I listen to Ms Iyanla on my morning walk. Every ounce of my being received this message. I was so busy trying to not be like my mom that unconsciously I did the same. My mother so wanted to not be like her mother that she did the same. I never connected the generational pattern but now that I know I have some work to do to Fix my life
I LOVE this woman because of her wisdom and detachment from judging her old self/ways while also keeping it 💯 that as a 67 yr old BEAUTIFUL woman she still is a work in progress ‼️ she inspires me all the time to be my authentic self 😁
This is a MUST WATCH! I had my children to watch the broadcast with me - 20 and 19 years of age. What a word! What a word! We have been in a struggle on this very topic for years. We are ready to let go! It is time to let God take this burden and for us to move on. Thank you Ms. Iyanla for your obedience in allowing the Holy Spirit to usher in this topic through you. My daughter and I are still discussing and the broadcast ended over an hour ago. Thank you so much!
6:11 I had to come back to this prayer for the end of December and the beginning of January 1st, 2025. Thank you so much, elder. I appreciate you and I Love you. I forgive and I receive.
Hi! Black Spanish woman, first generation, and I can testify that the fight is real. I’m embracing the good heritage and consciously breaking with the bad patterns. The best think I have done for myself and my family is getting in therapy. By working on my issues, I have created the space to have difficult and necessary conversations that is bringing healing to all of us. Do the work. It’s not easy but our ancestors did their part so we can get here and I think that this is our responsibility. Thank you Ms Iyanla
I have to watch this again. Thanks so much Iyanla. You’re so needed in all our lives. God bless you and keep you safe! OMG! I too experienced the “who do you think you are narrative” from both women and men in the family. I totally upset them.
I'm glad you said that I want to leave my children a positive legacy!!!! And break the chains that kept me captive!!!! I'm ready to Free and do the Work!!!!!
1. Read the book: Love Without Condition by Paul Ferrini. Get over it by Iyanla Vanzant. 2. Own your own belief system. Invite the Holy Spirit to come into any situation that you want to change, as the Holy Spirit responds to our simplest invitation. 3. Use 21 to 41 days to change patterns.
biological father was married didnt have nothing to do with me, I wanted to travel and became a flight attendant loved seeing more of the world and i travel online i started forgiving just quit a job i felt enslaved too felt good and freeing
“People will become afraid when you start changing who they THINK you are.” ~Iyanla Vanzant Whooooo! Do it to me one more time Miss Iyanla. I just stopped being the only one making the peace and keeping it. I just said no. All hell broke loose, I almost lost my mind, but guess what? Your girl is still HERE! Praise God, I’m still here, so I’m still blessed. 🙌🏽 💡🕊📖 #LuxEtVeritas #spiritualspa #iyanlavanzant #womenofwisdom #thankyoumama #Iforgiveyoumama #whathappenedtoyou
Iyanla Vanzant there is no one like you!! Your humor and wisdom is exactly what I needed to hear the hard truths that I am faced with the responsibility to overcome. With the principles you layed out, and God's help I'm confident I have brighter days ahead. I'm smiling with my whole heart. God bless you immensely with all that you require for your journey ahead!😊
You are ENLIGHTENED on another level! I am so honored to be able to hear your teachings. You give me SUCH motivation to realize I am ENOUGH and I can grow and heal from ANYTHING that no longer serves me. I AM LIGHT....I AM ENOUGH...THANK YOU IYANLA
Help with my talk toxic relationship you say he love you then he bring up old stuff old pastor no I bet he been in jail and Warner did warned on everything
Queen your humor is the best awakening. Ty for being honest in your teaching and sharing the love. You are courageous. It's real and I love it..Girrrrrrlllllll.
Iyanla you are a blessing in this life with your authenticity and most of all because you speak the TRUTH that reach deeply our hearts and makes us say " Yes" that is exactly what my heart knows ! Let's put in practice those teachings!Thank you
I can't get enough of these juicy videos! I'm sending you a big Hug. Thank you for helping us to elevate as a community. 💜🙏May the Lord keep blessing you at all times.
everyday i made it a point to watch your videos. even if i had to stop them and marinate in the thoughts. for the past year mym healing really accelerated. when i started watching your videos i was being bullied at work today i wake up grateful to be in a better position that allows me to be greater
Ms. Iyanla LORD have mercy; you hit the nail on the head. I need to hear this. Did I set myself up to be the glue that holds my family together? Food for thought. I need to put a stop to this behavior. I need to put myself first and stop helping people that don’t appreciate my kindness. “ People will become afraid when you start changing who they think you are” Amen.
This is great. I shared it with my 3 daughters. I love that you call it generations patterns and not curses. It give a new mindset on this subject. Very enlightening!!! Thank you.
Ms. Iyanla. You have blessed my life. I'm just beginning to do the work. Any work and its because I'm tuning in to your message. More than half of tonight's message was directly my experience and I'm also sad be of recently loosing my sister. So many times I just want to give up & quit it all. But tonight I'm gonna drink some tea, write some feelings and know that you blessed me with some work to do. Thank you❤🙏
Thank you Ms.Iyanla, this message has confirmed so many patterns that I had to quit. You're are so on point about volunteering positions and guilty to quit them, but I praise God for allowing the Holy Spirit to speak to me when I didn't want to say "No". You're so amazing with your craft. 💕May God continue to use you to open the minds of stuck individuals. Amen🙏🏾
Younger sister and I realized all of these things within our family and self and decided we WILL CHANGE!! in fact, we are the change for our future generations, we're like Angel's
I listened to this message 11/23/20@11:34a.It helped me look at my life different.8:30 am,I was having a Emotional Breakdown.This message brought me life.Thank you
Omg !!!!!!!!! This is so hard to hear, everything she is talking about hit home for me, I took three days to hear the whole thing..Thank You:) i started the process of working on myself a few years ago and this was the icing on the cake 🙏
I feel you! “Beverley Reid” Just having someone in your life with so much wisdom is so helpful! This women is powerful she is knowledgeable and I’m grateful that she is sharing this information!
ILLINOIS, containing to watch. Sometimes, at different times.or days. This series of Spiritual Self Spa has truly been a blessing. We dont want to always tell, what we are going through, with family, friends, associates, because we dont want to be vulnerable. I have been following you for years. These recent series are helping many. Often you address an issue, that we can't publicly express. you help us, to deal with our personal issues and with others . We also have to realize, that we cant change people,we have to either change ourselves, or stay in the same place,which is not healthy. We,also have to learn to let go of people and things, that are holding us down. we cant carry everyone's baggage,and ours all at the same time. Our shoulders are not always broad enough, to hold everyone. Family sets the foundation for our stories. many of us have had to be the yoke for many and yet our own yoke is broken. I am a senior citizen, a baby boomer. My life has been basically blessed, but I have had my share of hurts, disappointments, grief, but more joy and happiness. I am,however, dealing with a family member is breaking my heart,because of the issue, she. has; yet she will not let family help her. so we pray that she is safe,that GOD,will deliver her from what we feel are demonic spirits. Parents are blamed for many issues, but it is not always Parents, but outside forces, that get control. even in the families, that have good foundations, family members do self destruction. These are family members, who are loved, but want to reject family,because non-family people prey on them. Yes,the member is vulnerable, and weak for many reasons, but the foundation is well established. Now,naturally, there is no family, that is exempt from issues. Everyone has to work together.
I too, am a result of an extra marital affair. I too, became a lover of married men. When I learned about generational curses, I prayed that this one be broken in the name of Jesus. My daughter told her friend that she has never seen me be with another man other than her father. I pray that it will not skip a generation but REALLY BROKEN IN FUTURE LINE.
I wrote my first book entitled THEM DAMNED CHURCH FOLKS 2014 AND IT IS ALL ABOUT HOW I GREW UP IN THE CHURCH FOOLERY AROUND MY JUDGMENTAL FAMILY WHO WAS SO HEAVENLY BOUND THEY WERE NO EARTHLY GOOD. AS I WROTE THIS BOOK I REALIZED THAT I WAS JACKED UP. THEN I BEGIN TO REALLY LISTEN TO YOU AND PUT IN THE WORK IN ORDER TO BREAK THE PATTERNS!!! NOW EVERYONE IS LOOKING AT ME LIKE I AM CRAZY BUT OH NO I AM BREAKING THEM DAMNED CHURCH FOLKS PATTERS!!!
Great episode... I can relate to the promiscuity due to longing for love. 😩. Lately I've been feeling guilty about my sexual dysfunction. So now I'm trying my best to forgive and understand why I was so lost. I actually think it was bad self esteem.
I listen to Ms Iyanla on my morning walk. Every ounce of my being received this message. I was so busy trying to not be like my mom that unconsciously I did the same. My mother so wanted to not be like her mother that she did the same. I never connected the generational pattern but now that I know I have some work to do to Fix my life
I LOVE this woman because of her wisdom and detachment from judging her old self/ways while also keeping it 💯 that as a 67 yr old BEAUTIFUL woman she still is a work in progress ‼️ she inspires me all the time to be my authentic self 😁
This is a MUST WATCH! I had my children to watch the broadcast with me - 20 and 19 years of age. What a word! What a word! We have been in a struggle on this very topic for years. We are ready to let go! It is time to let God take this burden and for us to move on. Thank you Ms. Iyanla for your obedience in allowing the Holy Spirit to usher in this topic through you. My daughter and I are still discussing and the broadcast ended over an hour ago. Thank you so much!
This is my teacher I live this lady
Mine too sis.
me too
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6:11 I had to come back to this prayer for the end of December and the beginning of January 1st, 2025. Thank you so much, elder. I appreciate you and I Love you. I forgive and I receive.
I raised my hand for the entire spa🙋🏽♀️. You were talking about me... my family... my mama and my patterns.
Me too sis..but we now know we can work to break these habits
Breakers Annoiting
You got this sis. Good luck on your journey. We all support you here.
Thank you Iyanla for freely sharing your spiritual wisdom!
Hi! Black Spanish woman, first generation, and I can testify that the fight is real. I’m embracing the good heritage and consciously breaking with the bad patterns. The best think I have done for myself and my family is getting in therapy. By working on my issues, I have created the space to have difficult and necessary conversations that is bringing healing to all of us.
Do the work. It’s not easy but our ancestors did their part so we can get here and I think that this is our responsibility.
Thank you Ms Iyanla
Thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you.
I have to watch this again. Thanks so much Iyanla. You’re so needed in all our lives. God bless you and keep you safe! OMG! I too experienced the “who do you think you are narrative” from both women and men in the family. I totally upset them.
I can identify with you Beverly. Me too. It's going to be ok and they'll be fine. Good luck on your journey.
I'm glad you said that I want to leave my children a positive legacy!!!! And break the chains that kept me captive!!!! I'm ready to Free and do the Work!!!!!
I watched it again and it was soooooo needed! Thank you sooooooo very much Iyanla! 🙏🏾
1. Read the book: Love Without Condition by Paul Ferrini. Get over it by Iyanla Vanzant.
2. Own your own belief system. Invite the Holy Spirit to come into any situation that you want to change, as the Holy Spirit responds to our simplest invitation.
3. Use 21 to 41 days to change patterns.
The Rules of Engagement For Overcoming Your Past Dr. Cindy Trimm
Thanks for putting this here!
Thank you, I couldn't remember the name of the author she recommended.
I am beauty personified !
It's impossible NOT to smile when she comes on 😁
biological father was married didnt have nothing to do with me, I wanted to travel and became a flight attendant loved seeing more of the world and i travel online i started forgiving just quit a job i felt enslaved too felt good and freeing
I LOVE you Iyanla! Your gift is impeccable! Soo much healing will take place because of your presence on Earth! Thank you!❤️✨
“People will become afraid when you start changing who they THINK you are.”
~Iyanla Vanzant
Whooooo! Do it to me one more time Miss Iyanla. I just stopped being the only one making the peace and keeping it. I just said no. All hell broke loose, I almost lost my mind, but guess what? Your girl is still HERE! Praise God, I’m still here, so I’m still blessed. 🙌🏽
💡🕊📖 #LuxEtVeritas
#spiritualspa
#iyanlavanzant
#womenofwisdom
#thankyoumama
#Iforgiveyoumama
#whathappenedtoyou
Iyanla!!!!! You hit the family nail on the head and I love you for it. Thank you thank Bless You... Bless me as I break these chains
Iyanla Vanzant there is no one like you!! Your humor and wisdom is exactly what I needed to hear the hard truths that I am faced with the responsibility to overcome. With the principles you layed out, and God's help I'm confident I have brighter days ahead. I'm smiling with my whole heart. God bless you immensely with all that you require for your journey ahead!😊
“Hurt means you have an expectation that wasn’t met” such truth! Iyanla I love you! 💕 Always speaking to me.
A DEEP BOW TO YOU TO OUR BELOVED MRS. LYANLA VANZANT. WE LOVE YOU AND YOUR MESSAGES!!!
You are ENLIGHTENED on another level! I am so honored to be able to hear your teachings. You give me SUCH motivation to realize I am ENOUGH and I can grow and heal from ANYTHING that no longer serves me. I AM LIGHT....I AM ENOUGH...THANK YOU IYANLA
Help with my talk toxic relationship you say he love you then he bring up old stuff old pastor no I bet he been in jail and Warner did warned on everything
I learned so much about the transference of generational patterns from this video. Thank you so much Iyanla!
Madame Vanzant that was a powerful prayer, I had to listen it again to get those teachings.
There needs to be a part two of this.
Thank you soooooooo much♥️♥️♥️
Ms. Iyanla is GOLDEN!! Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Queen your humor is the best awakening. Ty for being honest in your teaching and sharing the love. You are courageous. It's real and I love it..Girrrrrrlllllll.
Thanks you very much Beloved Iyanla
For this teaching 🙏
Very important topic. Thank you!
Shalom this was powerful...nice to see other Israelites listening
Iyanla you are a blessing in this life with your authenticity and most of all because you speak the TRUTH that reach deeply our hearts and makes us say " Yes" that is exactly what my heart knows ! Let's put in practice those teachings!Thank you
Willie Mae ( Greenville SC) GOD I NEED THIS SO VERY MUCH. IM TIRED OF BEING SICK AND TIRED OF ME
I can't get enough of these juicy videos! I'm sending you a big Hug. Thank you for helping us to elevate as a community. 💜🙏May the Lord keep blessing you at all times.
You have some fans here in Baja, Mexico, Te amamos Iyanla. Gracias por tanto!!
thanks you so much, 12 step fellowships are also very useful and helpful x
Thank you for speaking to my heart today. It was like I was there asking you the questions.
Your profundity is amazing !!! Thanks Iyanla ! More than words can explain!!!!!!
Thank you so much Madame Vanzant, I see a lot of myself in the examples you expressed. Thank you so being so clear and precise.
My all time powerhouse. Receive my love from Kenya
Wow an amazing soul, I love you... Thank you blessing us with your wisdom... May God continue to bless you🙏🏿
I know nothing but God sent me to this! wow ! Very eye opening, thank you for continuing to be a blessing !!
I love you, your guidance, your videos are very healing. God Bless you 💖 from New Zealand 💖
Miss Iyanla- You give me so much comfort and inspiration. I am grateful for you 🙏🏼
everyday i made it a point to watch your videos. even if i had to stop them and marinate in the thoughts. for the past year mym healing really accelerated. when i started watching your videos i was being bullied at work today i wake up grateful to be in a better position that allows me to be greater
Ms. Iyanla LORD have mercy; you hit the nail on the head. I need to hear this. Did I set myself up to be the glue that holds my family together? Food for thought. I need to put a stop to this behavior. I need to put myself first and stop helping people that don’t appreciate my kindness. “ People will become afraid when you start changing who they think you are” Amen.
This is truly life changing! The genius Iyanla so many ahas I love you!
Soooooo thankful I found this
You are a treasure ❤
This is great. I shared it with my 3 daughters. I love that you call it generations patterns and not curses. It give a new mindset on this subject. Very enlightening!!! Thank you.
Just watching this in 2022 and it really hits home. Thank you so much for this.
Thank you so much for your teachings, Mama Iyanla. May God continue to bless you.
Well this hit home for me today
Much Wisdom, Wise Woman!
Respect!
Very good and necessary! Always love to The Spiritual Mother
Love the Queen you help me be better. From Colton California.
Ms. Iyanla. You have blessed my life. I'm just beginning to do the work. Any work and its because I'm tuning in to your message. More than half of tonight's message was directly my experience and I'm also sad be of recently loosing my sister. So many times I just want to give up & quit it all. But tonight I'm gonna drink some tea, write some feelings and know that you blessed me with some work to do. Thank you❤🙏
So informative!!! OMG
Thank you Miss Iyanla. I love the information and the joy in your truth and delivery. You are such a rock star.
Thank you Ms.Iyanla, this message has confirmed so many patterns that I had to quit. You're are so on point about volunteering positions and guilty to quit them, but I praise God for allowing the Holy Spirit to speak to me when I didn't want to say "No".
You're so amazing with your craft. 💕May God continue to use you to open the minds of stuck individuals. Amen🙏🏾
You are Beautiful, self awareness
What an insightful eye opener, what a soul searching discovery! Thank Miss Iyanla!
Younger sister and I realized all of these things within our family and self and decided we WILL CHANGE!! in fact, we are the change for our future generations, we're like Angel's
I listened to this message 11/23/20@11:34a.It helped me look at my life different.8:30 am,I was having a Emotional Breakdown.This message brought me life.Thank you
Omg !!!!!!!!! This is so hard to hear, everything she is talking about hit home for me, I took three days to hear the whole thing..Thank You:) i started the process of working on myself a few years ago and this was the icing on the cake 🙏
oooh breakthrough is coming!!! thank you Iyanla!!!!!
This revelation fed my heart and spirt thank you so so much 🙏. So very thankful for you .
Amen my sister, preach please. alleuia. thank you so much
Love these moments with Iyanla.
THIS IS MY SECOND TIME LISTENING. I WISH IYANLA WAS MY BEST FRIEND. I SWEAR TO GOD.
I feel you! “Beverley Reid” Just having someone in your life with so much wisdom is so helpful! This women is powerful she is knowledgeable and I’m grateful that she is sharing this information!
People NEED to understand the spiritual inherited traits...come through auntie!
Wow
When I heard LOYAL to jobs we hate I screamed. FACTS
I love you Goddess Iyanla 🧘🏽♀️🙏🏾🌕☀️🌊💗💫🌎🌳🌬️👑
Thank you for giving birth to my destiny to being a Spiritual Warrior!
Pray for me and my family
Walking into 2021 with a new mindset and found this. Thank you for blessing us
This is a powerful teaching ❤️thank you Iyanla 🙏🏼 sending you Love all the way from South Africa 🇿🇦
ILLINOIS, containing to watch.
Sometimes, at different times.or days.
This series of Spiritual Self Spa has truly been a blessing.
We dont want to always tell, what we are going through, with family, friends, associates, because we dont want to be vulnerable.
I have been following you for years.
These recent series are helping many.
Often you address an issue, that we can't publicly express.
you help us, to deal with our personal issues and with others .
We also have to realize, that we cant change people,we have to either change ourselves, or stay in the same place,which is not healthy.
We,also have to learn to let go of people and things, that are holding us down.
we cant carry everyone's baggage,and ours all at the same time.
Our shoulders are not always broad enough, to hold everyone.
Family sets the foundation for our stories.
many of us have had to be the yoke for many and yet our own yoke is broken.
I am a senior citizen, a baby boomer.
My life has been basically blessed, but I have had my share of hurts, disappointments, grief, but more joy and happiness.
I am,however, dealing with a family member is breaking my heart,because of the issue, she. has;
yet she will not let family help her.
so we pray that she is safe,that GOD,will deliver her from what we feel are demonic spirits.
Parents are blamed for many issues, but it is not always Parents, but outside forces, that get control.
even in the families, that have good foundations, family members do self destruction.
These are family members, who are loved, but want to reject family,because non-family people prey on them.
Yes,the member is vulnerable, and weak for many reasons, but the foundation is well established.
Now,naturally, there is no family, that is exempt from issues.
Everyone has to work together.
I paused at 34:48. I needed about 5 minutes to recover from the blow of what Iyanla just said! 🤯
I too, am a result of an extra marital affair. I too, became a lover of married men. When I learned about generational curses, I prayed that this one be broken in the name of Jesus. My daughter told her friend that she has never seen me be with another man other than her father. I pray that it will not skip a generation but REALLY BROKEN IN FUTURE LINE.
Absolutely beautiful Ms Vanzant! You are heaven sent😇
My best coach...
Thank you!!!
Hi
Break every chain....!
I wrote my first book entitled THEM DAMNED CHURCH FOLKS 2014 AND IT IS ALL ABOUT HOW I GREW UP IN THE CHURCH FOOLERY AROUND MY JUDGMENTAL FAMILY WHO WAS SO HEAVENLY BOUND THEY WERE NO EARTHLY GOOD. AS I WROTE THIS BOOK I REALIZED THAT I WAS JACKED UP. THEN I BEGIN TO REALLY LISTEN TO YOU AND PUT IN THE WORK IN ORDER TO BREAK THE PATTERNS!!! NOW EVERYONE IS LOOKING AT ME LIKE I AM CRAZY BUT OH NO I AM BREAKING THEM DAMNED CHURCH FOLKS PATTERS!!!
This is beautiful
I needed to hear this today. I am going to break all these unhealthy generational patterns.
I nodded, I pondered, I laughed...Ms Iyanla is so wise 🤍 I need to watch this a second time.
RISE AND SHINE IT IS ANCESTORS TIME...X GENERATIONS...#ADOS...GBF...
My God!! thank You My Sista this was awesome 💘
Breaking generational curses
I love you! You have no idea how much you blessed my life and I am grateful for you ❤️❤️❤️
Good good good!
This blessed my soul! Thank you for sharing your gift with us and helping me heal! Bless!
Hello from Australia . Thank you for this
Thank you Iyanla for this message.
Great episode...
I can relate to the promiscuity due to longing for love. 😩. Lately I've been feeling guilty about my sexual dysfunction. So now I'm trying my best to forgive and understand why I was so lost. I actually think it was bad self esteem.
Got ten more minutes that I'll have to finish tomorrow. Thanks Iyanla. I took notes
Yes change !!!
Thank You Iyanla. Great courage boost for me.
This was everything!!!!
Bless you sista Minneapolis Minnesota Yeah....