friend who has been nothing but supportive of me and my journey and she wanted to see the video that helped me come out. So again, thank you ladies 💜🖤🤍
Thanks for the honesty. I know telling your truth isn’t always the easiest and can be nerve-racking. Thanks for being brave enough to share. Xoxoxo’s from Texas
Kudos to you Holly for having the guts to tell your story for the benefit of your subscribers. Even though your voice was quivering while telling your story, l admire the fact that you were able to contain your feelings , bravo to you my dear. It's important for us to accept and be happy with our selves first before sharing with others . It is wonderful to feel accepted but if it doesn't happen, then don't fret about it . No one has the right to judge you. After this, I hope you will feel more comfortable to be together in public with Paige. I have a feeling that Paige gives you the security and confidence to be comfortable in your own skin. I am happy you have found someone like Paige. Tq for this wonderful and brave video. Have a wonderful weekend and take care ....l too miss Paige :-)
For so long I have been feeling unsure of myself because I couldn't relate to other coming out stories, but yours was exactly what I needed! Thank you so much, you and Paige are changing people's lives!
One of my friends who is a straight guy always asks me why I'm not out. He doesn't understand it, but I always tell him just what you said. How can I explain something to people who are going to have questions when I don't fully understand it yet? I'm dealing with uncertainties and other things and I don't want other people to influence what I might think or feel. Like when you said if you had told people who had a negative reaction when you were still unsure, that it would've knocked your confidence and start questioning yourself all over again. That is exactly how I feel. It's nice to finally hear someone else have that thought. I know my family will be cool, at least in the long run. That's not my issue, like you it's figuring this all out for myself that is the journey. Thanks for sharing!!
When you said “I hope that I’ve helped one person” you did you helped me (not trying to be cheesy) but you did give me some great advice. I haven’t come out yet and still trying to get my head around it and pick my moment on when to tell my Mam and Dad. So yeah thank you and love you both so much xx
Thank you for taking the time to tell your story. You are a LGBTQ+ icon, I mean, 36K subscribers says a lot. Love you sweetheart! Paige is so good for you, the way the two of you look at each other makes my heart sing! You've both now had your coming out story videos, now never do a solo video again, the channel is Paige AND Holly, lol. My love to you both, your Ally in Des Moines.
Yaaay! Holly's coming out video. Thank you for sharing this. And sorry for the heteronormative culture making you be in denial and be so uncomfortable for that long. I'm glad you've found confidence happiness now and that it is especially with Paige. One note though: Holly you really sound so nervous in this video when talking alone. I'm sure you missed Paige beside you more than we did :) Love you
I was exactly the same when I was coming out. My brother came out when he was 16 and my other brother came out as bi when he was 15 to my parents and they were fine about it. I have a gay aunt on one side and a gay uncle on the other. I have 2 gay cousins and a gay second cousin. My family is very open to just about anything and believe do what makes you happy so we never was scared to come out to them or friends but for some reason I kept telling myself it was a phase but I just couldn't connect physically emotionally and psychologically with a man. Then one day it just clicked when I realised how much I care for my girlfriend. Sometimes you've got to be comfortable with it yourself more than anyone else being comfortable with it. Great video Holly normally I don't connect with a lot of people's coming out stories but finally I've seen one I can.
Just started following you guys, a few days ago!! Thank you for all the laughs that you made me have, I watched your videos when I'm depressed and you help me out of my head!! It means the world!! ❤
I have watched this so many times! My story is so similar it crazy! This video is what helped me come to terms with what I was feeling. I was never worried about what other felt ether but more about my inner self! Thank you guys for being an inspiration. You can defiantly feel the emotion in your voice❤️🌈 I have gotten my sister obsessed with your channel because you guys are so funny also!
i'm very proud of you for some reason, it actually feels like i know you as a close friend and am very proud of you! you are very brave! and btw you have helped many people with this video including me so thank you !
This video was amazing!💙 I loved this so much! Thank you for sharing your story you are helping so many people relate so thank you😁 I LOVE YOUR GUYS CHANNEL SO MUCH!💙
You‘re such an inspiration. Thank you for sharing your story with us! ❤️ With your video (and Paige‘s Coming Out video) you‘re helping me so much to slowly overcome my anxiety of coming out to my family/friends and I can‘t describe how thankful I am. Love you guys ❤️❤️❤️
So glad I'm not the only one to take 5+ years to figure sh*t out lol my coming out journey is very similar minus 'telling the parents' part cuz I can ever do that. love u guys so much and can't wait for ur next vid
I just came across you guys like 2 days ago and I subscribed right away. You guys are so cute together and in the future a lot more people are gonna watch you and love you💖 I love you guys and you’re so cute together💕
I loved to hear your story so so much. Everything you said makes so much sense and just literally feels like my own story. I’m 19 right now and your journey does align perfectly with mine up till that age. I can relate so much with you about only wanting to tell your parents when you first fully understood and accepted it yourself, not because you didn’t trust them or was super scared of their reaction. I’m getting there and i hope to come out to them with a girlfriend as well when the time is there. Thank you so much for sharing Holly, this makes me feel so much better about me being 19 and still not knowing what I want or feel.❤️💞
“HER name is...” 😂 That’s literally exactly how I’ve always wanted to come out to my parents (whose reactions I know will be the same as yours were). But I’m worried a girl won’t want to date me if I’m not out to them yet... Especially since I’m a little older.
What do you guys think of just presenting my gf straight away, like, 'Hey, theres someone I want you to meet' and when they give you the look, just bring her in Keep in mind, indian household
I LOVE THIS SO MUCH!!! It's always good to hear someone else's coming out experience! When I was going into my freshman year of high school my older brother convinced me some guy liked me and was going to ask me out but I needed to be more "girly". So I legit changed my whole style because I wanted this boy to be the one who would finally convince me I wasn't gay as hell. Finally my brother told me he was "just kidding" and that boy never liked me he just wanted to see me fit in more in high school. That was when I realized it sucked to keep pretending to be someone I wasn't. It took me two more years before I came out finally and was comfortable being my regular two boy self.
I don't know why i'm shaking watching this video. I'm 17 and still questioning my sexuality. We kinda have similar story. I never open up to my family & closefriends because i'm really scared that they gonna look at me differently. I'm really struggling cause i'm Asian. :/ I know my time will come soon. Thank you so much for sharing! I Love you Holly!!
Great video Holly, thanks for sharing your story with us. I am sure there are many teenagers that are in the exact situation you were, hopefully they come across this video because they will find this very helpful.
I like listening to these storeys.Their very nice.My 22 year old daughter came out very recently.I wasn't surprised because i sussed out a long time ago,she 'd never been interested in boys,the odd one she went out with never got a mention.I was relieved when she finally realised she was gay,i let her find her own way.Now she has a girl friend and is very happy.In fact she had the girl friend when she told me.She asked me what i thought and i said i knew where she was coming from as i preferred girls myself.She's my daughter and always will be so,doesn't matter who she dates.I'm 64 and very happy and relieved for her.
You are so amazing Holly, recently stumbled upon you and Paige videos and was extremely taken by the valuable topics. Thank you so much and totally appreciate you and relate with your coming out story. 🌈💕
It is so hard... it is a journey like you said, I was ratted out by an ex bf and my mum did not take it so well, it is still a process.... but LOVE IS LOVE and no one can do anything about it! I think the best thing is to accept yourself and come out gradually and you will be fine!
I was looking forward to seeing this video! I loved both Paige’s and your coming out stories. I’m so glad that I found your channel, and I can’t wait for future videos 💕
Holly, I love that you shared your story. I love y'alls channel. It took me a long time to figure out who I was. I was 32 when I came out. My one regret was that both my parents where deceased when I came out. The rest of my family had the reaction of about time we already knew. Like you I did have some people not be ok with it and some extended family as well. Keep making videos. I love you and Paige.
0:39 meeee It’s ok if the Quality is not so good, the story was still touching and amazing! Love you Holly! You and Paige are so inspirational and adorable! Love story times!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍😍😍👑👑👑👑🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
i can relate to that. Im still figuring it out because im young and i have time, but the story when you were a teenager inspires me and i feel the same way. Thank you for this great video. It helps a lot!
I'm sorry you questioned yourself half of your young life. But now I see your making that time up with Paige ;-). I hope you two continue to push each other up every day. I wish you both to be strong, healthy, and beautifully blessed. 💕💕🍻🍻 My love to you both 👅
I'm 36 and was probably about 33 or 34 when I realised / stopped denying it. It's strange how I went through so much of my life without even questioning it, but I really wasn't interested in figuring it out. Next month will be my 2nd Pride festival, and every day I get more comfortable with who I am. There's no rush. Each story I hear makes me think "yep, there are common themes here that I can identify with". It all helps.
This is basically my story omg... I love you! I'm so scared to come out to my family, cause at this point I'm telling myslef ''u just wanna be special, you're straight'' but omg... Girls.. I hope i'll figure out soon
LittleRedhead me too! You know what I try talk to my brother about it but my tip of my tongue and mind will put different topic. 😟 you wanna say it but you can't because of fear of rejection. 😣
Thank you for sharing your story!! It took me forever too and i have only recently begun to tell people, but videos like this definitely help!! Love the channel you guys are awesome thanks again to both of you.
I felt the exact same way with the 'girl crushes'/admiring girls & getting bored with guys a dated and feeling like I just wasn't good at dating and I've never heard someone describe what I felt so perfectly.
Girl, this was such a great video. I feel the same way. I go bisexual. I’ve known that since age 12. At that age I didn’t really know what everything meant. It was all new to me. I’ve dated guys, only two...but when I went to college, messed around with some girls. I also played around with tinder and got extremely excited when I matched with girls. I’m basically going through that I don’t know if I’m actually bisexual or if I’m gay...because just like in your video I get more excitement seeing girls, or seeing a lesbian couple on tv. Basically what I’m trying to say is that I’m more attracted to girls...but it’s such a process trying to figure everything out and accepting yourself first & I’m having a hard issue with that too.
I'm in love with watching your videos !! Just please do me one thing Holly and Paige please don't let this youtube life get to you both and bring you both down. don't let this youtube life consume all the energy and take over the relationship.. Keep up all the great work I hope that one day I will be able to put my ideas to life on here. Plus you both make realize how much I miss my one true love and wish I could have her back into my life!!!
Well done Holly. My story is similar; I kept pushing it down in my early 20’s that I was interested in girls. It was actually Kristen and Steph and following their journey, that I was brave enough to start ‘coming out’. I know you and Paige follow them also and I am sure they help with your confidence in being comfortable with who you are. Love you and Paige😘😘
Thank you for this coming out story I know lots of person who can motivated by watching this video and get confident to coming out in front their parents
I’m nearly 54 and discovered who I really wise just four years ago. Now happily married to the most beautiful woman and have never felt more loved, despite many of my family prefer having my ex-husband around more than me. Thanks for sharing, Holly.
“Tell me about her”😭😭❤️Oh my😭😭this mean so much❤️❤️❤️
It reminds me of the time when I came out to my parents three years ago, when my parents could not accept it, and I can still remember everything deeply. My parents said:"we love you very much, we are willing to pay for you, and you mean everything to us, but we can't accept you, I think you are not my child at the moment, and you are too strange for us."
This sentence hurt me deeply at that time, then I moved out with my gf. In the next two years, my parents and I basically had no contact, even at Thanksgiving and Christmas. Until last Thanksgiving,My dad come to me. He said:"when you came out to us, I thought it was the worst thing in the world, but the two years made me realize that it was the most terrible thing to lose you. Please forgive us. No matter what kind of person you are, you are our children. Parents should love everything about you, accept and inclusiveness everything about you. So,Tell me about her."
Thank you for sharing❤️ God bless gay❤️🌈🌈🌈Love you guys
Kruaua Stam omg i wtf i fucking i had tears this should never NOBODY should ever have to go through this im so sorry but im glad it was enough for at least ur father to understand that there is more to life than just labels and realized what a huge part i their lives u made 💜💖💜✊🏻
oh my god, I just watched this and read comments from you, I feel jealous of you now, because your parents have accepted you and also your girlfriend. I didn't even dare to say the truth to my parents. I feel afraid they will hate me and also insult me and don't think of me as their child anymore. But, I have to be honest with them someday. In my country, even this is very strange and disgusting. they mostly can't think openly or accept this. I sometimes even fear living in my country. Because I feel alienated and also uncomfortable. But I feel happy with your story. I wish I had more courage, and my parents accept whatever I say to them later 😁
"It's okay not to be okay." Love that ❤️
I could hear the nervousness in your voice, but you did a wonderful job sharing your truth. Your sincerity will reach those who need to hear it. Well done! Thank You! 😙😙
“I picked the gayest shirt I own for the occasion” ~holly 2018 😂😂
"Tell me about her" had me cry happy tears for you! ❤️
"I've never been so happy in my life" I teared up after that line
Paige And Holly 😍😍😍 pls keep making more vids!! Love from Halifax, NS ❤
I've seen so many coming out videos over the years but this has been the only one I have ever been able to relate with. Everything aspect of it from tomboy to googling questions to just find that one answer to make you feel like everything's normal. I've recently come out to my bestfriend because of the confidence videos like this give me. Thank you for sharing your story, it has truly helped a lot!
I could tell by your voice that you were nervous to talk about your coming out story. Well guess what you did great and you should be very proud of yourself. Nobody has the right to judge you, they don’t know you. 😁💕🇨🇦
This is by far my favorite RUclips couple.. I can't wait till y'all start doing blogs and pranks and all that kind of stuff.. it's gonna be great. Love this couple. And
I love you Holly!! Thank you for representing the struggles that some people face when they are conflicted about their sexuality.
Your Parents are sooo cool and thanks for finally sharing your story w/ us .... And yes I will assure you that you helped a lot ...
You are amazing Holly, I'm glad that's you finally found who you are and be free, confident and happy with yourself. For me it also took more than 5 years, so I know it's ok to question, everyone is different and some people just need more time. Thank you so much for sharing ❤️❤️❤️
You definitely had me crying at the end, it's truly assuring to hear a story you relate to so much
I’m still working on being okay with be being me fully and not worrying about other opinions but this really helped. People telling their stories helps more than you guys know. “It’s okay not to be okay” ❤️
everything you are describing is what i’m currently going through. i now feel less alone and it makes so happy that i’m not alone. there has been no other coming out story that i’ve related to their struggles. thank you!
I relate to this coming story so much...❤️🏳️🌈
Oh my god me too...
It's so refreshing to hear a coming out story where you didn't just know.. I'm 21 and I'm very much questioning who I am and who I want to be. I literally have 0 experiences but hearing that it took you so long to wrap your head around things makes me feel not so alone.
I'm so glad I've discovered you and Paige! ❤❤
I noticed you seem so shaky and nervous! You’re so pretty 😍 I loved this story
I e seen most all your posts and you did the absolute right thing. You’re helping so many ladies around the world accept their situations. Honesty is the best policy, to your family and yourself. Good luck both.
“It’s okay to not be okay.” I’m straight, but I have anxiety and depression. The things you say about finding an outlet is so amazing for not just coming out. Thanks Holly, love you two.
I have never found someone's coming out story so relatable to my own! :) Loved the video
Avril Elizabeth That’s just what I was thinking!
This comments section is gonna make me cry the comments are so sweet and supportive
Idk if I only heard it or if I'm going crazy or if it's the camera, which by the way is fine, but there was to me at least so much of emotion in your voice and it immediately broke my heart. U had a better coming out story than some but it doesn't mean it wasn't hard to realize it urself and accept yourself. Anyways much love like always and it's a nice shirt 💖💖💖🤗🤗🤗
Toya Lawton I thought she was about to cry like 7 times!
Madelyn Weaver
Agreed - think there was some swift editing done to avoid the tears being on screen
Must be hard to go through this in front of a camera without emotion
Thank you so much for this video. I've never related to any coming out story more. At 14, I kind of knew I liked girls, but wasn't quite sure. I was never allowed to date, so I didn't have any positive or negative responses with either sex, but somehow I just knew. So I told one of my closest friends (who I thought I could trust) then she told my mom accidentally. My mom is very accepting with the LGBTQ+ community so I wasn't scared, but like you said in this video, it's hard to explain something to someone when you can't explain it to yourself. I was kind of forced to come out to my mom because she asked me about it. So I told her. I'm 16 now, more confused now than when I was 14. I wish I hadn't had to come out so early because I'm still trying to figure things out and it's hard when people have already "labeled" you as one way. And I'm still trying to figure out who I am as a person, not just with my sexuality. (Sorry this is so long btw. But I just really wanted to get that out.)
Paige And Holly And growing up in southern United States I'm being raised in a community that is so conditioned to labeling and stereotyping, it's so hard getting out of that mentality. Also, You guys’ videos have really helped me in the past couple of months still trying to come to terms with myself. Love y’all! ❤️❤️
Paige and Holly if you enjoyed sex with man but not connected emotionally, you are bisexual homoromantic
This video always makes me tear up. Holly this video made me more comfortable with myself to come out to my family and friends. Thank you so much. I just watched this again because I showed it to my best friend who has been nothing but supportive of me and my journey and she wanted to see the video that helped me come out. So again, thank you ladies 💜🖤🤍
I relate so much to you it's freaky. Thanks for sharing and being so vulnerable. That's never easy. ❤
Thanks for the honesty. I know telling your truth isn’t always the easiest and can be nerve-racking. Thanks for being brave enough to share. Xoxoxo’s from Texas
Kudos to you Holly for having the guts to tell your story for the benefit of your subscribers. Even though your voice was quivering while telling your story, l admire the fact that you were able to contain your feelings , bravo to you my dear. It's important for us to accept and be happy with our selves first before sharing with others . It is wonderful to feel accepted but if it doesn't happen, then don't fret about it . No one has the right to judge you. After this, I hope you will feel more comfortable to be together in public with Paige. I have a feeling that Paige gives you the security and confidence to be comfortable in your own skin. I am happy you have found someone like Paige. Tq for this wonderful and brave video. Have a wonderful weekend and take care ....l too miss Paige :-)
For so long I have been feeling unsure of myself because I couldn't relate to other coming out stories, but yours was exactly what I needed! Thank you so much, you and Paige are changing people's lives!
thank you so much for this video i’m so glad you’re happier than you’ve ever been and you and paige deserve the best❤️
One of my friends who is a straight guy always asks me why I'm not out. He doesn't understand it, but I always tell him just what you said. How can I explain something to people who are going to have questions when I don't fully understand it yet? I'm dealing with uncertainties and other things and I don't want other people to influence what I might think or feel. Like when you said if you had told people who had a negative reaction when you were still unsure, that it would've knocked your confidence and start questioning yourself all over again. That is exactly how I feel. It's nice to finally hear someone else have that thought. I know my family will be cool, at least in the long run. That's not my issue, like you it's figuring this all out for myself that is the journey. Thanks for sharing!!
When you said “I hope that I’ve helped one person” you did you helped me (not trying to be cheesy) but you did give me some great advice. I haven’t come out yet and still trying to get my head around it and pick my moment on when to tell my Mam and Dad. So yeah thank you and love you both so much xx
Both of your videos helped me decide to come out to my parents. I was so nervous about it and everything went well! I love you girls so much! ❤
Thank you for taking the time to tell your story. You are a LGBTQ+ icon, I mean, 36K subscribers says a lot. Love you sweetheart! Paige is so good for you, the way the two of you look at each other makes my heart sing! You've both now had your coming out story videos, now never do a solo video again, the channel is Paige AND Holly, lol. My love to you both, your Ally in Des Moines.
I agree. The coming out videos were a must, but together from now on please 😊
I relate to this on so many levels! Thanks for sharing your story!
Your statements about confidently facing your identity inspires me. 😊
I'm glad you finally made this video.
And missing paige as well...
Thanks Holly, for taking the time to do it, you're so brave and that means the world!!! Love you 😊😘
Yaaay! Holly's coming out video.
Thank you for sharing this. And sorry for the heteronormative culture making you be in denial and be so uncomfortable for that long. I'm glad you've found confidence happiness now and that it is especially with Paige.
One note though: Holly you really sound so nervous in this video when talking alone. I'm sure you missed Paige beside you more than we did :)
Love you
I was exactly the same when I was coming out. My brother came out when he was 16 and my other brother came out as bi when he was 15 to my parents and they were fine about it. I have a gay aunt on one side and a gay uncle on the other. I have 2 gay cousins and a gay second cousin. My family is very open to just about anything and believe do what makes you happy so we never was scared to come out to them or friends but for some reason I kept telling myself it was a phase but I just couldn't connect physically emotionally and psychologically with a man. Then one day it just clicked when I realised how much I care for my girlfriend. Sometimes you've got to be comfortable with it yourself more than anyone else being comfortable with it. Great video Holly normally I don't connect with a lot of people's coming out stories but finally I've seen one I can.
I’m so happy for you and page, your parents seem like the best ones anyone could have. 💕
Just started following you guys, a few days ago!! Thank you for all the laughs that you made me have, I watched your videos when I'm depressed and you help me out of my head!! It means the world!! ❤
I have watched this so many times! My story is so similar it crazy! This video is what helped me come to terms with what I was feeling. I was never worried about what other felt ether but more about my inner self! Thank you guys for being an inspiration. You can defiantly feel the emotion in your voice❤️🌈 I have gotten my sister obsessed with your channel because you guys are so funny also!
You are amazing...❤❤ Im proud of you and your journey and I hope to have my family be as accepting as yours💯💯
You are so amazing! The fact that you were willing to share your story to help others is awesome. ❤️
i'm very proud of you for some reason, it actually feels like i know you as a close friend and am very proud of you!
you are very brave!
and btw you have helped many people with this video including me so thank you !
This video was amazing!💙 I loved this so much! Thank you for sharing your story you are helping so many people relate so thank you😁 I LOVE YOUR GUYS CHANNEL SO MUCH!💙
Thank you for sharing your experience. I cannot picture you were a tomboy!!
Loved your story and definitely made me think! Thank you for sharing! Can’t wait for more! Love ya both! 💗
You‘re such an inspiration. Thank you for sharing your story with us! ❤️ With your video (and Paige‘s Coming Out video) you‘re helping me so much to slowly overcome my anxiety of coming out to my family/friends and I can‘t describe how thankful I am. Love you guys ❤️❤️❤️
So glad I'm not the only one to take 5+ years to figure sh*t out lol my coming out journey is very similar minus 'telling the parents' part cuz I can ever do that. love u guys so much and can't wait for ur next vid
I just came across you guys like 2 days ago and I subscribed right away. You guys are so cute together and in the future a lot more people are gonna watch you and love you💖 I love you guys and you’re so cute together💕
I loved to hear your story so so much. Everything you said makes so much sense and just literally feels like my own story. I’m 19 right now and your journey does align perfectly with mine up till that age. I can relate so much with you about only wanting to tell your parents when you first fully understood and accepted it yourself, not because you didn’t trust them or was super scared of their reaction. I’m getting there and i hope to come out to them with a girlfriend as well when the time is there. Thank you so much for sharing Holly, this makes me feel so much better about me being 19 and still not knowing what I want or feel.❤️💞
I just binged watch all of your videos and I definitely subscribed right away I love both of you guys and cant wait to see more videos and vlogs
You're so inspiring, I hope you and Paige are having a great day/night!❤❤ You two should definitely start vlogging.😀
“HER name is...” 😂 That’s literally exactly how I’ve always wanted to come out to my parents (whose reactions I know will be the same as yours were). But I’m worried a girl won’t want to date me if I’m not out to them yet... Especially since I’m a little older.
Paige And Holly Thanks for that 😊 I hope so!
What do you guys think of just presenting my gf straight away, like,
'Hey, theres someone I want you to meet' and when they give you the look, just bring her in
Keep in mind, indian household
@@_SomyaY Thats the most unsafe way to come out in India when you don't know if your family is accepting of the lgbtq+ community
You’re so pretty and intelligent, all what you said was so confortable to hear because I am feeling the same now.
I love you. Thanks for the video.
My mom knew before I did. The only thing that ever mattered to her is that I was happy.
Very candid. Thank you for sharing and happy you had the support you deserved.
I LOVE THIS SO MUCH!!! It's always good to hear someone else's coming out experience! When I was going into my freshman year of high school my older brother convinced me some guy liked me and was going to ask me out but I needed to be more "girly". So I legit changed my whole style because I wanted this boy to be the one who would finally convince me I wasn't gay as hell. Finally my brother told me he was "just kidding" and that boy never liked me he just wanted to see me fit in more in high school. That was when I realized it sucked to keep pretending to be someone I wasn't. It took me two more years before I came out finally and was comfortable being my regular two boy self.
I don't know why i'm shaking watching this video. I'm 17 and still questioning my sexuality. We kinda have similar story. I never open up to my family & closefriends because i'm really scared that they gonna look at me differently. I'm really struggling cause i'm Asian. :/ I know my time will come soon. Thank you so much for sharing! I Love you Holly!!
Great video Holly, thanks for sharing your story with us. I am sure there are many teenagers that are in the exact situation you were, hopefully they come across this video because they will find this very helpful.
HOLLYYYY I LOVE YOU. I’m so proud of you for sharing your story. You (& paige) really inspire me to share mine one day too🌈✨
I like listening to these storeys.Their very nice.My 22 year old daughter came out very recently.I wasn't surprised because i sussed out a long time ago,she 'd never been interested in boys,the odd one she went out with never got a mention.I was relieved when she finally realised she was gay,i let her find her own way.Now she has a girl friend and is very happy.In fact she had the girl friend when she told me.She asked me what i thought and i said i knew where she was coming from as i preferred girls myself.She's my daughter and always will be so,doesn't matter who she dates.I'm 64 and very happy and relieved for her.
You are so amazing Holly, recently stumbled upon you and Paige videos and was extremely taken by the valuable topics. Thank you so much and totally appreciate you and relate with your coming out story. 🌈💕
I loved the story, very inspiring. I wish I was in a happy relationship with a girl like you and Paige
❤❤❤ love your both coming out stories...
These videos helped because I am 18 right now and are still questioning my sexuality...
Holly,I just want to tell you that you really helped me.Not just me,I think many girls feel the same.
Long live holly for coming out. Sure it makes you happy evermore.
A little late but you are the best!! An thanks for your coming out story!!!💖💖
It is so hard... it is a journey like you said, I was ratted out by an ex bf and my mum did not take it so well, it is still a process.... but LOVE IS LOVE and no one can do anything about it! I think the best thing is to accept yourself and come out gradually and you will be fine!
Holly I'm so proud of you to sharing you story I love you...
I was looking forward to seeing this video! I loved both Paige’s and your coming out stories. I’m so glad that I found your channel, and I can’t wait for future videos 💕
Holly, I love that you shared your story. I love y'alls channel. It took me a long time to figure out who I was. I was 32 when I came out. My one regret was that both my parents where deceased when I came out. The rest of my family had the reaction of about time we already knew. Like you I did have some people not be ok with it and some extended family as well. Keep making videos. I love you and Paige.
0:39 meeee
It’s ok if the Quality is not so good, the story was still touching and amazing!
Love you Holly!
You and Paige are so inspirational and adorable!
Love story times!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍😍😍👑👑👑👑🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
I'm a straight guy and I loved your come out story I loved it holly you are beautiful inside and out
i can relate to that. Im still figuring it out because im young and i have time, but the story when you were a teenager inspires me and i feel the same way. Thank you for this great video. It helps a lot!
Send my love to Paige as well but u said it's ok not to be ok and I freaked out because I have been saying the same exact thing since Demi Lovato OD.
I'm sorry you questioned yourself half of your young life. But now I see your making that time up with Paige ;-).
I hope you two continue to push each other up every day. I wish you both to be strong, healthy, and beautifully blessed. 💕💕🍻🍻
My love to you both 👅
You're so strong! All of your fans, subscribers, and even just people who watch your videos appreciate you guys so so much, love from the fans ❤️ 😜
I'm 36 and was probably about 33 or 34 when I realised / stopped denying it. It's strange how I went through so much of my life without even questioning it, but I really wasn't interested in figuring it out. Next month will be my 2nd Pride festival, and every day I get more comfortable with who I am. There's no rush. Each story I hear makes me think "yep, there are common themes here that I can identify with". It all helps.
This is basically my story omg... I love you! I'm so scared to come out to my family, cause at this point I'm telling myslef ''u just wanna be special, you're straight'' but omg... Girls.. I hope i'll figure out soon
LittleRedhead me too! You know what I try talk to my brother about it but my tip of my tongue and mind will put different topic. 😟 you wanna say it but you can't because of fear of rejection. 😣
LittleRedhead same situation still in the part of kind of denial and getting my head around it but will get there soon 👍
Omg you guys... I'm actually really happy i'm not alone in this... Wish you good luck! You can do it, stay strong!
LittleRedhead yeah right! Anyway, do you love to travel?
Van Clair not really haha! ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story!! It took me forever too and i have only recently begun to tell people, but videos like this definitely help!! Love the channel you guys are awesome thanks again to both of you.
Wow I have trouble picturing Holly as a major tomboy...cool story
I felt the exact same way with the 'girl crushes'/admiring girls & getting bored with guys a dated and feeling like I just wasn't good at dating and I've never heard someone describe what I felt so perfectly.
Hey girl. Hold her hand as much as you want to. It’s all about you and her. It’s you that has to feel good. No one else. Do as you please.
Thank you for doing this Holly. We know it's not easy but you did great! Thanks for the inspiration. I have yet to come out. Soon i guess. Love you
Girl, this was such a great video. I feel the same way. I go bisexual. I’ve known that since age 12. At that age I didn’t really know what everything meant. It was all new to me. I’ve dated guys, only two...but when I went to college, messed around with some girls. I also played around with tinder and got extremely excited when I matched with girls. I’m basically going through that I don’t know if I’m actually bisexual or if I’m gay...because just like in your video I get more excitement seeing girls, or seeing a lesbian couple on tv. Basically what I’m trying to say is that I’m more attracted to girls...but it’s such a process trying to figure everything out and accepting yourself first & I’m having a hard issue with that too.
The first coming out video that i cried. So happy for you, Holly. ♥
I can relate to your story so much!!!! 💖 I just hope to overcome my insecurities and find someone special x
Holly, we love you 💓💓💓
We're here for you 😍😍😍
Your voice is so soothing to listen too🙌🏾
Love! Being strong! Moving forward! Love your positivity and videos! Keep going ladys!
There are so many feelings I can relate to from your process of coming out... Thanks for sharing :)
Thanks for sharing your story Holly 🤗
I'm in love with watching your videos !! Just please do me one thing Holly and Paige please don't let this youtube life get to you both and bring you both down. don't let this youtube life consume all the energy and take over the relationship.. Keep up all the great work I hope that one day I will be able to put my ideas to life on here. Plus you both make realize how much I miss my one true love and wish I could have her back into my life!!!
Well done Holly. My story is similar; I kept pushing it down in my early 20’s that I was interested in girls. It was actually Kristen and Steph and following their journey, that I was brave enough to start ‘coming out’. I know you and Paige follow them also and I am sure they help with your confidence in being comfortable with who you are. Love you and Paige😘😘
The way you guys love each other give hope and comfort to some LGBT on the other side of the world. Thank you for all the fun and loveful videos!
Thank you for this coming out story I know lots of person who can motivated by watching this video and get confident to coming out in front their parents
I’m nearly 54 and discovered who I really wise just four years ago. Now happily married to the most beautiful woman and have never felt more loved, despite many of my family prefer having my ex-husband around more than me. Thanks for sharing, Holly.
I cried watching this. I still haven’t come out to my family, and its killing me but I’m just so unsure how they’re gonna say.
same, buddy.